Etiquettes Of Friday

Ammar Alshukry


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All praise is due to Allah we seek His guidance and his forgiveness and we seek refuge in Allah from the evil of ourselves and the whispering of our desires, whom Allah guides no one can misguide whom he allows to be misled. No one can guide and I bear witness that there is nothing worthy of worship, except Allah alone, having no partners and that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is his slave and His messenger and it's perfect worshiper, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada says in the Quran, Oh you who believe fear Allah as he deserves to be feared and do not die except in a state of Islam. And Allah says, Oh mankind Fear your Lord who created you from a single soul and produce from that soul it's

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made and made from their combination many men and women so Fear your Lord whom you ask each other by and by the ties of kinship, verily, Allah is Ever Watchful over you. And Allah says, Oh, you who believe fear Allah and say that which is correct, he will correct for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger, then they are indeed victorious.

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To proceed.

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One of the most foundational aspects of the deen is the foundations itself.

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And we are required again and again and again. To remind each other of aspects of the deen that we might forget Allah subhanaw taala says were that good for him the Decalogue tenfold more meaning ALLAH says remind, because reminding benefits the believers and being that we are human beings, we are prone to suffer

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doubtfulness as the saying goes, oh my Soumya in Santa Lena see that the person was only named the inside

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because of their forgetfulness. Oh my sue me I'll call Bella and now we are to collab and we are it's called the heart because it overturns all of the time.

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And so I thought it appropriate that we remind ourselves of this blessing day that we experience every week, the day of Joomla and some of the etiquettes that are tied to it. of it is that this is the best day of the week. Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam says In sha Allah Akbar mentioned five or six quick points of how we take advantage of this day that we are blessed with every week. Rasulullah sallallahu SLM says, in the mean of the Jambo Jambo Juma that have the best of your days, man, I've got a yummy Komiyama Juma is the day of Friday. Fee ha Holika. Adam, there on Friday, Adam was created. We'll see how Audrina Jana, and on Friday Adam was entered into paradise. We'll see how odd

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I mean, huh? And on Friday, Adam was expelled from paradise. What are the cool Messiah he loved to meet you man and the Day of Judgment will be established on the day of Friday as well. So it is a day of great reverence and they have great blessings and little Sulu, la sala they are setting them he says that this day he says not known as Luna Saba Cooney Omen piano. We are the ones who arrived late who will be the forerunners.

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How are we the rune, the ones who come at the end he said we were given the book The Jews and the Christians were given the book before us were the last OMA but we are a cyber Poon because we are the people who have been given the holiday before them. Our holiday is on Friday. For como for whom Lana tuba they all follow us. The Jews have their Sabbath on Saturday, and the Christians have their holiday on Sunday. And so we proceed everyone when it comes to their holidays.

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Of the etiquettes of Friday is to dress well on Friday

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam is being commanded him and all of mankind ALLAH SubhanA data says yeah, Benny Adam, hello, Xena to Komenda Cooley Masjid ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada says, oh, Children of Adam take your adornment, every message at every place of prayer. And so we learned that it is from our deen that a person dressed well when they arrive on Friday.

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You know, at times, what we are taught in the deen might actually clash with what we are allowed at work. So in a lot of court places, they have the concept of dressing down on Fridays. And so I would encourage people to

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dress up on Fridays because that is part of your deen that you come to the masjid dressing as beautifully as you can. And you don't see it a lot in the US unfortunately. But in the Muslim world, you have people I've seen even in villages, people who have one or two garments only, they will use their better garment that they have to dress up on Friday with what they can and little pseudo la sala de Selim encouraged that he says My mother had to come in watch at the attendant yesterday this obey Lu Giamatti cus obey Minetti. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam says that if a person has the ability if the person has the wealth to have an extra garment for Friday, something that you wear

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just for the gym, I prayer that you can do that and then hamdulillah for person has been given more than they should showcase more in gratitude to Allah subhana wa Tada. So the first is to dress well. The second is to come early Rasulullah sallallahu. s&m says in the Hadith. It's Buhari manifests idioma Juma that whoever Bay's on Juma and he's going to mention in this hadith, a number of etiquettes. So he says sama Raha Fergana Makarova, Medina, manifesta, Yama, Juma Whistler Genova, Sumatra, Africa Nama carrabba, Daniela whoever based on Friday, there's also on Friday, and then it comes in the first hour of Friday. It's as if they've sacrificed it's as if they've offered an

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entire camel. While Morocco has decided designing for Ghana, Makarova, Bukhara, and whoever comes in the second hour, then it's as if they have offered that they've sacrificed a cow. And whoever comes in the third hour, it's as if they sacrifice a sheep. And whoever comes in the fourth hour, it's as if they sacrifice a chicken. And whoever comes in the fifth hour, it's as if they've offered an egg. Now, if you're going to do the math, sheep is a number of hundreds of dollars. Sheep is in hundreds of dollars cows is going to be more than that. And you enter into the world of camels now you're it's it's 1000s of dollars. And so who of us on a Friday, especially our students, people who might

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not have that money to donate? And yet you find yourself in a period of time like this where you're on winter vacation and maybe you're not working and so there's nothing stopping you from coming to the rescue.

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In the first hour for drummer, and it's as if you've donated 1000s of dollars.

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Taking advantage of what you do have the resource that I do have is time maybe I have time to come an hour before drummer or two hours before drummer or three hours before drummer. Now what is the hour that the province little lady syndrome is describing the first hour Second, our third, our fourth, our fifth hour of Joomla. You take the time between sunrise and Sulaco minute divided into five and then you have those five hours. And so whoever comes in the first hour, it's as if they've offered a camel and whoever comes in the second as if they've offered a cow. And Hadith continues. Also, sitting in the first row, the prophets of Allah Allah who set it up, he says

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what do you mean an imam in Nova July is Alia Tabata you have heard of Jana, we're in the Halacha the province of Elijah said him says come to the gathering, and be close to the Imam because a person will continue to be distant until they are distanced from Paradise, even if they enter it. They are distant in paradise, even if they enter it, meaning that a person may continue to just lay back and lag until even in Jannah. They continue to be in that state where they're not close. It's not reasonable that a person expect to be to not be in the first row but somehow ended up in the first row of paradise, that they not be close, but somehow they ascended to the loftiest places in

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paradise and so a person continues to race and that is propelled by love that is propelled by love. A person who loves to come to the remembrance of Allah subhana wa Tada is undoubtedly propelled by their love for Allah

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and a person who is lazy in their coming to the remembrance of Allah Allah subhanaw taala describes the hypocrites saying without come with a salata camo Salah EULA when a nurse that when they stand for the prayer, they stand lazily, but when a person loves someone truly, then they always raise Musa and Sam says, well I get to eat a cup be the type of bug is my Lord, I'm racing to you. I hasten to you that you may be well pleased.

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Number three, if a person comes early, what should they focus their time on doing? Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam encourages us to pray, to recite Quran to make the thicket of Allah Subhana Allah data as you know, it's recommended to recite sort of guff every Friday for Su la salida Salam settlements monka monka Surah Al Kahf. Yeoman Juma Alba Allahu Amina naughty Medina Juma attain hadith is reported by an essay that whoever recites sort of tell calf on Friday that they will have a light illuminated between the two Fridays and so that Friday is Friday Eve, which is Thursday night, up until after mother's day until Friday afternoon until sunset, anytime that you have today

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that you recite from sort of reciting the first 10 verses reciting the last 10 verses while you're sitting in your car and you're waiting for the traffic to clear for you to be able to leave the masjid, taking advantage of those moments in time to recite what you can have sort of guff also, the fourth and this is a big one is sending Salam upon the province of Allah de Sena to sue Allah Allah Allah Allah Selim says in the mean of the day yummy, yummy Komiyama Juma effect through LA Yamuna, Salah TV, famous classical models have done it. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam says the best of your days is Friday, so make a lot of salah upon me on Friday. And they said, y'all Rasul Allah, He

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says, because your Salah is presented to me, they said yado Salah Allah is yours, our Salah presented to you after you've passed away, and little solo lost the light and send them said Allah subhanho data has prevented from the earth. Allah has prohibited the Earth from consuming the bodies of Prophets. Your Salah today that you make on the Prophet some Elijah said to them, is presented to him and Allah Subhana Allah says in Allahu melodica to us alone either maybe yeah, you will lead the enamel somebody who will sell you motors Lima and so when you send Salam upon the Prophet sallallahu Sallam you are doing an action that Allah does and his angels do.

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And little pseudo Lhasa like they said them doesn't just say to say salah upon him but he says for x zero, make Allah and we've said before what is a lot Allah is relative to every person for some people 10 people as a lot for some people 20 is a lot for some people 1000 is a lot for some people. 100 is a lot but the province of allied SLM commands for you or encourages for you to make a lot of salah upon him on Friday and so reminding other people to do that as well. And the fifth and I'll end with this is silence Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam says man, pilotless la Hebei yo melodrama it will email me to unset for Kudla. He says that if you simply tell a person to be quiet during salatu

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Juma while the Imam is giving you a hug, but that person has committed vain speech and you're not allowed to commit vain speech, a little Zulu la sala de Sena says, Man let Mr Hassan *a Glover, the province de la vie de centum says that whoever plays with a pebble while the gym I hope was going, then that person has committed vain speech. When we come to Jamaica, we come with complete focus and humility and worship of Allah subhanaw taala and that worship is managed

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vested in us, trying as best as we can to pay attention to the remembrance and it's not just the young who get distracted anymore it's the old you'll see the elderly playing with their phones during gym I remember one time I was sitting attending a gym alpha and the person next to me was buying stocks

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and forget during the gym I hoped about Allah subhana data says Yeah, you heard it either. I'm gonna do that no data select me when I first started I decree law he was a little bear. Allah says leave transactions this person even in the masjid if it allows outside of Jamal, you're not allowed to buy and sell in the message because the message is not a place for buying and selling. I don't sit there and purchase stocks in the midst of even outside of Jamal and the province of ally they send them told us that if you see a person buying and selling in the masjid, you should say to them LaBovick Allahu Allahu MFI Kumar. May Allah Allah bless your transaction, both of you, because it's usually

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two people, right? Is it May Allah not purchase bless your transaction because the message is not a place for that. So it's even more so if it's insalata drummer, but we are all required to remember because we're so attached to our devices. We are all required to remember that for these 1015 20. Hopefully the athlete doesn't go more than 20 minutes or 25 or 30 that for that time period. I just need to keep my phone in my pocket and focus on not being distracted. Apolo Massimo mostaccioli We're looking for stuff Euro nonperforming.

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hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah the last thing that I'll mention is that there is an hour on Friday, where you're at is accepted.

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The province of allied S and M tells us of an hour on Friday in which your data is accepted. And so it is important that with all of the problems that you see whether it's in the Muslim world or or or your own personal life, that you take time out during Friday to make dua and many scholars consider it to be the last hour before Friday. So setting your timer for the last hour before Friday. And setting aside a few minutes for you to make throughout for whatever it is that you care about and are concerned with. And Allah Subhana Allah knows best May Allah allow us to hear the speech and follow the best of it may Allah subhana data except from us our prayers, may Allah Subhana Allah

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allow us to experience the month of Ramadan May Allah Subhana Allah have mercy on our brothers and sisters wherever they are, and grant them protection and sincerity May Allah Subhana Allah look over our family and Philistine May Allah subhanaw taala bring relief to the people of Gaza and to the people of Sudan and to the people of Kashmir and China and all over the Muslim world. Oh Allah we complaints you the plentifulness of the injuries of the OMA Mohamed Salah allah how to sell them and we ask You for Your Mercy and we ask you for your lips for La manera Luka general macabre Hammond Korean Mohammed, when are you becoming a narrow Makabe Hi meconium Allahumma attina fusina taqwa,

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or their karma deal Salah Allahu Akbar.

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before you begin the slide, just have a couple of quick announcements. Insha Allah

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number one we have Friday Night Lights tonight with Chef Abdullah doto Return of the Alpha modern Muslim masculinity. He's visiting us from Dallas. Number two after fighting Ilyse Shahab de lo host the US Halaqaat for all youth girls, girls and boys 14 to 25 They'll talk about the gender gap number three we have another Lebanon fest which will be in Houston on February third child law check our social media pages Number four The Golden Girls group for sisters 55 We'll be meeting this Sunday January 21. From one to 330 inshallah remember to please donate to the masjid and we're going to have a short appeal for a very special project after this Elijah Allah Tada

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So we have some very big news hamdulillah and it's actually a very big source of pride for our community. And that is Dr. Accra Mustafa, and Dr. Musa, our beloved Dr. Mustafa and Dr. Musa are actually going to Lhasa

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and they're going to visit inshallah to Allah with a group of doctors by Rama

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under their their leadership

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and they're going to be offering service they're going to be offering care to the wounded in less than a number of others inshallah Tada so this might be the first American group that's actually going the entire trip by Rama is going to cost around $300,000 And so we wanted as best as we can not okay, so we wanted as best as we can today in sha Allah to Allah to be able to support them with what we can. We're hoping inshallah to Allah to raise $50,000 Or even more inshallah data from the click community, every dollar that gets donated to the masjid today, until I think after Isha until 10pm. Inshallah to Allah is completely going to go to our brothers and sisters and lesson inshallah

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Tada and like we said, we have two of our doctors from Clearlake. From click Inshallah, to Allah are going to be going personally to Azusa so number one please make a lot of dot for them. May Allah Subhana Allah grant them safe passage. May Allah Subhana Allah protect them and may Allah Subhana Allah

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Bring them back safely alone mommy

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and there's no overhead there's no transaction fees there's none of that inshallah doubt all of it is going towards was inshallah Tada so I wanted to start in Charlotte data on the QR codes are on the screens, you can donate directly to the masjid everything is going to visit inshallah to Allah with our two doctors in that group inshallah Tada so I wanted to start with our first person inshallah Tata who can pledge $10,000 inshallah Tata for this project, we wanted to start inshallah Tada with $10,000 right from the beginning inshallah to Allah Who can secure this amount to support our team in Charlotte data that's going to Alyssa the first did Charlotte data for $10,000 Very very

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quickly in Charlotte data make sure you take advantage of the QR codes and that you let other people know in Charlotte data today that all everything that's being gathered is going for this purpose. Okay, I don't want to hold everybody hostage, if not 10 Inshallah, let's go down to 5000 Charlotte data so who is our first for $5,000 and Charlotte data we're looking to raise 50,000 for the midgets pledge Inshallah, Donna today, who is our first installment on for 5000 We have one and two may Allah subhana wa Tada accept from our beloved brother say, I mean, I may Allah subhanaw taala replace them with much more Allah whom I mean, who's our third inshallah to Allah for five, who's a

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third for 5k Inshallah, tada five, who was our third child, it's out for 5k We have our third, our fourth inshallah for 5k Our fourth Inshallah, so we're at 15k, our fourth for 5k May Allah subhanaw taala reward you today I want you to send this message into your groups, your family groups, your What's up troops, and encourage them all to donate to click inshallah to Allah, we should be able to raise the 50,000 and inshallah much much more than that inshallah. 2500. We've got four for 5k 2500 Inshallah, tada. Do we have a brother or sister for 2500 2500? And sha Allah 2500 Okay, then let's drop to 1000 very, very quickly Jalan I'll wrap this up. 1000 are brothers sisters for 1000

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Inshallah, do we have 1000 for 1000 in sha Allah? Cool. Yes, we have one brother for 1000 May Allah subhana Dada reward you we have a second for 1000 May Allah Subhana Allah reward you and bless you, and grant you health and wellness in your body. We have a sister for $1,000 May Allah Subhana Allah accept from you sister, may Allah subhanaw taala make it a source of Baraka in your life and that of your family, and may be something that you are unable to recognize on the Day of Judgment because of its size alone. I mean, does that motivate everybody please look at the QR codes and more importantly share the message today in sha Allah data with your networks may Allah subhanaw taala

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reward our doctors and make all of us a source of ease and comfort for our brothers and sisters in philosophy.