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The Surah Al Nisa book on the first page of the Bible discusses issues of marriage, divorce, and the rights of others, including those from different faiths and community. The importance of fulfilling rights and kinship is emphasized, along with the need to be mindful of ties of kinship and avoiding seeking out one's wealth. The speakers emphasize the importance of not drinking from people's property and not seeking union with a orphan's father. The different types of people who have the ability to manage their finances are discussed, including male and female guardianies.

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We are going to cover page number 77

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which is the first page

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of the tafseer of Surah Al Nisa, the

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4th Surah and chapter of the Quran.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in this chapter in

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Surah Al Nisa is a Surah that deals

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with many of the issues with regards to

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the

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dealings of the muslim should have and the

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way that the muslim should conduct themselves.

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And it deals with a number of issues

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concerning marriage and divorce and the rights of

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orphans and the poor and the needy and

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issues like inheritance.

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And that's because it was very common in

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the time of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam or before the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam bought Islam

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in the times of Jahiliyyah the days of

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ignorance pre Islam. It was very common that

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the Arabs would oppress certain segments of their

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society, certain groups within their communities

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would be oppressed. From amongst them were women

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and from amongst them were children, especially if

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they were orphans.

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And from amongst them were the poor and

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the needy and the weak, the slaves and

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others

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within those societies.

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And so those people would often be oppressed

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by those who are stronger,

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those who are who had more power, more

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wealth, more influence within those societies.

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And so Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala sent Islam

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as we know as a religion of mercy

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and as a religion of justice. And so

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala writes

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the wrongs that the Arabs had before Islam

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came to them. And this is essentially a

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surah that speaks about that. So if you

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look at the,

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the connection between the Surah that we've covered

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so far,

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as we mentioned when we started this

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journey

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Islamic State

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of

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Islam, the

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that they should follow the sunnah of the

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Prophet

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and in terms of the conduct that they

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should have with others. And then Surah Al

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Baqarah elaborates on that first issue of belief

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of how the Muslims internally and amongst themselves

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should conduct themselves in issues of theology and

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belief and between themselves.

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And then Surah Al Rahman speaks about the

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way that they should behave with regards

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to outside influences or the wider community and

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the wider society.

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And that

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speaks about a number of important factors therein

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such as following the teachings of the Quran

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and the Sunnah of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam. And that's why as we

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studied and seen in the previous episodes that

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we've

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had, Surah Al Imran a great passage or

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a great deal of it deals with

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the battle of Uhud

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and the lessons and benefits that can be

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derived from that.

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So Surah Al Nisa now speaks about the

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issue

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of dealings how we deal with other people

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and the conduct that we should have as

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Muslims in our dealings and in our interactions

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And that is because as we know as

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humans,

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every human and every person has rights that

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belong to them and rights that they have

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to fulfill

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for others.

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It is sometimes the case that people like

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to receive all of their rights but when

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it comes to fulfilling the rights of others

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they are not very good in fulfilling those

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rights. And so Islam addresses

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that imbalance

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and it tells people what is their rights

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that Allah has given to them and what

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are the rights of others that Allah has

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afforded to them in a way that is

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fair and just and practical because it looks

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at the needs of people in society.

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So this is a Madani surah, a surah

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that was revealed after the hijrah of the

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Prophet and

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it is from the longest surahs of the

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Quran, approximately 1 and a half Jews of

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the Quran.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala begins this Surah by

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saying,

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Oh, people be mindful of your lord who

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created you from a single soul and from

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it created its mate and from the pair

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of them spread countless men and women far

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and wide. Be mindful of Allah in whose

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name you make request of one another. Beware

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of severing the ties of kinship. Allah is

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always watching over you.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala begins his surah by

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addressing all of mankind

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and perhaps one of the reasons Allah knows

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best is because this is one of those

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issues

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when it comes to dealing with the rights

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of people that it's not just specific to

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the Muslims

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but it is something which all of society

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has a right to And so therefore the

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Muslim even with their within their dealings with

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non Muslims,

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with people who are of different faiths or

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maybe even of no faith, they are still

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rights that they have to fulfill to those

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people. Especially if those people happen to be

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related to them, their family members, or they

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happen to be neighbors, or they happen to

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be people that they have business partnerships with

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or they're living within their community and they

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happen to happen to be orphans and so

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on. These people have rights And so Allah

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addresses all of mankind and he addresses them

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by saying

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have taqwa.

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Be mindful,

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be conscious of, have fear of your lord,

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the one who created you from a single

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soul. And that single soul being our father

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Adam alaihis salatu wa salam. And so Allah

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shows to us his power, his ability

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in creation.

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And from it meaning from that single soul

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Adam he created from it its mate and

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that is our mother Hawa radiAllahu

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and alaihi wasalam

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and from them both.

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He spread out countless men and women far

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and wide. So all of us as we

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know go back to Adam and Hawa Alayhim

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Salat wa Salam and from them did Allah

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create all of their progeny and all of

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their offspring. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala reminds us

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therefore of our origin

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and that is because often one of the

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reasons why there is oppression when it comes

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to the way that we deal with others

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and the way that we interact, one of

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the main reasons or causes or justifications

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that people give is because there is within

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a person an inherent

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understanding or belief that they have that they

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are better than others or that they are

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more worthy of this than others or that

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they have more right to something than others

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and that there needs to be unjust and

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fair and oppression.

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And so the rich consider themselves to have

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certain favors

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over and above those who are weak, Just

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as the people in Arabia before the coming

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of Islam and the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam,

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the men used to consider themselves to be

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the warriors,

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the soldiers,

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the breadwinners

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and so they would consider for example that

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they had more right to the wealth of

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inheritance

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from their close family members

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than people who were female and maybe were

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even closely or more closely related to that

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deceased individual.

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So the mother,

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the wife,

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the daughter, the sister, these are close family

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relations.

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I may be a cousin but because I'm

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the man and I'm the one who fights

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and I'm the one who goes to war

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and I'm the one who provides and I'm

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the leader of the tribe, I consider myself

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to be

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more important than those female relations of the

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deceased. This is how the Arabs used to

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think and so Allah is saying remember that

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ultimately all of you are the same,

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equal in the sense that you all come

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from the same man and woman. All of

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you started in the same way. So even

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now that you may have different tribes, this

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person may be a non Arab, that person

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may be a slave, this person may be

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an orphan, and so you think that your

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lineage is

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nobler than the lineage of others and their

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name and their family? That is not the

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case because eventually all of you go back

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to Adam and you essentially come from the

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same parents.

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And so Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala reminds us

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of this and then Allah says to us,

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fear Allah, be mindful and conscious of Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, the one in whose name

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the one whose name you invoke when you

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make requests when you ask one another for

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help. And so when someone comes and says

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I ask you by Allah or ask you

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in Allah's name to help me,

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to to give me aid, to come to

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my support, You request Allah you request that

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help and aid in by the name of

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Allah or in the name of Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala. Then surely therefore

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you should also fulfill the commands of Allah

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azza wa Jal, fulfill the rights that Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has given. You demand your

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rights in the name of Allah

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So likewise you should fulfill the rights of

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others in the name of Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala and be mindful

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of your ties of kinship And that is

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because often

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in many of these interactions and many of

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these relationships,

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the harm that takes place

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and the fracturing that takes place is often

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in a single family between family

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members over issues like marriage and divorce

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and inheritance. It is often the people of

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the same family that are not going to

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fall into dispute. They're going to break their

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ties. They're going to cut off from one

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another and stop talking to each other and

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seeing one another because of that dispute that

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they have over some type of property or

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land or wealth. So be mindful of the

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ties of kinship and that is because Islam

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places a great deal of emphasis on the

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rights of your relatives

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as you know from the verses in the

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Quran and also from the sunnah of the

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Prophet

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And so Allah

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has given to our family members certain rights

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and those rights

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should be something which are more precious and

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valuable to us than what is the materialistic

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wealth of the Dunya.

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Someone who is your parent,

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your child, your sibling, your uncle, your aunt,

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your grandparents

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in some cases, these people are close to

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you. They are the closest people that you

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have, that you are meant to come to

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the aid of and help and support,

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and they are meant to come to your

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aid and help and support as well.

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So if you sever those types of kinship

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then what remains within the society?

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And that is because once the family bonds

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begin to break and the bonds of close

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family and relatives begin to break, then society

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itself

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and the communities themselves become fractured. And that's

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something which we see increasingly in our days.

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Before, when people had very strong

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family links, then people would have a certain

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element of shyness. That they wouldn't do certain

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things because they know that they're going to

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be constantly meeting with uncles and their aunts

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and their grandparents and so on. And that

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strong family bond makes people have a certain

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level of character, a certain level of respect,

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a certain level of religiosity or respect for

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religion at the very least that they would

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humble themselves before someone who is for example

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worshipping

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Allah or practices their religion and so on.

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But when that family bond fractures,

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you no longer see those people. You don't

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really speak to them or worse you've broken

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off for them because of some dispute,

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then that factor that should be there no

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longer exists.

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Allah says,

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Allah

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is constantly watching over you.

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In verse number 2 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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then begins by mentioning or in the remainder

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of this page or this passage Allah will

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speak about a number of rights, a number

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of rights that people should be mindful of

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and these are almost like headlines or bullet

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points in terms of these rights because these

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are the main people

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or a great number of them that are

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often oppressed. The first of those rights that

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people should be mindful of is the right

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of the orphan. Allah says,

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and

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Do not consume their property with your own,

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for indeed that is a great sin. This

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is the first of the rites that Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala mentioned. The orphan in Islamic

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law is the one whose father has died

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and they are still below the age of

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puberty, they are still a child.

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That child who loses the father even if

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their mother is living

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is considered to be an orphan under Islamic

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law, and that is because their father would

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usually be their main provider, their main guardian,

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the one that would often carry a number

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of their affairs and look after a number

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of their public affairs. By the loss of

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that parent, the male the male parent which

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is the father, that person becomes an orphan.

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And we know that our religion gives a

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great status to the orphan in terms of

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their care,

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upbringing,

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well-being

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and it attaches a great reward for the

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one who does so as is mentioned in

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the famous Hadith of the Prophet

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and the one who gives or sponsors an

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orphan will be like these 2. And so

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therefore the Prophet SAWHANIUM

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gave to the orphan a great right. Allah

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says here give to the orphans their wealth

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that is their right. And that is because

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sometimes the orphan

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isn't necessarily poor, they have money. And that's

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because the father that passed away leaving the

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child an orphan or maybe both parents have

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passed away,

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that child inherits

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from their parents.

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And this is one of the things that

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the Arabs wouldn't do because they would consider

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that child are often weak.

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So the the male

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family member who is dominating

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maybe an uncle, maybe the grandfather, maybe someone

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else, an older sibling, whoever would come and

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they would devour that wealth, they would take

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it for themselves.

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But by rights, it belongs to that child.

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That child doesn't have the ability to use

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that wealth, doesn't have the ability to go

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and spend and and buy or invest or

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whatever else and so their guardian

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who looks after their affairs will look after

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that wealth as well. But that wealth still

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belongs to them and that is what Allah

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says

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give to them their wealth that belongs to

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them.

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Do not replace

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good things with bad, meaning don't exchange halal

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for haram

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because the wealth that is theirs is haram

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for you to devour.

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And so instead of getting halal risk and

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income and sustenance for yourself, what you will

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do is you will take something which is

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impure for you and that is the wealth

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of the orphan.

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Nor devour their wealth by consuming it with

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your own property. So this child,

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his parents have passed away. He inherits from

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them, for example, £10,000.

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I also have my own money. I have

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my own property, my land. And I say

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he's living with me. I'm going to look

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after his affairs. We're kinda like all one

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family now. And so I merge their money

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the money together.

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And so therefore, I'm spending from here and

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I'm spending from there. And I'm using this

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for my own benefit

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and for his benefit. And I'm also

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taking it and and and so I've essentially

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mixed the 2 to the extent that I

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don't know which one, what belongs to him

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and what belongs to me because I haven't

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accounted for it in that way. Allah 'Azza

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wa Jal says don't do so because a

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guardian is responsible for the well-being of the

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wealth of that child.

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That child, once they grow up and they

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reach the ability to manage their own financial

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affairs, that wealth goes back to them and

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that is their right. To mix,

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to devour, to consume their property. Allah says,

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it is a great sin.

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Allah

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in verse number 3 he continues and he

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says

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If you fear that you will not deal

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fairly with the orphan girls, you may marry

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whichever woman

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or whichever other women seem good to you

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2, 3 or 4. If you feel that

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you cannot be equitable to them, then marry

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only 1 or your slaves that is more

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likely to make you avoid bias. Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala says that

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the guardian of the orphan, if the orphan

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happens to be a girl, sometimes

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he may marry that girl.

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He helps her, gives her a good upbringing,

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good

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support,

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looks after her affairs and so on. And

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when she becomes a mature adult, if she

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agrees and she is willing to, he may

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marry her. And he gives her her fair

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diary and he treats her well and he

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is responsible towards

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her. Obviously, as long as she's not a

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for her and there's no obstacles towards that

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marriage and so on, that is something which

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is permissible. But something that the Arabs also

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used to do is that they would marry

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those girls

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because they wouldn't have to give them their

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diary. Or they would marry those girls simply

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because then they know that this girl has

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a great deal of wealth she inherited from

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her parents, by marrying and becoming her husband

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he can devour that wealth, he can take

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from that wealth, he can benefit from that

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wealth and so his intentions are not exactly

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pure. His intentions are not exactly honorable and

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so Allah said that if you fear that

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this is the case then don't marry them

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but marry from other women. Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala

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mentions

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to us in this verse that for a

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man it is permissible for him to marry

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up to 4 wives. Allah

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says then marry from the other women what

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seemed good to you 2, 3 or 4

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And that is the maximum

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that a man is allowed to marry. And

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so he is able to marry more than

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1 wife. So long as the condition is

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mentioned here in this verse.

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But if you feel that you cannot be

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equitable to them, just towards them,

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then stick to 1. And that is because

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when you have

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more than 1 spouse, more than 1 wife,

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then you must be equal to them in

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the way that you provide for them, in

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the way

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that you spend

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time with them, dividing their nights between them

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and so on. All of these issues as

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we see from the son of the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam because as we know he

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had sallallahu alaihi wasallam more than 1 wife

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and the way that he would treat them

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and the way that he would spend time

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with them and the way that he travel

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with them,

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spend upon them,

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deal with them, especially when they amongst themselves

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may sometimes have disagreements and so on. All

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of that is well established and documented in

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the Sunnah and in the books of Hadith.

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That is how the husband must be. And

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if he cannot do that or he fears

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that he won't be able to do that,

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that he will favor 1

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unjustly over the others, then it is not

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permissible to do so because that is also

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a form of oppression.

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That is also a form of oppression and

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that is why the Prophet told

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us

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that whoever has more than one spouse, meaning

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one wife, and he favors 1 justly over

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the other, he will come on Yawmul Qiyama

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with one of his cheeks drooping.

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Meaning just as he leans towards one over

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the other, one of his cheeks will lean

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more than the other on the Day of

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Judgement.

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So Allah

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says that you must be just and that

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is the general principle rule

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that underpins all of these interactions, all of

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these dealings that we have whether it is

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spousal

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interactions, whether it is to do with children,

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parents, siblings, family,

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friends, business partners whatever it may be a

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person should always be Just because Allah Azza

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wa Jal has and loves Justice.

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That is more likely in order to make

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you avoid bias.

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In verse number 4, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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says continuing on this issue when it comes

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to the rights of women.

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And give women their bridle gift upon marriage

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meaning their diary.

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Though if they are happy to give up

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some of it for you, you may enjoy

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it with a clear conscience.

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One of the things that the Arabs also

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wouldn't do especially if the woman was a

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weak family or she doesn't have a male

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guardian or she's someone who is struggling to

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look after her own affairs and stand up

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for herself is that they wouldn't give her

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a fair dowry.

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They would be biased in the way that

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they would treat her when it came to

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issues of marriage. Or sometimes

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the dowry that she would be given would

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be consumed by her male guardian.

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So the father takes her diary without her

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consent and without her approval. Or the brother

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comes and he takes from her diary. Or

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the males come and they essentially take from

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the diary. And you still find this among

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some

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Dari.

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Or in some countries you still find this

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which is the opposite that the woman's family

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is the one paying the dowry to the

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man's family. All of these are practices that

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are not allowed in Islam, it does not

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form our

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Sharia. And so Allah is saying that when

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it comes to marriage,

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give the dawy that is owed to the

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women,

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give it to them and that is their

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property. It's something which belongs to them. But

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if they are happy to give up some

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of it for you, So for example the

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wife and the husband are going to get

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married. The woman and the man. The man

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says to her that your diary I will

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give you £1,000.

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Do you accept? Are you happy? She says

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yes. And then after marriage, she says, you

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know what? Actually, it's okay. We're going to

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start a life together.

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I owe only £500. £500 you can keep

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because we've got to spend on the house

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and the furniture and other things, it's fine.

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And she does that willingly, it is permissible.

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Or she receives that £1,000

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and she says to her father, I have

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respect for him, honor for him, wanting to

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help him especially if he's elderly or someone

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who needs financial assistance, I will give to

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you some of my diary and she

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does

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so

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willingly.

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So if they do so willingly, happily,

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then you may enjoy it with a clear

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conscience.

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Enjoy it and benefit from it. The problem

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here is as Allah is saying at the

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beginning of this verse

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give to them their diaries meaning don't just

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devour them without asking for their permission without

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seeking their consent

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out of injustice,

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out of wanting simply to take their wealth

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and devour it for yourselves, that is something

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which Allah has made haram.

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In verse number 5 Allah

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then says

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Do not entrust your property to the feeble

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minded.

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Allah has made it a means of support

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for you. Make provision for them from it,

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clothe them and address them kindly.

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One of the groups of people that a

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person sometimes becomes the guardian of and as

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we can see all of these groups of

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people that Allah

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is mentioning so far have male guardians to

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look after their interests and affairs. The orphan,

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a woman who for example wants to get

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married and now the people that are being

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called

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the feeble minded or the person who doesn't

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have the ability,

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the maturity to deal with their financial

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affairs. These are of 2 types of people.

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So when it comes all of these people

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have male guardians. In this particular verse, we

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are speaking about those people who don't have

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the maturity, the intellectual maturity to deal with

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their financial issues and they are of 2

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types. Number 1, those who due to some

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illness cannot do so. So maybe they have

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a mental illness

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that prevents them from being able to deal

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with their financial affairs because they don't understand

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money and they don't have the ability to

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process that type of information.

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And the second type of person is the

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one who is too young yet to be

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able to understand how to deal with them.

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So the first one who has maybe a

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mental illness may well be an adult. They

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may be in their thirties, their forties. It

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is just because of their illness that it

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prevents them from being able to deal with

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their financial affairs. In the second case,

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this person is too young yet to be

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able to understand the value of money and

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how it should be dealt with in a

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responsible way. Say for example you had a

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child that's an orphan, a 67 year old

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and their parents passed away but they were

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wealthy So he inherits from them tens of

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1,000 of pounds. If you were to give

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that child tens of 1,000 of pounds and

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you would say to him here's £50,

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£100,

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do what it what what you want with

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it today. That child wouldn't be able to

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understand.

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They would go to a shop and if

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that shopkeeper was dishonest, they would make them

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buy that chocolate which is worth only a

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pound or 2 for £50.

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And that child would happily give them because

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for them, the chocolate's the main thing. They

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just want that sugar rush, They want that

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sweet. They want that chocolate, that candy. That's

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all they're looking for. And the notes that

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they're giving, this piece of paper that they

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have or these coins in their hands

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have no significance to them.

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They don't really understand

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their worth or their value. These people are

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called feeble minded for one of those two

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reasons.

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Allah

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says that to their guardian, those people who

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are responsible for their affairs,

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don't give over their wealth to them until

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you see from them the ability that they

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can manage those affairs. But rather what you

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should do from their wealth is that you

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should provide for them, clothe them and speak

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to them in a good way. So Allah

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says

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that this orphan and that's not always the

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case because sometimes the orphan has no money,

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the orphan is poor. In which case a

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person needs to spend over the orphan from

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his own wealth. But that is not always

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the case. It is sometimes a misconception

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that every orphan will be poor. And that's

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why sometimes people say we want to give

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Zakah to the orphan. That's only allowed if

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the orphan is poor. Because sometimes those orphans,

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their parents left them a great deal of

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wealth and inheritance. They don't need to do

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zakah. In fact, they will be giving zakah

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through their guardians from the wealth that they

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have themselves. And so therefore Allah azza wa

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jal is saying here that the guardian is

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responsible

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for their upkeep,

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for their well-being,

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for managing their financial affairs, if he is

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someone who has the ability to invest some

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of that money in a way that's going

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to be good and beneficial

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in a non risk way or not a

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high risk way, a very low risk way,

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that is something which they should do, they

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should look after the affairs of that child.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala then says in the

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final verse on this page,

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verse number 6.

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Test the orphans until they reach marriageable age.

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Then if you find them to have sound

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judgment, hand over their property to them. Do

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not consume it hastily before they come of

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age. If the guardian is well off, he

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should abstain from the orphan's property and if

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he is poor, he should use it in

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a way that is fair. When you give

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them their property call witnesses in. Indeed Allah

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takes full accounting of everything that you do.

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So in the previous verse Allah Azzawaj said

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don't give them their wealth because they don't

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have the ability to manage their financial affairs.

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When does that continue to? Until they reach

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a marriageable age. So now they have the

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maturity. There is the age of puberty

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and the age of maturity. And they are

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not necessarily one and the same thing. A

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child may hit puberty at the age of

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11 or 12, but they still don't have

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the ability to manage their financial affairs fully.

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But a child that you would normally be

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married, maybe at the age of 17, 18,

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19 now they're looking to get married, that

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child normally or that young adult now normally

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has the ability to deal with their financial

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affairs and I understand

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the value of money and what it means

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to save and to spend and to buy

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and to invest and so on. And so

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Allah is saying that if you unsure test

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them, give them a small amount of money,

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see what they do and see how they

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deal with it

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and that will allow you to determine their

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readiness or lack thereof. Allah says that if

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you are from amongst those people who are

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guardians of those orphans or those people who

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are feeble minded

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don't devour their wealth

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If you are wealthy then leave their wealth

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alone and Allah has provided for you and

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if you are poor and they are wealthy

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then it is allowed for you to take

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from that wealth that which you need in

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order to be able to

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look after them as well. But you do

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it in a way that is just and

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fair not to totally consume it or to

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take more than what is your need, Allah

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says and then eventually when you come to

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giving and handing over that wealth, then have

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witnesses that see that that transaction has taken

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place so that there will be no

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doubt with regards to your intentions and with

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regards to your actions.

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So these verses, these first six verses as

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we see, Allah

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has established already a number of principles

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when it comes to the rights of these

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segments of society and the community that are

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often oppressed. Their rights are taken away because

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for one reason or another they don't have

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the ability to manage their own affairs. Allah

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therefore calls upon their guardians who are often

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males that they should fulfill their function and

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their role in a way that shows that

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they are mindful of Allah

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and have the fear of Allah and with

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episode.

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episode.