The Islamic Personality – Episode 30

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Abu Usamah At-Thahabi

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Not Being Attached to the Dunya

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By shadow en la ilaha illallah wa de who lashley Calico

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by shadow under Mohammed Abdullah who was Hulu salatu wa he was SONAMOO I need Sleeman, kathira Bowden

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and the authority of San libitum sand. May Allah be pleased with him. He said that he heard the Prophet sallallahu it was said to them that jabril came to live in Sonoma what in the cellar?

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And when jabril came to the nibi of Assam some love while he was selling him, he said to me, I'm Mohammed. Ah, my [???] for inika maybe it was the main shade for inika mo Federico

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wattman my [???]. friend Nick musubi wilderman Shara Min kiambu bill lane. Where is Zeus dev net one and NASS

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become to a tremendous Heidi concerning the personality of the Muslim.

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And this hadith is centered around encouraging the Muslim to have a level of Zakat and the dunya. And not to be an individual who is drowning and going overboard and trying to accumulate the Zohar of the dounia.

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The tremendous companion Alibaba, Vitaly lobby pleased with him, he said.

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And he was known to make drawn two lines regenda

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that Allah blesses him with the dunya, but put the dunya in his hands and not in his heart, you'll find the person who is going overboard in the dunya in terms of working, hustling, grinding, trying to accumulate wealth. Most people were like that, who have money, and they are drowning the dounia they're not nice people. A lot of times you'll find that they have arrogance. A lot of times you'll find that there is a level of negligence as relates to their Deen. And as it relates to the people who are around them and who are responsible, they are responsible for from the foot Tara and Mr. Keane, and even the own family members. So I leave it on the line who used to be a worried used to

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be afraid and worried about the dounia.

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Going into his height to the degree where he compromises Dean, his principles. So today's Heidi,

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the prophet said that jabril came to him Southern law while he was setting up, and jabril is the arch Angel, the main angel in Ellis Lamb who used to come with the revelation.

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And when he will come to the Prophet with revelations of the law, when he was setting them, sometimes he will come in the form that Allah created him in with 600 wings. And that happened only two times during the time of his life on the law when he was settler.

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And that was when the IRS will revealed if carabus mirrabooka levy halaqa.

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And also in the Islamic marriage,

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he would also come to him so a lot what he was sending them in a dream, and he will relate to him different issues, and jabril will come to them as well. So the water why he was sent me

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as a man

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looking like one of the companions whose name was dead he a blue heavy fan, Kelby may Allah be pleased with them.

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They used to come more jabril used to come to the nibi someone love why he was selling them as well,

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to educate him, and to inform him of things. And this is one of those examples right here. He didn't come with the Quran. But he will come for different reasons to go over the Quran with him to inform him of something to advise him with something and here he came to teach him a few issues. And in teaching the Navy of Islam, some law what he was selling by default, he's teaching us a lot and I mentioned that Canon lecom fee rasulillah he was sweating hustler. You have in the nebby of Islam, the Messenger of Allah a perfect example. So jabril is teaching him we've been commanded to follow him. So we have to take the lessons from this, Heidi

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jabril said to him, oh, Mohammed,

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live for as long as you want to live. Verily, you're going to die

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and love whoever you want to love. For verily the day is going to come when you're going to separate from that person. You're going to park company from that individual

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and do whatever you want to do from the D

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Good deeds, bad deeds, do whatever you want to do. Because you're going to be held accountable for the deeds that you've done and you're going to be rewarded for them good or bad.

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And he said, You need to know that the honor the shut off of the movement, everybody here has a level of shutoff.

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Someone comes to your house, they can sit in your special chair, they can just walk in your house, there are places in your home that are off limits, you just can't give up and go in your kitchen and open up your refrigerator. That's something, Your Honor.

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He said you should know that the real on of the believer is when he gets up and he makes piano lame and he prays during the nighttime, that's the real shut off.

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And know that the main the power that is out of the moment is if he finds himself self sufficient, independent, he doesn't need other people that is reserved.

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So we're going to deal with these and shout lies or gel for karate, these little sentences very quickly and briefly and shout lines with gel as it relates to his statement. Live for as long as you want to live because you're going to die.

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This is a delillo for the people go overboard as it relates to the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam who think that he never died and he's not dead. So Allah while he was selling them he died.

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But like the other prophets in the messengers Salawat Allah will send them Lally him and like the other people who have died from Adams children, people are alive in the graves and the Buttle, Zeff in a way that Allah knows it's reality, but the Prophet sallallahu it was cellular, and this is a DLL that he was going to die jabril informed him of that.

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Along with all that said to the Namibian Islam, from the Quran, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and nicomedia were in who made the tune. Verily you're going to die Mohammed and your companions are going to die as well. And everybody in this semester who's listening to me right now is going to die as well.

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He said in the Quran, suparna with the eyelids and the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam kulu knifes in that cotton mote. Every single soul is going to taste death.

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Every soul nebby rustle every soul everyone that has a soul is going to taste death. No matter if he is a lead from the OD of Allah is going to taste death. From the names of Eliza jellies. He has

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a lead Elijah moot, Allah is the one who was living and he doesn't die.

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A lot put this question to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it was setting them

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in the Koran, Burma giannelli basher in carbolic hellhole

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of a mecca for human Holly Dune.

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We have never sent a messenger before you Yeah, Mohammed any human being can be for you. We never sent a person except that he died. We never sent someone and he had eternal everlasting life. So when you die and if you die, yeah, Mohammed if you die.

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Do these people think they're going to live forever? No. If he is Habibullah the heart of the NBN the Rasul salatu wa salam O Allah, then clearly if he's going to die, and he's the most beloved one to live with, everybody else is going to die. Everybody else is going to die. Well, my Muhammadan rasul Allah Atman coupling Rasul fa matto pootling caloptima dakka dakka. Mohammed is only the Messenger of Allah sallallahu it was sending them and he is like the messengers who came before him and they passed away. So if he dies or if he is killed, are you people going to leave your religion and turn back on your heels? And the Hadith the Prophet told us about something that happened with

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Moosa salotto lie he was sent mo and Musa was known for his strength and his power. Allah sent the angel of death to Moosa and the Angel of Death went to Moosa in the form of a human being and told him you have to die right now I'm going to take your life I'm going to take your soul. Moosa didn't know the angel of death was doing good of death because he came in the form of a man so behind me a Muslim

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Musab punched him and knocked his eye out. Angel of Death went back to Eliza Magellan say your slave refuses to come. Allah sent the angel of death back to Moosa with his eye fixed up, told Moosa Put your hand on the back of a phone on the back of a bull for as many hairs that you can grab. That's how long you're going to live and then you're going to die after that, when that angel of death came back and as I was fixed up, moves out

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is a special thing now.

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There are some people giving down a lot who say that this Hadeeth isn't Bukhari and Muslim should be rejected because how can Moosa fight the angel of death and so forth and so on. And as simple and as easy came to Moosa in the form of a man, how did he know he's gonna be the angel of death? Anybody approached you talking about I'm the angel of death and you have to die and he looks like a human being, you're gonna put your neck on the chopping block and say, okay, you're gonna defend yourself. So the point here is Moosa was an extremely strong individual. And that said, delille, Moosa died, everybody's going to die. So jabril told the nebby son, the law, what he was sending them basically,

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get ready for death. And then he told them, love whoever you want to love, because you're going to separate from that person. As we look around in this mosque, everybody who's listening to me right now. You have those people who you love them and they love you. Some of us are married.

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You love your wife more than she loves you.

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Your wife loves you more than you love her. Some people you love your wife equally, both of you love each other the same.

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We have some people will love someone and you love them. And it's a toxic level. It's a dysfunctional love. So we have our mothers, we have our daughters, we have our wives, we have our sons, Auntie's cousins, brothers, people we love.

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The Prophet said, whatever the case is, no matter who you love, someone who you're loving, they don't deserve your love, someone you love, and they deserve your love, whoever it is, and whatever the case may be.

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Love whoever you want to love, Mohammed, because you're going to part company from that individual. And everybody is going to taste that everybody without any exception. So that means that we have to stay balanced in our love. Because either you're going to check out before them or they're going to check out before you. And if and when they check out. What are you going to do lose your mind? You're going to stop living, you're going to commit suicide. Kayla will lie. So the Prophet had pure love. So Lola while he was sending them for his daughter's pure love for his wives. And the rest of them read the Allahu anhu he had pure love Abu Bakar Mrs. Man I mean, the rest of his companions

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read the woman why, and he, some of them died before him, he cried. But he kept going on with his mission in life.

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He died before some of them some of the law while he was setting them and they cried and they kept going on with their mission in life as a lot described them in the Quran with my bed dilute Abdullah. They didn't change anything. point is you think about who you love and who you're connected to. You're gonna die and they're gonna die. The question is who's gonna die first.

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And know this. He mentioned something Allahu alayhi wa and it was settled him yet but remain filata for Yara, jurf nan, karma Hawaii.

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When a person dies, everyone who dies, three things are going to follow him. Two of those things will go with him to the graveyard, all three of them will go to the graveyard, two of them are going to come back and one is going to remain with them.

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One will remain with him in his great. He said the two things that will come back your relatives, your family, those people you love, those people love you, they're coming back. The second thing is your wealth. Your wealth is going to be here, whatever you own, and your relatives are going to distribute that wealth. Some of them may steal it, some of them, may you serve it, some of them may do what they're supposed to do. Whatever the case is, those two things are coming back. And from them are those people who you love. Nobody is going to jump in someone's grave and say, I want to die with him or take my life in replacement of his no one's gonna say that no one.

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The one thing that remains with the dead person are his deeds and his actions. And for that reason, the scholars of Islam said that in this Hadith, after the Prophet mentioned some Allahu alayhi wa sallam love whoever you love, because you're going to park for him after that he said, was not my [???]. fennica musubi and do whatever you want to do, do whatever you want to do, because you're going to be held accountable for that. Now again, some people give down with a lie hurts, someone gets down a lot. And this basic, simple Arabic of the Prophet sallallahu it was sending me didn't understand me as an Arab

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jabril rasulillah he and he told us by default, do whatever you want to do, because you're going to be rewarded for what you've done. That's not jabril telling us. Go ahead and don't pray. If you don't want to pray, don't where he jive if you don't want him where he jives smoke

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We drink Hummer is not telling you that it's like the height of the poor and soda through calf calling Hakuna arabicarum for men shall fly your plane woman, shall we

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say to them, yeah, Mohammed, the truth is from your Lord. So anyone who wants to believe let them believe. And anyone who wants to disbelieve and let them disbelieve. Allah is not telling you to disbelieve.

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I heard the person using this ayah to show you have the freedom to disbelieve if you want to disbelieve. The Prophet told us all the love while he was setting them in bed della Dino tolu. Anybody who changes his religion, then he should be killed in Islamic law in Islamic State, when I talking about here

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is not permissible for a Muslims blood to be shed except in one of three instances. And the first instance he mentioned was the one who leaves his religion and he abandons the Jamaat of the Muslims, you talking about? The Ayat of the Quran told you, you can disbelieve, that's not what the ayat is saying. What the ayat is saying is, if you want to believe then it's up to you, you'll get rewarded. And if you want to disbelieve, and that's what a person chooses to do, you're going to be punished. It's like someone says to his child, or his children, they keep messing about, they keep messing about. The father says to them, okay, you keep it up. You keep it up, that child is not going to say

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to his brothers, well, Abby said to keep it up, let's keep goofing off.

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They know that that's a threat.

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Someone is playing with the camera body electricity, and they're putting things in there. That's what he's going to get electrocuted. Someone says, Hey, you better stop and he keeps doing keeps doing it person says, All right, go ahead. You see, he's not encouraging him and telling him and giving him the green light to do that. That's what the ayat means. And that's what this statement means. Do whatever you want to do, because you'll get the juice out of that particular issue.

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With that being the case the Hadith is telling us to prepare yourselves, we should prepare ourselves for power cells for death. Don't go overboard in the dunya be aware and be cognizant of how you behave and how we carry on. That's the meaning of that. Low tide I mentioned just too many I don't be fooled by the dunya Prepare yourselves. For men kinda Yato julis Katara be federal yacht Milan salejaw anybody who hopes to meet his Lord, you know you're gonna meet him, you're gonna die. You're gonna meet your Lord, then let him do the deeds that are righteous deeds, let him do those deeds. So many I act of the Quran

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for lie to her run, no Komal highlighted dunya when I biLlahi Lahore, don't let the highest of the dunya Don't let it fool you. Don't let it go lower you. Don't let it put you to sleep. And you forget.

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And don't be a person who forgets about Allah allows things in your lives to make you forget about Allah who kind of who what, Diana? What Taku Yeoman, Terra una de la la fear the day in which you're going to go back to allies region.

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And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it was sending them said that jabril mentioned to him and this particular idea and giving him advice sallallahu alayhi wa it was send them to swimming confira wylam and shut off men

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keyamo who believe the honor that a Muslim receives is when he gets up in the middle of the night and he prays the kiama leave. And that's because he is in communion with Eliza Joe. He's communicating with Allah.

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And he's communicating with Allah when the vast majority of people are not communicating with Allah in this why he has this shut off. He's honored because he's someone who is different. He's not doing what most people are doing.

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We found that there are some people who he may be an Arab person may be from Quraysh. A person may be a Sharif it could be from sumati it could be from Afghanistan, it can be from Pakistan is part of the relatives of the Nebojsa love. Why do you send them a senior debt? Some people come from certain countries, certain countries, and they have a tribe that is honored, honorable, he has a job that's honorable. Some people don't like that. I'm a senior, and he walks around like that, as if he's better than everybody. And no doubt being a saint and being from Quraysh has his virtues but not for the one who's walking around thinking

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He's better than everybody.

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So a person can be from coration is a cashier person could be from Quraysh was saying it and he's a liar. He's a thief. He's a drunk. He's a motet is a violent, he's a badger facet.

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So the real honor is not the fact that you have a PhD, or you have a degree or you have this kind of car, that kind of car you live in that neighborhood over there. That is honor, that's part of honor, no doubt about it. Not living in the ghetto and living in a nice place where it's safe and clean. I live on it you if you could protect your deen and so forth. So you don't want to grow up your kids in an environment where there's danger, drugs, antisocial behavior, that is a level of shadows, no doubt about it. But the real shut up he said in this Heidi Salalah while he was setting them is when a person gets up in the middle of the night and he means kiama Lane because he's not like everybody

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else. I mentioned many I talked to Jeff Junu boohooman and Mataji you're the owner of boom Tama I'm the owner of the home

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home with Tamara Williams autonomy my

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my my

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autonomy marzec now So the point here at whiney is Allah described that people in the Quran that they get up and they forsake their size and get up off of their size in the middle of the night and they make Salah Mimi is about

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the profit meaning to the companion sell a lot. Why do we sell them and mentioned to us as well?

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And they come with kiama lane for in noho that the Salima public comb.

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We're Cordoba to Nairobi como maka Farah tune with a new become our karma Kala sallallahu alayhi wa sallam you people should take getting up at nighttime and praying piano lane because this was the way in the practice of the righteous people before you and this is one of the ways that you get close to your Lord quarter by tune get close to Allah Caribe and that's to shut off. The one who prays pm Elaine is not like the one who doesn't praise pm Alain. He said also that this pm Elaine is something that will wipe away your sins and your mistakes.

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So the shadow of the Muslim is in that. And it brings us to this idea of what the book is all about and what this hadith is all about like the previous Hadeeth in terms of rectifying your Islamic character, our Islamic behavior, the Islamic personality men and women, husbands and wives, teenagers, all of us is what he mentioned some of the law while he was sending the book is called what the Islamic personality what's the Islamic personality? You may live for as long as you want live and live good.

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He says a lot while he was setting them up Mr. Almighty my Bane is sitting was serene. What Kaley lumen you Joe was with Danica. The amount of time or the age of the majority of the people of my own mind is going to be between 60 and 70 years old. And the majority only a few people will go beyond 70 years old. So he has between 60 and 70. The Prophet died at 64 on the law while he was setting my bucket died at 64 between 60 and 70.

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So from the Islamic personalities that person takes advantage of the life that he has.

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Take advantage of five things before five things as the Hadid said take advantage of your youth before you become old. Take advantage of your good health before you become sick. Take advantage of your free time before you come become busy. Take advantage of your wealth become before you become poor.

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He told the people some of the law while he was settling. lad TESOL I will add to Zulu Kadima, Allah yomo qiyamah Hata use Allah Naropa the two feet of the slave will not move from in front of Allah until he's asked about four things. One of those things is how did he spend his life? How did he spend his youth

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so from the Islamic personalities for the person who take advantage of the life. The second thing that we mentioned today from the Hadith is his statements on the law when he died he was sending them love people love whoever you want to love, but love the believers and love the people want hate and love the people want to see good for you and good for others. Don't love the criminals don't love the people want to take people away from the dean. They want to they want to put in the society

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Those things that are impediments and harmful to people worshipping Allah the way it ought to be worship,

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and do whatever you want to do, because you're going to be held accountable for it. And then the fourth thing is what we just mentioned, he mentioned some of the love while he was on it was sending them

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that the shutter of the honor of the believer, it is, if and when he prays at the nighttime, and the last portion of it if you mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the might of the believer is when he doesn't need other people, he has a step nine and a nice

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and might might in Alice lamb comes from the word exam. It comes from the word and the exam would allow him to wear a suit he will mean when I can and monaka tiene Allah Allah moon, my power is for lion is messenger and for the believers but the hypocrites don't know that they don't know that

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is to the law. Hey, Jimmy, all of the reserve belongs to LA, he gives it to whoever he wants to give it to. Yours zoo, manga, Chateau will your new manga share, he owns the dominion of everything he gives it to whoever wants it. There is it doesn't belong to this country, that country, this white people is black people rich people is a belong so lies are jealous.

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And from there is this Heidi, is when a person is free, independent, this is important one. And dependent is better if you can get to work hard, but it's better to work for yourself. Don't work for other people. If you can do that, be independent, to the best of your ability. And that's because number one.

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When you're independent, when you're independent, you have freedom to do what you want to do. You don't have anyone over you don't have a boss as such. There is a companion is coming as Abu Malik and ashari Allah be pleased with him. He said he along with some people from his tribe came to Medina and they gave the Prophet the bay I saw the love while he was selling the Pledge of Allegiance.

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So they gave him the pledge. They were about eight, nine and 10 people he said.

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He said the Prophet came to them after that and said for some reason, will you people not give me the pledge. They say God I so love. We already gave you the pledge. He said, Well, you people not give me the pledge. They say you're awesome love. We already gave you the pledge. He said, Well, you people not give me the pledge of allegiance, the beta. They said we already gave you the pledge. I don't see the law. He said at the fourth time, well, you people not give me the Pledge of Allegiance. And they realize

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they all stood up and say yes, you're also law. We'll give you the pledge.

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What do you want us to pledge? He said that you worship a law loan at tauheed. And that you don't make chick fil a law in any shape form of fashion and ship the big Michigan and the big maaseiah.

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And also that you pray and you take care of that prayer. And don't be lackadaisical in that prayer.

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Don't be like that. Last week, I think it was we talked about the moon watch chain, the little watch chain, and when the last two faces, and he's from the worst people, the one last two faces. And Lady yakkety and I have been watching whether or not you'd be watching.

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It comes to them with a face comes to them with a different face. One of the meanings of vaudois chain the one with two faces is that guy when you see him you believe and you think he's praying because he's praying with us right now. But when so not through Frederick comes in. He doesn't pray.

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He doesn't pray in the morning. He's in the masjid and he doesn't pray. People don't know that. And that's between him and Allah. But that's a form of vision which aim.

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Taiji Duna Sharon, Nas in the LA Dollywood chain, you will find from the worst people with a lot the one who has two faces, right? that people don't know that he's not praying. Does that make it easy in light? No. Because with Allah, he's one of the worst people and that's one of the meanings of that Hadith.

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So those companions said, we'll give you the pledge on what? La ilaha illAllah. Not just that, but you won't make allies to each other and that you're going to take care of the prayer. And then he said the fourth thing, give me the pledge that you won't ask people for anything.

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You won't ask people to borrow money from them. You won't ask people for anything if you can help it now.

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Obviously, obviously, you go to a city and you're strange in that city and you're looking for the masjid. Or you're looking for the home of someone, and you with your wife and your family, you're not going to drive around in circles and circles and you don't know where you're going. And your wife says, hey, we've been driving around the city for an hour and a half and we're in the city. What were you doing? But Muhammad said, That's not x people for anything. That's not the meaning of that Hadith. That's that's stupidity you You're misunderstanding that it didn't mean that. It means when you don't have to ask people don't ask them so the companion I will mannequin it. May Allah be

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pleased them. He said, those eight 910 people that were with me that gave the pledge with me. I would see one of them later on. If one of them dropped something. He's on his horse and he dropped it. The whip he wouldn't get he went as someone Hey, young man, pick that whip up and give it to me pick that bag up and give it to me. That thing fell down, pick my watch up, pick my ring my keys up you wouldn't do that. He himself would get off the horse and pick it up himself. Get back on the horse. One of the reasons for that, when you don't ask people for things they'll never be able to come and say you owe me You remember I did this. I remember I did that. And then he doesn't mean

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anyone you he can do that because you never asked him for anything.

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Another issue is the person can say to you if you ask him for something, he could say, you needed me. I didn't need you.

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You needed me. I didn't need you. And he has that thing over you. At least in his mind. And then another issue where people have a tawheed and we know that Allah is running. And Allahu taala is a Rosa. And Ally's agenda is alcovy analyze the one who is Admiralty, he's the one who gives and so on and so on. So the person with that complete towhee complete total he he doesn't ask people for Rokia.

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He can't get ripped off. If he doesn't ask people for Rokia.

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He doesn't ask people for anything. So the people come all the time. Hey, can you do it? opia can you do rokeya? Can you do rokeya? Can you do rokeya? Here? Can you read in this bottle? Can you give me this bottle? Can you realize man, you doodle can yourself want to tell our community again. The best and most effective rookie is for you to do rookie on your own. There is not a special skill set that you have to have in order to do good work. Yeah. You don't have to have a special station amongst them. You don't have to be half of the poron You don't have to be an Imam. You don't have to be a thief. You don't have to be a student of knowledge. You can just be a regular person. Do it

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yourself. The man came and say Jada Salalah I have a pain in my stomach. When a bee told him someone love who it was send them put your hand on your stomach, say Bismillah Bismillah Bismillah three times. And then say arrow to be lad we'll put it when men Sheree magic were over there seven times that said spurway hurts. He told that man who came to actual so like do rookie armies say you do it is permissible. If you want to ask someone to do rookie I'm not saying that. That's Haram. Our mother if she was sick, she wasn't feeling well. The Prophet told her son the law what he was sending them you go and tell so and so to do rocky on you.

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The family of Jonathan Eben Abby Tyler, after he died, may Allah be pleased with him. Some of his children became sick. The wife told the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he advised the wife of Jonathan take your children to so and so and let them do rocky on your child that goes to show is permissible. But that recent incident that happened in our country right here that recent fitna of Rocky the rocky ripping people off and taking money from people that happens that happens when Muslims we're not connecting ourselves with allies with Jim.

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So concerning the Vina and whiny individuals should try his best to be independent to the best of his ability. But again, I say you have to understand that Heidi in its proper context, don't go overboard and don't make life unnecessarily difficult for you. There are certain things that you have to ask because people are helping people and that's how we get along with one another. The Prophet used to have a companion some of the law while he was selling was to come from the desert. And he would bring herbs from the desert, you were bringing certain things from the desert, you can only find them in the desert, they were not in Medina, and he would give them to the Prophet

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sallallahu it was setting them and so like I said that he was our desert who were bad do not he's the bad guy. He's the one who comes from the desert. And when it came to Medina, the people in Medina gave him things that he couldn't get in the desert. You can only get them from Medina and that's how the life is. Life is like that. People of the desert help the people in the metropolitan

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People in Berlin I help the people in the desert in the countryside and so forth so on. We need each other, but in your personal life, do your best and shall lies or not to ask people for anything for anything.

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Okay, honey, we're gonna stop there and shout lies with jelly.

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But I want to make a clarification very quickly due to some advice and I was given a 10 B.

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Last week, I did an interview with a brother, our brother, my brother Mohammed hijab. I said a few things and a brother by the name of Abdullah man from Middlesborough. Brother I know for a long time, he sent me a text message and he wanted to rectify something I said that was incorrect and I appreciate what he did. He was the only one who did this and then today, share Hubble suhaib contacted me with the same 10 B.

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He said that when I did that interview, I had mentioned that a chef Ll Benny Rama to LA he tyna la I mentioned that a chef rubbish a foul la was the Imam of a judge what ideal that's what I was saying. And I said it multiple times.

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And that's what some people have Hulu in him say misconstruing what I learned Benny actually said Rama to lay it what the chef and Albanian said was that a chef Robbie Schiphol Allahu taala he was the high mill of the liwa have a job with ideal which is different. He was the flag bearer, the flag bearer. It was from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu. It was sending them when he used to go out to make jihad, he will have a person who would carry the flag of algae had and it was an honorable position. If you had that position, it was honorable.

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So he said a little Danny said he's the flag bearer. So what you understand from the flag bearer is there are people over the flag bearer, and the company of the companions read the alignment. This person is the flag bearer for jihad. That's what his job is. He's carrying the flag to meet the enemies. I want to ask you.

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Who's better than the flag bearer that was carrying the flag? Who's better than him?

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Cool.

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Whoa.

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You guys don't understand the question. The Companions with the Nabi sallallahu. wasallam went out to wage war. He said being Eli, someone has the flag. And he's in front of the army with the flag. That's a special job. He has the flag. But who's better than him in that army? Who's better than him?

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Is he the best is he's the best one in that army. No, he's not gonna be the best one in any army. The general is more important than him. The command of the army, in this case the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam Abu Bakar Ani, according to what we know, we are keyed up as sooner so we want to make that issue clear. Because of that can be and I appreciate that from both of the brothers and that's because of the statement of the ameerul momineen.

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Mr. bin Abdulaziz me a lot to Allah upon him and pleased with him. He used to make dua and say me ally of Rama upon the person who tells me about my mistakes. We appreciate when people come to us and they advise us as well. The people stay away and talk amongst themselves with Peter wakad. And he by then, I don't know we have a brother in our class. His name is a red one is a red one here.

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When I was going to do that

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interview, I asked him what do you think he said I wouldn't do it. That was his advice. I'm not the type of person gonna get mad at you and become your enemy. No, I appreciate when people advise but I don't appreciate the people who talk amongst themselves may have a lot of collab then you don't want to call your brother may want to say your your this your that may this and that. I don't know what kind of brotherhood that is. And I don't know what kind of selfie that is, but I seek refuge in a lot from it. And a colon. If you brothers have any questions in sha Allah azza wa jal concerning today's Hadith, you can put your question forward and if

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you guys have any questions concerning today's Howdy, Father, yeah. What's your name? Marie. Our own? You're from Birmingham.

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Manchester. You're going to Manchester tonight?

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Tomorrow. I want to ask you but can you take me to Liverpool? Now I'm just joking me

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that I'm meet you in Liverpool.

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Mickey mask. All right, give them my silence for the big heroin

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Brothers asking about the issue of toxic love. The Prophet mentioned in authentic hadith sallallahu alayhi wa sallam filata yet the rule of law for now use the jab hula hoop will old woman vichara minha una de Rajan can attack them rotten say, Hello lm Nutella kar. He said an authentic it there are three people who make dua to Allah and Allah will not answer their dawn. The first person he mentioned was a man who was married to a woman with bad luck. And that man refuses to divorce her.

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She's not good.

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She is the type of person who, if a hand reached out to her other than her husband, she would accommodate that hand. She doesn't listen, she doesn't obey. She's destroying her children as it relates to respecting and loving the adapt. She's a bad person fitna drama, that's a toxic love. That's a toxic situation right there. And it works the other way around with the husband as well. Someone being married to someone. This is an example he had on I don't mean any specific situation. Maybe it was a arranged marriage and arranged marriage of forced marriage, and they're not compatible. So they are each other's necks like chalk and cheese. It just is not working. They're

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swearing, they're cursing. They, they want to harm each other. They hate each other. The marriage is becoming a trauma fitna for them that they can't even pray they can't worship Allah that's toxic.

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Being married to a person who their relationship is dysfunctional by being in that relationship. You are crippling your kids because they see in a bad pitch an image, what a father is what a mother is, what love is what relationships are. So all of that is a toxic love. Someone who loves kaufering should someone a man loving another man is toxic. A woman loving another woman, someone wanting to molest children toxic all of that is toxic. That's the love that is haram. But the love that's right is the one where the people love Allah love for Allah the way we're supposed to women and nasty manga techy woman dooney laggy and daddy boo gnome Kahoot Bella Valentina armano. I should do for

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Bella from the people those people who love their partners the way they love a lot that's toxic, you're gonna get in trouble up on that ship formula.

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As for those who believe they love a lava mousse, analyze Island and any more questions and whiny for the

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morning.

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CERN in mourning the death of an individual.

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Our mother Zeynep me Eliza gel, be pleased with her said

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after her relative died, someone died close to her. She told the women in her house, the people were there Bring me some perfume.

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She took the perfume and she put it on so everybody can see. And then she said

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I heard the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them.

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It is not permissible for a woman to mourn a dead person for more than three days other than her husband. She can mourn for him for four months and 10 days.

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So that it shows us that the amount of time that we are allowed to mourn meaning you're incapacitated, you're out of commission. You just in a daze, you can't work. You just can't function. You have three days where you can be like that. After three days, you have to pull up your boots, put your boots on and tie your boots up. You got to get out in the world. You still gonna be missing those people, but you start functioning you start living, but the woman who loses her husband, she mourns for four months in 10 days, she doesn't put perfume on. She doesn't put nice clothes on. She doesn't go out if she can help it. She stays in the house for all of that time. She

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doesn't go for Juma. She doesn't go to the walima she doesn't go to the Nika the aka if she can help it some of the scars and slams that even for that he she shouldn't even go so I'm saying no she can go

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and that goes to show the rights that the husband has over the lady. Any more questions for the

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Sorry in the people who are going to travel to hygiene shala and a couple of weeks, we're going to give a class about hygiene. I think, not this next Friday, but the one after that,

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depending upon what day it is Sharla

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but for those of you who are here right now, and you may not come to the class, you remember, at the hygiene shall lies, which is a trip of a lifetime. Whoever goes and performs hygiene correctly will come back like the day his mother gave birth to him. And they were a group of people who had came from an Yemen and they came to meet the Prophet sallallahu. I didn't send them while performing hajj, and they came without any provisions. And when the Prophet met them, they needed food and they needed provisions they left their provisions intentionally russula.

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He said to them Southern law while he was sending away your provisions they said we came we relying on Allah

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and allow Tata revealed the items so little bacara telling them what the zoo would do for inhale Azad taqwa. When you go on the trip, bring your provisions and the best provision to go with on Hij is a taqwa.

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Bring your food in your dream, your provisions, but the best provision is a tough one. So the shaytaan is going to be there at the height of every step of the way, trying to make it so that you don't get the most out of performing hedge solo to hedge knowing that in Ellis land, we should do knowledge before actions. So learn about the icon of a hedge in the theory of a hedge to the best of your ability before you even get there, especially about the DA especially about the DA trying to learn as many doors as possible. Another thing I would advise is set your affairs straight. Have your will ready and pay people back their money and ask people to forgive you. If there are some

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things because some people are going to perform hajj and at that Hajj all they're doing all of that effort is that they're just doing things to give it back to somebody else.

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And no one in his right mind is going to go to work for a whole month every day at the end of the month. Someone is going to take your money you're going to be upset about that.

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So then the bx is people Southern lady was sent him a total utter dodona man and more flesh. You know who the bankrupt person is? They said the one who has no property and no money. He said, Nope. The bankrupt person with us is the one who comes Yokoyama with a salad with sewn with a cat with high. But he spilt his blood. He cursed this one out, he falsely accused this one he stole from that one, he did this he did that. So these people are going to take from his good deeds. And then if his good deeds are exhausted before they get their heart, their bad deeds will be thrown on him.

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So don't be like that, as he mentioned in the Quran when I took kuno collecting metadata hustla Harmon by the kirtan and katha Don't be like the lady who knitted and she got it all fixed and it was done. And then she ripped it up. So don't go and do a total full hij swear in arafat tough walking and then at the end of the day, all of that is going to go to somebody else.

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And allow Tyler is the tussle analyzer agenda is the way he any more questions my man

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perfect.

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To make tahajjud obviously, if someone wants to make 100 they have to go to bed early. Early a person goes to bed bed It is also if an individual has the ability to do the siesta, the pay Lula that was a son of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam after a lot of war, he will go to sleep.

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And once you go to sleep, you become rejuvenated to do the rest of the day. But when you don't do that Caillou lane you go through the whole day, at the end of the day, you're tired, you're just really beat down. It's not part of what our lifestyles are. Also concerning, what we can do is the individual doesn't eat that much. Cut down the amount of food that you consume, especially before you go to bed. And then just read about the virtues of a tahajjud. And what Ally's agenda has prepared for the people who have made the hedges and was a part of what they used to do. If you go to Google and just put in their hygiene tips and attach it. They'll bring you even more than that.

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Last question. The last question, my man

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The eight

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brothers asking about their eat

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and there are events coming up he's mentioned was the age old

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their age will be slaughtered the animal

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for the either of their three days for their e three for their either fitted there's only one day that's it.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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salaried young aklan was schuurman. The day of the feed is the day of eating and drinking and the meaning of that is don't fast.

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It is not permissible for a person who is not performing hedge to fast on the day of aid other three days. As for the people performing hedge, if a person doesn't have the ability to slaughter an animal and he's making the hedge of a tomato, then he has 10 days, three days at hedge three, seven days when he comes home. So you can fast on that day. If you perform a hedge, but the people were not performing hedge is not permissible for them to fast any of the three days of read up ha doing hedge okay, but after he didn't fit after Ramadan, you don't fast on the day of read but that next day, the second of show up you can start to fats have with some Allahu wa sallam robotic I don't

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know why it was a hobby and you may want to welcome our brother back Nora Dean. I was student in order Dean

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was new to Dean I know I saw him. No, the Dean was in Cameroon and hamdulillah and he went to Cameroon to

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see his relatives and a lot returned to them back to us. So we welcome you back at he Nora Dean. I sent a lilac and Jimmy I was Salam aleikum wa