The Islamic Personality – Episode 14

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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Signs of the Hypocrites

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Remember, memorize that just now.

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hamdulillah he come to a very important Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the Hadith that describes some of the many descriptions of the hypocrites or the Muna 15

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issue. The monastic porn is a serious issue in the deen of Allah and this is why we have a sore of the Quran named by this particular issue sorted and when I feel

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the profit used to read it, sell a lot while he was selling them after the hook, but to German yen and sometimes, and we have many of the marvelous lamb writing books, in which they expose the characteristics the many characteristics of a monastic pin scholars from long time ago, and scholars from right now and they are many, like the book simpleton the fact with them, and will never be the descriptions of hypocrisy and putting down and criticizing the hypocrites. It should have been 115 is a serious issue in LA slang. And there are many, and this particular Hadith, we get three of them and there's another narration that we have to add on to this one. Abu Dhabi allies we shall be

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pleased with him. He said that he heard the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the sign of a hypocrite is three. If he speaks he lies doesn't tell the truth. And if he promises he breaks his promise, and number three, if he is entrusted with an Amana, he is left with something to take care of it to safeguard it. He proves treacherous and he loses the trust or the Amana there is a fourth characteristic that is famous as well because this hadith has different narrations. He says a lot while he was selling them were either hacer la fecha. The monastic is the person who, when he argues with people gets into an argument, he starts to become like a magic. He starts to use foul language,

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he becomes very abusive. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us about these characteristics for two reasons. The first reason is for the Muslim to avoid being a person who is exemplifying these four characteristics. If you speak, speak the truth if you promise take care of your promise if you are entrusted with something take care of the Amana no matter how big no matter how small. Also, he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us of this Heidi to warn us of the people who fall into this. Be careful. Be wary of the person who is a liar, the individual who, when he promises he doesn't keep his promise, beware and be careful of the individual who when he becomes angry and

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upset and he becomes argumentative. He becomes a fabric and it becomes abusive. He becomes abrasive, it becomes obnoxious. Beware of all of those characteristics. So that's what this hadith is all about. And this class is talking about the characteristics of the believer shall see it to the Muslim shall see you to Islamia to the characteristic of the Islamic personality. This is what this class is about. We've taken a number of a hadith that describes how the Muslim should be

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Everybody here has to make jihad, jihad, the knifes to be a person to the best of your ability to avoid these issues to avoid these issues, the characteristics of the monaka P. So the Hadith said I yet and monotherapy is a honey has multiple meanings in this religion. One of the meanings of iron is a sign, you know you have the ayat of the Quran, the iron, the iron of the Quran, the verse of the Quran, but I is also an alumna and an AMA Hello Tyler mentioned in the Quran asking the question, our token loan, I didn't benissa eel have a sign. There are many signs telling them that Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was going to come and the way his book was going to be

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his descriptions, his qualities, the qualities of his companions, or the dwama like him to the point that a lot mentioned in the Quran, Yari Phu Kham ayeyarwady, funa epanet. They know him the same way they know their sons up close and personal. So when he came, they asked him a number of questions. He answered all of those questions, but they played around and he rejected some of the law when he was sent him so I it It means a sign, I have to monitor the sign of the monastic history. As for alimony, or nofap This is a word that should be in everybody's vocabulary. I think nifa is an audible Am I correct? Is that word and in fact, in Orlando is the word and he found

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me fast means hypocrisy, the follow up from the verb nefa in Africa, or Norfolk, you know, the tunnel that you go through the long tunnel, where on the outside, it may go through a mountain and may be underwater, they call that enough up. It's like a hole that mounts he goes into the the mouse he runs into the hole. linguistically me fat is where a person shows something outwardly. And the outside, he's showing you one thing, but on the inside is something else. It's a different reality. It's a different reality. And that's why one of the characteristics of the moon African that was mentioned in the Quran, your kulula bl sin at him, Elisa, Lubin, they say with their tongues, that

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which they do not mean. So they say outwardly we believe in Allah, we believe in Islam. We want good for Al Islam. We want good for the Muslims, they say that, but inwardly there's not the reality. If something were to happen, and it was to afflict the community, or some of the Muslims or one of the Muslims, they rejoice and they're happy. And if something good were to fall upon the Muslim upon the community upon the Ummah, then individually becomes upset, and that's why the monastic came during the time of the Prophet. Some of them love why he was sending them. They posed a serious threat to Ellis lamb. They are worse they are worse than the clear non Muslims, in terms of the men Zilla in

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terms of their daraja they are worse than those people make chick with a law like the nosara. And like the yahood like the Missouri key, they are worse because those people are clearly saying

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we have animosity towards you. We don't want your religion and we want you to know that there is enmity and animosity and ring core between you and us. So you know your enemy is or as a monastic is not that situation. The monastic is that individual who he smiles in the foot in your face all the time you want to take your place is a backstabber. Some people have friends who are Muna 15 smiley face and people have husbands Muna 13. Some people have wives Muna kin lope Salawat. Allah, he was an employee, he had a wife who had the characteristics of a knee fart, and that when he received the guests, she will go out behind his back and tell people come, come, come, come come to the house.

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Lord has some guests who have visited come into Fallujah with them. We found a bit mushka so Allahu taala mentioned about them in the Quran and then Muna 15 at the dirt kill us fairly min and not the Muna 15 are in the lowest portion of the Hellfire lowest portion. So this is on this Hadith, I attunement, the alamat of the Muna frikkin

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Malacca, Tina quani they have a lot of characteristics as I told you a lot. And that's why the scholar of Islam they took care of writing about them in detail. Like I told you, you can always rest assured that he man abubaker even Abby dunya remember that name? Even Abby dunya he wrote in everything

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Especially the issues connected to the heart. And so looking at an app and adapt, absorbed anything you can think of Reba, Mima wherever you can think of an email even Abby dooney wrote about that issue. And he brought the C factor more than 15 and the mama boo jafra Tavi, all of those scholarshare Islamic Guna Tamia has a very important book Kochi terrible he man, that book Kitab al Eman is a book in which he's refuting the people go against Atlas Sunnah as it relates to a man, what is the meaning of an amen? What does it consist of? It's a refutation against the merger, and people like that. In that book, he talks very extensively about me, and the moon at 15. And a

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scholar of Islam said, and the man who Tamia wrote in many of his books about these characteristics that if someone were to come and put those things together, where he wrote in different places with a Federica, you'll get a very large volume of this issue is because of the danger of it. The scholars of Islam took their time in order to deal with this issue. It's important you guys understand this right now. Pay attention to you riesa.

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Ninja ninja is of two types. This Heidi said, the ire of the moon Africa straight if he lies, if he speaks, he lies we know people will do that. If he promises he breaks his promise, we know people will do that. If the individual were to be entrusted with something, he breaks the trust, we know people do that. So is he a monastic? Because one of the ideals says anyone who has one of these characteristics, he has a characteristics of them when 15 anyone who has all of them, he is a monastic heartless, he is a pure monastic. So someone will really read this hadith. And after reading this Hadith, he sees an individual who falls into these issues, and then they'll say you,

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you are Catholic, and then you make took fear of them. So we have to understand. This study shows us a very important point and Ellis Lam and that is there are two types of ni fi two types of ni fi. The first type of hypocrisy is then the thought of actions ni fi Amelie when the fact of your actions you do the actions of the Mona Lisa pin, but you are Muslim, not only are you Muslim, you can be a movement. You can be a movement, but you have qualities that the Mona Mona if it came they had a low tide I mentioned the moon after cleaning the Koran were either kombu Illa Salatu kamuzu, Salah Yura una nessa

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Malaya Kuru La la la la kalila the munaf Akina those people who, when they stand up for prayer, they don't want to pray they stand up lethargically laserline. They don't want to do it. And when they stand up to pray, they only remember la little bit. They not really thinking and contemplating and concentrated. That's the situation with many people are gonna say No, he doesn't pay attention to this a lot. Because he doesn't know Arabic that well, he doesn't pay attention a lot because he's a person who his mind he's hard for him to concentrate and focus this is like that. He doesn't pay attention to us a lot because he's negligent because he's tired, because he had a head injury at one

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time, many issues. We're not going to say this person caffeine, there's an action of the monotherapy. It doesn't put a person outside of Ellis land, he can still be a movement, the movement can fall into those characteristics. The second category or type of me five is the new fact at party the new fact of the aqeedah where a person believes and that is he doesn't believe a lot. He doesn't believe in Allah. He doesn't believe Allah. When Allah revealed things in the Quran he doesn't believe in. When the Prophet speaks sallallahu sallam, he doesn't believe that he's Assad and Moscow. He doesn't believe that Prophet Mohammed was in Abhi, or su sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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doesn't believe in Yama, piano. He doesn't believe in aspects of Islam. It doesn't have any a man in his heart. That individuals outside of the fold of Allah said, so then he fought and many is called me fat and a scar, the small minor nifa and the fact and at 30 is the major knife up and you can't get it twisted, because you say me Falcon asker It doesn't mean that it's insignificant because it's called the Miami flop, just like knee jerk or coffered anomaly. A person does the actions of the kuffaar. But he's not a caffeine. He's not outside of the religion. But the fact that he's doing that thing like swearing by other than Allah azza wa jal, still a major issue. So then the fact

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anomaly is a major issue. Three things again mentioned in this hadith if he speaks Eli

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If he promises he breaks his promise, and if he's entrusted with something, he breaks the trust. Now, as it relates to the issue of the three descriptions, a lot can be said, We're not here to get into all of those details. But just to gloss over the issue, the first issue that the Prophet mentioned sallallahu alayhi, WA, and he was sending them is, if the individual speaks he lies.

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Lion is not permissible in the religion of Allah Islam by any stretch of the imagination or any situation except with three exceptions, only three, left everything.

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not permissible, permissible after that. You can lie as the Prophet says some of the law what he was saying the laser be Kevin, laser be Kevin, fifth, the last three things are not considered to be lying. The first thing is when you want to make a slot, been a nice, this brother is at odds with that brother. And as a result of that you step in and you say, hey, hey, hey, this man's book, well have you and this man defended you at an assembly and imagine this that I was in and you lie about something that's not true. And you're saying that to bring people together? Because Ellis lamb your stay default. There is a head of a mobster in Ellis lamb a golden objective for unity slam came to

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make us brothers and to make us united. So it allowed you to lie to bring two people together, which goes to show how important unity is in Ellis land. And when I say unity, I'm not talking about an empty slogan ality had ality had unity unity. I'm talking about unity based upon the keytab. And the sooner, we cannot be united with people curse, the companions are dwama Ye,

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we cannot be united with people who they believe in the 83rd of the qadiani is in the media's we can't be in unified situation with them. Because they're not people of this Milla because of what they say not because Abu sama doesn't like them. But because of what they say and what they believe. So we're not talking about that unity of the JAMA is a CIC. Those political groups I saw in Egypt, some of the people from the one Muslim mean, they gave praise to saying Merry Christmas to the Coptic people, and they call them our brothers, our brothers, and that talking about that muffin, and that understanding of unity, no. And Islam wants us to be united, regardless of your color,

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regardless of your geographical background, regardless of your wealth, regardless of situation. So when we have problems, Islam came to legislate that we have to eliminate those problems like like the DS go up to allow Mondays and Thursdays, Allah will forgive everybody for sins, except to people who are fighting each other.

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So that's an encouragement to hurry up and make a slot. And one of those legislations is this issue, and allows you to lie to bring two people together, or a group of people together, or a family together, this family is warring with that family got to make Islam.

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The second time or exception is a man can lie to his wife, as the Prophet sets on the law when you sell them, and the wife can lie to her husband. A lot of times the men, the brothers just hold on to the Hadith, and there is it that just says it's permissible for a man to lie to his wife. There's an ad that just says that, but there is another Hadith, just like in this case, the iron of the moon Africa three. And then there's another Hadith that says for there's a hadith that says a man can lie to his wife. There's another one says that the man can lie to his wife and his wife can lie to him. So the husband can lie to his wife and the wife can lie to the husband. And what we will call a

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white lie, if you will allow that although there are no white lines, I'm gonna say they're gonna take that off the table. They are no white lies, insignificant, easy lies, none.

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Kevin is a Kabira from the Caribbean. A low tide of commanded will cool new ma saw the theme. Be with those people who are truthful and save the truth. Even if it's against yourself, even if it's for your enemy, let's say the truth and our religion. So a man can lie to his wife. When he's not going to steal her rights. He's not going to trample upon her rights usurp her rights, and vice versa. If it says something to her, that's not true, but it's going to make her happy. Like her cooking is good. In a meal that wasn't that good. That she looks very beautiful and very attractive after she has put on weight after having children. For an example. He says you're still the most

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beautiful woman in the world to me, like when we first got married.

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He doesn't really mean that. He doesn't he couldn't mean that. But he doesn't really mean that. That type of Kevin is okay. permissible, because it's going to make the the lady happy. And it's going to make the husband beloved to her, and vice versa. And the wife can do the same thing to the husband, same thing. The third incident and the third exception is in war, and how to die when you at war war is treachery in his lion, although in Ellis lamb the rules and regulations and war, it's permissible to lie. But what does it mean war here? What does it mean? It's when the Muslims are at war with their enemies from the non Muslims. He's not you being at war with another Muslim. And then you use

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that and say, I can lie to him based upon the deen law. It's not the case. So you remember that those three times are exceptions to the rule, that it's permissible to lie to make peace between two warring factions, two different sides to different groups, permissible for the man not to lie to his wife and wife to the husband, as long as they're not stealing each other's rights. And number three, it's not haram to lie in a state of war, and even the profits of the loved one, he will either it was seldom, he used to use this issue to trick the non Muslims when it came to war, when it came to him making hedra As for what we find the Rafi the doing of Iran, Iraq and Pakistan and Bangladesh

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and Afghanistan and Lebanon, those people who say that Dena Lima labtopia, Allah who he doesn't have a dean, the one who doesn't have topia, Tokyo's lion. topia is lying.

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That's outside of our religion, unless a person is compelled in a state of war, he's in a situation he's gonna get in trouble.

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Like what used to happen in the past, where the leader of the Muslims would be looking for a good person, a good scholar, a big scholar, and that scholar is hiding from the leader. So you as a student of knowledge, you as a person from the community, some of the religious people from the Senate, they wouldn't rat him out, cheese him out, grass him out. And if they were asked, Where is that man? Do you know where he is? They say I don't know where he is meaning right now. I don't know where he is. And there's another issue in the scholars. I've mentioned this animal Hadith. And the science of Hadith there is this thing called at least, at least is a whole Kevin, it is the brother

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of lion at Teresa's, when you say something to someone to make them think something else, but you're really not lying. And some of the great scholars of Hadith used to be guilty of this and some of the Tabby team, they would do that said the nice and a hadith. And they had good reasons. So some of the scholars said it was okay. And most of them said is not okay because it's lying. But it's not the straight up outright lying that makes a person that can that and makes us Hadeeth mogadore.

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dummies. A man took knowledge from this man over here took knowledge from this man over here. Everybody knows this man by his Konya, Abu Bakar, Eben Abbe dunya that's what everybody knows his name. So if the man says in the narration, I was told by Abu Bakar, he's a good scholar and Hadith, everybody's gonna think he's talking about Abu Bakar even I'd be doing it. But he says, I was told by Ahmed because Abu Bakr reppin, I'll be doing his name is Ahmed, but people don't know his name is I met,

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the man said, I met told me and he meant Abu Bakar. And I'd be doing it. But he did that with someone who's weak, and he wants to people to think that he's talking about and the man army or another admin who is trustworthy. That's what to the lease is. And there are different types of degrees. The point and thing is to Denise is a part of Lyon is the brother of Lyon. And it's not permissible scholars of Hadith looked down upon it, and they didn't justify it. And they didn't accept the justification that some of the tabbing came up with justifying this issue.

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As it relates to the issue of al Qaeda, the Nabhi was a loved one he was either it was setting them brought a religion that showed us that there are different levels and different types of lies online is not the same. When a person lies and he says, well, law he is worse than the person just lying. A lot extra question. a rhetorical question was in khari, woman Evelyn woman minister, Allah He kept Eva, who is worse, who was more impressive than the one who lies on my lap. He lies I'm Allah. And we have some people who do that from these mvat hip. We have people who do that the Muslims do.

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against each other. When we have enemies one to another, people make things up about other people and attribute to them. It's not even true. It's not even true. So in order to show his meta habits, right, a person and make up a hadith and say that the Prophet said this, the prophet said that, and he's lying. They'll say that the Hadith is in sale Bukhari Sahih Muslim, and is fabricated in order to get the person to just believe it. You guys have to be careful and what if you're not and that was a people send out those text messages that say, get rewards by sending this out to the next person. But when you read in the text message, what it's saying and what is commanding you to do and

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encourage you to do any Muslim has the basic knowledge of Islam. Although is said in the text message, Heidi Bukhari

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Do you have to know this stuff is crazy. This is no Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the moon, the moon, the moon is making to walk around the Kaaba and the 13th of this month or the 12th of that month.

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And people just believe that and they send it out to the next person. And some people will lie and they say, they'll make up the Hadith and they'll say it was collected by a Muslim.

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And you think he's talking about a Muslim? He said, No, it was narrated collected by a Muslim. But when you read it if you're not paying attention, he's getting you to think with Ted Lee's he's talking about a Muslim the famous book and it's a fake Heidi fabricated Heidi, for Kunal Masada Kim, don't be with the people and don't be from the people who lie in the speech. Lying whiny is a characteristic that is the Mima because it's a silent indication that a person doesn't have bravery. He doesn't have courage, say the truth and let the chips fall where they may say the truth and let the chips fall where they may. So if a person knows is going to reflect negative on him, he's going

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to have a problem concerning it. What he's saying certainly truth, the fact that he has a token and Allah lamb lamb, he understands his names and his attributes. He knows that nothing can help him harm except a lot. So he says the truth how it is. second issue that he mentioned something a lot while he was selling it, why the

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same issue. When he speaks he lies, I did this, I did that I went over there, he told me this, I saw them do that it happened, this happened. Then when you go and check it, it's all false.

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If you find a person like that, know that he's a cadet and keep your eyes open. The second issue is, if he promises you, he breaks the promise. Let's meet at this time. Let's meet at that time. Let's meet over here. Let's do this. I will be there. I'm going to give it to you I borrowed the money, I'll give it to you. And he doesn't do it. He makes the life of the wife. That's a sign of the moon atapi Allah subhanho wa Taala praise the believers in the Quran. And the prophets Allah love what he was sending them in many, many ayat configuration Gita, like the statement of a lovable Tyler well and move forward to be it him either.

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Those people who when they have a contract, they make a promise, they stick to their promise. He says he's going to give you the money is going to give you the money on the day that he said he's going to give you the money. And if something came up that was out of his ability just didn't know that was going to happen that was going to have a flash and be mufflers he didn't know. But when that day comes Well, before that day, he's going to call you up and say, Hey, I'm not going to be able to pay you can I get an extension as for running from you and dodging you not? Meaning you hear me new there. That's from the ayat of the monaka pin. You made a promise. And from the worst

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promises because breaking promises of different levels, breaking the promise that you gave to a dad, it's not like breaking the promise that you gave to someone else. The promise you gave to your mother is not like the promise you gave to someone else. You younger brothers. Hey, Mom, Hey, Dad, I'm going over to so and so's house and I'm promising you I'm going to be well behaved. I'm promising you I'm going to call you. I'm promising you as a youngster, you can be one of the people fall into the eye of the moon as a key. You work for people and you make promises. We came here to this country. I'm from America. I told these people, I'm on a contract, I'm promise you, I'm going

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to stick to the rules and the regulations. I'm going to do the law. I'm going to do the law. When I break that promise, I can't justify them and say these people have monastic key. I'm in a war with these people, as some of these people took field and Jihad doing, taking the ayat of the Quran, a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and misconstruing them the kuffaar then da Muslims, so therefore I don't have to keep my word. I don't have to keep my promise. No, that's not the religion with them more so than anybody else. You got to keep your promises

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Given down Allah Allahu tada describe the companions of the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them. What are the Alo I know, men I mean Rajab Sakuma de la la minuman Katana boohooman who minion, Mama but deleeuw ptab de la from the men from the believers are those men may lobby please with all of them. They took care of the promise in their contract to a lot from them, those who went out and fulfilled the promise and they lost their lives. They made the

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the complete sacrifice the ultimate sacrifice, and they leave their lives down on the line, and they lost their lives. And there are some of them who are still waiting. So they continue to perform jihad, until they even got a Shahada, they got the Shahada, or until they die in a way that Allahu taala decreed for them to die. So Allah described them as men, and he praised them in that eye. And he said, they didn't change anything. They didn't change anything, after the death of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So the rafidah when they come and they say that the companions of the Prophet SAW the love while he was setting them, they should have chose I leave and I be taught him to be the

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halifa. And they should have done this debate in this and they say that they're speaking and they are lying.

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You actually you hold what is lying in your religion, that you're gonna say it's not good. You asked in Asara. Where is the position of lie in place in your religion? They're gonna say it's a bad thing. You accept people curse the companions from these rafidah they're going to say the one who doesn't lie with topia he has no Dean, you have to make Tokyo Tokyo to Tokyo to the people of the sooner it's like the cadion is in the media. They have a slogan love for all hatred for none. The meaning of that we have love for everybody but hatred for others sooner because appeal, the sooner gonna say, hey, mirrors out we'll admit he's outside of the fold of Islam based upon the Quran and

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the Sunnah, so they don't like that so they won't like you. So that slogan is not true. Love for all hatred, for none have a hatred for Allah sooner.

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So my point is the issue of lion as your religions crazy as it relates to promising making promises. They are not all the same breaking promises and not all the same. From the promises that we have to take care of. is the promises that were connected to the marriage. You agreed and you promised, you agreed and you promised when you sat with her family, and they chose you and they said, it's okay. You promise you're going to give her her dowry. You promised that you were going to be fairing just because you have more than one wife. You promised that you were going to protect her you are going to provide for her. You promised a father You promised a people all kind of world.

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So the individual no one's perfect, but he has to make Jihad and he has to remind himself and as to keep on reminding himself and repeating the vicar a I got to get on top of this issue. I have to get on top of this issue. And word. The word is going to be looked into. Lastly mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in this Hadith, the individual who is entrusted with something he breaks the trust the Amana The man is serious and Ellis lamb honey, and one of the signs of Yeoman Akiyama is that the Amana will be lost. The man came and say God also law, when will yomo kiama? When is it going to be? When is it going to be a prophet sallallahu it was setting them day in pay attention to him. The

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man acts, when is it going to be then pay attention to him? When is it going to be? And then the answer to him sallallahu alayhi wa it was cellular. He told the people sell the love while he was selling them, either. We'll see the number in a really early if responsibility is given to the wrong people. The incompetent unqualified people, they become the ones who are responsible for different things like the dean. He doesn't know what he's talking about. His understanding of the dean is warped. He's not qualified. He's not competent to get on the member or to talk to the people because he's teaching Schick Cofer Cora fat beta.

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The ship that he's teaching, he understands it as being Islam.

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He understands to be a towhee the Buddha that is teaching he understands that it is the Sunnah.

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The hora effect, Hocus Pocus, he understands that this is a disarm and tibba Hocus Pocus, like the dream, the dream what they call it again.

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People were things that make the dream the bad dream go away.

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That dream catcher

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How can a Muslim possibly buy for himself something that the Native American Indians use, you can wear it you can hang it up, and you believe that this thing if you have a dream is going to catch the bad dream, and the bad dream is going to miss you. That's what I felt.

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When I went to India, you go into almost any store Muslim, Sikh, Hindu, and you find in the store, they have that eye that's there to protect people.

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That's Islam.

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So the yomo kiama will happen when wrong people are in the positions of responsibility. So the man said, the man said, or the Prophet said, sallAllahu wasallam, the man said, When is your piano? He said to him, sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam either do the actual monofin together Assad is the amanar His laws than the hours close wait for it. When is your mo piano? When the Amana is loss? Then wait for the hour, the man said and how is the Amana going to be lost? He said people will be put in positions of responsibility and they're not the right people. The man is serious in a retinal monitor and a similar way to an RV with G bar for obtaining admin now was * them in ha

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ha ha ha insane. We project it or we we offered the Amana to the heavens and the earth and the mountains that they would take responsibility of the A minor. But they refused. And they were afraid and they thought it was too heavy. And they refused. But mankind took responsibility for it. And the mankind he is oppressive and he is ignorant. So from the Amana again, as I mentioned, the amount of our children are you

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stated, Go wash your face, come back and don't get your calls or wet neither, right?

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The Amana our children are the Amana. So we have to be on top of our kids, everybody here you have little brothers and sisters, maybe your mother, your father not really practicing Islam, or maybe your mother and your father. They're not really out in society moving around, they don't know the language that well, they don't know the system they've been in all this year, all this time. They don't know the system. But you know, it's your job, to go to the school, and to secure the Islam and the protection of your brothers and sisters shujaa that's in a manner in your neck, and a manner our kids that we sit with them, we talk to them, we read the Quran, we teach them to memorize the Quran,

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to the best of your ability and a manner. If a person lets his kids sit down, and he has access to social media, without any supervision open ended, he has lost the Amana and the people came up with these smartphones and this Facebook and they came up with this stuff. These people themselves say our melon market have a smartphone. Because they know the harm of that stuff. What it does to the eye what it does to the brain. Some of us are programmed where if we don't find that smartphone, we thought something happened to it, we will literally freak out.

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Not just because maybe you have a picture of your wife in the air without hijab on not just because you do internet banking, not because that is just a part of our lives. If we lost our son in the supermarket, we'll keep going up and down the aisles of Morrison saying he'll find me he'll find me. He's gonna find me. He's either gonna come up each and every Island till he finds me or he's got enough sense to know, wait for me at the cash register. But if he left his phone, some waiting to have it. He's gonna backtrack everywhere that he went and he's gonna have anxiety. Where's my phone? Where's my phone? Some of the people who panela us when we go to sleep, you know? And you wake up in

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the middle of the night to three o'clock in the morning. The person picks up his phone although the light is going to wake you up focusing on what is written you're using your brain now you're gonna wake up

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and that's because it is an addiction. Just like heroin and crack.

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You know a crackhead. is a phone hit. Some people are like that. The amanar don't leave your kids like that, unsupervised. Amanda, Amanda, you work at a job you have a job to do that's in a manner. They don't have to be looking over you to force you to do the job CCTV to tell you don't take the most half out of the masjid. Don't steal from the coats that are hanging up.

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All you guys have to do is go on YouTube and put in the YouTube

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Robin the mask the mask, Robin the mask or the message ID you'll

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going to see a catalogue of people breaking into the massage all over the UK. They broke into our mess check, why didn't break in. He actually waited until everybody left and he was hiding in the toilets. And then he came in with a crowbar and went inside the safe.

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And it happened another time when they broke inside that room over the has shattered the walls, the glass, Amanda, Amanda, Amanda. Lastly, if he argues, he proves to be a person who is treacherous. Everybody here has gotten into a situation where he got so upset, he got so hot, that he wants to say the things that are not appropriate. Some of us have the ability to hold back and some of us do not. It is a human quality that we have. So human quality that we have. I mentioned today in a talk that I want to rectify something that I've been saying for years, but a brother brought it to my attention today that it was wrong. The hadith of a vulva and Bella liberabit

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and narrated the famous narration a famous narration in which is said that I will never became upset with Bill Oliveira by and he said to him, yeah Penumbra at a soda. You son of a black lady, you son of a black lady, the inward

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and then I will read the line who he apologized after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sat down Buddha. Did you say that to him? He said yes. He said the camera on speaker j Do you a person you have j Liang you racism is a Jay Haley. Characteristic racism is Jay Haley from Jackie Leah.

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Do you criticize him because of his mama? The color of his mother's father and they gave birth to him that way status for this man's leg is not like that because he made it like that. This brothers right here his head is not like that. Because he just had it like that. This guy right here. His miniature Afro is not like that. Because his his uh, he has something to do with that. Nobody has anything to do with that. You have something to do with the way you're grooming it. This brother right? He has a gray beard has nothing to do with that. It's hereditary sunova law. And you're going to blame him like a ginger. You know, they say the ginger person that ginger. The ginger is the

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child of the devil. So some people as soon as they see someone who has ginger hair. They think something is inherently wrong with them.

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A lady that has blonde hair. Some people think she's a bimbo. She's dumb, just because you got blond hair. Who thinks like that? Some of you wear glasses, because he has a glasses. He's a geek. He's glasses. So our kids grow up with a week left eye a week right eye both eyes a week. But it can be rectified by the law because they caught it in time. He's five, six year old wear your glasses. He won't wear him because it's not cool that people think I'm a geek. I want to tell you brothers is better to be a geek than it is to be a thug is better to be a geek and a nerd than it is to be a gangsta. Because the gangster is going to jail.

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The thug is gonna get stabbed shot, he's gonna stab someone shoot someone with a nerd. He's gonna mind his own business, and he's gonna get a nice job is shala My point is these stereotypes is from Jay Hillier. And that narration that's inside Buhari. It wasn't the way I've been now reading it all of these years. panela all of these years. And I said hamdulillah Mmm, Abdullah Abdullah Mubarak is to say, Rahim, Allah humara de la jolla, or up, may Allah have written upon the person who gives me my gift he gives to me as a gift, my shortcomings, and he says to me, hey, you're going overboard, hey, you're not being fair, hey, you're not being balanced. Hey, what you said is wrong. It was

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inappropriate, on and on and on and on and on. So we're going to deal with that in Sharla. And one of the classes because I've been writing down those things where people told me, Hey, this is not right. And then I researched it, and the hack was with them. I tell them right away, that's correct what you say, but I want to take some time out maybe once a month, and just go over things to rectify those things. So that'll be free inshallah, with Elijah Giuliano PM, as it relates to the issue of promise promising and breaking your promise, they have to stick to that. Even as I said, there is no white lie in Islam, every lie is black and bake. And there's something that we do as

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parents that the Prophet said, don't do it. Solo law when you said,

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Don't say to your children, hey, if you do this, and you do that, I'm gonna take you over here to that track where you could do the gold card and you know, you're not taking him. Don't say it. If you do this and do that, I'm going to take you to deserts.

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Desert desert or some wherever these places a co star place and Coventry roll, ISIS is a core ISIS

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icecast Cafe, I'm going to take you there, we're going to get milkshakes. If you know you're not going don't say that the lady was trying to get her kid to come to her. She had a date. And she was saying, Come, come, come on, come on, come on, come on. acting as if she has something she didn't have anything coming, get it coming into sweets coming, get the candy, come and get it Come and get it. Brother Mohammed told us a lot of what he was saying. If you don't have any, you're not gonna give it to him as lion. Kevin,

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if they do what you asked them to do your 12 year old daughter, 13 year old daughter, if you clean up the kitchen, I'm gonna give you 10 pounds. If you let me wear your hat, if you let me wear your hat, I'm gonna give you five pounds. Gotta get a man of five pounds after that.

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And you can't say He's just a kid. I'm the General and he's just the soldier private in the army. I'm the General. No, I'm not the general is his hat.

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So the Muslim has to be a part of this. We're gonna stop here and shout lies with gel. You guys have any questions about this? You can put your question forward inshallah houttuynia. The cannon to come shake? How in the Khushi Harmon. So do you guys have anything? There's one thing I forgot something that's a problem with the Muslims, especially the Arabs. And I want to make the 10 beyond this. I wrote it here. I want to mention it.

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In the Muslim world, with the Muslims in the Arab world, and everywhere else, the Muslim will will promise you I'm going to do this, I'm going to do that. And he knows he's not going to do it. So if you want to be sure that he's going to do it in the Arab world, the Arab say, is that the word in Gz? Or the word of the Muslims? Is this promise, you're making me the promise of the English? The Americans? Is that an American promise? Or is that the Muslim promise? Because the Muslim promise, you know, you just sent in sha Allah. That's when you say, sha Allah? Do you mean in sha Allah of Islam, the real inshallah or this inshallah you're not going to do it?

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So this individual who thinks like that? Are you talking about the promise of the American the American promise, the white man promise? Are you talking about the brown man promise Pac standing promise, the Muslim promise? Not only do you have some inferiority complex? And you look at them as being superior to you, but you're not even seeing what's real? How many promises as America made to the dunion to people? How many promises did Obama make to the people? How many? How many promises do they make? And they break their promise? Were you talking about the English promise? The American promise? Wait, where's that come from? The promise of the white man? Well, what are you talking

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about? There are some white people who they take care of their promises. And there are some Muslims who don't. And there are some white people don't take care of their promises. And there are some Muslims who do so if you want to say that don't say is that the English promise? Or the Arab promise? Don't say that. say is that the Islamic promise you're making to me? Or the promise of hypocrisy. That's the correct thing to say. You guys got that. We have to kill this thing that we have. We have to kill it. And we have a lot of statements like that, that go against the religion, love for all hatred for none. We have to hate some people. We have to hate the people who are doing

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volman fist and schilke gotta hate the shikara hate that hate the people as Allah hates those people. But we are fixed to that. We're not teaching hatred. We're talking about the context of La snam properly can make that statement What are you talking about? That statement? I went to the Arab world I saw Muslims there but no Islam. I came to the west I saw Islam but I didn't see Muslims you talking about? You have an inferiority complex. But with this new generation, Isa, I you want you guys to bury that stuff. Kill that stuff. All right, if you guys have any questions in Sharla, about today's does the hadith of Abu huraira nibin Omar and have a Fibonacci a man, read the Alon whom you

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can put your question for.

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The for the

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perfect ficam barakallahu li li qu

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a key figure shefa letter U Ri hoca

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sent a shift will have the OSI shala nets, they have an opa demo, we'll call them for does a lady feel eligible a lady by the hand. And Heidi can be half an hour. So if you look at our chef, he's originally from Eritrea. And he lived in a time and an era different from ours, different from yours different. I'm a bit closer to him, although he came from a different place. So as a result of that, his experiences in life, they are much different from what we experienced in the younger people today. So he's mentioned in some issues about some things that our children need to be taught made to be understood to allocate, like the real meaning of insha Allah and the real meaning of giving

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your promise and doing these things having fee of Allah, but that's what we're going to deal with inshallah, in the coming week. We're going to be having a toughy behind that. When there's a lot dialing with flippin er comm we may you hibou we had there were some of the low we'll send them about a gallon abena Well, I know early he was hobby Jemaine was Santa Monica rock to live with a guy to just want to acknowledge for you brothers since the tumbler here in green lane, the conference, there was some brothers who attended that conference after that conference. They went over to Leicester. They attended that conference from Leicester. They went all the way to London.

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They did the conference of our brother dollar, man, they were there. And then from there today, they came right here to our Miss jet. And this is something that causes the eyes to become cool, and they're hard to become cold in a positive way with Sakina. You guys keep up the good work and may allow time to make your path to get a knowledge a path of success. suparna kolomela behind the COVID shadow in La Ilaha Illa and start Furukawa tupu la Santa Monica Mara to LA you