The Islamic Personality – Episode 13

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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Avoiding Doubtful Matters


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The speakers provide wide range of caution advice on traveling to various locations, including certain areas and certain areas. They stress the importance of privacy laws and encourage caution when traveling to certain areas and certain areas. They also mention a "branded area" where people are not allowed to drink or eat anything. Speaker 1 emphasizes the need for privacy laws in the future and the importance of men being prepared for divorce.

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We come to the next Hadith today tremendous hadith is some of the dilemma of Allah Islam say that the whole religion of Islam revolves around this particular Hadith. Anyone who studied the 40 Hadith of Imam and no we would have heard would have learned that the scholars of Islam had if the laugh between themselves as to this issue of the two Hadith that the whole religion revolves around it, or the three Hadith or the four Hadith. The important thing is for the Muslim to understand that this

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particular hadith is open for discussion today and explanation is one of the most important Hadith from the July man, Al Kedem of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa, it was set up and his Hadith that is multiple Eiling he meaning Imam Al Bukhari and an imam Muslim. Both of them have agreed that this hadith is authentic. And as we mentioned many times over the years during this time of fitting and shuba hat, if the Muslim hears that a hadith has been agreed upon by Imam Al Bukhari, an imam

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Muslim, then he should have no doubt as to the authenticity of that hadith. In fact, it has reached the highest level that a hadith can possibly be reached in the dunya. And for that reason, or Allah marvelous lamb gave a lot of service and commitment to those two books. With the book in particular lumen Mirjam famous difficulty he or she Han, where the chef came and only focused on gathering a book in which only the Hadith that Al Bukhari and Muslim agreed upon the authenticity of those

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Hadith. So that's a very important book that should be in the library of each and every Muslim. Today's Hadith one is the hadith of betterment. This companion and Norman had been Bashir, may Allah be pleased with him, and may Allah be pleased with his father. Both of them were from the unsalted both of them were from the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa either it was salah, and Norman Bashir has a number of a hadith and a number of mawatha for situations that are important

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during the lifetime of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was said he said that the Nebby of Islam and Mustafa in which Teva and matar May Allah subhana wa Taala has peace and blessings be upon him, he said. Verily the halal, the things that are halal, and things that are halal are clear. And the things that are haram are clear. And between the halal and haram is the gray area. Not many people know about those issues the gray area, the Moshe Behat most people don't know about, is it halal? Is

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it haram? So he went on to say some Allah who it was sent it to them. So anyone who avoids falling into that gray area. He has protected his deen and he has safeguarded his honor. And anyone who has fallen into that

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gray area, the gray area you don't know halau haram, it may be halal, but it also may be haram. So therefore you have to avoid it. If you avoid it, you will infect you will effectively protect your deen. And your honor, if you fall into it, you fall into the haram. And then he gave an example. He said, like the example of arrivee, the example of a shepherd who has some animals, that he goes close in the pasture of a king. So he has his animals, a bunch of sheep, goats, cows, camels,

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whatever. And he takes them out to pasture to eat, it comes to the pasture of a king.

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And every single king, he says something Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he has his sacred land that nobody should be there, nobody should walk there. Nobody should have a picnic there. No one should allow the animals to graze in that pasture. Because it's the sanctuary of the king. Rarely, every king has a pasture. So the one who falls into the gray area is like the shepherd who allows his animals that graze in the pasture of the of the King are close to it. And then the animals get closer and closer

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and closer to the sanctuary of the king. And then they fall into it. He didn't mean for them to fall into it. He was trying to keep them away really, but he can't control the animals. So just by the nature of the animal, they kept stretching, now stretching now stretching out until eventually they fell into the sanctuary of the king. He said Verily, Allah has a sanctuary as well. Allah has that place where you shouldn't go. Allah has that place where it's not permissible for you to come close

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to it. And that sanctuary of Allah is those things that he made haram. And then he mentioned another aspect that is connected to this hadith and he said, Verily, inside of the body, there is a morsel of flesh. If that morsel of flesh is solid, the whole body is going to be good, pure rectify. And if that morsel of flesh is fasci, that is no good, is dirty, is messed up, then the rest of the body is going to be the same way. He said very early that most of the flesh is the heart. As we mentioned

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this hadith 20 So very important Hadith The Prophet said many things, some Allah when he was sending them, just as we have in the Quran, certain servers are more important than other certs and certain Ayat are more important than other ayat. And in fact, he has the greatest Surah of the Quran. AYATUL kursi is the greatest ayat of the Quran. Similar to that some of the Kadem of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is more important more emphasis than other statements of Rasulullah sallallahu it

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was setting them and this is one of them. This is one of them. This is a Hadith if the person understands it, and he practices it, it will protect him or her from a lot of things that are happening right now. Right today right now right today, and all Masjid in the street at the job at the University at home. If we understood this hadith, and we implemented this hadith will protect ourselves from a lot of issues the hadith of a Norman even Bashir, He began by saying sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam that the halal is clear and the Haram is clear. So for Muslim our religion is not like the religion of the

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Al Kitab where they make halau according to their desires, and they make haram according to the desires haram and halal in our religion comes from the Quran and the Sunnah. It comes from Iijima consensus of Lauren Emma. It comes from LTS. Haram Halal doesn't come from what you think what I think doesn't come from democracy doesn't come from what the majority say it doesn't come from what the rich say. It's what Allah and His messenger Allah subhanaw taala is established. And then his

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messenger he said in the Quran, for an example what a hello Hubei. Allah has made commerce trading, buying and selling Allah made halal, or he'll let the comb buy him a tool and Allah has made halau for you. Those animals that are the Anam, you can eat camels, you can eat cows and you can eat sheep and goats and all of that no one can come and say those things are halal or haram because they are clearly Hello drinking

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water drink exams I'm drinking orange juice drinking Pepsi. All of those issues are halal. No one in his right mind is going to say drinkin zamzam is haram is clear is begun, as the Hadith set clear, like the clarity of the sun that's in the sky. No, Kedem very clear.

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And the opposite of that you mentioned some law while he was selling them that the Haram is clear as well.

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The ayat that we mentioned what a halal Allah Who bad were haram Riba, Allah has made buying and selling and commerce halau that's halal for man for a woman White Black rich, poor, educated, not educated LIVE in Birmingham live outside of the Birmingham is allowed, but he may riba haram. So the Quran came and made the tongue sleeves and gave the loss and say this thing is haram, her remit and a common Mater to a dumb zero. Well, my Hillel raid Allah He may haram for you is to eat the meat of

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animals that are dead. Or they eat the meat of animals that have blood in it, or to eat the meat of swine, or to eat the meat of animals that divination came from that thing when I took through neffs and let the Haram Allah Who level up don't kill someone who Allah made it haram for you to kill that individual. So murder is haram haram except in the places where the religion allowed it. You murdered someone now was halau for you to be murdered as a result of LP sauce. But the ISA said

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don't kill the knifes that Allah has made haram. So the halal is clear and the Haram is clear. And then the Hadith said, what being a woman a moron wish they be hot. But shaking the book. He didn't bring that narration, he didn't bring it with a word is a mortal wish that he had. But the reciter he recited that one because it's also authentic. Between the halal and haram are those issues that are ambiguous, it's the gray area. Not many people know about the gray area. So that's important

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word of warning that we have to have in our Islamic vocabulary, Moshe, Debbie hat, that's one of those words in fifth grade in Islam, that the student of knowledge should know you don't have to be a big time student of knowledge. But this concept and this word should be understood. The most stubby hat are those issues that the scholars had the life in the issue. There is the allele that can show is this way. So some people said hello. There's de Lille, that says is that way so some

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people said It's haram. And it's hard, it's hard. You can't say over there, you're definitely wrong. And you can see over here, you're definitely wrong. And that's why it's the Moshe Behat. It's not clear, there's some Denizer between the scholars, there is de Lille that makes you get the Tarjei to this side, there's delille that make you give the third J to this side is better to stay away from the issue altogether, look at it as being haram and avoid it, don't do it. Even if you consider the

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other is halau. You consider that that's what you think that the lesson is better than state from way from this area. That's one of the meanings of Moshe Behat. It also can mean which Debbie hat is good mean, it's ambiguous. You just don't know. For one reason or another. Like it's a situation that is new to us right now. I got a call as the imam in my Masjid from a person who used to be a man. And now that person is a woman. And they had a sex change. And they're living their lives as a

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woman now, and they want to know, can I come to the Joomla?

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And if I come to the Joomla Where do I sit? That's from the bush W hat.

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If you sit down with the women, you're sitting with the women a person who used to be a man if you sit down with the Windward if you sit in with the with the with the men you sit in with you're put in with a group of people who he believes they believe that they are a woman and they're sitting with the men.

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So we can't let him do this. We can't let him do that. You sit in the office over there by yourself you sit in the office, we have a microphone you can listen to it, but even that even that is going to make the person feel isolated ostracize going to make the person say what is this religion? So do we say to that person go and find some other people like you and open up your own Masjid? So this issue is from the machete had Halal haram he accepted Islam after that operation.

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We're going to say that lifestyle is not permitted.

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Sibyl, that operation is not permissible, but it is what it is the reality on the ground? Can he come to Joomla? Can she come to Joomla? What should we do? That's from the witch Musa Behat. We don't know. It's that gray area. So we have to come up with something, don't let him do this. Don't let him do that got to come up with something else. So then which fell behind on those things that the DLL can show this, or the DLL can show that and the a lot of examples of it in the books of like

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many of the brothers who are reversed to this religion, a man and it's not just exclusive for the reverse, but a man could have before Ellison had a baby out of wedlock and you had a baby girl, you had a baby girl out of wedlock. That child that is born out of wedlock, even if you are Muslim, if a child is born out of wedlock, that is not your baby in this deal. It's not the child of the Shediac can inherit from the Father. That girl can take the father's name. That girl the father is not a mom

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for her. It's been to Xena.

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So been to Xena.

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Now the issue that comes up in the books of fifth is since that child can take the Father's name it doesn't inherit from the Father. The Father is not a madam for that girl. Can the father marry her? Because if she's not from his daughters the item the Quran is clear. Hurry mud Aleikum Maha Takuma

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to come haram for you, your mothers, your daughters in your sisters. You're saying this is not as daughters from Xena. What makes the child the man's son or daughter is the Nika

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the Nica if the person has a baby outside of wedlock, not as child, okay, can you marry that girl? That's from the Mr. Behat. Don't do it. And the majority of the scholars said this is not permissible. The Jim hoard I want you guys I'm giving this to you as an example. I'm not saying in the first example, that the LBGT Q XYZ is okay. I'm not saying that. Nor am I saying that this thing is permissible to marry his daughter from Xena. Those are the examples of what might be hot can mean

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it's not clear as to gray area. So that's the meaning of the mosh Derby hat. As it relates to the issues that are ambiguous this hadith helps us to understand something really important in our deen and that is, number one. Anything that is not clear, then don't do it. Don't do it.

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There's a hadith that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he was asked, If a man touches his private part, does it break his rowboat, he said, It is a piece of you, it doesn't break your window, just like your ear is a piece of you. Your head is a piece of you and your arm is a piece of you. If you touch your stomach, it doesn't break your elbow.

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But then there is a another Hadith that he says anybody who touches his private party brokers will do that and make will do again.

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So you had that authentic idea? And you say, yes, it doesn't break the will duel. No, it doesn't. He has this other Hadith. And he says

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that it breaks your will do. So in this case, is the gray area. Because some people said this, some people said that it's the gray area unless you have the ability to go with further step. And you can combine the two and work with both of them by saying, if you touch your private area with desires, you do it with Shaohua with desires. And you have although you touch it with desires, it breaks your will do. But if you touch it inadvertently, you're drying off, you touch it inadvertently it doesn't

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break your will though, so you're dealing with both of the Hadith you're working with them. But without doing that a person may say I'm going to take the sign that says it doesn't break your will do is the gray area. So you have to avoid things when it is not clear. Years ago when the scholars didn't know all of the harm of cigarette smoking. They said it was disliked a long time ago. But then when it became quite clear and quite apparent that its harm was serious. They said it was haram

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back then back then some of the scholars said It's haram because they could see some of the harm not all of it. Haram back then at the beginning when this was introduced to the community is something you should avoid.

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Because you'll come you'll know piano and when you come you'll know piano after falling into the thing that is ambiguous. If you find out your piano that this thing was halal and you did it you won't have a problem. But if you come your piano and you find out that this thing that was ambiguous as haram, you stayed away from it, so you won't have a problem. So if you avoid it either way, you won't have a problem you find out it was halal or haram Yama, piano, you won't have a problem.

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Don't throw the dice don't gamble. And the issues of the machine Debbie had I asked you guys right now, you're driving down the street and you go to a new city in Brooklyn, New York, or we don't have to go that far. Let's go to the shower. Or Islamabad, you go to one of those places, and there is a street you don't know much about and it's dark, two o'clock in the morning 1230 at night. You don't know if they're criminals on that street highway robbers on that street while animals on that street

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you have no idea is that a street where it's common where people put bombs and blow people up? If someone told you a this machete hat is from the machine who we don't know anything can happen. Everyone with his right mind is gonna say I'm not taking a chance I'm not going down that street. That's how you have to look at it.

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That's how you have to look at the Musa Behat when they come to you. Should I get A a loan a student loan? Should I get this? Can I do that? You if it's not clear, don't do it.

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Don't do it. Save yourself. If you fall into that gray area. You have fallen into the Haram, you have fallen to the Haram and you compromise your deen and get ready. First thing first thing when the ambiguous issues confront you avoid it, avoid it, marriage, whatever the case may be, you meet the girl you want to marry the girl you went through the whole process, but there is a Sherpa and that is what she divorced properly from her husband. It's not clear. She's saying one thing but

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we're hearing another thing and so forth and so on. And he's saying don't do wait until everything is clear until the halal becomes begin

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to the Haram becomes begging you avoid it for the sake of your deen and for the sake of Your Honor. The other thing is the statement of the Prophet and this as it relates to the Masha Debbie had Sultan Allahu alayhi wa sallam said Lai Allah Maha Hola, hola, Mohalla cathedral Mennonites. Many of the people they don't know the gray area and that's because the majority of the people don't know the religion. The majority of the people don't know how to make a stupid Lau how to get the deal.

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Most of the people don't know if there are multiple deals and they seem to be conflicting. Most of the people don't know how to work with those deals. If and I love the Quran is appearing to conflict with a hadith of the authentic sunnah. Many of the people don't know how to harmonize. Which brings us to the third point and that is this hadith is one of the Hadith that show the virtues of the dilemma of Al Islam though and Mr. Avila snap, because Allah azza wa jal has raised are in a man

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this religion. And Allah subhanho wa Taala has made or the name of this religion he made them to be the inheritors of the prophets and the messengers Salawat the light was sent mid Jemaine, but Rama, who are Rossi, whom they know the ambiguous areas, listen to me a Kewanee.

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Many of the DUA that have gone to Medina, and they came back to the west, sometimes when we start to go to the universities, especially in the West, Yale, Harvard, Cambridge, and these universities, you hear some of these people talking in the way in which they put the scholars down. And they say, the scholars are afraid of this, and the scholars are afraid of that. But I'm not afraid to go to

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the scholars are afraid, because they don't think forwardly. No, but I think and I have forward thinking, anybody who talks like that you got to run away from that person. That's not the person you want to sit and take knowledge with. Because that individual doesn't understand this concept and Ellis lamb. Allah has raised up the scholars and that Kadem of yours is putting them down. The person says, I'm the first one who did it I came to this conclusion. Yep. But that's a clear proof

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to me. When you know the man had just said if you know some of these principles that are there Mike came with came up with a long time ago, they will you will be divinely protected like this issue. Avoid the gray area. And Imam at me used to say all the time, beware of taking a position that you don't have a scholar in that position who preceded you, not that you just have a scholar, a scholar made a mistake. And he said that the mole it was okay. So the person says I have already a man who

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proceed now it doesn't mean that it means you have a bona fide qualified competent scholar taking that position with delille with support

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Don't you be the first one who arrived at that conclusion? If that were to happen you in trouble.

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If someone came to you came to me and said, he's the one who said that he's the first one and the only one. I know without knowing his name, his father's name, we come from his background when he was injured, I noticed a problem.

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Because not possible for anyone here to be the first one to arrive at an Islamic conclusion. It's not possible. Not possible. It's impossible, impossible, not possible. So in regards to the virtues of Islam, they there are certain items, certain a hadith that are very clear that we use all the time. This is one of those deals that show the virtues of the of Ellis lamb leyendo Munna cathedral Mennonites, many of the people don't know, but the Rossi Hoonah filter and they know people's

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knowledge they know. And their geographical location doesn't have anything to do with the price of peanuts. A person can be a scholar living in Senegal, his name is met Lord, in Senegal, you sit down with him, he never saw Birmingham in his life. But if you talk to him, and you tell him about the situation, because of his knowledge of the Quran, and the Sunnah is knowledge of the history of Islam, his knowledge of fixing the soul of fixing the language, and so forth and so on. He's going

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to develop an idea about what you're talking about. And he's going to give a ruling based upon what you're saying is possible because he's never come to Birmingham, that he doesn't get the full picture. It's possible because he never came to Birmingham, that if you don't give him the full picture, he may not get it because you're not giving it all to him. But his ability to give a ruling in that thing is far greater than the ability of the regular people of Birmingham, beware, beware,

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whiny off this dial in this column from many from some of the brothers who graduated from many Medina and other places, Medina and then they came back to America or to the UK. And they went to Yale, and they went to Cambridge, and they went to Oxford, and he went to these Ivy League schools. And they're saying, though, right, I don't know.

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No, it's not a nice position. It's not a correct position. But that'd be you. sallallahu alayhi wa ala Ali was setting to mention in the Hadith, feminine, feminine taka HSUPA had forgot the step bruh. The Dini, he will add anyone who makes a taqwa and they call a Taqwa I'll eat the car means to avoid something. So a tough one means to avoid those things that will make Allah angry with you. electric car, you have a shield, and you're going to block the thing that the person is trying to

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hit you with.

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The companion said Kula, let Turkey be Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, either she did to harp, if the war became very hot, we used to get behind the Nebby. And we used to have this cop. He was our protector by Allah's permission, showing how he was strong, and brave and courageous. So anyone who avoids the gray area, two things happen he'll get to hustlers to hustlers first thing by avoiding it. He protects his Dean, because if you fall into the gray area, if that's what your

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religion is, to fall into the gray area, then you're going to fall into the Haram by default. The Prophet sallallahu it was setting him saw one of his grandsons, either Huson or Hussein walking.

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And he came upon some date, one date that was on the ground, and the grandson of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam arrived, the Allah I know when to pick the date up date.

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He went to pick it up to eat it. When he picked it up. Rasulullah saw him and he said to him, bah, bah, to get his attention. And to let him know put that down, don't eat it. He said we have been prohibited from the outside of the people. We have been prohibited prohibited from the dirt of the people. The meaning of that is not from the dirt that's on the date. Now you can eat that date. The meaning of that is

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that date may be from sadaqa and you're from animal bait hasn't Hussein and the people from animal bait we can eat and accept anything from a Zakat and Sadaqah that's not we can't do that. We don't do that. We could take a gift but we can't do that. So that is the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam avoiding the

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gray area he doesn't know, is this thing they did fall out of a basket that someone was bringing in for the cat sadaqa?

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He didn't sit there and say not, he could have came up with a million reasons. I don't think so. We should eat it. Because if I don't, if we don't eat it, a sheep is going to come and the sheep is going to eat it. You could come up with a million reasons why, oh, it's so insignificant. It's so simple. No,

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you're in Mecca. You're in Medina, you in the streets of Birmingham in this message it if someone loses something in Mecca and Medina, the last items in Mecca, Medina, you can't pick it up, the only thing you can do is pick it up to give it to someone to say this was lost so that the necessary people will take care of it here and this semester, you find a nice pen, it's not your pen, don't go and say, if it was someone's pen, they would have been here right now asking for it. If this person

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loses this pen, and it never gets back to him, it won't damage the quality of his life. I'm just going to keep it can do that.

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You go to the supermarket over here, and you're shopping in Morrison's and you're going down the aisles and you're checking out the grapes like that you're checking out the grapes, you shouldn't check out the grapes like that.

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Because you don't know that they say that's okay. It could be in the culture of some people and some marketplaces in Africa. And some marketplaces in Nigeria. When you go to the date place or to the weather selling food items like that. They would allow you to take one or two, they would allow you to take some of the pumpkin seeds or sesame seeds or whatever. And because it's their own of their customers, okay. But do they let you do that at Morrison's I don't know, maybe they do. Maybe they

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don't. It's the gray area. So therefore don't do it. Don't do it. As it relates to the Hadith, the one who avoids it, he protects his Deen, he won't fall into the Haram The way he will fall into the Haram if he was laxed and easy and negligent about the gray area. The gray area. When you go to people's homes, there's the gray area. There's a gray area in the People's House.

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Many gray areas. If you don't know don't sit there. If you don't know don't open up the door. We're waiting for the brother and we need to get out. So when asked to go to the toilet, a chroma Kamala, but we don't know what's on that other side of the door. We have to not don't just open up the door and see what's going on.

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As it relates to this hadith of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa It was said that the Prophet gave and illustrated something that the Arabs of this community could comprehend. And something that we can comprehend as well, which goes to show he was the greatest my limb the greatest teacher, he would teach with given examples, dub. And so he gave us a method that is my source, he gave us an example. He said the one who falls into the gray area is like the shepherd who

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is grazing his sheep in this area where everybody is the community grazing land, right he everybody and anybody.

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But quite naturally, you cannot you cannot keep every sheep in this area, they're going to wander off and the closer closer they get to Kingston, you're going to fall into it. Once he falls into the king's property sanctuary, you're in trouble, the king is going to keep that sheep and you're gonna get in trouble may lose all your sheep go to prison.

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And that's what happens when you fall into the gray area. And that's the meaning of that hadith. If you're laxed with the gray area, you will eventually start falling into the Haram The Muhammad Allah that is his sanctuary those things that are haram. So you have to avoid it altogether. Again, that was an example of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam given the double Antheil. This hadith one is one of the Hadith that the scholars always brought when they wrote about and what and Zote as the

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author and the art is a person

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taking precautions. Now you have to understand this, you can't be extreme. This hadith is not telling you to make everything haram. I told you there are things that are halal that are clear. You can't say I'm not doing that thing because the gray area I'm not going to drink Mountain Dew I'm not going to drink Pepsi. I'm not going to drink Coca Cola and that's because the Jewish people they make that so I gotta boycott them. It's haram, we can't drink that a What are you talking about?

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Even if Jewish people may that are the Zionist and even if Zionists were the ones who produce that. Who were you to make it haram where does it come around?

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You can make things haram on people. You can't do it. So you can't

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be extreme and make Halal things haram and say, No, I'm having water I'm being aware. I'm being careful can do that.

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As it relates to the gray area, though, you have to be careful. So those scholars Al Imam, admin will care, even Jura all of them brought this hadith, or chapter about this hadith, because this is one of the Hadith that will help the one who was Zeid, you know, a long time ago, they were not known as people of the soul with or Sufis there wasn't known as that. They were known as people who had Zeus. People are water. It's an Islamic concept at the soul worth is not an Islamic concept, and

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the way it has become right now. It is an innovation with what's going on the way is being done. But back then this was a part of what it was to be a Muslim that you have to struggle to watch what you say not to over talk, watch what you eat, don't over eat don't oversleep. I told you last week, I think it was Al Imam a share theory Rahmatullah. He said, I accompany the people of Sofia, I went with them at one time, and I didn't benefit them nothing. I got no benefit from them, except one

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thing. And that is the statement. The time is like a sword. If you don't take care of the cut you other than that, I didn't get no benefit from them. Same way with the people from Jamaat to bleah you can be with Jamaat too bleak for 10 years. And your knowledge of Al Islam is going to be reflective of an individual who's been with Jamaat public for 10 years, and that you're not going to know much about your religion. Does that mean they're in the hellfire?

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Does that mean that I'm saying there's no benefit that those people gave know some of our demo before they knew their reality used to praise it and that's going to pay me not to lie to you. But when it became apparent and clear, it said don't go because the harm is greater than the evil What's The Harm, falling into innovations, not knowing your religion, big problem.

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The Nabi SallAllahu. It was something I want to ask this question. After mentioning this about the Halawa in the Haram in the gray area and the sheep, the sheep fallen into the king's sanctuary. He said, after all of that, Verily, in the body, there is a morsel of flesh. If it is good, the rest of the body will be good. If it's bad, the rest of the body will be bad. Why did the Prophet mentioned the heart here? Salatu was Salam was the connection of the heart to what was mentioned in the

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Hadith. You know, we should name my brother

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you know?

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You guys was fasting today.

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The body was fasting today. You look like you have your thinking cap on. What's the connection between the Hadith halau clear haram clear the gray area, and the one who saves himself from this gray area saved as Dean saved his honor. Because if he falls into the gray area that people are going to talk about him. The gray area is there's a red light district.

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The gray area is is a red light district is a previous place we would get we'd get drugs, the criminals hang out. We always seen him there always. We don't ever see him drinking doing drugs. We don't ever see him doing anything. We don't see that. We don't see that at all. But the fact that he's there all the time is going to make people say Oh, this is from the shuba heart is always what's going on. So the people will develop those ideas. Why did they be mentioned the heart some of

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Allah? Why do you sell them after mentioning all of these things? What do you think?

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As close as close into

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because as the Hadith said I center.

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Verily inside of the body, there is a morsel of flesh, if it is good, the rest of the body will be good. His eyes his hearing his desires, where his feet go, and where its feet don't go, what his hand touches and what his hand doesn't doesn't touch. What is the sand says and what is the sand doesn't say?

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The Prophet says some of Allah what He was saying about the heart. Every day the son of Adam wakes up his body part say to his heart and his tongue. Fear Allah, his body parts say to his tongue, fear Allah, Allah, the way you go is going to determine the way we go. How you act today is going to determine how my whole day went. So if you're watching what you're saying, and you got

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Have you been careful, you take it easy, then your hands, everything else is going to follow suit. And the heart is in charge of all of that. So if a person has a good heart, the good heart is going to make it easy for him to say, Nah, I'm not I'm not eating that date. Am I going to eat that day? Even if I'm hungry? Not I'm not going to do this. I'm not going to do that. Because it's not clear to me. I don't know halau haram, I don't know I'm not comfortable with it. So I'm not going to do

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it. And then you want to intimidate yourself a lot. It was sort of as we said already, if that mortal flesh is solid, solid, then his whole body will be solid. If that muscle flesh is fasci, that no good, the whole body is going to be a problem. So that goes to show us in this hadith to the different types of hearts in Ellis lamb, there are many, many hearts in Ellis lamb, many, many, many, some good, some bad. One Heart is the heart that is solid, that you have a heart that is

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sought as good as pure.

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Another heart this hadith is the heart that's fasted, the one who has the solid heart, who will avoid *can coughing and innovation riba name EMA and if he makes mistakes, he'll make Toba il Allah, the heart that's Fassett. He doesn't have the ability to do that. He wants to be like the fly, who always is going to land on the dirty, stinking things that smell bad, they're no good. They they they themselves a facet from the globe in the Quran is what Allahu Taala said for you to be

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modeled for zygoma Mala, who mandala is the heart that sick. So sick, this is sick heart. Right here in Birmingham, 21 year old kid in Birmingham the other day, it's going to get a lot of time. Hola Hola Island, what did he do? What did he do?

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He went inside of this funeral home and have relationships with a dead body. He's gonna go to jail. That's a heart that's married is sick. So what the Muslim has to do is he has to avoid that type of and there are many collo there is the heart that is my N. As Allahu Taala mentioned Allah basically Allah He touched my envelope. Because of the vicar of Allah and with the Deccan of Allah, the heart becomes tranquil. He has problems he has issues, but because he's connected to Allah, he reads the

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Quran, he's making salah I believe, don't lie, he has a word called tomorrow is the battle of better tomorrow, some of us going die.

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And I will choose you're going to be orphans, and our wives are going to be widows. But the companions are Duan Allah, you name that hearts that will move to my inner. So what happened? They went to sleep.

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They went to sleep, they were out. They were not worrying about what's going to happen tomorrow. And some of you guys who are studying for your exams, if you're still studying for them before the exam can't sleep.

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Those companions went asleep and tomorrow we're going to engage the enemy. So there are many, many, many, many, many, many collo the heart that is why Jin, the one that is fearful of Allah normalmap me Noona levena either Bukit Allahu wa Ji let polu boom. Barely the true believers are those people who when Allah has mentioned Yeah, he tequila Yeah, he stopped you do too angry don't do that tequila. His heart becomes fearful of the mentioning of Allah reading the Quran so forth so on. This

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hadith shows us the two types of hearts, the one that is solid, pure, and the one that is facet and there are many many other hearts when they be useful Allahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa salam used to as our mother I Isha said

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his main door I will say Allahumma mocha label collude, Fitbit be either Dean IC.

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o The one who turns the hearts, established my heart on your dean, give me the that establish my heart on the dean. And there are many, many, many a hadith where the DUA is telling us ask Allahu Taala for a heart that is fearful of him. Caliban Yasha, a heart that is fearful of Allah. Because if a person doesn't have that heart, He can do anything. He could punch his mother in his face in her face. Push the father down the stairs curse a sweat the mother and father just have a constant

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situation where they disrespecting their parents

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Although that's a serious issue, just that alone I mentioned, but we can mention *, Cofer innovation, all of those things, making the the the, the, the Emerald, making the

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the urn of the Muslim halau

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I don't like you, I just say anything, whatever, I can accuse you of anything. And I don't care that I don't have any proof. I can accuse you with homosexuality with Xena with adultery, I can accuse you of stealing anything I can say anything that comes out of my mouth, because that heart that is like that would allow it. Whereas if the person had a heart of common sense, that heart is going to help him to navigate and to take make decisions. Should I say it? Should I do it? Should I not say

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should I not do it? What's the benefit of it? If I send this thing out? Should I not send it out? When am I going and so forth and so on. So this is the Hadith 20 of and Norman even Bashir Radi Allahu Anhu Ummah, concerning the statement of the nebi Salah love while he was sending them, I would advise you brothers, go back into the YouTube into the YouTube or the Google and get more in depth knowledge about this hadith, great scholar of Islam and Imam Eva Raja. And humbly he explained

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the Hadith that an Imam and no we put in his book. And this is one of those Hadith that no, we put in this book. You go back and you put in the Google what did even Rajib say about this hadith his explanation. There's a lot of information. This is a Hadith that no one can afford to be ignorant about and sleeping on it. You have to be woke, cognizant, aware about the meaning of this hadith and its modelo light and what it goes to. Which brings me to the last issue is Shala. Before we take any

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questions about today's Hadith, last issue when he was when I was asked about today's Hadeeth.

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A person said that he does it, he works for it. He does it as a profession. And in order to do his job, he has to deal with Oracle. I heard of Oracle before, but I don't know what it is. I just know it has something to do with computers. I don't know exactly what it is Oracle. Is it like Google or something? I don't know. But essentially is the word Oracle is like something that non Muslims use to tell the future.

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Quraysh people in Africa right now now Muslims go to the Oracle to ask the Oracle about should I get married? Should I travel? Should I open up the business? And there are different things that they do? Obviously, the Oracle won't talk back unless the Oracle is a human being working with the Jin Oracle or ACLAE. So because of that name, is it from the shuba hat for him to work at a job where they use Oracle? No man, it's not from the shoe behind that he is not from the shoe but you have to

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use it as in your job is a word that is gold's against our religion and so forth and so on. People came up with that word, maybe they were saying the Oracle knows everything. So this particular this particular

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whatever it is, we're saying, this will give you everything you need to know. But because they named it and you need it for your job can make things haram on yourself like that. There's a cake there's a cake called Devil's Food Cake. Anybody ever heard that cake before?

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They don't make that cake in the UK. It's pretty nice cake Devil's Food Cake. Because it's called Devil's Food Cake. We make it haram because someone gave it that name. Maybe they gave it that name because you're going to eat too much of it. You have to watch your weight is rich. It's so fun. So they call it that but because of the name does the cake become haram? No. The folks that we use today, folks, the folks that we use to eat I know most of you eat with your hands but those of us

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who eat without forks because we were born here we grew up in the West. Some of the people of the opinion that that fork that fork came from the devil himself, you know the pitchfork so he came up with that and people use this fork they'd like to share our thing. So we're gonna say you can't use forks because it came from no we're not gonna say stuff like that.

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Don't stretch out things and make things haram and halal based upon just, you know, issues like that in medicine. They used to have this thing where doctors would take an oath they call it the Hippocratic Oath with a doctor was swear and take an oath to the gods of the Greeks, the gods of medicine. I take an oath to you gods that

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I'm going to be ethical, I'm going to be honest, I'm going to stick to the rules and regulations of medicine, and I'm going to be a true doctor.

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So they were doing that in Europe, in America, they used to take that oath. You don't have to do that anymore. But they used to do that. So because that's in the medical field, you're going to tell Muslims, you can't be a doctor. Because the Hippocratic Oath, the origin of it is no.

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And it's not for us you would meet to come in issues like this, put our feet in the arena and start giving fatawa because we get one side of the equation oil makes me feel a particular way. So I don't like what's going on in Saudi Arabia nother situation. What we're seeing going on in Saudi Arabia is madness. Saudi Arabia always had drama. Saudi Arabia is not tantamount and equal to Senate fear everything Saudi Arabia's know who said that

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but now what's going on is madness. Madness. I saw some girl jump up on the guy and put a legs around him all this madness, Guy drinking vodka, all of this.

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But because of that madness, I'm going to come and say, Hey, you shouldn't go to Hajj. You shouldn't go to Amara, we have to boycott them. Hey, we took them all hygiene Umrah.

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Don't you know what Allah is Mr. Says has mentioned said about hygiene Ramadan, and you come in because of what they don't know halau and Haram is not like that. Halawa Haram is predicated based upon principles de Lille, how do you get this state law how and so forth and so on?

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Okay, when few minutes, seven minutes Shala for q&a as it relates to today's girls for the kitty

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Do you think

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organ donation, organ donation is a big issue.

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And it has delille to say yes. And it has the little to say no. Mean agilely VALIC Kitab nada bene Surah Al and Newman Catherine nevsun

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Be ready a

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and know who Andaman Catherine Olufsen be arriving left synthesizing for from out of the cut to the NASA Jimmy. Woman ya can NASA Jimmy we wrote against Benny and Sarah ill anyone who say who killed the life and a life that was haram it will be as if he killed all of mankind and anyone who gave life it will be like he gave life to the whole mankind based on that one if you're giving people life be the law you're helping people that I had and other things what? Cause some of the scholars

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says premise other scholars say no, they say no.

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Castile Adam and mate. Cassidy he will who hate breaking the bone of a person when they're dead is like breaking their bone when they are alive.

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So when they get in an accident and whistling their body is haram you can't do anything to their body no autopsy no nothing no anything. So as a result of that it's not for you this that that me to give * was in this issue. That's why this guy was had the laugh about it.

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But many of the Redeemer today have the opinion that this is something that is permissible, but there are a number of them. I will say this is not permissible in the deen of allies with Jenna and allies Island Island. Any more questions about today's Doris? Any more questions for the

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Say it again?

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Can you apply this hadith for coinsurance? Now you can apply clearly for coinsurance from the beginning of the Hadith. And the beginning of Hadith said that the halal is clear. And the Haram is clear. And car insurance is clearly haram. Clearly what I call one wild or combine a common Bill Boulton Don't, don't devour your monies between yourselves with falsehood can do that. And when you pay car insurance, there is a person who never had an accident three, four or five years and he's

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paying that car insurance monthly or yearly. He's paying it and they take it as money and he never got into any drama never had any problem. Be a witch right does he have do they have take his money? So car insurance is haram. As for is it? Is it the gray area? No it's not the gray area

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So the first part about eath is clear is connected. Car Insurance is haram. And then this hadith doesn't have anything else to do with car insurance. Now the issue of compulsion comes into the picture. If you don't have that car insurance, and you get into an accident, something happens, the popo stop you, and you don't have that car insurance. Now you're going to be in trouble. So now I'm going to get car insurance because I'm compelled has nothing to do with this hadith. I'm compelled,

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I'm forced. So you're going to get the car insurance in that case, Wallah who had any more questions or 20? You got to put your hand up because I could barely see it he thought he saw

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everybody here don't eat Big Macs.

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Everybody here don't eat Big Macs.

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Yeah, that's one of the issues that are

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some of the major scholars contemporary scholars of our time. Well, the opinion you can eat this stuff. Some scholars of our contemporary time share had been of a mean was of the opinion you can eat that stuff. And you eat the meat from Morrison's and these places like that. I love that pinion because they are unreal. keytab even if Chinese man owns the McDonald's or whatever, the ruling of the country, the ugly BIA is the I lucky to have Andrew keytab. And then we have the people on the

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other side who say no, you can't eat that meat. All right there Andrew keytab. But they don't slaughter the way Andrew keytab slaughtered in the past. And the way that they're slaughtering the meat is not halal, and it's not correct. So they have that little they have their little, it's better for you to do what, leave it all together. And then you add on to that we're in Birmingham and we're in Birmingham, Halawa is all over the place.

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Granted, everybody's burger doesn't taste like McDonald's, but McDonald's not the best burger. It's not the best burger. And Liverpool we have a joint called Archie's you guys are the arches are Jesus in Manchester and Liverpool and that burger blow your socks off? Much better than McDonald's. So you're in Birmingham leaving, you're around people who they will party and get high and drink and come out of the club. And that's for halau which shows you how much the people Birmingham one halau

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don't pray, no hijab, just everything getting high. But when they come and say I want hello and going to McDonald's. So you're dealing with that kind of mentality. So if you don't have to put yourself in that situation, don't put yourself in that situation. But if you're in a place like Peoria, Illinois, where you have to travel all the way to Chicago, three hours to get your halal meat. So you have to go all the way to Chicago to get your halal and then come back three hours,

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three hours to get halal meat, you don't want to do that. And you don't want to be a vegan. You don't want to be a vegetarian. You don't want to eat fish all the time. You say okay, now let this ruin as he it is going to make my life easier and so forth. So I'm going to eat it. But in these places, London, Birmingham, Manchester, I think it should be avoided. But if someone

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bust out a Big Mac or Whopper he busted it out. When I'm not going to I'm not going to chew him on anything. Any more questions or anything? Not for the

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I don't know much about gelatine man. I don't know much about gelatine. I don't know. But from what I do know, some gelatin has some pork in it. So it's like gray area, but I really haven't really researched that issue to talk confident confidently about alojado. Any more questions? All right. We're going to deal with these last three questions and call the day.

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How to

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how should we destroy the books of innovation?

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Burnham Burnham, Burnham. The companions are the one why I named they took the Koran's that had different written scripts and they gather them together other than the most half of Earth man and he kept that one and all other versions of the Quran, they got him and they burned him. So you burn them. There's nothing wrong with that Inshallah, or you can keep them in order to have them as references, but just make sure no one has access to those books. No one has access to those books

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that they

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Is your family No, this is the corner of the books. This is the corner of innovation, these books here, I don't believe in these books, I don't follow these books. I die and you guys get a hold of these books, you start reading these books and you go astray. I'm making it clear. I'm free from you. These are just references to know what these people are saying. So that's how you get rid of those books. There was another one that fell behind you, man, there was another paper that fell.

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This person is saying if someone is a revert, and his parents had them in wedlock, does these still apply for them after they revert? If a person was born from a nigga, then they're not able Xena, they're able to Nika been to Nikka. That legislation and Ellison, it hits you. You're a person who is not a bastard, you're not a bastard, someone whose father if you don't know who your father is, no, you will a person who is a legal child boy or girl slamming knowledge is even the marriages of

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the non Muslim. So if a man in steps Islam, a woman accepts al Islam, the husband or the wife, we're not going to just break them up just like that. We're going to give the man some time to come to the religion. We're going to give her husband and Jamie and before slam we're going to give him some time to come into this religion before she gets married off to someone else.

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We're going to give him some time because Islam acknowledges and takes into consideration that Nikka last question here this person says actually is small what does it mean to be heavy on the people

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being heavy on the people can mean a lot of things. There was a chef in Mecca chef Adam evil Mohammed a UB from the lemma Well, Hadith that a lot of work and then Hadith he's really sick right now very, very, very, very, very, very, very sick man like him, she fat, being heavy on him is going to visit him and staying there for a long time. Seeing him for 20 3040 minutes and then asking them Halawa haram questions. Just go in, give them love make dua and rollout.

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That's that just to share because anybody who's sick, being heavy on the people is someone dies from Andalusia Hadith from one of our messages, one of our elders, he dies, don't come and expect them to feed you for three days.

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That's heavy on people. I lost my father, my uncle, my brother, my mother, I lost them, and I gotta feed all UCaaS for three days now, too. Don't call me stingy. But I'm dealing with the death of my relative. Now I got to deal with feeding all of you. And also finding the house, the other half to live in

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that sacrifice. And being heavy on the people making things haram that are not haram, judging the people in the way where you're being rough and tough. The Prophet was a gentle man sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was a gentle man. And I think everybody knows that not gentle to the degree where you break where you were you compromise the religion where someone asked you the truth. And you can say, the heart is the way of the self. You can't say that.

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And by saying it, you think you're being heavy on the people? No. Stopping innovation, you've been heavy? No, you stopped innovation in the way that is bet. So being heavy on the people. It means a lot of things. It means a lot of things. Last question here, actually is not the last one. How do we deal with the gray area as say, what does this say right here? Right?

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All right, what's the long been what's the long?

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If a man and a woman got married, but they got married civilly, two Muslims got married civilly, you know, with the city hall with the non Muslims. And that marriage, although it counts for reasons here, to bring your wife or to get certain rights that counts with these people, and Islam is not against that. But you're not considered to be married to that person if that's all you do. You have to get married in Ellis lamb to be able to consummate that marriage to be able to be by yourselves

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together. Allah mentioned in the Quran, Well, Len Len will ever deal with energy and caffeine in a meaningless sebelah we

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haven't given the non Muslims a way over the believers. We haven't given the non Muslims a way over the believers, the legislation is not on us like that. You can't do something like that. They are only to themselves. And we're all here for ourselves. So you got to get married. But at first he did this out of ignorance. And this happens in America all the time, people were with the Nation of Islam, and they are non Muslims. They became real Muslims, but a little bit of knowledge, a little

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bit of knowledge to the degree, if they have a Janaza, if they have a Janaza, Salah for dead person from their community, they'll invite the non Muslims to get into line for the janazah. And if you say you can't do that, they will be upset with you because they're still very far behind. And I have to say to people who are listening to me, we have to do something about continuously engaging them endow, especially those of us who are African Americans, those are our people. Those are my people,

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we have to elevate the knowledge as opposed to just this theta that MCSE No, we got to get these people down. So as it relates to this issue, that's all mentioned to say, you have to get married in Ellis lamb, you young brothers sisters, in order to consummate and to be alone, if you can marry with the non Muslims. Okay? You did that for political purposes, purposes and reasons want to get your visa does that. That's cool. It's not haram, but you're not married. In Islam, you can travel

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with how you can constantly so forth so on. As for the other details of this, I'm not going to answer that here, that that person bring that specific situation to me, so that we can deal with it, and then we'll deal with it. But hypothetical or things I don't know all of those details. I'm not going to answer something like that. Also to divorce. Just like Marian, you have to divorce in LA slam you are divorce.

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And then she starts her head that you don't go to the lawyer into the city hall or whatever and say I want to divorce my wife. And then she starts the divorce process. Now. If you went through those people, you got the divorce like that, okay? That's for politics, your your your dunya no problems, okay, you could do that. You want to protect yourself, want to safeguard your monies, whatever you do that. But she's still your wife, until you take two witnesses from this religion to you take two

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witnesses from this religion.

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Yeah, but oh, the little one. What does it say? How did you?

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How do you deal with the gray area as a lay person, every lay person comes across situations that you don't need a lot of knowledge to know this is a test

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is a test. Your boy your friend, he grabs you and says Hey, Nika,

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we need you to be a witness. Come on, you'd like to be a witness and you go to the house. And when you get to the house, you find that there's a brand new Muslim who's going to get married. And the one who's going to conduct the mica is a person who you know, is a dubious individual. He is dubious

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up like he's doing Nikka he is going to conduct it. And then you look at the situation as brothers 20 years always revert me I'm only 18 and I'm the witness. You gotta say man as gray all day.

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You have to say this is gray all day.

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Black and white mixed together makes great halau haram. This is great. You don't have to be a scholar to sit down and say now I'm gonna give this one a miss. And there are many situations like that. So you don't have to be at a rock have rocket to be a rocket scientist. To know this is a gray area sometimes is requiring knowledge, but for the most part a lot doesn't. A lot does not all the time he doesn't burden you beyond your scope. If the situation is beginning you and you can't

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identify as the gray area. You're not responsible. But Allah will put you to trials and tests according to your ability and will have the ability to know the gray area next week in sha Allah azza wa jal and Thursday we're going to have this class but I think is going to be at seven o'clock I think this class is going to be at seven o'clock stay tuned in with the WhatsApp group inshallah I sent a lie Lake Como barnacle or ficam or something Allah will send them about a gun and they Bina

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Well, it was having a Jemaine cinematic camera to light we're about to cut

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Were those two brothers for the test Kia. Oh, that brother right? And where's that other brother's name was SAML la San Eliza here

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you his father