The Islamic Personality – Episode 08

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim

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al hamdu lillahi wa

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salatu wa Taala he

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were sent out while Ania Bina amine and Mustafa which taba

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y shadow in La ilaha illallah wa de la sharika

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why shadow Ana Mohammed Abu Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Wiley maba.

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Go ahead, my man.

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Today's question is a tremendous Hadith as well that

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sheds light on one of the most important aspects of the Islamic personality. We have reverts in this Masjid reverse. We're listening men and women. People were born and raised in Islam, but they didn't practice at some point. And then they came back to the religion and now they're trying to practice. This is one of those ahaadeeth that everyone has to again, make efforts, take it very seriously. And do your best inshallah Isaiah as the Prophet mentions a lot while he was selling them said the Ducati will do the best that you can try to come as close to the bullseye as possible. And although you may fall short of the mark here or there, and you do it frequently, or sometimes whatever the

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case may be, can't give up. And we can't throw in the towel. Can't have despair, as it relates to this hadith is from the Jomon. And Kevin of Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi. Wa, it will send I'm delighted when you're not allowed to be pleased with both of them.

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And what was collected by Emmanuel Bukhari and Muslim.

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He said something about what he was sending him back. All of you

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have responsibilities, all of you are raw, and all of you are shepherds. And all of you will be held accountable for those who you are responsible for. And he went on to break that down individually. And he said that the Imam or the leader of the Muslims, he is a shepherd. And he will be held accountable and responsible for his sheep.

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And a man is a shepherd. And he'll be held accountable yamo camera for his family.

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And the woman, the wife, she is also a shepherdess. And she's going to be held responsible for her husband's children in his house.

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He says a lot while he was setting them that the serving of a man back then they used to have slaves right now, there are servants worked in the homes of certain Muslims, in the Arab world, in Africa, different parts of the Muslim world Pakistan, you have people who work as servants for the one who owns the house, the family owns the house. The Prophet says a lot of what he was sending them that that had them the serving is a shepherd. And the servant will be held accountable Yokoyama for his responsibility, like his masters money, the money the property of the one who is responsible for him. He said, and the man is also responsible for his father's wealth. So if a man has a father and

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his father is very old, for an example, and he's managing his father's money, his estate, his well being, he's the one who receives or she receives the money that comes from the father's retirement plan, or from the government or whatever the case may be.

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You will be held accountable for that responsibility. So this Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam shows clearly and indicates everybody here has a mosquito, Leah. Everybody is responsible for something. I know most of you young brothers, my students here, you're not married. You don't have your own home. Some of you are so broke, you don't even have telephones even. May Allah help you and I hope you do. I mean,

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do we understand from that, that you have no responsibility? Can level law here we don't understand from that. You are responsible yomo Pm in front of a law first of all for your body parts that you

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Put them in the huruma, the halau, that you take care of them.

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Under the authority on the home of your mother,

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and your father or your father or your mother, in their homes, you have responsibilities. It's your responsibility not to make drama, don't bring the Popo to your house, don't bring the police to your house, don't be the one who causes your mother to take time off of work or from her schedule to go to school to deal with some problems that you became a part of. Even if you were a good kid. You're a law abiding citizen. You have good at the law, your student of knowledge, but there's some but some bully or problem in the school. A person who's a problem giving you drama give you a problem. You have to remember, you have a responsibility. Your responsibility is not to put your mother in a

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hardship not to put your father in this unnecessary hardship. You have the responsibility that in this city of Birmingham, that you're not the one who the people say so and so's daughter. She wound up pregnant without being married.

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There's a narration from this, that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam worre II, live designer

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must own

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an enemy, the man who has an animal and his animal, he's the one who's the shepherd. He's a real shepherd. He's going to be held accountable for his animals. If he's the reason why an animal fell off the cliff and Anam was devoured by a wolf, an animal was stolen by a thief. He's going to be questioned about that. And Omar radi Allahu anhu, if you were to read his history, or not, has a lot of mawatha. And a lot of statements, a lot of situations that happened during his feet alpha, where he looked at being responsible for the Muslims in a serious way. If people went hungry, he felt he was accountable and responsible for them that evening.

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He said, rob the Allahu anhu. I'm afraid that if there were a sheep that would fall off a mountain somewhere and break his leg or get hurt. I was going to ask ebenen cartop What happened?

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So he was serious, he wouldn't waste the money of the Muslims, although it was an issues that were very insignificant people don't pay attention to those issues, like the oil that he used for his lanten to rethink or to light up his house. He wouldn't use that oil because he felt he was responsible for the wealth of the Muslims, the beta man. Today, people in positions of responsibility in the countries where we come from, and it's a green light, the rob the Muslims blind.

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So I'm looking in the audience and I see where people come from. And I've been to most of those countries, if not all of them. Politicians will Muslims, they take the responsibility that's been placed on the shoulders to rob the country blind.

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So when they get money from the UN, when they get money for aid, when they get they steal that money, not to mention all the other money that's there to help build the infrastructure, roads, schools, hospitals, Muslims still all that money.

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So this Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is a hadith that we need to be reminded of, I need to be reminded of this Heidi tomorrow I forget to hold by here in Charlotte region tomorrow.

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I have a responsibility to come to this community and talk about a topic that is not going to make fitness drama. Because I can choose a topic to make drama and fitness I could choose that top topic, but allow Laxmi yomo Kiana, you're trying to settle scores from the member. You're trying to make the heat make agitation of a situation. Everybody here has a responsibility without any exception, even the slave in Islam, the slave can get married without the permission of his sacred. And the Prophet use that word and he called them the sacred, the slave will be responsible for the money of his sacred. There's a hadith where the Prophet said something about why he was sending him a saint

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yet will law that say it is Allah, so don't call the person safe. But this Heidi shows the permissibility of calling someone saying it that that prohibition has an understanding to it. So if the slave person is going to be held accountable for his responsibility, then what about everybody else? That's what this Hadeeth is showing. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the first person he chose was the man for he man for a man raw in mahoma spoon and Yeti the man the leader of the Muslims, his muscle Leah responsibility is not like this leave.

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The responsibility of the people are not the same. So the Prophet was responsible for everybody's Allahu alayhi wa sallam and if we were to look at it sooner, we will find that when people went missing

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And he didn't see people for long periods of time, he began to ask about those who was responsible for and he was saying, Where is the black lady that used to clean the masjid? Where is that particular man that I haven't seen around for such a such amount of time? And it's emblematic. Where is your young young brother? I've not seen him around in the streets of Medina on the masjid.

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The Imam, a normal mistake, almost any msgid any Masjid that he ma'am doesn't know your name. He doesn't know your name doesn't know your name. The Prophet sallallahu it was settled. I knew everybody in the community and he felt he was responsible for everyone. And as a result of that he saw love while he went on it was sending them when the question was put forward, as we mentioned a number of times in this Masjid, amongst the companions, when they were asking themselves, who do you think that the Prophet loves the most? Everyone in the measure has said he loves me most. He loves me most. No, no, he loves me more than you know, you're lying. He loves me more. And they were all

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Where did that come from? That came from the fact that he was connected with the members of the community. Some of our white he was suddenly a bit silly man. It's a terrible man. Who's not in our motor. Now with a Deena he's far away from us. We don't see him. We can't talk to him. He's untouchable. It's not our religion. It's not our religion. So if people in the community needed money, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will borrow money to give them money. If people were in need, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam encouraged the people to take care of this person. If the slave lady has something to say, she would take him to the side of the road and he will listen to

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her. If you came up to him you needed a fatwa, you needed to say something need to do something, you shook his hand. He would hold your hand some of the law while he was sending them look you in your eye, not turn away from you until you were done with your situation. And that's why we say as Allah said in the Quran, the third can Allah comb, Pharaoh Sunni law he also attune Hashanah, perfect example

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perfect example. So there are a number of for why it and a number of collide principles and benefits from this hadith a lot. So as I mentioned a few inshallah eyes or gel and then open a door for your questions or your comments, inshallah. The first car either that we want to make mention of here, if What if Eli is

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the Musalia that Allah has placed upon people being responsible. If a person has a hitch or piano, if a person cheats, if the person is acting in a way where biggest Piano Piano is when you're not, when you're treacherous. Someone has been made responsible for the wealth of an orphan. So he changes the paperwork in the names. That's cheating, that's treachery.

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Amy Musalia, any type of responsibility that a person has, has been wife, father, mother, child, mm. event, whoever it is, if you may dish or piano of that Musalia, it's going to lead to the narrow jahannam Yokoyama may allow to protect us from that. He said in authentic hadith from Allahu alayhi wa It was said that my man I didn't just yesterday, yesterday de la hora eaten

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well who are your mood, your mood your mood was actually right yet Yeti ella harmala Jana, me sleeve anyone that Allah made him responsible for something. And then he died on the day that he died and he was cheating. And that responsibility. Anyone who knows does that allows going to make haram for him the agenda. So that's not just talking about the man. And this is something that I think is from the works of a shape on it's from the Teletubbies of Iblees that we get some of these youngsters who have a nice thing about hey, we love Islam, we want Islam, but we get focused on these. How can he stood on the money still in the money? He's doing this? He's doing that he's gambling? He's doing

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that all that may be true? I don't know.

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But what about you?

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What about you, and yet my school Leah, right now all you have to do is go to school. That's all you have to do. And because you don't have to work, because your parents didn't put a lot of pressure on you. You don't have to go and earn any money. You don't have to pay bills. You should be an A plus student, but you've decided to be a person who's just settling for mediocrity or even worse, you drop out.

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What about your Musalia? What are you doing?

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So me and everyone

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That allows you Joe has given him a mosquito. Leah is serious husband, wife, this mistake, whatever the case is. We have this thing where people are asking the Muslims donate money and give aid to Syria, give aid to Iraq, to a layman give a to all of these places where the Muslims in need of money Sri Lankan Other than that, we give that money we give that money because as part of our religion, we love for our brothers what we love for ourselves, we have sympathy we have empathy, that people who are responsible for that money yo mo pm is a serious issue. I need a this Howdy.

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People are in charge of the monies of the Muslims need to be reminded of this Howdy, because people still in the money.

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So we get all the money from the community. A lot of times with some organizations and some people, over half of the money that's collected goes to administrative fees and not to the people who were given the money for yomo kiama yomo piano Allah me the agenda haraam. Now, don't get it mixed up. Don't get it twisted, I'm not telling you to have doubt about any particular organization, but this is how it runs. So you have to have some level of fear. When it comes to as we mentioned, the and then the Salah, the soul going to the message a walk through the messenger, leaving the messenger going into the toilet akarma Camilla, you have to have some thick, how to sit in the matrix, you had

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to have some fit when it comes to fit when it comes to a southern visa be relaxed enough aka, just don't give money to anybody. Just don't get money just because people saying get money.

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So not taking care of the mosquito, Leah, it leads to the adaptive alarm that goes to show that losing the Musalia is a Kabira from the cadangan because the person has been given a worried that he's going to go to the hellfire. So those will show us a major sin. Because we know the thing is a major sin if Allah is a mess, just said it's a major sin or if there's a HUD connected to it in the dunya. Or if or if the Description The one who does this. Allah is angry with him the one who does this, allow him speak to him the one who does this will be raised up with for our own, the one who does this is from the brothers of a shade on the ones who do who do this will go to the hellfire. So

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not taking care of the muscle via whatever it happens to be is a major sin from the Hawaii that we want to mention as well is the fact that

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as we mentioned earlier, everybody has a responsibility. We don't have this idea, this concept in our religion, where we have passive participants, people who are on the sidelines, and they're marginalized, and they don't have any input with the community. Now, it's not your job to get Dakota, it's not your job to leave a solid, it's not your job to do some of the things that people are responsible for here. But it is your job to park in the right way. It is your job to pick up things that are harmful, that may be lying about outside and inside the machine, it is your job to help keep the bathrooms clean, not to use a lot of water, it's everybody's job to do these types of

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things. It all is your job is everybody's job. Everybody has something to do. The other issue that one from the principle that is really important is you have to look around, look at yourself and look and see how much your responsibility is

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the least amount of responsibility, the lesser that you have, then make sure of Allah. Because the more responsibilities you have, the more danger that is going to confront you is after an hour of them.

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So the Imam, he's not like that had them or the slave. No, they're not the same. The married man with a wife, 345 kids is not like the one who's not married. So you look at your life. You look at your life, and you may say, oh, I've been trying to get married. This is really difficult. I'm living I'm young, and is really, really difficult. As we mentioned to you, I sang Tucker who shaped

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me maybe that you hate something that is better for you. It's better for you to be right now not married. Because you're still not mature, you're still not develop. If you take on the responsibility of getting married, you're going to crack you're going to be an oppressor.

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So if a person has 5789 1015 children that must do when people hear that they say Mashallah, but that's our responsibility in front of Allah. What is he responsible for? Some people think the responsibility is just to give them food and to also you know, give them clothes. That's fine.

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Have an integral part of it really important. But also part of that is their protection. Their Terabithia their learning of the religions, many issues, many issues, this word or ear color camera, and we're Coloma soul and raw Yeti. All of you are writing arise. As I mentioned, it's a shepherd. And Ryan, he's the one who's taken his flocks from point A to point B. And it's his job to protect them from danger is is his job to get them from point A to point B, without anything happening to them. That's the responsibility of the Father. responsibility of the mother. That's the responsibility of this, he died on this machine and the man and so forth, so on. So every time the

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circle of the Musalia every time it gets wider, is more dangerous, and it becomes more serious. So you look at yourself, if you're one of those young people, and all you're responsible for is getting up making budget, get into school on time, getting your paperwork in on time meeting those deadlines, you should make sensitive to sugar.

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Because it could be much worse. It could be much worse than that more severe than that. From the Hawaii, Hawaii concern in this ad. And this was one of the reasons why the setup of this woman the Abu hanifa has the army the mental humbles the mannequin nsfs. The Shafi is of the world Rama to land in this is one of the reasons why they used to refrain from being employed by the government. That was one of the reasons. Sometimes the leaders of the Muslims love this land. And they love knowledge. And they were going to put money in their pocket to help knowledge to grow, and they were going to support them. But that must hear that responsibility doesn't want that responsibility. And

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the man, an Amish Sulaymaniyah been in a run one of the greatest odema in a hadith. And then we have people in Birmingham. So panela wants to make everything halau everything has two opinions. He comes and talks about this man. And this is a Jebel an LS lamb greater than Bukhari Muslim and then

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he didn't want to be held accountable. And Amish didn't want to be held accountable for what it was to be a mohawk death and a scholar of the people. So he used to be anti sociable, no, you can't come to my house and asked me about any questions about Id just wait for me in the masjid.

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Don't come visit me. He was an antisocial person. Why? Because he would have bad o'clock no one dealt he didn't want to deal with the responsibility that comes at the cost of being the Mufti the real Mufti. So today, you can be a machete because you go through any program in the dunya. And then after coming out of that musty program, all you have to do is say, Hello, hello, hello. And you got to find a lot of people going to support you. That's the situation with our religion, with our community called La cumbre. in Baku lucuma school and right at

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that person was speaking on behalf of this dean at the time, he wrote a book he called that book a lamb and motorin. Those people sign their names and their signature on behalf of Allah meaning or lemma halau haraam because of this distance to stay. They're the ones who sign on behalf of a lot person comes today, our community, our community, even people, regular people, we come today social media, everyone has a point of view.

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Everyone feels you know, hurrians, free liberal, just give your opinion. But the one who's a Mufti, the one who's a ship, the one who's in new stead, you have to have some level of water, some level of consciousness, some are clear with you. It's a big responsibility. What I took for my lay silica, bl, don't put your foot in an arena that you don't know what you're doing. It's bigger than you.

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As it relates to these principles. Aquinas is really one important one, and that is my Musalia or the issue of being responsible. It is always connected to the Muslim heart of the thing or the people that you're responsible for.

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So the man being in Iran responsible. He is responsible for the people. his responsibility is always connected to what's in their best interests, if not what's in his best interest. And that's why everybody is going to be axed y'all know pm

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So if the man is responsible for the people, he's stealing, that's in his best interests. He's not fair and he's not just and he's given priority to his relatives, his family that's in his own best interest. That's his desires. Know, the man. His responsibility is this community. hookah has to be based upon what's going to benefit them. There's a lot that he prays something happened to the man. We don't know about it. Something happened. There's a mercy but that hit him somewhere. So he wants to get up after slaughter a shot and they said about the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, if something deserts disturbed him, he immediately turned to prayer. Something happened to the Imam,

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the local Imam, Imam last I'ma holla he gets up and starts reading pseudo through Bukhara with sincerity. And he's turning to Allah, because of the issue with him. His mother, his father, his baby, we're gonna say no,

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you're responsible for these people. So the Prophet told the Imams on the love why he was setting them, men, Salah banasthali, you have fifth for in the memoir, a lKb. World Second World War hajra. Anyone who leads to people in the prayer, let them make it light for them make it easy for them. Because behind him is the person who was old praying in the chair. behind him is a person who's sick, but he came to the masjid. But he's not well, behind him is someone who has something to do, he has to go to work.

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So the car either from this hadith that's on the table, all of you are shepherds, you'd be held accountable. The Muslim have the benefit is for your kids, your decision. And you know, the crazy thing of whiny our mothers and fathers, even the kafar from amongst them, they used to be willing to make some serious sacrifices for us. They were not the best people sometimes in terms of education are total beyond our knowledge.

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But they are ready to make sacrifices where today today, you'll find the father, his sacrifice is about himself. he'll buy a car that pleases Him, not a car, that is the best car for his situation and his children. He'll make a decision that's about my tiszta. He knows what his next one what his desires, his mother does that as well.

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When we get a divorce, when we, hey, you're not thinking about your Musalia, you want to get married, again, is halau. But you have to think about the Muslim have the people who you're leaving behind those kids are with you right now. And so forth and so on. So that's one of the important principles in this issue. Allow Tyler's mentioned in the Quran as a command. Oh, you believe it will law whiterose soul, we're all m remain calm, obey allow Bay as messenger unconditionally. Whatever they tell you to do, obey them, and obey those who have been put in authority from a monk shoe, but you will obey them conditionally, who are those who have been put in authority. The scholar said

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they are the hokum, and they are an AMA, that's who this is talking about. So the leader of the Muslims, they have to understand their position is for the community, the owner mob, the Muslims have to understand your position is for the benefit of the people. And I want you people to remember this as a Notre Dame is smile all of you. You're giving down a lot. You're involved in dour to atheists, to Christians to whatever your family, always remember. Always remember that that was not about you, overwhelming people and beating people up and being superior than, than they are. The Dow was about the guidance of those people. So it's not right for the scholar to come just as is not

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right for the leader of the Muslims to come steal the money. The scholar can come and make the life between the right ear

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can't do that.

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So it may be that this person murdered someone over there. And that person over there, he does drugs and that Muslim over there. He does something like homosexuality, may Allah protect us. So they have to be responsible. You'll know Kiana, but this person who has dour was dividing the Muslims all over the world. That's a serious issue and only Allah knows how everybody's going to be judged. My point is

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don't be a person who has something to do with dividing the area. Students of knowledge making them busy with that

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Which just is a distraction for them from the Hawaii, the honey. And as I mentioned, there are many is that lesson, the Musalia the responsibility is a tech leaf. And it's not to srif. Tech leaf is not to srif not sure if stuck leaf is a responsibility

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to Sharif means, you know you're from Al baith is a Sharif. He's in a an important position. He's a governor. He's a minister, you know, his high, his monster, his job, his vocation, his degree is very high. So the person says, Look, I'm a doctor, look at me. No, you're a doctor. You're going to be held accountable for the sick people that you're supposed to be treating. If you take advantage of them. If you don't do the right thing, if you're not assessable if you're not there to give them hit them on your mukaiyama you're going to be held accountable for that. So it's a responsibility. Look what happened with one of the tremendous companions, his name his or his company as Aloe Vera,

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the Fatty

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Fatty was a Zahid. He wasn't interested in this dunya he was interested in the hereafter. He prayed a lot he fast a lot. He didn't like money. Money was not in his heart. It was in his hand

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to the point where he used to make an under my roof and unnayan Moon card to the degree where some of the companions complained to me about him. You're too tough. You too on top of everybody. Prophet Mohammed Abu. radi Allahu there's a man who in Mecca when the Fulani companions will hide him from the non Muslims having secret meetings for the dour. This man went to the cabin and set a shadow in La ilaha illallah wa la sharika Why should one no Mohammed Abdullah who were a pseudo fresh and started giving him down

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all by himself

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that was his strength of personality. But the Prophet told him some love what he was sending him yeah about that.

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Oh, Abul

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Do not be responsible for two other people like if you're traveling on a trip from Medina to Mecca, you have to pick up a mirror and a mirror. Latta Marana Allah if name

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you guys are three, don't you be the immune let one of them be the mirror. And then he said to himself a lot.

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Earlier now we'll add to the

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other man your team and don't take responsibility for the money of an orphan. That's our brother.

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That's one thing. And another had if you said Abu Dhabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in me urraca diving in, in a manner. We know how Yama Yama is used when the Dhamma in law, Adam and

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I'll be happy. Buddha I see you as a weak person.

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I see you as a weak person. He said being responsible is an Amana. So trust is in a manner. And it's going to come Yokoyama as a cause for sorrow and being lowly yomo kiama. Except for the one who takes it by the truth. So listen, honey, listen, listen, one more time. If you don't have to be responsible for that Sister, don't be responsible for her. She's a revert. She needs a wedding or what kill if you can avoid it, avoid it.

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You can avoid it, avoid it.

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If you can avoid it, avoid the responsibilities and LaserJet is going to ask you about and say what I have is enough. What I have is enough. I'm own wife and my own children. And to do this, I have to do that. Why I'm going to take on board something else. With all due respect. He says I love what he was sending him about this amount and not being to srif for being tech leaf tuck Khalifa. So responsibility. He described him and he said about us on the love what he was sent him that it is near and dear to what bitset al fathima. He said being in a position of authority and having this thing where you're responsible. For example, the guy is the nicest guy in the world. You could talk

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to him, you can approach him he's easy. But as soon as you put them behind a desk somewhere, you can barely get anything you want from him because suddenly the desk makes him a big person. You put a uniform on him he becomes a police man. He's a nice guy outside of that Popo uniform up

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uniform on. He has this arrogance about him. He's no longer human being.

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Whatever the Musalia is the center the Prophet described it. He said it was someone love while he was sending me said it was a NEMA and nordia. It is a blessing it sucked circle, vessel.

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And moto is the woman who has a small baby and she's circling the baby.

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So being in that position of authority, you're still in the money, they give you the best seat in the house. You don't have to wait in the line. You get all of these, these you know these perks because of your position is a good settling vessel. And then he says some of my worry was selling but it is also a terrible and fathima the name fathima like the profits daughter sell a lot of a sudden fall Thema means the lady or the child, the lady who took the baby off of the breasts, the baby who's not breastfeeding anymore. The boys have fought them and the girl has fought the man.

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They will call the child Fatima, the Arabs because it's a sign the baby is growing going to be strong. So they gave him that name.

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He said this thing about position is a bad Fatima. So the meaning of his heartbeat somebody was telling him is that when the child is crying, it's not well, whatever you put them on the breast of the mother grandma come alive starts to drink and is drunk on that milk is drunk from the milk. Just everything is okay. Drunk from the milk.

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And then after that when you take them off of the breast, the baby goes crazy. Some of them have those hissy fits, and they have those tantrums.

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So that's the way being in the position where people are making money. They're going to the front of the line, they don't have to pay when they go Here they go. They you know the perks that people have. You enjoy it now. But there's a price to pay for your Nokia from the Hawaii the whining of the issue is that the Navy is on the level it was sending them as the Id just mentioned.

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Anyone who makes piano to his Musalia, he is treacherous towards the responsibility that he has. Then he is in fact treacherous towards this institution of an Amana because he told arboviral in the heart and Nana, this responsibility is a trust and a manner and the manner the trust being lost is one of the signs of yomo Kiana

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he said something Allahu alayhi wa it was sent him in a man axed him jasola when his yo mukaiyama he didn't answer. He asked him again. When is your mo kiama? He didn't answer. It came again. Yeah, it was sort of law. When is your mo kiama going to be? He told the man some of the law while he was settled in Marathi. as mine, Eva doody, I tell Amanda to fantasize, if the trust is lost and wait for the hour.

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The trust meaning you give me this to hold for you when when you come to get it. I don't have it anymore.

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That's the trust. You can barely trust people from our community today, especially with money. But I think 5000 times before you give someone money.

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He said in the colonial mutton fitna. We're fitting into our material man, every community, they have a fitna, and the fitting of this community is money. So I'm advising all of you brothers, all of you, all of you, all of you think 5000 times before you loan money out. Before you leave something with somebody. Try your best

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because now we're living at a time where that trust has been lost. So the man wanted more further elaboration. He said God also law okay for a borrower to her, how is the trust going to be lost? How? Listen to what he said. Salalah what he was lm con. Eva, whoo, see the

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NRA and de la de la. He said if people were not qualified, are put in positions of authority. When that happens, wait for the hour. That's your mukaiyama that's when it's going to be established. And that's what we have right now. People are not qualified. He told us that, that our won't be established. And to look I'm going to look up he owns the world look I didn't look at is an individual in the Arab folk law. Have an extremely ignorant person, a dumb person, a person who's challenged intellectually. You look at who's the president now, in some of these countries and the way they are, how they act.

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They don't have enough common sense in the quorum just to be respectful to people, nasty pieces of work nasty people and these you may not be smart, but at least have some level of respect and decorum that you can make people feel at least you got some kind of respect know that a man has been lost from the top. So if one

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the Amana and the Musalia they are together Allah has given us number of commandments. Yeah, you will let me know that hunedoara soul what the whole new magnetic momentum Telemundo you believe to not, do not be treacherous towards you Americans. Don't be treacherous towards Allah and His messenger. And don't be treacherous towards the Amana, you have in a manner. Your daughter Your son is in a manner. Your wife is in a manner. Your husband's house is an Amana and a manner

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ladies shouldn't allow in a man's house someone he doesn't want her in a house. He doesn't want him in his house says but he goes out he traveled to his country went to work eight hours every day. He doesn't know who's in the house. She's gonna let someone in his house behind his back because he doesn't know no

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you cannot bring up your children hate and the father can't do that. stepfather must only you have a responsibility that your children look at their dad in a way of respect. Despite the fact that he may not have earned that it's not the job of the mother to put the father down. It's her job to tell the kids a show that it wasn't for a lot then your dad you wouldn't be here that a lot judge him as he's gonna judge you guys.

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So it's a serious issue of a man and a man and no more document. ado, Mr. natella.

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Allah has commanded you people give the amanar back to the people who take care of the Masoli or the responsibility including a quantum as I mentioned, there are a lot a lot of issues on the table. But the next principle is the principle that the Musalia in LS lab the responsibility in Islam, it is mob noon, it is built upon or

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Yeah, it is built upon advice and justice.

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The man is responsible. The man is responsible the woman is responsible. The hardest is responsible.

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The administration he is responsible. This Eman is the hotties responsible the Eman leaving the salaat responsible you are responsible that must only is built upon

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and nos will add in

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advising people advising people who are under your leadership your your authority and also also you advising them as well. There's some reciprocity in the equation. As the hadith of a Timmy modality is clear to me my daddy said to her that the Prophet said subtle allottee was send them the religion is given advice no see how three times now see how to who got us a lot. He said giving advice to Allah meaning having a class to a lobby insincere giving advice to His Prophet sallallahu it was send them giving advice to the leader of the Muslims and giving advice as well to the common folk from the Muslims. So again, again, the authority who is in a position of having people under his

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authority, the mother or the father, you have to give advice to your kids. And you have to be fair in just with your kids as those is said in a lie Moodle calm, Bill idli sand when you tell a little quarterback, whether to do a deal or

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not all of those is be fair be just so the father the father, he is arriving right and responsible. I gotta give him advice. Give him to G turn them that way. Turn them away from those kids away from those friends. Put them here. Take them out of that environment of the school is being bullied that put them in another situation, always looking out for his or her best interests and justice. He told the people some of the love while he was sending him a doodle Bailey baina would it come fair a lot and be just between your children.

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They under your authority. Don't play favorites. Yet, you could take into consideration that this is the oldest girl that's the oldest boy this is the baby. Those are twins.

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This one is paying rent down is not paying rent.

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This one gets in trouble all the time. And because of those nuances and those variables, it can cause the parents to deal with them according to what is on the table, but just being unfair and unjust. There must be another slam, if you're in that position, you have to be phased out to be on you have to be just this mess Jake right here is responsible for who gets this microphone.

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They can't be on this thing where if they're Pakistanis, it was Pakistanis who started this ministry. So no, you have a responsibility that we keep to the tradition of how this message is starting. People being exposed the Dow of the people of Hadith, the Quran and the Sunnah. No apologies, no apologies. The Quran and the Sunnah come to the way those companions understood it, rob the alignment, anybody comes with something other than that, this machine has to say, No, we don't support that. We don't support that.

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So the advice that the machine has given the community is going to be the correct teachings of this religion, it's going to be balanced, going to be a an advice that when we stand before a lot younger, kiama, Ally's not going to hold you accountable for for an example, in this environment that we're living in, we have to be very careful about what we say how we are.

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had a baby.

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girl named your baby.

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The mother says, I want to name the baby jihad. So beautiful men came in your baby Jihad anymore. today. You're in the airport with your wife and your baby runs away and you say jihad, Jihad

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you're going to be in trouble. So you cannot name your kid that name today. Why? Why? Because you have to be politically correct and issues like that.

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But we can't be politically correct on steroids when we start to bend the rules and change our religion. No, they have to be balanced. So with that being the case of Whiting shout lies with the call here in this Heidi, the Tao of this, Heidi, the teaching of this hadith is take care of your Musalia sit down between yourself and Eliza Jellinek yourself, what am I responsible for? And even if you have to ask that question, you young people, consider yourself blessed. When am I responsible for you responsible, go go to school and clean up your room. And don't be heavy on your mother and your father shoulders easy, give me the program, I have to pay any bills. You don't worry about mot.

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You don't have any council taxes, you don't have to worry about anything. Even this issue of going to university, can I take the loan Can I take not take the loan that even on your shoulders, in most instances, something your parents gonna have to deal with. So take care of the Musalia. And we all have a responsibility for our down adapt with the selfie, the Tao of the Kitab and asuna quality with the companions understood or one line name that is easy and balanced. And it's appropriate for the time every time and every base and every condition of the people. So that's everybody's masoumeh May Allah give us the strength, the wisdom, the wherewithal to take care of all of our

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responsibilities, and those responsibilities where there's a smile, and there's seer and things are not being done correctly. Me Eliza Jim, have mercy upon us and don't hold us accountable for those issues. pulu me? Okay, what if we let you brothers have any questions? inshallah, we'll answer any questions up to a quarter to a quarter after iPhone shala. And in the condition

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of the array.

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That's a good question. Are he at center? That's a really good question. That's a really good question. Like I was telling you that the must UI is built upon advice and justice, it may be worth it for you to take take take responsibility for something like the inner be of allies or tell yourself in the Quran salatu wa he was sent me when he when he said and Louboutin has said that he said, Karla ajami, Allah has a in an arrow in knee hafizullah limb

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he the king saw in a dream, setting years.

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They're gonna be seven good years of opulence, a lot of food. And then those seven years are going to pass and then they're going to be seven years where they're going to be a drought, and people gonna need people's expertise to get through those tough years. They

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wanted to make yourself really high in the land. Come sit next to me. You can interpret dreams. You went through all of this. You were truthful, come sit next to me. He had all of those qualities that made the leader want to give him the keys of his kingdom.

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Use of saying no, put me in charge of the storage of the earth, the storage that we have here in Yemen, where we safeguard and we saved the food, make me in charge of that. And he said For verily I am Eileen and Hafiz Aleem, I know what I'm doing. And I'm going to god it.

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So this is a case where a person stepped forward and said, I'm the man for the job. Because the Prophet used to tell the companions and he told us and the lady was saying them, we will not give responsibility to the one who wants it.

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So if we're five people and we're about to travel,

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we say, okay, Nora, Dean, you're going to be the Amir, Abul Isa, you're going to be the Amir because You're the eldest of the five.

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But Ebrahim right here says Nana, I want to be the Amir.

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Mohammed said, Don't give it to him.

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And that's just an example because I know he Burnham is going to be the last person who wants to be the Amir. He said, Don't give it to him. Because that person is looking for the opportunity to breastfeed from the Musalia.

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But it may be it may be that a situation presents itself with a person who has to step forward. And that happened to me when I was a new Muslim back in America with these African Americans. And it was time to make the salah and no one wanted to step forward to make the prayer. I was a new Muslim brand spanking new, I'm not gonna step forward. But the other people nobody wants to step forward. And then this guy just stepped forward. And he said Allah Akbar Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim in the name of a lot of them and any stuttering In fact, in English.

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Right away, this a lot doesn't count. It doesn't count. But it was a case of, hey, you were born and raised as a Muslim man, stop standing back there like that are no pious like that you have to get up the leaders.

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Don't give that guy a chance to make a fool out of himself and the rest of the people praying.

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But obviously, in these types of situations, you have to be careful. But again, you people in those ISOC sometimes if you don't step forward and take that microphone to give the hope. But to give the lesson. If you don't do it, then we're going to have people up there who are saying crazy things. Everything is halau. Everything is okay.

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Let's do this. Let's do that. Now you have to step forward in situations like that. You have to give the hope but you

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and don't think twice about it. Because if you don't, then the person was going to give the hook buzz going to send the people information. That is not true. And now you're responsible for helping forceful display. So that's not a case of being arrogant or a case of going after leadership as a case of person being wise, and taking the bull by the horns and taking the leadership as it should have been taken in that context. And Allah knows best any more questions or one?

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Any more questions for the

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way you've been?

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college for them

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you know the ion lag, you kill the full Lahu nevsun lag you kill the full la tech leaf. Allah doesn't burden a person he doesn't make you responsible to do something. So tech leaf means

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a Can you take this and put some ice make? trade it with a colon? That's the cliff where it's something you have to do now. Not to Sharif, where you become honored as a result of this thing that you're doing. It becomes Sheriff sheriff, no burden on your shoulder. You're going to get rewarded for it if you do it the right way. But don't put stuff on your shoulder that there is no need for last question long question here for the guy.

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Parents cannot do an under my roof and a nanny.

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A Hadith of the Prophet is really clear when he when he told the people to love what he was sending them men. Raw men can mean Cara Femi be ready for lm Institute sabini Sani lm Institute for big data Canada for him and he said men raw

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minko who ever from amongst you sees the car? He didn't say which mother the father? Which older brother? Which younger brother? Which older sister?

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No, who ever from amongst you sees a monk or something that's bad, then let him change it with his hand in if he could. And if you can let him change it with his tongue. And if you can't let him hate it in his heart, and that's the weakest of the levels of Amen. So everybody, everybody has a responsibility to change the mukha. Last week, I saw the lecture that we had last week, and it was about the sin that the person does. And my hat was like this. No one said to me, Hey, your hat is you have a dunce hat, especially the African brothers who know it's not supposed to be like that they was quiet. So whoever sees the thing has to say, hey, and don't be afraid to give advice and

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don't be afraid. The bit that put the best construction to the issue. Give knowledge, give advice, give down. And don't be afraid that the chips fall where they may. But obviously we have no other give down. So every Muslim as I told you has a responsibility. You have a responsibility. That one from amongst you. He's not married. He has no children. He has no bills to pay. He has a responsibility to his neighbors. He has a responsibility to a street.

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Oh, keep your street clean. You and your people that noise pollution in the music and then help help the situation. Everybody has responsibility in our Deen everybody is an activist. Last question acquainting. This person wrote a long question they said Are there any people from alien beta life today? aluminum, there are people from animal bait alive today. Some of them are there from all over the world. There is a tribe within the Somalis called al Sharif al Ashraf, and as mentioned they are descendants of Hassan or Hussein Robbie Alon whom are the grandsons of the Prophet sallallahu. It was said to them, if it's true, is it permissible for them to receive charity as anaerobic cannot

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accept charity? You answered the question. It's not permissible for anglers to receive charity, they don't get sadaqa they get gifts but they don't get and they don't receive sadaqa only gifts. That's it. Are they still considered bait almost 1000 1000 years after?

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If it's true, and they are from the grandsons of the Prophet sallallaahu Sen. Yeah, when young people from Somalia can be from an airbase Samadhi is they have Somalis have they have the Arabs in them, they got an Arab blood in them.

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So I can see it as being conceivable. Some people from Pakistan, Bangladesh, Afghanistan, West Africa, different people, they say if you can trace your lineage to another baby from another Bay, but you can't be like, again, a brother who I know who I knew back in Florida 2530 years ago, used to have these dreams. And he started saying he was demanding

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from Trinidad is a revert from Trinidad.

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And he said he was the Mati and I don't mean this because I don't know what happened to that brother. And I don't want him looking at this. He may see this and this has a negative impact on him. I don't mean in that way, but from what I knew about him because he was one of the best people that I knew in terms of his character.

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where he came from Trinidad and he embraced Islam and he was a hard working loyal brother nice brother Mashallah.

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Then people were telling them like me, you can't be the mighty, not possible.

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The MACD is from the children of

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Hasson, you can be the mighty impossible, he went to Egypt and he found one of those things that had the name the tree the names and he put his name in that tree. And he became a part of a little bit and came back to our community was telling people we have to make history and leave America.

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Why you guys have to think alliances with Joan for and he died especially to the sooner the greedy man the memorable Booker, I used to put his name in your Google read about him. I boubakeur yope Assa T and he

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he said, I don't know any NEMA greater that Allah can bestow upon a fetter on agony.

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Other than leading him to an imam of the sooner I don't know a great addition

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Emma, that allow can give to a young person 1819 2023 years old, he wants to get married at the age of 23.

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Left to his own devices, he's not going to make the right decision doesn't have the experience doesn't have the knowledge doesn't have the support group around him. And it's even more serious with the sister.

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There are some weak Hadith that says youthfulness is a sign of being Majnoon is weak, but has some truth to it. So that mom said I don't know a great enamel, that a lot of guys a young person on a Jimmy, a personal non Arab, because if you Arabic, you can just take the Koran and you can read the Sunnah and you can read the books and you can see what the scholars are saying. So you're guided that way and shower. But when we're Hi, Jimmy, we don't speak Arabic. We're left to the devices of these groups. I went with the American Muslim mission for some time. Then I went with Jamaat Tbilisi for some time, I got to waste that time. I have to waste that time because I'm an adjunct. And I

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but if Allah guys that young men to an imam of the sinner, is going to affect him, because young people are quickly affected. That's why they smoking do weed and all that because everybody else is doing it. Why got an iPhone because everybody else got an iPhone. But an Android would do better for you for your needs, your budget and what you need to do. But everybody else is doing it. You know, we get that all the time. Why did you do that? Everybody else is doing it.

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So if everybody else jumped off the bridge, you're gonna jump off the bridge, and maybe just looks at you. Because that's not a minute, just not an intelligent answer. So

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we say

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stay on this. Last thing about this. Is it possible that people can be from Admin bait 1000 years later? Allahu, madame. Why not? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam kulu Nasser bin, where has happened, lays him in Naseby what has to be more touring yomo kiama naffaa either love

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or relationships or relationships, you know, lineage, like your own lineage. And when you marry into another lineage, he said all of that won't be any benefit. yomo keyamo kumbhakarna salatu salam, your relationship where I come from all of that won't be any benefit Yama PM, except what was from my relationship. Anybody who's connected to me is going to get those who are connected to me, they'll get some benefit. Whether they were directly connected to me, or they married into my family. I'm already aligned who based upon that Hades. He went married the daughter of I've even been targeted on Calico. And he told us howdy to the people. I want to benefit from being married to

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the granddaughter of the Prophet sallallaahu. Selim the great granddaughter of the nebby sallallahu at the center, and he was already related because his daughter married the Prophet hafsa. Rodney allow and

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so how is the profits relationship going to benefit you? Clearly clearly, clearly. The person who gets shahadi gets killed Shaheed FISA BB law and the proper context of Ellis land. The Shaheed in the Quran and the Sunnah. Not the madness of Boko Haram ISIS and Al Qaeda and all of that stuff. The Prophet says Allah, what do we sell him, he'll be able to pull 70 people from his family into Jenna.

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You think his mother ain't gonna be there? It's father's not gonna be there. his immediate brothers and sisters, his close, Auntie's are not going to be there. So you're going to benefit they're going to benefit from his, his nessa from what he did. What about the profit in the Navy.

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But that doesn't mean that Abu lahab and Abu Jain and those people are going to benefit because he died on COVID. Even the prophets mother and the father won't benefit from the relationship to him because they died on other than Islam. Just as Abraham's father as a dad and Islam, just like us he has has been fair, our dynamic Islam, no matter who you are, if you die and other than kill him over to he'd be no benefit for you. You're welcome. Okay, we're gonna call this a day today. Satellite achema Bye, Braddock low FICO. mhada.

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What is she doing that either stuck, Furukawa to Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.