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Hey there, Kira vichara

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smilla hamdulillah today's Hadith honey as all of the Hadith in this book of the 40 Hadith that are connected to the Islamic personality. Last week, the Hadith has a connection to this hoodie, every single leaf is connected to the one that comes after it. And it just is not a regular connection, but it is an Alaska Wi Fi. I mean, it's a really strong connection. So last week, I had eath was talking about some of the descriptions of allies or gentlemen how the Muslim has to be a person who is gentle and easy. Verily, Allah is out of fear. And he loves a riff allows gentle and he's easy and he loves that people are gentle and that people are easy. And he gives to gentleness and ease.

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What he doesn't give for a person who's rough and tough. So if you're giving down a law, when you're a gentleman, you're easy with people a law will give you the success with the person that you're giving down to over the one who's giving down to someone and he's being very intolerant. Very hard, very aggressive, ill mannered and so forth and so on.

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With that being the description of a law we have a mentioned last week that a lobbying easy is manifested in many ways and his names and his attributes a lot as well jealous man, Rahim. And he sukanya with Allah is Allah Helene and El Latif, gentle kind. Allah is Allah, where you have to laugh. He pardons people and he loves to pardon people and he gives them breaks and excuses and so forth and so on. And we see his gentleness and his ease and that he sent to us a prophet sallallahu alayhi wa Taala it was sending them who was sent as a mercy. He wasn't sent as a tiring or dictator.

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Many people across the world Historically, the people with braised Ellis land in the past, because they used to see the good behavior of the prophets of the law, whining and sentiments, companions. They used to see this good behavior we find in the West, the West has conquered the world, not because people have embraced the good behavior is to military power in mind that they overwhelmed people and they overpower people and the beauty of Islam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he had a nice way of dealing with people consistently. As a result of that they embraced the religion we see the manifestation of his ease, his gentleness, his kindness, ohana with Allah. And the way that he

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legislated things in his religion and then make things difficult for us in our religion. He's given us concessions you can combine your prayer, you don't have to fast and so forth and so on. If you fall in to certain categories all indications manifestations, about the Rama Bala

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also concerning his ROM and his ease and his gentleness is what we're dealing with today. He mentioned in one I have the Quran that is connected to this hadith Carlos ohana with Allah will know you are the law from NASA. To me him my turret Ali Herman button malaking you a hero whom Allah sama.

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Allah said had he

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or if he were to take everybody into account on the face of the earth

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Barring none without any exception, if he was to take every single person to account for what they have done or what they have not done from the things that they should have done, he would not have left a single person on the face of the earth. But it gives them time and it gives them respect until an agile muslimah until in appointing time for that job Angelo Han Leia step here oh no sorry item whether you're stuck the moon and when that time comes that appointed time, they cannot delay it, nor can they speed it up. So that appointed time is your lifespan that appointed time is your mo Kiana. The point here from the Rama Mama, his gentleness, his ease is that if Allah wanted to be

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fairing just absolutely and everybody here he would just destroy everybody because there's no person here doing enough of what he should be doing.

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And there's no person here no person here who's pushing off of themselves the things that he should not be doing.

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But allies who just had mercy upon every binding these gentle and from his names is a snowboard. A so board. He Sukarno what Allah is patient. They say that he has a son. They say that he doesn't exist. They say that he's a monkey is a cow. By rubella. They say that he is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam incarnate, I'd even I'd be Talat incarnate and on and on and on, and he doesn't punish him.

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So today's Heidi is connected to that.

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The Companion of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Abdullah Bhasin, as the brothers read, they mentioned that the nibi says on the law, what he was sending them.

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There was not a single believe in serving not one single person, except that he has a sin that he does, from time to time he keeps going back and forth on that sin he keeps doing it. Or he has a sin, that he never leaves it. He does it perpetually and consistently. And he's not going to abandon that sin that he does all the time until he leaves this doing any dies. He said earlier the believer has been created to be tried. And the believer has been created to make Toba and the believer has been created to forget. So if he is reminded, he remembers this idea that's from the Quran with the Prophet sallallaahu. Selim that is no doubt from the gentleman and Kelvin is from those important

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words that he gave to us. And it's really important in regards and as it relates to the Muslim identity everybody sitting here.

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Everybody once again, there is not a believer in slave man or woman, white or black, Arab, non Arab, rich or poor. There is not a single believing man,

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except that he has a sin or number of sins that he does from time to time, he does it consistently. he'll stop then go back to it'll stop and go back to stop and go back to it. Or he has a sin that he does constantly. He never leaves it. And he won't leave it until he leaves the dunya until he dies. Verily, the believer is a person who has been created to be tried to fit in

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and he's been created to make Toba and he's been created to forget. So if he is reminded, he will remember

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this Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa Taala it was setting them as a tremendous Hadith as we mentioned, because as we said earlier, if Eliza Jen wanted to hold people accountable for what they did, no one has done enough. The Hadith of the Prophet again authentic it

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has Cena who and Eman and Alabama Rahmatullahi Tana de from what shows a lot of rotmans gentleness Lizzie's is that he says Southern lady was sending them in the saw him as she man the urfa column sit aside and in the abdomen Muslim and multi fan Adam was stuck for a min Ha

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ha ha.

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Ella cookie but wahida he says some of it was sent him that there is the angel on everyone's left side. Everybody hear that Angel, an angel. Whenever the slave makes a mistake and he does a sin. That Angel waits for six hours before he writes the sin that he committed a lot could have made it that the angel writes it right away. A lot could have made it that since it's already written in the law and manifold is written in he's just accountable for it like that. That's it. No, the angel on the left, he waits six hours to pass for the person to make this stuff out and to be sorry for what

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Then into regret what he did. If he regrets what he did, and he makes total and he makes it stick far, that Angel will fall away that sin that he did he won't even be written against them be written for him. But if he doesn't make a step far doesn't make Toba within that six hour period, the angel will write down what he did, just according to what he did, he won't extract it or add more to it. That's from the look of Allah Jin Tunis ease rat mavala how he is with the people with his creation. And again, I repeat to you that even though Tamia used to say that the people, the real people, the sooner the people who are the most merciful people as it relates to a lot of creation, because if

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you're truly a person from the Sunnah, then that should be embodied in the fact that you are trying to practice problems upon some of them. It was said that he was a gentleman, he was dealing with people very easy, gently, and in the tolerant fashion.

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From this tremendous Heidi, that we're dealing with today, number of benefits. One of the issues we have to mention though, is the people who have sick minds and sick hearts, especially during this time social media, I see a lot of craziness in social media. I think we have to make Jihad even with how much we're exposed to in social media says crazy drama on that social media. People have sicknesses in the minds and the hearts. Some people will hear this hobby and understand that this Hadeeth is encouraging you to do since

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encouraging you to continue to do what you're doing. So a person he's addicted to cigarettes. So that's a sin that he's doing and he knows he should stop but he said, Oh, the hadith of Abdullah not bad said a person will do the sin until he leaves the dunya.

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So this hadith is encouraging him to do that mess. Now what this hadith is saying, the Hadith is not saying that. So it is saying that people this is our nature is our nature is similar to the meaning of the Heidi, and they're quite a few. The Prophet said that there was a man Salah law when he went on he was sending them he committed a sin. And then he made told me he said, Oh my Lord, forgive me for what I've done. And then allies would generally he said, I have a slave who knows that he has a Lord that the Gibson's and he punishes for sins. I have forgiven him because of his Toba. And then that man continued continue and he committed the sin again. And then he asked Allah, oh, my Lord,

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forgive me. And a lot of said, I have a slave who knows that he has a Lord that forgives sins and hold people accountable for their sins are forgiven him because he acknowledges that. And then the man went on, went on and committed sin again. And he said, Oh, my Lord, forgive me with sincerity. He wasn't just doing a sin and saying this stuff in a law. He really felt bad knew us doing the wrong thing. He felt bad about it. And then he did it again a third time. Oh, my Lord, please forgive me. I said again, I have a servant who knows he has a law to forgive sins. And not only that he knows that I'll take and hold people responsible for the sense of forgiving them. And then allies

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who didn't say to the Mullah echo O'Shea Doku any cut refer to the Abdi folia frog, Masha.

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He said, I tell you angels to bear witness that I forgiven my slave for what he has done. Let him do whatever he wants to do. Let him do whatever he wants to do. But the prophet didn't tell us somebody was sending them after this hadith the man went out and started drinking Hummer and wiling out, we didn't hear that. The meaning of let him do what he wants to do is a lot pleased with him because he knew he had a lot he made a Stefan need kept making the sin, but he kept turning to Allah, hoping that Allah will forgive them. Similar to the hadith of hatom, Eben Abbe belta May Allah be pleased with him, that Companion of the Prophet sallallahu will send them around the line who, who wrote a

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letter telling the cocoa farmer Quraysh, Mohammed is coming to get you get ready and prepare for him in his army. Because he wanted them to take care of his property and his interest in Mecca. jabril told the Prophet with this man did this man has told the non Muslims to get prepared for you that can cause death on the side of some of the Muslims. The Prophet said to him, somebody was sending them what made you do that? Yeah, hi, Tim. He say also all of your companions, they have relatives who are taking care of their interests back in Mecca. They have different relationships that are taking care of the interest. I'm a nobody there. They don't I don't have any relatives. No one's

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taking care of my interest. So I felt if I sent them the letter, then those people would not bother my stuff. Am I say Yato? So let me chop his head off. He's a lunatic. That's the action of the lunatic. When I tell me no, no, caffine, ODM and doolin meanie

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Let me chop his neck off. The Prophet said no.

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He's from the people who are better when Allah tala and I'm mad at him for call Allah home, Emmylou. Machito. It may be that Allah, he's from the people better. And maybe Allah looked at the people better and said to them, Do whatever you want to do. So in our community in our own in this religion, the best of this oma or the 10, people promised gender, and then the people better than the best of this oma gibreel came and say,

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What do you have to say about the people better, he said, they had the best of us. He said, also the melodica, who were with us jabril said and also the melodica, who with us in the Battle of the best of America as well. So those people, the best of the people, so the, the Prophet told them, maybe Allah said to them, Do what you want, okay? No problem, do what you want to do. But then we he after that they were wiling out, because they were from better, better. They said, The Prophet said, do what we want. So as a result of that, we're going to drink home and we're going to do Zina, we're going to gamble, we're going to do highway robbery, we're not going to pray that they didn't anybody

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here narration like that. No one heard it and reach and no one read a narration like that, just because they were told, do what you want to do. You shouldn't understand from these Heidi go ahead and wile out. We don't rely on the cutter, everything is by the cutter. So therefore what I do is send I say it's the cut that was written, you don't make the judge with a cutter like that. And you don't take these kinds of ideas and take them out of context.

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So the idea is not opening up the door, giving people the green light to do what you want to do. Instead, the Hadeeth is opening up the door telling people this sin, no matter how many sins you do, even if it's the same sin, no matter how great it is, this hadith is opening up the door of the Toba of allies, which is open up the door of the Rahman the love fear of Allah and the slave. And it's preventing those people come and close the door on people. So part of the Islamic personality as the sheer ideal halaby said, her favorite level Tyler, he wrote, what boba he gave the chapter Hedden arrow, Jor el Huck, coming back to the truth, returning to the truth. So everybody here is a sinner,

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and everybody here makes mistakes, everybody. But everybody has to return to the truth

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of the camera, if he is reminded, because he forgot, he has a remembrance, and he comes back to the truth. Now, it is important that when he and I talked to myself first, get on this member right here on Friday, sit in front of the people right here on Thursday, or whenever, and I'm going to talk down at the people and I'm going to be rough and tough people. I'm on the swing, I'm selfie. Lady, is me, me, me.

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And the Prophet has said, Everybody has mistakes and everybody has sins. So therefore, as I deal with the people, as I deal with the people, I can't deal with the people from a place I'm up in the sky and the people on the ground. And don't let people treat you like that.

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Which I have personally been about everybody who comes everybody we meet we have none. But I know one thing, and that is probably Mohammed Salah a lot. He will send them as a saw that when he was talking tells the truth and he should be believing. He said, Everybody makes mistakes. So you need to relax that thing that we have in terms of speaking condescendingly to people don't wear hijab, the people have a spell that people may not pray to people will get high to people who have girlfriends and all that stuff. That doesn't mean you don't give dollar you don't get no see how that very same. Heidi said if he forgets and he's reminded he remembers.

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The issue is the Hadeeth part of what is benefiting us is you the shift the dye, every shift every day, every person man and woman as good you have bagged everybody

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from the benefits of this hygienic one is really important is this is from the no source from the Quran. The sooner the textual evidence is that tell us and give us a glimpse into the fitter of Benny Adam, the fitrah fitter to La la, et cetera, NASA, la, la to deal with in LA. There is the fifth pillar that allies created everybody on the natural disposition that human beings have. There are certain curiosities and certain characteristics that every human being has.

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Some people have some characteristics that other people don't have. But there are characteristics that everybody has, and we've been informed of them and there are many in the Quran and the Sunnah. At the top of the list, the most important one is a characteristic of a total

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heed mommy mo luden illa EULA do lol fitrah there is not a child except

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there is not a child except that that child is born upon the natural disposition to say la ilaha illa line to look up and to say it as well. His mother and his father make him a Jew, a Christian or imagine. But if you leave that child by himself, he's gonna grow up as a Muslim. He won't worship the sun, the moon, he won't worship anything that's great around him and outside of him. Within this creation. Abraham said Salawat de la he was sent me. He Brahim said, the star the moon, the sun is my God, why? That's his environment. But when he was born, when he was born, just left like that every human being is going to say la ilaha illa Allah, that's everybody's fitrah he says I'm in LA

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while he was on he was sending them

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locally. Adam why the young man in the para la hemostat Ethan William la Joe fubini Adam Electra. If this son of Adam had two valleys of gold, two values, all of money is money. He would want a third one. That's his fitrah because he has been created, where he has an insatiable appetite and he wants more. It's never nothing. That's how it is he wants more. So we have a lot of a lot of reactive the Quran a lot of a hadith. No human being is going to live forever, and so forth and so on and so many issues. Human beings have been created in haste. Want to be in haste you don't have the ability to be patient.

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While Hotel insano

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a jeweler he is in haste, human beings they complain they can't help it they complain. This Hadith shows us from the fitter of Benny and them is that they all make mistakes, no one has been created. And he is my assume in terms of being mistake glyphs, not a single human being. So the Tao of many of the Gemma art and the people who go overboard and they have a Hulu and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they should take heed to this hadith. Every single human being they have mistakes. So this hadith proves that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Kullu

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a blue Adam colabello Adam Hata

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in a boon, all of Adam's children, they make mistakes. And the best of them who make mistakes are the ones who make Toba all of them. You mentioned some love while he was sending them in Allah ketubah and it be Adam have Whoo hoo minutes Xena Allah Maha Mudra mudra, Kundera, calama, Hannah,

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all of Adams children are going to fall into the upper portion of Xena all of them. He's going to fall into it. And it's impossible for it to miss him. And then he went on to explain what that meant. He says so the Xen of the eyes is when you look at what's wrong in the street, on TV, whether whatever you watching the Xen of the IRS is his listening to what's not permissible. The Xen of the tongue is and not speaking about and and so forth and so on. The Xena The hand is touching is in of the feet walk into it. And then he mentioned some a lot while he was setting them when knifes teta men never to steady one followed, you said the pathetical dependable and high the soul it desires

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and it wants that Xena. But the private part is what makes it become a reality or not a reality. When he goes ahead, he goes forward and he executes what the plan was. So the point here is, is assigning the indication that everybody makes mistakes, everybody makes sense. From that he told us and it's talking about the fitting of the people some of the law what he was sending them and he swore will lead enough CBA

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low and no condom to the nibble. Let the herbal level become where the jab is calming using a bone using the bone via the Lafayette film. If it wasn't for the fact that swear by the one who my soul is in his hands, if you people didn't make mistakes, Allah will get rid of you.

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He will get rid of you destroy you. And he will create a group of people who make mistakes and then they turn to him making a stick far and then he forgives them. So kind of wattana so it is a foreign concept and is not attainable. It's attainable for a person to try to make jihad or Nazi makes jihad against himself not to make sense. It's not gonna happen.

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Everything about

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this dunya is designed where you're going to make mistakes. But it's also designed in UK then given a religion that will make you turn to and karela Aziz al Jabbar and Mata Kabir suhar Allahu wa Taala. So only Allah doesn't make mistakes only Allah azza wa jal is complete, without blemish, without any deficiency. Human beings go to sleep human beings go to the toilet chromo comala human beings sweat, human beings they pass when tahara ly Yama calm, human beings forget human beings die. And when they are born, it's not a nice it's not a nice it's not a nice sight born with all that blood and it's not a nice sight.

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So for Allen has no right to say that he is alarmed a lot of the people most hide and a person has no right to worship something that has deficiencies whether it's a cow, a monkey, the sun, whatever. Abraham said to the moon until the star you You said I can worship that which sets can worship something that is here for one minute and is not here for the next minute. How can that be my god? It can't talk can't communicate can protect me? No.

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So everybody has this issue, no matter where they are. Even the prophets and the messengers again, we want to speak to the minds and the hearts of our brothers and sisters from those groups who go overboard in the so called love that's manufactured is not really real. It's not legislated to the prophets of Islam sallallahu wasallam and to those only where they say they are without blemish. And just because you believe in Allah even Abby tilem just believe in Him as being the honey for all of this stuff. You'll go to Jenna, that's a statement that the Christian sages believe essential Miriam, and just believe in him that will get you into gender no matter what you do in terms of

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works. It's not our religion. That's not our religion. I like called Ibrahim his caniell Salawat Allah he was sent me who was an M one a, he said about him near Milan, in a word. He was a good servant and he was a web. A word means a person who makes a stick far a lot. So he's a Navy is a Russell. The Prophet told the people about himself so Allahu alayhi wa it was senator said de deux la casa de bois, step Shiro wildermuth and hadoken lang you Hello, Rama. Well, Jana, he said, do the best that you can, and come as close to the bullseye as possible. When you pray, you may not be there 100% but try your best to be the best that you can fast the best everything you do, do the

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best of it that you can. Although there are distractions or whatever's going on, do your best. We go to hedge and the day of arafat is really difficult. It's difficult to go to out of fat and for the whole duration of autofair from the time you get there in the morning until right before Maghreb to stay focus is difficult.

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How many of you been to Hajj Put your hand up? If you've been to Hajj? How many of you have not been to Hajj Put your hands up? Yeah, you guys will go to out of fact, one day. And right now while you're sitting here, you'll say man, when I get that off, Imma be in it all day. You're not gonna be it all day.

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But it's hard staying focused from the time you get there until Missouri.

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It's difficult. I don't say as Mr. Hill but it's difficult. Because there are a lot of things going on that are distracting you you're tired, you can't help that you haven't been sleeping even the days before.

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You have to give talks, you have to do this. You have to do that the he all kinds of issues. So this hadith says Sunday, do a caribou do the best that you can. You may have to go to the coin and take a nap for an hour. 30 minutes, 45 minutes that may happen at the beginning. In the middle. Maybe at the end. do the best that you can. That's the point. He said but you all should know. None of you. None of you, your DS are going to get you into Jannah none of you.

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The companion say jasola even you he said even me my DS won't get me into gender Ilana Tara Madden Illa Farah Mati, except that Allah submerse me and dipped me into as Rama.

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Allah had arrived upon him, and Allah gave him that tofield but on his own as a human being.

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No, he can't do that by himself. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, so that he goes to show what goes to show that even the prophets and the messengers are not exempt. They're perfect as it relates to being human beings, but and being a human being

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There's imperfection so no one is perfect so relax, relax and the way you deal with people relax in the way you even deal with yourself. Do not close the door and the windows of LACMA, pon the people don't do that. And as you get down Allah, just count your money the new bmrc just count them. And that should calm you down and make you take it easy that people have agenda the people that agenda allows you john mentioned about them the UK federal law, as well levy amilo yg xeomin eduroam b Asin. A levy can we I'm alone, people Jenna, Allah said about them, so that Allah is going to make the fear of the of the new is going to clean their mistakes up the worst things that they used to

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do. And he's going to reward them based upon the best things that they used to do. So even the people that generally didn't go into gender, because they don't have sense. Know, they went into the gender because of the right mobile law that these their actions didn't get them there. It was the drama of a lot that that happened. So the point is, no one is perfect. Which brings us to the end of today's lesson. And that is, from what we benefit in this lesson is that we're gonna fall into mistakes, gotta do our best try and stay from falling into mistakes got to do our best, but especially the major sense, the major sins,

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the major sins, so we have what we have in our religion, the cupbearer and the Salah error, major and minor sins, and even the minor sins, even the minor sins. You don't look at them as being a minor. You look at the greatness of the one who is being disobeyed. So the ayat of the Quran said to us in touch Tony boo kabbah era Martin hoonah and who knew Catherine come say hello come MacAllan Karima a few people only stay away from and avoid the major sins that you have been prohibited from. Allah will clean up your other mistakes, and he will cause you to enter into the agenda. A very honorable entering so he told us stay away from the cadet en la Vina eh Tony buena cabac fm one for

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ya h inla. Lemon. Those people will avoid the major, major mistakes, the major ones, but but they fall into the lemon, the Tabori toes Rahmatullahi an E in this ayah. He said, a lemon is like that Hadith that we mentioned to you earlier, every son of Adam magaziner Xena of the eyes, he never he didn't make Xena, where he's going to be flogged. It's just something he looked at something you saw on the bus in the classroom on the TV, and the newspaper in the magazine. He saw that Xena, but as lemon because he didn't go after that. It just happened to be there. And that's why he told me even not to be targeted for you young brothers, our religion. Look at the Rama. Allah says gentlemen

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ease.

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He said to Abdullah bass, when a lady went by, or could have been further live in a bass or could have been any one of those three, he said to them, as a young man, you can look the first time because it's an accident. But the second one is against you. The first one is for you, meaning you're not held accountable. But the second one is against you, when you turn around again. You just happen to meet them in the hallway in the university. So you see what's going on. You turn your eyesight because there's an eye or they said that your colon meaning a good angle. I'm sorry, when you turn your eyesight. You're not held accountable if you just keep stepping. But as soon as you do

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like this, then that one is against you. So you got a chance. You got an opportunity. That's the lemon, the thing you fall into, and it's hard to prevent it from happening. It's hard. You get on the bus, the lady sat next to you in the bus, you can help that it's not your fault. You get on a plane, you get your seat, you find a lady sitting around you is on your writing, you're left in the plane, and the plane is packed. Nobody wants to change seats with you. Well, what are you gonna do say I'm not gonna go to the trip? No, because you have a religion that says, Hey, take it easy. There's a thing that's called a daura. necessity. You have been forced. Take it easy is our dean. So

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we have to avoid the cabac. The other issue is

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returning to the truth when people give advice. And again, those of us who are given advice you have to take it easy because as the Heidi last week said, Allah will give to the one who uses gentleness. What he doesn't give to the one was being heard.

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rough and tough. So be gentle, Be kind, be tolerant, be understanding and understand that from our religion, the golden The objective is to take people from the depths of the darkness of Cofer and massiah disbelieve, making mistakes and bring them into the light of La di and nurul. Islam. how we're going to do that. And we were often tough. I don't agree with you, Nora Dean. I was praying next to Nora Dean. And he wasn't moving his finger in a tissue when I was watching. He wasn't moving his fingers to shuffling.

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I want to know why weren't you moving your finger because Mr. model, Bernie said you must move your finger.

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You must move your finger that Heidi today the idea today about the angel waiting six hours before he writes some of the numbers is not authentic. And everybody says her son is weak, but it goes to the level of authenticity. If you don't follow what chef Anil Ambani said, may Allah break your back. Break my back me.

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I won't be able to fast the class. I won't be able to make salad. Yeah. Break my back, man break my back. You have to sell it for like that with the people.

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He wasn't like that or he with the maintenance from the people. He wasn't like that. We gave you some examples of how he was to the to the to the beginner The young man jasola give me permission to make Xena. He didn't break his back. I mean, do I against him a door for him? Oh, well, I take that off of him. Take it off of our Chabad take it off of the people that thing that they have taken off of them.

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The one who is ignorant the jack Hill, the Bedouin, who urinate in domestic, he wasn't like that with him. He was gentle. We all make mistakes.

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So I think for my students here, quite a few of you here today, Mashallah. We want to kill this stuff about being rough and tough in the wrong place. As for being men, and unapologetic, unapologetic about our Deen, the main hedge that we're upon and our understanding, no, we're going to be men about that issue. We're going to be unapologetic about that. And we're going to be strong and rough and tough in the proper places at the proper time. But the hustle in the Tao is being gentle and being easy. Okay, honey, if you guys have any questions concerning today's data, you could put your questions forward barnacle AFRICOM last and a lighter shade

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for the carry.

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The brothers asking a real good question connected to something that was mentioned in the dose today we love those kinds of questions show that people are using the brains and when they hear information, they want to make the speaker responsible for what he's saying and get clarification. And you have to have some background reading. Don't be of those people who just your blind follower, or you just a vessel that just sits there and everything that's going in, but you don't superimpose that. And compare it to what you already know what you thought and what you read. And when other ideas that came to your mind, this is how it is to be a student. And another thing is, you'll never

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know how much knowledge the person who's teaching you really has until you go somewhere else you start learning from other people. So make sure you expose yourself in person on the internet or reading whatever you do to other people. Other people will focus at the admin alley. The question is, we have mentioned in the dose that you cannot use as a proof for your sins, the cutter everything is by the cutter, the person it has been written as the Prophet says on the law who it will send them in the law

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ketubah makara dear Allah, Allah, it comes in an elf senate covenant, a semi Why do you want

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50,000 years before a lot created the heavens and the earth? He wrote down everything that was going to happen.

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The very first thing that was created was the pin. Now that being said that the throne the pin, when he created the penny say right, the pen said What should I write? He said to the pen write everything into your mckeehan so everything is written in the cutter everything. So if a person does a mistake or Sandy does something he says it was written on me it was written I couldn't avoid it.

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We're not going to accept that. If he's still something or he does something and then the authority approaches and why you do that. He has to give a reason if he says, there was a drought, and my children were dying, and I had to still to let him go AS Roma let that man go, who's stolen the drought?

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He's driving over the speed limit is driving Oh, he gets caught. What are you doing that my wife is in labor? They let him go shala he broke the law. But if he said, I did that, because of the cutter, he's gonna be held responsible for the crime in the mistake that he made.

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But we have an idea that the brother is asking about, what about the authentic hadith? Where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, de sama? Adam,

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add the Moosa moose and Adam had an argument. They were arguing with each other, debating with each other. And as they were debating moose, I said to Adam, Adam, you're the father of mankind. Allah created you with his own hands, and a lot put you into the agenda. And because of you, we've all been expelled from the agenda.

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Adam said to him, do you blame me for something that was written upon me 50,000 years before the heavens and the earth was created?

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The Prophet said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So Adam overpowered Moosa with his argument. Adam overpowered Moosa with his argument. So now this hadith which is authentic, it could be understood by a person who came in and said, Hey, this is Adam using the cutter as a delille as a delille. We say Kela Lola, my lovelies laughs at first of all, Adam was not justifying anything that he did. Adam wasn't justifying going to the tree.

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Adam learned those words of Toba from Eliza Jelani said those words of Toba, showing that he recognizes that he made a mistake. So he was never ever trying to use the color as a delille to justify anything. The second issue the second issue that a marvelous lamb said in this regard is Adam Salawat, the lie he was sent me who and he was just telling Moosa but the truth of the matter was, this is something that was written on me, and this is what happened. And because the Prophet salallahu, it was sending him 30 kiroro, who are the Heather Karen, Akira, who the Prophet he gave, he was the one who said, this is what happened. And he didn't say he was wrong for saying it. Then

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it goes to show what he said and what he did was correct in this context, in that context, so he wasn't making the judge are using the delille of the cutter as a justification for making a mistake or doing a sin. Any more questions or whining, and hold the flag for the three

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and a half inch tablet the half.

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Okay.

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Now, concerning this story of Adam, or the story of Ibrahim, some of the people of the opinion some of the more fussy reading of the Quran said no, Ebrahim, never ever, Cynthia, the curtain, my shower. This is the heartbeat that we're dealing with. That the believer the Muslim is the person who was perfect and he's gonna make mistakes from time to time. He has to why but he has to make Toba for his mistakes, and he forgets so if he's reminded he'll remember and many more are to motivate. The believer is a mirror to his brother. You got to remember him that's one of the characteristics of the Muslim

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Allah tala mentioned in the Quran.

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Allah Vina

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la Vina is alpha alpha he shot another vitamin fulsome decorilla for stuck for the newbie him.

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Woman yet for the Nova illallah wa Lamia, siru, Allah ma omiana moon. The believers are those people who if they do some major, major sin, or they do vermin and oppression, the old press, they remember a law. They remember law. And then they make a stick fall and who will forgive other than law, but they are not those people who remain and they continue to keep doing what they're doing. They gotta make Toba they gotta try to get away from it if they are reminded. So concerning this, there are some of the movers sitting who said

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he Brad Ibrahim did not himself.

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Believe in the star and the moon and the sun, he himself he never did that. But he was saying that so that the people themselves can see that he was doing that in a way of $1.

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So some of the Anima they said that

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and they said the reason why we have to do that is he Brahim is from the is the kalila. Bala is one of the five major messengers, we have edit with the messengers in the prophets, we have to have that edit with them. How is it conceivable, and there are a number of things like that with Ibrahim and loot, and so forth, so on. And you also have a number of issues. But then we have the other LMR, who said no, it was Ebrahim because if you look at the language of the Quran, it's very clear. It's very clear. So it was one of those issues that is not in the School of the religion. And some people took that position, no problem. Some people took that position, no problem. And I would think that the

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safer position is to say he was doing it for the people. He was doing it for the people to save his position. He was doing it for the people. This is my God, this is my God, this is my God. Other people said No, those people said no, it was him. How can a prophet a messenger, a regular Muslim say, this is my God.

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Even if he's trying to talk to people, you know, we're sensitive. When we get down with the Christians or we hear people giving down and they say, Allah said in the Bible, God said, Jesus said we get kind of like, what don't say Jesus said, because we don't know if he said that. Say, it is said that Jesus said this, it is said that Allah said this in that.

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But here in this ayah Abraham is saying in the eye, this is my God, this is my God, this is my God. This is my Lord.

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So it's an issue of the law between the scholars and again, that that etiquette as a as a really

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good Java center.

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Okay acquainting a turkey in the cache for the year.

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Last week, a whiny iPhone last week I'm doing the talk I had mentioned that

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something was from the smell of Allah and fairly and I meant to say the C fat of Allah and fairly, his characteristics that he does, whenever he wants to do it. However he wants to. It's not always something that he does. But I said it's from the names and that was a mistake. So always feel free when you hear these mix ups in the language and what I'm trying to articulate. Take a note and bring it to my attention, the doors open for you for that for that now.

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So in the last question that the brother got,

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the brother has given us concerning the childhood then obese a loved one, he was seldom mentioned that he should draw the shape on Mennella Hadid. When you point your finger in the salon to here to the left, he was salewa to a bat. This is more harmful on a shape arm than being able to have an iron pipe to hit him with because it is a toe heel. So you shouldn't just have your hands out like that. The Companions described this press on the line he was telling me he said that he made a circle with his thumb and his middle finger. And he pointed there are some narrations that said he was moving it like this he was moving it and he ma'am and Albania Sheehan and Benny brought in his

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book, suffer to select and maybe that this is the correct position when he brought the people describe the prayer of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam why he live in Raja Raja line who he mentioned this about the prophets pray that he would move it vigorously vigorously.

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But after looking into those ahaadeeth It appears that that one Heidi says you should move it like that seems to be a shadow Hadeeth only one person brought that narration. Ziad Kodama Rahmatullah honey from Darla Marblehead if everybody else who was similar to him or bigger than him, everybody, everybody, none of them mentioned that moving except him. Check NASA said this is the zyada to some good persons bringing in addition that no one else brought so therefore it is okay. That people say no, there's a hadith that is shad, this hadith that is Chef he's mentioned in something that is irregular, he said

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And other thicker mentioned something else, but it's something that is irregular. And Allah knows best. So what you can do is go back and check it out for yourself. And if you don't have the ability to check it out for yourself, you take whatever position you feel most comfortable with. But in issues like this wherever we're always evolving all of us, you read one must Ella and you used to do roughly a Dane and then you do the cup day after Rocco used to do that. Now you don't do it no more. You don't do it anymore, or used to do it. But now you're doing it. Because we're always growing. We're always developing as students. And lastly, knowledge there's no room in knowledge for people

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being having jus mood. Your mood is like the pillar that doesn't move. He doesn't move. I was praying Southern Asia today. And the brother to my right. He got out of the line. I guess he lost his booboo. And he went, Jammu is for the people in the stuff behind us. Nobody moves. The person just stay, they don't move, not knowing there's a Hadith, the best step that you can take forward is to step in jihad, or the step where you connect the SFX. So he has that.

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But they are those people you go to the MSG, there is no fifth. So they won't move. They won't move at all. We don't want you to be like that. We don't want you to be like that extreme, tough. Nor do we want you to be on the other extreme. I'm not gonna mention his name, anything like that. But we have people here in Birmingham, who everything is halau

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everything is permissible, everything is correct. And the scholars used to warn you and I warn you of this when it comes to getting knowledge. avoid the mistakes of the scholars and avoid the Rhodes Scholars made mistakes and sometimes this mistakes was serious. Some of them say you can drink Hummer. As long as you don't get chunked you can drink as long as you don't get drunk drink as much as you want.

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So someone says look when I leave I'm Sofia and a theory says you know Sofia Anna Foley is Come on Let's have a party.

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Some of the companions made mistakes so you can have relationships in the wrong place with the woman said you can do Mota marriage said you can break your fast, you can eat ice and it doesn't break your fast. You can eat snow and ice it doesn't break your fans. So the scholar said what? Avoid the rose and the Zealot, the concessions and the mistakes of the scholars avoid them. So we don't want you to be Janet. You don't move at all.

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And we don't want you to be so liberal that everything is Hello, Christmas, Thanksgiving, you're killing the Indians. Everything is halau

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we everything you can possibly think of everything in anything is Hello.

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Don't be like that be in the middle. So Pilar Coloma

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Zed, either a blue Kodama, he was on par with all of those other narrators. Mohammed did a move for them for an example. Abu I wanna let some storage under sorry, hang be all fake out. So you have the thicker going against those people who are caught as well. So then Heidi fish shad. Had he been dive been a problem? It would have been what the scholars call What is it when a dive goes against the cart.

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What is that called again? Anybody know?

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What is the Hadeeth when Shas that smoker as a smoker Moncure. Terrible, terrible level of Heidi's. Okay, whiny suparna Coloma deca overshadowing La Ilaha Illa and istockphoto to LA was Santa Monica to LA he will Bearcat