Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – The Islamic Personality – Episode 09

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The Hadith of Islam is a complex topic that involves the use of symbol weight and creating excuses for one another, along with the history of Islam, including the Prophet sallavi's teachings and the use of jealousy. The speakers stress the importance of avoiding worship and false deeds, educating children on the negative consequences of racist language, and showing proper behavior and language in relation to political correctness. The speaker also mentions the negative impact of using racist language during the COVID-19 pandemic and highlights the importance of educating children on the negative consequences of racist behavior. The segment includes a brief advertisement for a program called "IT for You" by the speaker.

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			Smilla man Rahim
		
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			Al hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha
		
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			Salawat Allah He was senemo who Allah and OB GYN and Mustafa
		
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			watch her do yoga in Allah who is the who last shirt he colorful.
		
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			Why shadow Anna Mohammed Abdullah, who are Zulu who's a Mullah who very well, it was suddenly a mob.
		
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			Come to the next Hadith Shalonda Hadith. From the book
		
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			of the chef, I will hide if Ali and Halaby have faith of low to Anna,
		
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			the 40 Hadith of the personality of the Muslim 40 Hadith that the chef has chosen, keeping in step
keeping in tune with what the rhythm of the past used to do when they used to write books and call
those books The Book of 40 Hadith like an Imam, an nawawi, Rama to line it and other than an Imam,
an nawawi.
		
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			Today's hadith is a tremendous Hadith Hadith again, like the ones that have pastors by we've studied
them previously, the Muslim hears this hadith, and he has to make some effort with trying to make
this hadith a part of his Islamic character because of all of the good that he brings to our
community.
		
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			And that is the Hadith that was collected by Imam Al Bukhari and Muslim.
		
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			The part of the Hadith that the sheikh brought for this chapter is the statement of the Prophet
sallallahu. It was sending them like I had a horrible email earlier min Allah mean agilely vaniqa
birth and MOBA shooting when the mean
		
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			there is no one who loves excuses more than Allah. There is no one who loves the excuse more than
Allah loves the excuse. And because of his love for the excuse, because of that, he sent the
messengers in the prophets and mobile sharing woman they need. He sent prophets and messengers to
give glad tidings the bush raw and he sent prophets and messengers to make the Indar and to warn
people. So in the Sikhs are kind of an Eman. The fact that the Muslim believes and Alon is melodic
		
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			and is cooked up and is Rasul Salawat Allah He was salam, whiny and Jemaine and he believes in
Yeoman ash and he believes and the cutter the good of it and bad of it, as it relates to L E man and
the prophets and the messengers the Muslim has to know one of the reasons why Allah azza wa jal has
sent Prophets and Messengers is so that people will have an excuse and a reason or they won't have
excuses or reasons. Because once the prophet and messenger comes, is one of the ways that the door
		
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			of excuses are closed, are the people.
		
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			This hadith when he is a Hadith that is a longer Hadith, the prophet, he used more words in the
Hadith, just this more than this, but the sheikh brought this part because he's trying to bring the
attention of the people read in this book, or studying this book, this aspect of what the hadith is
saying that you and you, you, you, you, you, we have to be people who look for excuses for people.
If we create excuses for one another,
		
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			then we're going to have love and we're going to have community spirit, and we're going to have
cooperation, and we're going to get along, it's going to be less drama.
		
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			If we don't create excuses and give each other excuses, we're going to have problems, problems in
our marriage, problems with our children, our relatives. Unfortunately, many people, they don't have
this characteristic in themselves as Muslims, and it's something that the Prophet was upon
SallAllahu it he will, he will sell them. The whole hadith is a long Hadith, this hadith in which
the issue of Al Mala Anna happened and Mullah Anna, when a man accuses his wife of having
		
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			relationships, and he's the only one who's making the accusation. He doesn't bring three other
witnesses.
		
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			The companion side Ibn rabada he was sitting with the Prophet sallallahu it was setting them along
with the other companions, may Allah be pleased with them all.
		
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			A man came and say God also lies saw my wife with another man. I saw it, I saw it, I saw what they
were doing. And I came here to you in this assembly with your companion so that you can establish
the HUD on him in her
		
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			profit salon.
		
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			While while he was telling him told him in front of all of the people.
		
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			If you don't bring three other people to collaborate this story in this accusation that you're
making, because anyone who accuses someone else of making Xena, you will have to have four witnesses
who can prove that not to say that she did this, he did that, the way it rolls easily off of the
tongues of our mouth. If you don't bring three more witnesses to collaborate, I'm going to strike
you in your back because sort of the norm had been revealed at that point. And in sort of the norm
		
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			and the beginning of Surah Noor Allah azza wa jal mentioned will levena your moon and Senate for
millennia to be arbeiten Shuhada for Julie Do Hoon femenina jilda
		
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			Those people were accused believing women who are married, believe in innocent women believing
innocent women, they accused them and they make running. And they say that they had illegal illicit
relationships. If they don't bring the proof, they don't bring four witnesses, then you should
strike them on their backs at times, and never accept from them their shahada after that they don't
have any shahada in the Muslim court. They can't be your witnesses when you get married and so forth
		
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			and so on. That I had had been revealed at this time. So when the man came and say Allah, so Allah
saw my wife and this was the situation he said, where the other three witnesses sees, I saw, I'm the
only one who saw it. He said that you don't bring three more people, I'm gonna flog you because this
is the ayat that had been revealed. The man said, knowing what he saw Allah he I know that Allah is
not going to put me down now yo, Xena, Allah, Allah is not going to put me down Allah is going to
		
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			help me and save me. And he walked away. One of the leaders of the InSAR and one of the prolific
leaders from the Companions side in rabada he say Ya rasool Allah, do you mean to tell me if I went
in I saw that my wife was having a relationship with another man You mean to tell me that you want
me to go and look for three of the men that come in watch it and to prove that to you? Problem? I'm
gonna say yes. He said what law he I'm going to hit both of them with a sharp into my sword.
		
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			And it wasn't a case of him having an Iran on the Kitab or the Sunni. He wasn't saying I don't care
what Allah says, I don't care what the ruling is. I don't care what he wasn't saying that. He was
saying that this is an amazing fitna that I don't think I can do what this man just did just turn
around or even see what happened and come back to you. I'm gonna deal with them right there in it.
		
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			So when the Companions saw what this man said to the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them and the
Companions they know all of those act. It's not befitting for believing man or believing woman if
Allah and His Messenger decided thing for them to have any say so in the issue. They know that I
will rob Booker Yeah, hello Kumar. Yasha. We are taught my cannula whom and fear to memory him.
		
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			Your law creates what He wants to create, chooses whatever he wants to choose. They don't have
anything to say about what Allah creates who choose not for you to say.
		
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			So the Companions saw that. They say yeah, Rasul Allah, yes. So like, Don't Don't Don't, don't be
upset with sad Don't Don't be he has a strange he has a strong hero to the point where if he
divorces one of his wives, we won't even marry his ex wife because it's gonna be trouble. The man is
still jealous. We don't leave his ex wife alone. So they want the Prophet understand what that man
was saying. And he was a high ranking person in the religion and community in the society. And the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam didn't care who you were. He will allow the chips to fall where
they make
		
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			like you said in so many incidents way Mala lowenna faulty method built them handmade in circuit,
Lakota to Yoda. I swear by Allah, a Fatima the daughter of Muhammad was still something I'm going to
chop her head off.
		
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			He told the people in the past that people were destroyed, they would destroy because if a rich
person stole from them, they will let him get by give them a pass. They wouldn't do anything. But if
a war weakened a poor person still they were established on them the head he said I swear by Allah
if my daughter Fatima stole something, I'm going to chop her hand off because he was faring just he
didn't care who it was Salah who it was setting them all though at the same time from our religion
		
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			as Isha mentioned in the Mocha demo of an imam Muslims Sahih merlon and Nunez even NAS Munna Zilla,
whom we've been commanded to put people in their proper places. So if someone is an important
		
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			personality as strength as position we as money, we're going to try to deal with him or her in a way
to encourage them to become Muslims to help the community and so forth so on. But that doesn't mean
that they get a pass when they make mistakes. So this wasn't the case with side they've been Obeida.
It wasn't the case with how the Prophet looked at him. Salah it was sending him the proof of that he
said to the Companions, I tie G Boone and men rewrites aside
		
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			Are you people amazed at the jealousy of side he said what Allah He like Anna other Euro men who
have more jealousy than sigh I'm more jealous over my women. So from the characteristics of the
Muslim man is to be jealous. He doesn't let his wife shake hands as a professional or when she goes
to the doctor or whatever, so he shouldn't shake hands. And why do we have to be weak? Well, we
can't say with all due respect, I don't shake hands. But I shake hands. The brother over here he
		
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			gives them this one right there. The other one shakes it with the hand like that. And the fourth one
hugs and the fifth one kisses her. So when the one who comes and says I don't shake hands, they say
yeah, but so and so did it.
		
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			And we give these mixed messages about our religion.
		
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			So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam had and here it is from the characteristic of the Muslim man and
the Muslim woman. Are you people impressed you find it strange his appearance? Mine is more than
his. He said and allies here is more than mine. Allah's jealousy is more than mine. He said and
because of the jealousy of Allah haram alpha which Malhotra minha button. Allah has made LW DS haram
because of his rarer, his jealousy. The for why Hische Don't come close to him. Allah made him haram
		
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			because he's jealous.
		
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			And then he mentioned this hadith, he said and also there is no one who loves the excuse more than
Allah. And because of his love for excuses, he sent those who have given glad tight ends and those
who warn and then he said another thing and there's no one who loves to be praised more than Allah.
And because of that, he has promised the people that Janna
		
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			and then there were some other things that had happened in the Hadith. So the chef is only bringing
an aspect of the Hadith he could have brought the aspect of Hydra he could have brought that but he
brought the one about giving excuses making excuses again, there is no one who loves excuses more
than Allah azza wa jal and because of his love for excuses, he has sent prophets and messengers to
establish the Hoja on the people the argument, the proof, the hola como Elena's written by the Rasul
		
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			as he mentioned the Quran, so that no one can come jamoke Iam and he has an excuse with Allah
because the Prophet came and he made it clear and that's why when he when the Prophet performed the
final Hijjah SallAllahu it was sent him in over 100,000 of his companions were there.
		
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			He told me now and some of the people tell the people to be quiet. It sticks it sticks to NASS make
the people quiet and then they all went quiet. And then he began to talk in the Faroe farewell, hook
but L word that the Farewell Pilgrimage and he started mentioning a lot of things a lot of things he
said I may not be here after this year, there are many signs had showed him his death was close.
Ramadan previous to that last hij that Ramadan Gibreel came and did the Quran with them two times
		
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			every night. There were a number of things that had happened that showed him hey, this is your life
is almost over. During the days of hygine I was revealed Elio MacMall Tula coming Deena calm today.
I have completed your religion and once something is complete, then that's it. That's a sign you're
gonna die. Your mission is complete.
		
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			So he told them sallallahu alayhi wa ala Ali early, he was salam to Sleeman kathira.
		
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			After mentioning all of those things to him, he put his finger up and he said to the people, hey,
people have I relayed the message? They say yes. You relayed the message loud and clear. We got it.
We got the point. put his finger up. He said all bear witness, oh Allah bear witness all bear
witness because that's him establishing the Rajah no one will come yomo piano and say I did No.
		
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			Brother Muhammad didn't explain it. Because he told us Allah Allah Who it he went on to it was salam
mumin shaitan you caribou Mina Nereo Adel Jana in Marta Combi. Amin shaitan you caribou kumara na
Ilana he took manual there is nothing
		
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			thing that exists that will cause you to come to the Jannah. I told you to do it. There is nothing
that exists that will take you to the Hellfire I told you don't do it. Well, Allah He been laid to
Allah He, the mole, it is not from our religion, I don't care who said it was. And I don't say that
arrogantly. I don't care who said it was because some major scholars of the past we love and respect
Senate, and the man was so guilty, and the man even harder. They said another than them. But we
		
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			don't take our religion and men like that no matter how high they went academically, we don't take
them as the delille. That the little is Mohammed bin Abdullah Salatu was Salam. And that's why when
we're all in our graves and Mongkut and the kid comes, they're gonna say to you, what did you say
about that man that was sent to you. The one who knew what he was doing is going to say, Abdullah,
what are Zulu? He's not going to say they're not going to say, What did you have to say about Al
		
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			Imam, Abu Hanifa Imam, admin, and Imam Shafi Al Imam, and are going to say, What did you have to say
about Sheikh Roby and metalli? You're not going to be asked that question from the soul of the
religion is that you know, it's the Nabil of Islam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, that's a joke.
		
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			So he put his hand up, because in a court of law, when an individual, he says with his own mouth, he
says, Yes, he did it. Yes, I did it. He confesses, that's the strongest delille they don't need CCTV
after that. We don't introduce the CCTV, because the man has confessed himself, I did it.
		
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			But yomo Qiyamah the people will confess their skin, their hands will confess their skin, the hands,
the body will speak against them, the people will speak against them, the gender melodica, the one
on the right, the one on the left, the earth is going to confess their witness against them. The
prophets and the messengers are going to be a witness against them. There will be no no opportunity
for per se, he's going to say, and he knew this religion, it wasn't clear. That doesn't mean that
		
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			individuals here in there won't have an excuse. Even some of these non Muslims, I believe are going
to have an excuse. Why? Because some of them, the Dow have never reached them due to where they're
located geographically. They're in the desert. There's somewhere in the jungle. They're far far away
from people. There are people who still live like that on this earth right now today. And even some
of these non Muslims will lie yaki I don't know Will they have an excuse with Allah yomo piano
		
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			because the Muslim community today is not giving a good example of what this religion is saying.
This one over there is doing the mole it and while doing the mole it they believe that the prophet
is has a nozzle and he's everywhere. He knows the Unseen, he didn't die. He's Allah reincarnated.
These one over here cursing the companions. These ones over here, were chopping it up. And I'd be
calling this one over here believe in the sink in the grave that went over there. He says this man
		
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			was in my heart. I don't have to pray that went over there is rough and tough. He has a truth but
he's not giving it to the people in a nice way, and on and on and on confusion.
		
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			So where is the justice that someone comes Yamo pm and they're asked a question, what did you have
to say about that man who came
		
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			his argument with Allah may be? I don't know, because I've never heard who Muhammad really was. I
really don't know who he was. Because the people my own relatives that I let them know who Prophet
Muhammad was as a revert Muslim do they know?
		
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			So in regards to the issue of finding Allah azza wa jal, he loves the excuse. And as a result of
that he Subhana wa Taala has sent he has sent the prophets and the messages. It's important number
one to mention in this hadith, this hadith of the NABI SallAllahu. wasallam shows us his method of
teaching, and he did a lot of things in regards to teaching as a father, as a mother, as a real
teacher, as a team. We have to look at how he was and how he taught the people in different ways by
		
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			asking questions. Do you people know who the muffler is? Do you know the bankrupt person is and then
he leaves it up to them to figure it out. There is a tree in the desert that tree is like the Muslim
Do you know what tree that is? Tell me what it is. He would teach by telling stories sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, he would teach by his actions.
		
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			So one of his methods of teaching sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that he if he was asked something,
he will give more information than what was being asked. Or if an issue presented itself he will
give more information than just the issue like what side it been rabada it was about the jealousy of
sides and his jealousy and
		
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			jealousy of Allah. But he said First he said first
		
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			you find his jealousy weird, strange, amazing. Then he's mentioned about the the excuse, what does
the excuse have to do with the jealousy?
		
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			And then he mentioned the third thing and that was, no one loves to be praised more than Allah. What
does that have to do with the jealousy issue? What happened with that man? He's given them more
information. So Allah why do you send them they were traveling they came upon a well that was on the
shore and the world was dead. So they cut the well up and he broke the world back but they didn't
eat from the well because it was dead. And they know those are yet in the Quran, hurry man and a
		
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			common Mater to a demo. In zere. The dead animal is haram. You can't eat his dead. The well is dead,
but it's such a big animal and all that meat. They cut it up, they came they say yeah, Rasul Allah,
we found that well, it was dead. What is the ruling? That's the question, what is the ruling about
eating the dead? Well, he says Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam about the ocean who were Tahoma or who
and Hello May Teto. He said that the ocean is pure.
		
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			The water of the ocean is pure. You can make will do with it. You can make also with it. You can
wash your utensils, your clothes, whether it's pure doesn't have any gas in it, and it's dead. It's
halau. So if it's dead is halal. If you can eat something dead from that ocean, then everything in
it that is alive, you can eat it. So we respect the Hanafi madhhab and we respect our NMR but in the
Hanafi madhhab. There's this opinion that the crustacean of the ocean is not permissible. You can't
		
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			eat lobsters. You can't eat crabs. You can't eat squid. You can't eat these types of crustacean, you
know those things that have the the shell on it, you can't eat clams. Why? Because those from
Allah's creation, they eat the algae die in the funghi and the things that are there in the ocean
and clean the ocean. The Prophet said that the oceans Allah, Allah, why do you sell them as pure and
as dead as halal? Some of the Muslims say that the seal, you can't eat the seal, you know, the seal,
		
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			right?
		
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			Anybody want to make the noise of the seals, so those who don't know know what we're talking about,
anybody want to make that noise?
		
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			It wouldn't be appropriate to make the noise of the seal, just as it wouldn't be appropriate to make
the noise of a dog or the noise of a cow. Or the noise of a donkey wouldn't be appropriate.
		
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			They call the seal in Arabic the cable, the dog of the ocean, and because it has that name, the dog
of the ocean, people say that's haram. No, everything in that ocean is halal. Because if the dead is
halal, then what about the living? And we respect the position of God mm. But like I told you, Allah
was angels won't get in the care. We're going to ask you what did you say about that man? Not gonna
ask you about an Imam Abu Hanifa Smith had an imam Shafi. His mother had
		
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			sharecropping McAleese we've never had. stop worshipping these people. And then we're going to come
these days and tell our community what are you doing the moment what are you doing the moment? Why
can't they do the moment? You're overboard and you have glue? You're extremely Shikara beer whoever
you're with your extreme. Why do you make it okay for yourself and haram for other people. Now we
got to be consistent in this religion Take it easy.
		
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			Another issue about this hadith and millennials it establishes Allah's characteristics as we
mentioned a number of time the previous a hadith, Allah loves from his characteristics, and Allah is
jealous he has rarer Allah loves in a way that befits His Majesty. Well as a company shape well was
selling But see, nothing is like him. And he sees any here's
		
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			Allahu Taala send the Quran helter alumna who Samia, do you know anyone anything similar to Allah
Lemonnier Kalonzo Kapha one. Nothing, no one is like going to Allah no one. They have knowledge.
Allah has knowledge. But his knowledge is not like the knowledge. Allah comes down, they come down,
but Allah doesn't come down the way they come down. Allah has two hands and both of those hands are
right hands and on those hands, our fingers based on the Quran, the Sunnah.
		
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			But his hands are not like their hands. So we believe in it. We believe in it. We don't ask how it's
done. And we leave the How to Allah. We believe in that stuff.
		
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			Even in Christianity, the US of shady people call themselves at the Sunnah from our Muslim brothers
who are really following I wouldn't even say Imam Abu Hassan Ashanti because Imam Abu Hassan
		
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			Shadie he has some Morahan he started off on something and then he went to something else and then
he went to something else. And then before he died he said Here I am about to die. And I die on the
RIP though, of the contaminated I kid of the Bedouins in the desert. It was on the AKI the the self
of this ummah, at the realize that growth and development that he went through, you can call it that
to arrive to the point where he was a person of the Sunnah at the end of his life that is
		
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			historically established. So I'm not gonna call people like that, from the shower era, if I use that
term is just tonight zoom and for the sake of argument, that's it. But he was a man of the Sunnah at
the end of his life, and the colon and the colon, that people want to follow this mishap and explain
away the names and the attributes of Allah reject names and attributes that Allah has established.
This is in Bukhari and Muslim.
		
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			Allah is jealous. But his jealousy is in a way that befits His Majesty. subhanho wa taala. And as I
mentioned, unfortunately, in the Bible, the Old Testament said, I'm not saying Allah said that, but
it's in the Bible today.
		
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			No old children of Israel, that your God is a jealous God. So don't take anything else for worship
in the earth when the sky and the sea below and then these Christians come in, they believe in that.
Jewish people come in, they believe in that. And the person says that he's from under sunnah and he
rejects it. He had a heart. He had a heart.
		
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			In regards to this issue, when concerning this particular Hadith, the CHE who wrote the Hadith or
wrote the book, he put the chapter of the book and he said and Muslim or men a vow, given a
description of the believer, the Muslim man the Muslim woman, men believe in men believing woman,
they are Allah, Allah means a person who always looks for excuses for people not for himself. I love
for those of you are learning Arabic I love is on the on the wasn't of the Syrian Mubaraka file,
		
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			something that's being done a lot like Allahu Taala is how far he forgives a lot. See, something
that's been done a lot.
		
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			Allah who follow me, my you read, Allah does whatever he wants, how when he wants to do it, if he
wants to be jealous.
		
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			That's up to Allah, not up to you. If Allah azza wa jal wants to come down at the last 30 Each
night, that's up to him. That's not up to you.
		
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			If Allah azza wa jal wants to forgive this person, and he didn't make Toba and he died on a major
sin, that he was perpetually doing. As we mentioned last week, he died on a major sin. He was
shooting heroin, and he died high from an overdose. But he did some deed in the course of his life
before his death at some point, that Allahu Taala was pleased with him like, like the prostitute
lady who gave the dog some water to drink.
		
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			Like light like the man who pulled something out of the street that was harmful, and Allah was
pleased with him. And Allah was shakin for Shakur, Allah, Allah was pleased with him Shaka in a way
that befits His Majesty. And then here we come today, brand spanking new you revert from America,
African American, just accepted Islam four months ago, or he was born as a Muslim raised as a
Muslim, but he lost his religion and now he came back to his religion five, six months ago, and now
		
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			he's passing out vertix haram halau Catherine will not move
		
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			you in a Hellfire casket? Come on, man.
		
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			Have some rap more on yourself. Like the poet he said the Arabic poet. He said that the lamb that
has the horns and I think you guys heard that advice that I gave to the brothers. I call him the US
horrible suck of the companions of the roof. We told them have mercy upon your horn.
		
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			You know the RAM. When Ram hits another RAM? Yes, another RAM doesn't hurt either one of them.
That's the way they're built. But can you imagine the RAM running his head into a wall into a
mountain?
		
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			The poet told the RAM Hey, RAM, a ram. Don't have mercy on the mountain. Have mercy upon your horns.
You're gonna break your horns, making tuck feet of people in to deal with people with all of the
shortcomings that you have in yourself with all of the shortcomings that I
		
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			Hi, I'm gonna talk to people in a condescending way. Allah sent me here personally in order to get
you people right? Come on.
		
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			The believer is Allah, he looks for excuses for other people and the monastic, the hypocrite. The
hypocrite is the one who is the opposite of that. He looks for the mistakes of people.
		
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			Any mistake that people make, he's going to blow it up. He's going to blow it up. If Greenlee Masjid
does something by inviting someone that they may not like for an example, I don't want this person
to come for an example. So when he gets invited, I say, greening masjid, the enemies of the
pseudonym, they don't want the sun, they don't come on, man. This stuff is disturbing. The way we
are.
		
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			The way we are
		
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			four types of people I want you to remember this, all of them start with an H haitch. As you guys
say, we say H in America by H haitch. For people, you will find them this way. The first one is the
hypocrite. The hypocrite, he doesn't look for any excuses. He's gonna continue. You say something,
you put a wrong word. You made a mistake on the membrane and you meant to say, we worship the
Prophet with a gloss you meant to say we worship Allah, they're gonna take that and put it on the
		
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			internet and say, Look, he worships Rasul Allah said with his own mouth, hypocrite. Second person is
the his be. The his be. If you're with a particular group, and a person who is not from your group,
when he makes a mistake, you're going to hold them accountable for that mistake, even if you didn't
mean it. But if your chef makes that same mistake, similar, you're not going to say anything, you're
not going to hold them to account. I remember some time back years, maybe 1011 12 years ago, I
		
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			mentioned I saw in Abu Bakar Sadiq Radi Allahu Anhu that which does not allow me to take everything
that he says. And I explained what that meant. That means I saw were the prophets of Allah, why do
you sell them and Allah says, well, Allah, and then his Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave instructions
to Abu Bakar Sadiq for something that he didn't that was in writing, so I don't follow him in
everything that he did. It was better for me not to put that language in that way because it can be
		
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			misconstrued and misunderstood. I came back later and explain to 50,000 times 50,000 And these
people are still saying I will Simon's mob Teddy. Why he doesn't like Abu Bakr Siddiq.
		
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			But what about your shirt? What about your Shake Shack rubbish, obey what was said about Jabril?
What was said about suit a man what was said about what was said about codogno nomadic Wallah, he
asked, I know they didn't mean it that way. I have to look for excuses. But the history is not like
that. The other one is the hot seat. The one who was envious and jealous. If you have envy for
someone in jealousy for someone, when they make a mistake, that's it, you're gonna crucify him
		
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			condemn him. Because whatever they have that you want, or whatever they had, that you want it to
disappear from them. That is your motivation to prevent you from being balanced. And the last one is
the hearted.
		
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			It's like envy. There's a different word anybody wants to work for? What's the translation for Hi,
Fred. And Huck, in English.
		
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			You can say that Hi said is jealousy and hearted is envious. But there's another word I don't
remember what it was those four people
		
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			that will prevent a person from being unfair, unjust and giving people excuses and this is why when
we have been commanded by Lazarus, in the Quran and the Sunnah, that everybody knows everybody, we
have to seek refuge in Allah from the highest seed either has said, seek refuge in Allah from the
one who was envious jealous of you. Because that jealousy will create problems. He's lying in wait
for you, he's looking for you a mistake. So I would think if someone made a mistake, as his brother,
		
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			all of us, he made a mistake. We are gonna go to him, the three of us, four of us, we say look at
that brother. We're going to go to him, give him some advice, get them off the street, take them
covering situation. Now, there has to be the hypocrite has said hack those people they're not going
to do that. You know, they're gonna take that mobile phone that that phone and they're gonna put you
in like that and they're gonna put them on social media. They're gonna put them on social media,
		
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			they're gonna spread it. And that's not the way the movement is. So therefore, before we move
another step with another kennemer another
		
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			We're looking at yourself. Yes. Abdullah, are you one of those four people as it relates to your
Muslim brothers and sisters, my wife doesn't have the food ready. When I get home, and I'm starving
like Marvin and I'm tired. And I'm thinking all the way home I want to eat. I'm gonna get my grub
on. And as soon as I get there, that grub is not ready, and I blow up when I get into the house. I
gotta give you an excuse. She has children. She was she was she was washing the clothes, hanging
		
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			them up. She was ironing them. She had to do the school run.
		
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			She had to go do the school run. And I'm paying the gas and electric pay as you go. And I didn't
give her money so she couldn't cook.
		
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			But I'm upset with her. No, you have to give each other excuses and the woman is well, you don't
want that woman. When are you young brothers? Most of my students, you guys are younger, like Mary.
I keep telling you. On one hand, it's a NEMA because you're my school Lea your responsibility is
less. And the Hadith we took last week, the less responsibilities you have, think Allah because the
more you have, the more you have to be answerable for. Beware of marrying that lady in the future
		
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			Abdullah he'd be worried. They call him Arabic or too soft.
		
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			To ahimsa. I'm going to say it I want you to say it. This is not a collective Jamaat, vicar This is
me trying to help you to learn a word right? Okay, why need to sign
		
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			a trim size and alligator.
		
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			The Arabs use that word to describe the lady who has an insatiable appetite she's never satisfied no
matter what you do. And that's what the Prophet says southern lady was setting up he said that the
women they have a problem and that is if your husband does a send to you all your life the one time
he doesn't do it. You can say I never saw any good from you never did not take you to the hospital
you had the baby.
		
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			That's your job anyway.
		
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			The other the other person and there are many is the loved one. I'm going to say I want you to say
Lavoie.
		
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			Again Lavoie love What is the name for the lion that the Arabs used to have a lot of names for the
lion the lob was a female lion and she's very aggressive. She's very aggressive. You know, lions,
you got that oh mines, it's gonna lead it Koolau I mean, bothering nobody doesn't care that come and
roll my you don't even fighting nobody's the boss no more. He's in the twilight of his career. So
you have different lions, there's the lion like Hafsa houses the little baby cub. So they gave all
		
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			these names to the lion. The loved one is that female lion, that after she just ate a will the b She
just ate a will do beasts. If a deer runs by she gonna get deer just for general principle. Don't be
in my territory. So they say that that real rough lady is like that.
		
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			Now I'm not here to put women down. And some of you may be sitting there saying, what does that have
to do with the earth? What does that have to do with the Hadith? It's all intertwined. It's all
interconnected. We have to give each other excuses why, why? Because Benny Adam, we make mistakes
and the practice Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam told us we all make mistakes. And everybody has the
Hadith to three weeks ago said, We all will continue to do the same sin from time to time, and some
		
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			of us will never leave that sin until we die. All of Adam's children, our people make mistakes. So
if we make mistakes, we need excuses. Give me a break. He made a mistake. Give him a break. Take it
easy. Listen to what happened with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			And this happened on multiple occasions. The tribe of Islam came to him there was a man he came and
say, God, Allah, I committed adultery. I commit he exposed himself because he wanted to make Toba
and he wanted to be purified in the dunya before he met Allah azza wa jal
		
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			purify me. Prophet Muhammad turned away. The man went around, purify me, turned away, purify me,
purify me four times four witnesses on himself. Prophet Muhammad, Cara say come stone Him, He said
to the man sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were you insane?
		
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			Were you crazy? Were you insane? Man say no. Yeah, don't lie. I wasn't insane. He asked the masala
Why do you sell them when you did this with that lady? Were you married?
		
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			Trying to give him Excuse get away out. The man say yes, I was married. The height that was married.
		
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			Another situation was even more more, more clear than that.
		
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			An older was more detail. Another man came, same thing. The Prophet said to the man salAllahu alayhi
wa sallam, maybe you didn't do everything. Maybe you just kissed him. He said, I didn't kiss I did
everything. He said, Maybe Maybe you just touched up. He said, I didn't. I touched I did everything.
He says, Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam may maybe you just looked at it. The man said, I didn't look
at it. I didn't have anything. The Prophet says, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, did you put your part
		
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			into her part where he disappeared?
		
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			The man said yes. And he established a HUD.
		
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			That's serious crime. That's serious sin. Now, that doesn't mean that someone can go and do crimes
and sins, we see him smoking weed on the corner before Giuliani says hey, look for excuse remember
the Hadith. Now that doesn't mean that we're not saying that you have to be practical, you have to
have common sense. You have to take it to consideration of it and other a hadith.
		
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			But the point is, when we can find excuses for people, we should find excuses for each other. When
we do that, our community will be better. One of the reasons why our communities are stuck on stupid
and we don't make any progress. Although these non Muslims are playing hardball Trojan horse, all of
these new rules and regulations that are being put on the table all of these issues, all of these
issues, Muslims in London having a Joomla where everybody can come with whatever sexual persuasion
		
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			you want to have dressed as you want to dress. We all mixed together when you come introduce people
and tell them how you want to be identify you a man but tell people to call me it
		
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			your woman but tell people to call me him? No, he, I mean we're even losing the pronouns. I remember
learning Arabic language, the pronouns were so important. He she they we it is important. Now what
what's going on? We're even losing 50 of the pronouns in our religion.
		
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			Cat don't even know if he's a man doesn't even know he's not a man anymore.
		
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			So in this issue, this issue, we're backwards, we're behind under develop, because we're so
critical. And I the speaker before you right now, I'm the last person in this room who should be
critical with people who are in front of me.
		
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			And you also should see yourself as that that's not me. That's not me trying to say something cool,
acceptable slick. Try to be like him Humble. Humble. No, you know your reality. So what that
scholarly Imam Abdullah Mubarak used to say, may Allah have robbed him upon the person who knows his
own reality, because they are people who don't know their reality. They think they are Allah's gift
to humanity. And as a result of that they exist amongst us in a way that's just really a What are
		
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			you doing that? Go and search your own house out? Go and search your own house before you start
coming, throwing stones at us. So in regards to this issue of quantity that's on the table, the
Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam is clear. We have to have this thing in
our religion called hosting Oven. Oven. I'm going to say I want you to say is today the moment or
was it yesterday is today demoted or yesterday?
		
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			I can't hear you guys. Is it today yesterday? was in omole it yesterday. Nobody know when the
Prophet was born. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam nobody knows. But the celebration was yesterday and it
was his death yesterday. sallallahu alayhi wa salam compounded ignorance. The day that he died is
the day that we are celebrating as his birthday some love while he was
		
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			in a van. I don't want anybody thinking mashallah, okay. They don't really practice the prophets.
Molad but at least they do the Vic of Jamaat e this is not a Jamaat, vicar. This is us learning
Arabic. I'm going to say it I want you to notice word for SNA van and then you said Krishna lung
		
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			has navan.
		
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			Personally, one is having a good opinion about your brother, as opposed to having a negative
opinion. You meet him for the first time and maybe his beard is shaved. You don't know his story.
		
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			You don't know his journey. You don't know his book. You didn't read a script.
		
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			Right away you start thinking he's from this group. He's from that group is that What are you
talking about? You don't know is development.
		
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			Many of us who started practicing at one time, we're not that same person who we were when we first
became Muslims and we first started practicing.
		
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			It's a learning curve, you learning you develop and this is why we have to keep a good strong hold
		
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			And our youngsters get him in bear hug. That's what I call it. You know that guy Habib, Habib?
Habib? Why are you so good? Because he was fighting them bears.
		
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			You want to put them in a bear hug.
		
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			Get youngsters in the bear hug. You could barely breathe, and say hey, you relax. You're young.
You're 1819 2021 25 You're young. You're still growing and you're still developing. Stop being so
judgmental. Stop being so hot. Stop being so harsh. Stop being so much in a rush. Instead, dial in,
Aced, relax.
		
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			Her Snellen when you see the Muslim, he is Muslim. You see the Muslim? He's doing this. He's doing
that she's not wearing hijab. Did you brothers? No, I met a brother today. He's in our mentions, we
want to welcome our brothers side a sloth and Allah Jamia, he met me so I want to thank you for this
assistance now that you said you know what I like about this mystery is that I came to this mystery
and not feel comfortable here. I don't feel like people judging me looking at me pushing me away and
		
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			sofas or I say that's a good thing about this mystery but that doesn't mean everything this mystery
does. We're going to accept because perfection is with Allah but that's one of the things we like
about our message right here and every message should be like that as opposed to going in the
mystery with people looking at you. And people will sizing you up. And no doubt the son of this Oma.
They used to look at people. They used to look at people
		
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			like the Imam of the tambourine said
		
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			an imam Ibrahim and naturally he said about those people during that time can either add to Raju and
Leah who men who are and who will. Nether who salata he witnessed something. If they went to take
knowledge from a man, they will look at how he prayed and they will look at his subject. They they
eat with his right hand did he give with his right hand? Did he drink with his right hand? Did he
keep his head covered? Did he have a beard? How was he when he lived? How did he sit how they used
		
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			to look at that to see if you can see the effects and the impact of the Sunnah and that person, but
there is a context that someone who you're going to take knowledge from during that time when the
people want a high level of Ellis lamb. That's not for every ama bucket in z from the people you're
going to hold them to that standard and you don't know as I told you guys, you don't know his story.
		
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			Remind me inshallah at the end of this, Doris and reminded at the end of his daughter's to tell you
about the bum of Liverpool. Repeated after me the bum of Liverpool. Good job. Even when you guys say
bum he is different. Oh, I know why forget that. Forget it. Tell me about the poor man in Liverpool
say that word. Okay. We call them a bump at Aculon What if
		
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			the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam brought a religion in a book that told us yet you live in
Amman, which Tony boo cathedra minivan in Bob the one f1 or you believe avoid suspicion?
		
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			Speculating because some suspicion is a sin. How did he get that car? He has a 2018 car how how did
he get it? He must have it financed. How did he live here? How did he do this? How to * your
business man. Man Hosni Islam and murder Turku
		
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			from a versus good Islam is leaving alone with doesn't concern you. I have more than enough to
concern myself with and my own immediate family in my life, to be worrying about all of the details
of your life and why you did this and why you did that.
		
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			What is that you have to have done for the Muslim Natsu a van hosting a van a good opinion as
opposed to a bad opinion concerning the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it was setting
them in 20. Allah is Alhadeff Allah is Al Moutere cotbed Allah is Al Jabbar, Allah is Allah Aviv and
Medina going
		
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			Allah has all of those names and characteristics that signify and denote his power his strength.
		
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			If Allah Tala were to take us all to account for what we've done and what we have not done, we
wouldn't have left on the earth a single person, how are you going to look at me and me look at you
in a judgmental fashion. He wouldn't have left anybody on the earth. And although he has all that
Parliament miton ability, he Subhana wa Tada loves the excuse. So if Allah loves the excuse, then we
should try to love the excuse.
		
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			Allah loves the excuse. He gave you an excuse not to destroy you. And you and you and you and me. He
gave us excuse me, he gave us opportunities while you are here to love nice people me him. My Tareq
Allah
		
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			In DAB better Malaccan you are here home, Ella Agilent Musa. If Allah wanted to hold everybody to
account for what they did, he would not have left on the face of the earth of the earth a single one
of them, but he has given them respite. Give them time to make Toba let him go through his
formidable years as being a youngster teenage years, wiling out, wiling out. We'll come to mana
shefa who frightened men and not from Kedah caminha you on the brink of the Hellfire about to fall
		
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			into it. I don't know about you. But I know there are some people listening to me right now. They
were in situations in their lives where death was right there.
		
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			The bullet past them by different things happen. He could have been in a car accident, different
things happen because of his negligence. But Allah didn't let it happen. He protected you because
from his names is Al huffy. He protected and preserved you to allow you the opportunity to make Toba
to come into this religion to come back to your senses. And then now you don't remember that and
that's an ayat of the Quran.
		
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			For men, Allah for Allah, Allah, Allah comforteth a bit but the bay, you know,
		
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			Allah said, You people, the Companions, you used to be a straight, they were a group of people who
were actually companions. But when the companions were traveling, they met them, and they were in
the desert. And the companions said to those people.
		
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			Those people didn't say why they couldn't send them back. They gave salaams in a way that was
different. So those companions who had met them, they just killed them.
		
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			Like they were disbelievers. And then when the issue came to the Prophet sallallahu was suddenly I
was revealed. If you people traveled the earth, that they're up to an hour for the big yellow. Oh,
you believe if you travel the earth than ascertain
		
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			the reality and the truth, and don't let your desire be the dunya they wanted to get the horses and
the camels and the saddles and the saws and stuff, so they killed him.
		
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			Allah told them you used to be like that, and Allah guided you. So since you used to be like that
ignorant astray, not practicing, have a little bit more RAM on the people take it easy, take it easy
and relax a little bit. That's why we need within ourselves this issue of
		
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			making an earlier making excuses for people whenever we can, either coulomb, Allah azza wa jal sent
the prophets and the messengers, whenever he told us in an authentic hadith SallAllahu it was send
them that they were 120,000 prophets that were sent.
		
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			And 313 messengers that were sent. That's the Rama of Allah. That's the look, Allah thief, the look
of Allah. That's the helm and Helene that's the gentleness of Allah towards the people.
		
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			I wouldn't it be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has been gone over 1400 years. Allah sent 124,000
prophets 313 messengers
		
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			also he sent them to every group of people. What Eman Merton in
		
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			FY Nevsehir There was never a community except that there was a warner who came to them. When
occurred bath knife he coolly met him Rasulullah and Allah which Turnbull target, we sent to every
nation and messenger who came to them and said, worship Allah and avoid worship and all of the false
deities. Why? Because Allah wants to establish the de Lille in the Ajah upon the people and he wants
he loves the excuse. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us that about our Lord. So concerning this
		
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			issue of sending the prophets and the messengers, Allah azza wa jal is showing us the manifestation
of this particular characteristic that the Prophet told us about And had it not been for the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam educating us about these things we would not have ever known. And that's
from the Wrath of Allah azza wa jal that we can even be taught this particular understanding and
reminded of it, take it easy. Take it easy with your children, when your daughter comes to you, and
		
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			she complains that her older brother put the gum in her hair, and a gum is in our hair. You gotta
give him an excuse.
		
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			His intellect is not complete yet, take it easy. Don't be like as I mentioned all the time. Some of
our fathers some of our fathers were just too rough and tough. They didn't have a good action plan.
They didn't know how to be fathers in relation to guiding and educating and talking. I do believe
		
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			For that you have to put the child in place in some in his place. And sometimes sometimes you have
to put lay your hands on him. And that's why the prophets and authenticating sallallahu alayhi wa
salam, Aleikum, who are so mean hateful Euro who aren't on bait, hang the belt, hang what you beat
them with where the kids can see it, where the people can see it, the kids, but he said Hang it up.
Hopefully, hopefully, because they have Dean because they have tarbiyah, because you've been doing
		
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			your musalia that we talked about last week, all you have to do in sha Allah is look at them, some
of them and get the picture, you have to look at some of our kids just look at it. And she's gonna
get right. I don't have a daughter like that. Just look at his done. And then the other one Oh, you
have to do as I told you just do the sign he's gonna get right.
		
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			And then there's that one where you point to the thing.
		
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			And they get right. They just calm down, just point to the thing. And then there are those from our
children from the people we deal with. Well, you got to deal with them. But in this
		
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			in this society that we're living in right now with political correctness on steroids, even that you
have to be careful, because I don't want someone leaving this place. And then it said, Abu Simon was
encouraging people to do child abuse I had no, he said the best of you is the best one to his
family. I'm the best of you to my family. And he never had his family SallAllahu Sallam except in
the way of playing. He were hit. I issued to say, Were you the one who was following me to the
		
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			graveyard because she thought he was going to another wife's house. So she got up to follow him to
see on her night. Is he going to another wife's house, he went into the graveyard. And he was like
this. And then when he finished it came back when she was in the bed. She was breathing like this
heart because she ran back. He said, Well, what are you breathing like that for? She said nothing.
		
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			Prophet Muhammad said if you don't tell me Jabril is going to come and tell me. She say out of Salah
when you got up, you put your thing on your shoulder. You took your shoes and you went out very
quietly. I thought she was going to another wife house. He said Do you think I would do that when
you've been to Sadiq and he had a plan plan playing he said well you the black will you that black
mass in front of me that was running in front of me and he hit it like that? Never did the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi salam make intercom make Tavi never and although we have been allowed to
discipline our families with the Ivan the Quran, forgettable Will you allow that, but he said the
data Rama Berra, you can hit someone that leaves a mark. You can't hit them in the way that there's
something it swells up a breaks, you can't do that. Can't do that. We don't have to take those weak
Hadith, the Miss whack hit them with a miss whack. Because even with that it could be child abuse.
		
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			Because there are some big Miss wax and some people they start to really go out there with their
imagination. I can him with a miswak you guys don't know but we I come from they used to beat us
with switches. You guys don't know what switches are
		
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			the switches the timer, my grandmother, my grandfather, the elders, you get in trouble. Like, we let
the pig out of the thing and the pig was running all over the place. We let them out. They say hey,
go get the switch, you have to walk down into the woods and take the leaves off the thing and bring
them to your mother, your father, your uncle your auntie and they will light you up with those five
or six switches. You guys don't even know what that is. But some of the you know extension cords
		
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			you know the extension cords. And now with the new iPhone and there's new mobile phones and
smartphones these kids some of them know about the you know the
		
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			the chargers and stuff like that that's haram can beat your kid with a charger with an extension
cord can't beat your kids with stuff like that.
		
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			It should be a chastisement. And the best of the people are those who are best with his family and I
sincerely advise you and I remind myself, we have to remind our kids and talk to the minds of our
kids to develop them to be people who buy into an IQ Tina and Edna. That's when you talk to a person
and you give them your point of view. And you cause them to understand and believe in your point of
view. He doesn't do refer Leah Dane, he doesn't do roughly again. So I want him to do roughly a day
		
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			and I can curse his madhhab I can curse the way he's stuck on that issue and then all the little.
That's not the way I have to try a nice way to cause him to be convinced. We have to teach our
people, our kids, our families take the position
		
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			based upon conviction, because you believe you understand,
		
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			you understand, lastly, equity Villa certain this issue of what the Prophet salallahu it he was it
was sending them advice in regards to this issue.
		
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			We've been here an hour. Okay, we're going to start now Shala but I was thinking about that hadith
of our mother Sophia that the Prophet sallallaahu Selim was visited by his wives in the masjid. And
Sophia came later than everyone else. So everyone left before her. Then it came Maghrib time was
dark, and she stayed later. So it was time to go to the Prophet walked home. Salallahu Alaihe Salam
and two of the companions saw him walking, and when they saw him, they went the other way. He said,
		
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			Honestly, Kumar, stop, stop, hold on. They said he said in the house, Sophia xojo. It is my wife
Sofia. They say Yara Salah Allah. We didn't think anything. We weren't thinking but the way they
turned around. They saw the prophet at nighttime with a woman who they didn't know she had a job and
they went the other way.
		
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			He said no shaytaan he goes in inside of Adam, the way his blood circulates and he made it clear
issues like that are here you see the guy he's in a situation he's in a position have Houston oven
and make the other half Houston oven, and you make the other. Lastly, I want to mention want to
share this with you in this regard. Something happened to me when I was traveling.
		
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			And Liverpool there's a train station called Liverpool lime Street, the main station where I get
off, take the bus to my house, a
		
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			lot of the homeless people hang out in that area Slyke our, like your city center here, people are
feeding the homeless. When I came out of the bus going home, there was a homeless man we'd call them
bums in America be you when my bump, a bump, lazy, shiftless, doesn't want to work, drugs, alcohol,
he wants to be homeless. So he blended into the landscape, how those people tend to blend into the
landscape. Because they are on the peripheral in society. They're, you know, people don't think
		
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			about them. They don't have rights. I didn't even see him. Although he was in the path of where I
was walking. As I was walking. When I got to him, he said, Excuse me, Brother, can you spare some
change? I don't know if it was the decibels in his voice, the tone of his voice or his pronunciation
because he sound educated, and the way he spoke. So I was intrigued. I took the change out, and I
wanted to know his story. I said, What are you doing out here, man? What's the deal? What are you
		
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			doing because as Muslims, we have sympathy and empathy. Even if the person is a non Muslim. That's
how we are we had that. When non Muslims. That's what Ramadan does to you. That's what the cat does
to you. That's what given for the foot Kuramoto gene, the people of our own and that's what it does
for you. This is not something we just say, we're just gonna give Muslims and I'm not saying that
about myself. All of us are like that is something in our religion.
		
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			What was your story, Man, that guy proceeded to take his wallet out, show me his ID. He had an ID
showing that he was a professor at Cambridge University. He showed me his driver's license, his
national insurance card. It was his picture on everything in the same name. So one day I was playing
rugby with some of my friends one Sunday morning, and they tackled me and I hit the back of my head
on the ground. And I became sick I began to get you know, nauseous, so I went home. So the problem
		
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			started to exasperate after a few days. I started hearing I started hearing, I started hearing
voices. He had become concussed, went to the hospital. So you have a concussion take off from work,
take it easy. Problem exasperated, start a hearing voices in his head. Those voices started to
suggest to him, hurt your two children, hurt your wife. Do this do that. So the wife said, Hey, I'm
getting out of here. This is a danger to me and my children. So they she left him because the wife
		
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			left him with his two kids. He gave up on life. And he became homeless. That was a story. When I
heard his story, I have sympathy for the man and empathy for the man. And I was down on myself. I
wasn't happy with myself. I was disappointed in myself, because I believe I'm a person who I embrace
diversity.
		
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			I embrace diversity. Why Black Muslim, non Muslim, because we're going to celebrate this diversity
that exists especially in the cities like Liverpool. Everybody is here, everybody. You think the you
think what
		
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			What do you think? You have to get along with these people?
		
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			So anyway, I wasn't, I wasn't my usual stuff with that guy. I judged him. I judged him. I never read
his book, never saw his movie, never read his script. Lazy drugs, alcohol, he wants to be out. He's
lazy, shiftless bump.
		
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			When I walked away, I said, I bought us a lesson. That's a lesson. Don't do that to people. How
would you feel especially to be an African American?
		
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			Right now in America, there's institutionalized racism against me, even in this country is racism
against people of color. And America, my people have been oppressed, I should be sensitive to
racism. I'm going to turn around and be racist now. How?
		
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			In the West, in America, women are second class citizens, they are second class citizens. So what
happens? What happens with those women? What happens with them is they can have the same credentials
as the male counterpart, but he's gonna get more money. They got more experience, he's gonna get
more money.
		
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			That woman has been objectified. You want to sell toothpaste, want to sell lifelong want to sell car
tire, want to sell a tie, just get a woman make a naked and sell it.
		
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			So that same woman who suffers from all of us going on in Hollywood, you know, all this stuff, all
the stuff that's going on? How can she now look at a Muslim woman walking in Liverpool? My wife
wears, we've called Jill bad gloves in Liverpool. I understand. That's not how people dress in
Liverpool. I understand. I understand. I don't I get that. So if you do a double take, I understand.
		
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			But why is it when the monk, you know, the monk walks by in his dress, you look twice and that's it.
But when the Muslim woman walks by, that non Muslim woman starts to say, Ninja, which he pulls,
she's a witch. She's oppressed. She's not educated. She's this, she's that.
		
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			And you as a woman, you suffered from sexism.
		
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			You saw the results of misogyny you saw that you tasted it? How are you going to allow yourself to
be like that?
		
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			How? And I say that all of you people,
		
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			people have been racist towards you as a Muslim sama phobia. As a person of color, whatever your
case is, don't be a racist towards people don't be a bigot. Don't suffer from xenophobia. My wife is
walking down the street, and I'm behind her 50 feet, something like that. And I'm protesting
dragging my feet. Because she's window shopping. You young brothers don't know what window shopping
is. But that's when the woman goes. She said, Well, that's nice. That's nice, but they don't buy
		
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			anything.
		
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			I hated it since I was a kid. I'm protesting. She's way up there. These people that drinking from a
pub called Irish Pub. They told her go back to Iran where you came from. But they use foul language
take you back to Iran where you came from.
		
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			They didn't know that the kingdom of the Queen was behind her. So I went there not to make trouble
because I'm the Imam of the city. But if you want that trouble, we're going to give them the
business because I hate that kind of stuff. I went to I started talking to him. And sure enough,
they were cowards started finding out those guys were Irish. I asked him Did you guys know the turn
of the century here in this country? Ireland, they had a drought, a drought, their potatoes, their
		
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			vegetables and stuff died. So they came here. And many of them went to Liverpool maybe came
scousers, when they first came to Liverpool when they first arrived. The local love of Booleans
didn't accept them.
		
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			They used to put on the public houses and the pub, restaurants everywhere hotels, no Irish, no
blacks and no dogs.
		
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			And now you're an Irish man and your skill set. Now you're going to dish that out to people.
		
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			Don't be like that. Don't be like that. But I want to be told us a lot. Why do you set him three
things from the times of Janelia my ummah will always have these three things and they won't get rid
of them. One of them is a turn and SAP. They'll talk bad about other people and where they came from
1/3 Bad there'll be proud about where they came from when Yeah, and then meet and that if someone
dies, the women will scream and wail and howling act up. So today's lesson whiny, make excuses for
		
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			each other, make excuses for one another. The Imam that her team is in the member and he's given a
cookbook
		
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			And he's really I've been there when the fatigue was very loud, very a bit too loud.
		
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			Gotta make excuses. It's offensive. It gets in your head and your central nervous system, you say,
wow, wow, why you have to be so loud? Why? Maybe the guy has a hearing problem. Maybe as a hearing
problem.
		
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			All you have to do is sit there for 1520 30 minutes and say, Oh, maybe my brother has a human
problem. Don't take it so personally, he has the nerve and the audacity the screen like that doesn't
even know this is bothering us. And the Quran and Sunnah say, Don't bother the Muslims don't make
other vote. Hey, maybe the man has a hearing problem.
		
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			Maybe the microphone wasn't working. The speaker system wasn't working. He can't he doesn't know how
loud he's been. Maybe no one ever went to him and gave him advice.
		
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			Kulu Kohli has always stuck for Allah. Allah. Allah Tala Tofik. Was say that Santa Monica muram to
La he Roberta cut