Channel: Abu Usamah At-Thahabi
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al hamdu lillahi wa
Salatu was Salam ala nabina Mustafa.
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why shadow Mohammed Abdullah who are Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam maba
come to the next howdy shalonda Heidi
from the book
of the chef, I will hide if allien halaby have faded Hello Donna,
the 40 Hadith of the personality of the Muslim 40 Hadith that the chef has chosen, keeping in step keeping in tune with what the rhythm of the past used to do when they used to write books and call those books the book of 40 Hadith like an amendment no we refer to like any other than an Imam, and knowing
today's audience has a tremendous Heidi, Heidi, if again, like the ones that have passed us by we we've studied them previously. The Muslim he is this Heidi, and he has to make some effort with trying to make this hadith a part of his Islamic character because of all of the good that he brings to our community.
And that is the Hadith that was collected by Emmanuel Bukhari Muslim.
The part of the Hadith that the chef brought to this chapter is the statement of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam la had a hubzu LA River Manila,
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there is no one who loves excuses more than Allah. There is no one who loves the excuse more than Allah loves the excuse. And because of his love for the excuse, because of that, he sent the messages and the prophets and MOBA Shireen woman, Dini, he sent prophets and messengers to give glad tidings the bush raw. And he sent prophets and messengers to make the indar and to warn people. So in the six or can have an Eman the fact that the Muslim believes and Alon is melodic and is caught up and is Rasul. Salawat and why he was sent amlani and Jermaine, and he believes in Yeoman, I him and he believes, and the cutter, the good and bad of it, as it relates to a man in the prophets and
the messengers, the Muslim has to know. One of the reasons why Eliza jellison prophets and messengers is so that people will have an excuse and a reason or they won't have excuses or reasons, because once the prophet and messenger comes, is one of the ways that the door of excuses are closed on the people.
This How do you say honey is a honey that is a longer Heidi, the prophet, he used more words in the Heidi just this more than this, but the chef brought this part because he's trying to bring the attention of the people who are reading this book, or studying this book, this aspect of it the saying that you and you, you, you, you you, we have to be people who look for excuses for people. If we create excuses for one another,
then we're going to have love and we're going to have community spirit, and we're going to have cooperation, and we're going to get along there's going to be less drama.
If we don't create excuses and give each other excuses, we're gonna have problems, problems in our marriage. Problems with our children, our relatives. Unfortunately, many people, they don't have this characteristic in themselves as Muslims. And it's something that the problem is upon sallallahu it he will, he will sell. The whole howdy is a long Howdy, this hadith in which the issue of Al Mullah Anna, it happened and Mullah Anna, when a man accuses his wife of having relationships, and he's the only one who's making the accusation and it doesn't bring three other witnesses.
The companion side Eben rabada, he was sitting with the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them along with the other companions may Allah be pleased with them all.
A man came and say God also lies so my wife with another man I saw it, I saw it I saw what they were doing. And I came here to you in this assembly with your companion so that you can establish the head on him and her.
The Prophet Solomon
Why'd you send him told him in front of all of the people.
If you don't bring three other people to collaborate this story and this accusation that you're making, because anyone who loses someone else of making Xena, you have to have four witnesses. Who can prove that not just say that she did this, he did that, the way it rolls easily off of the tongues of our man. If you don't bring three more witnesses to collaborate, I'm going to strike you in your back. Because sort of the norm had been revealed at that point. And is sort of the norm and the beginning of Sora. Nor Eliza gel mentioned will levena your moon and Senate, two millennia to be arbeiten shuhada for Julie donghoon, femenina jilda.
Those people will accuse believing women who are married, believing innocent women believing innocent women, they accused them and they make karami. And they say that they had illegal illicit relationships, if they don't bring the proof, they don't bring full witnesses, then you should strike them on their backs at times, and never accept from them their Shahada after that they don't have any Shahada in the Muslim court. They can't be your witnesses when you get married and so forth and so on. That I had had been revealed at this time. So when the man came and say God also lies so my wife and this was the situation he said, were the other three witnesses I saw, I'm the only one
who saw it. He said that you don't bring three more people, I'm gonna flog you because this is the ayat that had been revealed. The man said, knowing what he saw well law he I know that Allah is not going to put me down now Yo, Xena, La La is not going to put me down a lot is going to help me and save me. And he walked away. One of the leaders of the unsolved and one of the prolific leaders from the companions side had been rabada he sejarah solo law Do you mean to tell me if I went in I saw that my wife was having a relationship with another man You mean to tell me that you want me to go and look for three other men that come in watch it and to prove that to you? Problem? I'm gonna say
yes. He said what law he I'm going to hit both of them with a sharp into my sword.
And it wasn't a case of him having an Iran on the keytab or the Sunni. He wasn't saying I don't care what Allah says I don't care what the ruling is. I don't care what he wasn't saying that. He was saying that this is an amazing fitna that I don't think I can do with this man just did just turn around or even see what happened and come back to you. I'm gonna deal with them right then in in.
So when the companions saw what this man said to the Prophet sallallahu it was send them and the companions they know all of those I act it's not befitting for a believing man or believing woman if a lion is messenger decided thing for them to have any say so in the issue. They know that if we're a buka lokmanya Shall we make Canada whom adhere to Memberium
your law crease what he wants to create chooses whatever he wants to choose. They don't have anything to say about what Allah creasing choose not for you to say.
So the companions saw that they say Jada so Lola yes got also like don't don't don't don't be upset with sad Don't Don't be he has a strange he has a strong hero to the point where if he divorces one of his wives, we won't even marry his ex wife is going to be trouble. The man is still jealous we don't leave his ex wife alone. So they want the profit understand what that man was saying. And he was a high ranking person in the religion and community in the society and the profits of the VA when he was selling didn't care who you were. He would allow the chips to fall where they make
like you said in so many incidents way Milan lowenna. faulty Mehta built the Mohammedan study that look attached to yet Haha, I swear by Allah, a faulty mother daughter, Mohammed wood is still something I'm going to chop her head off.
He told the people in the past that people were destroyed, they would destroy because if a rich person stole from them, they will let them get by give them a pass. They wouldn't do anything. But if a war weakened a poor person, so they will establish on them the head. He said I swear by Allah if my daughter Fatima stole something, I'm going to chop her hand off because he was fearing just he didn't care who it was sallallahu it was setting them although at the same time from our religion as Isha mentioned in the macadam event among Muslims, sorry, melon in New Zealand nazma Zilla home, we've been commanded to put people in their proper places. So if someone is an important person
personality as strength as positionally as money, we're going to try to deal with him or her in a way to encourage them to become Muslims to help the community and so forth so on. But that doesn't mean that they get a pass when they make mistakes. So this wasn't the case with side they've been Obeida. It wasn't the case with how the Prophet looked at him. So all I did was send them the proof of that he said to the companions, I tied you buena, Minh here to decide.
Are you people amazed at the jealousy of side? He said, Well, la de la Anna, other young men who have more jealousy than side, I'm more jealous over my women. So from the characteristics of the Muslim man is to be jealous. He doesn't let his wife shake hands as a professional or when she goes to the doctor or whatever, so he shouldn't shake hands. And why do we have to be weak? Well, we can't say with all due respect, I don't shake hands. But I shake hands. The brother over here he gives them this one right there. The other one shakes it with the hand like that. And the fourth one hugs and the fifth one kisses her. So when the one who comes and says I don't shake hands, they say
yeah, but so and so did it.
And we give these mixed messages about our religion.
So the prophet SAW The body was sending the hand and it is from the characteristic of the Muslim man and the Muslim woman. Are you people impressed you find it strange his hero. Mine is more than his. He said an allies Hara is more than mine allies jealousy is more than mine. He said and because of the jealousy of Allah haram alpha Yh Mahara min Hama button. Allah has made Lw DS haraam, because of his radar, his jealousy, the for why hische Don't come close to him. Allah made him haram because he's jealous.
And then he mentioned this Howdy. He said and also, there is no one who loves the excuse more than Allah. And because of his love for excuses, he sent those who have given glad tidings and those who warn and then he said another thing and there is no one who loves to be praised more than Allah. And because of that, he has promised the people the agenda.
And then there were some other things that had happened in the Hadees. So the chef is only bringing in an aspect of the Hadith he could have brought the aspect of a higher or he could have brought that but he brought the one about giving excuses making excuses again, there is no one who loves
excuses, more than a lies were jealous. And because of his love for excuses. He has sent prophets and messengers to establish the agenda and the people that argument the proof, Lee Allah Cornwell and NAS forgotten by the Rasul as he mentioned the Quran so that no one can come yamo pm and he has an excuse with Allah because the Prophet came and he made it clear and that's why honey, when the Prophet performed the final Hajj sallallahu it was sent him in over 100,000 of his companions were there.
He told me Lao and some of the people tell the people to be quiet. It's duck soup is sexy to NASS make the people quiet and then they all went quiet. And then he began to talk in the Faroe Farewell, hospital alveda the farewell pilgrimage and he started mentioning a lot of things a lot of things he said I may not be here after this year, there are many signs had showed him his death was close. Ramadan Previous to that last hij that Ramadan jabril came and did the Quran with him two times every night. There were a number of things that had happened that showed him Hey, this is your life is almost over. During the days of Hajj, the ayah was revealed Elio macmall to the coming Deena,
calm today, I have completed your religion and when something is complete, then that's it. That's a sign you're gonna die. Your mission is complete.
So he told him some Allahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam to Sleeman kathira.
After mentioning all of those things to him, he put his finger up and he said to the people, hey, people have relayed the message. They say yes. You've relayed the message loud and clear. We got it. We got the point. put his finger up. He said all their witness. Oh, Lord bear witness all our bear witness because that's him establishing the region. No one will come up and say I didn't know.
Prophet Mohammed didn't explain it. Because he told us a loved one. He went on it was salami shaking, you caribou kaminari Oh Elgin in America can be mommy shaking. Kara Bokura na Ilana, he took manual there is nothing
that exists that will cause you to come to the gentleman. I told you to do it. There is nothing that exists that will take you to the Hellfire I told you don't do it will law he been lied to lie, the mole it is not from our religion. I don't care who said it was. And I don't say that arrogantly. I don't care who said it was because some major scholars of the past we love and respect said it. And the man was salty, and the man even harder. They said it another than then. But we don't take our religion and men like that no matter how high they went academically. We don't take them as the deal. That the little is Mohammed bin Abdullah Salalah it was sent him and that's why when we're all
in our graves and Moon cut and the kid comes they're gonna say to you, what did you say about that man that was sent to you. The one who knew what he was doing is going to say Abdullah, what are Sulu he's not going to say they're not going to say what did you have to say about Alabama Abu hanifa an Imam and Imam Shafi army and are going to say, what did you have to say about shake Roby and metalli? And they're going to be asked that question from the soul of the religion is that you know, is the Nabeel Islam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, that's the origin.
So he put his hand up, because in a court of law, when an individual, he says with his own mouth, he says, Yes, he did it. Yes, I did it. He confesses, that's the strongest delille they don't need CCTV after that. We don't introduce the CCTV, because the man has confessed himself, I did it.
But Yokoyama, the people will confess their skin, their hands will confess their skin, the hands, the body will speak against them, the people will speak against them the agenda melodica, the one on the right, the one on the left, the Earth is going to confess their witness against them. The prophets and the messengers are going to be a witness against them. There will be no no opportunity for per se, he's gonna say, and he knew this religion, it wasn't clear. That doesn't mean that individuals hearing there won't have an excuse. Even some of these non Muslims, I believe is going to have an excuse. Why? Because some of them, the Dow will never reach them due to where they're
located. geographically. They're in the desert is somewhere in the jungle. They're far far away from people. There are people who still live like that on this Earth right now today. And even some of these non Muslims will not Yaki I don't know well, they have an excuse with a la yomo piano because the Muslim community today is not giving a good example of what this religion is saying. This one over there is doing the molad and while doing the mo let they believe that the Prophet his house and nozzle is everywhere. He knows the unseen any die is Allah reincarnated. These will never hear cursing the companions. These ones over here worshipping, unable to be tolerant. This one over here
believes in the sin in the grave. That one over there. He says Islam is in my heart. I don't have to pray that one over there is rough and tough. He has a truth but he's not giving it to the people in a nice way, and on and on and on confusion.
So where is the justice that someone comes yamo pm and they're asked a question, what did you have to say about that man who came
his argument with a law maybe? I don't know, because I never heard who Muhammad really was. I really don't know who he was. Because the people my own relatives that I let them know who Prophet Mohammed was as a revert Muslim do they know?
So in regards to the issue of whiny Eliza Joe, he loves the excuse. And as a result of that he suparna what Allah has sent He has sent the province in the messages is important number one to mention in this Hadith, this Hadith of the Nabi sallallahu. wasallam shows us his method of teaching, and he did a lot of things in regards to teaching as a father, as a mother, as a real teacher. As a team. We have to look at how he was and how he taught the people in different ways by asking questions. Do you people know who the muffler is? Do you know what the bankrupt person is? And then he leaves it up to them to figure it out. There is a tree in the desert that tree is like
the Muslim Do you know what tree that is? Tell me what it is. He would teach by telling stories, Salah love what he was selling, he would teach by his actions.
So one of his methods of teaching someone love what he was sending him is that he if he was asked something, he will give more information than what was being asked. Or if an issue presented itself he would give more information than just the issue like with sad, even rabada. It was about the jealousy of sad and his jealousy and
jealousy of Allah. But he said first he said first
you find his jealousy weird, strange, amazing. Then he mentioned about the the excuse, what does the excuse have to do with the jealousy?
And then he mentioned the third thing, and that was, no one loves to be praised more than Allah. What does that have to do with the jealousy issue? What happened with that man, he's given them more information, someone loved what he was selling them. They were traveling, they came upon a whale that was on the shore and the world was dead. So they cut the whale up and they broke the world back but they didn't eat from the well because it was dead. And they know those are yet in the Quran every month on a human made to a demo. In zero. The dead animal is haram. You can't eat it is dead. The well is dead, but it's such a big animal and all that meat. They cut it up they came they say
out also Lola, we found that well was dead. What is the ruling? That's the question, what is the ruling about eating the dead? Well, he says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam about the ocean who were to who or who and hell you may Teto he said that the ocean is pure.
The water of the ocean is pure. You can make do with it. You can make with it. You can wash your utensils, your clothes, whether it's pure doesn't have the gas in it, and it's dead is halau. So if is dead is halau. If you can eat something dead from that ocean, then everything in it that is alive, you can eat it. So we respect the Hanafi madhhab. We respect our NMR when in the Hanafi madhhab. There's this opinion that the crustacean of the ocean is not permissible. You can't eat lobsters. You can't eat crabs. You can't eat squid, you can eat these types of crustacean you know those things that have the the shell on it, you can't eat clams. Why? Because those from Allah's
creation, they eat the algae in the funghi, and the things that are in the ocean and clean the ocean. The Prophet said that the oceans some love, why do you sell them as pure, and as dead as halau some of the Muslim say that the seal, you can't eat the seal, you know, the seal, right?
Anybody want to make the noise of the seals, so those who don't know what we're talking about, anybody want to make that noise?
It wouldn't be appropriate to make the noise of the seal, just as it wouldn't be appropriate to make the noise of a dog or the noise of a cow. Or the noise of a donkey wouldn't be appropriate.
They call the seal in Arabic the cannibal, the dog of the ocean? And because it has that name, the dog of the ocean, people said Is he wrong? No. Everything in that ocean is halau because if the dead is halau Then what about the living? And we respect the position of Lord Emma but like I told you, allies, angels monken Nikki, we're going to ask you What did you say about that man? Not gonna ask you about an Imam Abu hanifa Smith had an enormous chef his mother had
shared a bill Metallica never had stopped worshipping these people. And then we're going to come these days and tell our community what are you doing the moment What do you do in the morning? Why can't they do the moaning you're overboard and you have glue you're extremely shake Rubio whoever you're with your extreme. Why do you make it okay for yourself and her off other people. Now we got to be consistent in this religion Take it easy.
Nothing issue about this. One is it establishes a lot of characteristics as we mentioned a number of time the previous ahaadeeth allow loves from his characteristics. And Allah is jealous. He has Hara Allah loves in a way that befits His Majesty. Well, they said commit to me shape. Well, who was selling Basia? Nothing is like him and he sees any hears
a lot of data sending the Quran Hello tanunda who Samia, do you know anyone anything similar to Allah lemmya cola who coffee one? Nothing, no one is like unto Allah, no one. They have knowledge. Allah has knowledge. But his knowledge is not like the knowledge. A lot comes down, they come down, but a lot doesn't come down the way they come down. Allah has two hands and both of those hands are right hands and on those hands, our fingers based on the Quran the sooner
but it's hands on. I like their hands. So we believe in it. We believe in it. We don't ask how it's done. And we leave the How to Allah. We believe in that stuff.
Even in Christianity, the US of shady people call themselves as a singer from our Muslim brothers who are really following I wouldn't even say a memorable has an ashari because a memorable
IE he has some morahan he started off on something, and then he went to something else. And then he went to something else. And then before he died, he said, Here I am about to die. And I die on the arcada of the contaminated our key that the bad ones in the desert. It was on the Akita, the self of this oma at the realize that growth and development that he went through, you can call it that to arrive to the point where it was a person of the sinner at the end of his life, that is historically establish, so I'm not gonna call people like that, from the shower era, if I use that term is just to not zoom in. For the sake of argument. That's it, but it was a man of the sooner at the end of
his life, and a colon and a colon, that people want to follow this method and explain away the names of the attributes of Allah reject names and attributes and allies establish this is in Bukhari and Muslim
allies jealous. But his jealousy is in a way that befits His Majesty soprano wattana. And as I mentioned, unfortunately, in the Bible, the Old Testament said, I'm not saying Allah said that, but it's in the Bible today.
No old children of Israel, that your God is a jealous God. So don't take anything else for worship in the earth when the sky in the sea below. And then these Christians come in, they believe in that. Jewish people come in, they believe in that. And the person says that he's from under sooner, and he rejects it. He had a heart. He had a heart.
In regards to this issue, one concern in this particular Heidi, the Shea who wrote the Hadith or wrote the book, he put the chapter of the book and he said and Muslim men a vow, given a description of the believer, the Muslim man the Muslim woman, the most men believe in men believe in woman, they are Allah, Allah means a person who always looks for excuses for people not for himself. I love for those of you who are learning Arabic, Allah is on the on the wasn't of the Cyril mubaraka
something that's being done a lot. Like a lot with toddlers how far he forgives a lot. Cyril mubaraka, something that's being done a lot.
A lot when
you read a lot, does whatever he wants, how when he wants to do it, if he wants to be jealous.
That's up to Allah, not up to you. If Eliza Joe wants to come down at the last third of each night, that's up to him. That's not up to you.
If Eliza gel wants to forgive this person, and he didn't make Toba and he died on a major sin, that he was perpetually doing, as we mentioned last week, he died on a major sin. He was shooting heroin, and he died high from an overdose. But he did some deed in the course of his life before his death at some point that alone tada was pleased with him like, like the prostitute lady who gave the dog some water to drink.
Like, right right, the man who pulled something out of the street that was harmful and allow was pleased with him and allow was shakin for sugar Allah Allah was pleased with him shocker. In a way that benefits His Majesty. And then here we come today, brand spanking new you revert from America, African American, just accepted Islam four months ago. He was born as a Muslim raised as a Muslim, but he lost his religion and now he came back to his religion five, six months ago, and now he's passing out vertix haraam halau cafe monastic move Teddy doing a Hellfire your calf hit Come on, man.
Have some rap mourn yourself. Like the poet he said the Arabic poet, he said that the ram that has the horns and I think you guys heard that advice that I gave to the brothers. I call him the hobble sucker. The Companions of the roof. We told them have mercy upon your horn.
You know the RAM. When a ram hits another ram Yes, another ram doesn't hurt either one of them. That's the way they're built. But can you imagine the ram running this head into a wall into a mountain?
The poet told the ram Hey, Ram, a ram. Don't Have mercy on the mountain. Have mercy upon your horns. You're gonna break your horns, making fear of people a tip dear people with all of the shortcomings that you have in yourself with all of the shortcomings that I have.
I'm going to talk to people in a condescending way. Allah sent me here personally in order to get you people right. Come on.
The believer is Allah He looks for excuses for other people and the monastic, the hypocrite. The hypocrite is the one who is the opposite of that. He looks for the mistakes of people.
any mistake that people make is going to blow it up, is going to blow it up. If Greenly msgid does something by inviting someone that they may not like, for example, I don't want this person to come for an example. So when he gets invited, I say greening the enemies of the student, and they don't want the sun they don't come on man. This stuff is disturbing. The way we are.
The way we are
four types of people, I want you to remember this, all of them start with an H, H, as you guys say, we say h in America, but h h for people, you'll find them this way. The first one is the hypocrite. The hypocrite, he doesn't look for any excuses. He's going to continue. You say something, you put a wrong word. You made a mistake on the member and you meant to say, we worship the Prophet with a clause you meant to say we worship Allah, they're going to take that and put it on the internet and say, Look, he worships was a lifesaver with his own mouth. hypocrite. second person is that his be? The his be. If you're with a particular group, and a person is not from your group, when he makes a
mistake, you're going to hold them accountable for that mistake, even if he didn't mean it. But if your chef makes that same mistake, similar, you're not gonna say anything, you're not gonna hold them to account. I remember some time back years, maybe 10 1112 years ago, I mentioned I saw in Abu Bakar Sabir radi Allahu that which does not allow me to take everything that he says. And I explained what that meant. That means I saw with a profit some love what he was selling them and allies won a lot. And then his profit some a lot. He was selling them gave instructions to Abu Bakar for something that he did that wasn't right. So I don't follow him in everything that he did. It was
better for me not to put that language in that way because it could be misconstrued and misunderstood. I came back later and explained a 50,000 times 50,000 and these people are still saying I will Sam is my daddy. Why milk daddy? He doesn't like Abu Bakar Saudi.
But what about your chef? What about your Shake Shack rubbish a Kobe was said about jabril what was said about suit a man what was said about what was said about Kaaba nomadic? Well, la he I know they didn't mean it that way. I have to look for excuses. But the history is not like that. The other one is the hassid. The one who was envious and jealous. If you have envy for someone in jealousy for someone, when they make a mistake, that's it, you're gonna crucify him condemn him. Because whatever they have that you want, or whatever they had, that you want it to disappear from them. That is your motivation to prevent you from being balance. And the last one is the hearted.
It's like envy, there's a different word anybody wants to work out what's the translation for half a day and half an English
you can say that has it is jealousy and heart It is envious. But there's another word I don't remember what it was those four people
that will prevent a person from being fearing just and giving people excuses. And this is why when we have been commanded by Lazarus, in the Quran, in the sewer, that everybody knows everybody, we have to seek refuge in Allah from the highest said either has said, seek refuge in a lot from the one who was envious jealous of you. Because that jealousy will create problems. He's lying and wait for you. He's looking for your mistake. So I would think if someone made a mistake, as his brother, all of us, he made a mistake. We are gonna go to him, the three of us, four of us, we say look at that brother, we're going to go to him, give him some advice, get them off the street, take them
covering situation. Now, the his be the hypocrite has said hack those people, they're not gonna do that. You know, they're gonna take that mobile phone that that phone and they're gonna picture him like that, and they're gonna put them on social media. They're gonna put them on social media, they're gonna spread it. And that's not the way the movement is. So therefore, before we move another step with another Kennemer, another one
Look at yourself. Yeah, de la. Are you one of those four people as it relates to your Muslim brothers and sisters, my wife doesn't have the food ready. When I get home, and I'm starving like Marvin and I'm tired. And I'm thinking all the way home I want to eat. I'm going to get my grub on. And as soon as I get there, that grub is not ready, and I blow up when I get into the house. I gotta give you an excuse. She has children. She was she was she was washing the clothes, hanging them up. She was ironing them. She had to do the school run.
She had to go do the school run. And I'm paying Gas and Electric pay as you go. And I didn't give her money so she couldn't cook.
But I'm upset with her. No, you have to give each other excuses and the woman is well, you don't want that woman and whiny young brothers. Most of my students, you guys are young, you're not married. I keep telling you. On one hand, it's a NEMA because your Musalia your responsibility is less. And Heidi if we took last week, the less responsibilities you had I think a lot because the more you have the more you have to be answerable for. Beware of marrying that lady in the future. Abdullah II be worried. They call him Arabic, a Tucson.
Tucson. I'm gonna say it I want you to say this is not a collective Jamaat, Vicar. This means trying to help you to learn a word right? Okay, when it comes
to sighs an alligator.
The Arabs use that word to describe the lady who has an insatiable appetite. She's never satisfied no matter what you do. And that's what the prophet said Southern lady was sending him he said that the women they have a problem and that is if your husband does a send to you all your life the one time he doesn't do it. You come and say I never saw any good from you. Never did I take you to the hospital you had the baby
as your job anyway.
The other the other person and there are many is the loved one. I'm gonna say I want you to see a loved one.
Again, love, love. Love What is the name for the lion that the Arabs used to have a lot of names for the lion and the love was a female lion and she's very aggressive. She's very aggressive. You know, lions, you got that old line is gonna lead it coolala been bothering nobody doesn't care. That coming. Romani don't mean fighting nobody the boss no more. He's in the twilight of his career. So you have different lines. There's the line like hafsa houses the little baby cub. So they gave all these names in line. The loved one is that female lion that after she just ate a will to be she just ate a wounded piece. If a deer runs by, she gonna get deer just for general principle. Don't be in
my territory. So they say that that real rough lady is like that.
Now I'm not here to put women down. And some of you may be sitting there saying, what does that have to do with the other? What does that have to do with that Heidi is all intertwined is all interconnected. We have to give each other excuses why, why? Because Benny Adam, we make mistakes and the practice of the law while he was selling told us we all make mistakes. And everybody is the hurry to three weeks ago said we all will continue to do the same sin from time to time, and some of us will never leave that sin until we die. All of Adam's children are people who make mistakes. So if we make mistakes, we need excuses. Give me a break. He made a mistake. Give them a break. Take it
easy. Listen to what happened with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
And this happened on multiple occasions. The tribe of Islam came to him there was a man he came and say Yara Allah, I committed adultery. I commit he exposed himself because he wanted to make Toba and he wanted to be purified in the dunya before he met allies with jell o pm.
purify me, Prophet Mohammed turned away. The man went around purify me turned away, purify me purify me four times four witnesses on himself. Prophet Mohammed Cara say come stone him he said to the man some the love what he was selling.
Were you insane?
Were you crazy? Were you insane? man said no.
I wasn't insane. He asked them and sell a lot. Why do you sell them when you did this with that lady? Were you married?
Trying to give him excuse get away out. The man say yes, I was married. The head I was married.
Another situation was even more More, more clearer than that.
Older was more detail. Another man came, same thing. The Prophet said to the man salallahu alayhi wasallam. Maybe you didn't do everything. Maybe you just kissed him. He said, I didn't kiss I did everything. He said maybe maybe you just touched up. He said, adding I touched that did everything. He says a lot while he was sending them. Me. Maybe you just looked at it. The man said I didn't look at it. I did everything. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam did you put your part into hub part where he disappeared?
The man say yes. And he established ahead.
That serious crime that serious sin. Now that doesn't mean that someone can go and do crimes and sins, we see him smoking weed on the corner before Juma and he says a look for excuse remember the Hadith. Now that doesn't mean that we're not saying that you have to be practical, you have to have common sense you have to take into consideration of ayat and other ideas.
But the point is when we can find excuses for people, we should find excuses for each other. When we do that, our community will be better. One of the reasons why our communities are stuck on stupid and we don't make any progress although these non Muslims are playing hardball Trojan horse all of these new rules and regulations that are being put on the table all of these issues all of these issues, Muslims in London having a Juma where everybody can come with whatever sexual persuasion you want to have dressed as you want to dress we all mixed together when you come introduce people and tell them how you want to be identify you a man but tell people to call me it
you're a woman but tell people call me him Mohit. I mean we're even losing the pronouns. I remember learning Arabic language, the pronouns were so important. He she they we It is important. Now what was going on? We're even losing 50 of the pronouns in our religion
I don't even know if he's a man doesn't even know he's not a man anymore.
So in this issue, this issue we're back with, we're behind under develop because we're so critical. And I the speaker before you right now, I'm the last person in this room who should be critical with people who are in front of me.
And you also should see yourself as that that's not me. That's not me trying to say something cool, acceptable slick. Try to be like him humble. humble. No, you know your reality. So what that scholarly Imam Abdullah bin Mubarak used to say, may Allah have robbed upon the person who knows his own reality, because there are people who don't know their reality. They think they are allows gift to humanity. And as a result of that they exist amongst us in a way that's just really a What are you doing, man? Go and search your own house out. Go and search your own house before you start coming throwing stones at us. So in regards to this issue of money that's on the table, the Hadith
of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is clear we have to have this thing in our religion called hostname one personal one. I'm going to say I want you to say it is today the moment or was it yesterday's today the motor yesterday? Huh?
I can't hear you guys. Is it today yesterday? Was it no moly. Yesterday? Nobody know when the Prophet was born. Salaam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam nobody knows. But the celebration was yesterday and it was his death yesterday. sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam compounded ignorance. The day that he died is the day that we are celebrating as his birthday some love what he was
first in the van. And when anybody thinking Mashallah, okay, they don't really practice the prophets. molad but at least they do the Vic of jumari this is not a Jamaat, Vicar. This Is Us learning Arabic. I'm going to say it I want you to notice word personal learning, then you said, Krishna, one
person or one?
Person everyone is having a good opinion about your brother, as opposed to having a negative opinion. You meet him for the first time. And maybe his beard is shaved. You don't know his story.
you not know his journey. You don't know his book. You didn't read a script?
Right away. You start thinking he's from this group. He's from that group is that what are you talking about? You don't know his development.
Many of us who started practicing at one time, were not that same person who we were when we first became Muslims and we first started practicing.
It's a learning curve. You learning you develop and this is why we have to keep a good strong hold on
Our youngsters get him in the bed. Whoa, that's what I call it. You know that guy Habib, Habib? Habib? Why are you so good? Because he was fighting them bears.
You want to put them in the bathtub.
Get youngsters in the bed. You could barely breathe, and say hey, you relax. You're young. You're 1819 2021 25 you're young. You're still growing and you're still developing. Stop being so judgmental. Stop being so hard. Stop being so harsh. Stop being so much in a rush and stare down in haste relax.
Personnel then you see the Muslim he is most been you see the Muslim he's doing this he's doing that she's not wearing he just did you brothers? No, I met a brother today. He's in our mentioned if you want to welcome our Baba sada Aslan Allah gymea he met me so I want to thank you for this. This is a you know what I like about this mystery is that I came to this mystery not feel comfortable here. I don't feel like people judging me looking at me pushing me away and so on and so on. I said that's a good thing about this mystery. But that doesn't mean everything this mystery does. We're going to accept because perfection is with Allah. But that's one of the things we like about our message
right here and every message should be like that, as opposed to going into mystery with people looking at you. And people sizing you up. And no doubt the setup of this oma. They used to look at people face to look at people
like the Imam of the tambourine said,
in Miami Brahim. And he said about those people during that time, can you add to regimen Leah, how do men who and who and nother Eros allottee. witness something? If they went to take knowledge from a man they will look at how he prayed and they will look at his son. They eat with his right hand did he give with his right hand? Did he drink with his right hand? Did he keep his head covered? Did he have a beard? How was he when he lived? How did he sit how they used to look at that to see if you can see the effects and the impact of the Sunnah and that person. But there is a context that someone who you're going to take knowledge from during that time when the people on the high level
of Ellis Lam does nothing every ama Buchan z from the people you're going to hold them to that standard and you don't know as I told you guys you don't know his story.
Reminds me and shall at the end of this dose enter reminded the end of this dose to tell you about the bum of Liverpool. Repeated after me the bum of Liverpool. Good job even the way you guys say bum he is different. Oh I know why forget that. Forget it. Tell me about the poor man in Liverpool say that word okay. We call him a bump at a Colin What if
the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam brought a religion in the book that told us yeah, you let the in ammunition Honey Boo kathira men have been in bob dole one f mon Are you believe, avoid suspicion,
speculating because some suspicion is a sin. How did he get that car? He has a 2018 car. How did he get it? He must have it financed. How did he lived here? How did he do this? How to snatch your business man.
Men Hosni Islam and Mara Turku Mariani from the bearss good Islam is leaving alone with doesn't concern you. I have more than enough to concern myself with my own immediate family in my life, to be worrying about all of the details of your life and why you did this and why you did that.
What is that you have to have done for the Muslim not so other than his loved one? A good opinion as opposed to a bad opinion concerning the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in kewanee. Allah is Allah.
Allah is Al Mata Kabir, Allah is Al Jabbar. Allah is Allah, vim and mattina.
Allah has all of those names and characteristics that signify and denote His power, His strength.
If allowed to Allah were to take us all to account for what we've done and what we have not done. He wouldn't have left on the earth, a single person, how are you going to look at me and me look at you in a judgmental fashion. He wouldn't have left anybody on the earth. And although he has all that Parliament might have an ability. He's who kind of with Donald loves the excuse. So if Allah loves the excuse, then we should try to love the excuse.
Allah loves the excuse. He gave you an excuse not to destroy you. And you and you and you and me. He gave us excuse me, he gave us opportunities. will know you will love nice people near him. My Tara Callahan.
Dad better malaccan your hero home, ella agilan musala. If Allah wanted to hold everybody to account for what they did, he would not have left on the face of the earth of the Earth a single one of them, but he has given them respect. give them time to make Toba let them go through his formidable years as being a youngster teenage years, wiling out, wiling out. We'll come to Mara shefa who Fratton Mina na minha you on the brink of the Hellfire about to fall into it? I don't know about you, but I know there are some people listening to me right now. They were in situations in their lives where death was right there.
The bullet past them by different things happen. It could have been in a car accident, different things happen because of his negligence. But a lot didn't let it happen he protected you because from his name is Allah Hafiz. He protected and preserved you to allow you the opportunity to make Toba the coming to this religion, the combat to your senses. And then now you don't remember that and that's an ayat of the Quran cadavre kuntum Furman la la familia, Allah Allah comfortable obiano
Allah says, You people, the companions, you used to be a straight. They were a group of people who were actually companions. But when the companions were traveling, they met them, and they were in the desert. And the companions said to those people As salam o Alaikum.
Those people didn't say why they come back, they gave salaams in a way that was different. So those companions who have met them, they just killed them.
Like they were disbelievers. And then when the issue came to the Prophet sallallaahu was some of the ayah was revealed. A few people traveled to the earth that dropped out of the bag, no, oh, you believe if you traveled to the earth, then ascertain
and the reality and the truth and don't let your desire be the dunya they wanted to get the horses and the camels and the saddles and the sores and stuff, so that killed them.
A lot told them you used to be like that and a lot of guidance.
So since you used to be like that ignorant Australian I practicing, have a little bit more rap man that people take it easy, take it easy and relax a little bit. That's why we need within ourselves this issue of
making and making excuses for people whenever we can add a colon alijah jealousy in the process in the messages. Whenever he told us an unauthenticated sallalahu it was sent him that they were 120,000 prophets that were sent
and 313 messengers that was sent. That's the Ramadan law. That's the look. Latif the look of Allah. That's the hill and Helene. That's the gentleness of Allah towards the people.
I wouldn't it be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has been done over 1400 years. Allah sin 124,000 prophets 313 messengers
also he sent them to every group of people. What a min meten illa Allah Fie ha Naveen. There was never a community except that there was a warner who came to them with a cat bath now physically met him Rasulullah and mo de la which
we sent to every nation and messenger who came to them and said, worship Allah and avoid worship and all of the false deities. Why? Because Allah wants to establish the de Lille in the upon the people and he wants he loves the excuse. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us that about our Lord. So concerning this issue of sending the prophets in the messages, Eliza gel is showing us the manifestation of this particular characteristic that the Prophet told us about and had it not been for the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them educating us about these things we would not have ever known. And that's when the rat mother lies or gel that we can even be taught this particular
understanding and reminded of it, take it easy. Take it easy with your children. When your daughter comes to you and she complains that her older brother put the gum in her hair, and a gum is in her hair. You gotta give him an excuse.
his intellect is not complete yet, take it easy. Don't be like as I mentioned all the time. Some of our fathers, some of our fathers were just too rough and tough. They didn't have a good action plan. They didn't know how to be fathers in relation to guiding and educating and talking. I do believe
That you have to put the child in place in some in his place. And sometimes sometimes you have to put lay your hands on him. And that's why the Prophet said unauthenticated in some Allah who it was Salaam Alaikum, assault, man hateful Yahoo bait, hang the belt hang once you beat them with where the kids can see it, where the people can see it the kids, but he said hang it up.
Hopefully, hopefully, because they have Dean because they have to be here, because you've been doing your Musalia that we talked about last week, all you have to do in Sharla is look at them. Some of them may get the picture, but you have to look at some of our kids, just look at him. And she's gonna get right. And I have a daughter like that. Just look at is done. And then the other one, all you have to do as I told you just do the sign he's gonna get right.
And then there's that one where you point to the thing.
And they get right. They just calm down, just point to the thing. And then there are those from our children from the people we deal with. We got to deal with them. But in this
in this society that we're living in right now with political correctness on steroids, even that you have to be careful, because I don't want someone leaving this place. And then it said, Abu Simon was encouraging people to do child abuse I had no, he said the best of you is the best one to his family. I'm the best of you to my family. And he never hate his family. So the law, why do you sell them except in the way of playing? He were hit? I issued to say, Were you the one who was following me to the graveyard because she thought he was going to another wife's house. So she got up to follow him to see on her night. Is he going to another wife's house, he went into the graveyard. And
he was like this. And then when he finished it came back when she was in the bed. She was breathing like this heart because she ran back. He said, Well, what are you breathing like that for? She said nothing.
Problem. He said, If you don't tell me jabril is going to come and tell me. She said I'd also love when you got up. You put your thing on your shoulder. You took your shoes, and you went out very quietly. I thought she was going to another wife house. Is that do you think I would do that when you've been to Sadiq and he had a play and play in playing. He said were you the black Will you that black mass in front of me that was running in front of me. And he hit it like that? Never did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam make intercom. Make Tavi never. And although we have been allowed to discipline our families with the item the poor and for the removal, you allow that. But he said that
you can hit someone that leaves a mark. You can't hit them in the way that there's something it swells up it breaks, you can't do that. Can't do that. We don't have to take those weak Hadeeth the Miss whack him with a miss whack. Because even with that it could be child abuse. Because there are some big Miss wax and some people, they start to really go out there with their imagination. I came with a miswak you guys don't know but where I come from, they used to beat us with switches. You guys don't know what switches on
the switches. The third mode, my grandmother, my grandfather, the elders, you get in trouble. Like we let the pig out of the thing and the pig was running all over the place. We let him out. They say hey, go get a switch, you have to walk down into the woods and take the leaves off the thing and bring them to your mother your father, your uncle your auntie and they will light you up with those five or six switches. You guys don't even know what that is. But some of you knew extension cords
you know the extension cords. And now with the new iPhone and this new mobile phones and smartphones these kids some of them know about the you know the
the charges and stuff like that. That's how wrong can beat your kid with a charger with an extension cord cable feature kids with stuff like that.
It should be a chastisement. And the best of the people are those who are best with his family and I sincerely advise you and I remind myself, we have to remind our kids and talk to the minds of our kids to develop them to be people who
buy into an arena. And
that's when you talk to a person you give them your point of view and you cause them to understand and believe in your point of view. He doesn't do roughly a Dane, he doesn't do roughly again. So I want him to do roughly again. I can curse his madhhab I can curse the way he's stuck on that issue than the old dilemma. That's not the way at the try a nice way to cause him to be convinced. We have to teach our people our case. Our families take the position
Based upon conviction, because you believe you understand,
you understand, lastly, a particular certain this issue of what the prophet sallallahu it who it was sending them, advise in regards to this issue.
We've been here an hour. Okay, we're going to start now. shala but I was thinking about that Hadeeth of our mother Sophia that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was visited by his wives in the masjid. And Sophia came later than everyone else. So everyone left before her. Then it came McGriff time was dark, and she stayed later. So it's time to go to the Prophet walk to home. So Lola, why don't you set them in to have the companions saw him walking? And when they saw him, they went the other way. He said, honestly, Kumar, stop, stop, hold on. They said he said in the house, Sophia Xhosa. It is my wife, Sophia. They say Jada. So Lola. We didn't think anything. We weren't thinking but the way
they turned around. They saw the Prophet at nighttime with a woman who they didn't know she had the job and they went the other way.
He said no shaytaan he goes in inside of Adam, the way his blood circulates and he made it clear issues like that or he you see the guy he's in a situation is in a position have personally been and make the other have personally been and you make the other. Lastly, want to mention want to share this with you in this regard. Something happened to me when I was traveling.
And Liverpool, there's a train station called Liverpool line Street, the main station where I get off, take the bus to my house.
A lot of the homeless people hang out in that area. Like our like your city center here, people are feeding the homeless. When I came onto the out of the bus going home, there was a homeless man we'd call him bums in America be when a bump, a bump, lazy, shiftless, doesn't want to work, drugs, alcohol, he wants to be homeless. So he blended into the landscape, how those people tend to blend into the landscape, because they are on the peripheral in society. They're, you know, people don't think about them. They don't have rights. I didn't even see him. Although he was in the path of when I was walking. As I was walking. When I got to him, he said, Excuse me, brother, can you spare some
change? I don't know if it was the decibels in his voice, the tone of his voice or his pronunciation because he's sound educated, and the way he spoke, so I was intrigued. I took the change out, and I wanted to know his story. I said, What are you doing out here, man? What's the deal? What are you doing? Because as Muslims, we have sympathy and empathy. Even if the person is a non Muslim. That's how we are we have that. We now Muslims. That's what Ramadan does to you. That's what the cat does to you. That's what given for the foot kurama tagging the people of our own. And that's what it does for you. It is not something we just say, we're just going to get Muslims. And I'm not saying that
about myself. All of us are like that is something in our religion.
What was your story, man, that guy proceeded to take his wallet out, show me his ID. He had an ID showing that he was a professor at Cambridge University. He showed me his driver's license, his national insurance card. It was his picture on everything in the same name. It's a one day I was playing rugby with some of my friends one Sunday morning, and they tackled me and I hit the back of my head on the ground. And I became sick I began to get you know, nauseous. So I went home. Is there the problem started to exasperate after a few days. I started hearing I started hearing um, I started hearing voices. He had become concussed, went to the hospital. So you have a concussion take
off from work, take it easy. Problem, exasperated, started hearing voices in his head. Those voices started to suggest to him, hurt your two children, hurt your wife. Do this do that. So the wife said, Hey, I'm getting out of here. This is a danger to me and my children. So they she left him because the wife left him with his two kids. He gave up on life. And he became homeless. That was a story. When I heard his story as sympathy for the man and empathy for the man. And I was down on myself. I wasn't happy with myself. I was disappointed myself. Because I believe I'm a person who I embrace diversity.
I embrace diversity. Why black Muslim, non Muslim, because we're going to celebrate this diversity that exists especially in these cities like Liverpool. Everybody is here, everybody. You think you think what
Do you think you have to get along with these people?
So anyway, I wasn't. I wasn't my usual self with that guy. I judged him. I judged him. I never read his book. Never saw his movie. never read his script. Lazy drugs, alcohol. He wants to be out. He's lazy, shiftless bum.
When I walked away, I said, I bought that's a lesson. That's a lesson. Don't do that to people. How would you feel especially being an African American?
Right now in America, there's institutionalized racism against me, even in this country, is racism against people of color. In America, my people have been oppressed, I should be sensitive to racism. I'm going to turn around and be racist now. How?
In the West, in America, women are second class citizens, they are second class citizens. So what happens? What happens with those women? What happens with them is they can have the same credentials as the male counterpart, but he's going to get more money. They can have more experience, he's going to get more money.
That woman has been objectified. You want to sell toothpaste, want to sell iPhone, want to sell car tire, want to sell a tie, just get a woman make a naked and sell it.
So that same woman who suffers from all of us going on in Hollywood, you know, all this stuff, all this stuff that's going on? How can she now look at a Muslim woman walking in Liverpool? My wife wears, we can't give bad gloves in Liverpool. I understand. That's not how people dress in Liverpool. I understand. I understand. I don't I get that. So if you do a double take, understand.
But why is it when the monk you know, the monk walks by in his dress, you look twice and I said, but when a Muslim woman walks by, that non Muslim woman starts to say, Ninja witchy poo, she's a witch. She's oppress. She's not educated. She's this she's that.
And you as a woman, you suffered from sexism.
You saw the results of misogyny you saw that you tasted it? How are you going to allow yourself to be like that?
How? And I say that all of you people.
People have been racist towards you as a Muslim sama phobia. As a person of color, whatever your case is. Don't be a racist towards people. Don't be a big, don't suffer from xenophobia. My wife is walking down the street. And I'm behind her 50 feet, something like that. And I'm protesting dragging my feet. Because she's window shopping. You young brothers don't know what window shopping is. But that's when the woman goes. She said, Well, that's nice. That's nice, but they don't buy anything.
I hated it since I was a kid. I'm protesting. She's way up there. These people are drinking from a pub called Irish Pub. They told her go back to Iran where you came from. But they use foul language take you back to Iran where you came from.
They didn't know that the king of the Queen was behind her. So I went there not to make trouble because I'm the Imam of the city. But if you want that trouble, we're going to give them the business because I hate that kind of stuff. I went to I started talking to him. And sure enough, they were cowards started finding out those guy were Irish accent Did you guys know the turn of the century here in this country? Ireland. They had a drought, a drought, their potatoes, their vegetables and stuff die. So they came here and many of them went to Liverpool maybe King scousers when they first came to Liverpool when they first arrived. The local Liverpool Ian's didn't accept
They used to put on the public houses and the pub, restaurants everywhere hotels, no Irish no blacks, no dogs.
And now you an Irish man and you're scouse and now you're going to dish that out to people
don't be like that. Don't be like that. But I want to be told us a lot what he was sent him three things are from the times of Jamia my alma will always have these three things and they won't get rid of them. One of them is attorney and SAT. They'll talk bad about other people and where they came from while back there'll be proud about where they came from when Yeah, and then meet and that if someone dies, the women will scream and wail and howl and act up. So today's lesson whiny, make excuses for each other make excuses for one another. The man that is in the member and is given a hook up
And he's really been there when it was very loud, very a bit too loud.
That to make excuses is offensive it gets in your head and your central nervous system. You say, Wow, wow, why do you have to be so loud? Why? Maybe the guy has a hearing problem. Maybe as a hearing problem.
All you have to do is sit there for 15 2030 minutes and say, oh, maybe my brother has a human problem. Don't take it so personal. He has the nerve and the audacity the screen like that Doesn't he know this is bothering us? And the Quran as soon as say, don't bother the Muslims don't make other vote. Hey, maybe the man has a hearing problem.
Maybe the microphone wasn't working. The speaker system wasn't working. He can't he doesn't know how loud he's been. Maybe no one ever went to him and gave him advice.
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