Hadith 34 The Callers Environment Shaykh Abu Usamah AtThahabi

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in La La Watteau luxury Cana when a shadow no Mohammed Abdullah who are also low Salawat Allah He was sent me who I need to Sleeman Kathira bottle. Come to Hadith number 34. Today, tremendous Hadith has to do with the head and the importance of the environment of the person who's given dour, every Muslim is responsible for paying attention to his environment, environment of his children doing the best that he can possibly do, in order to safeguard from those things that will compromise their Islam and so forth and so on. So today's hadith is about the importance that the day the Muslim gives to his environment. And one has to look at his environment and he has to consider the pros and

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the cons of it, the dangers and the benefits and so forth and so on very early. This is from what the Prophet was upon some of the law what he was sent him that's why he made Hedra, from Mecca to Medina. And all of those prophets and the messengers who are the hola ism that Allah mentioned in the Quran, foster kama Subhadra Hola, zmi Mina Rasul, be patient. The way the five major prophets and messengers were patient, the first one being Noah, Noah, and then he Brahim and then Musa, and then Isa, and then Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, all of those prophets may Hijra. All of them did something about the environment that they were in to go to another environment to prove to

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worship Allah azza wa jal. So as a Muslim, they have a responsibility to pay attention to your Miami that's one of the main benefits from today's Heidi Heidi number 34. So young brothers, you have to think about getting married to a sister who's going to help you environment. You don't want to get married to someone who's going to be diametrically opposed to the boat, that you're trying to go in a particular direction. So do I know you marry a woman from Anglo Kitab is permissible in the Lumix that haram? But the Muslim should try to get in the first row on right on the right side. The prophets a lot he was sending a mention to us in a number of Hadith, things that would have shown

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indicate that he used to encourage the people to try to even be in competition with the melodica even with them and I think we can never be in total absolute competition with them. But he said something Allahu alayhi wa and it was seldom allowed to Suffern a commander so full Mullah ecotour, Ender of Bihar.

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Bala or two people line up for the prayer the way the angels lineup for the prayer. They said how do the link in angels lineup for the Salah jasola Because they pray they praying the Jamaat a prophet says Allahu alayhi wa ala it will set

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you to Muna so forth yet to Muna a suffering Oh, well for a well, we utter ah sooner for SFX the angels when they come to pray, they come and they fill in the first roll and then the second row and then the third floor. They don't start the prayer from somewhere else and they are gaps in the rope. That's how he's telling us some little law what he decided them don't do the prayer the way we do it here in greenlink masjid and the vast majority of masajid we have a responsibility of everybody here when you come here. You have to fill in and plug in any space that's in front of you, you should not spray back there in the spaces in front of you. So the point of the hadith is he said that the

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Malacca they do this so you should be in competition can't you do like they do? He said not only do they fill in the first role, but they also come together yet ah soon. They put their bodies together and Greenland MSG Mike most messages people don't do that. Is a Sunday that's Majora Shahid, a prophet Sallallahu I was sending them encourage the Muslims compete with him in Africa as the point and used to do that in a number of things. When he prayed the salaat with the people and he read pseudo to man in pseudo Torah man is the statement of Allah that was repeated many times for be a law you're a big Kumar to convey the ban. And he's mentioned it cut mention it. After the prey

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turned around to the Companions. He said could you not have been better than the melodica Miley Miley araw and

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Malacca asadmin COMM Jawaban neurobion Why is it not the Malacca the Jin? He said why is it that I see that the Jin are better than you people in the Ansett? He said every time I read the I get for the Adi la you're a big Kumar to cover the ban, which of the favors of your Lord would You deny Benny Adam and the jinn. And as mentioned multiple times Rasul Allah said, every time he read that, I it, there were Jinn were there. And when they heard the ayat, they responded, and they said, will I be shaman near materia Bina no can VIP we won't deny or reject any of the favors of our Lord. So although the Prophet and tell them to say that he didn't teach them to say that the fact that he

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told them, why don't you be like the jinn. So the Muslim should be in that issue love in that race of trying to make his environment the best as possible. So don't marry the lady from Andrew key tab, if you can help it and don't marry the lady who doesn't have any Dean got to be on the same page. So that's what today's topic is about. And it's the tremendous hadith of Abu Saeed a who Drea may Allah be pleased with him. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that there was a man from Benny Hassan El, who killed 99 people. And then he wanted to make Toba. I mean, this is a real story. Like some of the mass murderers that we've grown up with and that we've heard about, you got to do is go

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to the YouTube I will encourage you this is knowledge is not beneficial. But there are a lot of crazy mass murderers who have historically got off on just killing people.

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One of them from Milwaukee in America, he was killing them and eating them, keeping their bodies in the refrigerator. This particular man killed 99 People in Guinea wanted to make Toba. So he came in he acts to community, guide me to someone who has knowledge I want to know can I make Toba? The community had Hurston oven. They had a good opinion about a man who was in the masjid praying. A man who's Azad hit a raw hip is very religious as what the people see him as being very religious. So the people believe anything. They think this guy knows the deen.

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So that has never been doesn't work in this case. Because it's not enough to have just a clause. It's not enough just to pray in the first row is not enough to have a long beard. It's not enough to have the nice hijab. You got to make sure that person knows the religion if you're going to ask them about the religion, or model rugby align who's doing his Khilafah he was told by a man who was with him yada yada Muto, meaning you see that man walking over there? He said, Why don't you put him in your cabinet? I love that man. And he's a good person, he will really help the Islamic State in the community. I said, you know him, you really know him. He said, Yes, I know him. He asked him Did you

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do this with him? Did you do that with him? Did you do this with him? Do that one you ate with them? You slept when we travel with him, do business with him do anything that he said I never did any of that. He said Well, Allah He you don't know that man. And this is the point. He said, You just saw that man in the masjid bow in the making center. Now you think you know him? You don't know that man. Now the fact that he's bowing in the masjid, he's in a mansion is a good sign. Because we have a hadith and statements of the companions that they will say a man was a monastic if they didn't see him coming to the masjid. So that's true. He's in a masjid. It's a good sign. We don't throw

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everything out the window. But you don't know that man. So that guy who you see in Ramadan and Ramadan is crying now loud. You may have a floss. And he comes to you say can you please borrow me 2000 pounds. And you don't know that may say he was crying and MSG. Here you go. No one's gonna do that. Because him and I don't know you and give you two grand until I get to know you. Same thing as it relates to the issues of life. So this hadith is about that that man came, he killed 99 people he said to the community guide me to someone I want to make Toba. They guided him to the man who prays a lot. He shouldn't fast in Ramadan, but he's going to faster Ramadan. He should shorten his prayer

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when he's traveling, but he doesn't do it. No, no, no comprehension of the deen. But he has a class.

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So the murderers say I didn't kill 99 people and I want to make Toba. Can I make Toba? That man does something that the Prophet one does have he wants to die of. He wants to Father of the mother. He wanted to practice and Muslim of that man closed the door in the face of the one who was attacked in a law. He's making Toba and a man close the door. He was shot.

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You kill 99 People who have the nerve that's can you make Toba? He said law you can't make Toba. Why do you want to be a martyr?

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So the day the Muslim he has to have for rasa as an insight, he has to have some common sense. This man is a murderer.

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And maybe in his jacket you can see blood come out of his pocket because he just killed some people. And you're going to give him that fatwa? No, I don't think he can make Toba Obama say man, let me get your number I'ma call you back and let me I'm busy or or you can make Toby like get out of the until you can be told if that's what I believed. So he killed them and made it 100 He went back to the people and told the people hey, people, I told you guide me to someone who knows a religion. They sent him to a scowl

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when he went to the scholar, the scholar looked at situation and said, What will come between you and your Toba? Abdullah, what will come between you and making Toba to Ottawa up? What will come between you what would be a barrier? There are some barriers. But this man has a class and he's making a situation known. He said you can make Toba but you just can't sit down and make Toba stuck fit Allah will to He lay a stuck for Allah does not enough. He said if you want to make Toba, real Toba like Allah mentioned get your livina Amman to Ilahi Toba tinel Suha do the Toba that's pure the real Toba not the lead professional stuff do the real one, and it has conditions. In order to make

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Toba you have to have a Clos sincerity. In order to make Toby you got to stop doing that thing that you were doing. Gotta sound like going back to that thing that I was doing. If you want to make Toba and you usurped and took someone's Hakan the rights, you have to give that thing back to them if you have the ability to do that. Some scholars say three conditions some say four but the point is just don't make Toba like that. If you want to make Toba then you have to leave this place where you are this community that allowed you to kill 100 people, you got to leave them because there's a terrible community.

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There's a place where someone can kill 100 of the community members. Then there's a problem they're not doing I'm gonna be my roof and a Nahan.

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And the Prophet told us of love while he was sending him a few people don't do a model for him. monka Allah will destroy everybody. And that's what happened to Benyus right? Eel if you read the Quran, they were turned into pigs, and monkeys, they were turned to that Peridot and kinda zero. The tough seat of the eye is that those people who did the evil from those times of Benny Austro Ale, the ones who did the evil, they were the ones who were turned into pigs because they did the evil. And the ones who saw it hurt it knew about it, and they didn't say anything.

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They didn't say anything about the truth, they just let it happen. Everybody put their head in the sand, as if it doesn't exist. They were turned into monkeys. So in our religion, our mother came and say God also Allah has no likova cofina solid hold. Will we in could we as a OMA, can we be destroyed and we have righteous people. We have Irma, we have Olia, we have father of the Quran. We have mahadi. Soon we have also Leone, we have good decent people, in this Muslim community, around the globe, people will loves

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can we be destroyed? He said yes. If you don't make an Emer Maroof in a name. So you're a person prays and people don't put their foot next to you. And people were not putting up the plug in in the roles and things are happening that you could see in the masjid, in the car park inside of the mystery without you, you have a responsibility to make an image of my roof and then remove this from the benefit of this hadith is that their community was on an extreme level, and that they allow the guy to kill 100 people. So you want to make Toba, you can make Toba just don't sit down twiddle your thumbs and do live profession. You have to get up and leave this place. Leave the environment where

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you are. So in the audience right now, some of us are newly practicing. Some of us are brand spanking new Muslims. If you're trying to grow and develop in Islam, don't stay with the people who pull you back. So the people who help you to do evil, if you don't change your friends the environment, you'll only do as much good as they allow you to do bylaws permission. You have to cut them off. You have to cut off the people or the action

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excess luggage. It could be your wife. It could be your husband. It could be your parents, your mother, your father, it could be the culture, the culture of Heba Neiman hating all that. Now, when we've cut those people off, we modify how much time we're with them not going to cut our mothers off, so forth, so on. So the man had a clause he came searching.

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And then he listened. He said, I'm gonna go and I'm gonna stop what I'm doing. And he went, and the way he died,

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the Prophet said he died. So I love what he was sending them. And when a near my death he had because as he said in another Hadith, and this is important in the Malala bill, our team, you will be judged by the last thing you do. Yeah, Abdullah. So right now the last thing we're doing right now we're in the mischief prints out in a shop and listening given a class and so forth and so on. And we studying our religion with wool. If we get up and we leave here, if we die during this, we get up when we die. It's a good sign in sha Allah. So that man, he when he died, Allah azza wa jal, he sent the angels of Rama and the angels of AI that so we understand in our Eman about the melodica

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they have a lot of numbers they created from nor they don't display Allah. We don't say they are the court or infer we don't say male female. We don't say that. Those are my that eka got wings to three so many 600. And from them, the mud I have an hour. And I that, like Malik, he's an angel of punishment. Whereas those who are in their own agenda, some people in the audience they have the name Ridwan. They say that Diwan is the name of the angel who's in charge of the agenda and it's not authentic. It's not authentic. What he's calling the authentic hadith is that has an agenda. He's called the highs in the Guard, the one who's responsible for the agenda, Rasul Allah will come and

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knock on the door. He said in the cars in the agenda, we'll say who is that? Rasul? Allah says, me, Mohammed. He said, I've been waiting for you. I've been told not to open up the door for anyone before you. So he called them that hasn't not Ridwan.

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So those angels disputed about who had more rights to his body. That Genoa, the NA, the IDI Baba Rama, those angels have AI that is important in our deen.

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They said, we have more right to his body and his soul because he killed 100 people.

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And murder is big in our religion. Listen, listen.

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I mean, we may sit here and we listen to the story. And it's just a story. But you got to think further. And beyond that Rasul Allah is a saw that a lost dog is that telling the story is real business. So if the man kill 100 people, he left 100 women, as

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we call them, again, automata wearos.

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He left 100 families with orphans,

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mothers and fathers who missed your sons and the Hadith and say that he only kill men maybe kill some women who knows?

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He killed an ibid. So if you kill someone who's praying all the time, you can imagine how you feel about other people. So just imagine the fitting of that man,

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the fitness society that he was responsible for.

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So those monastic have punishment said we have more, right? He didn't do any good. And he killed 100 people, and that's the hop.

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The other melodica said no, we have more rights. Because after he did that, he turned to Allah with Toba and he was making a trip his knee yet he didn't complete the trip. Not only did it not complete the trip, but he fell halfway in the turret in Tulsa for Tarik. He got halfway and he died right there.

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There's one of the Hadith that the scholars of Islam use to show that the angels are better than human beings. But we won't get into that right now. The man fell halfway, Eliza Joe told the earth to move towards Allah sent another a man Allah sent someone to judge between the melodica while they were arguing, they were having this discussion. And we mentioned last week, Musa argued with Harun Musa argued with Adam Rasulullah sallallahu was setting them had misunderstandings with his wife, faulty man, Ali had misunderstandings. aboubaker and her mother had misunderstandings.

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There's a hadith that said that the Malacca tussle, they argue between themselves about other things not arguing with negativity, but they got aside and they have a side. So in this case, they had the from

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Osama, they were very positions, Allah sent a judge between them who said, judge the distance and measure the distance from where he was going, coming from to where he was going, whichever side is shorter, then that's who gets him and his important mother and father, if you're ever a judge, sometimes it's not easy to get to the truth. And sometimes it is, sometimes the ruling is you got to give some to get some.

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In the religion of Islam, you have two situations, try to work with both of them, instead of getting rid of one try to work with him. Sometimes we get rulings and judgments. These are some of the most beneficial rules and judgments, those people who can look at it and say, Yes, let me do justice to everybody. It doesn't always have to be black and white.

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So do that thing. And let's see what happens. When that was suggested. Allah caused the earth to move towards the man. So the man's body went further that way, which is a very important point in fifth this hadith, and that is, when you go to people for judgment, you got a problem with your wife, whatever, you got a problem with a brother, you come to the man, he doesn't want to sit there and waste time with you and your wife, if your wife doesn't like what he says, She kick up a storm if you don't like and it just keeps going. No, you got to judgment before you even render your judgment. If you want me to be a judge between you until you toe the you gotta agree right now that

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both of you agree to what I say. You're not going to go anywhere else after me and you're not going to keep calling me after that. Do you to agree? And that's all I gave us in this hadith right now. By sending that other one to make the Judgment. Allah said in the Quran about the husband and wife when the fifth tomb Shikata Bini Hema for Basu Hakkinen, Min Allahi wa Hackerman min me and you read is lacking, you are fickle. Allahu beno Houma if the husband and the wife are going to get divorced and your fears at that point, then bring a judge from his side and elders, someone he respects she respects from his side and bring someone similar from her side. Could be the man could be the woman,

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uncle, whoever, they don't have to be relatives, any man, any man.

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Before those to judge, they say to you to agree that whatever we decide you're going to take it, yes. And then you can go against that. So that one said that and that's what happened. So the man went to Jana. This hadith is a tremendous Hadith into listening,

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in terms of the For ye than the icon, and the adab of the Hadith, when it's ideal, we really should take our time because it is impregnated with a lot of benefits. At the top of the list at the top of the list. Everybody here is sitting without a doubt. And everybody here are making sense that if other people new people will make no sense at all, what's up with that. But we have to have personal one with each other from the names of Allah as he has a sativa

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a sativa

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and from his characteristics, your hip, Boo cetera, et cetera. Allah is the One who conceals.

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He puts a veil and he hides people's nakedness and your mistakes and your faults. And you shouldn't go out in public doing those things.

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Called Luma tema alpha, in Alamo J. Lien all of my Omer will be forgiven for the ascendance except those who broadcast who are those who broadcast Seattle sulla. He said they're the people who they make mistakes and it makes sense, under the Kirtland the veil of night. People don't know, obscurity. They don't know that he did this, he did that. But then they come out and they start broadcasting Hey, I did this and I did that. And I did this and I did that. And he started sharing that with people. Because when that happens in society, those kinds of things and revelations, the hearts of the people as the is said Bell, Ron and Apollo obey him. Your heart becomes docking,

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docking, docking, docking, you can't distinguish between right and wrong.

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So if we start broadcast, and we did this, we did that and this and they did that. So the TIC tock culture with our girls, our boys doing doing stuff that stuff kills Ellie man and hero jealousy. So the

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One who does that won't be forgiven. He is the one he did his sin mistake a lot covered him he came out in the broadcast it

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this hadith when he shows everybody here, Allah will forgive and can forgive every sin. One of the biggest sins in Islam is murder. And some of the seven things that will destroy you it's tourney boo as Subodh movie cut, stay away from the seven major sins. And one of them you mentioned so Lola who it was sending them cut through knifes and letting her Ramallah, her Rama, Hala, illiberal hop, killing a soul that doesn't deserve to be killed. That could be crashing in a car. That could be you're an electrician, you built the height of the building, you didn't do your job, like in the Muslim world, the bills gonna fall down on you in certain African countries where we come from,

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because they cut corners. You just breezed a deuce hand who's going to who's supposed to come and check. Did you do everything right? Did you stick to the coal just pay him off and the building falls something was faulty. You sold someone a car man sold them a car and the wheel is loose, something is wrong. You'll be responsible for that.

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So the NABI SallAllahu Sallam told us stay away from it listening to it. shirk is a major sin. Some of the scholars like Eben hasn't said I don't know any sin greater than the Salat coming in and going out and a person doesn't pray you believe that was the biggest sin. Some said it was magic. And some say murder. Some said according to the 13th of this hadith stay away from the seven major sins murder is up there it's not second it's way up there. Allah said about murder and as it relates to killing the believer well my academy McMenamin yet to the movement and Illa Hatha it's not okay for a believer to kill another believer except by mistake. He didn't mean to do it.

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But if he kills him intentionally, oh boy, if you kill them by mistake, then you free a slave you fast two months you do things for expiation, you give them blood money, because of the mistake, but if you kill someone, Amy sold any soul some major sin, but the believing soul is even worse. It's even worse Allah mentioned about murdering Soto to Nisa we're making up to mean and Mota and me them for joza Who Jahannam Holly than fee her. Well I do have Allahu Allahu Allah. I know who I don't know who I that in Lima. Anyone who intentionally kills a Muslim

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Eliza Joe will put them in the Hellfire forever allow be angry with him allow will curse him allow prepare for him a grievious punishment five punishments for one sin that's been mentioned some big thing big

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and we look right now the blood of the Muslim in the Muslim world is cheap. The blood of the Muslim right here in the streets of Coventry this theories of Birmingham cheap Liverpool.

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Muslim kids are killing other people over nonsense. Whereas we're supposed to look at this issue like the way we look at shirk, man, that's big. I'm not doing *. The way we look at Xena, you have to look at murder like that.

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The way you look at those major crimes, you have to look at murders we have there.

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There are some a hadith that would suggest like this is that he will be in the Hellfire forever, Allah said, but will he be in a Hellfire forever? If someone murdered someone, and he didn't make it? halau he won't be in the Hellfire forever. That's a disaster. Let's show you how serious it is. And there's a hadith that the Prophet mentions Allah who he was sending them like his foot Heitman somebody Oh mendini a man will always have an opportunity in his religion, you know, to go to Jannah as long as he didn't in shed blood that's haram. So you can understand if you shed blood that's haram, you're not going to gender.

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But no, that's not the case. As long as a person doesn't make it stay loud. So very quickly, because the time is flying, whether the lives would just say about this issue.

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There is nobody here that has killed 100 people. And Allah forgave this man who killed 100 So as you sit there, don't listen to these hardcore people who tell you close the door in your face. But so Allah says, Allah Allah Solomon, Karl Halakha NAS for whom a lack of a laka from a lack and another way is who lagoon is moot of deal. If anybody says the people are no good, the people are destroyed. That's it.

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his opinion he looks at all the fitness and the drama in the community in the dunya he's just real dark and dirty doesn't like it. He said, Man, I ain't giving no doubt the people innovation and making should look a little the new the new DiMasi I'm not giving any doubt the people no good. Prophet Muhammad said anybody who has an opinion, then you're the one who destroyed them, or you're more destroyed than they are. Don't you know that allies? A little photo Rahim? Allah Azza wa Bunnell Halim and Latif generalizer. Joe forgave a man who killed 100 people that maybe she doesn't wear hijab, and she had a baby out of wedlock, and she's your relative. And what she did is I have

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no doubt about that. But we're going to do, we're going to do what you call that murder. We call that murder again, on a murder. She made Toba.

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She in the UK, she's in the UK. She made Toba from what she used to do, clubbing drinking. She used to be drunk in the streets. People knew her and she made Toba and we don't want to let in our house for there. He didn't know we were talking about. She may be better than everybody in the house.

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She may be and that's what allowed us to say. He used to say, Radi Allahu Anhu that the people who he was afraid for Islam, that people will grow in Islam who didn't know Jania the way they knew Jay havia they used to drink. They used to do Zina, they used to do murders. They do all that stuff, highway robbery, all that stuff. So now they had an appreciation for Ellis lamb. Whereas the people born and raised in Islam, they don't know all of that stuff. So they just like the poor, innocent bunny rabbit. Just they're getting ready to get slaughtered with the knife. So if people make Toba no matter what they did,

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if they made Toba, we got to accept that from them. But doesn't mean I have to give him money and he robbed a bank. And he took no I'm not giving any money. I need my money. But we don't hold those sins against the person what he did. So this hadith clearly shows that that no one should give Dawa like that. You're done. You're finish. You're going to hell fire. You're no good. You're Catherine. What are you talking about? Don't talk to people like that. And don't look at people like that. Allah mentioned in the Quran kuliah a baddie. Levina asstra Fu Fu see him la Tekna to Marathi Latin nulla AHA yuck through the Nuba Jamia, tell these people you have Mohammed Oh my service Allah said,

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don't despair from the Rama of Allah. Allah will forgive all since.

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So there are some people who overthink some people who have anxiety, some people that says how they have been built and they're created. So when they make mistakes, they feel bad, but they worry themselves as Allah said to the Prophet, Allah Allah CABAC enough circa Allah Allah You mean we'll be having Hadith SFR you may worry yourself to death until you die Muhammad right about these people don't do that. And the Prophet stopped that because he wanted them to come into Islam so used to worry that his people would die on Cofer. So some people are like that. If they make a mistake that keep kicking themselves in the head keep kicking. He make a mistake, make Toba get back on track and

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keep going

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Allah forgives all sins

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and then he mentioned supine and without and another is that there's one cent he doesn't forget and Allaha now yes you don't you should be we have to Madonna directly many shell women you should Billahi *a bola bola Allen Bina Allah will not forgive ever, ever, ever, under any circumstances, no exception to the rule. He will never, ever, ever forgive the person who may ship with him.

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But he'll forgive everything other than that the I said, and whoever may stick with Allah, He has gone clearly astray. So listen is important. The man who killed 5100 people, He's worse than the one who put tattoos on his body. So someone like in the Arab world right now, especially the Leech. Some of these kids are coming here to study back in the day, the most you would get from those Arabs from the Gulf states as they like leave, they hear while and the girls went where he died while they were here. But now, hip hop culture, you know, they got hip hop, and the Arab world, hip hop over there. So now they put tattoos on the body. And other people do that. Our kids do a tattoo he did that.

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Although you made the testing. You may not like it. It's not

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ship on Billa Aloka forgiven

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he put tattoos on his body. And he was a he was he was on that he was a homosexual, you know and now I have to be all I have to be all sensitive when I'm going to say could I even use that word? Now to be Oh, can I use that word now?

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Now we were tired now while we're tongue tight. Could I use that word now?

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So it's a major sin and it's against our religion but can I say that in this democracy? Can I say that?

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So if a man or woman what to do those things they don't become non Muslims murdering 100 people's worst in that 100 worst in that

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so you just look at whoever you know, look at yourself. First and foremost we look at ourselves. Don't give up from don't despair from the raw look what Allah said no Quran I had that I had color or that b or c will be men I share

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what Rama T was the color shade. Allah said I will punish with my lab whoever I want to punish with my that, but my Rama has spread out and it has encompassed everything. The angels have i That and the angels of our Rama one Hadith The Prophet said that Allah has said about his his Rama Radha But Rama T rather be My Mercy My Mercy has overpowered my my punishment my anger.

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So lives with Joe is a suburb, a suburb meaning

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he could just take everybody low you active Allahu NAS be my castle boo my terracotta hum and dab button we're lacking a hero who Mila agilan Musa Ma. If Allah were to take everybody to account for what he did when he she didn't do or what she should have done what he shouldn't have done. Allah wouldn't have left anybody on the earth. It had taken us all. So don't look around at people and you look down on yourself. And you look at it a lot when I left anybody on the face of the earth, because we're not doing enough.

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But his Rama, overpowers that, so he gives children and the person is still disobedient, it gives good health money job so forth so on. So that's one of the meaning I add meaning meaning I asked for the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them for death when I heritage. This hadith is supported by other Hadith and many I Allah said no Quran Allah T assuming Rohilla no hula is my Rohilla he ll como Kaffee rune yeah Muslim. Don't you ever give up hope and despair about the Mercy of Allah upon you upon our Ummah, upon our community, that some people are they just so negative, after the hookah the other day, a brother came to me and there were people want to give me Salaam in

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and out that brother came and cut everybody and he really went in and he was aggressive and older brother he was telling me all these hook buzz don't mean nothing and now that they're no benefit as a chef will you mean a Cobain no benefit. You see all these people in this Masjid Juma is on via shoulders Whadjuk by making this hook been being in this masjid, we got the would you ping off our shoulders when you're talking about there's no benefit from the hook but but that's how negative he was.

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We're finished. Everything is messed up. That's not how we look. The Muslim is the one who says this glass is half full.

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And from the back that of Ellis lamb that are in your heart they can't be seen they're not apparent is we have to have a Tawakkol

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we have to have a whole fear of Allah. We have to have a Rajah. We have to hope. This is the OMA Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Habiba of Allah azza wa jal and they say the Benny Adam and Allah Tala promised him that he won't use Z. He won't obey someone put him down. Allah told me gonna put them up his own everything, but we have to go through the cleansing process. Don't be a negative guy. Don't be negative person. And if you know someone like that, those negative don't You don't want to marry a wife who's like that.

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You don't want to marry a woman or man. Everything is negative.

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Everything we just got married, let's keep our marriage. We're gonna go to the park have a picnic. I ain't going out into the squirrels out there.

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Now is always going to be something you want to marry a man who's malleable and a woman who's malleable

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You don't want that rough, tough gangster guy, or girl. And you don't want that negative person. And unfortunately, in some of our coaches since I come to the UK, and some of our coaches that thing is embedded in the culture, haters. I think that working from the coaches, some people don't know you know that. Don't be hater. They hate us. I think that we're coming from the coach of some of us, because you can understand why the Auntie's hating on the nephews and nieces and sisters and brothers. What What is this about? We, and I'm sure I don't want to say how many of you know people like is prevalent? heinous.

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So the Muslim is positive. He doesn't say, Allah will forgive you. Look at these a hadith and we'll finish and there are many, what are we talking about now? We are talking about Abdullah there was not a person he has said that he makes sense. Kulu Benny Adam Boone, will tie in a tawa Boone. Some scholars for your information said that hadith is dirty for the students of knowledge, go back and read about the chain of narration because that's something I defend later. Still here at other elsina. We hear that a lot. We just think it's some scholars say that hadith is not authentic. It's shallow, it's authentic.

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All of Adam's children make mistakes. And the best of those who make mistakes are the ones who make Toba. Adam made a mistake. He went to the tree

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Rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah said about them. Leah for the Allahu laka Mata turd them in them

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and sort of it'll fit in fatahna lack of fit and Rubina yamamah We gave you a great magnificent

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fat victory

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so that Allah will forgive you what went forth of your sins, the ones you already did, and the ones that's gonna come? They saw him praying, praying, praying, His feet started to swell praying tahajjud they say out also Elijah, why are you doing this? Allah has forgiven you for your sins when before and what's gonna come? He said a fella Akun abdomen sure Cora he made mistakes, but not the cabanne make mistakes that's how Allah created Benny Adam made mistakes. And from those mistakes is murder. And other than that,

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the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu wasallam is tremendous Hadith 20 He said that

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and Allah ha Yep. sujeto who belatedly you're too but mercy na har. Well, you have to hear the Houben now Holly you're to Mercy lane. Had turtle Shams memory Bihar, remember his ID.

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Verily, Allah

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stretches his hand out during the night time,

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so that the one who may sins during the daytime can ask for forgiveness no matter what he did.

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And Verily Allah stretches out his hands during the daytime, so that the one who made mistakes at nighttime can make Toba and that happens every day until the sun rises from the west. So the sun rises

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from the east and sets in the west.

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yomo Kiama, the sun is going to rise then do the opposite thing. Isn't there high goals the sun comes up from which way

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you guys sure about that. The sun comes up from the east

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and sets in the west the magnet. So every day, in the morning in the night, people are sending during the day and during the night. One person is sending all day and all night. Another person is sent in mostly in the night knowing and sending mostly in the daytime. He works so he doesn't pray during the night whatever it is in the night life whatever the situation is. But every day Elijah Joe puts his hand out to accept the forgiveness. So this hadith shows the SIF of the characteristic Allah has hands subhanho wa Taala he has two hands both of his hands are right hands. That's one of the details for that. This hadith shows that the door of a Toba is MUFE Torah

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day and night until you're no Kiama.

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The door of Toba is MUFE Tor. The time that it closes is when the sun rises from the west. No Toba and also if a person dies related to Toba to levena related to Toba to levena when they say in the Matoba to either live in Luna Suba Hollington. The next is related to Toba to levena Yeah, Luna see it hot

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either hot or cold call me toptal en

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tob is not for the one who keeps doing sins and stuff and then death comes to him and he said make Toba like from own for now. He said I believe in the Lord of high ruin and Musa

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and it's too late now you in trouble.

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The Hadith of the Nebby Salah lot he was setting the mentioned in the Lucha Yakubu told Metalab de Milan you are here. Allah will accept the Toba of the slave. As long as he doesn't Largo you got to hear when he's about to die. If you ever saw dying in person they want to live. An angel is taking their soul and they do that sound.

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Once that happened, stick a fork in them. You done no tobac that time because the person sees the reality of lag and I hate a lot that moment. He sees the reality of it. And that's when he says yeah, leave me come to Toronto. I wish I was just there. Too late right now it's too late. So Toby is open. Toby is open all the time. This this really important is really really, really important. One of the greatest scholars of slam is shatel. inflammable Khayyam, he's not my assume. Eben will pay him concern of this hadith I just told you about the Hand of Allah. He reaches out in the daytime and nighttime which goes to show Toby's always open the door. Don't wait until you make

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Ramadan for Toba. Don't wait until you make Hajj for Toba. The young man said Okay, I'll wait until I get married and then I start praying we talking about I wait until I get married. I start wearing hijab when my husband told me where he died. I'm going to make peace in Ramadan on the 27th night of Ramadan I'm gonna make Tobin in law Yashi you got it you got it wrong it's not like that. Allah command it was Sadie who am affinity member of become with Jen Nitin outdo her son Anwar to win out of debt look the teen hurry up and make Toba Hurry up, hurry up and hurry up and go seek that Janina, whose width is like the heavens and the earth has been prepared for those who have Taqwa bad

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doodle Billa fitting in Kitt Elena moslem, hurry up and do the goodies. Because the fitness is going to come like a dark knight. We can't see barely out that door. That's what it means.

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The fitness out is light in here. But if so much stuff, chiseling away, Dean.

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This is just an example is no one here. Can you imagine come to the masjid and in his house. His wife is calling somebody else.

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He's in his Masjid trying to do the right thing. And his children don't want to leave his children home because a child is home doing a while some wild fit in. So the Hadith said hurry up and do the fitting.

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He said Todd julu Bill hij cobbling your fire hazard bait hurry up and make hedge before this houses raised up two years we were not allowed to make hedge two years nobody thought something like that will happen. Well that cop is gonna be destroyed one day. So hurry up and do the good DS. Toby's from the besties we have to do the best deeds all of us ASAP. Even though km get this got to get this. He said this hadith of Allah stretches his hand out in a night in a day. He said this hadith shows something many people sleep on. And that is is one of those Hadith that shows the importance of making an mubadala and hurry up and making Toba Hurry up. And that if you don't hurry up and make

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Toba from the mistake, then you're here. You're delaying the Toba is a sin on top of the other sin.

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So let's just go and let's just say someone stole something today. He stole it today. Well, Allah puts his hand out you should make Toba immediately before today. This is the nighttime law stole today forgive me. So he did quickly. But if he doesn't any procast procrastinates he leaves that sin. Another send another send no Toba, another one another. Every day Allah is putting his hand out give him an opportunity, but he's delaying the land. Now when he makes Toba. He makes Toba for the mistake, but he has to make Toba for the other sin of delaying your Toba.

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So you just don't make Toba and say, Allah forgive me for this distance that you have to we have to make Toba to Allah for the tous wif for the procrastination because it's a sin, which we'll do right away. Don't wait for a week. You did that mistake today will hurry up and make Toba before the night time or when the night time. Don't let 567 weeks and months go by. Don't do that.

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And that's why it's important 20 that we learn those dua from the Jomon and kill him. Those ayat and take the DUA vi because they don't leave anything out. Rob Bella lied to us. In Siena, our Donna, you make that dog, don't hold me responsible if I forget, or if I make a mistake.

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The sale so far got to memorize that. Because in the words all the bases are covered concern of the Toba.

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Ally. I acknowledge that you know, I made mistakes, and I'm asking you to forgive me all my mistakes and that's why some of his dua used to be Oh ALLAH forgive me for my sins diku Ha, what juluca Forgive me for the big mistakes I made and the little ones the ones I remember the ones I don't remember the ones I did in public, the ones I didn't do in public.

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So from these Hadith and there are many as well as the other Hadith could see, those of you who have the 40 Hadith of an Imam and no we he put in that book, the prophets of Allah what He was sending them send them Elijah Joel said,

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you have been Adam, lo and Nikka doubt me what a Joe to me the federal to laka arama can Minka without all baddie all son of Adam. If you make dua to me, and you have Rajah you hope you hope that thing you have with the gin is sorted out. That thing that you have with the magic gets sorted out, you're not married, you are married, you got problems, you need a job, or a job. I hope Allah is gonna help me out. A lot is going to protect us. Nobody can home. Nobody can hurt you if Allah didn't want it. And if Allah decree something that no one should open up a door of drama, no reason.

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Nobody. Hey, if they said to you, I want to ask you guys this question. Somebody said to you, everybody here change your name from the beautiful slamming names that you had and change your name to someone where you could just go under the radar, nobody know you're Muslim. Would you guys do that?

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We're not going to do that. Change my name? Where does it stop? Next thing you're going to come and ask me to change how I look cut off my beard. And then you want to ask me bleach my skin?

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No, I'm not bleaching my skin. Am I changing my name? I don't want to throw myself in harm's way. But if it comes that way, it's from the color of Allah couldn't miss me

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and couldn't miss us. So he said, if you make dua to me, and you have hope, then I will forgive you for whatever you did with that valley and I don't care what you did. Allah said. And then he said in the second part of the Hadith to botica what the Allah Oh, son of Adam, lo Bella got the new Buka and then it's for Mr. Furth me refer to laka. Willa Oh, Barry, Oh, son of Adam. If you did all of the sins, and your sins reached all the way up to the sky, and you ask forgiveness for me, I forgive you. Allah said

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all of the sins, kill a million people.

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And the last part of it if you said that Allahu Tabata Katana say you have been to Adam law and Nikka taitneamh Welcome to Shrek be chez

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lo Anika attorney Bill karate be Robin on fire from Mega Kitani lad to Shrek be Shay. Take to Kirby Karabi Hama ferratum Without Abadi importance of a Tauheed and the danger of a Schickel son of Adam, if you come to me, and you meet me with the sins that have filled up everything but you didn't make * with me. I will forgive you and I don't care what you did.

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Because you have that Tawheed so all of those Hadith when they showed me, we don't give up hope of the Mercy of Allah. That's the point. As a Muslim as a dying, we have to have a good opinion about Allah has never been below the Hadith. cosi said Allah will be to a slave the way his slave thinks Allah is.

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And I'll be ven Abdi I'm the way my slave thinks I am. You believe Allah is the Protector. Allah can take care of it. Allah will take care of in sha Allah, Allah promised you he doesn't break the promise. You're weak, you're in need a lot of deals with people like that.

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So those are just a few of the mini Dylan that go to show the Bab of a Toba is open and I have to say this I mean a lot of low law who are from home be told me the ID man I did come. Allah has more happy than one of you. Allah becomes for him.

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More Happy from his characteristics he is happy. And the way that the fish His Majesty. He said if one of you were on your, your camel or your horse in the middle of the desert, and then you fell off or whatever and he ran away in the middle of the desert, middle of that white space of desert or in the middle of the ocean, had he said the desert and then somehow your camel came back to you. I don't know where if that would have happened is party time.

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Because you thought you were dead. I mean, we can't even imagine that. The people can appreciate this. Our people been stranded. Like our brothers and sisters in Pakistan a few weeks ago that snow that fell on them and we will strengthen the died Rama to lie lay him when they when that condition and each hour was passing and he started freezing. And their bodies started to you know what happens when you're cold? They would have loved for a helicopter just come over and Urara or big truck to come rescuers. You know how happy you are at that moment.

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Prophet Muhammad said one man has happened to him in the desert. He was in a desert his animal ran off. He just went under the tree to die

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like that snow. Those people die. After some time, when I saw pictures of me open up the door. One of the kids didn't even have socks on. It was surreal. I was like why didn't have socks on? They said that they went to cars and it was the the fumes that killed them a lot. Put them all in Genda put them all in gentlemen help the families. If someone came out of nowhere after that snow storm and help them you know what happy that person is going to be Rasul Allah says Allah is more happy than that. More happy when the slave makes Toba

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when a slave makes Toba so all of those are Hadith they clearly show me clearly indicate ALLAH is forgiving. So therefore we cannot be those people close the door and conclude and I want to say this as Sephia I said if he is as I told you so many times whiny the keytab in the Sunnah, according to the understanding of the companions, without any his BIA without this thing about hating Muslims and things like that. No, just even if you could put that word aside if it was possible, let's put it aside because it makes people misunderstand. But I'm not going to be shying embarrassed about saying what I believe I'm coming to Islam to play around with religion, a set of fears. What are the meme

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acne talked about? It's what Ali Muhammad Shafi talked about when Imam Malik talks about what an Imam Abu Hanifa talked about. So we true that we love those people know I gotta be shy about that. But we have to understand a selfie is what those companions did, how they understood the religion. And they were not people who were rough and tough. Closing the door of Rama in front of the community.

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deviant you deviant, deviant, Elizabeth, your deviant man, we met China here that kind of dour. We want to hear down with that I got a chance to go to Jenna. I'm gonna ask you to bend the rules, but make me feel that when I became a Muslim, it was for good reason. Don't make me feel like whenever I see a Muslim, I never saw him in my life. And because I don't know him. He doesn't look what I think he should look. And I don't like, don't leave me miss me with that doubt. That's not our religion. Our religion is hikma putting things in the right place. It's the bedwin man urinating in the masjid in front of everybody in the Prophet having jinn to behavior with him. And we dealt with that

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I'm that Bedouin

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you're the Bedouin,

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by a young boy who wanted to get married.

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And he said, God also give me permission to make Zina because he was sincere. Prayer Mama said, no, no, no, no, I'm not gonna give you permission for that. But the people didn't like what he did. But Prophet Muhammad make dua for him. And he said, Allah took that thing away from me. The man broke his fast in the month of Ramadan by having relationships with his wife doing the daytime

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during the daytime, and that man wound up taking the dates away. I don't have time to go through that idea that he he made the mistake of breaking as fast. So I gave him the sadaqa of dates, instead of him having to give them to people it was was on self.

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Worth. Were there times when the newbie was shady and stolen coffee. No, but the hustle is, take it easy with the people. Take it easy with the people yaki. Take it easy with the people. All right, we're gonna stop here in sha Allah. If you guys have any questions, five minutes, you just do questions for five minutes, Bethany let the calendar come shake

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any questions acquainting?

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Someone dies three weeks a lot.

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I don't know anything about that

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he got ill, and then he died.

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And what's the three what weeks about what

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she couldn't pray because of the sickness.

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Allah doesn't burden people beyond the scope as a principle now religion.

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Allah doesn't burden anyone beyond his skull. Just remember that as we embark upon the month of Ramadan, our elders

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78 year old relatives people were sick, they don't have to fast at all because our lives we did doesn't make things difficult for them in the religion. So if this happened to this person, now you can if Allahu nevsun levels

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the Prophet stopped going to the masjid leading the people in the prayer when he got sick.

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And he prayed in the house until the people that Abu Bakar lead. And you know, he's gonna always come out as the leader, but he stayed home. Why? Because it was behind his he had a bad headache. He wasn't feeling well. He was very sick. I'm out read the alarm got stabbed, praying, God stop it come out anymore. wasn't praying anymore. They were trying to save his life by last permission. They kept trying to keep him awake. They gave him the milk that came out of his intestines and stomach. They said he's gonna love you're gonna die. No one expects him to get up and go pray. can't pray in that condition. So a Muslim who's in that the Booba in the ICU. I forgot the color here, what they call

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the ICU Intensive Care Unit where we come from, what is it here? I see you. So we pray to Allah azza wa jal to make it easy for our brothers and sisters, Santa Fe, we have the cutter. When I say Allah subhana wa Ohtani we're flipping it. Let me just make this disclaimer. I believe homosexuality is haram Me, me, I believe that. So I was just giving that example not to put anybody down. It was an example for our community to say, most Muslims from the fitrah don't ever accept homosexuality from the fitrah. The vast majority of us don't accept it. And we embrace it as being haram, the vast majority of us. So I want to speak to the minds of some of the people from our uma who if someone

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made this sin of homosexuality, I don't condone it I don't endorse is haram.

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You can hurt those people who have that lifestyle, whether they're Muslims or not, is a law, you got to obey the law. I'm giving that example to say, hey, Muslims, if you see someone with a tattoo on his body while he's making Tawaf, don't say to him, Hey, you're Catholic, get away from the Kaaba.

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Someone goes to the public to the judge to the court, and then he puts his hand on a Bible and swears by the Bible, like they do.

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Don't say that it is a calf you don't say he's a calf is what I'm singing as to what I was doing.