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Hadith #23 – Manners of the Caller

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smear Haman handily there haven't been cut here on will take you by Mubarak and feet whatsoever while to lie he was sent ammo.

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I mean, while he was happy as main a mark Bowden come to the next hiraeth and is the hadith of Anissa be nomadic may Allah be pleased with him and his boo Matic may Allah be pleased with him one of his six companions that narrated the majority of the Hadith he was from the people and I'm on my way to take care of an Aaron, that is a secret of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. The mother will say, What's the secret? He says the secret was Sweetie, now I'm not going to tell you, even his mother tremendous personality. He said that the Prophet says Allah Allah while he was setting them for life of the cartoon with an iPhone monjee at three things are destructive, they will destroy

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you. So avoid them.

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Any one of these three things by themselves will destroy you. With the iPhone gx and three things are been FCV the three things that would destroy your person is being stingy and not sharing.

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not sharing his time, his wealth, his knowledge.

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The other thing that will destroy you is following your desires the Hawa at Valhalla will destroy you. And number three, the third thing that would destroy a person is being impressed with oneself looking at yourself, and seeing that you're better than other people and you you're impressed with what Eliza gel has given you. Before going to the other three inshallah that will save a person. We have to understand that this hadith is talking about the movie cat and the moon gi minjiang. The word

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nejat comes from that word, the felucca to Nigeria, the same sect as the main engine, the al Qaeda that the Prophet brought Salah when he was sending him every Muslim has to try to be a pioneer. As the Prophet told us Allah Allah what he was telling them that is I will talk to you for two min material heartland Sora they will not cease to be a group of people from this oma, they will be victorious the safe sector for Qatar, Nigeria. So if a person believes and wants to be from the America to Nigeria, he can't walk around being arrogant, being impressed with himself saying to everybody, you're not on it, you're not on it. You're not on it. I'm better than don't we're really

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talking about Africa, Nigeria. He thinks he's from the rakata Nigeria Shall I he is, but all of the three things that will destroy you in that person. The three things that will destroy you in that person. And that's what the things that will save you he doesn't have it. So concerning the three things that will destroy you, is for a person to be stingy. Being stingy is a characteristic of the yahood from the many characteristics that will describe the yahood wave in the Quran. This is one of them to be selfish.

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Love will Tyler mentioned in the Quran, which is a bundle Lavine, Luna Bhima Tao human love women for the who love them Bella who was Cerullo

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Do not let those people who Allah has given them

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wealth from his virtues Allah gave it to them Do not let them think for one minute when they are stingy that that's better for them like they're saving money by not giving you're saving money by not giving a lot of saying no instead This is worse for them. So a book on is a big mush gala because it shows that a person's key this jammed up a lot is that honey he's the one who provides for everyone and he provides for everything in creation and we will provide for you brief everybody inshallah Isaiah Johnson the Muslim nice to know that so he can be healed. as relates to the authentic sooner. The Prophet told us Allah Allah who it was sending them a couple sure for ensure

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Allah command Canada blucon. Beware and avoid being stingy. Because stinginess destroy the people came before you and yahood when Asara is from the things that they did, that they were destroyed as a result of that. So in our religion, we were told to avoid it and the one who makes jihad against this knifes in terms of being not stingy is a lot of reward well meaning you should see for Allah Allah free own any

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One who was saved from being stingy then those are the ones who are successful now you look in the audience and we have children, our children a book Allah FEMA, Bane and footsy him

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they don't even want to share between themselves. They can share the iPad they can share the computer they can share things that are there from the food and other than that is the me myself and I culture this

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these three things if a person has one, he can be a narcissist. All three he can be a narcissist, Bella shuck. a narcissist is the person is all about me. It's all about me, is what I want. It's not about the group's not about anyone other than me. He's married to his wife, but he doesn't care about anyone except himself. He's always first he wants all of his heart doesn't want to give up.

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He doesn't want people to bother him. He doesn't want people to oppress him. But he never thinks like that. for other people. narcissism is a mental illness. He thinks he's right. Everyone else is wrong. will lie I've seen people like that in the dour and that's why nobody can get along with him and that's why he can go into the massage of the Muslims manner for him to come into the misjudge because it's too rough too tough and look down on everybody. Well, lucky. I know people like that. A person like that. May Allah help us. So as it relates to stinginess, it will destroy you. The Prophet Toby Lao sallallahu alayhi wa sallam yeah be loud spin and Allah spin on you but I didn't

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have any money he didn't have any money and yet Allah Israel soul told them you spend and Allah will spend on you, man, not Casa mama cut min sadaqa. Anytime you give sadaqa that money never was decreased, instead is going to be increase. And you're going to find your reward with allies with Jen

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stinginess with your time. This book is The Dow and the Dow, the Dow and the Dow. What's your dour and you're one of the people calling to that dollar. You can't be stingy with your time can't be stingy with your time. How is it possible we want to call the people to the tab in the sooner and we miss understand about mixing with the people of innovation. So the people who are on the whacked out understanding of sephia whacked out is his beer, like there has to be of all of these jamaah that we always warn you of You don't have to be with any of these groups. Don't be with any of these groups don't be with any group calling themselves Salafi. One, none of them groups. But look at the

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understanding no doubt the senate based upon the time the sooner they used to boycott and they used to avoid people of innovation, no doubt about that. That's from the assault of a silly fear to boycott people. But it needs fifth has to have physical hunger, not based on just getting mad and you void boycott people. So therefore,

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the only doubt you can give is in your mistake. You can go to the masjid over there the masjid over the the masjid over there. So people's understanding is we only can give Dawa from right here and we preach to the choir to the people already upon this.

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know you're in your time and all say go and jump in the water with everyone. You're going to go to a place of people who cursed the companions read the line on maybe you can go and give them down as long as they don't put conditions on you and so forth and so on. The point is given down with Allah, it requires karma. The second thing that the Prophet mentions on the law while he was sending them was the house that is followed the how're your desires, everybody has a knifes at bat enough's. Allah mentioned about that knifes in the Quran flamin zakaah. Cahaba min de ser anyone who got does does kiya to enough's is going to be successful. does get enough's means you know how to deal with

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your telephone, you know how to look in social media, you know what to listen to, what not to listen to? That's the knifes because if you left this knifes it will become your God your Illa

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Allah says in the Quran for a minute.

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How wha hoo ilaha

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illa Who Have you not seen the one was taken his knifes as his God. His how're is his God. Wherever the her Word tells him to do. That's what he's going to do. steal the money. Do this. Do that. Don't

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Pray don't fat,

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lie cheat whatever it is. his religion is hella whatever his Hawa his knifes to stay whatever that's going to be his religion he want to curse the companions he's with these group of people that make convicted in the way that's now whatever whatever let's just get along with the people so this issue of the knifes is that we have to make jihad against enough to bring it under control. Well I'm in the car for my camera be we're not enough sir and an

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agenda here my work here.

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Amen. Anyone who's afraid of yomo kiama and is afraid and is Daniela macom of Allah, that Allah is looking and listening anyone who has fear of Allah and he holds his knifes back, he holds it back, then the agenda is going to be the final resting place for that individual. So these two things will destroy a person in the Quran. Allah mention a person you should know. It is a man that the scholars who gave the Tafseer of the Quran like a man injury recovery and other than Him, even Kassir and other than Him, right? hemo Mullah huhtala This is a man who Allahu taala gave him his SM and avem, the essence of them The Greatest Name of Allah you make dua to Allah by that name. And Allah will

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give you that thing is the last as to what that mean is, some of the scholars say that it is Allah itself, Allah that name, and there's delille for that, we don't have time for that. But Allahu tada mentioned a man that he gave to him his ayat he gave to that man signs fund Salah minha and he left all signs that Allah gave to him. He forgot he left a lot took it away. The point here is this particular man follow his desires. So he lost that knowledge. He's in the book of Allah. He said in the Quran will oh [???] nah are fine. Now who will be here? When I can? When I can? No, no, whatever

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we want it. Allah said if I want it out or raise him with my x rays, anybody with the if the religion, Allah said he would have raised them, but the man the man, he held on to the dunya to the earth, and he left that and he decided to follow his house. He followed his house. As a result of that he became a bad man. This is one of the eyes of the Parana go to show the Polo of the slaves are between the two fingers of a rock man. You can label her key for your sha Allah turns hearts of people as he likes, what to Allah who never levy it now, Tina from Santa Caminha read to them yeah Mohammed the story of the man we gave him Our Ayat II was from the ODM Allah

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but when you follow this how're we follow this? hawan Allah sent him straight, and gave them a terrible example in the Quran for method Oh who can FML calpe in Tamil Allah yelahanka truco that he can methyl Camilleri in Canada will be itella his example is like the dog so what when I lay him and veritone m Lambton girl, let me know. His example is like the dog. If you bother the dog, the dog was staying there with his with his tongue out. If you leave the dog, he'll stay there with his tongue out. That person is the same. Give them Dawa. You don't give them Tao is the same.

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Mica Cal. So following the Howard at Valhalla mosquito. The third one, honey, is what the prophet mentioned Salalah why he was suddenly a job and might have been FC for a person to be impressed with himself. We gave a clip about this, you go back and check that footbed out but as we mentioned back then, being impressed with yourself with ourselves is from the characteristics of the Yahoo Denver nosara. Now when yesterday,

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the Yahood and the Christians from before and now

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throughout the Quran we have what Allah tells about how they looked at themselves and how they looked at other people. How they looked at themselves, and how they look condescendingly down and other people. And they said a lot of statements that their actions didn't back up, that it could be unknown call hulan Thomason and narrow Illa yummy ma Duda.

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That is because they said, if we go to the Hellfire, we only gonna go for a few days, just for a few days if we have to go, but they say more than likely we won't go

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So Allah told the prophet to say to him hi tuber Hannah coming from Saudi King. Where's the proof of that? We'll call it tilia who do one sobre la nueva na la he was a bad call for Rima

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lubicon Belle Entomb pressure on men men Hello. You're feeling the manga Shatta Wale you I leave Romania, the Jews and the Christians say we are the sons of Allah and we have a lot the ones that I love loves a lot to Russell, I say to them, then why is it that Allah punishes you for your sins if he was sons?

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If he said hello, Marian was a son. Why would Allah allow? He said Hello, my name is Sonny again. I'm gonna cross although this is not talking about he's saving money. If you people are the real sons of Allah and His Beloved, why does he allow you to Why does he punish you?

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You're human beings like everybody else. He punishes whoever he wants, and he forgives whoever he wants. So kinda who what the Allah, it is a characteristic of the Yahood and the nesara. They are Jose, not new shabu, la matar, we are Allah was chosen people will take the Palestinians and kick them in the Red Sea. And we can do that because we are laws chosen people and the world but to get with the program, how does your conscience allow you to do that? And that's why there are some yahood who would not Zionist who are against what design is still. But my point is, How can any human being in this mess check. Your father, his father's father, his father's father, father,

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father, owns the land that you have back in Pakistan, back in Bangladesh, in Afghanistan, in Somalia, you had that land in America, and somebody comes today Johnny come lately 2021 and says, This is our land. You have the D but it's mine. Oh, you get that from? God promised us this land? who talks like that? That's a jab. That's a person being super impressed. The Christians say and they believe if you believe that the seven Miriam was hung on that cross, and he died for your sins. You go to Jenna. You can drink camo. You can make Zina you could do whatever you want. Just take the seven lomatium and believe that He died for your sins and do whatever you want.

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That's what this is talking about a job and Murphy knifes, and as it happens to them, it happens to us. As soon as a man can kubla Khan, this community you're going to follow the people when before you everything they did, you're going to do it as something that they did. And this is something that we have a job. Okay, my beard is beginning yours. My job Bab he jab is nice in yours. He has a sister she's a new Muslim, and maybe she's been in the deal for some while but she has a funky hijab. I don't mean it smells funky when I'm talking about the colors, the print in hijab. Her mom the way she wears it. The other sister who dresses properly. She has Jude Bab she has gloves she has

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me calm, but when she sees that girl she feels a I'm on it and you're not on it. I'm a better Muslim than you.

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When Allah knows best who is who? And I'm Tara ella levena use a coonan for Soham Bella who use a key Manisha m Mohammed, Have you not seen those people praise themselves. Allah praises who he wants to praise, talking about for yo hold and the nesara that iron. Allah told him made him haraam lad to saquon full circle. Who will Adam will be minute Taka. Don't praise yourselves. Don't praise yourselves. Allah knows best who has taqwa. Allah knows best. So don't walk around when you find people who are not practicing from your relatives and whatever. And coming down the bus number six. I got stuck out out there taking the bus today. I asked the guy in the bus. What time is Muggeridge?

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He was honest he said i don't know i don't pray.

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I said to me a lot help us help you may salami. He said I look for it because of the Dwyer guess then treat him back. He started looking forward. I said Come on, man. We're gonna go to the mystery. Get off right here. He came. I lost him. I don't know what happened. But he came off the number six bus from green lane right here. So we're gonna look at him and say, yeah, that's a major sin what you're doing, but whoever doesn't live in a glass house, let him throw the first rock. Right here from the people were sitting right here. Whoever doesn't live in a glass house. Meaning we all

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mistakes that we're making. So his jihad is Salah, where Jihad may be something else, or maybe like his Salah, you praying but you're not praying Are we not praying all five prayers. So the point here is 20 is a jab and model. And a lot can be said about jab and murder.

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the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it was seldom one of the famous wars that they had was the Battle of her name. It was the only campaign in which the Muslims had a lot of numbers, they used to always be

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out number three to one and better 300 of them over 1000 Cofer. That was always the case. But in this world remain a slam spread. And when it was time to go wage, the war, everybody came out. The Companions looked at themselves and they were happy. Allah mentioned that in the Quran, where Yama who name is gibert come catarratto come from Tokyo.

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And remember the Battle of name when you looked at your lodge numbers, but it didn't help you at all. You looked at your large numbers and you were pressed with a jab. The Muslim said yes, look out numbers.

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And Allah caused them to kind of lose the battle rhodiola edge mind teaching us a lesson is not the numbers that win or lose is not the medicine that makes you well and not it's not the bullet or the knife that kills his allies with Joe. Allah. So don't be a person with Martin jib. Like for an example we're giving down with Allah. So a person giving Dawa says look in my hits I got more his thing you

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I got 50,000 and next year I got 80,000 No sir I got a million. Anything's better than people because got a million hits. That's not the goal. That's not the objective. And the classroom. One of the people giving Dawa says I have more people attending the class than me Mashallah look at my class

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law that I buy then people come up to you and the Imam reads the Quran in a beautiful voice in a beautiful way. And people come and say Mashallah. Your recitation, a job enough's. And this is why the Prophet told the people saw the love, why do you sell them don't break your brother's neck by going overboard and praising him. And right now from the men who just said he is that we don't see the permissibility of rouge against the cam of the Muslims. As long as they are Muslims, we don't say we don't see that you can revolt against them, not with the sword and not with your tongue. But although we don't see that we also don't see it as being the hack that we find some people always

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praise in these leaders with what is not in them.

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Rather, the self will not upon that. The sellers used to avoid the doors of the Sudan. They want to go to the door of the leader, because they didn't want to be tried in the religion. You have to give a foot what pleased me.

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So they would avoid now we have people I'm telling you the we're living in a strange time. The people praise is one thing not to me. horloge we don't make heroes. But it's another thing you praising him. You even have one of them are his tweeter tweeter. He has the picture of his king.

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pitch of his kink that's not from the men has a silly thing to say about these people what is not in them. As we're respecting them. Yeah, a miramont meaning, things like that. Nothing wrong with that. You want to respect them or mere landowners, Elena's mana Zillow, you have to respect people who have positions nothing wrong with that. So a job and not enough try to avoid these shallow huhtala we've come to the next one at 20 and these are the three things that will save you three things that will save you the first one he mentioned Southern love while he was sending them Hachette to love his surgery while Alinea

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theory in a lot in secret and in public. Now, wherever you want is going to feel a lot in public inshallah the way we are right now. Nobody's going to take out a spliff and light it up here. Allow side or cigarette, no one's gonna do that.

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But when a person is by himself, he may do that. He may masturbate, he may do things, watch pornography, he makes curse when he's by himself and the people not around he swears uses foul language. You want to be saved. He says Allah love while he was cinema, then fear Allah in

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Secret and an open and public. Public is easy.

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A man came to him and said give me advice. Yeah, rasulillah he said some a lot while he was cinema, seeker. And to stay here, Manila command to stay here. Men are Roger Farley, men, Benny calmac. I advise you to have higher, to be shy of Allah to be modest, have higher, the same way you'll be shy of a religious man from your people, or religious man from your people. So for the person who watches TV, and the different shows in the movies on the TV, with a cursing, swearing and carry on, a comedian comes in, he swear, he watches that by himself. But if his mother's father was there, you won't watch it if his uncle can go and watch it. If an older brother from the community came,

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because this public is not going to do it. And that's a good thing. That's a good thing. But the added said, Fear Allah in secret, and fear law in public as well. So public is pretty easy. It's the secret issue.

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Or a secret that is the struggle with the issue. The Prophet says I love while he was out, he was sending them my tea, my alpha, nl mu j, he rode all of my oma will be forgiven by Allah except those who broadcast. They say God also love who are those who bought broadcast. He said the ones who broadcast are the ones who during the night, when they're by themselves, they make mistakes. They make the news, all of them. Not a person here doesn't make the news. They make mistakes in secret. And Allah who has a satiric from allows names as a tear, like the curtain fatigue, he covers in conceals, conceals your fault.

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So he does a crime and he does a sin in secret. And then it comes out in public. And he says, Hey, funan I did this, hey, I did that. I was drinking, I got high. Hey, I did that on a computer. I killed someone, and on and on and on. He's the one who's broadcasting because if a person does it send that a lot covered him up. And then he comes out and starts talking about it, since in the community and society are going to be looked at as being as simple and easy. If everybody kept doing that. You get used to the sin. Like the man who killed 100 people. And he wanted to make Toba. He said you have to leave this place and go somewhere where the people not doing what they're doing.

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Why? Because when you are for you to have killed 100 people, it's assigning indication that sins are rampant in that society, or people that stopped you and said, What are you doing?

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You killed three people already. He got up to 100 because that's the society like here, like here. So we don't find this strange anymore. We don't find it strange. When the Muslim girl gets on tik tok and again, she starts to sing those songs that cardi B make and those these people and it's been she's cursing and swearing and it's not strange. This is the society we live in right now.

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So as it relates to sin in in secret,

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told the man in tequila, Haytham, I couldn't fear Allah wherever you are. Fiala in the masjid and out of mSj feola daytime in the nighttime field Lai Ramadan, Ramadan fella, when you're making hydrogen, you're not making hij

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feola in secret, and in private. It the color Hey, for my account. So that's the Muslim wherever years whenever, summer, fall, winter, whatever. He's going to try to practice his religion as it relates to this word. Shia Tula hope of Allah, all of that kusha to Allah to be afraid of Allah. Allow title image in the Quran in sha Allah, Min rebadge de la ma Oh, Verily, those people who fear Allah are the ones who know him. Now the word that's being used here is the gamma.

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The

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weather alumni here and not necessarily the people who are in their mind that we think is any and everyone that has enough knowledge, not to do the haraam. You are a scholar in Ireland. I don't want to say scholar an Ireland because you have enough sense and you could be a regular person who doesn't even memorize 10 swords of the Quran.

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In Nehemiah shala Herman e baddie and the Golem The objective of

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learning this book is not to just a memorize it, memorizing books, that's important. But that's not the goal, the objective of knowledge. The goal and the objective of knowledge is to practice it first and foremost in the call to

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practice it. So that's the issue behind fear and Allah wherever you have to happen to be in public or in secret.

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Before we move on to the last two, the prophet mentions Salah Lavoie, he was selling them in a directness men can Amman abou till Allah, lm testa he first now my shift from what the people learn from the prophets of the past what all the people learn, was that the Prophet said, If you feel no higher, if you don't feel shyness, then do as you like, one meaning of that Hadith is, I don't know, should I do this? And I don't know should I not do it? Is it Hello? Is it haram? I don't know what so let's say stuff the callback, consult your heart.

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If you, if this thing doesn't bother you, then go ahead. If you got a good heart, ask your heart. If you're not shy of doing it, go in and do it. That's one way.

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And the other way of understanding and the one we want to use here is if a person doesn't have higher, he's gonna do what he wants to do.

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He's going to urinate a chroma comala in public. These people drink hammer, they get high in city center, other than city center here here in our area, but more in city center. The lady is out there drunk, drunk like a skunk drunk. And she'll just go to the side not and in front of people urinate, because there's no higher.

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That kid is in school. And he's working out. One of us is working out lifting weights. And after you finish, he gets in the shower with no clothes on with all of the non Muslims in the shower with him. They all looking at each other showering, talking like it's nobody's business, if you're not shy, and do what you want. This is what happens when you don't have a higher.

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So from those things that will save a person and make you from the cotton Nadja and make you from the nag gene and dilla yomo kiama. Save, save, save, save, but it doesn't have any higher, any higher. And a profit doesn't have any higher is that you can be older than that individual. And he talks to you as if you are the kid with the higher hierarchy. This boy, this boy is their father. If one of them did this to his father.

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We're gonna say brother, what's wrong with you? Where's your height? You do that to your dad.

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His father went to the refrigerator, open up the fridge. There was a soda in the refridge fizzy drink. The dad took the soda and he drink. He knocked it out.

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He killed it. But it was the son's soda. The son comes home took my drink who took my dry. They said dad took the drink say get me sick. He gets you sick. Everything that you eat is from your father.

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Everything that you wearing dresses from your father, one soda costs less than a pound less than a pound. And you got mad that your father drink your drink.

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And you got an attitude with your father to Pamela.

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So as it relates to the issue of fear and Eliza Joe fella in secret, just as much as feared in public, and there's something that the seller refused to take great care of. And they used to talk down on people who, when they're in public, they give you a nice picture. When they secret. Everybody's up to stuff. That's why when the man said to Rama radi Allahu miramont meaning you see that man over there, he's a good man. You should put him in your in your cabinet. Give him some responsibility. Let him be a minister. I said Do you not know him? He say he said he Yeah, no. If you travel with him you did is that? He said no. He say you don't know that man. All you did was you

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saw him bowed down may grow core and make sense in the masjid. That's what you did. And it's good that you saw him bow down and make your record but you don't know that man. You don't know that man until you borrow money to him. Does he give you your money back? You don't know that man until he marries your son.

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Until he marries your daughter.

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I'm tired man. I'm still tired.

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I'm still tired.

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I did a recording in Bradford man bro.

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for Mr. Koh Koba, and they built a beautiful,

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a beautiful

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studio down in the basement, they utilize the space and upstairs It was a church. And both floors are beautiful. And in the basement they have a Pakistani TV program comes on the TV, you know, by Islam channel called pagan TV, pagan TV. So I was talking to some brothers yesterday about how in Greenland we have a basement as well. And if you've been in the basement, they fixed up the basement, but there's still space. I said to the greenlink brothers who were eating you guys they asked me about that mess. I said them their basement is nice is to studio. I said look, you guys should make a studio in the basement downstairs. They said to me, Chef, we got a studio upstairs and

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you've talked in that studio.

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I'm so tired. I forgot that they had a studio that I gave lessons from that studio.

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So you guys got to help me if I say marry the man marry his son, okay, you have to correct me all right. Because people will get that off the internet and say that's what I'm calling to. And it's a mistake as it relates to the issue at hand whiny the people who are fearing Allahu taala in secret, Allah will tada as he mentioned in the Quran, Allahumma Pharaoh tomorrow agilan Kabir Elias prepare for them a great reward. And he has prepared for them. mk Farah. So as I say with that thing of aroma, we look at each other. And we have husen oven with each and every person. And we smile at each other and we support and love each other. And we don't have so other than you never say when he

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leaves he's probably don't know you don't say that. But don't clean you know anybody until you've spent some time with that individual.

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If you're married anybody who's married here, who's married shala

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everybody who's married, you know your wife better than anybody else, and she knows you better than anybody else. And this is why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he married more than one women married 11 women. 11 one of the hikma is behind that is if he was Majnoon, if he was sat here a magician, if he was a captain, if he was a soothsayer, if he was any of that Elia, one of those 11 women would have came on and say, Hey, this is a situation where hi Shirley naggy.

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He was responsible for killing some of the relatives of his wives, husband of his wife, father. So that lady had more reason to say yes, he's this he's that. But when all 11 of those women lived with him, they testified and they supported in that Kalina hollow can Avi you on a high level of our clock, nobody ever came and accused him sallallahu it was setting them up saying what he didn't do anything that was unbecoming of someone who was given down sulla what he was sending. We go to the next one whitening and the next one in sha Allah is Allah because to fill further. What will save you as being moderate moderation when you're poor and moderation when you are rich?

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moderation occurs to sooner hire men and israa feel better.

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Remember and know in the book reality Swan hain and the chapter of innovation and remember no we started that chapter off by saying moderation in the sooner is better than doing a lot of innovation.

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And I had bla bla bla bla he might do we might even call this thing that Allah loves the most is what you do with consistency even if it's a little bit one record for winter just one someone comes and he does this a lot around the salon of the people of a Sofia lad delila there's no so no solid quarter of it that the Prophet left and they read this read that do this do that. Just praying one rock out of which to rock God. That's from the sooner rock I tell Frazier rocket, I will fetch me a room in a junior mafia. The two records are fragile, the sooner prayers better than the whole. dunion was in the dunya. Not to mention innovation, all of this innovation.

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So the person says 33 times so pauwela

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hamdulillah 3333 34 that's better than him saying 1000 times, who will who will work with Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah.

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And if he keeps saying that, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah will Who? He's gonna feel lightheaded, he's gonna feel lightheaded. That's not a sign on the occasion of anything other than a shape on came to you. A shape Thawne came to you to make is to draw to make you feel good about what you're doing the same way we used to feel good when we were in the church.

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We used to feel good when they started the preacher when he shut up and he said down because you never know what he's talking about. Just be quiet and sit down, let the band play. And when they start playing, you get into it and you feel good. You even feel and think that you're closer to Allah, you believe that but it's them pulling on the strings of your emotions. It's not the knowledge, not the knowledge.

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So from what will save you is a cost to this Hadeeth this aspect of the Hadees shows the importance of being balanced and being in the middle, being imbalanced and being in the middle. Allow Tyler mentioned in the Quran. When I told you earlier Dhaka Moto, Latin electronica, when I tap so called bust is a very important issue.

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What will save you being moderate, when you don't have money, you're rich, you got money and be a moderate when you're poor. Now being moderate, when you're poor is easy.

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You don't have a lot of money. So all you're going to spend every week is 75 pounds, 80 pounds, 100 pounds every week at Morrison's every week, because you don't have money. That's your budget.

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The husband and the wife put their money, whatever, all we could spin is 100 pounds, because they don't have a lot. You students, you don't have a lot.

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But the real challenge is being moderate when you have money. And a big problem is when you don't have money, you go overboard. And this is part of our culture. This is part of the culture of the millennials. And it's part of Pakistani culture, Arab culture, African culture. I don't want to

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throw mud on any body, but Africans were people who love to show off.

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in certain countries in West Africa, people get married, and they be throwing money on them throwing money on them throwing money on

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like, the hip hop people. They want to make it rain, to show people that they have money. And you want to make it rain at the wrong place that they're not based the concept just don't want money. $20,000 or 1000 5000 $10,000. In $1 bills you don't you don't want two people to show you that money. I saw an interview with this guy who's one of the big hip hop artists name is Fat Joe lost $10 million $10 million $10 million.

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Because every day he was going to the bank taking out $50,000 every day with his entourage. When they get the money. They said you ain't got no more money that happens to us. People were poor. People have years of generational poverty. So when we get money, first thing that we want to do is floss. Gotta get a Bentley for every day of the week.

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The Muslim feels he has to get necklaces, platinum. Even if it's a cross, he doesn't care. He wants people to look at him and say he has money.

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So what will save you I'll curse to Phil fucker. Well, VENA, that you will moderate. When you have a little bit of money. Don't be one of those people. You got to have the latest kicks. The latest sneakers trainers.

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Don't be like that.

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Keeping up with the Joneses, they have a new a new kitchen we asked to get a new kitchen. They have this 50 inch TV, we have to get a 60 inch TV and on and on and on and on. When you have money as well, you have to stay moderate. And again, whiny the bill gates of the world people like that. You don't see Bill Gates wearing 345 $1,000 suits. The guy has jeans on. The guy has a flannel shirt on. You're not like a farmer jack shirt. You think he can afford those kinds of clothes.

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And it's what the prophet says from Allah.

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being rich is not having a lot of money is the contentment in your inside of you is the contentment of

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I mentioned in the Quran in the green candle, wanna share theme? Those people waste? They are the brothers of the devil's wasting money wasted. Now if you can afford a nice car, no problem, a phantom, you know Bentley, Mercedes Range Rover, kitted out if you can afford that. And you don't think you're better than other people. Then Allah loves to see his NEMA on his sleeve. No problem. We're not gonna make that harem. But the problem is you can't afford it. You cannot afford it. So stay in your lane and relax.

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We come to the last issue the whiny

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the dour and the doodads. The third thing that will save a person and make them from the footpath to Nigeria and make them from those people will be saved. yomo kiama entered into the Jana May Allah make all of us from the Nair Jean yomo piano without any other than without any his. A may Allah put us on the men who just said Effie with hikma knowledge an outcast be imbalanced, not this extreme stuff that we find from people today. The last thing from what will save you an idle radar the radar

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will rather be in fairing just when you're happy when you're pleased. And when you're angry.

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being fair having an idle will turn Mutt Kereama. to rob Baker. Second Mandala. The words of your Lord have been completed with truthfulness and justice. The outcome of Ellis lamb about this beard is just we are camela slime about the women, children and how to deal with them an idol. We are camera Val Islam about the huddled adult. Allah is Al Hakim.

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Allah who yonder one to latter Allah. Allah knows and you people don't know.

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And we challenge anybody, anybody come and let's make him a katana between the legislation of Al Islam. I do not sit here and say there is nothing in Judaism, nothing in Christianity, Sikhism, Hinduism, that is not fair and just no hair. And you say that, I say but the whole religion of Islam is justice. And you don't find that with any other religion, any other religion. And that's just not canon.

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If someone would have claimed that, just like us can stand up to the litmus test. It can.

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So look, being fair and just when you're happy, pleased, that's easy. That's easy. But when you're angry, that's not very easy. And that's why the nubby says have a love while he was selling them, lie to the unknown, call the bailiff name, walk, ban, the judge, anyone who's judging, he shouldn't judge between two people when he's upset.

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Why? Because if he's upset, he's not on his equilibrium. If he's calm, he ate. He's not too hard to call. He's not too tired. That's when he judges if he's too tired, too hot or too cold, angry. He's not in his, you know, his his normal self. He shouldn't judge Be quiet. Don't do it right now.

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So those people who judge with justice judge in the hokum that he gives the ruling the position that he gives from the Philippines to Nigeria, and he does he has now he's got fear. He's not fair. He has a double standard. A shake said rugby ask me career, my lord is a big, big, big military man. But the chef they mean that the chef didn't mean that the chef said that Cabo nomadic is a straight when it strays soon a man doesn't know the pic of the Walker, the shacks, that a lot of stuff, when when the sheriff can make a mistake, give the people a break. But when someone else makes the slip of the tongue, they hold you accountable to double standards, all of the Jamaat and like that

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the people of the Jamaat that like that, not everybody, not everybody, but the last people who should be like that if people have the sooner but the chef, he gets a pass to do whatever he wants to do. And they always come up with a reason why it's okay why it's not okay. The chef said all of the Hakama the Muslims are kuffaar except in Saudi Arabia.

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All of them are rafidhi. All of them are balcony, all of them that are remaining, all of them except Saudi Arabia. I know this year.

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Didn't mean to make too clear,

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but that's what it amounts to.

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If, say a Kotaku statement, all of them which come out of the Muslims are much tougher out of cover. If that's him making tech fear of all the Muslims, and you're going to accuse him of being a McAfee, okay? You got to say the same thing about the sheer

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love for Allah who little Jimmy, Allah forgive everybody. So judge with justice, for organs.

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So judging when you're happy is easy. It's when you're upsetting your Mac. That is difficult. So Allah revealed the idea to the Muslims to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, they were getting killed. All of those years in Mecca, they were getting killed. And then they grew and grew and grew and grew. And then they went to Mecca to conquer Mecca. And they said today the blood is going to the blood is gonna spill and the meat will be cut. That's what the companions were saying we're gonna get these non Muslims today.

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And Allah revealed the ayat wallaga God men come Shanna and or Coleman Allah, Allah, do a table, or accruable, the taqwa don't allow a people's oppression towards you people don't allow that oppression that they did to you. Don't allow that oppression to make you become oppressive, but be just idle. That's closer to taqwa. So we want to say and I said, hamdulillah. We don't have this problem, this mistake with our Chabad and it has reduced itself a lot in this country, but it's still there.

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The oppression that the West America at the top of the list at the top of the list, what they did in Afghanistan, what they allowed to be done in Palestine, and Iraq, Syria, all of this wound to the Muslims, we see with our own eyes, that doesn't allow anybody here to become radical and extreme and go and harm people. It's not our religion.

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two wrongs don't make a right in our religion. When the Muslims went to perform the Hajj, they said, Oh, when the Muslims they went to LA Muslims were making to off and during the time, even in j Leah, if you want to make Hajj, you can bring your weapons, they respected that they will confer you can't bring your weapons you have to leave in Iran. When the companion saw that, they say yada, so let us go and get them. They don't have the weapons gonna chop them all up. They don't have the weapons. It's an even playing field. Now. The Nabhi told him to love why he was selling them. I was in St. With a religion like that. You're going to kill the pilgrims.

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You're going to kill the pilgrims, who are unarmed. You're going to kill children and women and older people are unarmed. They have nothing to do with what's going on in Palestine. It's not our religion. So when you're angry, you have to be fair and just the Hadean said Adele Amana, Eva many term Annika without the human Chanukah. You have in a manner someone gave you a trust. Rasool Allah Azza wa sallam said, gave the trust back to the person who gave it to you. And don't cheat. The one cheated you

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don't cheat the one from the ayat of the monastic as for one of them either fall summer fudger. If he argues, he becomes abusive, he's not fair. He gets upset. And he says, you your mother, your father, and all of your whole tribe. You guys are this are you guys are that? Hey, man, what does my mother have to do with what's going on between you and me right now? Because he's angry. So he drags your mother into it and drags your father into it. So the Prophet told the people Salalah while he was alive is a banner above. Don't let any of you curse your own father. The Arabs were What? Who would do that? No one does that. That's why they remained on the religion of the fathers and

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rejected Islam because they love their fathers so much. They couldn't fathom disrespecting their fathers and they will suffer.

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They can fathom you're not going to read with those Arabs in January slapping and beating their fathers up.

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We got a question the other day. The person is disrespectful to the parents and and has whist was and takes a shower for two hours. As for the width was the parent has to be you know make do Be patient. As for the shower for two hours, you're wasting money to our shower. Even women shouldn't do that to our shower to ours in the shower.

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As for cursing, fighting, attacking your parents

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If I'm ever asked that question, I'm just telling you straight up how it is.

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And that is

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any child who raises his hand against his mother or his father, he should be dealt with. He should be dealt with, dealt with in the best way. islamically

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that's a terrible thing.

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Don't let any of you curse your mother, your parent, your father. They say, how does one of us curses father? He said, that person curses another man's father. He's arguing with that man. So he says in your father, and then that man turns around saying your father too. So he was indirectly responsible for having his father cursed. So why did he mention his father in the first place? This is between you and him. That's it. Father's in Ghana duty. Village doesn't have anything, tried nothing to do with it. So stay in the middle. Blessing one I mentioned acquainting concerning this issue is the tremendous Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in an ox in Moxie teen in

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the law, he is a better man nor yomo kiama those people who are faring just their fair and just yomo kiama they will be upon pulpits, the member made out of North on the right side of a rock man. And both of his hands are right then he went on to explain. They are the people who when they give a hook them, they adjust. They are the people who with their families, they adjust and they are the people who if they're made responsible for anything a leader anything he's just like Greenlee mystery is responsible for this mess. So whenever we make a magazine showing what has happened for the last year, we shouldn't just put Pakistani people looking in there only Pakistani people that's

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not fair. We want to see people from Africa people of color want to see reverse white people want to see everybody it's not a Pakistani Masjid. You go to these mysterious nefarious not just Are you give me a full ban in an old domain?

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How are you given us a whole bunch of dough. Now if you were 99% people Urdu speaking Okay, no problem. But where 97% English speaking people, and we're trying to learn our religion, and you're given the Cuba only in Arabic, only in Urdu. Where's the fairness? Where's the justice in that? So these people will be on the members of light yo more piano. The ones who are fair in the hokum The rule is that they gave their fair between the children.

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They have fair and just, we have brothers in this Masjid right now, and there's drama in our hearts towards some of our siblings, because the dad was married to our mother, and then divorced and got married to another lady. So now the children over they're younger, and he's closer to these kids than he is. He forgot about us.

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Or the man has multiple wives. And he's not fair. He's not just the one who has more than one wife will come yomo piano and inside is going to be dragon justice in Lsn so from the top one we macduffie the habit of cuddling Sharla three things will destroy you. Number one, what will destroy you as being stingy? Number two, what will destroy you if the bad enough's following your desires?

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eating anything and everything. He can't stop eating. So the person is way overweight or obese. It's not good for him. But he can stop because the nerves the nerves can stop it.

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And number three, for the individual to what was the third one

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to be impressed with yourself. And as I mentioned, the one who has all three just one is enough to make you a narcissist.

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Look at any narcissist

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he is impressed with himself. He follows his HAUER And he stingy stingy maybe not with his money but me me me, me, me myself and I I want it I felt it. I'm cold. Me

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and then the three things that will save you is for the individual to fear Allah in the secret and an open in the open and for the individual is the second one

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that have moderation when you're poor and when you are rich. And the last one is what

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be fairing just okay when you do guys have any questions. If you have any questions, you could put your questions for the Canon from su al you have a question.

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Every week honey, all of the people in this mystery Mashallah no questions. Okay. You could cut the thing off now I want to ask you a question. Okay. He gave me three of the things that will save you three of the things that will save you

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and be a beaver.

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Being just in what?

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You're angry and when you're happy, being moderate in what moderation and what?

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Nobody leaves, Nobody leaves, Nobody leaves. Nobody leaves Nobody leaves

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when you have money and when you pull What's the last one?

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Cranleigh when you're open and then when your secret What are one of the things that will destroy you one of the things that will destroy you

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being stingy and you'll

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be an empress. And you the third one

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a long island

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follow your enough's the follow your nerves. He gave me a delille from the Quran of Asana, that shows the evil of being impressed with yourself. What's the dealio from the Quran and Sunnah.

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The Yahood and Massara Good job, my man. Good job.

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Give me another deal from the Chronos sooner about the evil of a job.

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Even from yourself.

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Did you guys hear about that had even the man who the Prophet said some a lot. He was telling me he was walking with this swag. He was walking.

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He was walking like he's the man he's the man and allows you to open up the earth and the earth swallow them up?

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Because he was so you hear this term? He got swag. You got swag. Well, it's okay to have swag in certain circumstances, mean to be self assured. But walking around like that, and it's in my culture. Part of my culture. African American culture is the different ways that we walk to show everybody I'm the man you can't walk like that in Ellis mat.

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You should walk easy on the earth with respect not making people look at you like you're some to be you know, feared.

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Now

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someone achieved something like I just said, being impressed and having swags sometimes it's okay.

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companions were fighting and they took a break. I will do Jana, one of the big mujahadeen he was on his Arabian stallion and the Muslims were arrested and they were tired and wounded and he wanted to agitate them as Allah said, however the meaning in Al Kitab make them agitated get him up and go and fight that man able to jhana May his horse walk like this like in the horse show you don't talk about like that arrogant wave. So there's a non Muslims and the Muslims can see, we're warriors. We have photos here. We're gonna do with you. And when the Muslims saw that the Muslims got pumped up when a non Muslim saw that there was like, wow, these kind of people are these. So that's not

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arrogance here on the battlefield. Similarly, if someone he were to accomplish something, and as a result of accomplishing that thing, he's happy there's nothing wrong with that. That's from the NEMA that allowed to add a bestowed upon him. With a muy bien Amity Rebecca for her death. A happy Allah gave it to you, you tell people you love. I got the job. I graduated. I did it. Wow. It was tough, but I'm a graduate of a PhD. Nothing wrong with that. Now the problem comes when he starts walking around saying I got a PhD what you got what you got.

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You don't have anything. None of your family members got out of high school.

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That's a problem idea. That's a problem. As for the natural thing, no problem for them.

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Tyrone is a delille is a perfect deal. And that our own co Tyrone.

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Tyrone was from benissa el

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but he works with an iPhone. And he has so much money that the keys of his treasure required a lot of strong men to carry just the keys of his money.

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And when the people were telling them from Benny and sariah harbor Caron, you better stop that a lot doesn't love love that when I turn Santa Siva come in a dunya Hey heroin don't do that don't do that. He said I was given this because I got special knowledge Get out of here you guys are educated and that's always the qalam of the coconut always I got special knowledge you don't have the knowledge that I have get out here and then allies are again plenish qarun so we may give you a hadith on IR here but use your own brain now. Use your own brain Good job my brother. Good job my brother. Okay, it's windy in Turkey we have a witness Allah subhana wa tada and we're freaking out.

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Yeah, come. The coolie my boy Yoruba. Have a song Allah who was sending him a bada cannon a beginner suparna coloboma will be having deca watershed Wanda, era la