Trials Tribulations And Solutions Qa With Yasir Qadhi

Abu Eesa Niamatullah

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Ha,

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why da de wasafi?

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There are two questions here that are quite similar to another.

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That basically, the headache of the 73 groups. You know, all this question is asked all the time

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in 72 groups, can I share some more light on it? What, what in each group is the same group with a proper group? And also the question is basically, there are so many people out there, how do I know which one is the correct knowledge without being bogged down to one group, one particular method might be incorrect, what should we do in the face of all of these groups? First and foremost, realize that the heavy

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73 groups, it has been reported by over 15 or 20 years is reported in almost all the loops. And it is

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reasonable.

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But the most understanding of it is unfortunately not clear amongst Muslims. And that is that they presume that the meaning is that if you follow one of these other groups that automatically associate personal growth to the firearm, and this leads to arrogance is that he thinks he is upon the same group, and no matter who disagrees with them, in whatever issue, this person is held on to the Bible, nothing can be done to prevent this. This is incorrect. It's not the understanding of First of all, you want to define, which is the group, what is the group.

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If a person disagrees with you, it doesn't automatically make, you

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know, the Sahaba had hundreds, if not 1000s, of differences in issues of

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hundreds, if not 1000s of differences, issues. Yes, none of them not one accused of being religious. In fact, it's not it's not possible. And this isn't the miracle of the last panel, that during the time of the Sahaba, defeats, the whole educate

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has started and they think of the author that she has started. And the thing that I've looked at the four groups that appeared during the time of the companions, firstly, the origin of the hospital, and then the movie and then the

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these four groups, yet none of the companions not one

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ever left that bowl, as soon as

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nothing, despite the fact that many differences amongst some of them, some of them.

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So not every difference makes you a follower of a different group. Therefore,

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this is the first point is that not every state has which is a level of football, not every, not every difference, which is a level of having a different group. Secondly, for the most part, the general rule is that the differences of the differences are filled.

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And they should not bring animosity, or hatred, or condescension or arrogance or accusing us of being of a different color.

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As we said, so how we're different.

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So the differences are just in general, especially the fifth that is called of the past. We're not talking about a person who has a new opinion that was never heard of you. Okay, this is this is definitely something we need to worry about. When we're talking about the film that is found in the past, such as, for example, the famous 14 hours of the format's all of these emails and all of these methods are worthy of respect, worthy of being censored.

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Anybody who gets

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old becomes arrogant or who looks down at the followers of other methods. This is the one who is causing

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for 1400 to 1200 years, the Muslim woman has accepted that there have been better 1200 years now people come and they didn't

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realize that this is not a paragraph or a part of the sentiment alone. You know, these are differences of opinion that are legitimate. We're not saying they're all correct, no one obviously in each issue is correct.

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If something is

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wrong at the same time, unless there are other students in general Of course, sort of stereotype This is not for everybody.

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It cannot be both at the same time for the same person. Okay, so the difference is

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There's no doubt one of them is correct in each opinion, but all of them are willing to respect while it is possible that when an idea or a ruler or a judge or someone was qualified, reaches a verdict reaches a factor or reaches an opinion, if he is correct, he would have to reverse. If he is incorrect, he has to have one reward for the trial, not just the promises of didn't say he's currently mode agenda is an incredible agenda. No, both will be rewarded by all of us,

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as long as they're qualified to drive was. Also notice he divided the opinions into correct and incorrect. He didn't say that both of them will be correct. No. No, obviously each and every issue each and every scenario, there is one in me That is correct. But they will never strive. And they're insincere. And they're qualified. They try to find the videos, sometimes for whatever reasons why they are mistaken, and why they follow different opinions. This is a long topic, but we'll sue them. And so why is it different? There's another topic not related to this talk. So in general, anybody who causes hatred or animosity, for this reason, he is the one who is the troublemaker.

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Okay, another point. The third point is that other the primary issues that read the last four, are issues related to the fundamentals of our humanity.

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The fundamentals of faith, theology,

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these issues for the most part, especially the major issues, the Sahaba, did not differ about him at all, at all, as I said, these groups came, none of this join the ranks, the number is 6000 6000. So large number there are times even in our times,

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yet not a single person walks.

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And we're talking 2530 years of age 20 years after,

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can you imagine this number 6000 is not a miracle. And aside from a lot of Not a single one of those

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in the next generation, so many books,

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so many books, the January or February, and so on and so forth, each group, none of them, none of them are most famous students of the Sahaba.

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And the third generation as well.

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One important point about the first three generations, that was never the first 300 years of this stuff.

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And literally literally it's 300 years or something is that the people of the sooner were always different than the people without innovation. There was only one administrator. Okay, what happened after 300 meters?

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Was there even with it, and the sooner you have?

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This is a major because before before

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they were ready to follow the sooner sorry, there was a group that was ready to go the sooner and all the other groups were openly admitting that No, we are not following the suit.

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They openly admitted that she had openly admitted

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no concern for any opening rejected.

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So these groups in the first year is one of the important characteristics of these groups is that none of them claim to be honest.

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After three years, because the proper system said that this will be the trouble three year horizon, this also is a question and then goes after them and notice after so these three generations did not differ, as well. So I'm not single one. Ask for the later generations who Baton Rouge, none of them are claimed to follow this, I'm assuming that you have none of the above the law more or less, and the rights of the law for us and his names and attributes, none of the different Boogeyman that the reality of the bar, none of them different about the status of the Sahaba nearly 100 million a difficult gender and now the benefits of the great none of them.

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If they understood that they only have this group, after

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that is what certain people came. And they claim also to be understood. And in our test, we have not done this, we probably have hundreds of rooms, all around claiming they are people yet each one is making it comfortable that

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you are not Muslim, you're all you know, held on. So this is another point you have to look at. And that is what is important that we go back and we look at what really was the belief of the companions.

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And there are books written by the way books written during the first generation, about theology. Now many people know this. If we go back to these books and we read them, we get a very clear idea. There's not an invention at any time. There were books written in those times by people, so we can look them up.

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Judgment, the fourth point and that is not every disagreement which is automatic no

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rhyme or reason.

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have divided the class into two types we can look for

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a beta, which takes you outside the folder is now in a region, it takes us out of all of the stuff and then another chapter does not take

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so

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many of the early groups such as the movie JIRA, this Congress scholars said none of them

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none of them said they were for fun. They said they're escaping the central describe it, but they didn't say that.

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But the Japanese for example, insisted they were not unanimously agreed that these people are outsiders.

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So, not every disagreement, which is an important decision that leads to the level of conflict versus system, this also has to be taken into account. Okay.

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Therefore, we said first, not every disagreement is worthy of being cut off, not everything enough is working, basically

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compartmentalizing it or calling them go for No. The problem is, is that 73 of my room is referred to 73 groups of Muslims.

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He said my email. So this is within the folder This is not this is not outside the fold of Islam, which is what we do not consider the bodies the Kalyani the funny little considered to be 33.

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He believes in

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the Prophet of Allah, How can any person

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so these are not included in the 73 groups. These are the three books on Muslim, which means and this is the point of the main point, which means eventually, all of them were appointed.

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Eventually they will entertain. Also, it does not mean that each and every person who is a follower of the 17 books will necessarily go to the firewall Nope. Just like the person who does a major sin. He is left to the word of Allah. If Allah wishes to punish him, he will hurt you, the fellow who wishes to forgive him, he will forgive him.

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So don't think that this is the arrogance that is lifted, but people think oh, I will protect all the people.

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Who are you to pass judgments or gender and not? People? Yes, you can pass judgment on what is right and wrong. If you're qualified, if you study, you can say this is wrong. This is incorrect. This is not right. This goes against our teachers, yes, but who are you to pronounce the verdict on a person that this person is going to gender we're going to

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know.

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So, we have to be careful with this as well. One more point, one more point and that is that there are levels of incorrectness of deviation, some groups are very, very close to us, you can say 95% for example, other books are very far away, because they only agree with us maybe a 10 20% of issues. Therefore, is not is just at a lot commences with justice, we cannot we should not we are not allowed to treat the first group that we treat.

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This one group has 95% similar to us.

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Therefore, they deserve 95% of the Brotherhood that roosters deserve.

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And then this 5% should be current with wisdom a gentle creature, and if we are given

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gives us we cannot treat them the same way then you treat someone who only agrees with us at 10% of the issues.

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So, our love for a Muslim is based upon the good

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and also the evil that is found in the world that is good in him

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and the closer he gets to us

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another point

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this is a very important point. champion has nothing to take here. He has a very beautiful passage in the third moment.

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He says it is possible that a person have a slight deviation. A slight fiddle if you like will actually occupy the place in general hire the person

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don't think that just because you're on the sooner that there is if you have the right to be arrogant everyone else no, it is possible to excuse the other person for his ignorance and that other person worshipped a lot loved a lot fear Allah was more active was more knowledgeable and the mistakes he fell into shall be excused and you did not wish them or that person as soon as the number 707 agenda clearly says that it is possible the person who is slightly misguided slightly deviated, he shall be rewarded and occupies race and gender are higher than the person of autism. So keep all of this in mind when we look at the various groups and the various methodologies and the

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various you know, movements out there and realize that some of them are much closer to truth than others. Some of them are much You know, they agree with us in the majority of issues and disagree maybe one or two issues. So judge each group is different, the good and the bad. asked which group is correct. Okay. This is not for me to tell you

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This is for you to find out. This is why a lot waited, you know, to obey me obey any any person out there know, a lovely view a great way to get your brain to think before you examine our review of the book, why did we reveal the book so that you put it on your shelf and it gathers dust. And when somebody dies, you pull it down and read it for the day. A lot of us aren't where you want to be.

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This is a plastic book, we have a formula for science. Nobody seems to be coming out of this, don't do it.

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But the basic information is founded the basic idea.

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Yet Yes, the order is meant for you to be the flower was revealed in Arabic to Iraq to be understood the book, The Prophet system, sooner is there. nobody's saying that you don't understand the structure. That was not your job. That's the job of knowledge. But yes, you read the Quran, the suitor for guidance, there is no confusion. So when you look at what the groups are saying, you see whatever it is they're giving, you see where you're coming from, if you use the intellect of Allah subhanaw taala has given you based upon your knowledge,

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don't take my word, don't take the word of any person. Because on the Day of Judgment, you cannot use me or that person as an excuse. A low last you what you did was you have to respond to defend yourself, you're not going to have a lawyer, you're not going to have a look here, you're not going to have an email that you will say, Oh, this is the person No, you have to respond for yourself. Another point simple point. And that is

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be critical as you ponder when somebody says something as well, why are you saying this? What is your evidence of this? You know, I mean, I'm not gonna follow anything telling you what the foreign minister has to say?

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Or did you just invent this? Or is it something

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and when he wants to think about a folder and go back to the code snippets, many of the groups out there are calling to things that even a five year old child who understands the forum can be able to refute.

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If someone tells you to make DottoTech a war, it doesn't matter what excuses he comes with what stories he comes with. The owner is clear. The forum is clear. If someone tells me to do research that doesn't matter what he says, This is intellectual due to the book is clear or not as clear, as clear.

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Also, as I said, at this point, there are books that are written in the first 300 years ago,

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almost all of the controversies and issues that exist today. they existed in the first place,

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maybe by different names, but the ideas were there and they're still here, for the most part, obviously, we have different groups as well. So if you go back to these books, and you read them, see what they have to say, in fact, one book that will do the job for you for most issues. Sahih Bukhari itself.

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The last chapter of cyber funny, it is called the healing journey, the look of the heat and the reputation of the gentleman, which is one of the groups that

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this chapter deals with many issues. And you will find the opinion and nobody knows

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how much

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256 Okay, within the first 200 years 256 Xy chapter headings before each and you will see how Buhari understood these headings, you will see your own interpretation, what does he understand, at the time when the sooner was as soon as it was?

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The first book is on Amazon, it is determined about human issues and what he has to say, think about what the books are saying to the editor.

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So

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there is there is also the time sooner sooner. The book about the sooner the importance of the sooner but the promises are preached. Imagine there's an even magic, the six months of information there.

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The six books are funny, you have so much they're written about your theology. I think that's so I asked you this question. I just remind you that go back to the earliest generations USPTO has given you when I asked you to become an alibi, reading five books, what we are asking you to be critical. And to choose the proper route that you think is calling to the pure worship of Allah based upon the surrender of the Messenger of Allah. This is what our religion is about.

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Worship alive only worship Allah and when you worship Allah, it should be based upon the sooner.

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So

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is it important to focus on our own event or D for the situation of the Muslim woman? How involved should we be in other issues?

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Okay, it means we start first and foremost with our own demand. We start first and foremost with our own tableau, we start first and foremost with our own worship of Allah Subhana

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If we are not praying five times a day, doesn't matter what you do, you haven't done the basic minimum.

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So we have to start off first and foremost, to develop the bare minimum, our own level of worship overlock, our own taqwa our own acts of worship, that are private and open, you have some maps an open, open, you should have some private access what we need

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to work on and

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then once you have developed to a basic level, also yesterday divulge into a basic level, you should then get involved with the society get involved with the culture and the people around you. Okay, there is a, there is no concept in Islam, of ridding yourself of completely from the progress of

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that movement.

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To be the believer who mixes with the people, and he is patient, as the suffering and hate that they give you is better than the movement who stays at home and

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you mix with society, you give them the goods that you have you guide them, right, this is what the last guy wants us to do. So it is not as if you completely lock yourself out of your house No, basically get to a basic level, that basic level is two pillars, that is not a small amount of knowledge. And you know what you know, and you know, what you don't know, you know, what you don't know, you have to be ready to say, I don't know, go to that and go to the student or not. Okay, so once you get to this level,

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to teach this basic, all of us sitting here, no enough is now to teach

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us we don't have to be

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religious, my speech.

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Not all of us have to be a guy, or not all of us have to know all the evidences of Islam. Rather, what is required is that whatever we know that we are confident in what we know, we can preach it to others. What we don't know, we say that? I don't know. So I hope this is the answer to your question. What are the signs of knowledge?

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First and foremost, designing knowledge is

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the sign of knowledge.

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Allah says in in the

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remedy is the remedy to the fear of loss.

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So one of the greatest and most important signs of knowledge is that a person has fears along the way that he deserves to be here. Anytime you see a person who has noticed that you do not see the fear of loss,

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then this is a sign that his knowledge has not benefited him, if these techniques knows a lot, and he knows.

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And he knows a lot.

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He knows that there is agenda and then there's a day of judgment of what did you have versus

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what was not.

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So this is the first time that often the most important stuff is that you see in the person's actions, you see the implementation of that knowledge or you know, your loved one who said that,

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that indeed, in another are here together, the one calls the other knowledge and action is action response to the knowledge, the knowledge that remains if it doesn't show. So, this is the first sign. The second sign of knowledge is that you see the person always referring you back to the forum.

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This is real knowledge.

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This is based upon trivializing other

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great and we need them without them you cannot understand.

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There's no doubt and the student and all when he starts telling he is dependent upon other living and dead. We're not trivializing this, but we're saying these are the stepping stones these are the ladder that you climb, that you benefit from, to get to the ultimate source, which is a foreign position. There therefore the real evidence the real knowledge is an understanding and understanding of the sooner the profit so long.

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Again, this is a very important issue. How do we tell the personal knowledge you know, you're saying there's so many groups there's so many, but how do we tell this realize that you are responsible to the best of your knowledge, okay. So we differentiate, as I said, between issues of fear and issues of major issues or issues of fear is, for the most part trivial. If you ask your local university students to ask the local movement, any person that you trust, you think he has knowledge and he fears the loss of power, then inshallah you're not going to be called to task just because Allah did not expect each and every one of you

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study is not the level that you can

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ask the people of knowledge. If you don't know, ask no problem. But when it comes to major issues that either a person tells you to watch,

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or a person says something, which is clear, or clear data, here, interest might not be an excuse. Interest might not be

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the agenda say, Oh, look, you cannot stand on the data agenda, say, oh, a lot, because you follow this person that you told me to commit chick? No, the performable trying to do the same thing says no more on the profile, they will try and do the same thing. Although we fall apart, the saddle will

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follow the leaders before you know, the people who trusted me, they will go to MySpace alone will not accept this excuse from them. So we have to differentiate between the treatment which is a fifth, the minor issues, where for the most part, the difference is not a problem. As I said, going back to the first question, it's not a major problem, okay, versus major issues or issues that really, truly will be shipped or to people sooner or later, these are issues where we'll have to be a little bit more selective. And here is where you have to ponder a little bit more, think about what the person is saying. Also, there is an aspect there as well. So a lot of it is to

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ask your conscious your heart, wait a second,

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even if they give you footwork.

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If something doesn't feel right to you, as a movement, as a movement is telling you to do something and it just does not feel right to you, then this is a sign of the last stop thing. stopping you don't just act on the feelings approach. But the problem is please take into account Allah gave you a mind and a soul.

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After a row, both of them have to be in unison. So if I could tell you something is right there, the Brotherhood, the Chevrolet might cost you something, but your heart you feel I feel guilty doing this. I don't feel like doing this. He says something it doesn't feel right to me. Does it mean you just act immediately? Oh, this means you research you think you ask you ponder. So this is another quote that needs to be looked at as well is that we need to ponder over how we how our own conscious mind reacts to that type of

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if they was

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very persistent, not as passionate as acquiring knowledge or traveling as

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for it, as he thinks is enough to know how to get by? Is it a sufficient reason for the system to decline the brother?

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To be honest, sister, this is a question that requires

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more details and more

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factors because you have to also see about his worship of a lot and his environment, even if he's not passionate about knowledge, but he fears a lot. And he is living a good life. Can you guarantee that you will find somebody who has the same level of demand and is also passionate about knowledge? If you cannot, then isn't it better that you will find a brother who fears? And has

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somebody comes to you who you only like to use?

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So I'm not saying you should say yes, I'm not saying you should say no more detail?

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Is there a possibility that you will find a strong possibility that you will find a brother who has this desire for traveling. And by the way, you do realize this brothers and sisters, this is something very rare, very rare that you find a person who is so dedicated to Islamic knowledge, he leave everything, and he'll go and study it for 235 1020 years very rare. So sisters is what you should realize is that it might be very difficult to find a brother like this. And this is one of the common problems that what religious sisters have before they get married. They have a long list of conditions. Okay? They have a long list of conditions. Over the years, those conditions slowly

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get smaller and smaller, because they don't find anybody that needs them. So this is all I'm telling you is that to be realistic and practical. If you feel that you can find a product that meets all of your finishes and criteria, then yes, it is a sufficient reason. It's your right, it's your prerogative, nobody's forcing you to marry somebody and then therefore you will regret it. But I'm saying be cautious if you if you think that you will not be able to find somebody and this person might have a good, good, good feel.

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And he's not too interested in attending one hell of a week for example.

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A week for the most of the masses is a big gamble that you find somebody like this a big blessing that he's willing to attend one time a week.

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Okay, so what is this has to do

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with these issues and ask people who know her brother situation more personally. And of course, first and foremost and always upgrade this desire to almost kind of metallic

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What are they trying to show? Sir, what is the best path to

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running companies

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is the

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buy sell and trade, you would say one less on his left shoulder, it says

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on his right, and logistics, on his left shoulder statement from

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a friend

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that I could have it is the muscle. Of course, for a person to say this on his left hand side even to say less on his right hand side, there are many, many, many narrations that describe the details of the setup for the scene, at the end of the breath, from Santa Monica, new Catholic, and then I set up my mind to law identities and on the left and say exactly the same, or just want to say nothing at all, even there are

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these actions. And of course, there are even some emails that I allow you to finish the practice after given one set up, then the important thing here is not what options you have, the important thing here is to know the person that you're taking money from and what's their opinion. So make sure that you don't get confused by putting different things at different times, to have confidence in your game, that this is the sort of the process of mindset that, according to your teacher, as a teacher explains to you that this is the way that it is not according to your money.

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And if you have surpassed that level of knowledge, then you can,

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you can, you know, go further into design, you can decide when you wish to use

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being selective, and how many times and how much of a complaint to get. But the amount of all of them,

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you'll find that in general

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law, practice law is something which is taught in the land was spreading throughout history throughout our 13 1400 years.

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This is something which the Muslims have generally agreed upon as a base. And it's something that should not be engaged in from, even if it is practically something else. So sometimes people get confused when they're trying to find you. And that can sometimes causes a problem, even though you make the right because to do the right thing is not always the right thing. To do the most correct emotional state is not always to do the right thing. So

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the sooner because

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I was so I'm so

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afraid currently. And then when you go and we'll probably be passing through the top and you'll be gone when next three months.

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After they'll be saying

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they'll be fights and so on. So what's the point of your action? We're trying to establish

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a bad name and was protecting the community. So, you know, the issue is not to know that what is missing? What

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is it an expression to love one's nation? And how far you want to go to love? Or go in his love for his nation? I like this question, because I think he believes that I love my nation, which of course I do. And everyone should have some Dakota's nation, there is no problem in that. But the real problem is in the definition of love. What do you mean, what do I mean by the word love. And the problem is, is that today, you know, when we see the people that are popular in community, and in society, as we see people who define love as a nation, which is defined as nationalism, that of course, that's something which is impermissible, because they put this love and this, this almost

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this loyalty to the nation and to their people into their name and to their race and to the ethnicity of love, the ethnicity and the link and the trauma that Allah Allah has bestowed upon that person, because the Muslims are primarily a nation of people who have worshipped and our last count, we have submitted to him, that is alguma that is our primary identity. The problem of course, becomes when you want to put your identity above that, and you start to be more loyal and slash you know, favorable to the people from your own nation, and praise them and support them and look after them more so that people from your primary nation which is the Nation of Islam, and that is a force

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that was born against by the purpose of life, as being the actions of the people before

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the most of the jazz, the jazz the hours, the times of jazz Liga, when people will do things and would fight some would argue on the basis of that

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analogy which is impermissible, but as one person should be happy to be, you know, proud of where they come from to celebrate next in a way, which does not contradict the Sharia, and a reasonable person will know this boundary, I hope, and every single person will know that and you don't take this kind of thing to a level, which contradicts the Islamic principles that we have been given by Professor, then that's no problem. And if you have many, many examples, throughout history of the mountains, and so on, as part of the puzzle, part of the names of Fluttershy, on this morning on Monday, there will be identified by weather from there gratified by the by the tribes that were

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identified, for example, will be identified by the tribal name or a clan area, and so on. So this kind of level of identification and as a form of, of recognition, and so on the destination are located. But again, it comes down to your definition and your level of actions, if you start to see what the people do in the name of nationalism. In the popular media that we see today, of course, there's something impermissible.

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When the system is looking for a husband, What should she look for, does, he needs to be older than her own practicing

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the purpose of independence,

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in which he says

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we need to have, but that being

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a woman is married for both things, she's married for wealth, she's married for any status, if you like, she's America, her beauty, and she married for her religion, and practicing this, if you like, how close she is to Allah, I don't know how good she is, indeed.

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And may perceive that as

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the one who is most practicing best in the day, you'll be successful. So this is me, if you like,

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the four principles that he uses to judge a person who has a permissive license and did not deny the other the importance of the other four, he did not say that these are the, these are the four things that are well, and

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don't

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forget about that three, four, these three are evil, or these three are bad, and only being is good. Now, the problem is that these are the four things that a woman is generally married for, and that's no problem, but you should choose the one that is best indeed, even if you have some deficiencies, she has some deficiencies are one of the other four passenger, three categories. Because in the end to find the person who's married, you know, hearing his answers is going to be boring, almost because they know how important this fact is. And I've answered this question many times before. And you know, it sounds funny, but you know, things such as beauty, you know, in marriage, you know,

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it's all the best in the world, but then after a while, you know, that's just doesn't become a major issue anymore. And as for her, Well, then it doesn't matter how much money she's got, she's gonna make you better at recess. After that, you know, you enjoy sweet beer and and then you know, finish all right, then as well as status, then you know, you might be lucky to get something out of the status. But these days, generally, you're going to have to be the one who makes it in your local status, and so on. But as we'll do it, all of the three things that you will see that are very temporary status, and anyone who have been in this scenario knows this as a fact. But that thing

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which is permanent, which will really affect you and your relationship, and that the development of your children and your family and society around you will be heavy. And I need that not just the relationship between the two people in question, but the children and their development. And then her status indeed, and her qualities Indian and her respect that she has, because of

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those things which have had neighbors and the people who have family were affected as anyone that don't believe that a single person. The actions by themselves are insignificant, rather, they are always something which sets up a chain reaction of events as the way as soon as possible. Not

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every single person has an intrinsic importance, and the wife, the wife or the mother.

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In this relationship, her level of Islam is paramount, sometimes even more important than the level of Islam of the Father, because you will find that she is the producer of the next nation. She is the producer of the generation to come that will form the nation of Muslims that will take the religion forward. And so her qualities will determine the quality of the State of Israel.

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Again, and this is very, very clear, in practical reality, you see that we see mothers who are not very educated in Islam. And we live a, you know, a very kind of permissive life, if you like a very liberal form of life in this country Muslims, and you see that the children are also likewise, they don't know how to live, they have no idea about

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that they have no Islamic identity for them. things which are exciting about going to the cinema and having birthday parties and going to KFC and going through here and there, you're these are the things that that you see around, and you find that this is the level of Islam, and they have an a day, you know, where they have some kind of public display of religion. And that's, that's the extent of the development of their religion for their children. So what can we expect from these children, they will often produce the next generation of Muslims, not much. And the woman will be paramount in that. So not only is the Dean of the paramount for the success of the relationship with

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the husband, but for the children and the society at large. So, of course,

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I'm trying to say is that it really is deemed as

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you'll be successful, if you choose to invest in religion, given the today's data, you know, it's not about give and take when it comes to the procedures as we assess young people live in the dream world, you know, when they go, they have this list. And you know, it says, friends, and they say, Oh, you asked, and if you see some sort of system, for example, for marriage, and

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whether she would have

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had to worry about whether she would post the DVDs for 10 years and sell it, what did she have to ask for new dress every six months, whether she is learning right now whether she would have asked to drive and dress and has one bla bla bla bla, bla, bla bla, and then you will go there, and after about five or six women that you've seen you realize you miss Budo time? Because you have a person like that. So yeah, this is a situation of give and take, you have to be realistic about the situation on both sides, on both sides. And it is a problem today with so many unmarried people. And it was looking for some perfection. And the reality is, is that no one's perfect. And everyone's

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looking for some kind of

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continue. And, you know, this is it's been a burden so far, what is today about the Muslims in this important gathering? You ask yourself that?

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I mean, you know,

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it's

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a mistake, because he's more popular than that, or, you know, people aren't advertising, which I don't think is true. But I think it's the correct answer is the fundamentals, which is that this is the type of fit now people have lost any, any sense of analytical sense of transcend, for that which will benefit them. You know, there are people today, for example, on a Sunday, who are looking forward to this Sunday, you have a busy day, in a busy week of working as the day progressed as a day over and actually the reputation of their family, for example, some people are working today, you know, knowing that there is something that could benefit them possibly, but for them, their,

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their priorities, the importance of something else. And you know, that's a shame, actually, because part of the, of the person of his in his book is to know what's good for him, or was able to really benefit them or not. I mean, it's a shame. It's a shame, again, as I said, that really is only people who are men who are knowledgeable, one who can recognize the status, you know, recognize the condition and recognize that it's not, because a filter by itself visible when you know, the big red, you know, warning them saying hi and if it's not, you know, it is sometimes just happens in a constant slice in the very tragic way. And you won't realize, and you will come in and then suddenly

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is around you, and you're in there and we just don't know what's going on. And you find things today, and we

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will hope it

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was known amongst your own works together, live together and pray together. And we meet each other regularly. And people are complaining, you know, things are bad. And you know, after feeling down and feeling though I don't know what to do.

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And, you know, the everyone knows the solution. Everyone knows the answer to their own personal problems that they're not getting turned back to Allah is not enough for him, you know? I mean, how could you stop listening, just

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take a poll and if every single person was punished everyone who put their hand up and agree that no one is reading the Quran.

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I mean, if I was to ask now, how many people every day I want the 100 people to

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read the Quran every day. And you know, just just open it up and just read the page or something.

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And, you know, shocking, unbelievable and, you know, we we have our nation which you know, live in our inboxes and in our inbox, we received this email

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Every single day, putting the message in a different way that's going to have you read the local guidance, which is up all the time. And have you offered this gift that you have you have the answer, you have the solution without looking at it, it puts in a different way this message, but why don't we stop actually think about this message is true. However, will you know when that comes in, sits on this platform and tells you this, or whatever email explains this to you, or whatever whatever you hear, or whatever. Your friend tells you about problems about the pain of our purposes. Today, the solution is in the interest of time is the book of life, that we have it in our hands,

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and we will not open it, we will not read it and walk up at the front.

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So definitely, we want to take this off. They want to stay away and try to maximize the divine inspiration and guidance

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for those who want to turn back to the Quran, and you will see the difference in them.

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This

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The question is how does one show patience during hardships? And what is meant by solving what is meant by patience? This is a very good question what are what really is observations first, means that you should be contented in your heart

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has decreed which means you don't have to be happy. It means you accept that Allah has ruined the situation for you. Nobody says you have to be happy in Egypt situation. The problem is

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this guy he was crying, he was sad. But he said as the famous and it goes that

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you are sad at your departure. We are sad at your departure, but we only say that we allow this.

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So it is not that you have to be happy. No nobody can be happy with his beloved dies was a problem. Rather you must accept this is a will and a lot of knows what is best for you and we will be able to

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return. Secondly, do not say anything

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that goes against our religion or law. Why all I don't deserve this.

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Who are used to pass judgment on the last panel. Allah knows what is best for you. And he is doing this for a greater wisdom than he knows. It is your job to accept and deal with 31 of the ways of dealing with his turn to a lot directly. So sober, the heavyset woman with a soft use of beer, a beautiful one,

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he who seeks to be patient. In other words, you turn to allow one thing to be patient. This is the name of whoever wishes to be patient and the patient, he shall be given patients. So when somebody is available, so he turned to

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us to vacation. And it was with virtualization. So these are these are the primary symptoms of solar.

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I just started practicing it's not what is the first thing I should memorize and how much

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As for how much

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more you can, the more you can there is no minimum limit. There is no minimum limit.

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There is no obviously.

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But this doesn't mean you should stop there. But if you have just started practicing this approach and foremost, after you know being regularly your acts of worship, is to start learning your religion. start learning start reading the books of your theology Rokita start reading

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about this, this is a fundamental issue also read about the progress of the book is a really powerful we have our either our dealers and we as soon as well. So you should read the Koran daily and you should read some soon that

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should be a daily routine some if you don't understand Arabic make sure you read the English as well. Don't only be doing as a foreigner is only in English, the English translation the whole on his speech. So if you don't understand everything, make sure you read it and then you read it even if you cannot read the translation read it there see it in whatever language English will do whatever so that you understand what I was telling you. Before I was meant to be scientific and understood by us not just by the retina let us not fall into the trap of the capitalists that they said oh our book is only for the holy people. That is why for for hundreds of years the Bible is

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only available to the priests and it's

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not like this was meant for me and guidance spiritual guidance.

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Yesterday our to Stratford for this is a different level.

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So you should have the date and the date

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The sooner

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the sooner asked me The sooner what I would recommend, strongly recommend is the book layout.

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This is one of the best books written day to day edits that you will benefit from immediately, immediately. So every day for what is the one to five, how much as you can read.

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And this book will take you to the next big one volume book, okay, read through this book with a bit of syrup with a little bit of your fundamentals of what it is about, and inshallah from there you yourself will be able to find the people who graduate more and teach you more about this stuff and work your way from there.

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If that is well, then how do we balance between this test and working hard and having the basic leaves incorrectly asked for risk? Nobody said just incorrect, as I said, you can pass interference, you can pass the pin as well as the whole point fingers will come you have to ask them how do you pass the block very simple, you make sure that your earnings are header, that you spend it on color, and that you give what is the right or wrong.

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This is the bare minimum, the bare minimum, your earnings are held up, you spend it on China and you give the rights of others.

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The more one does the

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next slide.

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How beautiful is pure money for a good man, how peaceful He wants us to have money. But when when it is pure, and to whom to pure man good man, we will be able to benefit you

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will be able to do things that the Muslims need to project without giving them and narrow all of this is a you need money to do all of this. So the promises and voting How good is pure learning for a pious man at the same time, but he is also one of the biggest distractions as well. So the only point is when I say useless evil, all we're saying is because a part of our life, we wouldn't be able to survive. Without all those things, make sure you pass the test. Also, I've written the book 50 ways to increase your age, the first 56 days about the importance of learning and how and why Allah encourages us to have money, and also the dangers of how

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over the past three years I have been suffering from medical illnesses, I have made lots of

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blood lust, that has not answered me. Why is this?

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Firstly, how do you know about is not answered? How do you know a lie is not attribute? Do you think that the answer a lot must be exactly precisely response to that? Was it a one was a better cure to the problem that you're facing? And after the love adversity has given you that cure, you don't even realize

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when the child is sick as the child is crying to be cured to the parents, the parents feed the medicine to the child the child needs Why are the parents torturing? that they're doing this as

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you're doing this? Because this is

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how do you know a lot of

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browser lovers were rewarded for patience more than

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perhaps a load will give you on the Day of Judgment something will engender something, because you mentioned that is left you would rather that you get that then you have responded. So how can you know On the contrary, if you have met the criteria,

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there is a guarantee for a lot he will respond to you. But the response might be different than what you think others will follow.

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Lord has said to me, I will respond. Yes, Allah will respond. But the response might not be the way you perceive your limited mind. In your five minute wisdom. I was trying to add his knowledge and wisdom is far greater than yours. Secondly, this is one of the tests the size of this tool is a feature that you have to remain. You have to continue to make your app then you have to realize that the last panel is out that loves you and cares about you and is more knowledgeable of what is good and backwards. And you are. So you continue to make your app that is your future customers did a lot of a lot of value to do what he said he would do. Also the book The dragon into Libra. There's an

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entire chapter dedicated to 15 was just behind the response of the debate.

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One of the issues there so as I mentioned here,