Manners of the Mindful – Be Tolerant

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So I want to come on up until I have to catch the Peace and blessings of Allah subhanho wa Taala be upon you all. Another beautiful characteristic of a person that is of a McDuffie or the characteristics of the mindful person is someone that is tolerant with the shortcomings or hardships of others, because sometimes someone may owe you something, and you may think that they have the capacity to pay it off or to give it back, but in reality, they may not. The tolerant person is someone that is patient with that for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Realizing that people have different situations, and Allah subhanho wa Taala actually mentioned this in the chapter of a

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buckler when he mentioned, we're in Canada restaurants in for now Villa de la mesa, LA, well, understandable highroller come in kuntum palemoon. He says, and if you were to delay the debtor, the one that owes you money, if you were to delay them, Louis rotten, if they were in hardship, if that debtor was in hardship for another opportunity, La Mesa, then give them extra time, give them time to, to get themselves together to pay you off. Well until Sadako highroller, calm and to even make that an act of charity being that they owe you back as an active charity hydralic home it is better for you, if you but new. So to show even in matters of money in this situation, if they were to owe

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you and you were to delay them because you understood their situation, that will engender love for you in that person's heart and everyone around that person because that person may tell people about how you are a good person, how you a person that is reliable, and this can lead to even being trustworthy. Also the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said about this summer, that is what is somehow someone that is tolerant or patient with people. He also said Rahim Allah who Roger lend some hand either back, some hands, either shout out with some hand, either October or rahimullah who Rosalyn some hand either back, were either shut off, we're in October, may Allah Allah have mercy on

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the person that is tolerant with when he sells when he buys and when he wants to request his due, right. So Allah the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is mentioned in this in this hadith is in Bahati that he's mentioning mercy upon the person asked me a lot to have mercy on this person, that in these transactions, that most likely the person will be very, very diligent and receiving every single penny when they sell, or when they want to receive something. But if they are lenient on that person, and tolerant with that person, because they understand their situation, or they see that they may not really have the manners or knowledge even into dealing with it in a way that is

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befitting or the right way, you're leaving with that person, and you give the advice. And that is the action of a mood. tucky because this is an action ultimately, of empathy. You're putting yourself in that person's shoes or you're understanding what it's like to be in that situation. And you act accordingly. May Allah subhanho wa Taala make us of those that have some Aha, with our people that are around us that are lenient with the people that are around us, taking care of their particular situation For verily that will bring the love of the people, everyone with each other may last month Allah bless you all as salaam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh