Abdulbary Yahya – Following Commandments Or Prohibitions Al-Nawawi’s Forty Hadith

Abdulbary Yahya
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the use of "naught" as a way to avoid negative behavior and the importance of staying away from certain people. They also touch on the history of Islam and its connection to a culture of "has" and the importance of praying five times a day to catch Islam. The speakers emphasize the importance of asking questions and staying away from certain activities. They also mention the benefits of staying away from certain activities, such as smoking and drinking beer, and encourage viewers to subscribe to their YouTube channel.
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But there are so many. So many people who say his name is Abdullah shamans. They have different names for him.

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When people ask what's his building that if it's good, yeah. And so you see many narrations, many people saying this and maybe people saying that others have mentioned his name was not Abdurrahman.

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Of course it's from adults, the tribe of a dose and dose in, in Yemen, the area in the southern Arabian Peninsula. Now why didn't know him his name? So why are a lot of people ignorant about his naming?

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Because most people know him is Abu Huraira. Abu Abu Huraira when somebody asked me

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like, what's his kidney? What is his name? That's given name? Everyone Cosmo Moreira has, his name is almost lost. And so the strong opinion is of the Romanian Lucifer. But you see that even amongst the Companions, there are many companions that actually didn't know his name.

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And then many who came later on, who lived during his time and they didn't know his name. And they didn't know his name. Why? Because everyone calls him a boo boo. What is

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hooray, hooray Allah has a little kitten kitten. Why? Because when he was young, he said he found a cat a cat,

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solid kitten, on his was on the tree. And he was you know, he was he was taking care of the shepherd take care of sheep. And,

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and so he found this can be to do with them. And he always had with him. And one time he came out of his sleeve. People didn't know they had he had he had with him over he was inside his body. And he came out of the sleeve. This little kitten comes out of his sleeve sleeve.

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Like, oh, you must be the father of the kitten. Maybe the Father we can, because he always had that as after this incident. He was known as I will Korea.

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So when he was youngster had a cat coming out of his

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people see the

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little kitten just came out of your sleeve. And that name stuck until, you know until of course the day he passed away. And so we know him as

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for the love and who the birth name and Allah knows best is undogmatic looks

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similar to Rasulullah, he said we have to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So notice that

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it says I heard the message of a lots of other annex of seeing, because there are many times in which he would narrate, narrate and relate something. And he might say, I heard it from the prophets of Allah.

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I heard it from the prophets of Allah. But the Companions even if they don't mention who they have, they even they don't mention that they heard it from the province of Eliasson directly, is still an authentic hadith well, because they always hear from other companions. And if they take from someone who's not a companion, that person is always trust with that person is also considered very, very trustworthy. And he was amongst those who sometimes he had very few Hadith that he would take from his son in law. Anyway, you know, he was he had a very famous

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anyone else?

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It was one of the it was saving tab inside him. It was a

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it was almost like, so this one, I'm worried about the long so I heard from the process of

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saying, Man, I hate to call mine who 5g is terrible. Who am I? To be fair to men who must have whatever, I forbid you stay away from it steady. Whoo. Stay far away from it. Well, now I'm here to compete. And whatever I order you to do, then for two men who must have often do as much of it as you can do of it as much as you can. To men who do have it as much as you're able to fit in never.

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Really, I mean, publikum Castro to Messiah alien,

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whom I'm bi him, because for a NEMA meeting, this is the reason

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the only reason this enema is that hospital only for a NEMA dinner in public.

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Those who were before you, they will destroy because of castrato misogyny and because of them the frequent questioning what the law

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For the last

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I'm bi M and they're differing with their, their differing with their, their profits by their profits, profits that sent to them, tell them to do something, they do something different and the difference and so they're different with their profits. So

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notice abdominal Lusaka, specifically as mentioned here.

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He mentioned this because a lot of people don't know his name. That's why I remember now we he says, I'm Abby Herrera who's his name is

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the officer and so nervous as a man and his father.

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What is

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what is it? It's a Bolden big rock, golden rock. They're just to name their sons with names that were very, very vicious. Right? Like forget about right now you know how, who's who, who's called the rock right now? Is

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a rock.

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Yeah, right, because he's tough and strong, right?

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They have many rock, the rock we have before the rock right now, we had the rock record. So he probably copied a lot most best. But soft is rock the rock is hard. Because they had they used to live in a society that used to love to, they always were fighting, right, we always are fighting. And so when you want your son or your son to go and fight, you want him or you're going to need a rock, you're facing a rock, right? You don't want a name that sounds a little weak. It's no weakness. And

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you don't want a name that's weak. You want to name the strong. And so that's what they used to. They used to name their sons, like,

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Hamza, these are names for for lace. Like these are names for like lions.

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And so you who you fighting for finding a lion,

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you name something like you know very, very

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soft song that you like, this guy who beat him anytime, even psychologically, like you're fighting rock, a rock lion.

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Cougar like you're going against some tough people in this town, the the men, what's his name? Now that all these are all tough, tough names. And so that's what they used to name their children with very, very tough names. Because because of that. And so the message he says that the practice of allies and said, Man, I hate to call mine boo. vegetating whatever I want I hate to come in i whatever I tell you to stay away from whatever I prevent you or prohibit you from, then stay away from it as far as you can. Women hate to command who Men hate to command. So who is this? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is saying this, he says, I will if I tell you to stay away from

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it, then stay away from it. Right without any condition whatsoever here, there is no condition. So you stay away from it. Wilma, Amman, to whom be shy. And if I want you to do something, then do it as much as you can. So here

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the word man hate to come i because the purpose of of autism is in a higher position. He says I so when the messenger of allah sallallahu earning some borders and prohibits. Some people may say, well, it's below the law. Some houses are no in terms of its legislation is the same. If Allah says don't do, and the Prophet says don't do they're all the same.

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They're all the same, because it's from all of it from ALLAH SubhanA wa.

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Corfu, Amanda, Fanta. So Allah subhanho wa taala, answer whatever, whatever the messenger of Allah

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brings you. Then of course you do it wherever we provision prohibits you from doing and stay away from it. And so the, the order, the order of Allah and the Messenger of Allah satellites and in terms of their legislation, and straight and legislation are the same. Some people say one is below the other No, because they're all from Allah and that's why there will be P A people with the promise of a low body who has suddenly said

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let me not find any one of you.

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Don't let me find anyone

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He's sitting on his, his lounge chair or is lounging, saying whatever Allah tells me to do, I will do whatever Allah says prohibits, then I will stay away from, give me that give me the book of Allah.

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So you may say, Wait, is there something wrong with that statement? Why did the Prophet said the Lord said Don't? Don't be that this person the reason is because what is this person saying, saying Allah, the Messenger of Allah is telling us that there will come a time in which people will say I will follow the Quran and then I won't follow the Sunnah wherever the Prophet Salam takes you know, there could be you know, it could be week it could be this I'm gonna reject it says he said do not let me find one of you sitting on his couch. Why did the prophets of Allah say sitting on his couch leaning on this couch? Because these are the people that dunya What do you mean by the people the

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dunya why is this

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is everything

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kind of thing, kind of

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just one there was only one slower the volume a little bit. Okay.

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So the prophets of Allah, Allah Allahu wa sallam, he said, There will come a time where then you will find somebody that people like this. Right? And so who are these people? These are people who reject the Sunnah. But they don't say I reject the sudden now what do they say? No, we follow the Quran.

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But you know this if you want to tell show me what what Allah says that's it. But then they reject the Sunnah. You know why they reject the sadhana

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because they are the people that dunya don't let me find you sitting on your couch with a uric reclining and joining the dunya the rich and wealthy and so forth.

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Don't let me find you saying that you're following the Quran and then rejecting the Sunnah. Why? Because these people they want to say that they follow the Quran why? So they can interpret the Quran the way that they want.

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So they can interpret the Quran according to their desires. Because the Sunnah clarifies within the Quran.

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The Sunnah clarifies

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anything that is mentioned in like, for example, the five daily prayers, right? The five daily prayers.

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If someone were to say, Okay, I have to pray, but who told me who said you have to pray five times a day that the prophets of Allah is of no, no, forget about that. Give me the verse in the Quran that I have to pray five times a day. What are you going to find? Can you give me a verse?

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How many players are going to be praying?

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How many? How many rock as are you going to pay?

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So some people who don't want to pray they will come talking.

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They will compete people who say I will only follow Quran because I'm not gonna follow the Sunnah. So they say how do I pray? Pray just like the questions.

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No, anytime you want to come down, just make dua go down there your knees. How do you pray? How do you make a U? How do you make Roho? How is there specific ways to do it?

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Bow down how do I bow down? The Christians they bow down. Right? So they can interpret the Quran, according to their desires, to the point where they don't even have to pay

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the five daily prayers with the Roku and so Jude and you know, all of the Archon and so forth, they can just say well pray,

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just like the Christians pray. Right, just like the Christians read or just like how you know the Buddhists they pray, just pray, how what time when

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to there's nothing specifically in the Quran. So they say they bought the Quran, it's because they don't want to follow Islam.

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They want to follow their desires. So they will come the people who will reject the Quran or reject the Sunnah. And in fact, they are rejecting the deen of Allah subhanaw taala that's why the shahada it consists of I had to hola hola hola. Wash

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mother rasool Allah not just La la la la la, la ilaha illAllah Muhammad also because you follow the Quran, the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So Amanda had when he took home, whatever I

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prohibit you from

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fudge daddy boo. Stay away from it. And then the prophet the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he says, Well, man, I hate to command who flexitarian Man, I hate extendible This is called the Joomla, shalltear, conditional, whatever I prevent you from, stay away from it, it still is from staying, you know, that's what you have, you call a person in a state of major impurity julu.

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Agenda, right, because you stay away from stay away from prayer, until you you and and stay away from reading the Quran and so forth, when you're in state up state of Geneva. Right. And so that's why it's just, it's a state, it's a state in which you stay away from some acts of ritual acts of worship. So if I study boom, is to stay away from it, stay far away from it. So that's the Joomla. I showed the, that's the conditioner. A sharp is to be sharp. Here is vegetable when I would if I tell you and when I tell you to stay away from something, then stay away from it. Stay far away from it. When I say Jara, stay away, stay away from it. When I say don't do it, stay away from it. Don't go

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close to it. But steady woohoo, stay away from it. And so

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meaning, you know, the word study move in from the word. Janet. Janet was what Janet has side side. So what does that mean? Like? Where does it come from? It comes from if I still tell you to stay away from something, then you put that aside.

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You put that one side and you stay one side, don't stay in the same. They'll stay where that is put it on the side. Janet has your side. So fetch Telugu who put it aside. That's what linguistically that's where it comes from. They put it aside, when stay away from it. That's what it means. So then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi. Wa might have to come up. And whatever I order you to do that to men who do have it must do it as much as you can, or whatever you're able to. So here you have Joomla shelfie. Also, whatever I tell you to do that do it. But do it only do as much of it as you can, may do it if you can, because there's some situations, sometimes you can't do be staying away not doing

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The default is that you don't do something, right. Because right now, I'm not doing a lot of things.

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And it's not difficult for me. It's not difficult for you to not to do something. Yes, I can. That's the default. Like I'm not I can do I need to tell you what I'm not doing.

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I'm not doing a lot of things right now. So not doing something is you're not doing anything. And so it's it's easy for me what I mean by easy because it's the default, the default, you don't do anything, but to do something, if I tell you to do something. Now there are some people who can't do it. And some people can't do it. Right, there are some people who can and some people can't, by saying, for example, left this table for left this table, some people most of us will be able to but there are some old people that can't let this table they can't move this table. But they're not able to do it. But to stay away from something. If I say for example, don't do something. No, no, no eat.

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all of you can stay away from me right now.

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Because it's the default. You don't have to do anything. You don't have to not do something you don't have to make any movements. You just stay where you are do that. And then it's it. And so that's why it's the default. Woman I hate to Commando, man hater, Commando, budgetary guru. So stay away from it. We know go closer. You just keep it on the side. Don't go, don't go to it. If I say don't do it, but if I tell you to do something, some people will be able to do it. Some people won't be able to do it. But if you're able to do it, then do it as much as you can. And if you can do it, then no matter what I do, see you're not going to be able to do it. You're not going to do it like

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if you don't have the strength. Or if you don't know how to drive I tell load right go go go park my car like I'm telling you to go park my car. But there's some people who never drove before don't have a license. They don't know how to drive. Right? But if I say don't drive,

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just everyone can do that. It doesn't matter. You're young or old. You know how to drive. You don't know how to drive but I say don't drive everyone can do it forever.

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I can get when I tell you not to do something. So that's why that's the default and that's why it's there's no condition connected to it. There's no condition connected connected to Wilma, Mark to caminho mark to be here to Minho. Mr Barco and so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said after that for a NEMA, what is in them? I mean, in is Toki in NEMA in that is the what is okie dokie this for emphasis mA here is known as is Momo soon

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if in nema. Why is what is the in indeed? My here? Is another meeting another meeting in a lady in why? Because we know that afterwards. After in there's

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two in the Arabic language when you say math it can mean no it can mean that which can mean what and so forth depending on the sentence structure and the contexts in nama. Indeed. So you can say it no means it's only that or it can also mean for a NEMA. Indeed that which the inner in a lady that which destroyed destroy those before you destroyed those before you for a nama laka Latinum in public home? What is it castrato Messiah at work still full home? And be

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the thing that that which destroyed them? Is them asking frequent questions. And it's good to ask questions. But that's not just asking questions. What kind of questions if this these two things are related? They question not because they don't know or want to know. They keep on asking because they don't want to do what they're told to do.

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They don't do what they're told to do. So they keep on asking. So that so that when they weren't asked to do something, or they asked to stay away from something, they don't have to do it.

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Why just like your kid and your child. When you tell him to clean the room and he doesn't want to clean the room? What does he say?

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No, say something like?

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Why do I have to clean the room?

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Like, why doesn't my sister clean the room?

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She's a girl, she should be cleaning my room.

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If he doesn't want to do something like that, he'll say something. Why? Because it doesn't want to do it. So yeah. Why? Why? Why? Why? Why do I have to do it? Why do I have to do it? Can I do it tomorrow? So you ask questions because you don't want to do it. And you keep on asking not because you don't know how do I clean my room? Where's the vacuum now? You're asking because you don't want to do it. So some people ask questions because they don't want to do it. It's like when the prophets of Allah Allah Who are some, you know the, the when Prophet Musa Hassan, and on many many, many occasions when Allah Subhana Allah subhana wa tells us and sort of the Bukhara tells us the story of

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Prophet Musa, he's Allah with Bani Israel. Allah subhanho wa Taala tells us even the rulings you know of what some of the things that allow me difficult for them because they kept on asking, and that's why every time they asked, it became more difficult. It became number difficult, because it becomes because it's a punishment for them. Like, you know,

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you want to do it too. Okay, can I? Why can I? Why can I just eat? Eat this? Eat that, okay? They don't eat it.

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You don't want wine? For example, they ask for clean How do I clean?

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Myself? Like what if it doesn't come off? What if it doesn't come up? What if they're still staying?

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When they're told to clean? Just clean it off? How do I clean it up?

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How do you normally just clean it up? Do I have to use water?

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Yes, of course they use use water right? Like they know but they still ask what do you have to use? So

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nobody said so. Right?

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Okay, then you have to use soap. Now soap is we do but sometimes when you wash with soap, it is still doesn't come up. So what I do, then we'll cut it off.

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Cut it off, and then you know, so that's why, whenever there's my Jassa because of the questioning,

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the prophets told them to clean.

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Just so obstinate, like so annoying to the prophets, and it's like an annoying child. They're so annoying. They keep on asking questions to the point where is the Jassa on their clothing? For us? How do we why

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we don't have to just hold one as long as the remnants are gone, it's fine. You know, for them, they have to cut it out. Yeah, I'll have otherwise we'd have to throw so much underwear.

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What are you going to do with clothing? But anytime you have the jackets on, you have to throw it away? Or in the cut it and patch it? Yeah, Allah. That's very, very difficult. How do you how much how difficult you think that is? Imagine you just buy a new, a new nice jacket.

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You pick up your child and then your child urinates on your jacket? What are you gonna do?

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You can't watch it.

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You have to cut it every cut, it's messed up. Nobody would wear it anymore.

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These are some of the questions that they kept asking. And every time they would ask, it would be more difficult for them. It would become more difficult for them. And so Allah subhanaw taala does not like

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does not like that. And so Allah destroys people. Allah will destroy people because of their differing with the Prophets because of them not wanting to follow. And that's why the prophets of Allah said, either a murderer to come, either in a hurry to come and MANET to manifest anyway, if I tell you to stay away from it, just stay away from it. Just stay with it. Don't ask this and that unless you know you're in doubt. And when you ask because you want to know Don't ask any more details. If you don't have to just stay away from it.

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But if I already should do something, just do as much as you can.

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Do as you can just do it. And that's why when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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when he ordered the people, you have all people,

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Allah Subhana Allah has already to make hydrophone. So May.

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So what did one of the companions say?

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This is said O Messenger of Allah every year,

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every year,

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he said if I would have said every year and they will be every year, and you will not be able to do it.

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Or you won't be able to do it. So if I tell you to do something, if I tell you don't do it, stay away from it. But if I tell you to do to do something, do as much as you can make hij or people make okay, maybe

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that's it. One time it's over. Finally, I've been agile hamdulillah did I make I made Allah orders make? I made hydro Alhamdulillah now if you ask more questions, how many times

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do I make Hajj every year every five years? You keep on asking? Ok, then maybe Allah will say okay, every year that you will not be able to do that every year. You can can you do make it every year especially now? How what's going to happen in Mecca and everybody will every year? Yeah, Allah

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how many people would be able to go if you had to go every year? Right?

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You go when you if you're able to just once just one time. And that's it after that you don't have to do it anymore.

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And so, it's a lesson, a lesson for us to review and ask questions.

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Also, it's okay to ask questions. But don't ask questions. For the purpose of anything except to learn the deen of Allah subhana Subhan. Allah didn't need to be sincere. Because sometimes some people ask questions, because they want to show off

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only one object.

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They will ask the question

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and they will ask a question that is very, very difficult. They know the answer to already. Right but they want to show off that they know so they ask the detailed questions related to that. And sometimes it's confused as to

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book, because maybe the people have not studied that that level, or maybe the teacher is not ready to speak about that yet. And so when you're asking questions, it's always good to ask questions, even if the question is embarrassing, it's mandatory to ask. Because if you don't ask, then you will remain ignorant. And you might do something that is

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contradictory to the orders of Allah and His messenger. And that's why you ask, and it's okay to ask, but to ask with the intention of not following

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with the intention of rejecting it, then that's something that is that was prohibited. Of course, during that was, of course, some of the scholars have mentioned, that's the time of the prophets of Allah, or some because the ruling could change at that moment.

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The ruling can change if you keep on asking questions, you can make it difficult for everyone else in the OMA that comes after you because of you. Right? Because after revelation, of course, the rules have already been set. Everything's been settled. Everything's set. It hasn't changed because we don't have any revelation anymore. So we have the prophets of Allah and so many said, they never had a gala dinner and publico who's the WHO ARE THOSE before he went public? It can mean anyone before but what is meant here some of the scholars have said what's meant here is, of course, the WHO and and Asara the Christians and everyone else right. But when you speak when the prophets says

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Aladdin and in publico to the Companions, who are the ones, who are they thinking about? The who are their

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contemporaries, like sort of like living at that time? Of course, the people?

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Are they thinking about those people? Now they're destroyed?

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Or they think about the people No,

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no, they're not thinking about them. Because then they don't there aren't any mean everyone, you know, though they're all destroyed. All the people before were destroyed the people who

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were who? Course who are their contemporaries at that time when the Prophet sallallahu sallam was in Medina, there were Christians and Jews. Right? There are Christians and Jews and that's what people that's, that's what the companions are thinking about. And so when he says, enema and nickel and diming publikum, the ones the people who are destroyed before you because of their frequent question, who did use in Asara? Who they who are the descendants out?

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Bani Israel, right, because Prophet Musa was set to Bani Israel to figure out and he is

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right he is somebody who is really centered around that he is from the Israel, Prophet Isa, who is he sent to Bani Israel, which isn't anyone else?

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No, because every Prophet was sent to their own people.

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And so who are the people that can do it? The contemporaries of them the meaning they have in their minds when the when you say those before you is the Jews and the Christians and that's why Allah subhana wa Tada says, when we're going out to meet Elena O'Toole keytab, I mean, publikum well was for that, and that and the chase amongst the women, amongst their women, who have been given the book, many of the Jews and the Christians, main public, those who came before you. And so

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who are the people who are

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who, who are mentioned here that Allah destroyed.

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It was the hood and unsolved and ALLAH SubhanA knows best. And Allah Subhana Allah knows best and of course, the worst, of course, are the who they are the ones who used to ask, and Allah Subhana Allah that destroyed them, right? How did Allah destroy them? Allah subhanho wa Taala made some of them,

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turn them to pigs, and monkeys, and the loss of Hanworth had to destroy some of them.

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Allah Subhana Allah

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sent a lightning bolt towards them and then he actually brought them back to life also, and they still lie.

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They die they came back to life. Right? Allah told them because of the worshipping of the angel of the calf. Right so the worship of the calf, Allah subhanho wa Taala destroyed them and brought them back to LA and they still reverted back to their ways to asking questions, to doubting to making, you know, making things difficult for the prophets and messengers, and they used to kill prophets and messengers from Allah said to them

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They will try to kill them amongst them of course, as they tried to kill properties.

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They tried to kill me other prophets, and of course who, who are the prophets? The prophets are the best people said to guide you. And so when you're killing a prophet, that's the worst crime that you can commit.

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Meaning when I say crime, that means, you know, between the creation of Allah, we're not what should occur, that's a different matter, right? That's between you and Allah subhanho wa Taala worshipping others, besides a lot of To Kill who to kill not just any person, a prophet. They used to try to kill prophets and messengers, and they would treat them in the worst way. And Allah subhanho wa Taala mentions them in many areas, many stories, amongst them is sort of in Allah.

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When Allah subhana, Allah ordered them to slaughter the cow. Slaughter the cow, what did they say? Oh, you have to just love any cow. It would have been okay. But no.

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They said all the cows look the same. What color give us a color? Yeah.

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Oh, they have all cows, young cows. Which one?

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Okay, fine. Then Allah subhanaw. Taala says find one. There's not old one. That's not Yeah.

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And then they said what color Allah gave them. So tell them that look for the yellow car. I mean, this golden cow.

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And, you know, like, they could have saw any cow, it would have been sufficient. But they kept on asking for this equipment. You know, there's so many different types of jobs, what kind of cows, their cows that work on the field? There are cows that, you know, like these for milk.

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Different kind of cows, what kind of cow? Okay, okay, fine. Give the cow that doesn't have any work.

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And then they ended up for it became more difficult difficult for they could have slaughtered any cow in the field. Any one of them just picking to blindly follow the cow and slaughter. That's it. But they kept on asking Allah catheter became more difficult. And they could barely find the cow that because of what they could barely find what they find the foul cow that fit the description of who made up those descriptions? Who put those conditions they did. They kept on asking. And that's why that's that's a characteristic. That's not good. To be annoying, especially with your especially with your parents. And sometimes, you know, sometimes some spouses do that to each other awesome.

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Right? Spouses do that to each other. Also, sometimes the husband does that, because he doesn't want to do something. Sometimes the wife doesn't want him to do something. And she'll do that. And he starts asking questions list. But why? Why is he asking these questions? He's asking these questions, because he doesn't want to do it. So like if the wife or the husband or the wife tells him to like, Hey, yo, can you?

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Can you are you more than like

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you want me to do it this week or next week?

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There's more than

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do right now to say right now. Right now. You can you can you could have had a whole week.

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This week. No, I wonder right now, like if you didn't say anything, maybe you know, this whole weekend. You can say oh, when I have time, which I love right now I'm busy then because you're saying this week or next week? And he's like oh, do you want to use a lawn mower Do you ever use

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but we don't have alarm we have to borrow over them like you said more I don't care how in the moment alarm gets mauled.

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You you worry about that. Right. And as you say, Okay, what okay get a lot more than now but then I have to go to the you know, to my my my my in laws together my my father to unify him. Right? Okay. Yeah, a lot of could have just No, you didn't say anything. She wouldn't care. Just get them all. You have the little weed whacker, like now you can't use the weed whacker.

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And so this also happens with children who don't want to listen, and sometimes husbands and sometimes the wife

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so this is what I try to stay away from because one of the characteristics of money is

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money aside. And especially of course, this is the most the Dean

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the dean of Allah subhanaw

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deen of Allah Subhana. Allah subhanaw taala tells you if you keep on asking and asking asking you then it's going to be more difficult and get more difficult but the thing is we

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because it's, it's the intention also, is the intention also Well, now it's okay to ask. I mean, you can you can ask if you don't know if sincerely, you can ask, but I'm talking about the characteristics of not of asking questions because you don't want to do it. If you're unable to do to say, I can't do it, like, somebody tells you to do it. Let's say you can't do it. Okay. Okay, I'll take care of it. You don't have to mow the lawn. Right? You can take care of it. You can like,

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go down to one of the

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hardware stores. Hey,

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brother in law,

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you need a job?

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Standing there giving you $50

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Can you do it? All right. Your wife doesn't care.

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She comes out and Hamdulillah you didn't, you didn't even break a sweat.

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Sweat. If some if you need to do something, just do it. Whatever you can. Don't, don't don't make more of a drama than it is. Right? If you can't do it, so you can

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try to beat around the bush is by asking questions to stay away from it. Stuff like that. Just be open. And Frank is the best way in tort law. What's the law Humala, MBA em, Allah, the prophets of Allah said, what's the law? For whom? Allah MBA I have

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noticed that Allah MBI him when he is usually when you use the word Allah, that means against

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your new you're you're Estela, you're deferring against, and that means you are deferring. When you said, the law home, when I'm home next different from them, you differ in your opinion, maybe that's a different matter, but to differ in an opposition.

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Right? Because you can differ. You can have a difference of opinion or difference, or differing, but there's no opposition. Right? Let's say let's say, for example, I have, I think I see this, I see it this way, and you see it that way. But I'm not I don't hate you for it. I don't want to follow you or anything like that. Right? So when you say, Allahu Allah Ambia him, this is like, deferring against someone different. And that's why the prophets of light an example for that is in the majority, Lal, Imam aliotta. Maybe he felt sorry for LA.

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For that, actually, for Allah, which means what?

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Which means

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he didn't say for Telugu angle, like LA, he means do not do whatever the man has been made to follow whatever he does, just do it. And don't do don't contradict him. So if the love from Allah is to contradict them

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as mere means to defer to defer, and so to contradict me, and also to oppose a contradiction with an opposition when you use the word. And so the Hadith, what are some of the benefits of the Hadith? Number one, it's mandatory to stay away from that which we have been supported to stay away from without you having to prohibit? What do we mean by mandatory that means you have to stay away from it. If Allah subhanaw taala, or his messenger tell you to stay away from it, then what's the ruling is haram, the default is that that act is haram. That's the default. And then of course, unless you have,

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you know, unless you have

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proofs and evidences. And also another benefit that we get from it, is to stay away from that which we have been prohibited from weather a little bit or a lot of it

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is no questions asked, which means well, if somebody says, you know, don't drink alcohol,

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what does it mean but

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a little or a lot to steal all of it. All of it. Turns out don't drink alcohol. Okay.

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And it was okay. No, by default if the prohibition a little bit and a lot of it is all of it. So that's it. There's no condition yet. No conditional prohibition haram, all of it. Right, unless you have evidences and of course even we have evidences that tell you that even little bit mascara, mascara can do

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that which intoxicates a lot of a lot of It intoxicates a little of it is haram also meaning even if it doesn't interact with it, and that's why some I passed by some some Muslims one time and Muslims Muslim village and they were drinking alcohol. They were drinking beer.

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They were drinking beer.

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think that that's not permissible.

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I can drink three. And I still don't get drunk as my friend here. One is

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maybe haram for him one only three for me that my limit is three right here because I don't get drunk until after three. So that's permissible for me, right? Because you know, nothing happens when you have two or three like beers, nothing for me, like,

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and you know, the worst part.

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This was Ramadan, that's like, yeah.

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It was enrolled on sitting down drinking beer. And then when you tell him, he knows how

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because they're already drinking.

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But he's trying to do too, because, you know, like, there's some people there. So he's trying to

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justify his actions. But you know, one and two for me is nothing doesn't affect me. So is it okay for him? No. I said, No, it's not even if it doesn't, you don't get intoxicated with one or two. Even a small drop for you. It's haram. It's haram. It's beer, is outdoors beer, it's not permissible. And so actually, some people The thing is, some people do believe that this and you know why? Because there are some people who there are some people who, who, because they're drinking, they tried to justify their actions. And when they tried to justify their actions, they say things that are totally, they know it's wrong. And then that justification gets passed around.

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And everybody says, everybody says that okay, yeah, it's okay. Just like smoking everybody says when you said when you say something when you tell somebody brother Don't you know don't smoke What is it what's the first thing he says

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there's no smoke right?

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Firstly says

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oh, you know what's mcru Mashallah, you know, provide I mean, I can't say that can rulings of Islam, but pro Halal move? Mashallah, man, do you all have that macro? Ha.

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But what's the ruling on that and so forth. So people sometimes try to justify their actions, and then they try to the worst is they try to use the dean to justify their actions, and even though they might know is not permissible, so whatever is prohibited, then stay away from it. And so there are certain things inshallah that are, maybe haram, but if it is, it's in times of necessity, then, of course, then it can also be permissible. But like, for example, when somebody is so hungry, they're about to die. And the only thing that is available is a carcass or you know, a dead animal. And of course, you can't eat meat. So if you don't eat it, then you're going to die. So in this

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case, should you eat it? Of course, you're allowed to eat it, even though it's haram. But does that mean Hey, whenever I told you stay away from stay away from it, no, because there's another there's another ruling here. And we have other verses of the Quran, about necessity and so forth. So inshallah we'll continue with this next week. Continue to Hadith there are so many more

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rulings that are connected to it. But I would like to end it here in sha Allah, we ask Allah subhana wa Taala to prolong our life and his obedience and we ask Allah subhana wa to Allah to give us the best of this world in the Hereafter. Subhana Allah Homer will be handicapped. I shall earn interest stalker for insha Allah anyone have any questions?

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