Surah 12 Yusuf Tafsir v. 82-90

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AI: Summary © The struggles of men and women in politics are discussed, emphasizing the importance of trusting one's parents and avoiding sexual harassment and abuse. The use of language in relation to personal experiences and political parties, including the use of language learning and forgiveness, is also emphasized. The transcript describes a group of people discussing various topics related to Islam, including a brother's behavior, a woman's "will," and a woman's "will." They also discuss the importance of history and finding people with a positive past and a positive attitude to life. The segment ends with a discussion about the use of words and the importance of understanding the meaning behind them.
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Yom of Torah we asked Allah to bless each and every one present here. And those who couldn't make it like grant would help those who are sick and keep the healthy ones healthy until they need to eat unless you're a brand I mean, we have brothers and sisters who have reached a certain age today. May Allah bless them, forgive them and give them

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many years to come in good hands and to worship you and do good deeds. I mean, I mean I mean Allah Allah see them at Osaka

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summit hallelujah to all of you my best sisters May Allah accept your Ada especially those who did not hear and may our last panel Tana gave us many years to come and celebrate inshallah together. I mean,

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We, everybody surah Yusuf Ali Salah. Surah 12 open your mishaps please.

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We are in verse 8282.

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So what Yusuf Ali surah

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verse 82.

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For those who have questions, these asked me after after I finished the class, remember which question you have and please feel free to ask maybe someone would benefit from it inshallah.

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I was hoping he may not show up on your Rajeev M.

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Ad in order yet allottee

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when reroll letting alpha fee

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what in

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Jeremy and

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I saw a loved one.

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Danny be him Jeremy

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the model hockey team.

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yo yo so had una horombo

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how it all done I will def una amin Al Jazeera Heaney and

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what did I say?

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Howdy, howdy.

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How to hold on our otaku. Amina Nikki in

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my mind when

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For another area he didn't sort of

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sort of hood Allison on in

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school Bessie was Hosni ma

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yeah buddy Yeah.

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fat that has special meaning you

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Santa no no

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why g bB a ball it

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was Jatin if we stopped we did have moosejaw booster for our woofie be late and Gail

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what else Elena

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in a law

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be your sofa

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is Tom jahai loan

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in Allahu Allah you will be

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on top de la

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love wine

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de ballet omonoia home

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yellow federal law hula

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hammer rah Haney

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Let's see these verses inshallah

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before I start

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Start the year.

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Remember when we talked about the plotting of women in the Sora? Do you remember?

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What did I say? Who remembers

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very good, not as bad as men, men when they plot is worse or and speaks about the plotting of Women Against use of a solemn and or unset in Nikita akuna Lim, you're plotting or women is so great. But today I want to add something I told you, the plotting of women is great, but the plotting of men is devastating.

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When men plot, it may lead to this.

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But when women a lot, it may lead to J.

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Today, I want to add something that I never told you before

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sought refuge from Allah

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sought refuge in a lot from this

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or region

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I reject

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the Prophet sallallahu Sallam on a daily basis used to ask Allah to save him from this

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and not the plotting of women.

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Okay, I will expand Kendall and Lisa

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blocking over here lots

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of women

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amazing need to say all SAP from 14 women but he said save me from our region what is our region overpowering of men?

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overpowering or Allah I seek refuge in You to be overcome by men.

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Because men no mercy once they overcome you.

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That's it.

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Women still have a soft spot, but men that will be left

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especially in politics.

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They will try to erase you bury your life

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okay, so Rasul Allah Sato Salam used to seek refuge to Allah on a daily basis from eight things remember them

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I write them here for the benefit of

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is stress hazard is sadness. What I seek refuge in You from stress

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and from sadness

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well I will be coming up

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cover cover this to be a coward

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because cover die every day every second day, but they people that only one time remember and

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used to say out loud never let it turn it was

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never turned into a covered

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white facade loving as

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an actress

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I just means to be

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overpowered. Like you feel like you can't do nothing. What's that feeling? feeling when you you cannot do anything?

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And castle laziness

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You become malice. You don't want to work you don't want to do nothing.

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And some parents May Allah forgive them help their children to be compellent malice

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because you just provide provide provide

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sometimes No.

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Always you use no with your kids. So that when you tell them Yes, it's he

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say no first. No.

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They get they grew up with no. They say yes. I'm gonna keep saying yes, yes, yes. The day you say no. They will eat

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And then number seven and eight Is this why would you be carrying a heavy what has

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to be overpowered by loans

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are overburdened you every day just thinking about how to pay people

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and some of you deserve it because

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up to you

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on secondary

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our average and to be overpower

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my man he didn't say by women overpower by man which is outside

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nourish Allah ye kousaka

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So, that was something I wanted to say before we go to the Tafseer of today so 82 of you all there any question about this

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ask Allah every day to save you from these eight things. Because really if you have one of them you are really really unhappy person

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at the end of the day yet you can do this do I love my family what has allowed me then actually what castlebar also became even

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becoming an elevated religion

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you can say it in Malay if you remember that

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stress sadness Tower The stinginess despair laziness, overpowering of loans and that's an overpowered by men. You start running away from men you're a man and start running away from men or men I don't need it. Because usually loans

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you start running away because you have to pay him

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and you know you are doing something not right.

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any question about this?

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All right, let's move. Start with my brother since I missed him for two weeks, Mashallah. Welcome back. You okay? You're being streamed you traveled?

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For sure. When you all travel like my father. May Allah have mercy on him when he's traveling. The beard show or I say that you're traveling right? Yes. Black Bear.

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Yes. 82 he wants to move on.

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Welcome back. Welcome back. Your wife is here.

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She's okay. handle.

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Handle Yello Ha.

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Very good. Ah, the children of use the children of Yaqoob Allah His solemn came back with a bad very bad wet news.

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Not only they didn't bring their brother who they supposed to protect, who is he? What's his name? Benny. I mean, not only they came without their brother, the younger brother but even the ibank is missing. So how many children total three use of Rs lm Binyamin and in one iteration yahuda Judah.

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know Allah Dena mentioned Binyamin didn't mention the the endless but the moral story three children.

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So I told you it will even get worse before it becomes

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Okay, remember this? When you are say facing troubles sisters and brothers. Expect worse expect words. Don't say no, not that no. Expect even things to become even worse.

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If it doesn't happen Alhamdulillah if it happens, you expected it. So you're mentally ready for it.

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So always expect the worst.

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Hope for the best but expect the worst. You have to expect that something will happen. Bad. So jacobellis salaam was mentally ready

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even when he lost it Binyamin and they all he was still mentioning who you are so it's panela Why? Because you suffer had a special place in his heart.

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Use of was more polite.

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was very ethical. You know what makes parents love their children. It's not your look. Your your parents don't care about your look. Even if you look like a cockroach, they will still love you.

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Duck bear.

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Do you understand?

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Don't think your father favors you because you have a special look. No. If you were born without face, the heart is there for you, especially the mother. But what parents really love to see is that the children are morally sound people morally sound. Nobody is talking about this. Everybody's talking about my son goes to this university. My daughter is doing this. My daughter is marrying someone so who cares?

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You know what you what you should care about is my son did he pray but without me telling him? Is my daughter Mashallah coming to classes like this? willingly not anyone forcing her. She wants to come and learn the deen.

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And Phil said if there is no class, really, Phil said like, Oh, I wish I wish there was class

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hamdullah to the second day of ait and still we wanted to have class. May Allah reward those who?

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Yeah, they made it. Possible brother Shah.

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Okay, so please understand my best sisters. What what will make a father be very in love with his children or a mother? Is that ethics, the way they behave with their parents?

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If you are always there, considerate, loving, understanding, sacrificing we are in the days of sacrifice. It's not about you, children. It's not just about you. It's about your parents. It's not like what I like, what my like my mother likes what my mother

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and they're about to go. They are older than you expect them to go early.

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So be nice to them. simple as this.

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Your children would be nice to you.

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now three children missing a lot of work. Oh, imagine you are waiting for us have to come back. His younger brother goes and now the one that you supposed to?

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to lean on because a father should mean on his first son, elder son, a bank?

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Three, isn't this test to Oh, it's not just use of the story is not about use of money. It's about about his father.

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How many of us lost a child just for an hour or two?

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You go to one Otama your son disappears.

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No, think about it. And do you know how the how your wife goes how your mind knew you as Father 10 times the heart of a mother.

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If you are like really worried when you spoil laughter? You're so scared. Maybe someone kidnapped him. Someone took him? How about ears, ears, ears use of Allison

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and his father never lost hope. One day he will come back one day I told you always live with high hopes brothers.

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Because once you lose hope that's it, you die. not physically, you die emotionally that's it.

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You cease to perform. We should always say in sha Allah there is a solution for my problem. Whatever problem you're facing in sha Allah, Allah will help me on my wind, remove this hardship from me.

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One way or another, trust him. And because of your trust, Allah will reward you is the token. The token is the trust is a form of trust your life trust you mean our token Allah.

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Okay, so they told him that verse 82,

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please ask, verify.

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Verify the caravan that was with us. And first, as the CTL or further you can go to the city yourself and ask that this is true.

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That Your son has stolen in Abner cassara. Look, they didn't say our brother has stolen. They said Your son has stolen. I told you benissa elaphe problem. Remember, pay attention to the words I'm saying. I know it says Monday night tire this and that pay attention? Usually usually you want to add to the sadness of a man who has already said or do you want to make it like you know as cool as possible?

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Yes, no, they made it as painful as possible. In Lebanon cassara Your son has stolen

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they should say our brother

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or Binyamin at least many I mean when you have will have stolen something they said in the Menaka yourself.

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This is how we speak to your father.

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Do you say your Your brother has come to visit you? Or my uncle has come? Which one is more polite children?

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Do you tell your father or your brother? Your brother wants to see you or uncle has come and he wants to meet you?

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Your brother, this is how our children are speaking now.

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Now it was a bit of a

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slap and bring them to me. I sent the photos of the knives sharp and ready. That bear

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no, you have to respect my uncle is here to see you. Or our for our brother has stolen that.

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And we are witnessing only with what we don't please verify. Ask the city in Lebanon cassara Your son has stolen Wow.

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He's black. He's not our brother. He's your son.

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You got it. Okay, good. Then,

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when when they have asked also the caravan that was with us, they are witness. Now they are speaking the truth. But in the kidnapping of their brother and throwing him in the

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in the well, it was a lie.

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Now they say and we speak the truth. Look at it at two. And what do they say? No.

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We are speaking the truth. We are telling the truth.

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Now they are telling the truth.

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Okay, fine. What did the father said?

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What did he say? Very important. Look at it. Verse 83, my brother here. Yes.

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He said,

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profit profit Jakub said high level. So when

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he said Nay, but your own cells have been scaled you into something? Again? You are this is something wrong about you.

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Because he never forgave that for you. So,

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no, again, you are plotting. By the way once confidence is broken is broken. Okay.

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That's why I told you punish your children for lying.

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Really, they you have to read it from day one. If you fix it, if they lie, even when they're young, hit them so hard on them and empty, they become red, then they realize they will not lie again. If they don't lie again, they be good kids and good citizens.

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Brothers and sisters.

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The moment your wife knows you lied.

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That's it? Actually. No, no, not yet. Not yet.

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Not yet. Not yet, yet. But she will. She will continue living with you. But not.

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Not with us. She will always doubt you.

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Remember that?

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cannot change it. Because each is a glass that was shattered.

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I'm not talking about small problems here. And then

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some women actually stay with the husband only because of the children. You have to know this brothers. And check yourself is your wife staying with you out of love or just because she's stuck with you? stuck because of kids. He may have small kids and

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he is just suffer with him.

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And why I say women why not men, because men can marry

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more, three more. But women cannot

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remember that. I'm not trying to make you feel bad. But this is the truth. You need to hear the truth. And I'm here to tell you the truth not to entertain you.

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So too bad for anyone who like to is way

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too bad.

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So, you see now they're speaking the truth. He still said you're plotting you're doing something else because he cannot forgive them for what they did to us.

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He knew they they heard that brother.

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He knew it.

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He's unabie but he has to go through that destiny is destiny sabar,

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Samar, Samar, Samar, Samar, Sabah. And now look what he's saying. He said, Maybe I will bring them all together back to me,

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yourself, when you are mean, and the advantage.

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So he's still hopeful. Remember that always stay hopeful?

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By the way, how do we enter?

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with the hope to the mercy of Allah? What do you think? Do

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you think we prayed enough? Honestly, honestly, did you think we prayed enough? Do you think we we have given sadaqa enough and what is enough for something eternal?

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How much money you need to pay for?

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For something very, very luxurious in this dunya which is temporary?

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millions, billions, so how much you pay for eternity? So we entered only with Rama, Allah.

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Allah doesn't mean we do nothing. Oh, we have to do things. But always, no matter what I do, I will never do enough to deserve paradise. No one deserves paradise.

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Not even you have a center of Allah are a shadow of the law and has said when she heard him saying this, he said not even me. I am also with you. It's only the mercy of Allah.

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No one deserves death.

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So is the mercy of Allah. So let's hope you're up. I never doubted Your mercy.

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I am weak. I made so many sins you have to say that to Allah. I committed many sins, and I may have may have repeated many sins, but I never doubted Your mercy.

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And your mercy is bigger than my sins. My sins always talk to a lot like this, if you want to be safe, so here jacobellis service teaching us something

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that never despair, even when two more sons disappear. One is going to jail

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when he I mean, he thinks he's going to put him in jail. But he's not going to put his brother in jail. And the elders doesn't care refuses to come he has no face to meet his father the guilt of yourself and now the second one oh my god what happened? And you see when you have someone who will always live with that guilt remember this

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when you have someone ladies care for to hurt anyone especially in laws with a daughter in law mother in law

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or sister in law

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you two brothers employers don't have an employee

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you pay you pay Indonesia before I hit them.

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Even when you let go someone give him good pay. Sarah Monica made didn't do her job properly. They didn't

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always cover yourself with generosity.

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One thing by the way, that covers all your weaknesses is generosity. Speaking about this when you have generous person people forget all your mistakes. You know that?

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Who's the best fit for the children for the angers? The one who gives them give that man

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Whoa, whoa, tell them story. No. The one who gives gifts whenever I go to my auntie she gives me something something

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that bear

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you look like one of your ships drowned. capsized like they have you okay? Mashallah.

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You look like going to Palestine Palestine Look at that. Mashallah.

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Yesterday he was about to actually hit hamdulillah like bear

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I'm very proud of him. He did his opia by his hand

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Where are you guys? never join us.

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You have your own bulls to kill

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the use Did you watch

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or nothing?

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Parents I blame the parents

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have to let your children see how this is a bada Okay, parentheses we go back. Isola dnab him Germany.

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Maybe Allah will bring them all together. So still, hopefully in the worst moment of his life. Three children is still hopeful.

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three kids

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in the whole Hollywood hack him I trust Allah because he is the all knowing the all wise.

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What did he do however,

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He isolated himself. Now more pain is a human being is a prophet no doubt but prophet What?

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prophet human humans go through the same feelings that you and I go through?

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sadness happiness, anger forestar max sleeping well not sleeping. Well I've seen bad dreams in good dreams. The prophets are humans like you and me. They are humans exactly like you and me. They use a toilet that they have babies they get sick, okay, whatever land home so he took this The third area 84 brother, one

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and he turned away from them call us when they brought him this sad news. He taught them to be hopeful but deep inside, he was really hurt. There is nothing wrong to be said and hopefully

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sadness is a feeling

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hope to be hopeful also is a feeling. He said. Yeah, as far as I use, how long he just lost the youngest of his children and the eldest of his children pay attention yet his mind is with who

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I told you use of was special

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use it was very very special. Because he was kind to his father.

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He was always around his father.

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Are our children like that?

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Our children around us but when?

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When they need this, that you look very handsome today. Just say what do you need? How much you need?

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That man

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or they send you

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their mother? That Mayor?

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If the mother also start buttering you up, just prepare your wallet, prepare your wallet sat there.

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Okay. What's the one at home? What are the other uses?

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Wow, whoa, he wasn't like a last use of all your software or your use of or use of karma is still thinking about yourself.

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I lost my grief for use of and he lost his sight because of the sorrow that he was suppressing. Sisters and brothers. A sad man may lose his sight. A sad woman will lose her life.

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women die.

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Said women die

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upon life, you know that are not

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a sad woman is a dead woman.

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A woman who is so sad she will die. Eventually she will die.

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She will not survive.

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So what's our job as men?

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make them happy not add.

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Let's say she lost a son. You as a father now and her husband. You should be very, very considerate. Don't tell her you're doing you're exaggerating as if you are the only woman who lost a child. Don't say that. But tell her remind her muscle loss muscle loss Khadija loss hadisha also lost

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she lost many children before she died.

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Alicia is a good example for for our women. If they lose their children, God forbid things like that.

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So his eyes turned white

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meaning cataract took over us he cannot see. It became blind.

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It became blind for work of him because he means hallas cannot see anymore

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8685 Mashallah. That could be a very good you are following? That's good.

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JOHN, why are you just looking at me johanne I give you my autograph later on that Kabir. Give him our holiday for the

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martial law. I hate that Shakespearean English.

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Bow Bow.

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They said by Allah, you will never see his children are talking to him and his family. They said to him by Allah

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You will never cease remembering use of until you become weak with old age or you become that or you die

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meaning some halala they were so amazed at use of again that use of again all these years you still remembering use of all those of Hannah law who's the last to be lost and yummy and I mean, logic says you should think about the no he's thinking about the other one. Because he's hoping in Allah if that one comes, they all come back.

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Remember that?

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More assumptive versus a 40 but it was long time. rather lose your child only for one day. Your wife will drive you crazy.

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Just your wife

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what she will say

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she will not get you

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that machmir lose your son just for one day now that

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you know what will happen to you. You go crazy. Your wife your wife will not leave you alone.

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Don't look at your wives. Those who are here.

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That's why I know why some brothers sit there so that they don't see their wives.

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I know I made it

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so that like that bam.

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Okay, good. parlor in the magical bestie was neat Illallah. Next area, Hajji Haji

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saying that

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there is no age here. Here everybody is under 18 that man

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Excellent. Mashallah very good. Whereas, here, what did he say? I am not complaining to you. This is strength. This is strength of a prophet, although is very old and blind. He is telling them I am not complaining to you. I am complaining to Allah Leave me alone.

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You see, the real complaint is to God not to people, people are very weak. Sometimes you brothers may come What are you I need to talk to you. You take your friend, he or she? Yo he Yoshi

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and talk and maybe that friend who is listening to you out of respect. If he tells you his problems you may shake.

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That's why you are just wasting money when you go to your psychotic. Your psychiatric needs psycho psychiatric

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Pac Man.

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With my respect to psychologists and psychiatrists, they need to be in the mental hospital that may have

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you're just wasting your time.

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You're telling him man, my wife is giving me a hard time and he's the boss.

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My wife is giving his divorce.

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He's not even married. How can he know? What does marriage mean?

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Like man

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that's why my brothers

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when you have a problem What to do? We'll do two guys will don't work eyes and tell the love industrial era.

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any time of the day.

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Udo torque and see. Tell me what will

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cry to him. Tell him pour your heart to Him. You will see feel relieved. You go give them money. They make you wait already by making you wait the stress level goes up that bear

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that bear

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some of you go to Pomona to be left.

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shirk even worse.

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Okay, so he said no, I am complaining to Allah Bessie was nice to Allah. So telling Allah that something is troubling you is the right thing to do. My businesses don't even talk. Look, we are saying talk but don't talk to humans.

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Talk to the one who is above seven heavens.

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whisper to the earth. The sky will hear you

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in social.

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Yes, I'm

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But when you're shooting

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Very good, very good. Okay, it's like this. Pay attention. The shark is unforgivable sin if you die with it,

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if you ever repent, except, you know, whoever taught you that should have said, if you ever die with the ship, let's say you go to a bomber and you die at the bow most place

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you go to ask him or her to help you now

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Ah, straight to the hand I'm sorry.

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But somebody did that he or she repent, say out of I need to know please forgive me I was weak I was Dr. Hill, or I knew and I, I was weak I listened to my friends or whoever advise me and we went your mouth has never do it again from the law will give you more that also he becomes if he wants to make Shahada we will welcome him back

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somebody committing Zina committed many times you know wants to repair welcome brother sister no problem. But don't die with those sins because they are major share, Allah will never forgive you, Alice. Major sale between you and him. Now money. You took the money you have stolen money now. That person let's say he didn't know it was you? Yama Yama would bring him in you and said he's the one who stole your money at this incident. Now he is in trouble. He is in need of pahala what do you think he will? I don't think because he saw hell.

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When he says hell he stockard says sorry You took my money. I take your your husband as pahala then that's why brothers and sisters try to clear things now in this dunya in this video if you have ever wronged anyone find him or her and say Sorry, brother sorry, really sorry.

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ask forgiveness

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if he dies like that, yes. That's it, Jana because because that is not our opinion. Yes.

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If your look anything if you repent before you die, you're fine.

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any major sin

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that haka share their heart, see Hara, adultery, healing. Whatever you have done if you repent to Allah subhanho wa Taala will forgive you but imagine the last thing you did you made your mother cry and you rely

00:47:38--> 00:47:48

on your father was really upset. The person left the boy left the trophies cap right? soul happy man I was the last thing he did was upsetting his father.

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We shouldn't do that should be very careful.

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But if a person did this, all these things and he wants to repent, yeah, please forgive me. Do de la la. Allah Allah to Allah not only erase those sins, He will even consider whatever he did good as hell as consider them.

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clean, white cloth, you washed it perfectly and you want to use it again.

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And remember this Allah He's so happy

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with your Toba then Yaqoob when he met yourself What do you see when you

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see the happiness Allah is more happy with your repentance when you come back to him? So never lose hope especially young boys and girls. Never say no. What do you say you're up just forgive me. Go back pray kiss the hand of your father or mother every offender.

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forgiven the shovel.

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Okay. Yes, please those who say about shirk, they should tell people this if you die with it. You know, I was shocked to find that say somebody used to go to the graveyards and turn around them and hand knots and amulets all this year Be careful. The shark is not just worshipping stat you.

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It could be amulets you believe in amulet

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in your car, there is something that oh as long as this thing is in my car, there is no accident Who told you

00:49:29--> 00:49:31

people who believe in these things that is shared.

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What do you how do you

00:49:48--> 00:49:59

look that very good. There is a thread but never we there is a thread but never we the prophetic medicine. If somebody is using for an answer now as an alternative medicine

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There is alternative medicine with Herbes Chinese medicine, Korean medicine, herbs just Herbes No problem, but if it is based on what angsana for example

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you may come to me and say chef, I have this this problems then I realize these problems are symptoms of the evil eye

00:50:20--> 00:50:37

or see her but I don't have evidence but what our solar system said gives them some water to somebody who has certain characteristics. If he or she vomits they have to drink a lot of themselves on empty stomach if they vomit it said

00:50:39--> 00:50:46

if nausea just nausea but no vomit it's evil I definitely a lot of people here

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but if we turn it into practice instead of going to hospital you m hospital you're going to I don't know where no need to mention names and only you believe only in that doctors are saying let's do surgery quickly.

00:51:04--> 00:51:11

You say no I need to go first to my shape see him by the time you reach the shade

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the ship will just wash you that bad

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yes even for an hour is not to be hanged here now it'll be luck or here or I don't know where or and is to be read

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is to be respected

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I have no problem I have had like no problem. It's okay but no we're talking about

00:51:46--> 00:51:58

you you know like babies you give them something you you put something and always thread there is always a thread or now this is wrong. This is wrong

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that's why the price is 30,000

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and these are an 30 Anna yeah team how fast read only award special water.

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Look, there is no one who is greater than marketing the dean than the Malays.

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I cannot beat you in that.

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The Malays Malays not Malaysians, Malays are you when it comes to when it comes to

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Edo I said what is he? He is four.

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They said we make dua for you in Mecca. Somebody will go there and make dua so badius

00:53:01--> 00:53:06

teaching for an on the private jet all because you close to Allah

00:53:09--> 00:53:10

your son your son

00:53:13--> 00:53:18

who's Tessa was Tessa teaching your son one hour. You have

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a poor ban.

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everything I said okay now, very soon they tell you he jamna he johanne number.

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Now, what is the IRS?

00:53:36--> 00:53:39

Do is between you and Allah Don't let anyone do things on your behalf.

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Whatever you can do by yourself, do it.

00:53:45--> 00:53:51

Even if you are old and weak. If you can get up to go somewhere you don't ask people to do things for you.

00:53:53--> 00:54:01

One of the things the Sahaba gave by Arturo so let's assume that we will not ask anyone anything until we die. One of them his

00:54:02--> 00:54:15

stick falls down. He jumps although one brother like him for example like him he is doubt he will not tell him brother please give me my bet no he will jump out of his horse or camel to get his own thing by his own hand.

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I know some women cannot get up from the seat. She will call the may give me my phone

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while he's there.

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No she will call the main Give me my phone.

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stopped for a lot. I hope you're not those people.

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know some of you may be still

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there. Why give me the water The water is near him. He tell the wife

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sounds familiar.

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yeah, the ones have to lose weight you don't want to lose weight

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Oh Mashallah that's all you know you guys

00:55:16--> 00:55:17

like me

00:55:19--> 00:55:22

Mashallah, Mashallah okay?

00:55:24--> 00:55:33

So he said, What Allah Moomin Allah he made that animal I am complaining only to Allah my my sadness and sorrow and I know from Allah what you don't know

00:55:35--> 00:55:50

there is something that is telling me they will come that's intuition intuition of a prophet was so strong very very strong. So I'm turning to Allah and crying to my god and i know something that will happen

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Very good. x No, not definitely. He was always hoping because remember he told him the dream use of told him that I have seen this and this but you yakko compared to his son, the son was better in the knowledge of interpreting the dreams was given to the son not to the Father.

00:56:18--> 00:56:27

Sometimes your son is better than you in certain things hamdulillah and I By the way, that's the only thing you are not jealous of.

00:56:28--> 00:56:29

You know that?

00:56:30--> 00:56:32

Is your son or daughter be better than

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this is how much parents love the children but children don't understand this. They always inquire me my friends know

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now sisters,

00:56:50--> 00:56:53

sister as long as Lina sister

00:56:59--> 00:57:03

Mashallah. Mashallah See? What is as long?

00:57:05--> 00:57:07

As long as long as another plus?

00:57:09--> 00:57:10

Your friend always says you

00:57:12--> 00:57:14

must Nina must mean after john.

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In Malaysia

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Yeah, next time name tag here are a big one.

00:57:40--> 00:57:41

Yella sister Machina, go ahead.

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panela Oh, my son.

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He gave all the three children. All My Sons go and inquire about about

00:58:08--> 00:58:21

and his brother look yourself and his Well, he didn't say go and acquire on both of them. He mentioned name one name. And he didn't mention to name

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Did you? Did you pay attention look, God He didn't say go and look for your brothers.

00:58:28--> 00:58:58

He didn't say go and look for use of Anthony I mean, he didn't say go and look for my children. He said go and look for yourself and his brother. still use of occupies is made. Use of is always on his time. Use of use when you love someone you always mentioned him. And here is the proof that we really don't love a lot that much because we don't mention him too much. If you love a lot, a lot, Allah is always on your time. Allah Allah

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all the time, even when you dream you're dreaming the dreaming of him.

00:59:04--> 00:59:05

When you love someone,

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a student went to a shave and said shave.

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I would like to see the prophets Allah, Allah teach me to see the prophets has been my dream.

00:59:18--> 00:59:43

He said, what he said I love him. I love him so much. I want to see the Prophet sighs so the chef said, Okay, sit down. I will teach you something. But first, we eat. So he told his daughter, daughter. I don't know if our daughters even can fry an egg like they're prepared for us a lamb and put a lot of just between him and her. Put a lot of salt.

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So the

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the, the chef pretended to eat.

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The student is his guest. So his eating, eating

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he said

01:00:00--> 01:00:06

I will teach you tomorrow. But tonight sleep. He said okay if you want to sleep

01:00:09--> 01:00:10

in the morning he asked him chef,

01:00:11--> 01:00:13

what did you see? He said,

01:00:14--> 01:00:15

I saw

01:00:16--> 01:00:31

a lot of water, but not the profit. So Laurie seller, I saw rivers, I saw lakes, I saw cascades, waterfalls, springs, is that my son?

01:00:33--> 01:00:44

What you saw is true because you ate a lot of salt yesterday. So the next will always look what he really misses. If you really love our solar, you'd have seen him by now.

01:00:48--> 01:00:53

Now, I'm not saying you don't love the Prophet size, if you didn't see him, but I'm saying that

01:00:55--> 01:00:57

if it is in your heart, you will.

01:00:58--> 01:01:27

If Allah Subhana Allah is really loved by us, most of us will be talking about him, even at work, even when we are having our social gatherings we be talking about Allah. Allah subhanho wa Taala doesn't like this. When you talk to your children, you say, My children, Allah doesn't like this. Allah loves that we slaughter sheep, because your children may ask you that why you do that you you hurt them. It's not about me or the it's about him he loves that.

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So we do it for him.

01:01:31--> 01:01:33

He's not about me or you.

01:01:34--> 01:01:42

Please try to understand this Allah loves that we spilled blood on the day of aid if he wanted something else, if he lost something as we would do it

01:01:44--> 01:01:50

and that submission if everything you have to rationalize then where is your submission Miss Mr. or Mrs.

01:01:53--> 01:02:04

Allah told us to pray five times we pray five times this is obedience. And what's the price of obedience? Jenna you obey Allah will give you Jenna you just obey he put you in and simple as this and he doesn't care

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lot of Muslims today are questioning the law so called Muslims Washington God question a question your boss your life keep questioning him two three times.

01:02:18--> 01:02:19

He will sack you

01:02:20--> 01:02:21

keep questioning your boss

01:02:26--> 01:02:27

right or wrong

01:02:30--> 01:02:39

please be Be careful. We are we are now living in a time where people are really questioning god they're not asking to learn they're asking actually to argue

01:02:41--> 01:02:43

stop stop

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and how do poor eat meat meat if we don't slaughter

01:02:50--> 01:03:03

you know two thirds of your odd here is soda. One third you can eat up to one third if you want to give everything May Allah reward you right around two thirds This is for what or looking after the poor is a bad thing now

01:03:04--> 01:03:12

feeding feeding people who eat only once a year like in Syria now running and other places. They eat once a year the meat if someone gives them

01:03:13--> 01:03:20

You and me Mashallah just now when we go eat Allah, Allah knows how many meals we don't know. If there is dinner, I don't know.

01:03:21--> 01:03:23

There is hamdulillah that bear?

01:03:24--> 01:03:28

No, no serious look, because we think everybody has not everybody.

01:03:31--> 01:03:41

Not everybody has. The dream of a man was what was your dream uncle? You know, what was it that I eat a warm meal in my life? He never had one day, believe it or not.

01:03:42--> 01:03:45

He grew up in poverty and he died in poverty.

01:03:47--> 01:03:54

There are people like not me like that meal. Somebody cooked for him. That's that's his wish. It's not Lamborghini or

01:03:55--> 01:03:58

Ferrari Ferarri. It's just to eat something cook.

01:03:59--> 01:04:04

Because whatever he eats is always from the trash. Or what people give cold.

01:04:05--> 01:04:06

Please understand this.

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So he's saying now all my children. Look Look at this. Yeah, Benioff, still still a good father. He calls his children. Oh my children.

01:04:19--> 01:04:40

He didn't call them all losers. Go look for you know what I mean? Because then just sometimes to call the children those names. Brothers and sisters. It is scientifically proven psychologically proven. That's a good word. is a makes children healthy. If you talk to children nice to their mother nice. You talk to her

01:04:41--> 01:04:49

with value. She would be so happy that they and therefore her performance as mother would be so good. But call her any name.

01:04:51--> 01:04:52

Call her something

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she would be the word has an impact on the heart or the psychology employees.

01:05:00--> 01:05:03

Employees talk to them Nice. Good morning. Good afternoon you will see.

01:05:04--> 01:05:08

boss told us Good morning. He was the first to greet us or

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you go visit somebody sick say Mashallah. Mashallah, looking good. You're not lying.

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Looking good. If he's still alive He is good.

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Like, man,

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I come to visit you.

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As the doctor says too bad Alhamdulillah You look good to look good. You still alive?

01:05:37--> 01:05:39

Like man? Yes.

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What do you think?

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Your wife prepares something good and you say just a hair for this nice dinner. Oh, I thought you would never say anything.

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I sent you an email he emailed me Thank you.

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I need to hear it not email.

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Love you and give the heart like

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What's that? It means?

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Pac Man

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Majid Pakistan there is Masjid here called mercy Pakistan know why you call it visit Pakistan?

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No, mercy belongs to Allah.

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All massages belong to God. They don't belong to Pakistan or India or Malaysia.

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Pac Man. So tomorrow chefs who may have been the masjid Khalid mercy Algeria know massage it belongs to Allah. Maybe many Pakistanis come there.

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But that doesn't mean it belongs to them every mercy belongs to hope.

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So chef tomato builds a messy messy chat. No.

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no wrong. Pakistan messy Pakistan

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mess it India wrong.

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You see, India Pakistan must have a mystery

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sisters coordinates we call it something no problem but don't call it Muslim of Pakistanis to tomorrow so Pakistani feel this message. When I enter Masjid I am in love. I'm not in nobody's house that bear

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and me and the king are equal.

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He's not better than me. I'm not better than him. This is then otherwise.

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May Allah reward the brothers who started it maybe could be from Pakistan maybe my brother whoever but it's not Majid of Pakistan nor was it of India magic India.

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India visit of Allah Who are you here to tell me what he did he know he found out that oma Allah he had in spirit and Jin Allah Subhana Allah says and that message it belonged to Allah not call anybody besides Allah.

01:08:20--> 01:08:33

So I just wanted because last week somebody said there is misread Pakistan Pakistan first time I hear I know my brother is in charge of misery but I never thought it was misery Pakistan

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don't call it was it palace or Masjid anything?

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mustard belongs to Allah. All massages belong to who? Very good remember this? Yes.

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Who do

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It's okay.

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If the majority of people speak that language, but you don't call it busy.

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You don't number one. Islam is against nationalism. You know that or not? There is no nothing called moneys. Yeah, nothing called Algeria. This is what is killing us. There is a map of Islam. Why not call it okay. masjidul Omen Islamia and not everybody

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but it's okay no do what by no do no problem because majority that six people

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and do you think the future generation of Ordo this you speak or do

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the Thank you. That's my father speaks or those son speaks Malay.

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Wait, the same mistake French Algerians did the Algerians in France, I was telling them I want you think I didn't want to visit France and you also shocked to me when I went to France. I felt I was suffocating. This is Paris. Some of you. If I go to London to me that number 10 is like nothing like it.

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Do like I don't have any complex of inferiority Listen, I told the Algerian French that this is a big mistake hotma was in Arabic the youth don't know their French they speak French they were born and raised that they know little little Arabic Sarah Mara komati set up suburbia you know

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you talk the next generation don't understand the message so only the elderly are listening in Arabic because they think it has to be in Arabic yeah if he mama or Santa Mira soon it'll be the senate our me he

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we did not send any profit except with the language of his people of his people so that he can explain to them when you speak to me in a different language that I will never understand. Did you explain that to me? So that's why I will never get the message. So we lost generations, many generations we lost because the amount says Oprah has to be in Arabic. I said no, what about must be in French?

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Because the majority of people speak French in England English speaking English in Germany Let it be German in Spanish Islam didn't come to Arab besides people Islam came to Islam is people

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up to you these are certain advices I'm giving you up to you brothers think take them think about them if they are good take them if not leave

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imagine also last isolated spoke Chinese and come to the Arabs imagine imagine or or his era went to the Chinese and speak to them Do you think they will understand him they will never understand. And Allah mentioned that in South Africa those are names or name and he said that when he wants to lay aka dude, if they cannot almost cannot understand any speech.

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They barely told him

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to eat as a Trojan majority.

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They almost don't understand the word.

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So language is very important. Very, very important.

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If you do that one, use the bread I go to Brazil chair so it's going to proceed to do that while I don't speak Brazilian. So I need to take with me two or three brothers who who speak that language. May I tell them what maybe I speak in English somebody translate?

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You know what I mean?

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So please, but it shouldn't be called Masjid of Pakistanis or Algerians or Saudis. It's Masjid of Allah.

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Majority of brothers there maybe from Pakistan because they have business or they live there. No problem. No problem.

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So tomorrow you come to Malaysia and Bill Algerian bill the machine recorded procedure money's in the machine of Malaysians, no mosquito of Allah. Wherever wherever you go, massage it belongs to God. Remember this.

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That's why sisters and brothers. If you have ever to run somewhere, run to the masjid. Remember the story I told you? It's okay. We opened here between brackets. That's very important. When Harun al Rashid got mad with his wife,

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he got so mad at her he divorced and he said what law he you will be divorced. If you spend the night in my kingdom.

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You are divorced.

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He got mad. And she loved him and he loved her

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all the time as he travels. He said if you if you spend the night tonight in my kingdom, you are divorcing? Oh.

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So she asked her mom what to do what to do?

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one animal Mmm.

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No one could give her fatwah. mm asthma. I said, simple. take few sisters with you and go to the masjid. Don't spend the night in the morning go back to him.

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She said shift one. He said you have to leave my kingdom. He said but the Maasai don't belong to Him. belong to Allah.

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Very easy. She was in bed that if she traveled east, west, south north, she would need she would need at least at least three months. Three months just to be on the borders.

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He got mad he said a word that he cannot take back. You will be divorced if you spend the night in my kingdom. So the island said

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he said okay, go spend the night you and few sisters dopey I'm Elaine so that because haram for a woman to be alone in Madrid.

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And she did chiamo later in the morning salado Fisher she went back to her husband.

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What happened? He was until he heard the shade.

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And he went to the ship. Not the ship came to him. Hello Rashid.

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himself went to the chef and asked him Is it you who gave the fatwa to my wife today? He said yes. Because you don't belong to you mister. This is how rulers spoke to rulers those days today

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that there

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Masashi belongs to Whoa.

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So even if you build it 100% the whole finance of the land, electricity, sewer, everything you did, is still alive.

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You should thank Allah because Allah chose you to be in the masjid for him. So he will give you Jana Yama, Yama, Do you want more? You say my message?

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All My Sons? Go and inquire and look, he said has said to me didn't say yes. So let's see the difference between the work.

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what's the difference?

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Look, look at me here. The difference is this look.

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is not

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yo what is now.

01:16:20--> 01:16:21


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between a dot and no dot, the meaning completely changes. Arabic is very, is the is the number one language in the world.

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What's the difference? Chef that has sauce brothers and sisters, that has sauce is to enquire. You're still in Pakistan.

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You still talking about Pakistan?

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Pakistan, we finish

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and was here. What do you have with Pakistan? You're not even Pakistani.

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You Bangladesh.

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Bangladesh, Pakistan.

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Look, some people feel insulted when I tell them you are from Pakistan, Bangladesh. Do you feel offended? If I tell you I from Bangladesh, one day, one day I did this to Pakistani. I said your country Bangladesh is very nice. So no, I'm not from Bangladesh.

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if I do that to one of the sisters sister, your country, Indonesia is very poor. I'm sorry. I'm not by Indonesian and Malaysian. Why why you feel because injection that afar have put in us, Bangladesh, Pakistan, India,

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Nigeria, Morocco, this is nonsense. We are all from Ghana. And we are all the children of the same father and mother remember this? And we go back to Ghana.

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Sometimes just you see Are you from Bangladesh or Pakistan? As if to be positive about knowledge is something that no.

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No. So please do not feel offended when someone tell you the truth.

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One day we talk about Pakistan, the existence of Pakistan and why the West allowed Pakistan to be born

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like a bear.

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I have no problem with that. I'm very proud that hamdulillah we have Pakistan but please understand why India why Britain allowed and the world didn't say nothing.

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There is something there is something deep

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doesn't mean but Pakistan has been Pakistan was what Pakistan and Bangladesh then Now see,

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now Jammu Kashmir they are working on Kashmir now.

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They move to Article 370

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which does not allow Hindus to build to buy land in fact now they're gonna

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see they're dividing us again and again if we should not if we are not paying attention, we are one oma

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one oma, we belong to one oma La ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasul Allah.

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Saudis proud of being Cerro de, if you tell him Are you from Qatar, uno, de la, I'm from Saudi Arabia.

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You know what I mean? As if you insulted him if you tell him and you tell him utter utter bs Richard now then Saudi Arabia back there.

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You know, it's this big problem, big problem. While Allah says you are one must think like one Omar.

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May Allah forgive us? Yes, yes, I'm coming back. That's why, but when when they talk, they bring me back to Oban, Pakistan.

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How was the lecture with

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Jeff Avalon?

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He told you about future.

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It's true. Yeah, I didn't say it's not true. I just said Did he tell you about the future? Yes. Yeah.

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What is he living? Well?

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He's in Malaysia. No, no, he's

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one wife and one. Martial Law.

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No, I have only one and I don't want to die. Check it now.

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His wife is on Julian

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and his wife How old? Oh, yeah. Second one.

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Very young 1825 2525 and up you're not young anymore. Like they're not old. But you are not very young young.

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You said very young. May Allah forgive you.

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You're confusing me. Okay.

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That says Oh, look at it. Look at the difference between

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a window that says is to inquire meaning your knee is good. Just to snow, your knee is not good. your spine?

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is to inquire.

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And when we inquire your knee is good. I mean, when when is my brother.

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But when you put the dot it's no more inquiry. It is it is spine. And when you spy Of course, you have a very bad intention.

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Pamela one dot difference. So he said All My Children go and look for

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inquire for your brother. Try to find information.

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So you see the difference from use of or about yourself and his brother. While I assume you know him and never give up. Look, he's teaching his children something Allah has given him which is never give up hope of Allah mercy.

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Brother brothers and sisters. Do you know if you if you give up on Allah have mercy on us. He will not show you mercy. Allah is exactly as you think of it. I repeat. If you think God about Allah, then you find him good.

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If you think that I don't think Allah will forgive me. What I did was bad. I don't uh, he will not he will tell you because you thought of me that then you get it? That's why I always think yada yada. I know. You will forgive us all your monkey Emma. I know. Me and my family and this and this and it's like that. So he said to them do not give up the The what?

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Don't worry about hora in the whole a lot of hidden if you don't know the moment you lose hope in Allah you are normal Muslim you become what cafe? Look at the ayah Don't look at me look at the I certainly no one despairs of Allah's mercy except the people who have been

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so losing hope in a loss mercy equals this belief.

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That's why a Muslim should never give up hope on Allah Yara. I know one day you will guide me only on one day you will

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Don't lose hope brothers in Allah is so merciful.

01:24:05--> 01:24:16

He is so merciful, that he left 99% of His mercy for Yama pm I remember this the mercy that is on dunia is just 1%

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when the mother gives birth to her baby and gets up 10 times more sometimes at night, when somebody gives his kidney to his son or to his mother or to her husband or to his wife. When someone comes down from his car and feed somebody a cat, when when when when when when all this drama that is on earth is 1% 99% is left for you to the extent shaytan SLM

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shaitan hada Salah

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shaitan Nana Hola. Hola. Hey, we make mistake.

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Do you think this mistake is like how

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Out of the Allahu anhu Hamza, do you know what he said? Alia Abu Mata

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he was drunk. He said,

01:25:09--> 01:25:11

Oh caffeine, I worship what you wish

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he was drunk.

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He did a minute, sometimes this, do you know? Do you know there is a there is a threshold last I said the most amazing thing he said is this man who slept in the desert. When he woke up his camel got lost. He tied it. Then when he slept like this when he opened his eyes, he looked for his company and find it and all of his food and water is on the camera. And he's in the desert. Oh my god, he looked around 360 degrees in in finding. So he said he was going to die. So he went under the tree and slept and wait for death. That's it. What do I find water in this? Suddenly

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as he fainted, started dying. He opened his eyes. The camel came back with water out of happiness. What did he say? Oh God, you are my slave. And I am your God.

01:26:15--> 01:26:23

Out of happiness, instead of say God Allah or Allah, you are my god and I'm your slave. He said the other way around

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and told the Sahaba Allah will not hold these men accountable for the mistake he's made. He was excited.

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I am excited you bring Pakistan is you

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need to stay

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so shavon LAN hola me Alex here

01:26:46--> 01:26:56

shaytan if you say if shaytan if you say million family Sara mala will never give him send them okay. Trey Tony's curse us done.

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shaitan May Allah curse him. What does he say Yama pm on he says Allah forgiving, forgiving. He says Yara

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Allah says

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he will be so amazed at how many people are looking for.

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But apply you have to feel the application what is the application Islam Eman Shahada five daily prayers I sing Ramadan didn't intend allow it forgive you but you want to just go What?

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You give your your your your exam paper blank. You want a plus

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f plus fire?

01:27:44--> 01:27:45

Me died.

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So he said go and inquire on your brother. And he's on yourself and his brother. And look well at a minimum. Do not despair. He said go do and don't look do and don't. How many of us talk to our children like this. Do this Don't do this.

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You have to even tell the children what not to do.

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Bring me this don't bring me this. You may tell your son go get me for example my bed. He may bring your own back in front of people. Bring this not this.

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So you have to be clear also in your commandments.

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do's and don'ts many of you don't say no. I have seen many brothers here. Even in this class. You I never saw you saying no to your children. I saw you use the word no.

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Even your wife No.

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Like a bear. Look at her look at that. Like already about to die. Say No. What do you say? Yes she will be so happy.

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handbag back? Yes. hands back. Yes. Yes. Yes.

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What do you do with those hand bags that you allow your women to buy?

01:29:09--> 01:29:11

investment share investment investment.

01:29:16--> 01:29:22

Yo brothers some of you have problem with cars. Any car you see you want to buy back there?

01:29:24--> 01:29:24

A lot what do you

01:29:29--> 01:29:30

what is it?

01:29:34--> 01:29:36

If you are brave enough, go ahead.

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All of you, yo you put him in trouble and pull back?

01:29:42--> 01:29:45

Yala keys here they are here listening.

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sharpening the knives are all sharp these few days like they have

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today Mashallah. May Allah reward the brother He brought me knows I love knives. He brought me a knife.

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Man I was like getting cheap like like you cut the no like you cut the butter

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the knife was

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is like a razor razor

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I just want Mashallah back there

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that's how you slaughter when you slaughter the knife has to be if you do this and it be no it means the bed you have to one time even the bone did I send you that video of a bone?

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Did I send you the video about the bull?

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Mashallah, how a person one

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I send it to one on you brothers commands already Mashallah chef, like beer, I will send it see the difference between how islamically you kill and how culturally you kill. The Nia is good, but the knife is not ready and there is technique also, there is a technique that's why our children if if they're not exposed now to bed

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at eight sister

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brother as housewife. Yes. Yeah.

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Allahu Akbar. Look at

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this is yourself when he was thrown in there. Well, look now

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he comes here.

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They weren't here when they throw him. Now Now they are here. They come back to him. Oh, oh as his as his means. Leader.

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Oh, ruler of the land. Leader of the land. padmasana why

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would you not be back Dhabi magette Kayla what Assad Alena Allahu Akbar. Look they sada they are begging. See, never put down anyone. One day that person could be on top of you and you'll be begging him. At least for forgiveness. At least Please forgive me. Why? Why you why you're on someone to be sitting in his feet now and asking him or her to forgive you. You should not have done injustice from day one.

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Okay, fine, Amanda. Hello LA. Then when they entered to him to use of a celeb. They said all ruler of the land. a hard time has hit us and our family because they are Bedouins. So definitely. People in the company suffer more than people in the city. And we have brought but poor capital. We don't have much money. So pay us full measure. Please give us the grains, the food that we need. And be charitable to us. Please be generous to us. Truly, Allah does reward the charity.

01:33:15--> 01:33:27

God will pay you so much. If you are charitable to ask please. We are really hurt. But did they go and ask for yourself and his brother or they're asking for food?

01:33:29--> 01:33:36

Did you see? The father says go look for your brother and use or use of his brother. What they are looking for?

01:33:40--> 01:33:42

Dunia penninsula, if

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you see the point.

01:33:47--> 01:33:50

I am telling you go and look for you. So they'll go into the portfolio.

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Some people like this. Some people will tell them brother, their mind is dounia.

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Tanya, Tanya, how many how much dunya.

01:34:05--> 01:34:07

Now he's going to shock them.

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Sister Ida Go ahead.

01:34:11--> 01:34:26

Now he's going to shock them. He's going to reveal himself. Look, because they reach the lowest point they are begging please give us food and a lot more immoral look like hypocrisy, and the Lord loves the charity.

01:34:27--> 01:34:28

He knows the charity but

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he doesn't love those who make a rift between father and son

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who hurt their brothers. And you know what is more painful brothers and sisters is that sometimes your best friends betray you

01:34:44--> 01:34:46

and your enemies save your life.

01:34:47--> 01:34:50

Do you know that your enemies rescue you

01:34:52--> 01:34:59

that they put you in ICU to revive you and who? Who will put that poison in your honey

01:35:00--> 01:35:01

Sometimes best friends.

01:35:03--> 01:35:11

You thought they were best. That's the mistake you do. And that's why when I hear you talking by friends, I smack you next time do you?

01:35:13--> 01:35:16

I do. I have special smacking over.

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Because one thing we hear today, my friends, my friends, I have so many friends. When your son say I have so many friends we came up

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there is no friend, your best friend is your father and mother. Remember this

01:35:34--> 01:35:42

because they love you unconditionally. Your friends love you because you make you they are gaining something from you.

01:35:44--> 01:35:48

Either you make them feel important because you are our son of someone.

01:35:49--> 01:35:50

You have to learn that

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or they give you something or they share with you food or a bicycle or a car or I don't know what they your friends support friends. is no friend, real friend, his father and mother remember this?

01:36:11--> 01:36:21

Isn't that what you are telling your children or not? Or you want me maybe you are saying to me? Some of you say like thank you Shay. You better

01:36:23--> 01:36:25

I have strong ESP Don't worry like me.

01:36:30--> 01:36:34

And your best friend is your pocket. If your pocket is empty by by

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like bear

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the sink when your pocket is empty people will just come and put some money like this.

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girl's there is no friend. Your best friend is your sister. Love her and have her

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share. Oh, who's mine? Oh, who should I love more? My friend? Or my brother? Let me tell you. The best friend.

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Is this is a friend who considers you brother. And the best brother is the brother who treats you like family? Because some brothers

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give me give me your pinky.

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All they know is this.

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No no really bonding that on.

01:37:27--> 01:37:30

And maybe you call you call your brother. Oh man, where are you?

01:37:31--> 01:37:32

Oh, what's wrong with you?

01:37:34--> 01:37:39

Okay, see you later tomorrow. Call your friend. Your best friend. Hello. He was

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he was gone.

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Okay, that was something ESP. ESP? Not ESPN, like bear.

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what did he say? Let's see sister either.

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Now what did he say about Eva? Did you know what you have done to yourself and his brother? Or were you ignorant?

01:38:14--> 01:38:16

What indirectly What is he saying?

01:38:17--> 01:38:21

I am useful. Indirectly he saying I am yourself.

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He said did you know what you have done to yourself?

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Because that's the question the question is not food The question is you have to look for use of and his brother because Allah Spanner to Allah send the engine to tell yourself at a setup that your father is looking for you. So meaning he had prior knowledge, but instead of them looking for you, so instead of coming to the ruler and say, sir, we have a brother that we lost long time ago. His name is Yusuf would you help us

01:38:50--> 01:38:53

to find him? Right or wrong? Are you with me or not?

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Or her last time 10 o'clock your mind claws.

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Go to the kitchen.

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No food tonight.

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The easy 1123

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Oh, don't sit with them.

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Next time. Come sit with me. Like they have

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you something you don't understand. happened last Friday.

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But good students. They made me proud.

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Because they paid Don't let the guy pay. Yes, that's my students that may or may Allah reward whoever paid. He told me someone paid me a lot. He wanted him abundantly. Sam in

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the story. I went to a restaurant I found the group of you eating. They asked me to come I said no. No

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I'm invited and Mashallah they were good, good to pay for our food. May Allah feed them in Jelena Sammy.

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The question is dance, they should come and say, sir, because that is more important than food. And that's exactly what their father asked them to do.

01:40:18--> 01:40:21

So Yusuf Ali Salim somehow knew from Allah Xhosa.

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So that's why he ridiculed them, you

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know, they're talking about salata. No, okay, no problem, what they are saying is true. Okay, finish finish the question. So

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not only that, not only that, okay, they're playing the model, you know, they are the you are model. You are doing terrible things to your father and brother and you you playing the model. Now, some people like this, they are the worst, but they play. They pretend to be nice. They pretend to be religious, they are not.

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There are people like this.

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And there are no Subhanallah

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at least honest.

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Careful, anyway.

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So he got like upset because they know he knew from Allah that they should be looking for yourself. So if they came and said, Sir, we have a problem. We have an old father. And we lost already one brother. And now we lost our young brother who you said he has stolen something. Would you please help us find use of and there is our brother when he I mean, because he's the youngest and he's just younger kid. You know what I mean? At least? Yeah, they don't even do that. They're talking about Mark Can

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you imagine you set you send your son for a very important thing. Tell him and your son is not smaller. I'm talking about 2020 and if you find him sitting with his friends, no matter what you told him to quickly get me this It's urgent.

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How do you see that side? Now?

01:42:07--> 01:42:07

How do you

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imagine I sent one of you Please brother urgent and I say urgent. You go sit somewhere have a cup of coffee furs or tea? Then I find you that say it was urgent man Allison

01:42:25--> 01:42:28

frost no more from the list

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that beer

01:42:34--> 01:42:41

and substances when you tell them urgence online version they take it literally somebody just registered the urgent as if you're telling that

01:42:43--> 01:42:45

ghostly sleep back there

01:42:47--> 01:42:49

some brothers what can we do

01:42:53--> 01:42:57

now they have shot again sister Eva

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01:43:01--> 01:43:03

90 now

01:43:04--> 01:43:07

if he if he mentioned yourself

01:43:08--> 01:43:09

What does that mean?

01:43:10--> 01:43:12

You don't need you don't need

01:43:13--> 01:43:19

I don't know what if if what did Do you remember what you did you yourself and his brother

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meaning they were not also nice to Binyamin when use of and Binyamin work together so he's reminding them what they used to do even at home and he gave full of the bullying of children to their brothers or not don't allow that as father you cannot let a son bully another one. You cannot let that happen. A sister bullying another one

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disrespecting her

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as father you have to stop that

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even if you have to rotten all of them

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including their mother if she comes with them that Khmer

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was the worst going to happen

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01:44:05--> 01:44:09

you go to another state and then he remarried tech bear.

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look at them. Look at them some brothers smiling. So I'm already tackled. You'd like shade anyway. Yellow Yellow sister.

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Ah, Okay, very good. We ended with this verse. They said, Are you induce of

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because he said to them

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What was the hints he gave them? Remember the first hint they didn't get it?

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no no the first hint he

01:45:09--> 01:45:09

bring me

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Your brother from very good. Martial Law is a duck bear goods to that well done a plus back there.

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He almost got it wrong.

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01:45:26--> 01:45:27

but he still remember I

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remember when he told them bring me a brother of yours from your father? That should be the How did he know? How did he know that? Ah, okay this time No, directly.

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He said look, hell alum tone Marfa alto because of what he is Antonia hidden. Do you remember what you have done to yourself and his brother?

01:45:54--> 01:45:56

When you were ignorant,

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immature here man immature here. Not immature in their body, their body. They have big bodies, but here and here. Spiritual immaturity, I call it

01:46:09--> 01:46:11

there are people spiritually immature.

01:46:14--> 01:46:17

Like I've been 17 years old, behaving like a teenager

01:46:19--> 01:46:22

what is the spiritual immature maturity? What is it?

01:46:24--> 01:46:26

16 years old still?

01:46:28--> 01:46:29

Where we're putting Where?

01:46:30--> 01:46:33

lipstick? lipstick for your poor husband?

01:46:34--> 01:46:38

That mare? Sorry, this the truth.

01:46:41--> 01:46:49

She is very old. And she has nailed that nail what's called that? That thing you put on? And you look like Dracula? what's called

01:46:51--> 01:46:52


01:46:53--> 01:46:56

calorie and calorie? Yeah.

01:46:57--> 01:47:03

You know sisters, your widow is not accepted if you do that. Because it's it's like

01:47:05--> 01:47:16

yeah, it's a layer, your window is is inacceptable. And therefore your salad is not. If the window has problem, that the salad also has problem.

01:47:17--> 01:47:18

And you looked at your

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01:47:27--> 01:47:31

May Allah forgive. Still still some of you love yourself more than you love Allah.

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Some ladies still love themselves more than they love. You just pretend you love Allah because if you truly love Allah, you give up things for him.

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Allah I love you so much You commanded me to cover I will.

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Not just were coming to share today's class.

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01:47:56--> 01:48:07

last area for tonight is this. They said indeed you are use of halus You must be yourself. Because you don't know a lot about us. What did he say?

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Yes, I am useful. You know, imagine imagine, look, look, yes, I am yourself.

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You must be yourself. Are you yourself? Yes, I am using what have that. And this is my breath.

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Why? He said he's my breath. Because he never hurt him. A true brother doesn't hurt his brother. Please understand this.

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No matter what.

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There are brothers now going and talking bad about their own brothers.

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talking bad, gossiping.

01:48:47--> 01:48:50

He did this to me. She did this to me. He did this to me.

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And Allah knows everything. Allah has the file of everyone. Don't worry about it.

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And when you go people, let me tell you this when you go talk bad about someone very close to you, like your brother or sister. People are smart. You know, maybe people first supersize with you a second time. They were not because they said Look, he's very bad. He's talking about his own brother. So tomorrow. I'm not I'm not his brother. So he will talk about me. Do you understand?

01:49:20--> 01:49:30

That's why also some sisters May Allah guide them when they complain about their husbands. Shay, you know shaytan that's my husband.

01:49:34--> 01:49:38

This is a men who have babies with your system. This is how you speak about him.

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You should say

01:49:42--> 01:49:44

I'm not happy in my marriage.

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But not

01:49:47--> 01:49:49

something you know.

01:49:50--> 01:49:51

Well, let us see the

01:49:52--> 01:49:55

same thing. Some brothers talk very bad about their wives.

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She is she is this Yahoo. You don't like her? Let her go.

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don't like her don't speak. Send her with a lot of gifts.

01:50:05--> 01:50:10

Let her realize who did she Miss? Who did she? Those?

01:50:12--> 01:50:13

Do not talk them but people.

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They do believe in justice. Allah justice, then let's allow the hand

01:50:22--> 01:50:27

Why not? They miss true. Yeah, I trust you. I know you are the judge, you will see

01:50:28--> 01:50:32

whoever is digging a hole for you he will fall into it. Remember that?

01:50:34--> 01:50:35

Because he forgets Where did he

01:50:37--> 01:50:39

get? One day he was

01:50:40--> 01:50:41

on into it.

01:50:42--> 01:50:55

So what did you say Anna? Yosef? Yes, I am. Yes, if he didn't align, you say no, no, maybe No, no, no. I am your phallus. The truth has come now. And I use of what has actually this is my brother because he never hurt me.

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So real brother doesn't hurt his brother. Remember this? other men Allahu Allah Subhana Allah. He did not brag about himself being the king. The being this being the ruler. Look what he said. He said, Allah has indeed been gracious to us, meaning me and you and me. Because we didn't fall in into what you did. What you did was big. You cause our father pain. Brothers and sisters, please think about before you do something, think first. Say this thing I'm going to do is it's going to cause like the the softball brothers want to marry another one thing? Is it going to destroy my marriage?

01:51:38--> 01:51:41

I have already a wife and children. If I add another one.

01:51:44--> 01:51:45

Do you think the first one we'd be happy?

01:51:48--> 01:51:54

So while you do something that things like that, please pay attention pay attention while it is true.

01:51:59--> 01:52:03

think maybe Okay. Okay. But oh, wait a minute.

01:52:04--> 01:52:08

My daughter's my children. It is my sons, my business, my reputation.

01:52:09--> 01:52:11

You have to consider these things.

01:52:15--> 01:52:21

So I'm yours. May Allah I tell you now so that you don't fall into that? share her?

01:52:22--> 01:52:28

he felt he falls in love with a divorcee older than him. Do you think his mother will be happy?

01:52:33--> 01:52:41

You you you when you want your son to marry? Do you want him to marry an older woman? Already with three four or five years older than him?

01:52:43--> 01:52:58

Or you want him to see him with a bright Mashallah younger than him close to his age habit right or wrong? I'm talking from my experience, because this is what I do on a daily basis. That's why you see me sometimes saying those words back there.

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Mary, so think about your mother first and your father. Are they going to be pleased with Kiska?

01:53:12--> 01:53:21

Do do I take their blessings? Or just no it's all about me. I fell in love. They have to kick kick him out from here until Indonesia

01:53:24--> 01:53:25

if he does that,

01:53:28--> 01:53:35

and parents have right to choose for you. How about that? Young man? Listen, now young boys and girls. Do you know your father has the right to choose for you?

01:53:38--> 01:53:51

Not to force you. He has the right to say my daughter. I think this boy is good for you. And you should say that may I want to reward you. Let me see who is this person? Maybe some common law maybe he's bringing you

01:53:54--> 01:53:59

your mother also. Ah, this is serious. Boys and girls both

01:54:00--> 01:54:10

see consider if then talk to your father and mother say mom maybe you are shy of your dad you talk to your mom. I don't think

01:54:11--> 01:54:21

you go cook everything chinta in Australia Cheetah in Paris chinta in were now in Taiwan. Yes the latest ah Pakistan

01:54:29--> 01:54:31

No, no no serious drama

01:54:34--> 01:54:40

Istanbul Istanbul Yes. Thank you Who said that? Thank you. Yeah, yeah, Istanbul

01:54:42--> 01:54:44

why there is not in time compound here.

01:54:47--> 01:54:53

Compound compound compound on the only gorilla gorilla against communist Pac Man.

01:54:55--> 01:54:56

No, no serious.

01:54:58--> 01:54:59

Parents have the right to suggest

01:55:00--> 01:55:02

a bride or groom for their children

01:55:04--> 01:55:13

but not for them you cannot force them to marry if they don't. But it's your right as father mother to say my son I think this family is good for you this girl

01:55:15--> 01:55:17

and the good son will say that you know better

01:55:19--> 01:55:26

Yes, put it that way tomorrow there is problem that this was your choice back there

01:55:27--> 01:55:28

that Khmer

01:55:32--> 01:55:37

followship superior be happy. No, these children there is this

01:55:40--> 01:55:44

Salahuddin What's going on? You thinking like

01:55:45--> 01:55:47

I'm gonna say of Egypt?

01:55:48--> 01:55:49

You think England?

01:55:51--> 01:55:53

No, no serious. My brothers and sisters.

01:55:54--> 01:56:00

Since we are talking about father and son, and how you have answered these brothers, yes.

01:56:01--> 01:56:04

Another thing so you cannot just marry someone.

01:56:05--> 01:56:09

You have to make sure your parents will be okay with that person to

01:56:10--> 01:56:10


01:56:13--> 01:56:13


01:56:15--> 01:56:18

Some of you have teenagers I have to say this now.

01:56:21--> 01:56:23

And some of you are about to enter the grave.

01:56:24--> 01:56:29

Including me that Mayor? Yeah, we should remember this every night every day.

01:56:31--> 01:56:36

of us already planning for 2000 30,030

01:56:37--> 01:56:38

that may or

01:56:40--> 01:56:47

may Allah have mercy on all of us. So he said Allah Yosef Yes, it's me. I am.

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01:56:49--> 01:57:04

What have this is my credit. Indirectly You are not my brother's because look what you have done. Look what you caused. But so Pamela, he did not mention the past. Something about you. So he did not mention the past at all.

01:57:06--> 01:57:06

You and me.

01:57:08--> 01:57:10

Ah, you and me.

01:57:11--> 01:57:12

What do we do?

01:57:14--> 01:57:17

Fight Fight with your wife and see what files you would bring

01:57:21--> 01:57:23


01:57:27--> 01:57:29

World War Two. The

01:57:34--> 01:57:34

problem with

01:57:44--> 01:57:47

that was 1969 you still remember that? But

01:57:49--> 01:58:21

some of us are like that. We always bring the past as true. He did not. He just said look what he said. He said Allah indeed has been gracious to us to me and my brother. Verily, He who feels a lot and this is all for all of us. including you and me look. Verily he who feels Allah taqwa and may yet that he was there and has patience. He will feels a lot doesn't permit haram because he was he was tempted many times

01:58:22--> 01:58:26

and now he is in brother's house and all the money is in his hand.

01:58:29--> 01:58:32

Look when you are gold when you are made of gold you always say gold

01:58:34--> 01:58:38

when you are made of copper you shine only little and then you turn into

01:58:40--> 01:58:51

use of a celeb whether he was in the house of the master with an almost naked woman. Other women came and tempted him and all the quantities

01:58:53--> 01:59:10

then listen he's in jail. What do you say to the to the to image What did I tell him? What did I tell him? No. No, we see you're good man. Good Good. People are always good. They don't change no matter what.

01:59:12--> 01:59:21

Because there they are made of goodness. There are people spawn like good. And they mean good. And they live good. And they like these are the people you should look for. Let's

01:59:23--> 01:59:53

try to see doesn't mean they are perfect. Nobody's perfect. But you see them always trying to do good. Being with the good, speaking good. You know what I mean? These people these are the people you look for to marry from. If you find if you find a family that all their life is around the dean about doing good about helping about feeding about about refugees, these are the people you stick tie to Don't let them go from your life no matter what.

01:59:54--> 01:59:59

Because you will you will not find better than so use of was already good news.

02:00:00--> 02:00:06

Matter What happened to him, not only where he is on high position now he becomes good now.

02:00:08--> 02:00:36

He reminded his brothers, that he who feels a lot and has look subpar to things taqwa and southern. You may have Taqwa but you don't have Southern you may have suffered but not upon these two, please hold that fear on law, stay away from heroin and be patient. In sha Allah, Allah will will will get you out from any trouble in the law you live in use of Allah said I've said then Allah azza wa jal surely

02:00:38--> 02:00:52

will not make the reward of the mercy known. Go lost. He will not make it loss. The agile of the moisten will be given to him just be might be good. At the end, Allah will pay you good

02:00:53--> 02:01:29

health as well as any inland San surratt Rahman Allah says, isn't the reward of a sand but isn't too good. You're gonna get good. So use of La Salaam sisters and brothers was tempted. I'm tempted I'm tempted. I'm tempted. He never changed. The amazing thing in this surah that really bothered me this panel makes me think bothers my mind positively to think if he never mentioned the past, which is difficult to do. When people hurt you. You always say but you did this to me. You said this to me. You broke my heart. You cheated on me. Bah bah, bah, bah. No, they didn't go to the past.

02:01:31--> 02:01:50

He did not mention the past at all. You will see later on when he when his father and and the stepmother and the family all come when they all come. He will not even mention what his brothers did to him. Amazing. Amazing. Why? Why why you shouldn't mention bad things. That happened bad

02:01:51--> 02:01:52

because they had nothing but

02:01:54--> 02:01:58

a blood pressure. Sugar. Salt.

02:01:59--> 02:02:31

Julius, that's why brothers when someone comes to tell you something bad 13 Brothers, please keep it with you. Hey, Chef, do you want me to tell you what people are saying about you? No. No. Number one say no to the alarm if someone came to him and said Yes, ma'am. Shall I shall I tell you what so and so he said he said no. I don't want to hate a Muslim for you know when you tell me I'm a human I can get you know I don't want to hate any Muslims panel one on one. How pure he was number two

02:02:33--> 02:02:34

who incented you

02:02:36--> 02:02:49

who is Allah do the one who brought you the insult because you didn't hear it from the other guy right? He was kind enough to talk to talk that in your back but who came and told you so and so he said if you say something

02:02:50--> 02:02:52

if you are real man, you should have stopped in there

02:02:54--> 02:02:59

you understand somebody's talking bad about your best friend if you're really good friend you stop him

02:03:03--> 02:03:06

so whoever brings you bad news about you actually he's in settings

02:03:09--> 02:03:09

that may or

02:03:13--> 02:03:16

may Allah protect you protect us all.

02:03:17--> 02:03:28

So we will see that amazing sorta keeps teaching us other values is too high. He's too high morally so he doesn't want to leave the palace. Because we cannot change it what past past

02:03:29--> 02:03:32

what has happened has happened? Now look forward.

02:03:33--> 02:03:41

You know some of us this is how they live their life. Okay. Imagine you driving where your eye should be wet.

02:03:46--> 02:03:50

Or you keep looking only at the rear mirror. Instead of looking at

02:03:54--> 02:03:56

past you just look at the past at the past at the best.

02:03:58--> 02:04:05

Look forward brothers, whatever past past. May Allah give you a long life. Whoever has birthday today back there

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and celebrating birthdays better.

02:04:10--> 02:04:14

Stop cakes. Don't break eggs here and say no chef this cake.

02:04:15--> 02:04:21

And next time Don't tell me. Tell us just tell me somebody has reached this age. We make it to

02:04:24--> 02:04:27

CBS Ed, I'm aghast sometimes you tell me Shut up

02:04:34--> 02:04:36

ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasul.

02:04:40--> 02:04:50

Celebrating birthday is not sadhana is not enough Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, nor the Sahaba Sal Uppsala never celebrated any anybody's birthday.

02:04:51--> 02:04:59

So when you are 16 or 20, or 22, or whatever your age is, wish God for the person and that's it. Make dua for him or her

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That's it. May Allah give Long live we are lucky to have Baraka

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cake to increase our blood sugar

02:05:12--> 02:05:12

Muslim you

02:05:14--> 02:05:16

know anniversary anniversary for marriage

02:05:18--> 02:05:19

You should cry

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You want me to tell the truth

02:05:30--> 02:05:32

I've been at enough adonia has an office

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Baraka make this house full of Baraka and sha Allah on my brothers will go happy male accept your aid will add half your Porter ban, your salad aid your your fasting of the day of alpha and mean I mean it has an eye

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Have any anyone who brings the food May Allah feed him Indonesian after any sister who also bring something in her hand when she comes on

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board that also the servants that the brothers who clean May Allah bless them, give them good health. And whoever brings food here in this house, May Allah give him Baraka in his wealth, in his health, in his mind, and in his children, or her children, amin Allah