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Salam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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hamdulillah I will be leaving the ship on rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam O Allah say you know Maulana Muhammad Ali he was married officially sorry way silly Emily Hello Dr. Melissa Leo. Howdy alarm have obtained within our limits that we are Vladimir Allahumma or Sapna hubba hubba

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hubba puranic wa persona Tina B Yama grant us your love the love to your book and the love to your Prophet and his son. I mean, yeah, bless us with the this glass open for us the dose of understanding that the seer of surah use use of I mean

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hamdulillah we continue by the brothers and sisters we are in verse 23. Everybody saw that Yusuf alayhi salam,

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if you have your must have with you, please open if not, then use your cell phone.

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Use yourself surah Yusuf Ali Salim

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verse 23

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Just follow me as much as you can Sharla I also believe hamina show you on you're watching

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wah wah that whole Let's see who IV

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wah wah that lathi Oh, Effie, bye at

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FIBA at

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one one law port in Abu Dhabi.

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white ball at

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white ball at black

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ball

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in warabi.

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In warabi,

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in Walla, yo, label Ali more

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in

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the moon.

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Very good. We go one by one. What if we did, and then we do Sharma like that. Even those who come late will benefit from the citation. There is only one way to improve your citation is to practice and follow someone

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on your own you cannot do it. The Quran is a book that was revealed through angegebene even though sola Sai Salaam has to hear it.

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Allah could have said it straight to his heart. No, he has to hear it.

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So a shave will read for his students then the student will hear back lists read for the ship, the chef approves.

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For admins, the book that must be read from the word torah. So a book that must be heard. There is no other way. You must sit with someone read for him or her and then they say okay, correct.

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or hear them like I do. And then that's how you improve with time you quickly improve inshallah.

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Alright, verse 23.

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We saw last week that Alhamdulillah Allah saved use of ally center, and men bought him.

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It happened that that man was a very rich man.

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Very, very rich man. And he was

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a minister, meaning he was a man of power in the Egyptian society.

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He offered him to his wife because they didn't have children

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to make her happy. And last week, I emphasized on a very important term that the poor and uses

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the difference between wife and woman have

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Wife off. And woman, a wife, a four

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word wife

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and uses the word for the word wife. It is soldier,

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soldier,

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soldier.

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But wonder for anuzis woman, the woman of

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us in Morocco.

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This means and happy. This means so the Quran is the Arabic is so specific that from the word in English you don't know

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in Arabic enough. So for a happy couple we call that result. And Xhosa

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and happy couple we call the module in Morocco

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a man or woman getting together no love between them. They're not really happy.

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Some soldier that is happiness.

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So

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the core and said he gave him he gave, he gave the child to his Imola

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which indicates to the ruler of the fear that that woman was not happy simply because she didn't have children.

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That's why one of the things that make happy couples is to have children

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and grandchildren even make you happier as grandpa or grandma.

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That's why those couples who delay having babies around definitely wrong.

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When you get married, try to have babies first year

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that cements the relationship even when there is problem between husband and wife. Sometimes they forget and forgive and make sacrifices just because of the children.

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Right.

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Okay. So,

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that is we already have seen that so no need to come back. But I just wanted to do to remind you with that, and also for the brothers and sisters who are not here. We will see this with us as we do.

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We will see the word Emma is used for an unhappy cabin, even when they seem happy.

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A lot Allah knows the heart.

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Even when people think this couple is very happy. Allah knows who is happy who is not.

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So the poor and even for know, he used a certain he used one minute or two because she was not a good wife.

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And his wife,

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his woman

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so Xhosa. We say it when someone is really happy. In her marriage we call her soldier.

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All right. So now he offered that tries to have to make her happy, because he couldn't conceive he could. The problem was him. He couldn't have babies.

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So she was happy, very happy.

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But problems started later on. As use of La Silla reached the age of puberty when he reached the age of puberty. He became more handsome and stronger in his body. And Allah gave him two things that he will give to any one of us. If we are missing. The Quran said walk as elegant as he was in it. If you follow the path of masini Allah will give you what he gave the use of Allah sent him What is it? l and hokum,

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element Hecuba knowledge. And hikma and I think all of you here are my sin.

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Otherwise Allah wouldn't give you this knowledge. This knowledge is not given to anyone. There are people paying money and then they cannot. It's not going to work.

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This knowledge of the deen and being a student of knowledge like all of you is not given to anyone it stole from Allah.

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Remember that?

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Okay, hamdulillah

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What did she do now? Verse 23. Let's see after she saw this boy is no more a boy. He's a man now.

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She's married woman. We're going to draw many lessons from this page that we are going to do Charla tonight in depth.

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Let's see. One of the brothers read

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about a fake father have to read the English.

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He closed

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house.

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He

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was shocked to see

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yes.

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I see confusion.

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He said you Come on, she said the doors

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very good. Are you reading Shakespeare or Shenzhou best English?

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I advise you to have this book. Honestly, what is this book? This book is where Mohammed bin Ali lady and Mohammed said,

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This stuff's here. If you can have it please do not necessarily the same volume I mean, the same could be small. Because it's simple English and it has that Tafseer of email of nobody and mmm even Cathy with whom we talk about first lecture, remember?

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Okay, okay, yeah, let's do it again.

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And she was house he was the one

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she closed the doors and said, Come you he said our future

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He is my master with me. Good my residents. Indeed.

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Very variable.

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Allah summarize the whole episode. In one area.

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We can make a movie about this episode one hour.

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The woman look what happened. This is why no man should be in halwa with another woman.

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Not because the boy or the girl. It's because of the third the third the shaytan.

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Okay, hamdulillah this man was prophet if he was not prophet definitely would have sin.

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Because it's so easy for shaytan to ignite a fire when there is dynamite and kerosene,

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kerosene and dynamite. Definitely there will be fire and explosion. Does the man and woman no man and woman should stay alone somewhere.

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And what we are what we are hearing in the corporate world. What's happening, especially when they travel. Very sad. I'm very sad. My businesses, married men and women. They are even married now,

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but when they travel.

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So hamdulillah if we go by what Allah and His Messenger taught us, and we will not we will not need Toba.

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We will not need Toba because we don't sin.

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All right. So what did she do? Rwanda to Rwanda to mean she tried to seduce him.

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She didn't try she did it.

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How did she do it?

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Not just verbally first through her dress.

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The Tafseer said she wore only transparent

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so the dress the dress code is very important. That's why we are very strict in Islam about the dress in public.

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Now what did she do she

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anyways,

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she almost undressed herself in front of you.

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One more thing she did she locked all the doors was unlocked in the car and said was

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not unlocked. When you study it. There is the verb amla

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attacks to close to close

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by close the door while you

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look at me when I put step two here is no more closing it sealing you seal the door meaning there is no way to open it from the inside.

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The door can be open only from the outside or the person who locked it.

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Like safe the safe you seal the safe

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door and use the word subdue is on the land pay attention to it. He didn't say whatever Lottie lab

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What else? She said that clearly to him.

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Come on.

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Hey Tilak waka let's hate Allah.

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So she prepared herself. She adorn herself. She put all kinds of perfume.

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She told him everything is locked and she told him

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She invited him verbally.

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What did he say?

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He said Matthew what saved him is

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so if you are put in any situation like this, whether it's the other gender sisters brothers, or money corruption, the first thing you should say our Lula da will save you. If you don't say I will be left or my as Allah, which is saying in Arabic, you may fall into that sin

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because the pressure is so big.

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The pressure is so big and the shape on his beautifying It's okay It's alright. Allah His love for Rahim after all, she came to you it's not you. risky Russia risky is coming for your kids. That was the answer of your daughter two weeks ago when you were saying you're gonna give me reason.

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That's what the shaytan does. May Allah curse him.

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So So Pamela, what did he do sisters and brothers. And this is what we need to teach our children as well.

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Because there is what's called

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an attempt on you.

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So always bring the antidote.

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The greater as Ali, Mohammed lasagna him Allah, what does he say? He says, this is how you fix a problem. When you are tempted. Remember the opposite? Always.

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Doctors when you're sick, what do they give you? antibiotics, antibiotics, you have biotics they give you the antibiotics.

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So always go to the opposite. The opposite of shaytan is mentioning

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that's what you should say.

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My other one because shapefile is telling you that through this person

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what's going on why are you talking like bear

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explain it Shanahan

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asked me. I'm here my brother. That's my job. My job is to answer your questions. I'm here

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It's okay. If you remember how you're already safe

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when the temptation is so big

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you're fine if

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you're a good woman

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It's okay. As long as you say

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you're safe. How about how to be learning the shipper James Pamela stuff La la la la la ropa de la chinata whatever you know, Rita 30 100 whatever for Allah to save you the least masala

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the list last. Now if if the list you don't say I will be led that means your mind is somewhere else

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in the hora p as an MSI. One thing helped him not to fall into sin after mentioning our last name

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and seeking refuge in Allah. Sisters and brothers. What did he do? He remember the favor of his boss on him.

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Monica Santa right there.

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Whoever comes late from now on should should pay dinner next week.

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And dinner I choose the menu not you know cinema and and go home.

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No, the big lobster

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handled lobsters. Pac Man

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and my brothers.

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So please follow me once. The other thing that helped him to not fall into sin. The fact that he did not forget the favor. Her husband did to him. Most of us forget people who do go to us, we forget.

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That's why now also be less some people cheat on their own own bosses. You forget that this man was nice to you. Now you're looking at his wife or his daughter or his money or I don't know what this man was good. That's why surround yourself with

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no easy not easy to find these type of people with people who who truly fit online.

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And there are there are ways of finding those people. Very hard to catch them but then you can detect some of them.

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So he said my Allah, I seek refuge in Allah from the shaytan from you from

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You are telling me

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and please understand the pressure because she was his boss, the wife of his boss. So he remember, he doesn't mean Allah it means my boss,

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your husband, Myra, meaning my master, because the word is not used only for God.

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That's why, what is the Shahada? Allah Allah.

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If we say that

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now, the weather could be mustard. And any man is the pastor of his house.

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You men,

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if you have a family, wife and children, you are the master.

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So here, he told her in a horrible way Your husband is my boss, my master, he was nice to me. How can you? How can I ever think

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to harm him in his honor?

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Mashallah,

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then he reminded her in a hula or on violin, if I do so, if I do anything stupid with you, then I am learning and neither you or me will be safe.

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I'm not going to betray my boss, even when you asked me to do so.

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So what do we learn from here?

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Let me see.

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Okay, good. What else?

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Very good cannot be alone with a woman God. What else even if she's married? That's what we learn, let alone younger, crazy.

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Even when she's married,

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don't say well, she's a married woman. Come on, she's the wife of my boss, no things can happen. What else?

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What else?

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Are you a profit. If this happened to a profit, it can happen. So do not be living in utopia.

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Only in Paradise, there is no sin.

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There, meaning everything is possible.

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ancestors.

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So every sister has the right to be afraid about her husband.

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Not to doubt him, but to be afraid.

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And to me that's, that's love. If a woman really is worried that her husband may slip. That's a good wife. She cares. Don't say, but my wife.

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Yeah, he she. She has happened to us of Arizona, that someone

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did something to him.

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Wanted to make him sin.

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So a married woman, she is married. And still she wanted to do this.

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And she was even higher. So don't expect an invitation of Xena from somebody lower than you. It could be somebody higher than you financially in power.

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Clear?

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Because sometimes we think when people need us, I can buy anyone with my money. No, sometimes it's not the money.

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Sometimes they have more money than you and your family.

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It is just don't put yourself in that situation. And this is why in Islam, the halwa is haram is a sin already. Salah is haram

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even when there is no Xena. The fact that you and another woman who is not related to you at all, are in a private

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place. Private doesn't mean for water. It could be under a tree. That's private.

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You understand?

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It could be in a corner in the restaurant that's private.

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It could be in a club where people play golf.

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People are playing golf and you're playing ping pong.

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Are you fine?

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Yeah my sisters watch them.

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It's not them. It's those ladies after

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their

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watch them

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and tell them I want to go golf clubbing with you today.

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If you see his face turning upside down

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that Isla de Lama back there

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yourself.

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They're

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very good stay away from women and women should stay away from them

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as much as you can.

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Serious, that's the only way

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a prophet and I'm going to read for you the area where she really tempted him. He thought about her because he's human. He's not an angel. Had it not been for Allah to show him something we will see the next day. The reason why I was reading one by one so that to let more brothers come Mashallah so that they benefit from? Because some of you will say, I want to skip the camera, man, I don't know. You should come and read with me that bear.

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So how to avoid that number one, through marriage. You do the same. The same means you protect yourself. You have to be a married man. married woman second. Better that your spouse your hubby most of the time with you.

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Most of the time with you. Wherever you go, especially traveling, she goes with you.

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Unless she has babies to look after or

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very sick or that's different. But if she can travel with you, why not?

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At least if you die she washes you. If he dies

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hallas she's with you. She's not wait for me. I want to say goodbye to my wife. You are in the air. The other part of the world?

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serious. I mean it So Mary hamdulillah. And if you can have your spouse with you, wherever you go take her with you. That's the best. And three, one you cannot never ever say.

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It's okay. No, no, no, no, no, no. No. Okay.

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Even hotel

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you are in

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floor 45 she's in floor one near the reception.

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Not life. I mean, workers die easily they go with you. I don't know why.

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serious, serious, serious problem, big problem in Malaysia

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and other places. Yello ha 24. Any question about this? So these are some of the lessons we learned that please do not put yourself in harm's way.

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Because two things I told you, you are very weak in front

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of women. Men are very weak in front of women and vice versa. And Money Money.

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Money don't say well, I am too pious No.

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If you

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stay away from money or have somebody else with you to sign that you have received this much and you have this was this might be as

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transparent as you can. Yes.

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That's the word

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he's talking through.

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He's not your cousin.

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Our power is not hiding it. Okay. All right. What's the question?

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Look, when a man wants to when a man wants to marry another one, he shouldn't just a fine excuse. That's it.

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me not to

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say I want to marry. That's it. You'll be criticized for few days, few months and that's it.

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But to go and say you won't be the first one especially why you talk like like, like the first one wasn't a good

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visit.

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You have the best mango. Okay.

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So he married another one. Did he tell the first one? Yeah. He told her that. He informed her that he is a man.

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He's a man.

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I have problem with men who marry second and third. They don't care. That's wrong. Say

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No. After marriage. No.

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You

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should say before.

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And I shall hit that next day.

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You should say but you should be like, six continents away.

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Okay, okay. Sisters are very unhappy. I know that sisters don't like this subject, because they are afraid it happens to them. I know that psychology.

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But that was a question a valid question someone married. So I'm saying, Please don't give excuse me don't find excuse

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or give you the right to marry more.

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But tell him fear of law do justice and up to him in the north k de la is Clinton. These people are quite okay. for them is part of that culture, right?

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Anyways, I'm not encouraging that I'm not discouraging that. I'm just saying,

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Let's not please, when whenever someone wants to do that, let him not say, Oh, I did this because the first one is becoming weak or sick, or I need the chef, somebody to remind me, I'm getting old. Just say, Allah allowed me in

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24

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hours, he may not show you on you're watching him.

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Why not bother him today

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in our home in a

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very good one.

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Breathe English,

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and with passion, desire and desire, but that he saw the evidence of this Lord, thus deeply order that we might turn away from all evil and painful deeds, but he was one of our search.

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Excellent. So Allah subhanaw taala clearly states that she was really crazy about him. And then he started feeling for her because of the claws because the conditions of Xena were were

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present very good, he was put into that test which is one of the biggest test brothers and other sisters Be careful to be put into this test very few people are are safe.

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But you know what savegames panela he was good. He is record the fact that he was bias when you are bias no matter what the test come towards you Allah subhanaw taala saves you so it is what we call your record

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you will not play for before so Allah we save you

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say I mean so the key is now now not until the test comes because you are ready

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you prepare very well for the test.

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Is the test going to be easy or difficult? Is it because you prepare one Muslim is like that when you when you seek knowledge like now we seek knowledge we pray we do Torah we don't wanna calamity falls us when a big problem happened to us hamdulillah

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what will help us to react positively to death or loss of a job or a loved one in trouble or our whatever happens to you may happen is the fact that you had a good record.

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So a lot of people think when the problem happened to me, I asked them not to give me a subpar No, you should work for it. So when it happens, you don't fall

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preparation, like exam, you prepare very well. When the exam comes hamdulillah you're not panicking.

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So he was so pious that he has never thought of her or another woman Haram. When this happened to him, although he was tempted, which is natural, normal because he's a human being he's not an angel. Allah sent him about when he saw something we don't know what he saw.

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Somebody will I must say, and Angela told him fear Allah

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and someone and I said

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Intuition came from from Allah that He should say man Allah,

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Allah which is the eye of the first time. So Allah says calidad de Cadena Serrano so that is how we are going to remove evil from him not to fall into any that was a bit like illegal sexual intercourse with any woman let alone the wife of his boss.

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We don't we don't know what her means evidence what was that evidence? We don't know? Salama say Angela and Angela spoke to him

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or use of stay away from this some Obama said no is just an intuition and intuition came to him some kind of an idea guidance that no I shouldn't do this I should not do this.

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So what will prevent our children from falling into things like this our education and the best story to tell them is this if a prophet had been

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tested

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and he thought of it so you tell your Son Son daughter, look, these things can happen. But how you react to them?

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Don't tell them no, it will never happen to you. But if it happens, you never prepared your son or daughter

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say

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think of Allah

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the opposite is shavon shavon is telling you this remember the antidotes you have to bring the opposite

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you feel so called what should you do? Put a jacket blamed the opposite which is worn you feel too too hot. What do you do? turn on the AC

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only the opposite can work.

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Please understand this

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Do you know what is the most expensive fluid in the world

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and is found only in Algeria.

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The most expensive fluid you know that or not?

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Is the poison of the scorpion.

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Like this minions just like because they make out of it antidotes

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if if a viper bites you How do they treat you with what they have to give you an antidote from where they get that from the scorpion

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you don't know this

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all of you are going to regret not visiting Algeria only

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that bear

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keep keep keep delaying

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tell them tell them maybe they

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maybe they don't understand English.

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Okay martial law.

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He if he wanted I could have

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not ready to God.

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Okay.

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That is how Allah we'd save him from two things so evil and fascia. One way to not fall into Xena is to live before before the good life of Toba stefarr not to be around girls not to flirt, flirt with them not that is inshallah will help you. But if you were always around girls and big problem, big problem

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in the woman

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indeed he was one of our chosen guided slaves.

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May Allah make us amongst them. Even if you serve Allah so much good. Now, Allah chose us you once he chose you, when problems happen in your life, he says you you will not fall into sin.

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major major problem comes be money given to you as an issuer. You will not accept it. Not because because you fail him because Allah save you

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25 was stabbed out all bad.

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What's data all to both of them? What's

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that mean? Sir hoomin Dober

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Min De Boer

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Oh, let's match as a woman,

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men

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I

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any

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excellent. What did we say last week? Who has more? Who has more dirty plotting women or men? Man, here is the evidence

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she plotted against him when her husband opened the door,

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husband came

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one of the most

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stressful time is when you are invited to the harem and the person very much

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although he authoritative to the person who is with you, comes.

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So he had the ability to open the door from the outside, but you cannot open it from the inside. He heard commotion, he heard talk.

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Why? Pay attention to me says

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he ran towards the door. When she when he told her mother love no harm, I cannot do this. We shouldn't do this.

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She still was coming closer to him physically.

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Then what did he do? He had to do something. So don't say no. When they ask you what to do,

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standing in that place.

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Just try and at least move out of that place. Do an action that no one would say you.

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You know when Allah gives you risk when you move? You want risk move. say Bismillah Allah Yeah.

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At least go to the garden. Get out from your bed say, please help me Give me this carrot. What the moment you you move, that Allah will start sending the risk. You don't want to do nothing and you want somebody to help you.

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Forget it. So he arrived towards the door, although he knows the door is closed.

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Yup, I did my best.

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Then Allah helped him how he helped him.

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He brought her husband he brought her husband. When you think is getting worse, actually, that's when the solution is.

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You never know how love works. Just trust him.

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So he brought to not a guard. Not a maid, not somebody No, he brought

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he opened the door. When he opened the door. Imagine

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he ran towards the door. Shiraz doors door, same action or not.

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But is the near the same. That's why I told you. Be careful. I hope everybody's coming to seek knowledge. The Nia we all come to this house, but hopefully solidly for Allah sake. And for Salah Torah him say I mean, we're coming to seek knowledge and say hello to him go home.

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Do someone say man, I have nothing to go. So let me go to Shawn's house. No, no, it's not like that.

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It has to be for Allah sake. Otherwise Allah will not accept because same action.

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He ran towards the door she runs after him towards the door. But she ran for Xena he ran away from Xena. You see, that's what we don't know. We think everybody's coming to the masjid. Many people are coming just for spying

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to see what the Imam is going to saying so that they report to their bosses.

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There are those who are coming for Lila hit Allah Toba so far also on Monday Mashallah perfume early, rich Soraka coffee, sit down, crying to Allah

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and there are those who are coming because the nasi biryani near that Masjid is very good.

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Actually, they're coming for the nasi Biryani.

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I hope no one is like that. Serious.

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That's why in Islam, we have this Hadith, authentic hadith. We find it even in the 40 hadith of Imam nawawi that Rasulullah saw some said he who migrates for Allah sake that his migration is he's talking to who to the Sahaba and he Who among you migrated to marry a woman than he is he is for that woman. He knew some Sahaba actually followed the

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that loved ones

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Meaning if she stayed in Mecca he would have to.

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Allah knows we don't know. But Subhana Allah here I want I want to show same action to different people, but to different nia.

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So what seems to ask Same for Allah is not

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that's why we wrong people when we judge them. We never know that nia.

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So Allah says what sterba Hall they raised.

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She even raised with him. When she could not prevent him, she pulled him from the cloth that were

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she pulled him from the back.

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Ah, this is what can happen.

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Remember I said the cloth of use of Elisa Lam are mentioned three times here is the

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second. The first one was when? When they brought the cloth to the Father. with blood, yes.

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So

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this is second. The third one, they send back the cloth to his father, we will see. Now the second time. She pulled him from the cloth

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that shows how crazy she was about him. She forgot she lost control. She's emotional.

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But it took her years to reach this level. Actually, she is more pious than the other women who will make fun of her.

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And learn from this woman. She's very smart with all the nonsense she did with yourself. But she was very smart. I will show you later on. And that's how I want you to behave. Not like her poor people from their claws.

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When she heard people talking bad about her. She didn't become emotional and we will see there are many lessons we can learn.

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So she raised with him.

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So what is the door he was first to run away to find an exit at that moment elaborate solution for him from where from outside. So imagine someone is about to open the door of his house. And then he hears near the door commotion and somebody's being pulled from his cloth and she tears off his cloth

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hamdulillah the evidence it was from the back. We will see. What did he say when he opened the door?

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Did he talk he was shocked when he opened the door. He found his wife dressing crazy.

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And hamdulillah he found yourself at the door and the woman behind him. Imagine it was the other way. Oh big problem.

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See she's putting him in but what did she say? Look how cold

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and

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post post she is.

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What did she say?

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Look at it. Look at the area who? Who was reading?

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I saw you finish. Okay, another brother yell.

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Hi, this

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is Kara.

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From which that prevented her from the same idea. Yeah, from the start 25.

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And they raised

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what do we know? How do we know back? Which word in in Arabic? Do we have? The word robot in Malaysia? What? What does the word mean?

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No, that's one of the one one of the meaning. In Arabic. October is the back the thing you sit on. That is called oboe, okay. But also it means your back from look from head all the way to your heel. That is called obor

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the whole back including the legs.

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Specifically, what we call the bat

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clear. So I don't want you to think and Doughboy is just that. But yes, in fact that when we talk about fat body of a man body of woman, but no no. In this case, he pulled his shirt and his back was seen his back

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clear. Is this clear? Mashallah. So candlelighters Arabic language continue

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compared to what we intended for your wife, but then

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the painful punishment

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Imagine with me brothers. Instead of being shameful of herself and Penny, she didn't even panic. She didn't even blink an eye. She immediately found a way.

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That's why one one things, you cannot beat women in talking that were

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women. If you are married to a lawyer, may Allah be with you.

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Lawyer teacher, hey, because a woman can lecture you for being a lawyer. If she's teacher lawyer.

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May Allah be with you. La kabara

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just smile brothers. Because you all going to sleep on the sofa tonight?

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No, no serious women, Masha, Allah gave them so much power in talking, and they know how to talk.

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Even when they know they are wrong.

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She knew she was wrong. before you say anything, or even her husband say anything.

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She already said, What would you do to a man who wanted to harm your spouse?

00:51:17--> 00:51:22

And or be in jail? or severe punishment? Did she say kill him?

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But his brothers

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thought about killing him. That's why the plotting of women is less than a plotting of men. I don't agree with those who say, if women plot against a man he's no, actually is the other way. Men when they plot, they can even kill women when they plot the worst they can do severe proton, or J. But why she said a

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question Why? She said what would you do? What is the recompense punishment for him who intended an evil design against your wife? Except that he be put in prison or painful atonement, why she didn't say kill him and and get rid of the evidence?

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Maybe there will be an evidence right?

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Get rid of the evidence.

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Who can tell me why

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she still wants him even if he goes to jail.

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When women want you, they want you just to go to jail. And come back. Go pelase and come back that they are

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serious. Women, when they put someone in his in their mind. They don't want him to die. They want to go to jail. Or exile. Because there is always that evening of maybe we can get reunion. Man once they hit you, I hate to finish him.

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So who is worse in plotting men or women? Man?

00:53:06--> 00:53:08

That bear who said man,

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sister is tired. This sister is really tired of men.

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And with your sister, you missed many classes. May Allah forgive you.

00:53:27--> 00:53:33

Say I mean? I said May Allah forgive you. You should say I mean because if Allah forgives, you go to Jana.

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Did he keep quiet? Or he defended himself? He became the lawyer. You have to defend yourself sisters, brothers, when people accuse you. If you be quiet, you're guilty.

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You have at least to say I'm innocent. And let the media whatever say you say No, I haven't done that.

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And let the world go on you. No problem. But you said nothing.

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Like a woman. A man wants to marry her. And we say sister, this brother is offering your marriage and she's just keeping quiet.

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What do we understand?

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The Silence of

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a virgin woman means yes, but also losses himself. If he keeps quiet because maybe she's shy. Don't say no. I was under you should we should say at least do like Indians move your head.

00:54:35--> 00:54:36

Marblehead Taliban

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said or like whatever you

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clear shala So what did he say? Let's say or he was nice enough. See?

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Come on, guys. Brothers. What is this?

00:54:58--> 00:54:59

What is dance?

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We are about to die we still don't know how to live

00:55:03--> 00:55:08

with me those who want to meet for an hour and one on one can call me

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Don't worry not too long have maximum half an hour I meet with you sit sit down read your notes I might need somewhere very important you need to you have to improve before we meet Allah Europe I was I was doing my best little secret secret god okay. But be consistent. The key is consistency. That's what

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color he

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needs to

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see.

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Wash I

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mean

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who damning overall

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false

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false

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only in teaching the poor and I can read like this, because you are but you cannot stop there. Because it is he who was truthful and she was lying. So that is what we call walk for the ugly walk so we are not supposed to stop at football.

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I repeat in Ghana

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or D'Amico Borneo

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wahoo Amina Luca DB

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It is very wrong to stop

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if we say fastball down but while

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you're very wrong, why because we are saying she was right and he was liar and a prophet cannot lie.

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This is in touch with an inverted wait this is only with a shake you know this you cannot stop at Sadat.

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You cannot you have to read it for solder pot. Well who am I have he been?

00:57:29--> 00:57:33

If you said fossa but wha hoo me?

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Wrong, you cannot do that. So even in reading, we need to learn it the way gibril at a Salaam Reddit for Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam clear inshallah, let's see.

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When you serve Allah He sent him heard that with all what she did. She is still trying to get him into trouble.

00:57:58--> 00:58:03

She wanted him to get she wanted him to be in trouble with a lot by sailing falling in sin.

00:58:04--> 00:58:12

Xena, now she wants him to be in jail. Meaning in trouble with her husband, either in jail or in

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or punishment. physical punishment Did he say has to be a lot

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of stuff through law. You're alone, you know? He said he clearly said she was after me. He defended himself. Please defend yourselves when people accuse you of anything of anything. Carla Harris let's see one of the sisters sister as Lena

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It's okay.

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No

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ah okay. The sister trick Do

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you wish to seduce me?

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But look at the nobility of use of all he said is well, she

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tried to seduce me. That's all he said.

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To protect her honor.

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Did you say sir? She She tried to seduce me. That's it. Clear, but he did not step low. Like some of us do now. Isabella hallas. She was after me.

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A witness from her family handling that witness. He said when the when the husband went to seek advice from a wise man. The wise man said to him.

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Look at the shirt if it has been toned from France.

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Then she is right and he is a liar.

01:00:04--> 01:00:15

hamdulillah evidence. So what do we learn from here? What do we learn? This is criminology, the science of crime investigation. It's an Orion. How to investigate?

01:00:17--> 01:00:24

Clearly the T shirt was cut off torn from the back, which means she was after him.

01:00:27--> 01:00:51

Because how can how does a man want to rape a woman by reverse say, by telling him coming and goes back, he goes, attack her. And she was let's say she defends herself by turning off his cloth. Now we know he was guilty. But it wasn't. So Alhamdulillah even the person who gave the idea to her husband to verify was from her family.

01:00:53--> 01:01:02

And that's how they know that's how the women came to know because that man after being asked by her husband, he went and told his wife and you know, once you tell one woman

01:01:05--> 01:01:06

especially if it's no secret

01:01:09--> 01:01:16

that they're what happens every sister has a best friend who sees between me and

01:01:18--> 01:01:20

I'm sitting hartamas to the whole

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even brothers are turning like that. You know discussion between two people is secret.

01:01:30--> 01:01:33

If I am with Sherry man talking only me and him

01:01:35--> 01:01:52

let's say in a car or in a restaurant, whatever he told me and I said to him is just between us we I don't have to tell him brother. This is confidential please just between and I don't have to if there was a third person and I didn't say that, brothers, whatever I'm saying now is confidential. Yes.

01:01:53--> 01:01:56

But to talk to someone so between husband and wife

01:01:57--> 01:02:00

everything should be confidential you know that are not

01:02:03--> 01:02:06

even today they have this problem.

01:02:07--> 01:02:12

Didn't tell me brother, your brother we were just you and me talking.

01:02:14--> 01:02:19

There please. Between doctor hamdulillah doctors know this doctor a patient is

01:02:21--> 01:02:22

confidential.

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Ah, okay. Good. So hamdulillah he defended himself and the witness from her family without seeing is just a wise man. He said to her husband, because he wants he was upset How come this happened to me in my family? He was so upset with his wife because by the way, here is the mentality sorry of Egyptian people. How can you find your wife wearing like that?

01:02:56--> 01:03:04

and knocking on the door? Why she locked the doors? If she was not and what what? Why she is waiting for him what she doesn't even wait for you.

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For that you should have punished her

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right or wrong.

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You don't need nuclear physics science.

01:03:16--> 01:03:27

Your daughter or wife or sister or I don't care who wearing innapropriate with a guy who came to fix your air conditioning

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punish her right away.

01:03:34--> 01:03:35

Because you cannot do that.

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You cannot do that.

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But I am in my house. No, that's a human being.

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And the problems happen because of this members and sisters, big problems because of this.

01:03:54--> 01:03:59

And you have four right sisters to tell your husband not to wear like that if another lady comes.

01:04:01--> 01:04:04

Why is he wearing very inappropriate?

01:04:05--> 01:04:18

He should disappear. Let's say your best friend came to see you. He cannot come and greet her with short or with surround sound not the way some of you were sound because hamdulillah some of you were sorrow normal. I'm talking about those songs.

01:04:25--> 01:04:26

We are praying

01:04:34--> 01:04:36

long time ago you used to make good sir Oh

01:04:42--> 01:04:43

yeah.

01:04:45--> 01:04:51

Whatever we are going now fit nice following us even in the masjid man, even in the masjid.

01:04:56--> 01:04:58

So the moral of the story he didn't keep quiet

01:05:00--> 01:05:06

And he's teaching us this is Sue now for profit when accused, please don't say has to be alone. Yeah, but what

01:05:09--> 01:05:19

are you telling me now? Save yourself you're gonna go to jail or people will talk bad about you and assassinate your character forever. Say I did not do that

01:05:22--> 01:05:24

and I'm ready to swear by Allah.

01:05:25--> 01:05:34

If I asked you say that then and look at your family, your wife or your husband and say I did not do that

01:05:35--> 01:05:45

look at her in the eyes. And I didn't Don't lie. If you did that say stuff please Allah forgive me. But like if you didn't that's it

01:05:47--> 01:05:48

because Allah is on your side.

01:05:51--> 01:05:56

Good. Continue. We're gonna pamesa so who

01:06:04--> 01:06:04

back

01:06:06--> 01:06:10

here we can stop because she was wrong. We know that.

01:06:15--> 01:06:16

me now saw the end.

01:06:19--> 01:06:26

That's why in the most half of mm watch, there is a stop actually. There is a sub sub min stop.

01:06:27--> 01:06:56

Where the way we memorized operand when we were little. We stopped there. Forget that wahoo aminos saw the beat and he is among those who speak the truth. So the man said look at his shirt. If it is cut off, torn off from the front. She is right and he's lying. If it was stolen from the back, clearly he is right. And she is of course the husband was shocked because he already saw that.

01:06:57--> 01:07:04

Before going through investigation, he already saw that his clothes that he bought him was okay from here but from the back.

01:07:09--> 01:07:09

All right.

01:07:11--> 01:07:50

So please understand my sisters and brothers. You know Rasulullah saw Selim one day was on a caravan and one of the Sahaba had a beautiful voice and he was singing for the camels the camels like songs you know that camels when when you sing for them, they love it and they they they cruise in the desert they walk without without any form of hardship. So as soon as I sell them set to that's a hobby easy brother we have women with us. And they are as soft as glass they may break. So women when they listen to music, that's why they cry.

01:07:52--> 01:08:04

They cry for music. They cry for songs they cry for they're very romantic women by nature. You need to know this. So when you speak to nice too soft to a woman who is in pain

01:08:05--> 01:08:09

and she's comparing now why her husband doesn't speak that nice.

01:08:12--> 01:08:13

Ah

01:08:15--> 01:08:16

that's why you be careful brothers.

01:08:18--> 01:08:21

That's why when you speak speak always with authority.

01:08:23--> 01:08:26

The one you should speak nicely to very smoothly is your wife.

01:08:27--> 01:08:28

Wife Wife.

01:08:30--> 01:08:38

Most of us are very nice and considerate to our colleagues, sisters in Islam.

01:08:39--> 01:08:40

When it comes to the wife

01:08:44--> 01:08:46

What is my passport?

01:08:47--> 01:08:49

Your passport was with you why why why should I

01:08:51--> 01:08:51

like where?

01:08:54--> 01:08:56

You miss my comments. Some of you back there

01:09:02--> 01:09:07

in one time, then then there is no evidence they say even the baby's book, baby baby

01:09:09--> 01:09:10

but there is no evidence.

01:09:12--> 01:09:18

Yes, CRM and cashier better. One of the activity a baby spoke and said to him

01:09:19--> 01:09:19

if

01:09:24--> 01:09:34

he went to a wise man and asked him Sir, if this have a search at the close, so I clear loss to reason. Yes, continue.

01:09:36--> 01:09:37

armies

01:09:46--> 01:09:47

are there in

01:09:49--> 01:09:50

the corner con

01:09:55--> 01:09:57

in K con

01:10:03--> 01:10:03

Very good.

01:10:08--> 01:10:29

Okay, plotting of women is big Alyssa is really big. Here it is. Verse 28, when women plot brothers who are in big danger, but they don't kill you, necessarily. They don't finish you. Okay? Now pay attention to that verse 28, go back to verse five.

01:10:31--> 01:10:32

Go back to verse five.

01:10:34--> 01:10:42

What Allah mentioned the plotting of men. Who are the brothers of use of Alexander, when they plotted?

01:10:43--> 01:10:48

When he's, what did the father say to yourself when he told him the dream?

01:10:49--> 01:10:57

He said, don't tell your brothers, because they will plot against you. How do we know?

01:11:00--> 01:11:08

How do we know the plotting of men, more than the plotting of women, some of you will love this. Especially the sisters, and

01:11:11--> 01:11:17

the best feature for them because he's giving them something they can use against someone that they're

01:11:19--> 01:11:19

not here

01:11:20--> 01:11:21

on what's happened.

01:11:23--> 01:11:24

Here

01:11:25--> 01:11:27

in verse five sisters brothers,

01:11:30--> 01:11:30

what does

01:11:32--> 01:11:33

he do?

01:11:36--> 01:11:38

Look, look at it. He do laka

01:11:41--> 01:11:48

paratis, right. He do laka Qaeda, man, when they plot they don't really plot

01:11:50--> 01:11:52

but for the women, okay, verse 28,

01:11:54--> 01:11:54

in the case of

01:11:56--> 01:12:03

the word k that could not k, k, k that is repeated k that could not

01:12:06--> 01:12:13

take the home that they're plotting females plotting. Indeed you're plotting or women is big, but he didn't say Qaeda.

01:12:15--> 01:12:17

This is called master in Arabic.

01:12:19--> 01:12:20

Master

01:12:21--> 01:12:23

here a repetition of the same word.

01:12:24--> 01:12:28

He had no verb muster, then

01:12:30--> 01:12:34

there and then muster What does it feel muster? For example?

01:12:35--> 01:12:36

Look, when I say

01:12:38--> 01:12:39

I cannot

01:12:40--> 01:12:47

what is Akela? Let's see. Now the students of Arabic If they are just studying again, of course is

01:12:49--> 01:12:51

Akela what is the master of Allah?

01:12:56--> 01:12:57

Yaki do

01:12:59--> 01:13:00

do you see master here?

01:13:01--> 01:13:03

So this is weaker than this

01:13:04--> 01:13:18

that's how we know the plotting of man is stronger than the plotting of you need to know if you don't know how to make Arabic not just speaking Arabic. Fear. It must not be all this grammar. It helps you to make him jealous.

01:13:21--> 01:13:23

He said that what is the master?

01:13:25--> 01:13:26

To loosen

01:13:27--> 01:13:28

to loosen

01:13:30--> 01:13:40

taraba to hit daarvan Very good. So how do you know it's faster? It's always an with an antenna that strong.

01:13:42--> 01:13:43

That already Arabic we say strong?

01:13:45--> 01:13:51

So when Allah used the word, Cade for men, he said your key do like a Qaeda.

01:13:52--> 01:13:58

But the blocking of women? Yes, your plot is big, but there is no master.

01:14:05--> 01:14:06

Okay, very good.

01:14:07--> 01:14:08

So now he knows

01:14:10--> 01:14:25

emammal portobay. Remember I told you the greatest morula of the car for among many among hundreds of rula of tafsir for our like mothers of the year. Even Cathy

01:14:26--> 01:14:28

is the series A mother book.

01:14:29--> 01:14:41

Even Jerry robbery alport, toby, and even a blast. I'm not best as a hobby early. But among the scholars, three great. Alberto be in his tafsir

01:14:43--> 01:14:46

he's amazing, he said. And that's the nature of Egyptian man.

01:14:48--> 01:14:53

sorry to tell you this. Until Islam came to them. They were they didn't care about what their wives do.

01:14:55--> 01:15:00

Here is the fact he's Egyptian. How come your wife does all this? You do?

01:15:00--> 01:15:00

Nothing to her

01:15:01--> 01:15:03

all he said don't do it again.

01:15:04--> 01:15:11

She's wearing like that she tempted her. Her the boy that you entrusted her to raise him

01:15:13--> 01:15:18

he didn't care about the husband how what people may say about his reputation

01:15:20--> 01:15:21

look what he said

01:15:23--> 01:15:24

your sofa

01:15:30--> 01:15:33

what's the movie realism big

01:15:37--> 01:15:41

in Akiko demeanor in

01:15:45--> 01:15:48

English, another brother

01:15:49--> 01:15:53

who was the last to read brother. Now Sister eulalia

01:15:56--> 01:15:58

Yeah, do you have any ideas we have?

01:15:59--> 01:16:00

We are no

01:16:02--> 01:16:02

that's what I wasn't.

01:16:04--> 01:16:07

But aren't you idea Deanna? Are your sister is

01:16:09--> 01:16:09

your sister okay?

01:16:15--> 01:16:16

We aren't all

01:16:18--> 01:16:19

gonna

01:16:24--> 01:16:26

know all yourself. Okay.

01:16:28--> 01:16:29

Okay.

01:16:38--> 01:16:40

Who says he was talking?

01:16:43--> 01:16:44

And he started with the victim.

01:16:45--> 01:16:49

Talk to the guilty one first. This is wrong.

01:16:50--> 01:17:11

Your your son one, his son number two. Who should you talk first? To the naughty one. Stop this. You forget? It's not like a we don't do that. He will never understand. You always blame or direct your discussion first to the person who start first.

01:17:13--> 01:17:16

Yeah, I see. That's easy. Sorry.

01:17:18--> 01:17:19

That's Egyptian

01:17:22--> 01:17:29

instead of talking to his wife and scolding her and even returning her for what she did he

01:17:30--> 01:17:36

use of don't do that. Stay away from those things not good. Because he's he knows he's innocent and young.

01:17:37--> 01:17:39

And you go

01:17:41--> 01:17:45

ask for forgiveness from her idols or whatever they used to worship

01:17:47--> 01:17:49

you around. That's all he said.

01:17:51--> 01:18:01

Do you think a woman will not do this again? She will do and the evidence She is calling her friends. All the policies of Egypt to do the same thing again?

01:18:02--> 01:18:06

Because she did not get the rotten day one. That there.

01:18:13--> 01:18:16

There is hikma in it. Just hang it

01:18:17--> 01:18:18

back there

01:18:20--> 01:18:23

it's not your show. I think they had for you the rotten

01:18:27--> 01:18:29

says the good

01:18:32--> 01:18:32

doctor

01:18:34--> 01:18:34

areas.

01:18:38--> 01:18:48

La La here we are very sad to what's happening to the Muslim families. Muslim families because men are many men sorry brothers are not playing that role anymore.

01:18:52--> 01:18:54

That's why we look crazy.

01:18:55--> 01:18:58

All yourself? Yes. Another Police Story.

01:19:02--> 01:19:18

Yeah, that's the day. Yeah, exactly. That's the point. They use doesn't get you know, your wife was wrong in Union doesn't mean you have to kill her. But come on, man. Stop. She will do it again. Definitely want to say don't do it again. And go ask forgiveness. You weren't wrong.

01:19:20--> 01:19:25

And you start with the victim, you address the victim.

01:19:27--> 01:19:32

Use of art another use of as if he as if he was trying to

01:19:34--> 01:19:38

this is the nature of man, or Egyptian man is usually not like this.

01:19:40--> 01:19:41

Sorry,

01:19:42--> 01:19:58

is the truth and I tell them in their face. And many of them say [???], you're right. I said don't get Don't get me wrong. This is look. Merci. May Allah have mercy on nothing. They're watching the African Cup. These are people you die for them and you go to jail for them.

01:20:00--> 01:20:04

That's why do not help anyone who doesn't want to help himself. I'm telling you now.

01:20:06--> 01:20:07

I learned the hardest

01:20:08--> 01:20:20

lesson in my life in America. Do not try to help someone he doesn't want to help himself. When you want to have someone see first 60 70% of the effort is doing for himself then help him

01:20:22--> 01:20:24

never fight Battle of somebody else

01:20:26--> 01:20:28

including your son. And don't stop with your family

01:20:32--> 01:20:32

back there

01:20:37--> 01:20:41

while Arlen is watching fin Medina.

01:20:46--> 01:20:52

Arlen is wet fin Medina t murottal. As he is

01:20:59--> 01:21:07

what are the MA came back? The women in the city said that the woman of realizes they know she was unhappy.

01:21:08--> 01:21:23

Otherwise why she will do this? What will make have tried to sleep with somebody else? Ah that's why it's your duty to satisfy your wives. Brothers and sisters, especially brothers. It is your duty to make sure your wife

01:21:25--> 01:21:27

everything she's satisfied sexually.

01:21:28--> 01:21:37

mentally, spiritually she prays she she goes to Rama she did she did a dance classes like this. Otherwise that would have been left.

01:21:38--> 01:21:45

Some men don't care. They say I'm old. I am this I am that hey, your wife may be still young. Still healthy.

01:21:52--> 01:21:55

I know you are ultra This is the truth and I have to be very candid with you.

01:21:57--> 01:22:00

Torah we do Fattah and

01:22:06--> 01:22:08

tada Shabbat haha

01:22:13--> 01:22:14

in

01:22:15--> 01:22:16

a happy

01:22:18--> 01:22:19

movie.

01:22:25--> 01:22:26

Excellent.

01:22:27--> 01:22:32

Sisters read one of the brothers brother. I'm sorry Go ahead. First 30

01:22:35--> 01:22:36

the wife of

01:22:38--> 01:22:40

a boy yes

01:22:42--> 01:22:44

indeed we see her too to be

01:22:46--> 01:22:53

when these women talk Look what they said. What byline is what? So it reads the story rich people.

01:22:55--> 01:22:58

Women Nice one. Nice one. Nisa

01:22:59--> 01:23:00

started talking.

01:23:02--> 01:23:06

Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Of course, this is what you call a story.

01:23:07--> 01:23:09

This is a story. This is a story.

01:23:11--> 01:23:13

Building a measure. Who cares?

01:23:14--> 01:23:39

as men with the other guy? Whoo hoo. That's a story. Right? Even when it is not true. Allah knows Allah knows. But for us. No, we should say it's not true. It's not to say Allah Allah knows no. In Islam. We are asked Allah says Allah says Lola is Sumitomo so to know, when you hear a rumor like this about Xena or a bar

01:23:40--> 01:23:40

or

01:23:43--> 01:23:44

relationship between the woman and woman.

01:23:46--> 01:23:55

Allah says Lola is similar to more one than what we know now and what we know to be unforeseen, higher. The first thing to do is to think positively about believing men and believing

01:23:56--> 01:24:09

what Allah Subhana Allah, and they say, Glory be to You. This is this is London. This is the first reaction we do. Later on when information comes and one of them are both.

01:24:12--> 01:24:13

Confess.

01:24:14--> 01:24:18

That's different. All for witness for witnesses, eight eyes.

01:24:19--> 01:24:48

For witnesses means as healthy as numbering me with someone whose glasses are bigger than the telescope and say, he saw he saw what this guy is biting, cleansing the fall from his glass in its two hours. How can he see anything? Clear? This is the dinner. Please do not go there. And it's becoming ugly. Honestly, the politics in Malaysia This is really I'm sad that I'm living in a country like this.

01:24:51--> 01:24:53

No senior he needs to stop.

01:24:55--> 01:24:56

It needs to stop.

01:24:58--> 01:24:59

You have four witnesses

01:25:00--> 01:25:00

Come forward.

01:25:02--> 01:25:32

Speak, you don't realize you at lashes. Start doing this you will see because today someone or tomorrow your daughter or your son, or and not everybody has the heart to take bad news like this. You as Father, God forbid somebody accused your daughter or your son, you may have a heart attack and die. Now who brings you back? Or you are in an ICU, or you have a stroke who fixes you back? Because of a rumor. Rumors must end

01:25:34--> 01:25:36

Alright, so women start talking in the city.

01:25:38--> 01:25:54

All right. Mr. Abdul Aziz. They said the woman of Aziz Torah widow Fattah, Han FC, they were not actually angry or talking because she wanted to do Zina because she wanted to do Xena with a law class.

01:25:59--> 01:26:22

This is how bad this society was. They were not angry at one of them because at least I mean people have the right to say well she shouldn't have done that, you know, wrong. We need to condemn even when what even was tempted or there was an attempt to do evil or that we need to condemn it and speak against it. But they were like

01:26:23--> 01:26:32

what is this one? So she wanted to sleep with a Bengali so that's the problem is not that she wanted to cheat on her husband.

01:26:35--> 01:26:36

I brought you just an example. So

01:26:38--> 01:26:40

you see what the problem is.

01:26:41--> 01:26:44

She slept with a higher tax rate

01:26:53--> 01:26:59

so even when they condemn what she did, they didn't condemn it for the fact that she's cheating on her husband which is wrong

01:27:01--> 01:27:11

with a slave boy because they don't know who is he that's what she's going to show why he wants to show him because that's what they criticize her for.

01:27:17--> 01:27:22

You see society that's why check if any society the halal because haram run away from it

01:27:24--> 01:27:26

I'm about to do another Hydra

01:27:27--> 01:27:31

because I don't want to be surrounded by panda wherever I go

01:27:32--> 01:27:33

but bear

01:27:39--> 01:27:43

or a government your government should allow me to take a rotten staff

01:27:46--> 01:27:49

one day in bank Satya

01:27:51--> 01:27:55

that may Allah save this this guy he came to me and he started

01:27:57--> 01:27:58

I was like I was not wearing like this

01:28:00--> 01:28:01

and he was like

01:28:04--> 01:28:07

I was wearing like better than all of you like they're

01:28:14--> 01:28:16

allowed me to go through that that

01:28:19--> 01:28:29

guy one first i thought he wants to say where is this address? No show me the way so I was telling them that we have to go near the mercy

01:28:31--> 01:28:32

opposite the message that the CMB

01:28:33--> 01:28:34

banks are

01:28:36--> 01:28:43

there almost Taekwondo back bear because these people they have to understand it this way.

01:28:44--> 01:28:48

What do you what do you see me for you to come and try to be nice to me why

01:28:52--> 01:28:53

that bear

01:28:54--> 01:28:55

to see

01:29:03--> 01:29:03

couldn't be

01:29:04--> 01:29:05

good be

01:29:09--> 01:29:11

expect anything in Malaysia.

01:29:12--> 01:29:16

Malaysia is that country where? Malaysia

01:29:18--> 01:29:21

so women when they criticize her sisters

01:29:22--> 01:29:37

because shame on her she should not have done this harm. No, it was not for moral reason. Actually, it was for even lower than what she did. How can she fall for

01:29:40--> 01:29:43

you got it. Okay, next area and then we're

01:29:45--> 01:29:47

still 15 minutes.

01:29:51--> 01:29:53

Are you okay? I have I like this better.

01:29:54--> 01:29:59

Okay, follow me at be makary hin

01:30:00--> 01:30:00

said that

01:30:07--> 01:30:08

although salat

01:30:10--> 01:30:10

wa

01:30:16--> 01:30:17

wa tada

01:30:19--> 01:30:20

Taka

01:30:30--> 01:30:34

min one se kena

01:30:41--> 01:30:43

want to

01:30:49--> 01:30:50

find

01:30:52--> 01:30:55

out who? Barona.

01:31:00--> 01:31:02

Wha wha

01:31:08--> 01:31:11

wha na, na na

01:31:13--> 01:31:15

na na me means we got our hands

01:31:16--> 01:31:19

on the females got their hands. Walk up

01:31:20--> 01:31:21

the horn

01:31:25--> 01:31:26

very good walk

01:31:34--> 01:31:36

by shot all

01:31:39--> 01:31:40

in half

01:31:41--> 01:31:42

in

01:31:43--> 01:31:44

Boone County

01:31:51--> 01:32:00

when one of the who had lost brothers, one of the brothers Yeah. So sister Yes Go ahead. My sister.

01:32:01--> 01:32:02

Yes

01:32:07--> 01:32:09

evening he said for them

01:32:11--> 01:32:13

to make fun of them tonight and set

01:32:15--> 01:32:16

up before the

01:32:18--> 01:32:20

break. My name

01:32:25--> 01:32:25

is

01:32:29--> 01:32:33

very good. There are tons of seals for this area by tensioner

01:32:34--> 01:32:40

when she heard of their discussion and accusation to her

01:32:43--> 01:32:46

she didn't get she got angry but she did not let her emotions

01:32:49--> 01:32:54

because sometimes she says that's what you need to do. Sometimes you need to invite the person who is accusing you

01:32:56--> 01:33:06

call him or her and given give them even gifts. mm chef a Rahim Allah was very good with this. When he hears someone talking about about him, he goes visit him and give him a gift.

01:33:11--> 01:33:13

It is pacifying your enemy.

01:33:15--> 01:33:20

Either he will never talk again. Make Toba or he will die with heart attack.

01:33:23--> 01:33:37

Which we don't know how to do this. We got angry and so when we know someone is talking nonsense about you go visit him in especially in front of people and give him a gift. People saying this is the guy you talking about?

01:33:38--> 01:33:40

Santa Monica beach for you and go.

01:33:44--> 01:34:04

I know an email in Algeria. Someone was talking that so bad about him. You know what he did to him is Pamela. He took him he drove he put him near in him in near him and drove the whole city for four to three hours. The man didn't realize what he's doing. People are seeing that you are with me in the car. Yet you talk bad about me.

01:34:05--> 01:34:06

He destroyed him.

01:34:09--> 01:34:13

That's intelligence to me. He could have said harm on you. I will make to August You

01:34:14--> 01:34:20

know, he drove the city that's one city town. Let's say I want

01:34:22--> 01:34:31

people are seeing every coffee shop they visited together because people sit and what is the guy he's talking bad about the moment he is with him?

01:34:33--> 01:34:36

That's smart. That's what you cannot do ladies.

01:34:43--> 01:34:44

Like man

01:34:51--> 01:34:52

very handsome. Yeah.

01:34:55--> 01:34:59

Yes, a woman is very pretty. So no, she should cover one. Oh,

01:35:00--> 01:35:01

Woman is very British he must cover

01:35:02--> 01:35:05

so all the sisters who don't cover they're not pretty

01:35:08--> 01:35:09

man

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that's why they don't care if they believe that

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including my wife I always tell her you're not crazy

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as man you miss me my brother I know

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some Wait what's wrong with you brother?

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We are here brother. Sister We are here

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to help him Don't worry.

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You want to go riding we go right for you. For you we ride brother.

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But on a bike for me

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like bear who has two bikes borrow me one.

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Oh, you never borrow? You don't lend your bikes

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I need the scrambler

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between off road and

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Come on brother what's wrong with y'all? May Allah forgive you?

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Okay, okay know how

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to American for me like man. I like Japanese. Okay.

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When she heard what what the wing? Yes, she was upset but she did not get emotional. So what did she do? She wants to show them

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the type of men she fell for.

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So she called them and what she prepared for them she prepared for them the banquet after that the even the way they said who was so good prepared. And she brought a lot of fruits and she gave them knives. Now there are two types in in explaining what why she gave them the knives. Because not all fruits you need nice for

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you need knife.

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Duty and you need knife or x

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when I heard this stuff See, I praise the law. I never heard this stuff say that. I'm going to tell you now before Auntie lately

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panda as if Allah knows I'm going to give you this car and he knows of course.

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Yes. The alternative that all of us know is that she gave them fluids as they were eating. She told him you can let let these women see you. So he passed

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when they saw him a cabana, who he became so big for them, he became so deep went crazy about him to the extent that they forgot that they had sharp knives. And then not only they cut the fruits, but they kept they kept cutting their hands. It's not just one. One I understand Oh, I stopped. No. They did like this.

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As he was passing, he just passed. They will

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have the law. They didn't cut all that. That's what I've said the other day of No, it's like this. She gave them the nice Listen, she gave them the knives. And she expect them to cut their hand to say sorry, we were wrong. Here.

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It's the all the future society to show your Toba and confess to someone you can do that it's there in sociology. You study anthropology history that some people used to cut them like the Japanese day. Yeah. They finish that when they feel the guilt. So Egyptians last days to say sorry to you when they admit you're wrong. When they admit that they were wrong, is to cut off their

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meaning I expect you to cut off your because you blame me for this. Now see him? Actually she was million times better than them because it took 10 years to fall into him. They saw him first time few seconds. They went crazy. What they did, they all got up and cornered him. They took him to a corner and they all came married women.

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My brothers when you go to parties

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Yes. Lately someone sent me a video of company boss dancing with his

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careful audio processor. I don't know what goes in your mind.

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News ladies, follow them.

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Never let them alone.

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Serious. They might not feel a mafia to you at least they will not

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Most men don't feel alone they feel you

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put all kinds of

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I allow you to carry big bag when you go with your husband.

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Spray you know blinding spray

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whatever. Hammer

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stone rock

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heavy so that's like bear

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brothers you wish your wife hit you like that and not burn in hell I mean it

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careful brothers it's not you is the is the industry it's the culture. Malaysia is becoming more Westerner than Islamic. sorry to tell you this.

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The more you're building massages, you are building more malls.

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malls.

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Okay. So when she heard of who was reading

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it I asked one of the sisters today, you finish, okay.

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So when she heard of their accusation, she says for them and prepare the banquet for them. And so they came.

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Women, even when they talk bad about you, you invite them they still come

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back man.

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You talk bad about me why you come? Curious.

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Women are very curious. They love to go to this. Why? Because they wanted to see her. Although they talk bad about her no problem.

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She gave each on each one of them a knife to cut the foodstuff. That's the Tafseer.

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And she said she was well, look how clever she was. She gave that first she gave them the fruits and she gave them the knife. And then she said use of camp. She didn't call him before the knives were in their hands. They forgot the knives.

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The moment he came, come out before them, let them see you. Then he passed koschei he's he's a almost slave. He's a slave in her house. When they saw him, they exalted Him

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at His beauty. And in their astonishment, cut their hands. They said how perfect is Allah? Or forbid, Allah forbid? No man is this this is not a man. This is none other than a normal and

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when they saw his beauty they went crazy. So women like beauty but others like men like beauty. So it's not just us who when we see Wow, they also like beauty. So please look after yourselves.

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Look look nice. That were

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Yes.

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Serious. You have to look very nice.

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Before you enter your home if your wife is at home, you have to make sure am I okay? It's not just when you're getting out.

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Yes, that's so now first of all, as I've said before he enters home, he fixes himself. Peace be upon him. They have right over us.

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And don't take your women wherever other men are because she may compare you with the other guy who is who is more handsome than you.

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And you look like 12am the other guy look like 5am fudger You look like about to sleep.

01:43:49--> 01:43:50

Like man.

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You don't know he's

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like bear

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no serious serious. You should look handsome for your wife Rasul Allah says Allah made sure like we clean ourselves with we don't let them smell bad thing if we are coming from work.

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Put perfume on wear nice dress. Look, Mashallah not just when you're going out. So that's a normal thing. Now they are women. They are group. At least she was alone. At least she was alone, right? When she did what she did. Now they are women, they forget that other women are with them, which is very hard for women when they are together to sin. Yet they are going to call them Him and ask Him to do Xena with them.

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What do you think they're going to tell him

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which means the society didn't care have no ethics whatsoever. So it is Mercy of Allah that He sent them a prophet to teach them

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to teach them the team that this thing

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are very bad don't do not do them. So that's how corrupt society was, wasn't only in the in it was very unjust you are. By the way, the only prison mentioned in the Quran is Egyptian prison.

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They know you are innocent still they put you mercy. They know he's innocent. They put him in jail until he dies in jail. Same thing yourself.

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He, they, they knew he was he was innocent but still put him they don't care.

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Egypt is very notorious with prisons, ask Allah never to have any problem in Egypt.

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all all all, any Muslim goes into a journey in Egypt and that was a villa. So we continue next week in sha Allah with what she tells them after they do that when they caught their hands off. She said that's what you blame me for?

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Me guiding you or what you said about me. But I still invited you. So that's why I tell you this woman known as Julie Hi, by the way that is no truce about zuleikha wedding. May Allah make our bride and groom like yourself and our bride like so Who told you that? Where did you get the story from?

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That's why most of your marriages don't work.

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You think he married that woman? Now? Isabella? Come on, guys.

01:46:49--> 01:47:00

You hope that your marriage will love like the Prophet? Isaiah. Yes, you mentioned your marriage will also be like you so that's what I'm saying is wrong. I thought he was wrong. That's wrong.

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Yeah, you should not do hamdulillah you don't do that's how you stop this nonsense. It starts with us. You tell people Please don't do that. If someone is getting married like any one of your children getting married, you please don't do that. That's how

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clear inshallah

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and those who are not married brothers get married quickly.

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That's the problem. Like man.

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Most of you who says need to read be reformatted my computer.

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Give me that ministry. The Ministry of Religious Affairs.

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Exactly. I don't know why they make zulekha

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my brothers and sisters Don't change the subject those who are not married get married quickly. Sisters also sister your marriage failed with the first one doesn't mean all manner say your law. Allah gives you a good man, husband. And look for a man don't look for money. He may be less rich than you. But good moment taking

01:48:26--> 01:48:31

your brother's Toshi? No, I am just marry, get married.

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At least you will have a widow to cry for you. A sister to cry. You go. You go to the grave like that called

01:48:40--> 01:48:42

lucky someone will cry for that mayor.

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And don't worry about your money your money will be inherited.

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The money that you are saving will be divided.

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Okay?

01:48:59--> 01:49:05

I'm not saying don't at least spend it on yourself. It will travel Algeria.

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And don't be afraid of death. You don't die because you're sick. You die because your time is. Remember that.

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If you are safe to say man, I have had problem. This problem that is not that that will kill you. What will kill you is

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you could be very healthy. Please understand that is your agent. Just please try to meet Allah. ask Allah era when you call me that day it should be the best day towards you. Let's do sada or I pray a lot that day or I do do I make towel bar sincere. You know what I mean? All you intended to do something good. Like one sister just died on Saturday. Me

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She told her daughter and the maid came at me I want to pray. So they removed her diaper clean her. She made Oh, she's waiting for her mother

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died 10 minutes before merit of fighting.

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She could have died after my husband is considered Saturday. so must we buried her

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Saturday morning in 99. She, she she even wanted to pray six years in the band six years

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in the bed

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cannot move. Six years

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palace no matter no matter how long you're gonna be in pain, Allah Allah knows when you cannot know more he takes you.

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But her daughter read with her and caffeine that day

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and said the top data prepare me to pray.

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She said she was telling me just to that's all.

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What took her back?

01:51:07--> 01:51:12

Mashallah, and the last thing her husband told her I love you. I love you. He was going to marry

01:51:14--> 01:51:18

her husband. 75 years old. She's 71 he was telling her like

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that how do they know the last thing she heard from him? It could be a fight between him and her.

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Right? It could be like I wish I never married you okay you wish Allah The door was open. Your wish wept. pinback Yella, my bike. That's why I always say good words and fix problem with your wife right away. Don't say tomorrow.

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Tomorrow she comes to me and kiss my hand.

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Tomorrow she will kiss your forehead maybe that all you kiss her forehead too late.

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Don't let shaytan

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so the sisters who have not yet married and can get married y'all nabucco's Good, good luck. The brothers serious if if you're married and it didn't work with one or two or three or four or 10

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that bear

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got back with people anyways.

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You have tacos, yada yada, yada him if she fat told mommy I designed on Saturday. All my brothers and sisters who might know and I don't know if you are sick, may Allah grant you she fat at a full recovery in sha Allah Alhamdulillah if you have someone sick in the family, May Allah help you to look after that person. And remember that you have so much pahala looking after anyone even giving him water to drink his medicine. Allah will reward you for that. So never feel tired of helping someone in need. Because it could be you. It could be somebody very close to you like a son now.

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So always try to help as much as you can also say good words to people when they're sick. It's going to be alright, give them hope. Don't scare them.

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You're my host brother Shane and his wife May Allah bless them Mashallah. I am thankful to Allah that we chose them to host us as meaning Allah wants to give them Balenciaga your banana mean forgive us all.

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Forgive us on

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the sponsors for the food. May Allah feed them Indonesian, Akira, all those brothers and sisters who are bringing food with them, especially those who sponsor the dinner. May Allah sponsored them Indonesian I mean, Emil salada at number one and he was happy as rent ceremony.