Yusha Evans – Weekly Livestream – Chat & Chill 29-12-2022

Yusha Evans
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss various video streams and events, including a boss taking a bachelorette fever and a man drinking alcohol. They also mention a potential new video about the man drinking alcohol and a trip to London and Cambridge. The conversation is difficult to follow and the speakers discuss their favorite cars and cars. They also talk about the challenges of working in a video streaming business and the importance of finding the right advice when dealing with intrusive behavior. They emphasize the need for counseling and professional help for people with mental health issues and emphasize the importance of finding the right advice.
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Is it pretty hard flow

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down for two years

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and be

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I'm taking a practice South Florida with a boss taking a bachelorette shahada is scared it scared the life The show is gathered data so Mike get to I'm taking it back to South Florida with a boss. I'm taking it back to the day shahada I walked in the sun with a pure heart should have seen the love they were showing me in the stars lining up to hug me kissing me on both cheeks. I was overwhelmed I'm a young boy from the streets and then he didn't join they come everybody welcome to the stream. We're gonna see how this goes with the Internet. But welcome to this dream.

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To Amanda praises faith. I wrote a book and I made the film and the school are no more Scorpio. Here we will surely never in the field then a set of comments their life told me no since 2015 When a done hurt when I was a young boy I didn't see similar plans. I spent my childhood sitting on the steps with a fro bow to pound and some night Crips left so much behind they wouldn't even get it modem on a flip phone with no credit alarm really changed my life differently. Amina

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Popovich use of carded saying Muhammad Qasim somebody could soldier up and down the country that's a good end when you look we started off money in a shoe box guns in a Muslim one a one I gave them streets to Islam before they knew about the streets and robber taught about Islam is scared to death is scared and life is short, scattered data so might get I'm taking it back to South London with a boss taking it back to

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Joe look at his forgotten sky with a rising of the sun started with one power between two kids splits one pot your one cup of bread this is lumber wood alive it's a game of opinions everybody thinks they're right I don't expect you to think like me when I feel like yours. I had to jump the fence they were ruining doors he the wrong city attacked him not me I joined his face to be involved in no beef afford his belief was all about peace. These guys argue more than we used to in the streets going up the stairs backwards so much by end up my back hurts but by it's like mosquitoes you ain't responsible for a big egos he should know better dough due to what he knows there wasn't

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around when he was wearing mushy no get a feel for kids cocktail probio and the Valentino before the Valentino's all summer up in Canada and Black Prince Road cousin the boy and Dino before the Tesco it was gonna get started right away gonna get started momentarily guys Rambo, not his mother ever really playing Rambo was when he will from gypsy Hill termite field Bang Bang anyway gang looking like the Taliban. It was SMS OC mpdc had the horses out in Egypt on a DVD back in Oh freedom master wasn't lonely. We was about 100 Brothers deep connected at the heart based on Tawheed based on Turkey Let's go guys we didn't make youtube but we made the real news made history turn it into my

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story no that is living for the glory living for the power living for

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everybody how you guys doing all right let me get this over here

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All right there we go. Set I'm on a compartmentalize category here by doing hope you guys can see me hope the stream is working hope the sound is working hope is all working on my mobile setup here. So now what am Adam No bro they haven't figured it out yet. Man they have the worst customer service in the planet outlaws Salam aleikum Abdul Rahman yes I can see you bro. And Hamdulillah you got them bro Moon snap multicam How does everything look? Can you guys see is everything working? All right is everything everything is all good. All right. Oh, right. Oh, right. Oh, right. You're working able to Mendoza said I want to bro.

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Guys listen, I have internet. So hopefully in sha Allah Who to Anna, it will stay and we will be able to continue to stream

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but we're gonna have to keep the streams to about 30 minutes.

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Every stream has got to be about 30 minutes guys because my internet is is data kept. I was able to get some decent internet. But it is data capped. And

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so I'm gonna have to map to be very, very limited on on the streams and it's data cap meaning that this is going to use a lot of this data. So a lot of this is just so I can do the streams, do my work and do my sessions and things of that nature. So but we are here with him do the last ceremony come from Saudi Arabia, Mohammed Al ash, show off one of our members. May Allah bless you and I'll have my son

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More today so I can't give it all

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but thank you very much for being a member and helping me continue to do what I do over here

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Dennis and I'm why they come Abram Mendoza Yeah bro it's been a while since you've joined the chat I mean I yet how you doing? So yeah we got to keep them like 3040 minutes because if not then it will eat up all my data and we will be able to do no more streams and I won't be able to do no work

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but yeah I'm good I'm still in London I'll be in London for the next few streams I'll be in London for the next like four or five streams I'll be in London for like the next four or five streams.

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So as long as the internet keeps working then and as long as I don't have anything on a Thursday I'm trying to keep the Thursdays open for you guys in sha Allah

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so far they look open I do know that when Thursday in February I will be going to inshallah Jota Anna Kingston

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to have some talks with the youth in sha Allah and I will be putting out my full schedule very soon you know, things are coming into fruition now where some people are just now confirming events and getting back slowly so I didn't want to put out the calendar without everything

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being being

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confirmed not everything being confirmed. Everybody said the video is a bit dark

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now how about now that's actually a little bit too yellow Hold on

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Hold on

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No that's that's to now

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me go is that better? Is that better ever? That's too bright for me. How's that guys? A little bit brighter now there we go. Here we go. That should be alright. I'm

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from West Africa video is a bit dark is that a little bit better? Is that a little bit better?

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The background uses a bit louder than me

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How about now

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how about now Gabrielle

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How about now Gabrielle Is that Is that better? Because you have to stand this is my whole like this is not my home setup. So I had to if you guys follow me on Instagram you'll see that I had to do a whole entire mobile setup and

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so I had to redo everything like my stream labs all the all the sources and stuff like that have to be rearranged have to be reconfigured. So how do we look now? Moon we're better now sounds better looks better hamdulillah we're about better see Chelsea the end or Battersea Chelsea is that bro but um

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I'll post Dennis if you want to come if you want to meet me in person, then come to one of my events come to one of my events I'll be posting the schedule like I said hopefully

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this weekend and Shawn I'll be posting the entire schedule once everything well the entire schedule as it stands now of speaking events and you can come out to one of them in sha Allah

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has Musa got in touch with you? No he has not. No he has not. So if you want to come to one of the events then feel free to do so. I mean I thank you very much. Yes.

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I don't know if I would ever enjoy a January in London but at Henry love everything. It's just cold is wet, cold and wet. Every time I go out. Getting rainy, is superb. now VISTA online store I will leave the settings then we'll we'll leave the settings right here. Subhanallah

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but yeah, we have quite a few things going on. And

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there's going to be some talks so far. I know we have

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Saturday, this Saturday, I will be at Masjid humara I'll be at Masjid humara in East London. That's Murtaza Khan's Masjid. Unfortunately that one is brothers only that one is brothers only.

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And then next weekend, I will be in Cambridge. Next weekend. I'll be in Cambridge then after that I'll be in purely. Then we have Kingston Green Lane Masjid in sha Allah leads I'll be coming up to Leeds in sha Allah to holla at Abu Simon, the hobbies mastered, I'll be going to slough I'll be doing a talk in Montana. I'll be doing a talk at elf Eastland and masjid so all of these things are finally coming

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into full fruition so as soon as they are, we will will post the schedule in sha Allah.

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I don't know I don't know where Musa is anymore brother. I don't even know his legal name. I don't even know his legal name moves his name his real name. Say it. Who may you may Allah bless you. So yeah, I'll stay in Texas in mid January about 50 degrees. It's actually not cold right now. It's not like cold cold because we just live from Minnesota. We were shoveling out of snow for like an entire week straight. So it's not like it's cold cold. What is the temperature right now? It is. It's 50 degrees outside right now as well Gabriel, but it's just Oh, it's just constantly raining and windy. constantly raining and windy.

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that just gets wet and but next week is gonna be like in the 40s and raining and then it's just not nice, bro. It's just not nice. That wet I just don't like being wet all the time when it's cold. I'd rather it be like negative 30 When When

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there's no there's no moisture in the air because that's like a dry cold I can deal with that. But this whole 40 degrees 50 degrees and just wet all the time is just too much.

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Outlaw look forward to see you one of the talks. 100% look forward to see you on the talks as well.

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Emotional video Salam aleikum. What's your favorite car? My favorite car is a Mustang. Lots of different models. But it's always going to be a Mustang. Let's go. That's always gonna be the answer to that question. What is my favorite car a Mustang Shelby? Whether it be a GT 350 GT 500 Maybe like a 6768 GT 500

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So it's always going to be a Mustang it's always going to be a Mustang emotional videos.

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It's always and

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right now I'm actually on time for my stream for ones that hamdulillah

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I'm on time but not on time because it is what time is it 686 15 pm here. But but for my normal stream at home which is supposed to be around noon. I am on time I am on time and hamdulillah I'm on time

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had a coworker once from North Carolina said it's like a freezer here and colder than the east coast

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where Gabriel where where's that at?

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The hash hack Sara Ali Khan Warahmatullah he will better care to my brother How you doing? How you doing? Welcome to the stream my brother. Welcome to the stream. How you doing brother?

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I hope you are doing well. I hope your streams are going well because I know you stream as well. I'm not sure where you stream out these days.

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But I see your tweets and I see you around So may Allah bless you, Brother Hassan, masha Allah

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I love Mustangs but they are expensive. Yeah, any any any fast car any muscle car, supercar, whatever you want to have. It is going to be it's going to be it's going to be expensive. These things aren't cheap $100 Well funnily enough catch a stream. Yeah, it's a pleasure to have you Hudson it's pleasure to have you awesome. Yeah, I used to stream on Twitch regularly but now we're over on YouTube only because I had I have problems with what goes on over there twitch and I just can't see me

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trying to direct people over to twitch because they leave my stream and who knows where they end up?

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I've ever owned a pair of Jordan 11 Legend blues usif yesterday I had I had them when they first came out actually I had them early. I had them before they came out

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they are right they were right there'll be a bland

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Zagal bottle from Sudan from the UK, Sudan from the UK and I'm telling you where he comes in and from the UK HE doing said I'm gonna go to Africa to buy the you should I love seeing your cat and bird in your videos so yeah, I try to I try to involve everybody in the videos the bird likes to be the center of attention so she likes to get on on on on stream with me sometimes and and she likes to be in videos so sometimes when I'm working I just shoot us on my shoulder and so I don't even know she's on there sometimes it has to do stuff

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it makes the nine Sudan understandable. He said Texas a dry cold don't remember which said North Carolina but the cold there isn't bad because it gets snow Yeah, not too bad. Not too bad. Did the tube strikes affect you in any way outlaw? Yeah, they've affected me because I've had to take

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not an Uber because my Uber has been my Ubers all glitched out I can't even use my Uber. So I've been having to take boat which is something else. There's a whole nother app in the in Europe called bolt so I've been having to use bolt to get around bro. It's crazy.

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YouTube will take over twitch or any of it. Yeah, of course. Twitch is not doing anything to help the their platform and I honestly don't think they really

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He even see a future in the platform except for maybe some other stuff.

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But not for like,

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It definitely not gaming streaming. And especially with taking away 20% of partners revenue.

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You know, talk to your partner's revenue. It's crazy.

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So yeah, I see YouTube making leaps and bounds and the streaming space and I think they will take over eventually that somebody else comes in and does it better than both YouTube and Twitch but that will be very hard to do. That'd be very hard to do.

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Usually my use of I'm not going to answer that because I mean only things classic cars from 70s 80s and 90s are beauty. Yes, Dr. Kid five said Mr. Aiken. Warahmatullah you begin to how're you doing my brother? How you doing? How's it out there in Houston? How's it out there in Houston? How was the I know the weather is better than I'm dealing with right now. Hope you're doing well my brother

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as he I enjoy your conversation with the wife and short videos, they are very beneficial. May Allah bless you. Yes. And we've been waffling with.

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We said in the first couple of episodes that we are wallflowers and we're also been waffling on making more videos because it's not really just waffling. But I've been stupid busy for the past couple of weeks before this trip. I have been ridiculously busy to get everything ready to be gone for this many weeks. So when I get back and shot along when I get back and I have some rest then we will get back to making videos we'll be we'll get back to making more samosas and sweet tea inshallah. When I get back

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and I might be announcing new projects in the works when I get back. I'm having some meetings about that here. May Allah make it successful and fruitful? Insha Allah Jota Anna.

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Um, it's not ideal. I'm pretty sure that it mostly calmed down for now most two lines. Yeah, it's not ideal. I don't know, man. It's just, it's crazy. Like, I don't want to I haven't I don't keep up with the news. So I don't know who's striking and when they're striking. So it's it's crazy town. What you know, I don't think they're doing any real tube strikes right now.

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So, but I do know how to get around the tube quite easily in London. It's not, it's not really that difficult. There's only there's only a few lines and if you know what station you need to go to, and you know what line it's on. It's it's pretty self explanatory.

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It's not very difficult. Um

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any advice on not overcoming about overcoming laziness? Any advice on overcoming laziness? toward somebody? Come on. Good, bro. How are you? Yeah, overcoming laziness takes discipline. If you're someone who's finding yourself to be lazy about things, there is no there's no listen. There's no magic pill for being lazy. Like to get over things about being lazy about them. There's no, there's no magic pill. There is just consistency in discipline, you're just gonna have to start setting

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a schedule for yourself to do things. And you're gonna have to just get up and do them. That's it. You just got to get up and do them and force yourself over and over and over again, and it's gonna suck and it's gonna, your body's gonna fight back against it, your mind is going to fight back against you, you're not going to want to do it, but you got to do it anyway. And the more you do that, the more you push yourself to do things, then it will become habitual. And then when it becomes habitual, the laziness will leave. See, he's got it. He's got it. He's got a foursome. He's got a foursome

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it um, Salaam Alaikum good. Yep. I'm finding that UK about the same as I always find the UK especially on on January it's cold and wet. Does it cold them with cold and wet

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to the to the to the sun. I said.

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Where's where's Moon bunny and then Moon buddies right there. Moon bunnies right there. Hold on. I need to mumble mumble mumble mom

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Where's Moon bunny? Any chance your visit Liverpool while in the UK? It's about an hour and a half drive for Birmingham? I don't know. Zakka Batal? I don't know it depends. It depends on if we get an invite from there. And if I have a free availability right now, it's not on the schedule. My thinking about uploading content. I'm not sure what kind of leaning towards just like chat and chill like this. Or rant reactions. Nothing to Islamic. More like everyday things. Gabriel Mendoza. Yeah, get out of broke Creek gives you some time to do some things. Moon bunny has jumped in the chat said I'm gonna make a moon bunny Santa Monica Moon bunny. I hope you're doing well. My precious daughter.

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What do you think about the rumors that Saudi is buying the WWE? I have no idea. I haven't heard that. I haven't heard that. And I don't give a lot of lead to rumors. I don't I don't I don't know. I'm

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looking forward to all your UK lectures. May Allah bless you. May Allah bless you as well.

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What do you think will happen?

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If America becomes a Muslim country I think it'd be very great thing of course it'd be a great thing but you know it's it's up to Allah only Allah knows only Allah knows

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y'all have an NGO meet up we are working on one kid five we're working on one I actually had dinner with subs and my heater the other night. We had dinner together and but we're working on possibly getting a an mgL meet up while I'm here in JAMA

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I'm trying to keep up with the chat because my screen is way smaller than my one at home. So I have to scroll back to see them.

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handler in all situations, my physic exam tomorrow but other things are relative affecting my mental health may advise me May Allah make it easy for you touch wire I saw I think you email me and I saw your email and i'll get back to it ASAP inshallah. I'll get back to it and try to give you know as much advice as I can and Shama

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Houston's good little freeze but we are good and Amanda's good five Don't Don't talk to me about a freeze in Houston Lebra don't talk to me about a freeze in Houston my brother they don't get cold enough in Houston. He always freezes like is nothing is nothing

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thing is sound like to you and then it is shipped on Tim to because it's hard when so many praises and not do for praise listen when it comes to being praised. When it comes to being praised

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you you should not allow that to go to your head because you know yourself and I try to tell you this all the time. And I try to tell you guys that there is nothing special about myself at all period. I'm just another brother but that's it there's no I'm not no chef. I'm not no scholar. I'm not no Imam none of that. I'm just a guy who tries to do what he can with what I have and the little bit of time that I've been given and a little bit of information I've been given that's it if you know yourself you're able to stay humble

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use if you're going to be in Birmingham, I might be coming to Greenland masjid and Shama might be coming to Greenland Masjid Shama

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somebody come please give me a contract address email Artur you should Evans [email protected] Archer if you want to message me, you should Evans [email protected] That's it. So way to direct me

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brother being from Louisiana I've been relating to your story a lot. I've been studying to become a youth minister and it's led me to you brother which has led me to Allah and the truth Joe Garcia May Allah bless you. guide you grant you goodness, grant your righteousness grant you faith. And if you need any help along that journey, reach out to me as well. If you need any help along that journey, as well. Reach out to me you shamans [email protected]

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I saw you eating some fries somewhere on Twitter man a video? Yeah, Hasson those fries, bro. Hasn't those fries were bumping my man those fries if any of you ever seen him it's on my Instagram and on my twitter simply smashed I went over to see them they're actually they're actually remodeling right now so they're only doing takeout but the brother invited me over to try a new item he's putting out there simply smash that make a lot of burgers wagyu mince meat burgers and halaal lamb bacon and stuff like that. Anyway, they're coming out with some some New York fries and those fries with that with that smoky

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barbecued chicken on top with that white sauce.

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Man I'm telling you they were they were bumping they were bumping the white sauces a little spicy and probably would kill my reflux if I ate too much of it but man I wanted to keep eating it and just pay for it later. Seriously, but I just wanted to keep eating it and pay for it later. But I had to stop myself. I had to stop myself my brother

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Bob Essanay can please give me a good yo are given what is the major problem about being Muslim in a western community? I would say the major problem is just

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trying to hold on to your to your deen that's it. But if you're in a good community that's not even a problem

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that's not even a problem.

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I have a face for radio that's what I'm gonna hesitate don't get

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it Gabrielle don't do that to yourself, man. Don't do that yourself. We got a face for radio. Oh my gosh. And I'm on OCDs the you can't give a small advice like this. OCD is something that needs to be dealt with properly. So either if it is clinical OCD, you need to see a psychiatrist. If it's clinical OCD you need to see a psychiatrist. If it's OCD that is affecting your religion and it doesn't seem like it's it's it's a clinical. Then speak to a counselor and speak to a counselor

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that's the best way to do that.

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The freeze calls my water heater to crack what?

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Oh, had your water heater crack you don't get that cold in Houston y'all guys don't build water heaters, right?

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Man Seriously you guys got the water heaters outside of something the Howler wanna quarterly be liberal

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you're always human facts. Facts

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crazy. Um, have you heard about Kevin Lee from UFC become Muslim? Yeah, I didn't see that somewhere on on on socials. I saw that somewhere. I saw that somewhere.

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Got to do some groceries from mother so I'll be lurking. No worry Hassan. May Allah bless you, bro. May Allah bless you.

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Have I've been feeling Hm? Feeling good? Right? hamdulillah feeling good doing doing what I got to do? Keep going. We go to we can't go no more. That's it. That's it in life. You don't lose if you don't quit. Right? I say that all the time. Guys. You don't lose if you don't quit. If you don't quit, you don't lose. So as long as you keep fighting, as long as you keep going, as long as you keep pushing, then you win. Simple as that. So we keep winning, we keep pushing. I'm

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sorry, can bro How can we get you in Gambia?

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Send me an email. If you want to invite me to event send me an email, sha Allah. We'll see if we can make it happen.

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If everything goes to plan with the new project that I might be working on your boy is going to be extremely exuberantly busy. But we'll see even more busy than I already am. But that's life. You stay busy. I said, I like staying busy. Because if you don't get busy, you start dying road. When you get to a certain age, you start feeling like if you don't stay busy, you start fading. And I got it. So I got to stay busy. I stay busy.

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What's my favorite movie? I don't know. I'd have to think about that. I'd be hard one to say. And be hard one to say was my favorite movie. It was like the 20s Bro in Minnesota is like the negative 20s. It's like the negative 20s. Y'all can handle some 20s in Houston. Come on, man.

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How does one handle intrusive thoughts? pinching this is like what's worse intrusive thoughts? It depends on what the level of the MS. You know, sometimes you guys ask me some questions that

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you actually have to really think about, you know, everyone who can answer every question is not very knowledgeable. Because if you know, things then you know you don't know a lot and you can't answer everything. So when it comes to what's wasa? You know, these are things we seek refuge in Allah from chiffon with.

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As Allah says in surah, Nas was was ill Hanna's. But if it's something that seems to be a mental issue, to where you're having intrusive thoughts that will not go away. This is something that you need to speak to a counselor about, or a therapist about, or a psychiatrist about. Because there could be some underlying issues that are going on that are causing these intrusive thoughts. They could be stemming from stress that can be stemming from anxiety, they can definitely be from chiffon, they can be EagleEye they can be some

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symptom of some other mental disorder. So these things need to be weighed properly and looked at correctly just answering them this format because if it's just if it's just wastewater from Shetland and we seek refuge from it, if it has intrusive thoughts from anxiety, then we got to get to the core of the anxiety. If it is intrusive thoughts from other underlying mental issues then we got to figure out what those are. So this is not something that you can just answer in in in a black and white format. It's not something you just answered a black and white format unfortunately, because you could give advice that could do more harm than do good but if you find these thoughts will not

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go away even after you seek refuge and ship on even after you've tried so many times if you find that these intrusive thoughts will just not leave you then this is something I have to speak to a professional about pinchy Yes, counselors sometimes are expensive, but you can also find I don't know where you live but you can find

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services under your insurance plan or if you don't have insurance you can look for free counseling or reach out in Sharla can also reach out to me at you shamans [email protected] That's for all my counseling all goes to you Chevron's [email protected] um

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let me see what I'm missing here I know I guess I'm missing monitor Tata Tata Tata Tata Tata Tata.

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DFW get down to like 10 a good couple of weeks ago Gabrielle Mendoza. Yeah, it gets cold. I mean, that's, but you guys have to understand I understand it.

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Texas that's like bitter cold but in Minnesota like 10 is a good day 10 is a good day 10 is a good day, Mama tragedy in your Instagram motivation. May Allah bless you. May Allah bless you.

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May Allah bless you, I appreciate you. I'm

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sorry, I'm gonna come back out. You should if you're if there's a religious Christian who's depressed, I tell them to pray their God and know what

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they need to see they need to seek. They need to seek counseling or professional help you and tell them to pray to their God because they pray to Jesus.

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I'm Papa papa, papa. Brother, Hashmi. Do you think entities are good, but that only Allah knows? Only Allah knows, among those best, smartest way to give the answer sometimes? I don't know. Yeah, absolutely.

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Saying I don't know, when you don't know is the right answer. If you don't know something, then saying I don't know. That's the right answer.

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I said, I'm gonna come along with regard to what's the stream of Bobby coming up? Probably when I get back to the States. I want to get back to the States.

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I'm Adam husana, vich. Do you think there should be more transparency with the Imams salaries or how much they get paid for events? Since money comes from the community? I mean, that's a question as asked the chat, they think so. I mean, do you think that the Imam salaries should be published, you know, I think a lot of cases, imams

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aren't taken care of properly. And then there might be some cases where they're, they're over, taken care of, but that's up to the community and their standards.

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I'm just trying to read your message and balance a dean in business in this case, well, everyone is, you know, everyone's allowed to

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put a value on their own time.

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And I'm not going to get into what anybody does or doesn't do.

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Because that's not my business. My you know, I know what I do when people invite me to places but, you know, it all depends on the person and what they value their time at. If someone tells you their time, at something, and and and they feel like, that's what their time is worth. And it's hard to, it's hard to argue with that because time is a valuable commodity. And if someone's super busy, and they have, so I don't know, but you know, that's something you'd have to take up with them.

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But I do know, we shouldn't be exuberant. I don't know we shouldn't be we should not be exuberant, and asking for things and things of that nature. We should not be exuberant at all.

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Um, do you recite and memorize a certain portion of the Quran every day? I mean, not every day, I try to do as much as I can. Not every not every day, not every day.

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But I try as much as I can use if he's all going to hamdulillah

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there's a free psychology treatments we didn't but it's secular. That could harm one's religion right? Now, if you're talking about intrusive thoughts and OCD and things like that, like, I see a secular therapist, like you know, like, there's sometimes you need to talk to people about things, you know, I mean,

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so there shouldn't be an issue.

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Just don't don't don't bring up religion. They're not going to be to talk to you about things that are religion, but we should have more Muslim therapists and counselors in our communities. 100%

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What do you have to say about being married and being a student and knowledge VISTA online store? What do you mean what I have to say about it, do it

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if you didn't want to be a student in college you want to go to focus get married, and it'll be you help you with a focus

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extreme can ask a serious question for a change you can ask whatever you want to want ask you just asked I don't know if I can answer it.

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No, wait Muhammad Qasim. May Allah bless you as well. May Allah bless you.

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Stay away from secular psychology in my opinion, they try to tell you stuff regarding a religion from my experience they're not supposed to. And you should be able to, you know, Rudolph the difference between religion and non religion.

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I struggle with new do I struggle doing muscle showering, brushing my teeth. I'm a grown man who I do. I'm not a troll. Hassan Khan. I don't know why you struggle at him. Like what do you have? Is it because of OCD? I'm not sure why you struggle at him. We only have about five more minutes chat. Like I said, I'm gonna have to keep these 30 to 40 minutes or my data will run out and they will not.

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They will not let me have any more. So if my data runs out, or I have to keep topping it up too much. It will become exuberantly expensive to continue to do these streams.

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Because it's like, I think it's something like

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$60 Every time I have to top it up,

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and they only give me 240 240 gigabytes and that's between

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This my work counseling sessions that I'm still doing while I'm here. So

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mentally if it's something that you're struggling with because of of OCD hasn't gone, then you're going to need to have a sit down with someone and have a sit down with someone.

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Whether that's myself or someone else who does mental health in the Muslim community, then you're going to have to sit down with someone and talk to them because there could be some mental issues at play here.

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Elgin salaam aleikum How you doing my brother? It's all good. It's all good. It's all good.

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It's all good. Everything's good, bro. Just chilling here in London. Once I get off this stream, I'm gonna start looking for me some dinner, have some Khan reach out to me you Chevron's [email protected]

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And we'll see if we can get you sorted out to the best of our abilities inshallah. And if I can't help you, then you know looking for a Muslim professional. In the mental health field. We need more. We need way, way way more Muslim,

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mental health professionals. We need way more Muslim mental health professionals Trust me I'm seeing that it is it is an epidemic. It is an epidemic in our community of people dealing with mental health issues as Muslims and not wanting to go to secular psychologist or psychiatrist simply because of the religion issue. So we need there's way way, way more need for Muslim mental health professionals 100%.

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Zayn Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. My brother, how you doing? What's the Islamic opinion on mental illness? I personally struggle with it too. What do you mean, what is the Islamic opinion? Islamic opinion is that it is valid like people have mental illnesses, that's it mental illnesses is valid. And sometimes that's what deals with this. I mean, that's what affects us

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as a real battalion, in fact about yesterday I wonder what time to use the stream around the same time every Thursday, around the same time every Thursday.

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Every Thursday around the same time we stream

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do you coach new Muslims Shantay Marcel? Yes, yes, we can do new Muslim coaching, new Muslim coaching, trauma coaching

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you know, holistic coaching, couples counseling, premarital whatever it is that that you want, unless it has to do with something that needs a psychiatric evaluation, we can deal with inshallah. And if not, then I will forward you to a psychiatrist.

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Or tell you to find one in your area. But we need some more.

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More Guevara begins Santa Monica welcome Salam wa rahmatullahi begitu How you doing?

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Um, what do you do if your parents are against you praying you have to pray anyway. You have to pray. You have to pray. Even if your parents don't want you to, there is no obedience to the creation and disobedience to the Creator. So we have to pray no matter what. No matter what.

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No matter what.

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Trauma coaching, how much does it cost? Do my parents need to know I'm a Reaver? No one, it depends on your age with your parents need to know as long as you're not a minor.

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Then then you can do the coaching and you can find out all of the scheduling on my website you should have it's coaching.com You should Evans coaching.com

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He I'll type it in the chat real quick.

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I think I spelled that right. Should have a clickable link right there. You Shipman's coaching.com You can check it out right there.

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Alright, guys, we're gonna have to get up out of here. Like I said, I'm just grateful that I'm able to do a stream because when I first got here, when I first got here, I had like, nothing, I had like, five megabyte download and like point, six, not even not even, not even one megabyte upload, it wasn't even one wasn't even one. So there was no way that I was going to build a stream like that. So the streams might not have even happened. So grateful. Thankfully, Alhamdulillah I was able to go out and get a

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a data package, a data Wi Fi box. That gives me 20 to 40 gigabytes of data. So hopefully we don't run out of that. If not, we'll purchase some more. But I have to limit the streams because I know how much data streaming uses uses a tremendous amount of data. I do know that the failure center Islamic counseling and psychiatry there's a cat foundation and they do

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telemedicine and sliding scale feet Michelle one Yeah, I've heard of them I've heard of Hillier center so you can check people can also check them out and Shama.

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Alright guys, I'm gonna get up out of here. We'll be back insha Allah Who to Allah next Thursday. Next Thursday. We look forward to be back.

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That is the goal in sha Allah

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is to be back next Thursday. So hopefully I got some brothers coming from Australia to see me.

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Actually they're flying in from LA

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And on to see me next week so I'll be with him all week but I'm gonna pop out I'll try to pop out on Thursday

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and come over here and do a stream for you guys at least like half an hour 40 minutes is that he and I'll be in Leeds. Zane. I'll be in Leeds on February the 11th and Sharma I'll be in Leeds February the 11th and Shama I'm gonna post my entire schedule out probably by this weekend in Sharma but February the 11th in Sharma who Tana RBI Rama center, Rama fi center in Leeds Chumba So, if you're able to come out there, come out. I look forward to seeing you there inshallah.

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Alright guys, I pray you all take care of yourself. Wherever you are in the world. Take care of yourself. Remember you are important. You are important. So take care of yourself.

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I'll be posting it on Twitter and Instagram, Twitter and Instagram, Twitter and Instagram. So if you follow me on Twitter, you'll find that follow me Instagram you find it. I hope you guys take care of yourself. I wish you nothing but goodness. May Allah grant you goodness in your hearts, goodness in your minds, goodness in your heart, our homes, goodness in your souls. May Allah grant you peace. May Allah grant us serenity. May Allah grant you safety. And in sha Allah Who to Anna, I look forward to seeing you guys. Next Thursday. I got nothing but love for you because you guys spent 40 minutes with me, I wish I could have stayed with you guys longer trust me. I'm actually I might be

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able to push it to an hour. But I want to see how much data is just used. I'll find out right after the stream how much data is used. And depending on the data that is used, we'll either have to keep it at 30 to 40 minutes so we might be able to extend it a little bit more. But we'll find out next week. I got to the below if you guys and I'll see you guys next Thursday in sha Allah make dua for me as I make dua for all of you guys, may Allah bless you all, as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh PEACE OUT

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