The Infinite Adab & Wisdom of Dialogue of the Prophet

Yasir Qadhi


Channel: Yasir Qadhi

File Size: 12.74MB

Share Page
AI generated text may display inaccurate or offensive information that doesn’t represent Muslim Central's views. Therefore, no part of this transcript may be copied or referenced or transmitted in any way whatsoever.

AI Generated Transcript ©

00:00:00--> 00:00:29

Subhan Allah look at the infinit a dub and wisdom of dialogue of our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Well Allah He it is mind boggling. Our Prophet system is having a dialogue with a pagan an idol worshiper Acorah sheet, and in the course of this dialogue, he is being insulted to the highest degree of insults. This is an insult of the highest magnitude and what is he doing? Woman

00:00:36--> 00:00:39

No more you logging those law the

00:00:41--> 00:00:42


00:00:44--> 00:00:48

nanny mean animals Nene.

00:00:49--> 00:00:52

Allow salatu salam ala Rasulillah. While early he will be

00:00:54--> 00:01:36

one of the beautiful incidents of the Sierra, which occurred after our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam went public with his Dawa. And it is a well known incident reported in all of the books of Sierra was when the Prophet systems preaching became known to the Quraysh. And it started causing tensions within families. Brother was pitted against Brother Uncle against her cousin so it became an issue of the entire city getting involved. And one of the senior members of the college by the name of Raja tipner Robbie. He was in the delegation of the the network that was their parliament if you like he was one of the senior MPs. The kurage did not have one chieftain after even Abdul

00:01:36--> 00:02:16

Muttalib. They didn't have one king one. They had all of the chieftains basically in a parliament, and one of the members was responsive in Arabia. And he asked the delegation, he asked the Congress the network, he asked them, Do you authorize me to negotiate on your behalf and to make some conditions so that we can end all of this tension? They said anything as long as he stops preaching this message, so Rootsweb neuroglia went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam found the time and place that there was nobody there in front of the camera, by the way, who is relatable, or intuitive? neuroglia he is the father in law of Sophia Sophia and his daughter is Hynde. And the one

00:02:16--> 00:02:56

that you know the Hamza incident hint, this is the father of hint, or ultimative, notably as the one that when the incident of thought if happened, rutabaga was the one that said to the Christian slave, go and give the grapes that was the garden that belonged to Aruba, outside of thought if when he saw the prophecies, and he saw what happened, he had a merciful moment that this is my nephew, who is from the Qureshi is, you know, the second cousin of the father of the Prophet system. So he's from the kurush, but he is not from the exact lineage. And by the way, it also is the one in the Battle of budder, in the Battle of budder, when the Prophet system was lined, and he saw the Quran

00:02:56--> 00:03:39

on the other side, and they saw a man with a turban around his face, and he was on a red camel winning a very expensive, very beautiful camel rushing in the front of the ranks, and they couldn't hear what he was saying. But the prophet system knew because Allah told him to breathe, he told him what the man is saying. The Prophet system said, if there is any good in the people, they will listen to the man on the red camel. This is expletive neurobiol okay, if there is any good, they'll listen to the sensible advice of the man on the red camel. Later on, they found out the man on the red camel was Earth was not Obeah. And what was he telling his people? He was telling his people? Oh

00:03:39--> 00:04:19

my people, why are you killing your own blood? These are your own cousins who's gonna benefit let them believe in another religion, who cares? You're killing them. So he was advising them to not go to war because he felt it to be petty rutabaga was we would call him a very, you know, right wing nationalist. He was a proud of his tribe. And yes, he didn't like the religion of Islam, but he wasn't wanting to kill the Muslims because they're of a different faith. He wanted to be a Torah, she pure Karachi, and he wanted stability over theology, right? He cared about the prestige of the Quraysh, over the religion of the Prophet system. So anyway, back to the story. So he goes to the

00:04:19--> 00:04:58

Prophet system. And he says, and by the way, by is maybe two decades older, the process is now 4142 years old, 43 or whatever is in his late 50s, early 60s, Aruba. Is this one of the senior members, he's seen the Prophet system as a child, he's an elder of the Koresh. Another point where he brought the words of Fidel to an end. If you remember the days of Joe Helia. That civil war that took place Ruth Bo was the one who brought it to an end. He's a very respected member. So he goes to the Prophet system. He says, hey, my nephew, my nephew, Isn't this enough? Haven't you caused enough problems? You have divided our own? Look, his paradigm is very different. What is he worried about?

00:04:58--> 00:05:00

He's not worried. He

00:05:00--> 00:05:41

wants to have unity. He wants to have what we call that national sentiment. He wants to have the pride of the courageous who he is. You have divided our people you have caused families to be broken up. You have made one Karachi against another Cora sheep, you have considered our icons to be ridiculous. We need the gods, right? These are our Icons. Imagine if you know an American disrespect the flag, right? That's this is our icon, you know how they react. Similarly, he's saying you have considered our icons to be ridiculous. And then he asked him, Who is more knowledgeable? You are Abdulmutallab, meaning Abdul Muttalib, who he is your grandfather? How could you be correct and he'd

00:05:41--> 00:06:23

be wrong, who is more knowledgeable and are you more knowledgeable than your own grandfather, and the Prophet CISM was silent. Then he said, I am coming here to negotiate and then the famous thing if you want wealth, we will give you all the wealth in the world. If you want power, we will make you a member of the shura of the network. And no decision will take place except with your veto will give you veto power, you will have the power of veto. And if you want you know if you have a disease, we will get you the best doctor and if you want marriage name Eddie woman, make sure she marries you. Whatever bribe we're willing to give you. Right? The Prophet says, remain quiet. Then

00:06:23--> 00:07:02

he said ferrata Abell Walid Are you now done? Oh, absolutely. Because his son is what he did. When are you done are overloaded? He said yes. So then the Prophet said, listen to what I have to say. Then he began reciting Surah facilite ha Meem transilluminator Rahman Rahim, Kitab and facilite. To and he recited, recited, recited until he came to the verse and I will Walid Aruba. He had put his hands back and he's now sitting listening as an older man, he's sitting with the, you know, with the restaurant, his back with his hands like this, and he's listening and his face is changing, changing, changing. By the way, I always mentioned the Subhanallah when we listen to men, shall we

00:07:02--> 00:07:41

Abdullah Basotho sorry the mashallah the king of Aurora? How we are affected right? Can you imagine if we heard the Tilawat of the Prophet system what would have happened? Can you imagine hearing his recitation May Allah grant us that agenda to for those insha Allah to Allah so rudabeh is listening to the Prophet systems did our his whole face is changing until finally the prophets ism comes to the verse for in our or do if they reject this message for call under Tecumseh cotta Metro saya today I don't know what the mood I'm warning you of a lightning bolt that will destroy them, like either the mood were destroyed. And it's a crescendo it's building up. If you read the verses,

00:07:41--> 00:08:25

they're powerful, they're powerful by this time, but jumps up and he puts his hand on the mouth of the prophet system. And he says I beg you by Allah stop. This is a threat. And I'm worried I beg you by Allah stop. Don't go further. Hi, just stop here. So the prophets have said, Okay, you have heard what I have to say for Antonio Schatten okay, it's up to you what you want to do, then the story goes on. So many benefits, but the point I wanted to just bring here small benefit Subhanallah look at the infinit a dub and wisdom of dialogue of our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Well Allah He it is mind boggling. You know, when two of us Muslims get involved in a debate or a dispute. We

00:08:25--> 00:09:09

don't even show a fraction of wisdom of Russia of common sense. Our profit system is having a dialogue with a pagan an idol worshiper Acorah sheet, and in the course of this dialogue, he is being insulted to the highest degree of insults. You want money will give you money. What an insult to the honor and dignity of our prophets. Allah Allahu Allah, he was selling them. Do you think he wants money? You want power you want to women are older Biller, this is an insult of the highest magnitude. And what is he doing? Quiet? Go ahead. More asked me more. No problem, right. And the question as well. Are you more knowledgeable or abnormal buddy? Now we are insulted. But from his

00:09:09--> 00:09:52

paradigm. It's a common sense question. Who are you? Oh, grandson of Abdul Muttalib You're a nobody compared to him from his paradigm is different. And notice the wisdom not to single one of these insults the prophecies and responded to why? Because it's hopeless. Do you expect the process to say I am more better than my grandfather and a bull will lead or else was going to understand his paradigm is so different. That to merely say the Profit System is better is going to be falling on deaf ears. This is what you call wisdom. You choose your battles and you choose when to speak and when to be quiet and you choose what to say. And he didn't even respond to all of those bribes, out

00:09:52--> 00:09:59

of dignity not even responding just complete ignoring and this is the sign of a dignified critics.

00:10:00--> 00:10:16

panela and then what did he do? He presented to him go resurfacer we don't have time to go into that, go read it. He presented him the message of Islam. And the first page and a half of sort of Fossella talks about Tawheed. It talks about rissalah. It talks about an era and then it ends with a threat that if you turn away,

00:10:17--> 00:10:57

is there and that's when I would have already jumped and said enough is enough. From this, we learned and inshallah with this, we conclude, dear brothers in Islam SubhanAllah. What a beautiful manner here that when you are engaging in dialogue, understand the goal is not the Jew show that you are better than the other person. The goal is to genuinely convinced the person and how you convince the person, generally speaking, is by respecting the dignity and the time. In fact, he even asked about what are you done now? He let him go on and on. And on. Next time you see a debate between two Muslims, you will see they will not even let the first person finish the sentence before the other

00:10:57--> 00:11:35

one interjects and thinks he's refuting they won't even let you finish the sentence. And here the Prophet system is sitting. Go ahead, quiet. Go ahead more, more and more when he's done. He even asked him anything else anything left? This shows you simple common sense. And then also the wisdom and how you respond right? The paradigms are so different, that the Prophet system would not even have been, you know, successful if he tried to negotiate with everybody. I don't want money that would be insulting to even say that, Oh, I am better than Abdul methodic that would not fly on his ears. So you just ignore that and you move to your solid points and the solid points are what the

00:11:35--> 00:11:54

Quran Tauheed the salah. In any case, this beautiful anecdote is full of wisdom and it shows us the dignity of our prophets of Allahu alayhi wa sallam and it shows us some etiquettes of how we debate and dialogue May Allah subhanho wa Taala causes to benefit from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Sharla will continue later on so make one

00:11:55--> 00:11:56


00:12:02--> 00:12:04

us one Luna island

00:12:07--> 00:12:08

you Yeah

00:12:11--> 00:12:12


00:12:14--> 00:12:18

water he wants to label this NEMA

00:12:19--> 00:12:24

in Alladhina you know Allah wants to

00:12:25--> 00:12:25

know more.

00:12:27--> 00:12:29

To Nia or laughing or auntie

00:12:31--> 00:12:33

mother movie in

00:12:34--> 00:12:42

Wallasey. No you do. Meanie No, Mina TV a while at MCC DESA Boo

00:12:43--> 00:12:43


00:12:46--> 00:12:47


00:12:48--> 00:12:49