Yasir Qadhi – Seerah – 52 Background of The Wives of Prophet Muhammad

Yasir Qadhi
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smilla rahmanir rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi minor Marburg. In our last week we had done the incidence of Marana and Aqua Jia. And the next major incident that occurred we're actually going to postpone it till next week. And we need to catch up with other incidents that are not directly related to the plaza watch. And next week inshallah we'll talk about the incident of the expulsion of the bonadio, which is the second of the three Jewish tribes, as you know, there were three yahoodi tribes there, the Bernal criminal court who did and the bundle Kaurava. And after the second of the two, three tribes was

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removed, but there are things that are happening that are in the personal life of the Prophet for so long. So we need to get up to date with that, and in particular, the marriages of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that took place around this time and before this time, which we have been obviously sidelining because of the major political events now, with regards to the marriages of the Prophet sister, Mashallah, maybe inshallah, when we finished, we'll try to have more light on each of the nomads and more meaning, but we need to understand what's going on at this particular time. In the personal life of the Prophet system, after the death of Khadija, we talked about her

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deja, by the way an entire lectures online, an hour and a half lecture about all of the details of Khadija and obviously the status of Khadija and the love that the process of them had for her. It is said that after Khadija died for many months, the processor was not seen smiling. He was so devastated by her death. Eventually, however, Binti Hakeem suggested to him Why don't you marry someone Yasuda law? So he said, Who do you suggest Who do you have in mind? So she said, If you want an elderly lady, then soda and if you want the young lady then Asia and so the Prophet isn't married the both of them within a month of each other. But our Isha he did not consummate the marriage for

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another three and a half years. Okay, so he just got the nikka done. And Ayesha deserves multiple lectures and sha Allah she will have a long series inshallah, maybe when we finish we'll look at our issue. And as for soda, so the next wife of the process from after I show was there for soda and soda. Her name is soda, Binti zmr had been placed in the shrimps and her previous husband was a sucker on an AMA, who is the brother of suhaila, nama and shukran had migrated to avicennia. And he either died in abbacy. Nia, or right after his return, he died a very early death. He's one of the few Sahaba, whose name we know who died in the mccunn era. And her family when she had converted to

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Islam. Her family had disowned her, her family had cut her off, and she really had nobody else in MK to take care of her. And so the profits of the love it was said and felt compassion for her and married her, probably in show while of the 10th year of the that was probably one of the 10th year of the data. And she was also the oldest or the eldest of all of the wives of the Prophet salallahu idea he was setting them. We do not have any dates of her age, but we know that she was the eldest. And we also know that she was a rather large lady, and she would walk very slowly. And we know this because she herself tells us this. And because she says that, in hedger to Wada, in the farewell

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hedge, I asked permission from the Prophet system to leave was very early, because she was a lady that walked very slowly and she was a large build. And she wanted permission to avoid the crowds. She wanted permission to avoid the crowds to get too much before the rest of the crowd. And so if an Ibis was sent with her to basically take her in a small entourage or small group, to avoid the rush, and from this, we get the position that on the night of mas Delica, anybody who has any need can leave early and go to MCC early. So the elderly and the weak and those who need to take care of them. We get from this heavy that. So there was elderly and age, meaning she you know, she has

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problems walking and everything. And so she was given permission to go early

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in the verdienen era.

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Probably on the sixth or seventh year, we don't know exactly when she began to feel that perhaps the prophecies might divorce her. And so she negotiated of her own will. She negotiate of her own will with the profits of the LaGuardia who was selling them, and she said, O Messenger of Allah. I have no jealousy of your other wives, meaning

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My age is not like this. I have no jealousy of your other wives. So, and I want to be with you so that I can be resurrected amongst your wives and your milk in our head. I want to be with you. So take my night and give it to her, give it Arusha, take my night and give it to Asia. And so she gave up her night that was her obviously a portion, and she voluntarily donated it to Arusha, knowing that the profit Solar System obviously would welcome this and it is said that when she did this Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed in sort of the Nyssa verse 128, so within this is around this time, fourth, fifth sixth Digital's with the Nyssa. So it fits in perfectly and so that the Nyssa Allah

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subhana wa tada says, verse 128, with the Nyssa, one in beratan, Horford minvalue new shoes and have all been Fela Juna holiday, Hema a nuestra Habana, Houma sola, if a woman fears that her husband will abandon her or leave her or not treat her in a good manner. Now, obviously, the the idea is not just for them, it's for the all of the wives. So if a woman feels that her husband will leave her or not treat her the way that she wants, then she can negotiate something with him. And the two of them can agree to any type of conditions between them. And these conditions are good, well suited to hate. And these conditions are good. And of course, this too is a blessing from Allah subhana wa

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Tada. There's no doubt about that, that our issue was, as we know the prophets isms, favorite wife, after Khadija, and he did want to spend more time with him, but he could not do so because he was being fair to all of his wives. So it is as if Allah subhanho wa Taala basically willed for him that he has a lady that has no need for his night, and for her night with him, and she will just give him her own free will. So it is as if Allah subhana wa tada gifted the Profit System to have a double share with our Isha. And this clearly shows us the permissibility of negotiating even amongst spouses of that which is their right, and she died relatively early in the time of Ramadan.

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She died in a time of Ramadan caught up and she's buried in Buckley. This is the second wife. And we're just discussing her now because we need to catch up. We haven't discussed this tangent, even though the marriage took place, obviously in Makkah, and she was the first wife after Khadija. So right after Khadija by probably six months or so, he married Sodor. As far as we said, she deserves multiple lectures, you cannot talk about Asia in a few minutes. She has so much to mention. And she was the one. The process of him said that in a dream he saw, basically an angel carrying a lady that was covered up to him. And the angel said, This shall be your wife, and she uncovered the hijab or

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the veil, and it was our issue. And so and this is a sizable hottie. And so he said, if this dream is from Allah subhanho wa Taala, it will come to pass and it did come to pass, it actually became his wife. And then the guy was done, as we said in Makkah, but the marriage was consummated, later, in Medina in the second year of the hedgerow and the second year of the hedgerow the marriage was consummated, and, as we said, deserves an entire separate lecture. The third lady, who actually is the fourth now because Khadija is the first so we're not even going to consider that. So

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let's start memorizing the names because we'll let he hardly any of us has memorized these names, right? So number one,

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Khadija, number two, soda number three, our issue number four have saw have not been to my house saw the daughter of aroma of no hot pot and have sought was married right at this time. So now that's what we're talking about the other marriages that they basically have so is now marriage taking place at this stage. So chronologically, this is the marriage that we need to speak about now have saw, most likely she was born five years before the DA began, most likely around five, maybe six, seven years. But around a few years before the Prophet system began preaching before the war, he began. And she was married at a very young age, very young age, probably 12 or 11 of this to one of

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the early converts his name was born as a man who's alpha one a seven with alpha. And she migrated to Abby senior with her husband honus. And we hardly know anything about her niece, because obviously he died an early death because that is how she became a widow. All that we know is that her name is participated in both budget and output. So no doubt this was a very blessed and fortunate so hobby to be participating in both budget and overhead. And there were only a handful of them widely known ad budget and that was, you know, around 70 or so. And this was obviously one of the elite one of the Sahaba. In Ohio he was severely wounded and he was carried back to Medina and

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he passes away right afterward.

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So basically he dies at a Shaheed but because of the wounds, not on the battlefield, but it is still a Shaheed because he died because of the wounds and have sought was extremely traumatized. She just lost her husband. She's very young, she's probably 1920 years old at this time. And she is very pained and lonely that she has just lost her husband. And she did not have any children. She's at the prime of her youth. And Omar feels for her and Omar wants to help her out. And after her it is over. So Omar goes to Rosemont, even our fan, and he speaks to Earth man and our fan and he says that Earth man, what do you think of half son, obviously, when the father is asking about his

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daughter, it's understood that there is a marriage proposal, right. And this was how they would do marriage proposals that the well he would go find somebody suitable. And then basically

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offer if you like, this was typically the way that it was done, that the what he would typically offer the one that he is in charge of, and the other way is also permitted. And that is that the man comes to the wedding and says, I'm interested in your, your girl or the girl that you're the wedding of, but generally speaking, it was the the person who has the the daughter or the sister, he would go looking for somebody. So he goes to Earth money, but our Sun and Earth man,

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what had happened with man's personal life.

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His first wife was

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his first wife was

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the daughter of the process somewhat passed away. Ad budget, butter, right. And Ruth man, being the shy person that he was, is still single,

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this man is still single. So he goes shirtless man, and he offers have saw to Earth man. And Earth man remained quiet said let me think about this. And then after a few days, he came back and he said,

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I think that I don't want to get married right now. Now there's a secret that he cannot tell.

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So he just says, I think that I should not get married at this stage. And Omar felt very much grief at this because this is like a rejection for him and his daughter. And this is Earth man who's a nobleman. He's a hoarder. She's wealthy. He's every all the good characteristics you want. From this time he wants somebody like Earth man, and it's not any single as well. Right? And the fact that he's saying he doesn't want to get married really means from almost perspective. I don't like your daughter, right? So it really hurt aroma. So he took his pride swallowed it, one, two aboubaker. Now, now Oba is married, but he wants a noble son in law, even if it means his wife's gonna be his

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husband, his daughter is going to be a second wife, right? So he goes to Abu Bakar. And he says the same thing, what do you think of half so once again, when you say something like this is understood what is going on? And that will bucker was completely silent as well. What can he say something is going on? He cannot tell him up. So he says, Let me think about it. And he doesn't return at all four days. He doesn't even know what to tell her. Right? So Abu Bakar doesn't even give him a job. And Omar says this was much more painful to me than Earth man's. That what's wrong now? What is going on? He doesn't see anything problem with his daughter What is going on? And according to some

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books of

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a DJ, I didn't find this in Urbanus, Hawk and others, but some books have

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you know narrators of the Sahaba the biographies of the Sahaba. One of them, it mentions that Omar even went to complain to the Prophet system, about Abu Bakar and Roma Earth man, what's going on here, you know, they turned upside down, or not complain, but you know, just like talk like, you know, they turned him upside down. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Have saw, will marry someone better than Earth man.

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And Earth man will marry someone better than half saw.

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He has a plan, Omar still didn't get it. Omar still didn't get it until finally, the fifth bar or the proposal came directly from the Prophet so certain that he wants to marry have sought and of course, as far as man, she married the daughter of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And afterwards, boubakeur came and excused himself and said, perhaps you felt something about against me when I didn't come back to? So he said, Yes, I did. So he said, The Prophet says, I've had mentioned have said to us, and I could not inform you of his secret, and I didn't know what to tell you. So that's why that's exactly what happened. And this shows us that the Prophet system despite being who

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he was, he's getting mushara he's getting his shower. He's getting advice from the other people. What do you think of houses away from this panel is asking, and he's asked Abu Bakar and he's asked to Earth man, and so the both of them they don't know what to tell him. All right. So they're feeling very awkward now. And then Abu Bakar said to him, and had the Prophet says I'm not proposed for her then I will

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would have accepted. This is the status of health. So that calmed down a mother that had the process of not proposed for her, then I would have accepted if you had come when you had come to me. And so this shows that even the process of is getting advice about the marriage proposal, and I shall have your loved one has said she was my main competition amongst the other wives of the Prophet system, the daughter of Abu Bakar, the daughter of Roma, they are like their fathers daughters, right. They're like the daughters of their father. They are competing with one another, because she was just as bold as her age was similar to I'm sure she's probably 1920 when the process of magnitudes,

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she's relatively very young, and she has the same tongue as her father, she has the wit Everything is there. Right. And, in fact, it is even reported that some issues happened between how son the process and the process of either thought of divorcing her or according to one version, he gave her one paddock and gibreel came to him and said, Do not divorce her. For she is Salama allama. She is one who fasts all the time and prays all the time. And she shall be your wife in Jana. And so the process took her back. Now that is Willa, he just mind boggling.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala intervened in this dispute and said, No, you're not going to get rid of she will be with you. God came down and said to the process, and Roger ha take her back, whatever the issues might be. And of course, it is a part of our etiquette not to, you know, the CEO doesn't tell us but you understand she is the daughter of her father, whatever the issues might be. We don't know the details. But eventually, some tension is happening. And either the divorce or a thought of divorce, whatever the case might be gibreel comes and says no, you're not going to bear with her. And this shows us that for the rest of us here, those of us who do have issues with our wives or

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vice versa. There might be an issue that is problematic. But we look at Eman and taqwa and that is far more important then maybe a sharp tongue maybe this may be that Eman and taqwa. So one Mako one look at what gibreel described as right that she is so one that he saw a woman, a woman and her piety saved her so panela her righteousness saved her marriage, that she was such a righteous woman that even I should not say that but there are other allies that will send you a video down and said that Yasuda law you are not going to divorce her she shall be your wife in gender. And this is honestly what a great honor for her to have this, to have this. And it just said once there was

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another dispute that happened and she was crying and aroma of the hot dog came and she saw her crying. And he realized another dispute happens. He's not going to side with her against. Now this is when you have your son in law as the process and you're not going to side with your daughter against him. And she said, perhaps you had another argument with him will lie if he divorces you again I will never speak to you for the rest of my life like is going to be how am I going to live? If he divorces you again You had better makeup to him now. So even the father was like not sympathetic with you know with her plight and disregard that you had better makeup, whatever you did

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go back and makeup and make sure that he's not angry with you. sallallahu alayhi wasallam have sock. She was one of the very few ladies who learned how to read and write one of the very few ladies who learned how to read and write and the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and when

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Rama hottub died remember he was stabbed and he commissioned the six people to be the next Khalifa. So when he died, there is no Khalifa. So the must have that was written in the time of this man sorry in the time of Abu Bakar the grand must have the first must have Omar had taken it because he's the halifa when Roma died the nest halifa is not yet ready. So have a look this must have that is the original must have of Islam. The first must have ever written which is a bonkers time and then earthman recopied it if remember half so was the one who took it because when her father died, there was no halifa there is nobody so she's inheriting she takes it and she kept it with her until

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she died. And when earthman wanted to

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copy the most half he had to get it from hafsa so helps us send demos have to respond. And then it was re copied and then sent all over the the Bolden all over the the cities of Islam and she kept it until she died she died either 41 or 45. And

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if she died 45 then it is said Marwan ebenen haccombe who was the governor at that time, he prayed over her and she was buried in Brooklyn. So this is

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the next wife that is also married around this time is zeyneb Binti, Hosea, Allahu Allah Leah now.

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She is one that we have very, very

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Very few details about why because she is the only wife who died in Medina. She died. So the only two wives that died in the life of the process of Khadija and Zane and a lot of people get confused between there was two. Why is it the process some call Xena?

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Xena, Binti Josh that was his cousin and that's a whole long story we'll talk about whenever we get there. And this is a Binti hoceima Xena, Binti, Josh is his cousin Zane had been to Josh is from the kurush Xena Binti, Hosea is not from the kurush she's from the bamboo healer. And the bamboo healer or tribe in nudged the bamboo healer or not Cora shoe their tribe in nudged and because she died so early. And she was married to the process and for less than a year, some say three months, some say five months, some say eight months very short period of time. So how are we going to know anything? Right? She's not from koresh. She doesn't have ancestors, basically in Mecca. So we have hardly any

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details about her all that we know and even the reports that we know are kind of even conflicted. So whatever we do know we find conflicting reports. One report says that How did she end up in Makkah, she was married to to fail even though he had his ignoble McCollum. And that is the cousin of the process and also in the days of jelly that she is married to fate. Abner had it and then he divorced her and so obey the internet hadn't married her. So she's now an MK robot. They have not had this robot they have not had it. He is one of the three who fought at the Battle of the mobile Rosa, along with

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Hamza and Adi along with Hamza Ali and aubade of that had these are the and Aveda was the one who was the oldest and he was the one who was killed. This was obeyed. Okay, so he was the oldest of the three meaning Hamza in it. And he was the one who was killed if you remember the story that he fell down, wounded and then it came to his defense, Hamza came to the defense. And then on the way back, he basically passed away because his leg was completely cut off. And he had another wound in his we talked about this in battle, but this is our beta, right? So rubedo, married, this Zane have been to hoceima. And she had no family whatsoever in Mecca or Medina because she's surrounded by new healer,

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she has no family whatsoever. And she was known as Omen Misaki. This is Ahmed Misaki. She was known as humble Misaki. Because she used to take care of the orphans and the poor, she had a heart of gold, she would be very generous, she, she was known, even in the days of jelly as humble Misaki even before converting to Islam, that was her kunia oma second, and that shows her pure hearts that even before the coming of Islam, she was known for taking care of orphans and and feeding the poor. That was her locker broken, Yamasaki. And so when her husband died, the process and married her we don't have an exact date, but probably around the third year of the hedger as well, because this

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took place after hafsa. So, again, we don't have any details, but we know she didn't have any immediate family. So clearly, one of the main reasons then is that she does not have anyone to take care of her. And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam marries her and she lives only for a few months, and she passes away. And Robin Oh, well of the fourth year of the Hydra, and she was the only wife to die in Medina, and she was the second wife to die of the process of after Khadija. So the only two wires Khadija and Xena Binti hoceima and she was also the first to be buried and Buckley elevar. But if you go to nuclear now, you have all nine graves of the process of them's wise

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one after the other. And Xena was the first one to be buried over there, because obviously she's the first one to die. And as for Khadija where she buried muck in June. And so the grave out of June is called in Makkah she is buried over there.

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By the way, Dana has a really interesting, fascinating tidbit, or story that we know not of her of her mother.

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It is said in some books of history that Zane nubs mother is the most noble mother in law in the history of mankind.

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How so? So let's begin. She has five daughters, five daughters. And she did she was not a Muslim. And all five of them marry luminaries marry

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people of import to have them become a Manhattan what meaning this is another trivia that zeyneb had a half sister not a full sister Zeynep had a half sister, who also later on Not right now, Mary's the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and that is maimunah Wintel, Hadith, maimunah and Xena they had different fathers but the same mother

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So maimunah and Xena are sisters to each other Zainab is much older and maimunah. So the both of them married the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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the third daughter so these are two daughters of this lady, the third daughter

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was omul father been tell her to ring the bell.

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my boss's wife,

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my boss's wife and omal father gave birth to

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a father obviously and Abdullah had been a bus. Right? So look at how who This lady is that your grandsons now become? Abdullah has been a boss and also the Father. They've been able to very famous of the Sahaba. And so the aunt of the Prophet system, this is our boss's wife or my father, the aunt of the process of them. Now, she had a younger sister. Some say that she was called to Baba to suhara. Almost father's name was Lou Baba, who my father is a Konya. My father's name is Lu Baba, and she had a younger sister that was also called lo Baba to Surah and Roberta sohara. She married a very dependable healer. And then what he did on Malaria is the chieftain of the bundle Muslim. He is

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the leader of the bundle masoom and his son is hotly debated. Right so she now has a grandson of Harley definitively. So by the way, Khalid and Abdullah live in Ibis are cousins and maimunah is their aunt and we thought we there are many ideas that they're visiting maimunah in our buses, Hala is my Mona and Khalid Hala is maimunah because Harley's mother and an Ibis, his mother are sisters of a Mona, is that clear?

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well have a quiz next week, huh? Yes, we'll have a quiz next week.

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So this is lava to Sahara. And we said that she was married to Al Walid even a movie about

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the other daughter that she had is another very famous Sahaba as smart been to mace.

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Another very famous name in the books of this era, a smart Binti roommates and a smart venture roommates

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she was married to Jafar Ibn Abu Talib

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and she became a widow at the death of Jaffa and she was the one whom the process and have visited and consoled her and took care of his church children and Jennifer's children. The team of Jaffa the orphans of Jaffa, she was he was she was the wife that the process of consoled directly and said Do not cry over my brother He called you out for my brother and he said I will take care of these children and all my children I will take care of them. Right so this is a smart Binti roommate. He has many adults in the car, and she remained single in the life of the Prophet system. And then after in the Philippines of Abu Bakar. Abu Bakar, proposed to her and married her a few months

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before he passed away.

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And a smart became pregnant when Abu Bakr died.

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So she gave birth to the son of Abu Bakar right towards the end, either. I mean well maybe when he was young a lot while ago we don't know exactly maybe he was a baby or maybe when abubaker died. This is Mohammed Abu Bakar This is Mohammed bin Abu Bakar his mother is a smart Binti or mace. And after Abu Bakar his death

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a smile married

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must have you

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know, she

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she married it even

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Jennifer's younger brother

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and she gave sons to be a part of as well. She's one of those ladies who Pinilla she has so many noble husbands, Jafar Abu Bakar Ali, she's been married to all of them and she gave all of them sons. All of them she had children with this is a smart Binti or mace. And the final one, Mashallah, who thought that was enough. She has another sister now. Right? So the final of these daughters, so they're all sisters, her younger sister Selma, been to mace and Selma been to mace. I made a mistake two weeks ago, which something was ringing in my head when I said it. So I went back and looked up. And that's why I went into all of this tangent. today. I told you that Hamza did not have children

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and was not married. This is wrong. I was wrong, scrapped that Hamza did have children and I was telling you something was going in my head. He had a daughter, and in the Treaty of Arabia, that daughter is then argued over amongst some of the Sahaba, who is going to take care of her the orphan of Hamza, right. And that's why I was wanting something is not right when I said that, too. So I went back and looked up. And this is why the whole tangent led me to all of this research. So Hamza was married to

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I've been to roommates.

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And the two of them, they had O'Meara, Binti Hamza, and O'Meara was a little girl, when the Prophet system went to do the aroma, after her debut, he did one ombre. So

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O'Meara, as a young girl, ran back with the Muslims wanting to be with them. And Ali, and Jafar, and Zayed, all of them began arguing who would take care of her, I'm going to take her I'm going to take, I'm going to take care of her. And then they had to go to the process and to negotiate who's going to take care of her mother, because she's the daughter of Hamza, and every one of them felt the sympathy where they wanted to, to be there, the The Guardian, and so the process of them gave it to gave her to Jafar. Because to confuse you Why? Well obvious now it's obvious.

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His wife is the holla. Now you understand why, right? So actually, this makes sense now. Except for you, you're not taking notes. So you're completely lost in these signals, draw a chart for us next week. Okay, come and draw your chart next week that we can take. So set them up into your major oldest sister's estimate of interest, right? As web interface is married to Java. So when Omar is taken or is basically and she's a young girl, she's not bothered yet. And she comes crying to the army that she wants to do normal army with the Muslims that she wants to go away. She doesn't want to stay with the people of Mecca. So that's when the Prophet system had to intervene and say, and he

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consoled all of them zaidan and Ali and whatnot, but then he said, I will give her to you Oh, Jaffa, because it's harder to be mancilla till

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the holla is like the mother, and you're married to her holla and so you will have the most right to take care of her model in any case, that is Zane. Zane have been to Hosea as we said, she passed away in the lifetime of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And we'll mention one more Whose marriage took place a few months later, but we're not going to pause there. So we might as well just mention right now, and that is Ole Miss Salah Mehta, hint Binti Avi omiya alma zamia, oma cellarmaster, cornea, Hindus her name, the daughter of Abu my alma Kazumi, so she's also Cora Shia. She is also ora Shia, so oma selama oma selama we have heard her name so many times. oma Salah is

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one of the well known of the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we've just mentioned her and overheard that she was of those who had put water on her head and is running around the battlefield. This is almost sediment, that's the woman Selma. When it takes place, she's married to her husband, Abu Salah. So obviously the marriage is going to take place after we heard. So Omar Suleiman, her husband was obviously Abu Salah, Abdullah ibn Abdullah said, and Abdullah, who is Abu Salah, was a cousin of the process of them from the mother's side, not from the the from not from the brainwashing side. He was a cousin from the mother's side. And she had also emigrated both of

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the Immigrations and if you notice, by the way, all of the whys of the process as part of their their Eman and their efforts for Islam. It's like a record obviously, that the process of whoever he has chosen to be his wife, her contribution to Islam, emigrating the two hedgerows is very rare for women.

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emigrated treasures is very rare for women. And yet we see so many of them in the list of the names of the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because again, a lot of goodwill will choose those who are worthy to be chosen. So she had emigrated both of the Immigrations and she was the first lady to migrate to Medina as well. The very first lady to give up everything and to go to Medina was omit Selma and Abu Salah, her husband was known for his gentle manners and his o'clock and they had a very, very strong and good relationship. And in the Battle of Orford, Abu Salah was wounded very severely. He also was carried back, he recovered from Ohio, but never fully. And he

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passed away from his wounds, not immediately after hood, but a few months after awkward, so

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the wounds kind of healed but not fully. And he managed to live a few more months after hurt, but then eventually, he passed away, and on his deathbed, so he's sick on his deathbed. And on his deathbed, she comes to him.

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And he shows you the love that the two of them had, that she says that I have heard that if a man of Jenna

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dies, and

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his wife never remarries, that she will automatically go to gender with him clear that if I don't marry after you, then I will enter gender with you.

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And then just to console them, she said the opposite as well that if a woman of gender dies, and her husband doesn't matter, they will be reunited in

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But that's not the she's the one dying, not her. And so she said, so let's make a promise to each other, that we're not going to marry if the one of us dies. panela look even at her manners, that her husband's the one dying. But she's the one like, let's both make a promise to each other. In fact, this is a promise she's gonna have to keep not him because he's dying. Right? So she's trying to inform him that Look, don't she's pretty, very nicely to him, right? That Don't worry, I'm not going to marry after this is like her way of consoling him that I'm not going to marry after you. So I will tell them I says, will you obey me? So she's happy that he's gonna say is because yes, of

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course, I have never disobeyed you. I've always been obedient to. So he tells her, then after I die, marry someone. I don't want you to remain single after I die, marry someone. Then he made a deal out on his deathbed. And he said, Oh Allah.

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Allah bless her with a husband better than me.

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Who will take care of her and never harm or irritate her subpanel. On his deathbed, he makes his daughter what her husband will like what a husband and who amongst us can even but this is Willa, it's a type of love that is he doesn't want his wife to be alone for the rest of her life. She has a long life ahead. Why should she be alone? So he tells me when I die, marry somebody. Don't be alone. And then he makes a dua Allah bless her with someone better than me. And almost selama is the famous story we all know the story will miss cinema that she was the one who said one day my husband came home very happy. And he said I heard a beautiful Hadith from the Prophet system. She said what so he

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said the prophets of Salaam said never does anybody afflicted with them will see but with any calamity and there's a hadith Muslim we should all memorize is a well known Heidi, and it's amazing how Allah subhana wa tada basically taught it to her, even through her husband will lie. It's amazing. If Allah had wanted, she could have heard it directly, if a loved one or you could have heard it from another Sahaba but it is her husband telling her this right and all of this mother in law that her husband tells her the Prophet system said never does any more Ciba calamity strike anyone. And

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he is patient that that and he says in the law, he were in LA he Roger allama, Jr, famously, but the workflow for new hire on men, and this is we should memorize it in Nadella who were in Daly who Roger on a long journey he will see but he will hopefully hire on me. This is something we should all memorize. If you haven't memorized it, go to any book of law and memorize it. Any time a calamity befalls you. Anytime somebody dies anytime you lose money, anytime you hear you lost your job anymore. See, but first thing you do, say this and everything will be perfect. First thing but that's the point make sure the first thing you say is in that Allahu na era Jerome allama Jr,

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famously but he was funny. Hiram min, what's going to happen? I will send them a is telling Ole Miss oedema? That the Prophet says an upset and what does it mean? That overlock in Allah when erode your own, Allah reward me for this masiva and give me something better than what I'm suffering. Give me something better than this pain that bring about something better than this calamity. So I will sell them I said to his own wife or Mr. Lama, the profitsystem said Whoever makes this to our a low will give him something better than what he's taken away. So she is saying as soon as Abu Salah died I remembered this hadith we'll look at the we can't call it irony but the profundity Allah other

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everything is so perfect.

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As soon as I will cinema died, I remembered this hadith. So I said in 99 one is about your own llama Jr, who will say but he will see what the new Hydra mean. But I said to myself, who can possibly be better than abou Salama?

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Danny she's saying it. But deep down inside, she's thinking there's nobody who can possibly better than him. And to show you how great Abu Salah was. The first person who proposed for her was none other than Abu Bakar.

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After there's over everything, so she's now she's open to take proposal aboubaker proposal. And by the way, the Sahaba were not single, by and large, it's not conceivable for them that a man or woman is just there without a husband or wife. It doesn't make sense for them. And that's why we have all of these proposals. And I've said this many times before that's a panel. We have a stigma in our society and time in this regard. Divorce the widow we this and that. And those times there is no such thing. The concept of she's a woman She needs a husband, right? This is a man without so it's gonna be something that is well known for them. And there was no stigma of a divorce. There was no

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stigma of a widow, she has children, she has children doesn't matter. Somebody has to be their father. Somebody has to take care of them. So abubaker proposed, can you believe turning down Abu Bakar What does that show you? Right? Abu Bakar she's not satisfied with subpar love. So she has a high standard because that will set a man now has her heart like nobody can be better than Abu Salah. So after a while

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prophecies and proposals. And he comes to her directly to propose to he comes to the house and he proposes directly to her. And to handle the look at her wisdom. Look at her wisdom and Alma Salama, was known for her wisdom. She's one of the wisest of the Prophet systems wives. She was known for her high lineage as well. She is the Maha sumiya. She is the daughter of one of the elders of the corporation. And as you know, the Arabs at the time, they did value, lineage, and islamically. There's nothing wrong with taking lineage as one of the factors, obviously, this is people go to extremes here. That, you know, lineage means nothing, no, people like their ethnicity, people like

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their culture. If your father or your family is a prestigious family, it's something to add to the overall demand and taqwa, right. And that's not a problem with that. So her father is a high lineage. She herself is known for her wisdom she's known for as well for her beauty, she was known for her beauty. And we'll come to this as well in a while. And so the Profit System proposed. Can you imagine even the Profit System? She doesn't say yes, immediately to?

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And she says, Yes, will Allah

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the Arabic is eloquent, but it basically translates How can I not be pleased that you are interested in me, I'm very honored that you're interested in me. But there are three things you should know. Look at her intelligence, like, let me put the cards on the table for you. Right? Rather than Oh, let's just go do this. And then no, think about these three things. Number one,

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I am a woman that has jealousy.

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And especially with the relationship you have with Selma, so she has this era. And you are a man that has already wives.

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And notice her Eman. Now, I am worried that that jealousy will act up and will displease you, which will then display Lee's Allah subhana wa tada

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Subhana Allah like, I'm worried that I might end up displeasing Allah by showing jealousy in this situation. So the President said that's one was the second. So he said the second she said the second. I'm a woman that is coming on in age. And I'm not young anymore. So she he had an issue he had have. So these are the prime. She is probably in her mid 30s. if not more than that. She is not, you know, 19 or 20 anymore. So she's saying I'm a woman who's coming on in age. She, this is the second what's the third? She said, I'm a woman that has family. I have children. She had four children. By the way. She had four children from Oussama. So I have family, you show you when

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someone I have family, nobody's going to take care of them other than the person I get married to. So the process that I'm said, As for your era, I will make dua to Allah subhanho wa Taala and it will be removed from your heart. Don't worry about those.

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And then notice this joke of the processes as for your age, I am afflicted with the same calamity as you.

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This is of his humorous soliloquy, he was sitting, right? I am afflicted with the same color I have the same disease, don't worry, right? Meaning I'm also not 20 years old. And notice his other band his mulatto and his any joking, you know, that I also have the same calamity. And as for your family, they are my family. Yeah, look at some Hello, what a beautiful proposal. Right? What a beautiful proposal. And so once all of this has been clarified and done, obviously, almost sedima then Mary's the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, probably sometime around the fourth year of the hedger maybe show while maybe Ramadan of the fourth year of the hedgerow and oma Selamat, a lot can

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be said about her. But the most important if you like,

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story that we hear is destroyed, would they be destroyed per day via when the Prophet system is in a quandary? He doesn't know what to do. The Sahaba are irritated at what's happening with the kurush. Right? oma Salama, was the one Yasuda law. don't negotiate with them to stand up and do it. Stand up and shave your hair off. Let them see. And they're gonna follow you. This is almost an AMA, right? And this shows us her aka her wisdom shows us her intelligence. Now is not the time to negotiate. They're all irritated. But if you do it, they're gonna follow you.

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Showing your actions that you're the one that's going to be leading, they'll all follow you. So the process of took almost Adam as advice, this is all my sentiment here. He took all my sentiments advice, and without saying anything, he just called the barber and he shaved the hair off at her baby. And when the Sahaba saw him shaving his hair off. Then they began racing one other to see who would shave each other's hair off. So this is oma Selma, and Alma Selma, she lived a relatively long life one of the last of the whys of the process and to die. She died in the year 59. After the history, this is very late. One of the last she lived a very old life. She's in her late 80s at this

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And Abu hurayrah De La Hoya and let her janazah aboard her let her join us at this time. And obviously she's one of the last to be buried as well in both here and these are the main wives that we will discuss now. And so Omar Salama is the sixth wife of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, but the fourth one at the time, because to have passed away, clear, no total number six, but then a deja and Xena have passed away and therefore

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in reality she is number four, the fifth wife, which is really a very long story and a lot more than how we will tackle it in too much detail but that is Xena been dejection it's going to happen soon. Another year or so. is going to be Xena, Binti, Josh, one or two other small things that happened that are of interest. Xena vintage. So gentlemen, we'll talk about the story in a while, in a few weeks or maybe next month we'll see. But Zane had been through Josh. This was when the laws of hijab were revealed at the at the marriage of Xena vintage the laws of hijab were revealed. And before this by a few months or maybe a year, hammer had become how long so Islam the Sharia is now being

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Salah has already been revealed Zakah has already been revealed. sohm has already been revealed. Hedge obviously is delayed till the very end because you can do hedge right now, because enemy territory right now hedges delay, but it shows us how quickly all of the laws came. That hijab was one of the latter of the last to be revealed after Salah after Zika after all of these. And it's coming down already in the basically end of the fourth year beginning of the fifth year of the digital. The laws of hijab came down and they were revealed at the story of Xena vintaj at the marriage of Cena, Binti Josh. So this is the tangent that we took for the wives of the Prophet

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sallallahu sallam, and will mention two stories in Sharla. Today, back to the political, if you like see it scenario, back to the reservoir of the prophets of the Lord Selim. One of them is very quick and that is fulfilling the promise of part two of offered that at the very last conversation of boyhood, Abu sufian had said we're going to meet again a year from now. Remember that the very last? Let's do this one center. All right. So What year is this now then?

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When did it take place?

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Third year. So now this is the fourth, right? So in the month of Shaban in the fourth year of the hydrilla, because that was one year after hood, in the month of Shabbat in the fourth year of the hedgerow.

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The prophets are seldom left with around 1500 of the Sahaba and camped once again at budget. Because at Ohio, they had said we'll meet again at better okay, because but it was the big plane, but it is a convenient location to have a war. So we're gonna meet again at budget. And the process of the law, why'd you send them camped there for more than a week waiting for the army to show up, and no army showed up.

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No army showed up. And he assigned out even the ability to be the flag bear. And it shows us that the Irish were not able to live up to their side of the promise and what happened. They In fact, did gather an army around 2000 strong, but they gathered the stuff but they were half hearted. They didn't they weren't into it. Because in the end of the day, they don't have the man and the courage that the Muslims had. And they actually even marched out of the city. But a lot of talk a lot of

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you know, back and forth until finally they decided to forget it call it quits and march back in. And they gave an excuse. And they said this year has been difficult. It's been a year of drought, there has been few little rain. So we need to take care of our families. We need to feed our families, we need to have plenty of food and milk. We need to be strong to fight and this has been a difficult year. The Muslims didn't complain they were they waiting waiting for them. Right. But again, this shows us the reality of demand versus golfers. So they said we'll come back another year. And so they simply abandon the entire enterprise. And you we see now that the tide is

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shifting, we see now that the Muslims are getting stronger and stronger and the Quraysh are getting weaker and weaker. And the main other incident that took place is the buzzword of that to recall the buzzword of that or recall. And the buzzword that to recall is not important for the actual incident but for two or three things that happened around the incident. That's what the data is not that important and with regards to the details

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because no fighting to place. Now firstly, you should know that closer to the to the heart There's a big controversy when it took place. Urbanus

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Talks as it took place right now, which is why we're doing it. We usually follow him in his house, we consider him to be the most authoritative in his hot places it right now, however, people greater than him in his house such as body and others, they said it occurred after high bar after labor. And there's controversy that I don't see the need to go into right now about the evidences of both sides. But one of the main evidences that is used to say that it took place right now is the story of Job that we're going to discuss

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today in shallow data and the story of jabil. In it, he says, My father was martyred at old hood.

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And I got married and the processor asked me Did I get married? He didn't know I was married. So I said, Yes, I got married. He said to a virgin or widow, I said to a virgin, this famous conversation, right? So the profitsystem did not know that Java is married. Right? Yeah, but he doesn't know that he's married. The Prophet system does not know that Java is married. And Java got married right after or hood because his father datasheet. And this is one of the evidences that that are hard to place right after orchard, which is what we are doing over here. Now the that took place against the tribe have a lot of fun. And the tribe of auto fan, it'll come up again and again in the

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Sierra. And it appears that a lot of fun. They were tribe up north. And they were a very large Bedouin tribe. And they were a tribe that was known for looting and plundering they were the tribe that was known for just highway robbery type of things. They had no morals, there's a lot of fun. And they come up again and again they're they're hired as mercenaries by the Corporation the Battle of zap later on, this is a lot of fun. So hotel fan have no morals, they're a pain in it for everybody around. And it is said that they wanted to just raid the Muslims and the Profit System preemptively took an army out to stop them. There was no actual fighting, but just to demonstrate,

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we can defend ourselves. And the profits of some led an army of 700 men, and they camped with in front of lots of fan for

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a week or two. But no battle took place. The both of them just remained in eyesight of one another without a physical confrontation. And a lot of fun decided to basically not actually engage in battle, a number of things happened here. This was in regard to data recall, this was when Allah revealed the procedure of solitude,

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and solitude, hope is a type of Salah that you pray in shifts,

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you pray in shifts, that what do you do when the army is basically under threat. You can't just all of you take aside and pray sada and then they'll attack you at that point in time. Rather, the Imam, the prophet system, he will pray the full Center and the Sahaba behind him will take shifts in praying. And Allah says in the whole on that folder on private America, let one group pray with you. Right, then while you're around, they will take charge guarding and then the other group is going to come and pray. Right. So much had to die for the value some new markets and then the next group will come and then they will pray with you. So the two groups will take shifts, praying, and the

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processes will pray the full prayer as the leader, whoever is the leader will pray the full prayer and so each group will guard half or even if it has to be less than a half the leader or the Imam will decide how severe is the situation should have to have do it or maybe one third protect to third pray or whatever. At that time, it was half half, they did it. So this was one salata hope was revealed for the very first time. The second incident that is of interest in Module Two, that

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is one of the miracles that took place in the in the theater of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And that is that on the way back from that total cost, so now they're on the way back, it's over an hour or less, the danger is over. And it was a hot summer's day, and it was the desert. And so when it came time to stop, and it was the son of the processor to March after fudger all the way until it was too hot. This was generally what he would do. Again, we drive in the morning, we leave and then he gets well we have AC or whatnot but it gets hot, you don't want to be driving in the summertime. So they would walk right after fudger on the Campbell as long as they could then

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probably around 11 1130 when the sun got too hot for them, they would then pause you know take their nap their lunch, and then when it got a little bit cooler, they would go again. So when they got to the valley where they would they decided to stop. Everybody ran for shelter. Then everybody just got some trees some shade it's the sun is right above you, you're not gonna have too much shelter, whatever little narrow crevice you find, whether it's from the mountain, whether it's from whether it's from a tree, so all of the Sahaba they're tired. They're not worried about any

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Enemy attacking, they all fell asleep.

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And the profitsystem also fell asleep under one of the trees. It was here that one of the bedrooms of a lot of fan who was following the processes and following the army

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saw the opportunity

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from the distance he's seeing, they're all splitting up and whatnot. And so one of the bedrooms of auto fan,

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he had basically agreed to assassinate the process of obviously for the money that the hotel fund would give him. And so when he and his name was loaded, by the way load off, when he saw that the process was all by himself, he knew this was his time, all the Sahaba were asleep. And the very fact that they didn't even hear him, it shows us how tired they must have been. He walked all the way through the Muslim camp. And he came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he took the profits of some sword from the tree because it was hung over there, and he unsheathed it. And at this point in time, the processing wakes up because he hear the noise, he wakes up, and he shook it

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in front of the profitsystem. He's a better one, he's not even a warrior, but these are still he has a weapon. He shook it in front of the processor, and he said, Are you scared of me? Are you scared of me? And the processor said no. And why should I be scared of you? So the man said, Are you not scared of me and I have a sword means he's trying to make the process I'm scared. And the process of said la I'm not scared of you. And in the process, the man begins to tremble out of fear. Allah azza wa jal through fear into his heart, he begins to tremble out of his fear, and the sword dropped. The sword dropped from his hand, according to one report, the question he asked him was, who will

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protect you from me? Millennium now committee. This is another version of the hedis Millennium National Committee. And so the process of said Allah and when he said Allah, the sword just dropped from his head.

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And what it dropped from his hand the profitsystem picked it up, turned it around and said Millennium now Kamini code is gonna save you from me. Who is going to save you from me? And the man, the man, to which the man said, be the better of the two who takes the sword meaning?

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Consider origin and meaning be the better of the two Meaning what?

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Have mercy, I did not want to have mercy on you. Be the better of the two have mercy on me.

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Like he confesses that I didn't have mercy on you, you will be better than me be the better of the two who took the sword. So the process of him said, attached to Allah Allah Hi, Lola Juan de Rasulullah. Will you testify to the Shahada? So he said,

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I will testify and promise that I will never fight you again. And he was honest, he didn't accept this stuff. He said, I the max, I'm going to go, I promise I will never fight you again. I'm never going to help anybody who fights you. And jabiru then narrates the story from body that he says that. And so the story from Bahati says that we scattered in the valley to find shade, and we went to sleep. And we were woken up by the process of calling us Come here, come here. They were that asleep, this whole incident is taking place. And nobody is the wiser, until the process of saying Come here. And they all came and they found the processing with the sword at the neck of this of

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this Lotus. And the profitsystem told them the entire story. And Java says that the profitsystem did not do anything. He forgave the man. And the man promised never to attack again. And he returned to his people saying, gentlemen, hide in us I have come back from the best of all of mankind. I've come back from the best of all of mankind. And this shows us this is part of how much for giving me the man wanted to kill the Prophet so seldom, and will I who amongst any league leader or any person would let this go. And even he didn't even necessitate Islam. Because what's the point of Islamic force anyway? The man said I'm not gonna fight you. Okay, Carlos, go back. That's all go back. I

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don't need to you know, as long as you're not gonna fight, call us go back and he lived up to his word. Another incident that we all hear about it, it will present that to recall. Another incident that we hear about is the famous incident of the two Sahaba who were

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protecting the caravan at night to protecting the army at night being nightwalkers there making sure nobody attacks This is my buddy Ben Bishop and Ahmad bin Yasser, I bought the bin Bishop that I might have been yesterday that they were the ones who were assigned to basically guard over against a lot of fun attacking again at night. And once again, a lot of fun. So what they found by the way, they were sending their spies they were sending people to make sure that chatter irritate them. And so Amar, and I bad said to themselves, who's going to go first? Who's going to go second? So I bought said, I'll go first.

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And you can go second. So Amar went to sleep I might have been yesterday went to sleep I bought stood up in Sala to pray. And this was at a time when one of the wishes of autoplan fired a bow and arrow and it went straight into his body.

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And he pulled it out and continued praying,

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continued praying.

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And another arrow came in, pulled out, went out and continued praying until finally when he thought he was going to faint from the Salah. He then woke up Amar

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and Amar said Why didn't you break the Salah before so he said I was reciting a sutra and I didn't want to break it down in the letter of Salah was so much right and it is said that it was sort of useful the level of Salah was so much that he didn't want to break it was just the pleasure of reciting the Quran. I didn't want to stop now that I just until I thought I'm gonna fail in my duty as a night guard then I woke you up and then Ahmad basically fought him back with the bone as a far away. It's not as if he's right there. He's gonna do anything. So he thinks maybe another one will miss whatnot. But it turns out he was a sharp shooter, good arrow. And so it hit him again until

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finally he thinks he's gonna faint, then he wakes up. I'm not even. Yes it and then he says to him, that I swear by Allah were not for the fact that I might have failed the duty that the process of gave I would rather have died then

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stop the Salah. And I would love to have datasheet in this manner. But I haven't Amana to protect the army of an Amana. Otherwise, this is a beautiful death. For me. I'm reading the Koran. I'm in Salah I would have loved to do this rather than break my solder. And then the final story is a very, very beautiful story. And this is why it seems that that's too hard to place right now. And it is the story of jab at him now Abdullah It is called howdy through jab at him Abdullah and it is a very long story. Even hedgehog. Even hedgerow says that this Hadith, you can extract more than 100 benefits from it. And we don't have time for 100 benefits definitely. But it is a beautiful and a

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moving story.

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And it shows us really the mannerisms of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And Jabba narrated it in the first person jabber narrated it in the first person and jabber says that, in the US we'll have to recall we're coming back from the husba. And my camel was the oldest and the weakest camel. It was the oldest and the weakest camel and I was struggling behind the entire army. And I was in a very sad mood. Because my father, this is why we notice here. My father had just died at offered.

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And he has left a big gain

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loan. And I had seven sisters, no brothers.

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He's the oldest. He's got seven sisters. He has no one to take care of him. He has a loan, and he's got an old camel.

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And so he said, all of my whom are all of my worry and grief are piling on me. And I was already struggling behind and lo and behold, I heard a voice.

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And the voice was Who is that? in the back? I looked up it was the prophets listener. So I said this is jabil messenger of Allah. So the process of said, Molly, aka Mama, why do I see you so depressed? Why do you choose so sad? So I told him the situation, that the other sort of law My father died at Ohio, and this is why we know that that took place right after right? My father died.

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And he left a family and he loved this and that. And you know, all I have is this camel. The only possession that I have is this camel. And the Prophet says and then asked him, Are you married? So? So he said, Yes, I am married. I got married. So he said to whom Java was 17 years old, 1617 years old. So he said to whom? jharia Oh,

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thank you. Did you marry? Or Baker? Or did you marry a virgin or a widow or in one version, young girl or an older girl? So he said I married an older girl. I married a widowed lady. Now the process is having a conversation with him that every young man would understand. And he's trying to cheer him up because Java is depressed and sad. So he said Why didn't you marry a young girl for her large area? To learn how to write a book cover to bajawa to buy a cooker? Why didn't you marry a young girl who will you will play with her she will play with you and you will make her laugh and she will make you laugh.

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And so he said O Messenger of Allah. I want you to marry someone who would take care of my

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My sisters and not add one to their age

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that I have to take care of her what and so the process that I'm said of Savita, you have done right. And this clearly shows that marrying a young or old are a virgin or widow, cologne B has to be it depends on the circumstance. For some people, it is better to marry young. And for others it is better to marry old For some it is better to marry previously unmarried. For some it is better to marry a widow. In this case, the fact that he married someone who has experienced someone who is older than his other sisters and whatnot, someone who's older in age, it was for his benefit that she can take care of his sisters. So the process of them said, I'll solve it. And then he said to

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jabil that stop your camel. So he stopped to dismount the camel the Profit System stopped his own camel. Notice here all of the people are ahead. Now the processor is having a conversation with Java, who at the time is just a teenage kid. Like we shouldn't think Java is not well known. That's why even the processor said Who are you like he knows him But who are you? So he said this is Java, if not identical, it's Oh, Java grabs it. Okay? This is not this is not abubaker there's not over this is Java, just a little kid in Medina. And the processor is now basically having a conversation with him one on one. So he stops the camel, he rides the camel of Java.

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And he says Bismillah and he hits the camel, the way that you hit camels. And jabbers said it became the fastest camel I had ever seen. It raced in front of me as the fastest camel ever. And I caught up with the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam now he's getting happy now. Okay, now I got a young camel now, right? And guess what the Profit System says there Neha

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sell it to me.

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After all this tantalizing, like, you know, sell it to me, the young man.

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And Wallah, he did this out of care for his own sisters. He said, No.

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I can't I mean, he didn't do it out of selfishness, obviously. But he has sisters to take care of he has a family. He said no to the profit mama system. Can you imagine said law, so I'm not gonna sell it to you. So he said beer Neha, again, he said sell it to me. And so when Java said that the saw that the processing really wants it, he flipped and he said, Who allocates idea for you. He really wanted that. Okay, take it What am I going to do? Right? So the process No, the seminar, I sell it to me. So he said, How much will you give me?

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So the problem said it did him now it did him for a camel is like, is like you're getting a car. He was like, give you five bucks for it. Right? So he said no. Once again, he goes back look. Well, like I mean, you can see even the young age of Java like back and forth. Right? You see his young age he's 17 or a max at maybe even 1617 is a good age to estimate right? So he says, No, I'm not gonna sell it to you for a did him. So how much two did him still it's like a joke right to Dellums. So for sale. One, two, I kept on increasing the price. Until finally we got it to a reasonable 40 dyrham suppiler from one Can you imagine? Right? from one to 40 and 40 is not a good but it's like

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an okay price. Okay. It's something that is doable. So then I came back to Medina. And I met my uncle and I told him the story. And he was not happy. Why did you sell the camel? This is all your only possession. He was not happy. And I began reproaching myself maybe I shouldn't have sold the camel. Now the camel is young. You need a camel. I mean, you need this is and the camel has now returned in this energy has become the most energetic. So then the next day. And there's also the points here to benefit from which I talked about in my other class that I do like a garment, which is about intimacy. So he tells Java that when you go home, don't rush at night. Let the news spread

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to your wife don't just come knocking in the middle of the night. I know you're eager. So Oh, by the way, so when the camel got fast, he's young and newlywed. He's now at the front of the army galloping, right. So the problems that come down,

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don't just barge into your family. Don't just go let the crier come to the city. Let the family be aware that you're coming so that she can calm herself clean herself shave herself and be ready for you. Right and this I talked about in the class that I do about intimacy and Islamic etiquettes of sexuality that the process of is actually encouraging the to to play with each other is encouraging her and him to dress up to even he said so that you can even shave herself and the only reason for that is that she looks beautiful over there and will lie this shows us the frankness, Javid calm down. Let her look beautiful for you don't just rush home. Right? Look, he's advising because no he

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doesn't have a father. He doesn't have an order.

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Brother, he becomes like a father to Java, right? Telling him these things that nobody else is going to tell him let the cry or get to her before you. The crier means the ones who's going to tell the caravan has arrived. And so Java then goes and then the next morning he comes to the process of msgid the process and says have you prayed or Java tulika says no. So so first pray then come to business basically smile, look the priorities right? You walk into the master for business first pray. So he's teaching him sada is teaching them to hate the teaching them the Sunnah of the masjid. So he prayed to the car. And then he said, oh, by the way, the the 40 this, okay, yeah, basically 40

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denims. And give him some extra Xin what, RJ way this amount and give him some more. And Javid had brought the camel, and he took the money. And he walked away. And so the process of so called jab, jab to come back. So he came back, see, where are you going back home? You forgot, your Campbell is here. He said, you're sort of I sold it to you? What did the process say? Oh, Java, did you think that I would cheat you out of your camel, go take the money and go take your camel.

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Go take the money and go take your camera.

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In other words, the whole ploy of the Prophet system was just to give the money to him without him feeling like it is

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this a hole and that's why he's actually Joe, now the job is gonna look back at it right? He's gonna feel what I made out of myself, right? And he's gonna feel good about the whole thing. Look at how it will like the humanity of our Prophet system is being shown here that he's in all I mean, maybe somebody will get offended if I say this, but he's playing like a practical joke almost on Java. You know? I mean, well, is this really the best thing I can say is like, he's just doing something in a teasing fashion. The whole thing is just like a practical joke for what? So that job is given some money, and he doesn't feel as if,

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as if it's been charity. Right? Did you think we're going to take your camel from your Java, go take your camel and take the money, right. And there are so many benefits obviously from this idea, as we said, we can go on and on. But while I it shows us the care that the processes have had, that he's looking at every single person so much. So a 17 year old kid at the back of the army, he then takes his own camel all the way back What's going on? Why are you so sad? having a conversation with him cheering him up, right? Why didn't you marry young girl like you play with her, she can play with you. This is a talk that you do to cheer somebody up, right to make him feel better. And when he

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sees what's going on devices, the whole plot to basically get that money in his hand. And there are many other benefits here that frankly, we don't have time to get into. And also, there's quite a lot of benefits of marriage and intimacy and romance that I have spoken quite a lot about in the other class that I do. And there's an article that I have online, that you can just Google it, it is called the marital benefits from the Hadeeth of job, because I didn't mention every single phrase, but the encouragement that the process of them gave to job and his wife, to have a healthy intimacy to have healthy sexuality is something that is honestly mind boggling. And many of us, in our ultra

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conservative Science Society, we think it's not allowed for scholars or machines to speak like this, our profit service encouraging Javid and he's telling him things that clearly indicate that he wants them to find happiness with one another. And there are other phrases in the Hadith that we don't have time to get into. And there are many 50 benefits as well. This Hadith is always mentioned in the film of boo or the fear of selling and buying, because there's so many benefits. Most importantly, and I will this will conclude even though there's so much that can be said here, but that's the fifth class. Most importantly,

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the fact that you can put Well, I mean, you can barter, you can bargain. You can bring the price up and down. All of this is happening. Right? How much one there are no two, no three. So you're bartering right? You can say no to someone who is elder and senior to you. If you don't want to sell something. Right? You shouldn't sell something out of shyness because you said no. And you're allowed to put conditions in the contract. Why? Because jabber is a young kid he doesn't understand. So when he agreed to the price, he thought he had to hand over the the camel right then and there. So he said O Messenger of Allah.

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I'll sell it to you for 40 but allow me to ride it until we get back to Medina. Right now he's just to get it to understand them. But from this we derive. It's called an Arabic Joseph shortfill app that you can put legitimate conditions in a contract. And this is one of the main reasons why this Hadeeth is discussed. If I sell you my car, and I say okay, you know, I'm leaving town next week. I'll sell you my car, but for one week, I'm going to drive it then I then you can have it this is completely valid. Right. So you can

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Sell and you can put a condition any any other condition that is reasonable. You can put these conditions in a contract and all of this is inshallah tada derived from the hadith of Java and time is very late so I apologize about the delay. We're gonna have to stop q&a and positive till next Wednesday, when all of you will be quizzed about the genealogy of the wives of the prophets, although send them and you guys will be sending a softball over make sure we'll see who remembers that

In this amazing video by Shaykh Yasir Qadhi, we delve into the absolute essential part of the Seerah of the Prophet ﷺ- a background on the wives of the Prophet ﷺ.

A brief summary is seen below on each of the blessed wives :

  • Sauda RA- The Prophet ﷺ married her in Shawwal and she was old and had a large build with a rather slow gait.
  • Aisha RA – The most beloved wife of the Prophet ﷺ. A detailed discussion is warranted for this and we shall see it later.
  • Hafsa RA – The daughter of Umar Ibn Al Khattab RA. The story behind this marriage is an interesting one and deserves a fair listen.
  • Zainab bint Khuzaimah RA – Zaynab bint Khuzayma was known as ummul masakeen because of her generous, caring,noble and loving nature. She was the most noble mother in law in the history of mankind.
  • Umme Salama RA –  Her real name was Hind bint Abi Umayya and she was the very first lady to migrate to Madinah.
  • Zainab bint Jahsh RA.


Next in the discussion is the continuation of the Ghazawat that took place as time passed. One among them is Ghazwa Dhat Al Riqat which took place during Sha’ban. This Ghazwa involved a  tribe called Gatafaan who was famous for their lack of morals, looting, robbery and on the other side was our beloved Prophet ﷺ leading an army of 700 men. Further details are explained explicitly and should be listened to intently.

The stories pertaining to Jabir Ibn Abdullah RA are marked with intrigue, respect and intelligence. Please do listen intently to fully inculcate similar values in ourselves and our families.

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