Channel: Wahaj Tarin
“And when they reach old age, don’t even say uff to them”
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My dear brothers
and sisters, ladies and gents, friends and colleagues. First and foremost, it is such a pleasure to be here amidst you amidst my brothers and sisters in South Africa.
And then in Cape Town here this is the last leg of my stop before I depart and Sharla tomorrow
to the UK and then sometimes later back home. But this is my first time in your beautiful country in a new beautiful city and I have got a little glimpse at the at the one that the South Africa and the amazing people who are my extended family brothers and sisters in faith in this country.
Brothers and sisters, I want you to visualize a scene with me.
So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is seated, reclining
and the Sahaba about him around him.
In Abu Bakr radi Allahu anhu narrates he said don't assume said and the Hadith is in Buhari and while even in Muslim Muslim, he says Allah una Bo comb B Akbar Al Qaeda
Should I not inform you of the greatest of the major sins?
So the US have said Bella rasulillah, inform us, tell us what is the greatest of the major sins. So the Rasool said, and Sherlock will be left
associating partners with the majesty of a lot of Bonanza, the greatest sin. Listen to me Muslims, there is no sin in the heavens above, nor the earth below. That can supersede the severity of the sin of shirk.
A lot of bullet says in the Quran. In novela, hella young Pharaoh a new Shahrukh AB, while young Pharaoh McAdoo naza Lika, Lima, Yeshua, Allah Buddha, Isaiah will not forgive the sin of shake.
After that he will forgive whatsoever he decides to whomsoever He decides. And I want to clarify so that there is no misunderstanding. The Mirage is that Allah forbid you die on shidduch
having committed ship and not atoned and repented and my Toba and obey and Stefan from and you stand in front of the court of the De La Rochelle Majeed and fire Lima. You read wearing the cloak of shark Allah says this I want forgive in not la ha la ofuro a new Shoraka Be ye funeral med una de Cali maneesha and after that he will forgive whatsoever he decides to sue whoever he decides.
Yep, if you have errand and slipped in committed shirt and realize that yeah Rob I committed the sin, then turn to Allah in Toba and over that Allah will accept but if you die having committed shirt and not repented for it, then you stand in front of the court of the Lord Allah Buddha will not forgive them.
So the first sin, the most colossal sin is
Sherif Kabila to give the authority of Allah Buddha to other than Allah Buddha to worship other than Allah Buddha to humble yourself you who Allah fashioned and created to a stone in a twig in a building and shake the ghost colossal sin in the heavens above and the earth below.
So your soul of law what after sheer listen do one's soul or soul said, Whoa, whoa, whoa louella dana, and this obedience of parents
and the dis obedience of parents.
And then can Turkey and for jealous he was reclining so he set up Allah He of Paulo salatu wa, Mata slim, and then he said he was Shahada to Zoo and our colo Zoo and our Shahada to Zoo all Muslims Be careful of false testimony. Be careful of false witness saying Be careful of saying buy soy and you didn't see Be careful of saying I heard in your data be kept under and above a casa de says he repeated and repeated until we said in our hearts would that he stopped repeating.
So the topic
the disobedience of parents, listen to the words of Allah, Allah. Allah Allah wakaba rabuka Allah Taku inla
in your Lord has decreed that you would worship none but him.
It's not a small thing. He sent 140 340,000 prophets 124,000 prophets and messengers for this one message. What Allah I didn't have our home who the piaa como la la, la, la La,
La La, la, la la la, la, la La mattina Hamza la comida de la melaku, Manila and Pharaoh, every prophet cam for this part of the message that you will worship none but Allah, Allah.
So Allah says, Allah subhana wa Kaaba and your Lord has decreed a letter Abou inla that you will worship none but him,
Yara, what next? We'll be louella day in as an end to your parents, be good to your parents, be dutiful to your parents show excellence and conduct and Subhanallah there are parents here and those who will be parents and those who have been parents, and you know the sentiments of parenthood. When that little one is born and you hold in your hand and you look at the world through their eyes and in their eyes and you have such hopes and aspirations such dreams and such such you know, center sentimental notions for which you will nourish and cherish that child and dice pass and you give them the nectar of your youth and suckling on that the little one grows and grows and muscles
develop and bones become you know, denser and stronger and and now you are dwindling and energy and this one is growing stronger. And all of a sudden the Son and the daughter is a man and a woman and you have grade and grown weak and they are on the climb up in your son is sitting in there just rising and you have gone. And that age.
In Louisiana in DeKalb Kibo, Ohio Houma our Kayla Houma with one of them or both of your parents attain old age and you're alive
in your you know, they have become tired and they were young like you full of life and energy and vigor and now the powers and ability and capability and capacity and energy has slowly gone and dwindled and they're feeling vulnerable and weak and needy and, and in that age. A lot of bulldozer says if they reach that age
Kibo aha Tahoma our killer Houma fella taco lahoma off,
Don't utter the slightest word of contempt to them. This is the
do not attach the slightest word of distress you know of an Arabic is the lightest word of contempt if there was a word you know in English. Your mom tells you sweetheart, can you get me that water? nuts? All right, sit down. So you get up, you sit back down and she goes, listen, give me that water please. So you get up. Sarah, if she does it three, four times in you go. Oh, that's
so Allah says while at Aquila Houma ofin while at 10 her Houma, Waka lahoma Cole and Karima no repel them, but address them in words of, you know, honor and nobility and grace.
You know, Abu huraira de la Han
used to come near the dwelling of his mum, and he used to shout out from afar Peace be upon you all my door into Jana.
So, the Quran says fella taco lahoma ofin while I can have Homa wakulla lahoma Poland Karima and then walk filled lahoma Jana has live in a Rama walk or rub your hand Homer Kamara Bayani safira Allah recognizing now you're a big soaring flying eagle and they've gone we can tie it lower the wings of humility to them and say, yeah, Rob Baku, Rob Durham, Houma have mercy upon them like they had upon me when I was young, I cried. They come, you know, I did myself they claimed I went, What doesn't a mum and a father do for a son? And what repayment of kindness when that little one has grown in a bit of energy and a bit of, you know, muscle and now he grows the audacity to, you know,
give the parents the daggers and roll the eyes and raise the voice and give attitude. Do you not know that the one above the heavens watches
and understand the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
all wrong. Allah
will delay its punishment for the euro.
Except for two,
he will make you tasted in this life and then the Acura the first disrespect of parents.
You this you hurt the heart of your mom and hurt the heart of your dad. Don't just sit back and watch. It's coming. It's coming. There's not the sun and the moon will change over time location the word of the soul was never be wrong.
So the law school said it will happen it will happen.
Whoever you know, I read a father.
took his dad in old age and his take pulling him out of the house to kick him out.
When he reached the door he said Son bus just until the door just until the door until the door I said what until the door. It goes the repayment is still the door 30 years ago I pushed my father just to the door he walked out himself the hardest. You'll only need to push me to the door and the repayment is done.
can add to the notodden do was you will what you saw that you will reap and the second one is Wolman
volume of our organizer will give one back oppression back to you in this life. Before it gives it to you in the end fear of them have loom against you.
the Sahabi Abner behind him sighs
he says the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Salah thetan three groups of people, la Jacobo la hoomin home sofinnova Allah, Allah I left for a while and after three groups of people, Allah will not accept their father No, they're nothing.
So worship what you want.
You know, give sadaqa what Allah want accepted. And look at look at the colossal level of this sin that you do good but Allah won't accept. Allah won't accept the first one.
Allah, Allah Allah de, the one who has earned the displeasure of his parents.
The Hadith was everything about the afterlife is what the prophet has told us. There is no other way of fine finding out. So he gives you the formula. Allah won't accept this fella Atherton la kaballah hoomin home sarafan wala de la, a la jolla nefler the first Allah, Allah Allah
whose parents are displeased with him.
Second one, one Mannan
you know that sad unfortunate soul who does a good for you? And then can't stop remembering and reminding
you remember when you're walking in didn't have shoes and I gave you those shoes? How are the shoes feeling?
Mashallah you walk in comfortable Ah, man, it's law life. You know, what the heart of a bird gives a little bit then gets uncomfortable has to remind has to sing has to say it is not the characteristics of Muslims. We give we chalk in the ocean and in the river and forget about it. I don't remember I have given I don't remember if I have given you this is a Muslim. So his right hand doesn't know what his rough hand has done, but you do a little bit.
And then in your head, you're expecting appreciation and acknowledgement and accolades. And you know, but you didn't tag me on that. Do you understand? One man and Allah hates it.
And third, the one who rejects the cadore
the predestination that Allah Buddha has decreed the makadi
major sins in the court of Allah.
And then listen to this hadith. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, from abnormal.
He says three categories of people, Allah will not look at on the Day of Judgment.
Allah Buddha will not look at them, nor will he cleansed them from their sins and for them is a huge punishment.
They have lost dunia in
this unfortunate category of three.
The first one, Allah, Allah, Allah de
upon legality, the one whose parents are displeased, this obedient to the parent.
And second one was Mr. Atul matara, Jayla.
And a person
who is not one gender
operates like another
you know, man, dressed not like a man, a woman dressed not like a woman, you know, walks like a man talks like a man behind the bus, not not a man. The Hadith says
Allah doesn't like it.
And last one, what they use,
and a person who has no honor with regards to his family and womenfolk.
These three category of people, a lot of galarza will not look at in the Day of Judgment, normally cleanse from their sins, and for them as a huge punishment.
Do you see do ones that end the cost of the dollar shall Majeed and for Ireland NEMA you read
the respect of parents a second only to his exclusive worship?
This is not a small concept.
And unfortunately, we live in a time in an age where mass media multimedia social media, and courage rebellion against home and rebellion against authority and rebellions against seniority. And Allah forbid rebellion against parents.
Remember, Allah doesn't say if your parents are good to you be good to them.
You know, when they reach old age,
they have lived in another time Allah knows that. You're living in a new time. A lot of bourassa knows that. Some of their ideas might be outdated, a lot of money.
knows that but he has obligated upon you lesson. Ima yep lohana anger Cal kebab. And when they reach old age and become you know, in the backseat and
less relevant and less up to date and you can look frustrated and in that age, don't even say off to them.
For those of you that still have parents alive and make a lot of Vanessa give the parents of one and all long lives in his thigh and in his Agata after this event finishes do me a favor. Call them
express your love and affection and devotion to them apologize for any shortcomings and say that person has come here and advise the nuts you know, enter the heart and I have accepted and a lot of boys are blessed you with it. My dear ones, what law he allows him dunia and asherah will be yours if those two are happy from you.
And I don't speak you know or nice rhetoric be the lean be the lean with evidence.
You know, in Islamic history
the Prophet sallallahu wasallam
actually, from the time of Omar, you all know Omar
Omar hanamura abrahamsen ameerul momineen you know, the halifa His name is even on the justice system of the EU United Kingdom, Omar.
So when Omar became Khalifa
and delegations used to come from Yemen,
Omar used to run out to meet the delegation.
In Iraq he is asked this question from all of them that can a fee come always ignore me
as a person in this delegation by the name of always if
they say no. And eventually a delegation came
or went out again
from Yemen a few come always ignore me
as their person amidst you by the name of always ignore me.
So they said man
so Omar said under normal, your waist abnormal? He said none.
So Omar says
me Murat in some in the forum
from the mine tribe of Mirage sub tribe of Toronto, mine locality of Morag sub locality of Toronto.
Always says Nam sama said cannabic about us
you had a skin affliction. For Bara. termined Allah cured you from it Illa mobile their ideal home except for a coin size.
You have a skin condition.
Allah cured, but there's a spot that big left over you said Nam. Yes.
So Omar said lacquerware leader.
You have an elderly mother.
Oh, I said Nan.
So Omar said, Samir Otto Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam yeppoon I heard the messenger say, yo, yo below it, you can
always ignore me.
Ma I'm daddy an alien.
Moron. So Mammon. Horan.
Can I be badass favara Baba Amina Illa de
la who was a leader
delegation from Yemen will come
I you might you know, the Rasul has passed away. But Omar, a delegation from Yemen will come.
There will be a person in there his name will be always the son of Amir, he is from the tribe of Morocco then sub tribe of Iran and he has a skin affliction and Allah has steward him except the size of a coin and he has an old mother and listen Omar He is good his mother can be her Baron. He is good this is his qualification can be her Baron. Lo Oksana Allah La Hey la Baccarat. If this always ever take an oath on Allah, Allah will fulfill it.
have always ever asked Allah will give. So Omar in his tatata and yesstyle felucca
If you can ask him to ask Allah to forgive you ask.
to understand the depths of this Howdy.
Omar is a Sahabi
He is someone who believed in the lawsuit and saw the lawsuit.
always never met the lawsuit.
So he becomes a
end note tabea you will ever meet that dust on the feet of a Sahabi
so the Rasul says, to Ballymore Ronnie glad tidings for the ones that have seen a glad tidings to you You got to lay eyes upon me to buy lemon man Ronnie glad tidings to those that saw those that saw me your and don't think the small the Hadith says
that there will be a campaign
the Muslims will be on one side there will be an adversary is on the other side. And there will be deadlock no one's winning.
Yazoo fear mean an S group of people will be in campaign
and that block no one's winning. Then the leader asks a fee C'mon Sahaba Rasulullah
a fee command l rasulillah. Is there someone in this gathering that has laid eyes on the prophet
SAW A man was say I saw Dora soon. And the Heidi says Allah will give victory to the army simply because I missed you exists one that laid eyes on me. Do you see this shot off of Safa. This is the honor prestige of Safa.
Howdy, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says if one of my companions were to give a handful of dates in South Africa, and you give the mountain of offered in South Africa, the handful of dates of my Sahaba will out why the mountain of of your gold and you will never give a mountain of gold you are you only ever give a kilo of gold in your life.
But if you gave a mountain and Abu Bakr and Omar gave a handful of dates, the dates would supersede your mountain.
So he is a Sahabi. And he's not an ordinary, this is the one he enters. So the raw soul size. Tell him Allah has given you gentlemen.
And not only that, the Halton Region I entered agenda for either and now because three men that have I entered Jana and I saw a palace of gold.
Can you imagine walls of gold
decorations gold lights gold, those gold ground got a gold
So Dora Sol is impressed by it. So he says the man had that. Whose is this?
Who is this palace? So the angel c'est la Fattah min hora is
one of the youngsters of polish.
So the Rasool says follower of Bo Salah Mohali, for one to
enter who I thought it must be me why you're talking about the Porsche I am the prince of the sons of courage
for one and only enter who but for clarification, he says, Man Who? Who? So the angel says, honorable cop out.
This is the Palace of Omar. So the Rasul says, I wanted to enter it.
I wanted to enter it to see that character of erotic, I really remembered your sense of honor with regards to your women.
So I didn't enter. So I'm at a sitting in front of the law student he Christ is our middle of our era School of Law, when I have any honor with regards to you pertaining to my women
This is our model
already established. Why Drupal agenda or mobile sharonville agenda and the the Hadith of the Prophet
Clearly Now, the question is, what right is due to this status always the tasa Javi comes to you asking for da
and go search and see if you can find anything but
but goodness and kindness to parents. And I am not sure if you can sense the pain and the dilemma of always spend the moment and think
he is in Yemen.
Islam has entered his house, that our soul is alive. Every atom of his body yearns to go and say Salaam
wala hill of him, the worst of us today, if you hear that our soul has come, you will crawl on ice to go and meet the soul.
And this is always
Okay, you know, the desire to lay eyes on the soul and obligation of looking after an elderly mother. I cry when I think about that, you know,
what did you do always
to give up
and the heart is yearning and cry and I not I want to go to law school.
And yet the command of the law school, be good to your parents. And he missed out he missed out on the size of the lawsuit.
But Allah elevated him to this level that now go when he comes tell him that I know about him.
And not only that asked him for
Do you see nothing got always to this level, but kindness to parents
purchase purchase the doors and the supplication of your parents. I say this to my students. I say a laser guided missile might miss the daughter of the parents will not miss
you know in the past the Hadees tells us
there was a person by the name of george bush
you know that he you know he lilla hillbilly ministry anybody righteous man spent his whole lot time in Iboga lived secluded from mankind in a hut and just used to worship
so George's and solder
in the as a mother
so the mother comes
George Bush thinks and the Hadith is so beautiful. He says you're up only masala tea.
I'm scrolling and I'm in prayer.
And his heart. Mom's calling and I'm in prayer. What a dilemma. which one to choose?
You know inside is your dilemma today. You know, Playstation or mom?
TV or Mom? Mom?
Do you understand?
Dariush isn't fun and games and mum. It is ibid is standing between the hands of the load in sada so next day she comes again yeah Joy, joy and he is in Sala psychotherapy on me sadati my mother and Sala
water dilemma continued in his father and just so that you understand the ruling of the deen of Muhammad if you stand in Salah in it is nothing as in Sunnah on our field and mum calls you go to mum
and forest complete your father unless it's necessity
so third day she came
you know July ish, so he's
on me masala tea. So now third time mom has lost her.
You know has got upset, lost her calmness and coolness. So she made against to
Na Na te la hinjewadi ministry Pani, very righteous, devout, God fearing individual is another. So but the man made a law against a righteous sun
and the strangest of dials you will find
my you'll not die until you come first.
To face with a lowered woman,
and ill repute woman.
So, that is passed by nuestra Isla down in the city and they're praising situation mush, what a pious man. And amidst them as a woman,
I am in the house of a loss of questionable character, and you understand my hand?
she says, nah, he can't be over.
So they said, Go try.
See if you can get anywhere with him to shut out sway him from the path of righteousness. So she went to Georgia, presented herself, you know, trying to get to him is a righteous man
turned away from it. frustrated and angry, she went to a shepherd became pregnant, sometimes later gave birth. So banjos rise will come. What, what have you done? sin?
Who's the father? So she said george bush.
You know, in the absence of DNA testing, it's a problem.
What to do?
So they come
push down the walls of his house and pull him out
or beat him. So what's what's going on? You know, he's the son is a very respected member of the he's assigned to them. How is it that you've come hitting me and breaking my house and so said, Don't pretend look at the mess you've done? What mess that son
out of wedlock.
So he said, Give me a minute to pray.
I see the status of his piety.
So he prays to Raka comes to the child, Epsom in the tummy.
Because child, who is your father, newborn,
but you see the Athena?
Ha, you see the level of demand stopwatch,
child who's your father, so the little babe said, the shepherd so and so.
So the scholars say
he stuck was saved him, but the death of the mother still came true.
And what of those who don't have Taqwa?
Who are cloaked in sin, and then the daughter of the mother comes as well.
Trust me when I tell you
there is no success. No happy
if those two are unhappy with you,
as you walk out of the house, you will feel the world has turned against you.
You know, I will share something with you and I'm Cognizant the cameras and the radios then I wish none of them were here. But just for this part. I mean, apart from this Alhamdulillah Allah bless, you
know, in my younger days,
I came home, I was I was at home, mom got upset and
scolded me and
hamdulillah you know, Allah has
obedience to parents, somewhat easy for me.
I am not a bad child to my parents.
And my a lot of boys that keep them happy from me.
And forgive whatever shortcomings has happened.
So mom was upset, and I share this. And I normally don't share personal things but so that the point comes across them at my expense you can benefit in show.
So mom was upset. And I thought, I need to walk out. Get some I haven't said a word but I need to walk out.
Give some space, get some space
and come back later. So I walked out
of the garden, cross the road and about three 400 meters down is a park was a park.
I thought I'm gonna go for a walk and then come back. Now as I walked out my heart saying your mom's up
said you're gonna get
every atom of my body very clearly very loud, you know, mom's upset, no Hydras coming to you now.
I walked out, went to the cross the road went to the footpath now I'm gonna walk down to the park and I looked from afar and I see a dog
no big beast of a thing
very far, you know?
And this thing turned and saw me
I have nothing to do with you, you know that that's the path that
I'm very far
and this thing just ran at me. Have you seen those crazy runs where one of the hands go between the two other legs?
And I thought Alice has made a mistake is going to stop you know?
And this thing kept on coming. I said oh, you're yo
I ran down home
open the doors and give me a hand so mom said you saw her I said I saw so I guess that
and will lie it's my belief
that if you leave home mom and dad are upset and happy, hurt the world will be against you.
And if you have the blessing of Stila mom and dad
you know, spend some time at her feet. It is easy to be pompous, you know set cocky and arrogant sensitivity is a hands it's a fee.
Make her feel valued, important. Get her little silent dance from the heart and walk and see all the doors have higher open to you what law he loves him like I have given you the problem side I won't give you the good side you know the good that happens when you when your parents are are happy. But every difficulty moves out of the way.
And one of the scholars of the past said
he goes I have two weapons at home
that put this agenda down and they will shoot missiles at you that you don't know what to do with you know, don't annoy me like my parents are still alive. I call they make that for you. Holla where you're gonna go you know.
my dear ones.
Be good to your parents unconditionally. And they're with us for a little while. I'll give them the edge of the mountains. They're with us for a little while. You don't want to look back at some stage and say I could have done better
and they are easy to please. And although at times they might pretend not to be but hearts of parents don't keep grudges against their children. And if you aren't able to win them over keep trying harder. You're not doing it right.
For your time and patience. I thank you made the heavens guide and guide you with salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakato keep your brother in your da my Allah accept from me and from you was said Mr. de como rahmatullah wa barakato