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He Pretended To Be Blind

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Wahaj Tarin

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arise

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in Al hamdu Lillah Allahu wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah

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There's a famous Hadith which we hear often,

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in which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says hi eurocom the best of you mentor me for an hour I lemahieu the best of you are those who learn the Quran and teach it to others. This Hadith was narrated by a man named nafion sauceman heard the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say the best of you are those who learned the Quran and teach it to others. The one that narrates it from us, man, if not fun, is a person by the name of Abu Abdullah Rama and salami. And Abu Abdullah Rama Anna Salemi heard this from Othman abney often learn the Quran, and then set their teaching it for some four decades.

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Like he gave his life to it. And when narrating the Hadith, he says, This is what has made me sit here for this time.

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Because it's a big thing. It's not, you know, a good Muslim is this, it's highrock of the best of you

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by the word of the Rasulullah. The best of you have the MoMA is the one who learns the Quran, and then teaches it. So he says, This is what has kept me on my seat all these years. And most of the assignee of the recitations go through this man doth magnet affirm.

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Now there's another Howdy, similar wording, but one which we don't pay as much attention to. And it is narrated from our mother in law, who says that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Hey, eurocom, the best of you, hi, eurocom li li, is the best to his wife as a family. We're Anna Hi, eurocom Laila Ali, and I am the best to my family as in the best of my wife's similar wording, the best of you are those who are best to their families, meaning their wives.

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And imagine if we had shown the dedication that Abdul Rahman had shown to taking that verse and taking a paddy and dedicating the rest of his life to trying to accomplish the outcome of the study. And imagine, each one of us here had dedicated our lives to fulfilling this hadith here. our predecessors did it. They did it beautifully. There's a story of the seller, there was a man

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his wife developed a skin affliction. You know, it started to have marks on the skin. And the men notice that the wife feels self conscious in his presence, you know, tries to cover it

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and feels uncomfortable. So to try to alleviate the suffering of his wife, you know, to take away this burden of presentation.

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One day he came home, pretended he had an accident, and he pretended he's blind. You know, I can't see.

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So

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for the rest of his days, he was blind. For the rest of her days. He was blind. When she died and they buried him and they buried her. The man was walking around fine and helping out so the person asked because uncle wants you blind he said no son, my my wife had a skin affliction. And she used to feel shy in my presence. So for her sake, I pretended to be blind all disease bucket became

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a life choice of his like, it wasn't just at home, it was blind everywhere.

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Why? Because they learned that the best of you are the best of their wives.

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And one of the verses were recited tonight, a lot of bluster sighs

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woman Yeah, tea and coffee signs and Haleakala coming full circle as roger that he created for you from your own self spouse's litho schooner a layer so that you can find peace and solace with her with gyla inner calm my word Rama in the midst you he has instilled or put a bond of compassion and mercy. And it's so sacred that even in times of difficulty in divorces, a colossally difficult time or a lot of bluster isn't the burden of one and all.

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It is a difficult time. And but even at that time the instructions have a lot of bullets as well and so will follow Nabina calm and don't forget

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benevolence amidst yourselves like even when you're divorcing, Be kind, be gracious, be pleasant. And my dear brothers and sisters in a time where divorce rates are rising.

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There's a famous saying in English and says that when elephants fight, the grass gets trampled upon. So when two adults go through a divorce, if they don't exhibit the required maturity and emotional intelligence in wisdom, the kids are the ones that suffer. So it is in your interest religiously, in it is in your interest. Strategically, to when it comes to an end in mind, a lot of bluster give you joyous lives until you meet him when it comes to an end, to end amicably and be pleasant and be accommodating to one another and supportive of one another because both of you have gone through that difficulty and ensure that although not an ideal situation, but that the kids are still looked

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after, and they're still a priority. A lot of Blizzard bless you and guide you and guide you make a lot of Blizzard make the wives good for their husbands and their husbands good for their wives and their children good to the parents and the parents good to the children in my a lot of boys honor you in both the walls.