Your Children Are Your Responsibility

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Jumu’ah Khutbah

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Assalamu aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato

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work will love it Arjun Bala Allah wakulla Allah Allah TV now

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we begin with the praise of Allah

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We praise Him, we seek His help and we ask his forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides, there is no one that can misguide him. And whoever Allah misguides there is no one that can guide him. And I bear witness that there is no god worthy of worship except Allah alone and with no partner. And I bear witness that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the slave of Allah and His Messenger, we ask Allah to exalt is mentioned and grant him peace, and to his family and to his companions, and all those who follow them until the last day. Or you who believe have Taqwa of Allah as he deserves for you to have Taqwa of Him and do not die except as Muslims or mankind. have Taqwa of your Lord who

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created you from a single soul and created from it, its mate, and from them both many men and women, and have Taqwa of Allah, the One that you ask by his name, and fear Allah with regard to your relatives. Allah is always watching over you. All you who believe have Taqwa of Allah and speak a word that is true, he will correct your deeds and forgive your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has indeed achieved a great success, to continue the best speeches, the Book of Allah, and the best guidance is the guidance of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And the worst of things in this religion are the newly invented beliefs and practices. And all of those newly invented

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beliefs and practices are innovation and all innovation is misguidance and all misguidance is in the Hellfire as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said,

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my brothers in Islam.

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Today we are going to deal with a topic which is of the utmost importance

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and it is a topic relating to the responsibilities that Allah has given to every single man and woman. And this responsibility is a responsibility that you will be asked about your work

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and it is a responsibility that could cause a person to be prohibited from Jenna. The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said

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ma'am in abdon

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yesterday he La Jolla.

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yamu to yo maya Muto.

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T il how Ramallah whitey Hilton? We're theory via t Muslim sumela yeah Jihad hula homeboy, I'm sorry.

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There is no person

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that Allah makes them responsible over someone else. And on the day that they die they die while they are not doing the job that Allah asked them to do, except that Allah will make Jana haram for them.

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My brothers in Islam this hadith does not apply only to the leader of the Muslims. Rather it applies to every single person that Allah has given you responsibility over someone else. And from the responsibilities you have been given, is the responsibility over your children.

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The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said, an akula Kumari will call newcomers on Android at fell me will lead the island nurse here are in LA him were homeschooled on an home. What would you do in a hurry Beatty he will homeschool on an home while

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at Valley High quality high quality he will he'll miss all that when I'm home. What I do

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say he will homeschool on an Falcon low camera in workqueue. Local must rule on a Yeti.

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Every one of you

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has been given a responsibility over other people.

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The ruler of the Muslims has been given a responsibility and he will be asked about them.

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And a man has been given responsibility for the people in his house. Your family, your children, Allah will ask you about them yo melki Allah.

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Allah has placed you as our watch over them like a shepherd. You have been given responsibility for them and all

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I will ask you about your family and about your children, your milk

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and their sisters in Islam. They should also not be exempt from this because the prophets I seldom said the woman she is also responsible for the husband's household and for his children and she will be asked about them as well.

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So every one of you will be asked about the people that Allah put in you in responsibility over. Now we go back to the Hadith that we mentioned at the start of the man in abdeen. Yesterday he loved

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your Muto Yamamoto Hua Zhu Li Raja Yachty. In Lucha Ramallah.

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There is no one that Allah puts responsibility over other people. And we heard in the Hardy, that this is the responsibility of the man for his children.

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And he betrays his children.

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And he doesn't do the best for them. In the duration of a Lima Muslim, he doesn't work hard for them, and he doesn't give them he doesn't act sincerely to them. He doesn't act in a sincere way.

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He doesn't act sincerely to them, he doesn't work hard. To bring them to what is right and to guide them to what is right Illa how Ramallah who Allah he'll Jana, Allah made Jana haram for him.

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My brothers,

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my brothers in Islam,

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the responsibility of our children extends to our children's education.

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And many of us in this country. And in this city, where the options for education are very limited. And there are not many options for Islamic education. This is from the greatest of the betrayal that we do to our children. This is from the greatest of the wish,

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the betrayal, and the cheating that the parent does to their children, that they do not care about where their children received their education. And today, we hear many of the brothers in the masjid saying our children their manners are not what we wanted them to be our children don't listen to us. Our children don't do this.

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Yeah, he'll carry him Where do you send your children to learn?

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Your children spend hours and hours every day in front of the kuffaar. And these disbelievers teach them everything, which is hobbies,

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every single thing, which is hobbies, and then the children come home. And the parent says, And

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where did this come from? Why is my child not listening to me? Why does my daughter not want to wear hijab? Why does my son speak back to his mother? Who I mean in the unforeseen come, you were the one who sent your child to these people?

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And will law he do not think that the Christian Schools and the Catholic schools are any better? Whether your child comes home and celebrates all kinds of shaky at Christmas, and all kinds of things, and Easter and so on. And they don't see anything wrong? And perhaps they would even say what is the difference between us and them? Corn who I mean and the unforeseen come your hands did this to your children. You did this to your children.

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When you sent them to those places, and you didn't care about it, and you didn't look at what your children are learning.

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And

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where did this musi come from? It came when we betrayed our children.

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When we cheated our children,

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we didn't look after them the way that Allah gave them to us to look after. We didn't take responsibility for them the way that Allah told us to take responsibility for them.

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And I know my brothers, I know that it's not easy. I know that we don't have many options. But the least that you can do, the least you can do is to take this masliah and responsibility and stop saying it's their fault. And take it on yourself and say now it's my responsibility. These children they did not come down from the sky. They came from me now are you

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A must only upon me that I have to look at what these children are learning. And I have to do my best for these children, I have to work hard for them, I have to try for them, I have to give them good advice, I have to give them a good Islamic education as best I can.

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Then you will see the fruits and the rewards of that in your children's behavior, and in what your children are learning. My brothers in Islam, I want to highlight some of the dangers in the education that our children are receiving. And I want to highlight some of the solutions be in the law heeta Allah,

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the first danger, and the greatest danger that our children are facing in school today

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is the danger to their IP that and the danger to that he man

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the danger to what they believe. And that's why we'll lahoma Stan and we ask Allah we only complain of our grief and sorrow to is better because they have some manners, they have some morals, maybe they keep the girls separate from the boys. From my brothers, the first thing we have to think about is the belief of the person five hours every day, no more than that, or less than that 567 hours. And that child, all they see is the salib the cross.

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And all they hear is the people worshipping Isa alayhis Salatu was Salam.

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So this has a huge effect upon the child. We have to counter this, okay, we send our children, because we had no choice. But we have to counter this now we have to teach them Islam, we have to bring them to the class in the masjid so that they learn the difference between Islam and Christianity. We have to fight with the school, to stop them from participating in the assemblies and the acts of worship that Allah subhanaw taala sent his curse upon.

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We have to strive and make every effort. And we as a community have to put our foot down and not allow our children to be exposed to religions and beliefs that are outside of Islam. And this is the biggest danger to them will lie It's bigger than the danger of a lot of mixing with the boys and the girls. And it's bigger than the danger of Xena. And it's bigger than all of the dangers is the danger that one day your child comes back and says dad today I'm not a Muslim anymore.

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And will lie. It has happened.

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And I cannot tell you how many children I dealt with who left Islam when they left Islam.

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They turned their back on Islam and they said I'm not a Muslim anymore.

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I will lie here I do not believe this came from anything except from that education that they received. And usually their parents came crying. And they said What shall we do my daughter she left Islam my son he left Islam, where did you send them? Or I sent them to university in Canada. I sent them to high school in England I sent them to I sent them to call who I'm in MDM for your hands did this nobody else.

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The second danger that we have to our children, after the danger to their religion is the danger to their morals

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and the danger to their Eman from the point of view of their actions. These schools they gather together everything which is evil. They gather together Kufa, they gather together, they gather together, Xena they gather together all kinds of Phylicia Mahara, mean how about all kinds of filthy acts and evil things?

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We have to combat this within our children. Every day our child comes back we have to ask them. What did you do at school at school today? What did you learn at school today? What did you see at school today? That was against Islam, and we educate our children that these things are wrong. Otherwise, our children will grow up with this education and Disturbia and the end of that will not be an end that is praiseworthy. akula matters marone was thought through our family

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was selfish.

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When he started he muslimeen I mean Coulee Dam infested furuya fella come in who

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Alhamdulillah your bill alameen

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wa Salatu was Salam. aleikum wa rahmatullah wa alameen. Nabina, Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi. h mine.

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My brothers, we're talking about

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our responsibility towards our children, particularly in light of their education. And the dangers that come from the western schooling system that many of our children are most of our children are a part of.

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I now want to talk about some practical solutions. And I'm not going to give you solutions which are impossible. Yes, no doubt, the best thing you can do is take your children for them from that school and never send them again, and teach them at home.

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But many people cannot do this, or many people are struggling to be able to do this. So what other solutions do we have? The first thing is we have to give our children the knowledge of Islam, by which they can counter what they receive into school.

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At a minimum, bring your children to the masjid, bring them to the classes, bring them to the Salah, let them know what their religion is. Let them see how we are different from those people.

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And this leads me to my second point, make sure that your children have a strong Muslim identity to many of our children. If you ask them, What are you they say, I'm Kurdish What are you an Arab? What are you an Pakistani, what are you after you are Muslim? Where is your Islamic identity? First, teach our children the value of Islam and make them have an Islamic identity. Islam is first in their eyes.

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So that they see that they are different from the non Muslims. The third thing you have to watch your children like a hawk. Every day they come back, look at what they're doing. Look at what they're viewing. Look at what they're writing about. Look at the books they are studying. If you don't understand them, ask someone for help.

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So that you can challenge when your children have things that are not right. When they receive information that is not right. When they see behavior. That is not right. Number four, you need to talk to your children about what is wrong at the school. You need to have that relationship with your children, where openly and honestly you can talk to them. And you can say to them what happened today, or we saw that so and so has a girlfriend so and so has a boyfriend. Why is that wrong in Islam? What do we do instead in Islam? What does Islam give us? Instead, we talk to our children about the wrong things they see on the street outside and the wrong things they see in their school.

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The 15 we need to do is we need to engage with the school and the teacher. And we need to be strong. Not one miskeen parent goes by himself and has to say please, I don't want my child. Let the whole group of the Muslims go as one and say we are not asking your permission. We will not allow you to teach this to our children.

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This is not going to happen. We as a whole community will stand against it. organize this with the masjid organize it with the people in the masjid so that we as a community can have some strength against the wrong things that they are teaching to our children in the school.

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These are just a few of the things and from the most important of them. Look at who your school your children, school friends have a look at what kind of people if their friends are all of them non Muslim or not practicing Muslim. So what will the outcome be? Alma Oh Allah, Dini Holly, I had to come to New Holland, a person is upon the religion of their close friend. So let everybody look who did you take as a close friend. And finally, from the most important of the things you can do, from the most important of the things that you can do is that you strive with everything you can to cooperate and to work together.

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To try to establish something to take our children out of this. And you don't give priority to their education over their deed. And we saw so many parents like this will love understand that the parents are willing for the children to sacrifice their Deen as long as they get their education. It's not worth it. It's not worth it.

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For you and then to be prohibited from Jenna, because of a piece of paper that said that they got a British education, it's not worth it. It's not worth it. So put Islam first and put the school second and work together at our adultery what taqwa for everyone who is together in the schools, and they have their children in schools.

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And they have their children in schools.

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Work together. So that insha Allah huta Allah, Allah azza wa jal will provide you with a Maharaj from this situation, and Allah will provide you with something better. So mahalo. Or Sandy, Morocco, Allah, Allah Mohammed, Abdullah Kamara, Mr. Lacombe Valley Kala bukem bacala Colin Karima in the LA hawala, aka who you saw Luna Allah nabee Yeah, you have leadin M and o sol Lu la he was sent limo Taslima Allahumma salli ala Muhammad Ali Mohammed can also later Allah Ibrahim Ali Ibrahim in nakka hamidou Majeed wa barik ala Muhammad Ali Mohammed Khanna Baraka Allah Ibrahim

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