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The speakers discuss the controversial topic of the sexero movement and the use of gay language in politics. They acknowledge the struggles faced by many people but also acknowledge the struggles faced by most people, including the push for gay language in politics. The speakers emphasize the importance of finding experienced women and finding a woman who is experienced with men. They also stress the need for guidance on finding one's spirituality to achieve success in life, prayed and built a habit, and the importance of finding one's spirituality to achieve success in life.

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See where you from? I'm from Oregon Brown. I don't believe in ghosts. I don't believe in spirits souls. I don't believe in afterlife. I'm not Christian. I'm atheist. So what's the halal way to learn how to do that stuff? There you go. I just told you once. I believe in aliens, why would you put faith into aliens when you've never seen them but you can't put faith into God who was actually a Muslim and we weren't good for my read? Yeah, I think is I always tell people look, I grew up a Muslim I was born a Muslim. Half of them are Muslim. You can take your shahada right now do you want to know I'm not perfect either. Obviously, you know that too. If we die tomorrow, are we gonna burn

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an oven for COVID? etc?

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I would I would recommend everyone have a look at Islam. I bear witness that

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Muhammad is

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Allah hu Akbar, brother in Islam, Eddie from the deen show is creating the deen Center, which is a masjid and that was sent which is going to help non Muslims learn about Islam. And the most beautiful thing about this is that we can all be a part of this we can all take part in earning rewards from this simply by donating whatever we can to make this a reality. Which is let's do it. Let's click this link. Let's donate what we can and let's make this a reality in sha Allah

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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salam alikoum Giza peace we have a lot to cover here and we're going to as usual, we're going to encapsulate the truth and deliver it to in a way that many of you can relate to with my next guest. Ali Dawa.

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We have gone GOD, ALLAH

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and his vital messengers, Muhammad peace be upon him. This is our religion, Islam.

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This is the dijo

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continue continuing

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to talk about

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how much respect I have for the faith of Islam show Welcome to the deen show. The Deen show

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boo. How you doing brother Eddie?

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When they come out of cat How you doing brother all the way from London? Yes. Are you been hamdullah good, really good. Can't complain.

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Yeah, hamdulillah amazing, really happy to see you. And happy to happy to join you inshallah. Soon. We Yes, yes. Looking forward to it and Shala soon. Okay. All right, we got lots to talk about. Before we get into the main discussion, there was something else that came up. For those that don't know Neil deGrasse Tyson is an American astrophysicist, author and science communicator tight Tyson. He studied at Harvard University, the University of Texas. So he's pretty much a man of science. And he was one of those who was saying follow the science. And now he has this to say I'm gonna get your reaction. Point is apparently, the xx x Y chromosomes are insufficient. Because when we wake up in

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the morning, we exaggerate what ever feature we want to portray the gender of our choice.

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Either the one you're assigned the one you choose to whatever it is, and so now hear it so so now just tie a bow on this. I say to you, somewhere I read somewhere. I think I read that the United States was a land where we have the pursuit of happiness. Yes, suppose no matter my chromosomes today, I feel 80% Female 20% Man, I'm going to I'm going to put on makeup I'm going to do tomorrow I might feel 80% male. I'll remove the makeup and I'll wear a muscle shirt.

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Why do you care? Yeah. What why? What business it is it of yours. To require that I fulfill your inability to think of gender on a spectrum is is that other brother with you? What's his name? Zhi. SHAN Yeah, he's here. Zhi Shan Where's Yeah.

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Where's my brother? Zhi. Shan. He's here the man with the plan. If you can't, nobody can. How you doing brother?

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Bro, how are you? Okay, yeah.

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How you doing? Background? Yeah. 100 illallah Cooley Hall, bro. Yeah, just just trolling the deen show, you know, trying to get famous.

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So have you guys both heard this? Neil deGrasse Tyson. I watched it yesterday.

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I'm actually that's why when I was watching it, I was a bit confused because I went to Zhi SHAN I said, is he pro or against? Because the video? It seems like he's against the beginning. So I'm confused. I'm like, is he against the Pro? I'm still confusing to me. No, he's actually pro LGBT, which is pretty amazing, because he's supposed to be a scientist is supposed to be academically intellectually honest, a lot of people when they're atheists, they, they say, look, you're when it comes to science, it's objective. And you know, we can take care. And, you know, we rely on it over God and over testimony. So hey, you've got a scientist, now, that's using the same framework. And

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he's arriving at the conclusion that you can wake up and you can be a man, the next day, you can wake up as a female. So it'll be interesting to see what these atheists have to say, frankly, it seems like now this is this is anti God, obviously, anti science, this satanic rhetoric, and is a great statement that the only thing necessary thing for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing. So we're trying to do something, to combat this. And obviously, this is coming from people who you would think, you know, would come out and speak up but against this, because they're scientists, but they're actually speaking, speaking towards this.

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This whole, what do you want to call it? I mean, this is madness.

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You know, you know, the most, it's, hopefully won't be a shock to most people. But the way things are at the moment, the LGBT are heavily there, especially the LGBT lobby is heavily funding to aspects in particular. And one is, of course, education. That's why they're on the border of a lot of these

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universities, especially in the US. And then they're funding the war, is it the medical industrial complex with which some argue is actually more prominent than the military industrial complex, because that's where most of it's going to happen. So there's a lot of big bucks to be had,

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from, of course, peddling this LGBT thing, and they've definitely got the kind of eggs in the in the right basket, and they're leveraging people like this, frankly, you can't necessarily be an academic who wants tenure, who wants credibility, who now will openly go against LGBT? I mean, that's what we've seen with with Neil deGrasse Tyson, we're going to see he's going to be one of many. And no one can kind of make this claim, I don't think so. That science is objective. And you know, we can use it to determine x and y. So I don't think anybody in their right mind does it. Would you agree? I'm gonna say x and y are talking about X and Y chromosome calm on G. Okay.

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What's the situation there in London where you guys are? Are, there's a big Muslim community there? Is there a good push back against a lot of this in the schools, because primarily, you know, this is, what's happening here, is probably happening over there. They're pushing this the sexualization of the children in the schools. So that they're, they're having this pretty much pornographic content for four or five, six year olds they're showing. And then when, for instance, you have someone who stands up and shows this stuff, and starts reading from these books at a board meeting, even the board members are like, Hey, slow it down, we, you know, what are you doing? And then the

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person is like, hold on, you can't even hear me reading this. But you want to show this to the children are they're actually blurred out on the news, but they want to show this to the kids. What's going on over there? And you're part of the world with this? I mean, overhead. I mean, it's unexplained. Well, you can't say it's unexpected, but the only kind of religious group that's actually coming to the, to the front are Muslims. And you'll see even the people that are anti Islam, like the far right and the right wing, even they are appreciating the fact that we're coming forward. But the problem is that because we're the ones with the loudest voice, it gets turned into

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a religious thing. And unfortunately, not much gets done. I mean, we saw it in Birmingham, as well remember, when you know Muslim parents had the they had enough? i We even saw in Canada as well. And there was a Canadian pastor that came forward, we put on St. J, that he came forward and he said, You know what, thanks to the Muslim community, but the thing is that I mean, Muslim community comes with a sort of kind of stereotype and a propaganda and the media loves to kind of bash us. So for for, for it to be more effective. We're gonna need the Orthodox, Jewish and Orthodox, or just the Christians in general to come forward as well. It's going to have to be a team effort. But I

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don't know if that's going to be happening, but rest assured the Muslims will will not take this lying down, frankly, and that's what we're seeing over here. There is constant challenges by parents. There is a pushback by unfortunately, sadly, we're seeing UK I mean, tag along with what's going on in the US as well.

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What do you think? Oh, see? All right, thank you for all the input on that, guys. Let's keep moving along. I want to see recently there was a video that you made Ali Dawa. And I don't know if you're familiar with the what did you call it? The fresh in the fitna. What is it called the?

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Yeah. So let's go ahead and I don't know if you also familiar with this, this young brother recently he accepted Islam. Lot of the youth follow him. Sneaky sneaky. What's his name? sneakily? Nico? Yes, the new generation coming?

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And let's get into a couple videos first here. Yep. To kind of

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see some of his views on a few things. And then I'm really impressed that he's actually calling people to Islam. Yeah, yeah. seems sincere. And you just, you just want to protect them just naturally, your views feel more like a man because you want to protect and you want to provide for her, he just want to create that nice environment for this beautiful, feminine woman. And then you realize that like the amount of bull* that you need to put up with, with these women in America, how combative they are, and everything in the culture is steering them away from being feminine. It's a it's like, now you this, it's the Cardi B thing. You need to be the tip top die in order to

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make a woman submit, but women are happy to just do that in Japan. What do you think? Well, yeah, it's true. This is this is what it is Islam has given us a solution to all problems, in all matters, from marital disputes, to business, to robot interest to sex outside of marriage, Islam is a holistic way of dealing with these matters. And in some deals with the at the core. And Bill, and its main principle is that prevention is better than cure. So the thing is, it goes back to, you know, the worship of Allah subhanaw taala. So you see this with different people in different aspects. When they see that there is no solution. What they do is they obviously start seeking evil,

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they start trying to start a movement, which the red pill did sort of sneak out and Myron and the rest, they started this movement, because they saw that the degeneracy and whatever's going on, you know, and to be honest, you know, the things that are going on, and they tried to make their own movement. And when people like when somebody's sincere, when they come across Islam, or a specific way of life, you know, which Islam is the only one to be honest. And they see that they like, you know what, this has already been here from day one. We just need to follow this. We don't need to make our own movement, because our own movement is going to come with its flaws. That's why I've

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done a video about freshman fit, you know, because at the end of the day, yes, I understand. They're trying to, they're trying to deal with an issue. But they aren't. They are human beings and anything that's manmade, it's never going to be perfect. So that's where they will come with stuff like Oh, stick around and do this and do that. There is truth to some stuff that they see. But that's why if you look at people like snicko, when you're sincere, Andrew Tazewell, when they came across Islam, they said this, this is this gives a perfect solution. So they came to Islam and handled as a solution to many of the problems. And that's why you see these prominent individuals who are coming

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to Islam, the frog into Islam, and I think it's a miracle, you know, in the sense, like, Islam is one of the most, you know, hated religions, misconstrued misunderstood on purpose. And Islam has been attacked the past decade or so, by individuals and the main arguments they have is Islam is intolerant. Islam is intolerant Islam is intolerance, Thomas Islam that, but now you see people are coming to Islam because of his intolerance. But to me, it amazes me. It amazes me that they are coming to Islam because of his intolerance. It's in the hands of Allah. Yeah. So he's on point here. I mean, this goes with Islam that calls the man to be masculine and obviously masculine and doesn't

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mean that he's like, you know, oppressor or whatnot. He's a maintainer protector of his family and to calls for the woman to respect their husband and to be feminine right where it's not this like he's talking about it so always this like two rams now trying to figure out who's in charge and who's this correlates with with Islam feminine versus masculine. Let's go into this next one here. See where you from? I'm from Morgan Brown. I don't believe in ghosts I don't believe in spirits souls. I don't believe in afterlife. I'm not Christian. I'm atheists. I believe in aliens. Why would you put faith into aliens when you've never seen them? But you can't put faith into God? I believe

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in a higher power but I'm not going to believe my Christianity seems to be the problem. But you believe that there's one higher power AAA has to be something has to be created. You're a Muslim. That's why Muslims believe one person is not one person. We don't draw God the way Christians do. Muhammad brought the final message of God. I mean, you could take your shahada right now do you want to? I've done a lot. Once you become a Muslim, you're forgiven. I bear witness that there's

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an arsenal worthy of worship that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah Allahu Akbar. He went from mocking to at

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I'm getting exposed to Islam and Gavin some debates. And then he ends up accepting Islam and now he's doing Dawa. He's actually he's calling people had to take their Shahada. What do you think? That's Nico ever mock Islam? At one point? Yes. Did he? I didn't even know that. Okay, interesting. But again, it just shows, you know, there was people who were, you know, more misguided than that who came to Islam. So, yeah, it's amazing. I didn't actually see that video. That's quite impressive. Yeah, I come to Allah, you know, it's nice to see, um, you know, when somebody really internalizes, you know, with me as well, like, when I first came to Islam, it's the same thing when

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you realize what Islam is and what it gives you. Once you truly, truly, you know, understand that you know, and when Iman enters your heart, Faith enters your heart, then it's something that you you want to share with the world, you know, and that's why I don't blame him, I totally relate with him, where when you are practicing this faith, and you've been lost, you've been blinded spiritually, you know, your hearts been blinded. And then you find the truth. You want to share it with the world. And that's what seems Nikko, like right now, you know, I knew he was going down. I didn't know he was getting shot as well. So I'm very happy, very pleased. And near me Allah keeping firm and

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increasing my knowledge. And yeah, look at the end of the day, not myself, I Mohamed hijab and many other people who are out there can help him with his intellectual arguments to sharpen it to be, you know, more in line with the Quran and Sunnah. hamdulillah so I think it's great. It's a great asset and I think you should definitely get in contact Muhammad hijab, Hamza resources, many other brothers like that inshallah and sharpen up his skills because he's definitely got the potential, the style, you know, the eloquence you know, the guy Marshall has got great potential and it'd be amazing to see him you know, it can be you know, sneak hold our sneak Odawa he's also he's one out

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his weight he connected with shake with mine also.

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So helped a lot. It'd be good. There was a there was another this guy I thought about you guys there because interviewed young, just another young young brother. It's probably 121, I believe. And he was connected with someone that you know, that you had

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many encounters with. What was his name? No, he wasn't connected with him, but he ended up get this. So there's this comedian actor named Owen Benjamin. I don't know if you've heard of him. Owen Benjamin. He was with the likes of like Joe Rogan, and on his podcast and Hollywood and whatnot. Anyways, he went from being a screenwriter for the louder for Crowder show. Okay. Okay. And he went, and this is where you come in. He was he wrote the theme song or a song for what's that guy that you are confronting many times?

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Tommy Yes, Tommy Robinson. So look big. islamophobe mocking prom Mohammed says he went to a

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lot of for Crowder, Tommy Robinson writing songs for him also some theme anthem that he used to sing to actually changing his waist started talking positively of problem Mohamed Salah somebody actually says Peace be a partner. Well, the Nanci much of the Trinity so close to accepting Islam. But the way he was talking, got this guy that I just interviewed this brother. His name is Ibrahim now. And he ends up accepting Islam because it is guy. Wow. It's amazing. Amazing how how things just turned around. That's amazing. Who is this person? Do it? He's from Scotland. He's from Scotland. Yeah, so he's, yeah, I'll have the program out. I'm sorry. Maybe you've seen some of his stuff. But so this

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is just to go online. This is how things can go ahead and change. It's amazing. Exactly. You know, it's not so like I said before, you know, we've dealt with,

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we've been dealing with the atheists, the Christians, the hostile ones, by the way, the atheists, Christians, you know, we design is, you know, the ex Muslims, you know, who have now disappeared, you know, the, you know, there's no more money to be made. So you can see all of these people, and the main thing they were capitalizing on was, you know, Islam treatment of this Islamic treatment of the capital punishment. And now it's so it's crazy. It's the biggest slap in the face, that one of the most searched man on earth. And many people like him who are flocking to Islam, and they are flocking to Islam because of Islam stance. So the Christians think that the more you're tolerant,

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and the more you're like, can we accept everybody? And yeah, whatever it may be, yeah, you're going against your own scripture. By the way, your Scripture doesn't say that. Your Scripture does not say we accept everybody Jesus Christ says on the last days, he will come and he'll be slaughtering people you know that those the believe in him. So you're going out there and portraying, literally turning your back against your religion, and it still didn't work. Whereas Islam and the Muslims, we stopped by and said, yes, it's time. Yeah, there's those punishments in the year hundreds and we accept it, and it's a hawk. And what's happened now is that we didn't back down those who back down

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left their religion, because they had an inferiority complex. Now you are seeing

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people flocking to Islam. Why? Because of Islam intolerance because of Islamic principles, because of Islam's way is that not a big slap in their face, just imagine for 10 years the effort they will put in, and they will think they're making some points and this and the prophets marriage, the Ayesha and the capital punishment for the ex Muslims, and this and that, and now you've got people flocking, it didn't work. It didn't cause people to not come to Islam. It's caused more people to come to Islam, I genuinely see this as a miracle. I see. Like, it's so profound. Imagine that, given your effort and time to make Islam vilify it. And the very thing the arguments you're using, are the

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reason why people are coming to Islam. You can't make this stuff up. Amazing. SubhanAllah. Let's get into this next video. That's interesting. This is brought to my attention. And it goes with in line with many things we're going to be talking about. And this is the individual sneaker that we just were talking about. Yeah, he actually he did a reaction to a video you did with a Muslim? Who is part of this fresh and fresh and fit are my own. Yes, my friend who's actually a Muslim, and we want good for my rent. Yeah. And let's go ahead and get into this and we'll get your reaction. We'll discuss this. When did you take them I kept saying haram for like a lot of women sleeping around.

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But apparently you saying like, there's 100 lashes for men too.

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So I've known that since I was a kid. But remember, when we were having that discussion, I wasn't having framing that conversation in the context of this. Let me get it. Let's give a little bit of a background. So you actually did, can you break down your video and give an introduction to what they're actually talking about? So in the video, there is basically they're just talking about how basically there's this perception that it is haram for a woman to sleep around. But the way they make it out to be is and I think yeah, like, I don't think my room really came from from religious angle, if it was more sneak another Bravo. But I've seen this around, but again, as Muslim, I know

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Mario doesn't claim to be a perfect Muslim, and he wants to practice and I saw this video sent to me yesterday, I didn't know. And he was admitted that he wants to become better, etc. And I admire that look, I'm really happy. In two occasions in the video, he mentioned that maybe I've done the video for clicks. And yeah, I would say look, you could come across that that at the end of the day, maybe the world that he's in, a lot of people do things for cliques and etc. I'll be honest with you, I you know, you can open my heart but I don't I didn't do for the clicks or the views. I've done it because genuinely, I was like why they keep repeating this. Because at the end of the day our

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religion tells us in the Quran, Allah says in the Quran, that you shouldn't be just, even if it's against yourself, or your kin, even if it's my dad or my mom, whoever it is, I have to be just so when these elements if that was a Muslim sister talking about this, everybody will go mad. But why is it okay for a Muslim man don't give his practice not practicing to make it seem as if it is okay for a man to stick around. And that's the reason I've done that video to say, look, this is not correct. Because a the punishment for Zina is the same for a man and a woman. The punishment if you're if you are not married is the same. If you're married, the capital punishment is the same. If

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you die, the punishment in the hereafter is the same. So I thought that video just to kindly tell them you know, that they shouldn't be repeating this, etc. And yeah, that was really that was the main point or the crux of the matter.

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Okay, so that's that's what it revolves around. Let's continue on. Because I'm I was framing that conversation in the context of human evolution and human biology and what meant actually one, it was if you notice, I never mentioned anything about the Quran. It's that was Aleem, and you that are mentioning Lamia, the Islamic stuff but like and here's the thing. I know I'm not the best Muslim so I rarely have ever bring Islam into the situation. Like I never tried to rationalize how I do things with with Islam. And my thing is I always tell people look, I grew up a Muslim, I was born a Muslim. My family is very religious, but I pretty much ended there. And I never tried to talk about the book

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or talk about the religion to justify the way I behaved right. Now with that said, this conversation I was talking strictly human evolution biology most men, if given the choice will prefer more women. I didn't meet I never mentioned anything with Islam. And that's, you know, I guess maybe he's thinking like, because Salim was mentioning it and like you had mentioned a little bit that like, we're all kind of in collusion to talk about Islam in this situation. In my situation. No, I was just strictly referring to human evolution. That's fair. Yeah. You never bring it up. And I never bring it up in my debates, like girls will ask me Why do you want four girls? I'm like, Well, the

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way I was raised, you know, you can have up to four wives, etcetera. Haha, it's kind of a joke. But, you know, eventually I'm going to find a dean and come back and everything else like that and have you know, my plan is to have is to become a better Muslim and have four wives. But right now, I'd be lying to myself. I said, Oh, yeah, I'm a great Muslim right now. Like, no, no, I don't want to be Have you ever made that claim? Yeah, like so. But yeah, I think that's what it is. He's critiquing this, but it's like, I'm not even making this up.

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arguments. That's true. You kind of blame me and Celine for that. And in this video, so

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yeah, okay, let me kick it off. So here's what here's what I can really respect about the brother and and

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and we both want good for this brother and we coming from a background myself also who is somebody who went through a similar lifestyle you did also, I liked the point where he's he's he doesn't justify his behavior Islamically you know, it reminds me of myself any time back in the day, when anybody would start talking about God, you know, people throw different topics around, I would shut my mouth, I would just out of respect, I would be quiet. And it seems like he's he's, even though he's doing certain things that he shouldn't be doing, and shall hear he changes his ways. He saying that now, I never tried to use Islam to justify the way I behave. He's acknowledging that what do

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you think?

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Yeah, look, at the end of the day, like I admire the fact that, you know, he's saying that he wants to be become practicing one day, etc. And look, it's never too late for that. And I think he should really, really

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capitalize on that because at the end of the day, he's lived a specific lifestyle. And you need to understand that I'll get the idea for him. I think we're very powerful. I'll try to find out. Cuz it's a very powerful verse in the Quran where Allah subhanaw taala clearly says that Allah since signs, and

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he sends the signs over and over again, until the person is adamant in his way. He's adamant in his way. Then Allah says in the Quran, which one open the verse, so I'm specifically in sha Allah, that Allah says, Then we open the doors to everything, meaning, we give this person a sign and sign and sign again to turn back to us to repent, turn back to us repent. If he persists, we will open the doors for him, meaning the stuff that you saw pursuing so much woman money, cause whatever, maybe earning this in a haram way, because it's halal way to go about this stuff. And then Allah says, We opened the doors for him. And when he thinks, you know, he's when he's boasting as if he's, you

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know, reached those heights or whatever. Maybe we snatch his life. We take his life, suddenly, Allah says, suddenly, we take him. So to me, it's like, look, I come from a giant brother Eddie used to you know, Corbin party and all this kind of stuff goes, you know, there's a certain time where I was questioning myself, I'm 34 years old. Myron is one year younger than me. And I used to ask myself, like, imagine myself living that lifestyle to this this age. I mean, I don't know what I would have done. I don't know if I would have maybe lose my mind. Be on drugs, suicidal. I mean, what would I be doing? I couldn't imagine myself repeating the same cycle over and over again. I will say to my

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dear brother, Myron, you know, genuinely when I did that video, I was not doing it for clicks. I wasn't doing it for this or that I genuinely don't know. Because at the end of the day, these non Muslim woman should not think and be under the assumption that Islam says, one rule for a woman another rule for a man, no, no, no, no, no, because it's a big big, misconstrued, you know, it's a lie. And I'm not saying my room said that. But the point is what happened on the show? So I would say Medea Baba, you know, you're a prophet in Islam, we have love for you. Like we don't I genuinely didn't do that to capitalize on your name or this or etcetera, genuinely, I didn't either because I

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don't want my religion to be seen a certain way. You know, so that's why I done that video because I know a lot of people watch your video and those people that watch your video, I mentioned you guys so they can watch a Muslim reacting to that. So it's never too late repent because there are certain things that you mentioned which I don't want to repeat you know the lifestyle that you live in my Bravo when is the time going to come? You can die any second who has given you who's promised you so I'm just saying to you this as your brother that I've lived that kind of lifestyle to an extent maybe not as you know wild as you guys do. But stop and say you know what, Allah has given me an

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option you know, you can afford us like you said broke okay for wives all day everyday you got the money you can manage you can you know, be trusted them etc. Go and get married. Go about the halal way. It is a we it is impossible for us to say that a man desires something, but Allah hasn't given a solution Allah has Baba four wives are more than enough for you. I promise you two wives is more than enough. More than enough in today's time. I wouldn't recommend any brava to get more than two hours. Free both.

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Even if you're like, even if he was a multimillionaire How are you gonna? It's hard. The kids two wives. Perfect humble Leia. So Baba, go get my wife. Firstly, repent. Number one acceptance that you know what? I've lived that lifestyle. Allah has allowed me enabled is given his mercy out of His mercy, that I haven't died with the sin these are going to be all in your account. Nucky it's not hard to repent to Allah He please go and repent. Number one, and the condition of repentance is what number one you hate the sin? Yes, dislike the sin. Don't be proud of the sin. Number two, try to stop the sin. And number three, try not to go back to the sin. This is an if you make a sincere

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repentance. Allah is the Most Merciful, the Most Forgiving inshallah you've got nothing to lose

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repent please Baba Miran whoever is watching this repentance as we speak and shall I'm saying if we own good you don't need to announce it if you're watching this you're hearing this go home repent and say My Lord forgive me guide me except my repentance be sorrowful hates hate this in hamdulillah inshallah Allah accepts it because if you die on that my brother yes we know that eventually the Muslims I think you mentioned this as well but eventually the Muslims are going to interpret it he said Africa we don't believe that we don't do the people in the book will eventually interpret as they would if they were in disbelief and know Islam is the truth is eternal hellfire for them if

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they know Islam is the truth. So as a Muslim man if you die, you don't want to visit Hellfire Hellfire is not a beach. It's not somewhere where you're like I'm just gonna go stop there for a couple of weeks. I'm gonna do a holiday. I don't even want to go near hellfire. I do not want nothing to do with Hellfire zero. I don't want to know it. I don't want to see it. And of course as believers we're going to Allah is going to show us it but obviously we won't be scared inshallah Allah subhanaw taala will, like Allah says in the Quran, the believers will not grieve nor should they feel. So we want nothing to do with hellfire. I want nothing to do with the punishment of the

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grief. I don't want nothing to do with the displeasure of Allah. So what I'm saying is to my brother, Myron, there's few things you mentioned, etc. Repent, my brava, Allahu Allah is the Most Merciful. And Allah says in the Quran, all my servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not ever display at the Mercy of your Lord. Indeed, Allah subhanaw taala is the Most Merciful. So I would invite my brother Myron Inshallah, please, for the sake of Allah, just repent in private bro, and just slowly work on yourself. And believe me, and one last thing, I want to give a lecture. One last thing, my brother,

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I know, I've lived the lifestyle. Yeah, there's certain habits that I had, that I fought. I don't know how I'm gonna let go of this. But I want to go into detail. I really hated it. I hated the sin. And I was like, How do I let go of this? And any time you have a doubt about yourself, which I did, and many people, not a single person on this earth can leave a sin by himself. Not a certain single person in this life can practice by his own will. Not just that. Anytime you doubt and say that thing is too hard. I can't do it. Just remember, you're right. You can't do it. But Allah can make you do it. When you have a longer sight, he can make you do it. The most impossible thing that you'd

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be like, Oh, I can never do this, wah wah Hill Avene, Allah will make you do it, you'll be even shocked. And that's how I left certain sins, because Ali couldn't do it. But when Ali turned to his Lord and said, My Lord, I can't do it, you help me. Indeed, Allah came to the rescue. Allah came and helped me and gave me the power and the string for whatever it may be from the scene or the unseen, that I left that lifestyle. And there is nothing special about me. There is nothing special about me lucky. I just asked, and I got it.

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So we're here with Ali Dawa, and we're doing a reaction to a reaction for they were reacting to your video reaction. No double reaction is the double reaction. I like what you said. And this is really important. And this is out of the love that we're reaching out to these brothers and Inshallah, this can be a benefit. And I see in both of them, you know, because you look back and you see where you were, you were where they are now, and you want people to come out. And I'm seeing sneak also a part of my past. You know, when I start practicing,

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you want all your voice to become your brother's into Diem, right? So now he's sitting there, and he's actually indirectly suddenly, he's given Dawa, to answer the brother, what's his name? Am I Myron? Myron? So he's actually doing this. He's calling sitting him down. And now the message Allah is sending signs through snicko to admire and I mean, what else can it be? It's a mate, if he really is happening, if he really reflects, this is another sign. Another thing, Ali is that many people, they really get deceived. You heard him say that he wants to come back. Eventually, I'll find the dean and come back. Who guarantees you that who guarantees you're gonna live till tomorrow? You

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know, and I make an example I tell people often I say look, it's like every day you're acquiring more and more felonies imagine now and I think he used to be a cop or something. So imagine someone who's just everyday acquiring more and more felonies and at any times the police now can come and lock you up for life. Imagine so these crimes now that we're doing against the Creator against the law against ourselves now, at any day the Angel of Death can come snatch your soul and now you didn't accept the signs that are coming to you and you think like you know, I can go back and redo the test once the test is over. It's finished once the police lock you up. That's done. You can't go

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into Oh, give me another chance. I'm not going to carry you know the coke in the back or break the laws. I'm going to be you know, good citizen. No, but Allah is giving you time right now to go ahead and just turn back

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and get things right and what does it this is and what's even quiet just repentance. That's the Toba simple and not what was the thing and have a simple, his his his thing I can see is that addiction to women now. And this is Xena Lee NASCI who Bucha Hawa Mina Nisa, this is it's in the Quran the things that men desire. You don't want to covet the most number one is women. So give me good Annika. Yeah, bro. Bro, bro. Okay, it's a matter and the cat takes five minutes between halal and haram. I find it amazing. I can remember when I was getting to know my wife for marriage, and we had marriage meetings, you know, where we will meet, you know, with someone from her family. And

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obviously they would let us walk you know, if we're eating wherever. And I find it so profound that I will teach you I will say, you know, What's stopping me from touching your hand? Is Allah. Like, just think of it there is nothing that can stop me from touching you. Except that Allah has made it haram. It's an invasive, like, somebody will come and say, like, really? I'm like, Yes, really, until we do that Nica. I'm not touching you. And it is so amazing that this is what we believe this is our religion. This is Tauheed that we know Allah subhanaw taala deserves our obedience. And we believe that Allah subhanaw taala is the Most Merciful. And that is the only thing that is stopping

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and will lie. All it does requires is for you to go have a father the permission of the Wali have two witnesses hamdulillah and establishing a kind of matter of 10 minutes you are married between Zina and halal, like the Companions came to the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him and said, you know, the Prophet said to them, that you get rewarded for having intimacy with your, with your wife. And they said how really? They said, Do you not get a sin when you commit Zina? They said yes, then how can it be that you don't get a reward when it's Allah? So the option is there. Not only is it halal, but you are in a form of charity when you are having intimacy with your wife and when your

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wife is having intimacy with you. This is our religion. This is what Islam has come to do. So my brother, instead of indulging in these sins with these women prefer to take the halal option, take the halal option is please your Lord, please yourself in a halal way, and inshallah also being good to your wife taking care of her. Because you don't want to carry those bad traits of you know, you need to understand these things have an impact on our heart. That's what Allah says in the Quran wala Club was in I don't even come near it. You need to also I would say Personally, myself to my Ron. Yes, it's true. We want you to get married. However, my personal advice, which is taking it to

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the next level, bro, is detox. Because you're coming from that lifestyle. I would say bro, take a good couple of months out, away from all woman connecting to your Lord, repenting, cleansing yourself because you don't want to carry these things that you already have to a marriage that you might break. So I want to give you some sense here that take that gradual step. You know, get closer to Allah, His Kitab and slowly slowly improve yourself repent from it. It's not going to be easy Allah says in the Quran, don't say I'm going to be ici believer and not be tested you are going to be tested so I would say and start a family start a legacy that you always talk about inshallah and

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that you preach to the towards doubt Islam in a way where not the old style lifestyle but someone that lives there that is going to inshallah change other young men to not go down this route. He's probably before we go on to the next thing he's probably because Islam is practical. I mean, you know, step by step and he's probably got how many girlfriends? He cut back on a few and the four that he has right now. Turn it into. Yeah, yeah, definitely. You know, all you know, just you know, if these women are not good for you, leave them and find you know, inshallah a Yeah, inshallah try to find a wife, I would say, you know, then I say that again. Yeah. And gradually and slowly. Yeah,

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do those changes. Alright, let's continue on here. Yeah, I'm not perfect either. Obviously, you know that too. If we die tomorrow, are we gonna burn it in the oven for committing Zina?

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No, I mean, at some point, you know, if I'm not mistaken, if I remember it correctly, all people end up going to heaven that are People of the Book. You know, at some point you do. Yeah. You'll have to suffer in hell for a bit. But, but yeah, but yeah, if I were to die right now, yeah, I would probably die. Kapha which is not good. So I better stay alive and get my * together. At some point. Yeah, they'll die. That's what you stay ready. Yeah. It seems like snickles I mean, he's a little playful, but he's worried. He's more worried. And you can see both of them when he said are we going to an oven and this is the truth, man. You don't want to be burning for a second and the

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worldly fire like come on.

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There are leaves to take the match a segment Mohammed look, he was saying Ali Muhammad Ali, the great legend, right? He was saying, you look, you know, if I can't take this fire, how am I going to take the real fire? You know, 70 How many times hotter?

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So they're sitting there for minutes thinking about it, then he's like, Nah, don't fool yourself brothers. Yeah. And the thing is, is like, they were like, Okay, we need to make sure we don't die. The thing is that death is not in your hands. Tomorrow, today, exactly. Anytime. So the thing is, like, you know, it's like, you're acknowledging that, you know how we shouldn't die, because that will happen. But who said death is in your hands. The fact that you acknowledge it, if it's not in your hands should be a U turn for you. And again, if somebody's repented, I think was come to Islam. In shahada raises all his sins, except those he's maybe wrong people or borrowed money wherever the

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right of the people are separate. But in this situation, snicko obviously if he's repented, if he's come to Assam, shahada, he's got clear, clean sleep. Unless he's, you know, incumbency and as a Muslim again, he can repent with my own, you know, he says something like, you know, fine, you die as a cafe. No, you're a believer, so you won't die as a disbeliever. But the thing is, again, it's just like, look, you've got nothing to lose it repent, build up connection with your Lord, believe me, there is nothing no woman I promise you there is not a single woman on this earth that will give you the pleasure that you will have with your connection to your Lord and understanding why you're

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here where you're going. That is true contentment, but there is nothing on this earth that is going to ever replace that. I promise you no woman no money, no card, no nothing. Once you have that connection with your Lord, and you understand why you're here, where you're going, who your Lord is what he wants from you. That is the best thing that you could ever have. And there is nothing I will I'll replace Islam with nothing. Because it gives me true purpose. true contentment. I know why I'm here. I'm not confused. Who put me here. Where am I going? Why is this happening? Why am I being ill? Why am I being tested? Everything makes sense to me. Everything is made sense to me. So I would

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say to my own that. Yeah, like, please just Aki, you know, we are brothers you can reach out to us you don't have to. You can reach out to other Muslim friends. Shaka Farooq, whoever inshallah just reach out and please just change your 33 years old now. Now's the time man def def could be around the corner. And again, this is out of the love. Yeah, because 100% Absolute Absolutely. Yes. So let's go and get to your best your best friend you have in this life is the one who is the one who calls you to God. I'm telling you there is no other friend, any friend that turns you away from the remembrance of God is a fake friend. He is an enemy. Anyone that you deem to be an enemy who calls

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you to the remembrance of Allah is your best friend reminds me of the the Quran paraphrasing where Allah is describing a scenario for the person who is like, I wish he's wishing now that he had found a way with Allah with the creator and the messenger and he sees people into hellfire and he says, you know he saw things so for the person that paradise like man I'm glad I didn't follow any sane people in the Hellfire Yeah, he says he's describing the scene. Yeah. I in the Quran. Allah opens a window a window for him and it looks at the health and he sees his friend. And he says if only I didn't stop hanging around with you, I was going to be there with you. If only I didn't make a swift

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decision of say, you know after cut this guy, I was gonna be there with you. That's some

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and then you quoted that hadith. I mean, this is powerful. This is authentic hadith. Describing the description of people burning in an oven can you imagine it just horrifying, you know, why? These things are out there to shake you up? To straighten you up? Exactly. That's what Allah says in the Quran, we send a small calamity to divert a bigger calamity. The small calamities are things on a day to day life that we get hit disease, loss of money loss of family members, loss of this loss of that these are the small calamities Allah sends to divert you to from a big calamity which is what Hellfire brother, any test in this life you can put up with but Hellfire you cannot put up with

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that. So if that little calamity is going to fix you up and make you realize that is the best thing that has ever happened to you. Because we can you stand in front of Allah and you realize a calamity that he you view it be it's a disease, be a loss of money wherever it may be. If you realize that was the very thing that made you stop practicing and repent and get close to Allah, you're going to be thanking Allah Oh Allah, thank you so much for sending me that calamity. That fixed me up the army standing in front of you today with good deeds and I'm going to enter paradise. That is where Allah says we send a small calamity to divert a bigger calamity which is the Hellfire Subhan Allah

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has continue on so don't think it's true. They said like I don't want to the grossest say like I don't want a guy who's ran through

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Have you ever stumbled upon Roblox? Like, has that ever mattered to a girl? No, it never does. And I would argue if you exemplify traits that show that you are promiscuous, you will be more attractive. Versus if a woman shows traits that shows that she's more promiscuous, it will be less attractive. I think girls say that because they think men and women are equal. And they say that to try to like virtue signal or whatever. But the reality is, girls want guys that can at least be able to have sexual other girls. I'm not saying you have to enact on it, but they want a guy that can do it. And also they want you to be able to know what to do without even I mean, what the I hate to keep using

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the same example but like, I asked the girls, what do you mean average body count is the average ended up being like 2030 And then I asked all the girls would you prefer a man that's more sexy experience than you are less sexy experience and you all of them said I would prefer men that was more sex experience than me.

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Because they don't want to see you have to like stumped like, if a girl she doesn't know what she's doing. That's more attractive. Like you could teach her. A girl doesn't want to teach you. Yeah, because that will make her feel like a slave to it. She's teaching you Yeah, like if you really think about it, like when a girl is in the driver's seat teaching you how to bang like that makes her feel like a whore. Because she's like, Damn, I'm more sex experience than this guy like, damn. So a girl always just like a woman wants a guy stronger than her. She also wants guys want to actually experience in her too. Okay, let me

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let me be a bit controversial. They may be a bit controversial, not intentionally, but it might it might be might sound like that.

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What they're seeing is battered is falsehood, gossip around etc. Now, and I say this to non Muslim men, the things that you want to do.

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Like, you know, the Haram looks very appealing. Look, it is true. That, for example, if a man

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has argument's sake, and we can carry this on to Islam, yeah. Let's talk about Islam. They're talking about from a haram point of view, a man sleeping around and having sexual experience extension. Let's suppose that yes, a woman. I mean, there might be some studies that shows that a woman likes a man bath knows what he's doing. No problem is cool with it. Oh, from now, that can be done in a halal way. How? If a man has a wife, he's married, yeah. Now, of course, when he is married, his sexual urges her are a bit controlled because he has a wife but he can be intimate with. Now, this what this does is it boosts the man's confidence. And we know due to the high

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Pergamus nature of woman, a woman likes a man. Sadly, this is the nature of women, that it's likely that they find interest in in a man who has a wife or a girlfriend. I've seen this in Jamelia, I'll be honest with you, we've seen it with brothers like in Janelia, where a brother argument if you don't have a girlfriend, nobody wants to know you, the moment you get a girlfriend, all of a sudden that attention from other girls are increased. Why? So we understand the psychology of women. So what I'm seeing this as an as a man, you can be married. And then when you're married Hamdulillah you are obviously less desperate, you start moving less desperate. So it can be that your second

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wife will be more intrigued with you. If she's more interested in you. There'll be a woman that wants to marry you have us do this the halal way. So we're not saying no to what you see. And then let's see there is some facts to what they see. But that doesn't mean you have to be promiscuous. What we're seeing is Islam has given you a solution if you are a high value man, or not from their country from a red pill. I'm talking about high value man who might have money, wealth, etc. But forget that a man of Taqwa a man who feels Allah, a man who gives the rights of Allah, a man who protects him from major sins doesn't go stick around a man who has a wife. And if you have those

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capabilities, go get married again. Yeah, because then you will have some experience as a man. be intimate with your first wife. No problem. Let's go with the argument. Find just do it the halal way. And there is nothing wrong with this. Some Muslims might listen to this and be like, Oh my gosh, Baba Ali, like what you're talking about? This is Huck, this was Islam getting married again, second, or third. So what all it means is yes, you are a man who because he's got married to wives, whatever, maybe you are experienced with woman and therefore you might appeal to a woman her last let's go with it. But the point is what again, Islam gives you a solution, a halal solution, not a

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haram solution by going and sleeping around and committing Zina. This has consequences and not only that, you are initially and this is what I find a bit ironic, a bit hypocritical to the red pill. You don't want you dislike women who stick around. But then you go and see ghosts around.

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I don't understand. Women should should be virgins, okay? But were the ones that's going to go and take whatever. It is only a problem. You're the one who's causing the problem in the system yet, so it doesn't make sense. Stay away from it. It's time has given you a proper solution. Have another wife, second wife, third wife, a wife, wife, not a girlfriend, not a side chick, not a mistress. So I thought maybe from that angle, maybe it would change the mind to like, Okay, this can be practiced, not sleeping around. But if you want to be experienced with woman in a righteous way, you honor these women you marry this woman you do

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Often this woman, you have the experience because you have two wives.

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So what's the halal way to learn how to do that stuff? They go, I just told you, once they go, they go, I just, they go laterally because we're not supposed to have sex outside of marriage. How do you learn how to like pull a hair choke properly, or like the right amount of velocity to slap with, without that experience? Like how to whom you would have to get Islamically married, like, and just get a chicken then experiment with her. And then just if you've got the money and the resource and the ability to do so marry another chicken do the same on her. If you're going to do it, you know, within a confinements

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of keeping a Hello, is that how you know it's a simple process of like getting married? He knows though that's the solution. Myelin you said which Oh, mouth? You know this, bro, how could you know this and not implement it, bro. It's time it's giving you the solution? And before some people watch this and be like, Oh my gosh, is woman just something? No, we're talking about a wife. He marries her. He's with her. He's has kids with her. He's spending his life with a and also gets married again does the same. We're not talking about marrying just for the sake of this and get some experience and the chucker? No, no, no, no, no. That's why Islam has got protocols in place to

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protect the woman, speak to the Wali have a man do any cat do the walima all these things are there. Why? Because genuinely, as a man, if you allow a man to sleep with 100 woman, he's going to do it. That's the reason why Allah has put these protocols in place. So a man is in check that if he wants to do it, he's like, here's all the obstacles that I have to go through. And then marry her tough guy you're gonna have some more saying like, you can have a Nico and then it just like you just need one witness pretty much and then you can even divorce all you have to do is say divorce three times. Yeah, yeah, it's very Yeah, it's really, it's very simple. So like, to the outside world, right?

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People that aren't Muslims or whatever. Like they will look at it as like, it's a boyfriend or girlfriend, but technically you guys are Islamically married, so everything you do as well. And then you could I'm not saying I'm not advocating for this, but in theory, you could mount a loophole to Yeah, it's kind of like you can like marry one chick Islamically have sex with her everything is halal. Then if she pisses you off, get rid of her or keeper and then marry another girl divorce.

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Divorce. Yeah, have you said Of course. She I don't know how to say it in Arabic. They give it this one he Ali Baba. Not Myron. That was definitely the best way to put it. We never had marriages. Mazowe which if I'm not mistaken, so somebody had to tell me his

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his marriage. Ali Baba says not mine. Those deaths the best way to put it but we never know when we don't die. So repent back soon. Repentance should put you back on the straight path and you should be good. I'm also on his journey. Another sign coming his way or panic is Yeah, exactly. And also, yeah, the only thing I disagree with is this marine. And then if you don't like and just also, you know, a woman is not a she's not and she's not an object, you just, you know, just marry and just, you know, I'm not seeing that, that can't be done. But you know, the scholars say that because well, if you're if you're married with the intention of divorce, you are committed, it's a sin, but then

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it has valid but again, you need to be very careful of your treatment of others. Because at the end of the day on your mahkamah, the self used to say we would rather stand in front of Allah, with 70 sins between us and our Lord, then one sin that we wronged somebody. Islam gives great emphasis on the right of a human being. Great, great, great emphasis. So we talked about the three conditions if you want to repent right, there's a fourth condition added if you wronged somebody so if you go and wrong somebody an argument if you back by somebody, this this chorus of book broken down to such a level that you need to ask for their forgiveness, for the repentance to be accepted. Yeah. Now if

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you this gonna say if you go to them and say by the way, I spoke bad of you. And this action, what you said might cause resentment, they say is better you don't tell them but rather, wherever you went and spoke ill of them speak could have them and given charity in their name and make dua for them. This is the right Allah has given to the wronging longing, the right of another human being. So we need to be very careful. This attitude of woman Allah disposable goods, these are our sisters. These are our mothers. These are our daughters. This attitude is not correct. You wouldn't want that to happen to your daughter. Would you want me coming and saying yeah, you don't, I'm gonna marry I

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don't like I'm gonna say no. And just to touch upon maybe non muscles watching this. The Talaq actually ought to be called to me instead of Syriac. She says, the reason why the track was given is to keep the man in check. You want me thinking how? How does it talk to the manager? Because it seems like he's the one who has the power. Number one we know from studies that women initiate divorce more than men. If women had the power of polygamy and brother Eddie will be transitioned will begin divorce by wives every three three and a half minutes. Give Metallica Metallica Metallica. Okay, so the thing is the aesthetic keep keep them in check.

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In that aspect where we have the power. Now, Mr. Cosby says that the Mushrikeen the pagan Arabs used to abuse the power of color. So what they will do is they will say I divorced you. The woman would want to move on with their life. They'll say no, I'll take you back. Then they would

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you know take them back when they bought whatever it was you she wants to move on with your life. No, I take you back and there was an endless cycle there.

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is no limits. Allah limited it to three to keep the man in check that you can't abuse this power, you give Talaq once good. She has a period you take her back, no problem. Second Talaq, same thing, do you take her back, no problem. Third time you're in trouble. Because first time it means that this woman is going to go and get married, has to go and get married to another man, have intimacy with Him, have him be married. And if it doesn't work out, then you can marry and try again. But for a man to envision his wife with another man, this is why the Talaq is there to keep the man in check. So he's like, if I give the third talab that means that the forum the man is contemplating,

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she's going to be with another man. If he gives that telecommute, he doesn't care about that. It's gone beyond that now. So the Talaq is there. Not for the just for the power of men, but it's to keep him in check. So if a woman wants to move on, she can move. I'm willing to give up

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the three or fours first. Hello, wives. What is this? Some new slang? What is this? Yeah, basically, promiscuous woman.

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That's what a 304 Yeah, they call them feel false. Okay, so you know about this in London? Also, I'll say Not really. I think. I think it's an American thing. But yeah, I got the just like little kid with pain. I was like, what does that mean? But yeah.

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Yeah, you do. We had a debate about this on the last panel. I want to ask you, like four wives is really not enough to put the toilet girls aside. Well, I like to Friday, man, I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna sit here and try to virtue signal it and be like, Oh, no, I'm gonna try it. Like I genuinely do like the writing.

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So I mean, I've tried. I like smoking weed.

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I smoke weed anymore. Yeah, but weed is actually like, bad for your health. And should the horrors are bad for your health? can be boiled down for your pockets? Yeah, well, if you wear condoms, and nobody in India, you'll be straight. Come on.

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Come on.

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No one likes condoms at that, hey, I do use them. I use them. I actually use them. But there's other regular lines every single time but I do use them a good amount. But it's not even just bad for it's bad for your pockets. It's also bad for your time. True, true. True. But it doesn't have to say I would I would argue that weed and drugs the worst vice and females. Alright, so for here, they pretty much they're going back and forth debating what's worse now. Alcohol and weed which we come in. And it's Nico, who just recently accepted Islam. And just like Tate, also, he gave up alcohol, smoking weed. And now he's trying to get himself right to find himself to have in the car. And he's

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trying to persuade his brother here, Marlon to come along here and to get serious about the dean, what are your comments? What do you what do you think the way they're going back and forth and with the debate what which vices worse? I think the thing is, yeah, I think they both in us that obviously that both searching you know, that's what they're saying these things which they don't really versed on. It's just they're like, you know, what do we do they just try to rationalize it, what's worse, etc. To us. Allah has made it very clear what Allah says, I don't need to think of like, oh, this is the if we look at this and that let's calculate this and more harmful Allah has

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made the Haram they will follow. It's as simple as that is done halogen together. I don't need to calculate the cost Mohammed, this one this one has an effect of out of 10 9.3 and this one is 9.7 allows me to haram Haram is hella easy. Very easy for you. Exactly. Simple. So I would say to my room to keep snicko Close by he's a good friend. He's somebody that's calling you too good. And yeah, look, I would I'll be honest with you.

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This couple of months ago, before sneaker even came to Islam many maybe even a year ago, people have been telling me to you know, get in contact with sneakers, etc. I've just really really been occupied with a few projects. I have no problem sitting down with him because he's genuinely looking. I would love to sit and talk with him and break things down nicely you know, step by step because I think there's he's got good blogs around them as well. But if he wants to, I'll be more than happy to speak to him and my role if he wants to again, look, I'm not doing this for clicks. While like I can talk to you guys off camera all day everyday. We don't need to be on camera at all.

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You can contact me like oh my number whatever, but we can sit down we can have this meeting without being on YouTube just like this. As long as it's going to benefit you guys bro. I'm at your service. Like please like you don't need me I'm an Uber there's many best people if you want to I'm here so at least there's no like you know, I'm reaching out if you want to OFF CAMERA however you like ON CAM I don't mind it's on camera. It's not a must. Whatever you guys want. I just want to inshallah give a little advice as your brother. And yeah, that's it and benefit from you guys is one I'm sure there's a lot of things I can learn from you guys. And yeah, let's just sit down and let's talk and

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yeah, it's that's all I can say. And I relate with you guys. I live that kind of lifestyle. And yeah, we will have a lot of things in common. Yeah, this is so important is having good friends. As the saying goes you're

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You're, you're upon the, you know, the province of sunset the person is on the way the religion of his friends so be careful who you befriend so if you're with friends who are always trying to take you to the nightclubs smoking weed dope,

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hooking up alcohol, and you're trying to be right like sneak was trying to be right but he's still got all these other friends are doing the same Jolliet stuff, they're gonna eventually you're gonna get tempted and it's you know, you're gonna have your highs and lows and on your on your mobile, you're gonna end up back in the club, and then you're gonna end up falling again.

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So go ahead and let's hear here's another thing. Well, we'll go ahead and react to this, this last one. I think this is very powerful here because there's another some have called him the manager to agitate I had him in the studio here very nice brother. He's, he's a good friend with the Tate's brother jewel. And now pay attention how Another sign is coming to the both of them. And I believe this other part of Myron the other person here, he's looks like he comes from the Muslim background himself. So let's go ahead and get into this. Um, De La Jolla, you should bring mine to the masjid Don't worry, I will make my return to the motion. I'd love to speak on that. So I was I was in the

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masjid before coming here. Allah who I would I would welcome your brothers. I mean, come on, you still got time? Let's go.

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Only half of them are Muslim. And like I understand, you know, on some of what the current status, current stands for, what the witness stands for. And I do respect 100% I just right now, I'm not decided yet. I feel that man, I feel that but I put it to you at some point in your life. I think any rational male who wants to live with traditional gender norms and wants to be, you know what, it's okay to have those sorts of beliefs. It's okay to be that old school guy who believes in honor who believes in the importance of the family unit who rejects hedonism, I would like to think that every logical man reading the chessboard will actually think you know what, Islam makes a lot of

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sense, because for me, I get a lot of positive emotions from it, it was purely logical choice. So I'd say to anyone out there who's thinking, Wait a second, my values don't match this western degeneracy. My values don't match all this liberal soy programming? I would I would recommend everyone have a look at Islam, because there's a lot older than than we are, then there's a lot of guidance in there, which is extremely relevant for the plight of masculinity today. Absolutely. I mean, it solves a lot of the Western problems, it solves all of them actually, like, again, I'd say to every man who's engaging in a lot of you know, spinning plates, or a lot of a lot of short term

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relationships, every one of those is a potential time bomb that 10 years later, can cause you a lot of problems, you got to look and see risk versus return is that as I said, that 2pm You know, miserable intimacy, really worth planting landmines that can then bite you. 10 years later, should a certain woman decide, oh, hang on a sec. I didn't enjoy something about that experience, even though it's completely consensual, and there's nothing illegal. I'm going to say I felt that it was illegal, that can end your career that could end your your reputation. Like it's really serious. I think a lot of young men aren't aware of how serious it is. What do you think that this is really

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deep now from found to have, like, on this channel? Allah sends jewel, that's the brother Joe. And he's breaking it down. He's given these brothers in the sea. Hi, right there. You You couldn't have planned it better on this.

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On this fresh in fit, whatever you call it show. And the brother is actually agreeing again, my friend, he's not fighting back. He's he's acknowledging this now. It's a difference between acknowledging and action. And then the other guy didn't know he's, it seems like he's, he's Muslim, his family's Muslim or that? Yeah, he's, he's, I think I saw him. He's a bit. He's like you said, I saw some videos. He's, I think he's a Christian, half Muslim, or something like that. But he ended up in Joomla. And then another sign is coming to him and the mom is talking about what we're talking about. Same thing, is it worth that moment of pleasure, the Haram, that now you're going to

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sacrifice your hereafter? That's eternity? What do you have to say? Forget, I was like, 1514 years old, to Baltimore to be the family. They're Muslim, of course. And I was in a masjid. And I'm speaking into preaching at that point. And when the the, I guess the height head, when you call the head, the head guy, the speaking the Sheikh, he was saying, the mind was like, Listen, are you going to trade your

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your religion, your beliefs, everything for one

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bit of moment of sweetness of sex, that your whole life for Libya second, I was like, Damn, he said five minutes of pleasure. And I was like, Damn, that stood out to me. However, I will say I'm fighting that battle right now myself deep in the trenches, trying to figure it out. But yeah, I can't really say 100% Yeah, I mean, if you if you look at it, Allah seems like Allah is sending signs. And Allah does this you know why? So on the Day of Judgment, when your life is taken, you cannot see I did not know from sneak halt to this guy. Left right center. This message Islam is all over. So Allah is sending clear signs to these people and many people that are watching it, that to

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turn back to Allah before it's too late. And I don't

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We have to say that you know they are there they're talking about that the guy himself is saying, you know, what, am I going to return back to the masjid, etc. That's an outright sign from Allah. Allah was goodness for you. But if you persist and think like yeah, I've got time who promised you? You promised you this time relates to me to know very simple to know that I can die any moment is an evidence that I am more closer to the hereafter than I am to this life. To know that I can die any moment is a clear cut evidence that I am more closer to death than I am to life.

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Simple as that this is the somewhat finished let's go ahead. Well, look, I'm 40 years old and I'm a man of means I've engaged in sufficient Hedden ism to realize that it's, it's genuinely a waste of time. However, when you choose what's known as Sera, Tal, Mr. Kim, within Islam, when you choose that straight path, when you're living in a very ethical, very clean life, where you're avoiding all that nonsense, which we know is a waste of time anyway, yeah, the energy that you have the discipline you have on a day to day basis, it's a competitive advantage. I am infinitely more discipline capable, effective, and driven than I was before becoming Muslim. Simply by rejecting all

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that nonsense and choosing a system for life, which is very, very ethical, very clean, very energetically, high level, you go into clubs where people are drinking, taking drugs, it drags you down. And if you take yourself seriously, every day, you're getting a positive, uplifting energy as opposed to the degeneracy which pulls you down. It's real men, I wouldn't have chosen it if it wasn't, and I'm taking it really seriously because I see, even on a selfish level, I see the benefits in myself. But again, that makes me a better father. It makes me a better contributor to society. It really is. It's a superpower to make yourself a more effective human. That's my personal

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experience. What do you think is the biggest thing that like was like the biggest change converting to Islam? Like improve? Was it like maybe cutting out alcohol? Was it cutting out any type of

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substance like what was it that made like, propelled you? Okay, so a lot of people say they found Islam at their hardest times, I found Islam in my best times, you know, Hamdulillah, everything's like my life is custom made reality. I practice what I preach, there's nothing I change in my life. Everything is, you know, hamdulillah is incredible. However, at a certain point of success, whether it's material or status, all these things, you do wonder what's next. Islam will give you a whole level of depth that you don't really no, you're missing until you've stepped in and going, Oh, hang on a second, that there's a real brotherhood in the Ummah, there's a real sense of community there.

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I've had incredible support coming in. But I'd say the number one thing is, I have real accountability now. And this is actually why I chose Islam in the first place. Muslims who take their faith seriously, every act, every action, every interaction, they realize they're accountable to a higher force, they realize they'll be judged, you know, at the end of their life. So they are almost forcing themselves the ones who take the fate seriously, to act in a way that we know we should anyway. So for me, as a man who knew I shouldn't drink knew I shouldn't engage in certain things. I can now cut that out. And I've got a very strong sort of even more powerful than self

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accountability. I have accountability to what I view to be the most powerful entity or being in the world. That is a very strong way to keep yourself on that straight path. You know, I mean, especially you got your money right? You got status, right? There's a lot of temptation there. Let's be real. It is not hard to live a life of Hedden ism nowadays, yeah. Whereas Islam to me is that, that push to make sure that you are ignoring that and you're focusing on what you know, is meaningful, what you know, is beneficial for your family, for your brotherhood for society. It just, it keeps you disciplined, that's the number one benefit of experienced, right, so in closing now,

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there was a lot set there, he talks about it's a waste of time, Jewel going on to explain, you know, all the benefits. And this is somebody who, again, the dunya is opened up to him, he's went down that life of debauchery, you know, changing women, and just to hear him on the program, actually given a see her advice to these to both of these brothers here. You know, it's just amazes me also you can plan this allows the best of planners look at it, now it's on them, like you were saying, also, this is that those signs that come and to reflect, you know, to really think about it. And it's interesting when the when these things when people are really, in a state of consciousness,

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they're listening, like they're listening to him, they're absorbing, but then what are you going to do with it? And then you go on in life and you forget and you go back into the hedonism you go into, you know, you know, fulfilling your lesson desires, you're not around good company, someone to remind you, that's why it's so so important to be around brothers like that be around brothers, you know, how are you gonna remind you who are going to strengthen you help, you know, brothers are going to be like, Hey, you ready to go hook up? You're ready to go get some three or fours? How does that go? Yeah, literally.

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Yeah, yes. Finally, yeah, it is, you know, at the end of the day, Allah subhanaw taala guides and to me, like I said before, to see that these people like that self who live in that kind of lifestyle, and it's tempting for them. You know, I did our Speaker's Corner every Sunday. And you know, I was there I was trying to like there was some party happening and there was a lot of like, there's a lot

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Gay people there were trans people. And I was trying to stop them and one person was, you know, why are you stopping them? I said, probably some came for them, do you think some came for the righteous, and it would want to stop the movement is praying.

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Islam came for these people, Islam came for the ones that are lost. So the thing is that it's that seeing these people who have come from that lifestyle, Islam came for them to make them a better person to make them the best version of yourself. And only Islam can give them that you can never become a high value man, or whatever you name it just put money in this, that when you're spiritually dead, you know, you're spiritually starving. So these people have been literally like that. And now, when it comes to Islam, D they understand, they realize, because when you are dealing with materialistic things, you think this is the only form of pleasure when you understand and once

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Allah gives you the sweetness of faith, you realize what real pleasure is about. You then realize and say, You know what, oh my gosh, oh, this time I was thinking about having ghosts, Monique caught us up, get out of your please, to know that you're spiritually satisfied. And to know that you're why you're here, where you're going, having a purpose, being content, I'm telling you, it is the best form of, you know, pleasure you can have plus what Allah says in the Quran, only in my remembrance, two hearts find peace. And if you forget my remembrance, you will have a depressed life. In this life. The only thing that gives us contentment is the remembrance of our Lord. And in

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Jannah what is the best thing that we're going to engender? oralin? No, it's the face of Allah. We are going to say Allah subhanho wa Taala that is the pinnacle of pleasure in Jannah forget all this horrible ain and this time that Allah Allah, to see Allah and be Oh,

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that's what it is. So in this life and the hereafter, it is only Allah them gives us content and happiness at the end of the day. Now, when someone looks at these are the things that's there, they have some doubts, so admire and Ernie, they have some Donald's, they should connect with people knowledge, to clear these doubts. And then there's desires, those are the things that usually hinder people from really submitting themselves fully, and following some properly. So what advice what advice do you have not obviously, you know, some anybody who really looks into something like jewel did, you know, and others snicko When you look at the evidence and prove, without a shadow of a

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doubt, without a shadow of a doubt that it is indeed not man made of four from a group of men, it is deed from the Creator of the heavens and earth and authenticity of the Quran, the preservation, all the signs that are in the prophecies, you know, the Prophet SAW someone's life, if you look at his life, you know, too much to talk about now, but you can go ahead and look into this. And now when you realize, you know, death is a reality, we talked about that we talked about the Hellfire paradise, when you put things in perspective that you can die at any time, you know, really think about that, that should be should be a motivation now, to take that take those steps now towards

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what we've been talking about this whole time, if you think Exactly, exactly, that's what it is, you know, at the end of the day, you know, that's what I would say, you know, opening the Quran, and also having a connection with Allah making dua asking, you know, my lord guide me, all it takes man, I'd people confuse this matter make it so difficult. But just turn to your Lord is it's really hard. You know, it's so damn hard to put your hands up and say, My Lord, please guide me. That's it. I'm sincere, sincerely looking for guidance. And you can see that without maybe even asking Allah is sending people like snicko and this other brother to you. Imagine what could happen if you ask him.

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It's as simple as that the recipe is simple. The recipe is simple. It's the Quran. It's simple. I'm gonna give my friend some homework real simple, basic, before he goes to his next after party or he goes,

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Why don't we start, or before we get to this party part, start going to Joomla start praying least one we know it's obligatory five times a day, start playing one time a day. How's that one time and start with one time IRA, you could do that.

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If he doesn't know how to pray. I will charity Salem, we have a guided prayer mat. Beautiful sheet. I'll send it for free. Wherever you want. It doesn't need to be addressed. It's a guided prayer mat that shows you step by step how to pray you can pray immediately you just put in front of you and you follow it. We can teach you look off camera. I don't want to be on camera. I don't want it. I don't want nothing. It doesn't even have to be me. If you don't want it to be me. It can be someone else. We just want goodness for you. I will send that prayer mat to sneak out to my room to anyone who wants it. Because people have donated to IT people don't need it. We would love for you guys to

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pray we'll send it so you got that free. What excuses you got now start praying you about once a week do you might make the time go sneak goes go and go to Juma with him. Start praying one time a day and then start building from there. Simple right

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and get these girlfriends that three Oh fours into or the whatever they call the other ones into we'll just leave them and just find yeah problem and yeah we'll go from there hopefully and show us gonna be a benefit we did this we can do

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this also so seriously this is out of the love for these brothers we want good from where we come from that you come from that back that history that lifestyle we've been there we've done that and I'm humble I'm telling you this is the way just like jewelers saying the same thing repeating the same thing hopefully now it's on them they can feel the love look at really the place of security we're coming from and they can start to you know implement some of these things and see this as another sign that's coming to them and Chava Thank you ollie. No problem we had a blistering so it was a pleasure and inshallah I look forward to seeing you in Chicago in November inshallah also at

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of Muslims around here it's pretty huge and split like this, the place the location that you opened and basically it's for further south from the other other big massage. And everyone I know a lot of people that I used to come like my cousin was nine minutes from here, another uncle of mine lives about five to 10 minutes from here, this area to the masjid opened up in an area that it's much needed and this size this

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the center this center is much needed for this area. And the idea of this center is needed for the whole state because we don't have anything like that in the whole state data center where it's going to basically nurture and basically educate and it's going to basically spread this meme

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and niggly.

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Yes I'm just I'm really looking forward to because we need to be meaning to raise funds for that as well so we can do some videos and I can use it finally inshallah. It's been very, very hectic for me. But yeah, definitely insha Allah may Allah bless it. And have you guys reached that amount? Yeah, you guys know we, we purchased the property and now we're in phase two build out remodeling. Oh, perfect. Okay, yeah, I would look I would love to if there's any, when I come, I don't mind you know, painting. If there's anything you need to do. I want to be hands on. I don't want it to be just like a video. So I'm more than happy to come help. If there's anything to do? Well, I would I

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would genuinely, I'm a hands on guy. You know, as you know, when I deal with Tony Robinson and you know, these kinds of people I deal with them face to face. So when it comes to the machine shop, I don't want to just help raise funds. I also want to be involved in shallow face painting. I'm gonna have some stuff here and don't get twisted. I can I can. I can do some stuff. So it'd be nice to do that.

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Thank you brother. See you soon inshallah. Salaam Alaikum salam alaikum salaam I cannot leave without giving you a gift. If you're not yet Muslim and you tune in and see what these Muslims are talking about. And you'd like a free copy of the Quran. Go and visit the deen We'll take care of the postage and everything and get it delivered to you. And if you still have some questions about Islam, call us at 1-800-662-4752 We'll see you next time until then, Peace be with you as salaam alaikum