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Stop Feasting and Strive as a Couple to Please Allah

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Tariq Appleby

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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah

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salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu this historic Appleby from manage QA. Today inshallah Allah will have our second reminder about saving in the month of Ramadan for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala and staying strong as a couple through that. The month of Ramadan is this amazing opportunity for couples to spend time together and to strive to please Allah subhanho wa Taala you have so hold you have if thought you have the recitation of the Quran, you have Vicar you have visiting relatives you have inviting relatives and friends to your home for your for and all of this is based on the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam. So for the whole couples will wake

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up in the month of Ramadan, they will wake each other up so that they can partake of this meal. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said the Sahara in the future holy Baraka that have so we have this pre dawn meal this pre fudger meal, because it is great Baraka and we all know that feeling that you know that once you've had to hold on hamdulillah the force becomes easier. It is easy to fast in the month of Ramadan if you have Soho, but it's very difficult when you don't. And so as couples, we want to remind one another wake each other up for this for this meal. So we can partake of this bollock together as a couple and when you share together into Allahu taala you'll only

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increase the Baraka in your marriage. During the day we will remind one another to you know to take care of outsider to make sure that we are playing on time. We will remind one another as a couple to protect the lower out gazes. May Allah subhanho wa Taala Granta stat in sha Allah who to Allah in the month of Ramadan, you know, it's very, very important that we not only focus on the abstinence from eating and drinking and sexual intercourse, but rather that we also focus that we want to stay away from that which Allah subhanho wa Taala has prohibited and if you can stay away from something which normally is highlighted for you, then the month of Ramadan should be a perfect opportunity for

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you to train yourself to stay away from that which Allah subhana wa tada has made hold on at all times, you know, during the month of Ramadan and outside of it. So, as couples we will remind one another to do this. And when it comes to install, we will remind each other as a couple to make dua to make to our for our marriage to make to our for our children, and to make up for all of our needs and our once we will have a thought together upon the Sunnah and we will tell each other they also have a handle on my love, you know, the sooner is that we break out fast with the right dates. And if we can't find any like dates, then we should have dry dates. And if we can't have that, then we

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should have a few sips of water. And as a couple, you know the month of Ramadan is a perfect opportunity to worship Allah subhanho wa Taala together as we and also what we need to remind ourselves is that the month of Ramadan is a month of fasting and not feasting. And so we should remind ourselves, our husbands and our wives that the Sunnah is that we do not fill out you know our stomachs with food, the month of Ramadan unfortunately around the world is a time where people over eat and they start feeling you know, nausea sin, this is not the Sunnah and as a couple striving, you know and on the path towards a loss of a hand with Allah, you as a husband and a wife. You need

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to make sure that you remind each other and encourage one another to stick to the Sunnah when it comes to eating to make sure that you eat light to make sure that if you are going to fold your stomach that one third is for food and one third is for drink and one third is to breathe. And especially during the month of Ramadan when we find ourselves in, you know in tarawih and tahajjud and keyamo Lane, that it is important that we do not feel sluggish and tired because of overeating. That's an added benefit of eating very simply and eating according to the Sunnah inshallah, Tada. Also the month of Ramadan is the month in which we will encourage one another to give sadaqa to, you

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know, to go out there as a couple and feed the poor and go and visit the orphans go to our poor relatives and visit them and ask them in of in which way can we be you know of assistance to you and how can we help you and if you do this well law he it will. It not only will make you feel good as an individual, but you also feel good that you have done this with your spouse, that you and you and your husband or your wife, you went out there and you did something together for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And the last reminder when it comes to saving the month of Ramadan is this month in which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that whoever performs preamble later in the

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month of Ramadan, Eman and 37 believing in Allah subhanho wa Taala and hoping for the reward of Allah that Allah subhanho wa Taala will forgive this person, the previous sins. And so you as a husband and a wife, you have this opportunity in the month of Ramadan. To wake each other up for Torah. We have to wake each other up. Okay, I'm Elaine and that together as a couple, you pray and Allah subhana wa tada His Messenger totally

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Thus, that may Allah have mercy on her husband who wakes up in the middle of the night and he wakes up his wife as well for her, and if she refuses, he's likely sprinkle some water in her face. And may Allah have mercy on a woman who wakes up in the middle of the night, and she wakes up her husband and if he refuses, she likely sprinkles some water in his face. Yes, gentleness. He is concerned for your spouse's Earth era and the month of Ramadan is this perfect opportunity for you to bring about this Rama and these blessings in your marriage? May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us this inshallah to Allah and May He grant us the ability to bring this rough man this mercy and this

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bliss and these blessings into our lives. Now let's have a handle with Allah. bring us closer together as couples in the month of Ramadan and allow us to taste the sweetness of a man together, just below head on about a kilo of eco or selvakumar Allahu barakato