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Forbidden Love âShort ReminderâSh Tariq ApplebyâAl-Khaadem Youth Camp 2015
So there's much to talk about, you know, separating and all of these things. But it is Allah subhanho wa Taala. For instance, how is it possible that we could have gotten a hike together, or go swimming together? When unless you have a hand or data once men and women to play separately?
So you telling me that in a state of sila, we I'm saying a lot.
When I'm only thinking and I'm supposed to think of Allah alone, I have to be separate from the women and the women are separate from the men.
But inside Allah, we are separated and outside, we are intermingling. And we are, you know, enjoying one another's company and laughing and giggling and falling for one another and being attracted to one another. Of course, that that doesn't make sense. But rather, Allah subhanho wa Taala created us and he knows us. And so what we are doing and what we are trying to do, is something that is not only going to protect our honor, but also protect our hearts, and May Allah subhanho wa Taala protect, but this man said, I had a cousin, and I loved her more than a man loves a woman that, you know, this love that I had, was an infatuation. It was an obsession. And I tried to seduce her, but
she would never allow me. She was a pious woman and you know, he was trying to commit an act. You know, he was trying to commit a sin, but she wouldn't have any of it. Until one day, during a time of great famine and hunger, she came to him asking him to lend her some money, can I borrow money?
And he said, I will borrow you the money if you allow me to do what I have been wanting to do for so many years.
And reluctantly she agreed. And when he was about to commit the sin, she said fear Allah and do not break the seal, except with the right of Allah meaning in marriage, that what you are about to do is haram fear Allah.
And then he feared Allah. Imagine this woman he loves us so much he wants to be with he has the opportunity now. But the fear of Allah is is hot. Yesterday in the morning I mentioned seven people that will be under the shade of a law. And one of those people is a man that is invited to Zilla is invited to harm by a beautiful woman with status and he says in the takaful law indeed. I feel a lot