Taleem al Quran 2012 – P29 288C Tafsir Al-Qalam 5-15

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The speakers discuss the importance of maintaining principles and character in a conversation to achieve a peaceful "medicals." They use examples of characters who do not want to give up on others and describe examples of characters who do not fit their standards. The importance of compromise, maintaining principles, and maintaining physical appearance in relation to one's health and family history is emphasized.

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Faster tubes through. So soon you will see where you proceed on and they will also see meaning with time it will become clear who is upon truth and who is upon falsehood faster tube zero where you see rune just be patient in the meantime, very soon you will see they will see be a ye como Lima tune be a Yukon be with a Yukon which of you meaning Who amongst you is a Lima stone, the one who is afflicted? Is it you? Oh Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam, or is it those who deny you? With time it will become clear the word Mattoon is from fatahna fitna. So my phone is one who is in fitna one who is in a trial

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and it is said that the word Mattoon can also be derived from futon and Fatone means Junoon madness. So my phone is just another way of saying med madman another way of saying Majnoon they call you imagination. While you have the best moral character very soon, it will become clear that who is actually Majnoon? Is it you? Or is it them? fossa tubes little while you obviously don't be a year Komal Maffetone. And isn't that something that happened? With every passing day?

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It became clear that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam 's character was far better than the character of his enemy. That how his enemies they stoop to such low levels

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in their enmity to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Look at the kind of things they did. If you just fast forward to Medina what happened in Medina how you know they're coming time after time to harm the Muslims. The prophets of Allah who already was send them goes to Makkah in order to perform Umrah what happened. The wish to keen they refuse to allow the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to enter a treaty is agreed upon who violated it? Who did? Who did was it the Muslims are the most Shiki who wasn't much seeking. So with time, it became clear that the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam was not much known at all.

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And it was made very clear that it was actually his enemies who were behaving like they were Majnoon.

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You see my genuine person when they're doing something completely irrational, right? What they do is completely irrational.

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Like for example, what? How does a mage noon person behave? What kind of actions do they do? They will start yelling or screaming, bumping into walls harming themselves, isn't it? And what did the machine do? They harmed themselves. They behaved very arrogantly. They dealt with the Prophet sallallahu already was Allah as if they had no intellect. So be a Komal Maffetone it will become very clear. What lesson does this teach us?

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They called him much noon, Allah says you're not much noon, you have the best character and with time it will become clear. So for now, be patient and keep working. What's the lesson in this for us?

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What's the lesson?

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Tell me something.

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Raise your hand.

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somebody other than?

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Yes.

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Okay, patience. What else? Yes.

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Yes, that many times we will also be called Majnoon because of what because of the fact that we believe in God. Or because of the fact that we're Muslim. Or because of whatever our beliefs are Islam in general, we will be looked at as much noon or, or people will call us much noon. What should we do?

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What should we do? become afraid over there?

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I can't wear this otherwise people will call me crazy.

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Yes, we should become afraid of people and do what they want us to do know, be strong.

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They're calling you Majnoon does not make you a much noon and those who accuse you of being much new. They're actually much new in themselves. Because had they use their mind. If they had even a little bit of real knowledge, they wouldn't be behaving like this. So be patient and with time, things will become clearer. Allah will prove your truthfulness. Allah who will defend you just as he defended his mouth

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Send her just as he proved the truthfulness of His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And if we get caught up in just trying to please people, that they shouldn't call me much noon, they shouldn't call me crazy. I should be acceptable to people. If that becomes our concern, we're not going to get anywhere.

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Oh my god. Sometimes when you hear something being said, a lot of times you start to believe it. And that's why I feel like the Prophet SAW I said when he was called, like Majnoon so many times or magician, but every night he would always read the DUA. Oh Allah guide me to that which people differ over to kind of give him strength. I can't recall the exact Arabic,

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Lima fluffy human and happy, right.

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You see, Maria, when she was going to give birth to resign his Salam. She was afraid that when she will go to her people, they will accuse her. Correct. So Allah subhanaw taala told her that just observe complete silence. By meaning don't say anything. Observe complete silence over there. And what happened then when she went to her people? Her people, yes, they accused her immediately. They shamed her. Right. Yeah. Oh, the Harun Makana abou camera so in Walmart cannot own Mokuba Yeah, they shamed her a lot. Right. And then what happened? Are you sorry, he said I'm spoke. And when he spoke, he didn't say even a word in defense of Meriam. He didn't say anything such as my mother is

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an innocent woman, nothing like that.

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So how was the speech of risotto Salam, a defense of Meriam how it was the fact that he spoke that prove the truthfulness of money and that proved her innocence. Right. So, this shows us that it is your work, it is what you produce, that will prove your correctness your honesty to people, not your words. Because if it was your words, then Madame would have been told you know, she she would have been given certain points that say this or say that or say this or say that. No, Allah subhanaw taala told her to not use any words, because words will not work over there. What will work what will have a lasting effect? What is really going to work is your child your product?

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So here similarly, don't worry about defending yourself verbally. Just keep working and be patient and do what Allah subhanaw taala wants you to do. And Allah who will create the means to defend you in Rob burka indeed your Lord who are Alonso, he is most knowing be Mambalam subsidy of one who has gone astray from His spathe wa who were RLM will be removed the dean and he is most knowing of those who are rightly guided Allah knows. And that is sufficient for us. Fella Tutera so do not obey l mukha. The been the deniers those who deny don't obey them. When they call you when they invite you to falsehood then do not obey them. Don't do what they want you to do be firm upon your principles

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and don't make compromises at all. What do they want? They wish what do same root as of the word Allah dude what do the name of Allah Muhammad love? So what do they want they love low to the he know if you would soften for you the he known so they would also soften now to the he knew you the he known both of these words from the letters that had known and it has is to oil something.

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Right? We've done this route earlier also, it means to oil something to put oil on something, why would you put oil on something to soften it? Right? So from this, the word is used for compromise. Because when you're willing to compromise, you know, when you let go of something, you're you're trying to accommodate somebody

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right. So you let go of something in order to accommodate them. This is it, hon. So they want you to compromise and accommodate them. Do what they want you to do. And what would they do in return you the he knew they would soften toward you? They will not oppose you. What is this referring to the Mushrikeen you know, they would say that don't disregard our idols. You know, yes, we believe in Allah. And you want us to believe in Allah we do that. But you say that we should not worship our idols. We don't want to leave our idols. So you know, things are getting really tough. So how about we come to some camp

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realize and you accept our idols, you praise them or you acknowledge them, you accommodate them in the religion somehow so then everything will be good. Now if you think about it, it sounds very good, but okay come to some compromise so that there is peace. Right? However, Allah subhanaw taala says Fela, tutor Elmo, Ken Levine, do not obey them. They want you to compromise, so that they will also compromise meaning they will not oppose you.

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Why is this not okay? Because if the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Okay, I'll accept these idols of yours. Would that be the hate? Would that be though hate? No, it wouldn't be though hate it would be sure.

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So we cannot change the truth, just to please people. We cannot change and modify our religion, just to make it more acceptable to people. We can't do that. We have to remain firm on our principles. Did I tell you the story of the omelet?

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Yeah, I did. Set Gordon's omelet. Alright. You know, if you were to make that same kind of omelet in the restaurant, what would they say? Well, we can use this pen. Well, we can't use the freshest of ingredients. So please compromise on the utensils and then compromise on the ingredients. And then what do you have at the end? Not a good omelet. So when you start compromising on your principles, what do you have left? something different than what you started with. So what doula will do the Hindu for you the high noon, they want you to compromise. But don't do that. Because you see earlier what was mentioned about a flock. We're in like Hola, hola, hola. finner, Aleem, and sometimes we

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think that good character means you get along with everybody.

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And in order to get along with everybody, you have to make compromises all the time.

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And so I want to get along with everybody. They don't want me to wear this, I won't wear it. They don't want me to do this. I won't do it. They want me to do this wrong thing even though it goes against my religion, but I will do it just to get along with them. Is that good o'clock? No. That's not good o'clock. Good o'clock doesn't mean that people are happy with you.

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Remember, this good o'clock, is what? Let you do what Allah wants you to do in the manner that he wants you to do.

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So maintain your character but also maintain your principles. What Dulo to do he knew for you to he knew. Now again, Allah says Well, our tutor and do not obey her love him Maheen every worthless habitual swear, don't obey such people. Earlier such people were called mocha VB in general, a category of people as mentioned don't obey them. Now here's specifically a character is described that do not obey such an individual. Who is that individual? What are his characteristics? The first one who left? What is her love? Her love is someone who habitually and frequently makes health meaning he swears oats habitually frequently swears oats. Why would he have to swear oats all the

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time? Why?

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Okay, because nobody believes him.

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Nobody believes him. He's not credible. He's not reputable. So he has to swear all the time.

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Because you see a truthful person. They just need to say something once and it's efficient, it's accepted.

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Then a person who's not credible who's not reputable then what happens to them. They can say the same thing. 20 times it's not going to be accepted. So what do they do to make their words more acceptable? They take oats, her love Maheen who is Maheen? One who is worthless, despicable. Someone who doesn't have any coddle what is other value? They don't have any value, no worth. Maheen someone who's very lowly. Why? Because of their lies, because of their actions because of their crimes.

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Wala Tutera Kula her laughing Maheen who is this person? Her mesin Allah says he's hummus. Who is hummus? Hummus file, one who frequently greatly hamazon what is hamazon

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to say something bad about someone regarding their hunk or their whole look, to say something bad about someone regarding their physical body or their manners behind their back

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there

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Is lumps and there is hums lungs is to say something of similar nature on a person's face and hands is to do it behind their back. So basically, it's LIBOR backbiting. So her mass is more tab, the one who habitually frequently back bites other people have mass is I Yup. One who is always looking for faults in other people.

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This is who hummus is. Well, I told her color do not obey every hello if habitual so swear. Maheen worthless. Hummus. scorner Masha in Bina meme must sharp fall one who does a lot of mushiya What does mushiya mean?

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Masha? He walked. Right. Yum. Shona. So Masha is one who walks a lot always walking, walking with what? Being a meme? What is the meme with a meme? malicious gossip?

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Literally the word no meme means Halaqa to coffee via a very slight movement. Okay. And basically, a slight movement sometimes can cause

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great disasters, right? Sometimes

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there's a jug of water glass jug right at the edge of the table and you're sitting at the table and you move your arm very slightly. Give that juggler a very gentle nudge and what happens to that jug, it lands on the floor

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shattered. Now there's broken pieces of glass everywhere. In addition to all the water, how are you going to fix that mess? Right? This is an amine. How about kettle coffee?

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All right. So from this the word Amin is used for slander, defamation, to tell false slanderous statements about other people. Why in order to damage their reputation,

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so he is Masha in Binyamin walking with nummy meaning goes here

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and slanders people, damages a reputation and then goes there and then goes here and then goes there and then goes there, this person's house, that person's house that store that party, that party, you know, never stopping all of his on the goal of spreading falsehood and lies about people as if they've got nothing else to do in life.

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And this is something we must be very careful about. You know, sometimes just in the name of socialization or just meeting other people, social parties, what do we do? One wedding and then one party and then one dinner and then one coffee. And what are we talking about? She did this he did that? She said this he did that? They are like this and they are like that. Masha in being a meme? Is that what we're carrying with us all the time.

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So Allah says, do not obey such scandal mongers. Those who spread evil talk among people, in order to sow dissension between them, don't obey such people. Why is it that don't obey them? Because you see such people? It's very easy to come under their pressure.

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Here's a person who's taking oats. And he is very confidently talking negatively about other people. What are you supposed to do? Just be quiet? Just listen. No, Allah says latinautor don't obey them. Don't come under their pressure.

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And don't do what they want you to do. Don't say what they want you to say. remain firm no matter how much such people bully you and threaten you. Then Allah says manera in this person is manera What does manera mean? A one who does a lot of money. One who stops and hinders prevents people a lot. But this person Monera and Lil height.

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He is constantly hindering people from what from hide what is claimed good work. Islam, good actions good deeds, generosity, charity work. He stops people from doing good work. And himself he is more a third who is more third.

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One who transgress is one who acts outrageously loom extremely unfair.

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A theme, one who is sinful, hurts others and alter disobeys God. And then this person is zero to roto bully our entire lamb Arthur

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Atallah is to pull someone by their hair,

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and especially the hair on the head. So pull them by their head. And not just the head hair. Can you imagine how mean this is? This is the meaning of artha law. And from this the word or tool is used for a person who's very strong in their body, physically very able, but extremely rude very mean very harsh.

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Or tool is a person who is have strong physique. They are wealthy, they are powerful, but they are oppressive.

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Extreme extremely arrogant. Some have interpreted the word or tool as someone who is a cool, shallow one who eats and drinks a lot gluttonous drinker.

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And when he will drink so much, how is he going to behave with people? Or to Lin a bully BARDA valleca After that meaning, moreover, after all of these bad traits, this person is also Xeni, an ill legitimate pretender.

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Who is any, if in our basketball, the long run who said that this person was described, but we didn't know who he was, until Zenni, until Allah gave the descriptions and even then we knew exactly who this person was, that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was forbidden from obeying, that don't be this person who has any zmanim it is said that it's from the word venom. And it's the word Zen Amma is used for a piece of flesh that hangs from the throat externally. So you see this in goats. Right? A piece of flesh that hangs from the throat externally, alright. It's called a wattle, WA Double T L, E, scene and goat, sometimes pigs.

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The name is one who has his anima

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one who's got this extra flesh hanging from his throat. Why would that be because he, he is a total.

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He's earthen eats and drinks so much that he's got extra flesh hanging from his neck even. He's earthwool.

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And even our basketball, Dylan Warren who said he was described but unknown to us until the name. When we heard the name, we knew that this was Walid bin Mahira because he had this Zen GNMA

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like a double chin. This is one interpretation of the words any there's another interpretation of Zen, which is illegitimate pretender. The name is used for a person who is born of who's not born out of wedlock. So what are those Xena, this is who is the name is and why he's called the name is because it's like extra, you know, he's not technically from that family, but kind of is, right? Doesn't get inheritance, etcetera. Now, it doesn't mean that if a person has been born like this, they are evil. No, it's not their fault. The neem is not just someone who's illegitimate. But he's a pretender, meaning he pretends to be of a family of a certain lineage while he is not.

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And why would he do that? Because his own lineage is not very nice. And remember, in that society, lineage was everything.

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If you were from a good lineage, even if you were poor, it didn't matter. And if you were from a lowly lineage, then, you know, even if you were a millionaire, it didn't matter. lineage was everything racism was very real in that society. So this man will lead when Molera It is said that when he was about 18 years old, his father claimed him his actual father claim and you were actually my son. And he had no idea who he was. Because his father had committed Zina with somebody and he was born as a result of that, and he had no idea but will lead I'm a leader with time he became so wealthy, that he would claim to be of the Quraysh

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he would lie about it, that he was of the Quraysh. Why, just to add that prestige and that name, to be more honorable in front of people, whereas in reality, he was not of the Quraysh. Now, Allah subhanaw taala is describing this man will lead when Mahira you know, with this description, I mean, nobody has been described in the Quran in this way. Nobody.

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And look at the description of the following verse. and Canada, Malin Weber Nene, because he is a possessor of wealth and children, either tooth Lolly, I had to call it a South little over

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In Santa Seema Allahu tomb.

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We are going to brand him on his snout on his nose and Khartoum is actually used for the nose of a pig,

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or a trunk nozzle of a donkey or a pig because it's protruding out. It's lifted up. I mean, he's really been humiliated in these verses. Because this man was a man of power. He was a man of wealth. He was a man whose words people would take very seriously.

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By the way, his son was Khalid Ibn Walid radula horn, who same Waleed Walid bin Molina. So this man, he said derogatory words about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He called him Majnoon, et cetera. And Allah subhanaw taala

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he defended his messenger. I mean, these words show the hatred that Allah has for this man, that this evil description is given in the Quran.

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I'm sure you've heard children reciting these verses. You've heard so many people reciting these verses and every time these Verses are recited, who was being humiliated Walid bin Molina, someone who thought so highly of himself, so arrogant, so full of himself, and look at how Allah subhanaw taala humiliates him in our basketball dilemma and who said, We know off no one, whom Allah has described in the derogatory way in which he describes Waleed bin Lila.

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No one has been described in such a derogatory way. And what is said, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam install don't obey such people. don't obey such people, because if you obey them, you will strengthen them. If you will obey them, you will be affected by their bad o'clock also. So distance yourself from such people who have such lowly character.

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On the one hand is a character of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, how was that? We're in Nicola isla. Hello, can Arlene and here we see the character of his enemies? How is that so lowly? So despicable? So evil.

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and Canada, Malin Weber, Nene. He pretends to be of great lineage, and he wants to be obeyed. Why, and that cannot he is there Malin one of wealth we're burning and children, meaning his God, no good o'clock. He's got no good manners, no lineage, even nothing, only wealth and children. And because of that, he thinks highly of himself. Because of that he thinks that he should be obeyed, or people think that he should be obey. Meaning what has this man God, why would you obey Him? Why would you follow him? Just because he's got money and children?

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Is that what makes a person worth following?

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He's got no character. I mean, if you look at his character, it's horrible. The kinds of things he does and the kinds of things he says, and the kind of arrogance that he has. He's not worth following. And really, this is something we need to think about also, because we could talk impressed by people. Why?

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Why? Just because of their wealth.

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That's it.

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They're wearing the fanciest of clothes or they're going to the fanciest of places and whatever they do, whatever they say whatever they write, whatever they post, whatever they promote. We'll take it. We'll take it.

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and Canada Merlin Weber Nene. Be careful about who you're following, either to La La he is tuna. when Our Verses are recited upon him, call it a cell plural of welline. This man says that they are the legends of the former people. This is how he describes the Quran.

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Would you still follow him? Just because he's rich. And just because he's got money. Send a CMO who I know Khartoum. Allah says Sana Seema who we shall brand him, Watson Watson is to put a mark on something

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upon his hotel room and Khartoum, like I mentioned to you earlier, the nose nozzle of a donkey or a pig that is lifted up.

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It is at that Walid bin Molera was very proud of the shape of his nose. I mean, people are like that. They're very proud of how a certain part of their body looks.

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And that is what they talk about all the time or that is what they show off to people. So he was very proud of it and look at how Allah humiliates that also.

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And what happened in the Battle of blood

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is that his nose got cut off in the battle.

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These verses were revealed in Makkah, and many years

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was later this man's nose was cut off.

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What is this show? Allah's Anger for this man? Even though Allah had given him wealth and children, he had so many sons, you know that this man had like 10 sons or something extremely rich. Allah gave him all of that yet Allah hated him. What does that show? Just because you've got the money and just because you've got the family, doesn't mean Allah loves you.

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What else does this show to us?

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What else does this teach us about this man's and

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it's not your wealth, and your children that make you good in Allah's eyes? It's your character.

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What is your character like? That is what matters. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in Hola Hola, Yong, Liu Illa Anwar Ali Khan. He does not look at your wealth and your bodies. He looks at what it Upolu Beco What are Maliko your hearts and your deeds and that is basically your o'clock because a clock is the packaging in which you present your deeds in which you present your words. That is what your o'clock is.

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Send us him who are al Horto

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Alright, Chateau de la Martin has said that the worst people in Allah sight on the day of resurrection will be those whom that people leave in order to be away from their evil in order to be safe from their evil meaning they're a flock is so bad that people avoid them. So such people will be removed far from Allah also worse in Allah site. Good o'clock, heaviest didn't the scale and bad o'clock. Rudeness, harshness being a bully bullying other people just because we've got some money and just because we've got the family. This is what brings the person down. Assalamu alaykum sometimes we are so proud of our appearance, like our beauty our flock and stuff. So we said that

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will be everything if I go anywhere or if we go wedding or party. So people will be I will be interesting the people with my appearance, but when you open the mouth so the person will be totally different person. So that's what the Prophet salaallah assonance taught us the DUA whenever you look at the mirror and mirror to see your beauty to what you ask for a loss on tiller. So we have to ask for good manner o'clock that's why as a woman we every minute in our pocket mirror we are looking at see my eyebrow is okay my lip is okay thing, but because we always saw in grosser with our physical, but that's why you don't

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Forget to we can keep it's not in the morning we have to make this work. We have to make it every time while I give a good o'clock good manner. Yes. That Allahumma chama are sent the hunting for her sin. hooky. And also that what do you need the accident o'clock that oh Allah guide me to the best of character? Well, I was traveling recently, and we were taking the kids to this play area. And there was a person over there watching the kids and I was sitting nearby and all of a sudden I hear my daughter saying, What are you checking? And I looked and the lady was checking her face in a mirror. Right? So my daughter was so curious that why is she looking at herself in the mirror. But I

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mean, I was like, her hair is perfect. Her makeup is perfect. Everything is you know, in place, but still, this individual is so concerned about their looks, that they actually have a pocket mirror. Wow. You can actually carry a mirror in your bag. I don't know how you could look that with you all the time. We're so concerned.

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And then not just having it in our bags, but taking it out and checking to make sure that we're looking perfect.

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This is how concerned we are about our physical bodies. And look at how it's the physical body that has been humiliated in these verses Khartoum. I mean, wow.

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It's not the physical looks. It's the character that matters. Yes, Smilla Salam, O Allah, Allah subhanaw taala he gave us we have to use it for the sake of Allah. You know, Allah subhanaw taala he gave us a parent, maybe we look beautiful, maybe something in us different than others. But that thing is Allah subhanaw taala he can take it in second is a blessing of Allah yesterday, I remember. I have pain in my tooth to Han Allah I was, the pain was so severe. And I was thinking Subhanallah just just a small part of the body. Imagine every single part of the body we Allah subhanaw taala he sent the disease in us what will happen will not recognize that come from Allah that way we are

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arrogant. May Allah forgive us? Because we are in Allah's milk, right? We belong to Him.

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So

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if we relate this to ourselves, like right now, it's the selfie culture that's been going on everyone, you know, taking pictures of themselves constantly and just completely obsessed with their image. I remember listening to electro by Shia Hamza Yusuf, it was like a quick like three or four minute clip. But it was exactly on that that yes, it seems like it's, you know, I'm just having fun. I'm taking a picture. But it's really just because everyone's completely obsessed with how they look in their image. And like, they reduce everything about themselves to how you look on Instagram, or, you know, whatever it may be. Yes.

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And plus, sometimes, we as parents, like, those are parents and father, they do whatever they want to do themselves, but they forget about if we are not there what we will be worth suffering our kids. Now think about the holidays. Normally, whenever you think about his dad, what is left behind him, you will be suffering a lot, the way they leave the way whatever. I know he wasn't a believer in the times. But after that he became a believer, but every time he coming across this aisle every time you know about his father, I mean the feeling he have it sometimes what I'm trying to say that now as mothers and fathers, whatever you doing now, you will be getting the result for your

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children. So watch what you're doing that will be worthy remembering in good way or bad way. Yes. And that is what children remember the flock of the parents. How were they? How did they talk to me? Did they respect me or were they harsh with me?