Taleem al Quran 2012 – P12 123C Tafsir Yusuf 22-24

When a man Bulava showed the who, when he reached his assured so use of artisan um he was in the house of the disease growing up over there working, learning many things being exposed to very interesting things now what happened? He reached his I should I should maturity from the root letter Chien del del shadiness to be tough to be severe. And, uh should is the peak of, you know, your strengths, your strength is what your toughness, all right. So I showed the is the peak of that when a person is physically strong, mentally strong, emotionally strong.

And it is said that the age of a should the age of maturity is somewhere between 30 and 40. Somewhere between 30 and 40. Now, you might think, Oh, I'm 20 something and I thought I was pretty mature. Okay, and Hamdulillah, you may be very close to maturity. But real maturity comes somewhere between 30 and 40. Okay, because you're physically able, especially for men, physically strong, emotionally more stable, mentally stronger, also write better in control of their emotions. So when he reached this point, what happened at the now who we gave him Hoekman, wisdom, judgment power, where Ilma and also knowledge, it is at that hukum over here refers to prophethood. So use the rice

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at this age, and where was he in the house of Aziz, as a slave?

Think about it. A prophet of Allah is a slave in somebody's house, who is a prophet of Allah, the best of people, the best, the best of people, he is the prophet of Allah. But in dunya, we see that use of Ellison I'm didn't have much status at this point.

We think that as soon as I put my hijab on, I should be getting 100% marks at school. As soon as I start praying, my five solids I mean, I should be getting a promotion. I should be getting every job offer. What's going on. This D is not working. No way it is working.

It is working for sure. It's just going to take some time, because you're not ready for all those big changes. So attina Who hookman where Ilma worker there Lika nudge Asilomar, Sydney and thus do We reward the more Sydney the doors of good meaning. This reward was not just for use of our s&m, but for others also, who behave like use of our esalaam behaved who do what use of our s&m did what did use of our lesson I'm doing this situation. He was patient. Right? He focused on the positive he accepted Allah's decree. And Allah subhanaw taala called him a more sin. What can Ali can address in Marcin? He was a Marcin, can you imagine being a slave and yet being a Marcin, who wasn't Marcin, by

the way?

The one who does your son, the one who does good, what kind of good, the same good that is done to him?

What is your son do better than what someone has done to you? Right? So if someone gave a $50 gift card to you, on your graduation, and when they graduated, it's your turn to give them a gift. You don't think that oh, they gave me 50. So I should also give them 50. You say I'm working already. And Hamdulillah I have a lot of money. And I know that this poor friend of mine is going to be waiting for quite some time until she can actually get a job. So I can afford to give her $100 I can give it why not? That is your son, you do more than what the other person has done to you.

Right? Your sign is also to be beautiful meaning in your actions in your behavior. Generally, what happens? How do we behave according to the situation that we are in?

If we are hungry, like for example, when we're fasting, we're hungry, and we are sleep deprived? Then how is it that we speak to our family members? Be quiet, don't talk to me. I'm going to snap at you. That's it. Shut the door. Turn the TV on, block everybody off. What's the point of that fast?

There are many people who fast but they get nothing from their fast except hunger and thirst. Right? Why? Because they're fast did not really benefit them. Because whoever is fasting must also observe the fast of their tongue of their ears.

Exam is to behave better to rise above the situation that you're in

and behave better to respond better? An average person? Yes, if he's sleep deprived, if he's hungry, he's going to be cranky. He's going to be groggy, he's going to be irritable, but the person who's doing your son, he's not going to behave like that. How is he going to behave?

How is she going to behave? Tell me

snapping, answering back, just waiting to pick a fight. Yelling, yeah. Is this the behavior of a Morrison? Think about it. If you're working under someone and you've gone through a lot of difficulties in life.

You've gone through a lot of difficulties in life, how is it that we typically behave with people? How was our attitude with people?

What kind of attitude do we have? Like for example, if you come home and you snap, and somebody says everything, okay? Like I had a very bad day.

We justify our bad behavior by what? having a bad day. Right? We think bad day. Bad behavior. That's fine. No, this is not the behavior of a Marcin more sin is bad day, but still good behavior. Still, a smile a Salem

treat people the way they deserve to be treated. This is the attitude of a more sin. Use of an s&m is living as a slave and Allah called him a more sin. He has gone through so many difficulties in life yet Allah called Mr. Morrison, because Marcin, he doesn't complain all the time. I didn't get to sleep much. And look at you. You have it's so easy. And my life is so difficult. You don't know what I've gone through. Don't compare me with yourself. I have all the right to raise my voice. I have all the right to not do this and not do that. Right. This is how we think. That's not a Morson what are their Lika? Nigel Morosini use of artisan um, did your son in the situation also? And what

was his your son, firstly, towards his Lord. And what was that he didn't complain.

He didn't complain. Our problem is something small happens and we complain about it the entire day. We cannot rest until we've actually complained about it. Something happened a week ago. But it's still bothering us. I got my hand I got a paper cut. After a week we will tell somebody even why I got a paper cut. I don't know why it happened to me. I don't want it to happen to me, again. We're upset. We're angry. We don't overcome these problems. We don't forget about them. We dwell on our problems. This is why we don't grow through them. We go through life. We don't grow through life. This is our problem. So he did your son first of all towards his Lord, how? By accepting his decree

by accepting what Allah subhanaw taala decided by not complaining about it by embracing embracing the change.

And secondly, your son towards the people also. Why is it that we cannot do our son with people because we cannot accept Allah's decree? We blame people.

We have high expectations of them. And when people fall short of those expectations, we get very disappointed.

Exactly. The problem is that we are the ones who are suffering at this time other people doesn't even matter to them. I mean, if you suffered a sinner, 14 year old 17 year old if he had a big attitude problem, you know, as a typical teenager would living in somebody's house, especially as a servant

would that harm their disease of missile at all? What would he do simply Okay, sell him get rid of him?

Get rid of him okay, he would go from one house to another to another to another pick a fight here pick a fight their murder someone here, you know, harm someone else there steal something here steal something there. Why? Because people who don't accept Allah's decree, they think whatever's happening to them in life is because of people and they want to take revenge from people. And they think injustice is there, right? I mean, they can do whatever they want.

But what happens who suffers at the end? They suffer.

But if you accept that, okay, this is something that Allah decreed for me. This is something that Allah allowed should happen in my life, then we won't be angry with people. We won't blame them for our circumstances. We won't have high expectations of people, then we will be able to understand what holds us back from doing your sin is what not being able to accept Allah's decree. And those who accept Allah's decree, then look at how they progress. Look at how they grow, worker that he can address in myrcene. Thus do We reward those who do or send meaning anyone?

Who does a person in a situation like use of medicine MD, Allah will also bless him.

Allah will also bless him. You know, we learned earlier in total our life that nations that Allah subhanaw taala put through so much difficulty initially, why learn the home, yet a lot of our own so that they would become humble before Allah. difficulties come in our lives to make us humble.

But people who don't accept those difficulties who don't embrace them, instead of becoming humble, what do they become? angry,

violent,

Criminal Minds. That's what happens to them. Right? Who, those who don't accept Allah's decree, those who don't become humble through the difficulties that Allah subhanaw taala has sent their way.

Think about it, you're walking outside, on your way home, you open the door. And your key as you're taking out of your pocket, kind of scrapes on your finger, you get hurt, you're trying to unlock the door and you drop your bag. And then you go inside, and somebody had to leave their shoes right in front of the door. So you almost tripped over it. Now one reaction is every time that something happens,

a four letter word here a four letter word, they're a curse word here, a curse word there. This is how we typically respond.

But in other ways, stuff it Allah, what's happening? Why are there so many difficulties in my way? What did I do in that Allah who in la la, June you do is to fall? And then Allah opens ways for you?

And then what will happen if you start cursing and getting angry? The moment you see somebody, you're gonna start yelling at them? Why did you leave your shoes over here? Why did you have to lock the door at this time? Don't you know I come home every day at this time. Right?

Because he was abusing us at home, that's what he was doing. And then the police officer said that well, I was used to but I'm

beautiful.

That many times it happens that when criminals are asked about why they have done what they've done, they say that I was abused as a child. I was abused when I was younger. So I'm basically taking revenge. And she's mentioning what how a police officer he was asking somebody and this is the response they gave. And the police officer said, Well, I was also abused as a child. But I decided to come on this side.

Instead of, you know, promoting the crime stopping it. If somebody did bad to me, that doesn't mean I go and do back to others. No, I'm going to rise above the situation. Somebody did bad to me, I'm going to stop that bad. I'm not going to let that bad happen to others. I'm not going to let this virus spread. I'm going to stop it right there. And who can do that? A more sin. This attitude is very important. Very important. The reason why we have bad relationships with our parents, with our siblings, with our spouses, with our children, what's the reason? Because we don't forgive them because we don't accept them because we don't accept Allah's decree. We hold grudges. And when we

hold grudges, we are holding ourselves back. We are harming ourselves first, before we harm anybody else. So what are their Nikka nudges in Martini? Thus? Do we reward those who do our sin?

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she enticed him

another chapter of his life, you barely get over one problem, you adjust to a situation. And then what happens? Another test begins something that you could never imagine also could happen to you happens to you.

Does it ever happen that you barely deal with one problem and you turn your face to the other side and there's another mess waiting for you?

The other day if somebody was over at my house, and they took some time, so by the time they left the mess that my daughter had made all over the house. I mean, there were clothes out of the drawers and not just out of the drawers. They were in other rooms.

Every room had toys out on the floor. I mean, don't talk about the toilet paper, don't talk about things in the cabinets. And I mean, the whole house was a mess. I didn't know where to start from. I look here by the time I have fixed this. She's done something else. She was upset because I didn't take her to the park. Right. So it happened sometime. You barely deal with one problem that another one has already begun for you. This is the life of a believer. A life of tests because this life is about what problems and tests and learning Hello Collmenter will hire

After the Ebola come the purpose, you know behind why we're here, the reason why we're here in this dunya is what

test we are being tested. So if it's not one thing, it's going to be another, as soon as you resolve one issue, another is going to begin.

And what do we want things to become perfect? Things to become perfect, right? Like, for example, many mothers, you know, with their first child, they're very observant, oh, he's going through this phase, I hope it's going to be over. And then finally, when it's over, you realize that they are in another phase. And then as soon as that is over, you realize they are in another phase. And we keep waiting, oh, when they're one year old. And I'll do this when they're two year old. And I'll do this when they're a three year old. And I'll do this and life just, you know, slipping away from our hands, basically. Because in every part of life, you're gonna have a new set of problems, a new set

of problems in every phase of life. So use of s&m Also,

when he was settled in the house of disease missile, a new problem began. And what was that? What were the two route that was on the route letters a lot? Well, that road and road is basically to

walk about when to come and go in search of something.

Like, for example, if

you have some guests, and let's say your friend is over, okay.

And you have a feeling that your mom is not really happy with this friend of yours, right? You sometimes get that feeling right that your mom doesn't like particular friend of yours. So what happens is that you're sitting with your friend, and maybe you are, you know, doing something with her and she comes, your mom comes, you know, looking for something, and then she goes, and then after five minutes, she comes again. And then after 10 minutes, maybe your brother comes and you wonder did mom send him and after 10 minutes, she calls you, there's a constant interruptions, right? You know that something's going on here. I'm not saying that this is how you should think

about your mom. But I'm just saying that sometimes you may have felt this.

You may have felt this, that if somebody is coming again and again. I mean, they just came like two minutes ago. And if after five minutes, they're back again, there's some reason they might not be open about it. But there's some reason why they're coming like this again and again. So this is road.

This is road, and from the same root as the word irida era is what intention. Now when you intend to do something, you don't just sit there, that intention is going to move you you're going to get up and do it.

Right. So rahua, that to Rwanda Euro, we do morada this is basically to intend something yourself and to also want the other person to have the same intention, you want to do something, and you want that the other person should also have the same intention. So what do you do you speak to them once you didn't really get a good response. So then the next day, you speak them in another way, you didn't really get a positive response. So you leave it for a week. And then after a week, you touch the topic again, from a different angle completely. And you think that okay, there may be a little bit okay about it. Then after another week, you discuss it in more detail, and you have won them

over this as it ever happened with you. Like, for example, you want to go somewhere and you know that your mom was not going to let you go, or your dad is not going to let you go, he's not going to buy that thing for you. So you just mentioned it in passing. And then you mentioned it again in a different way, then you mentioned it again, in a different way. And then eventually what happens, you convince him. Whereas if you went straight up to your father and said, Dad, can you buy this from me? I'm like, no.

What have you done that I should buy this for you? What will you do? You're passing by the throat. That looks so nice. I wonder how much it's for. It's really nice. And then at home, you open up a magazine like see same thing.

And then you get some good results like Dad, look, I got such a good mark. And then you say, you know if just in case you're trying to get me a gift, you know, for Eid. I really, really like this. Yes.

So for example, after school, your dad picks you when

you know that there's an ice cream store that's on the way and you really want that ice cream or you really want an ice gap. So you're not going to say that can you just get me an ice cream from here if you said it looks really bad. Right? And you might just get a no. So what do you do? Where's the ice cream store? Is it up ahead? I'm so thirsty today. Oh so hot. Oh my god. I was sweating all day. I'm so thirsty. Is like Are you thirsty really? You would you like a snack?

And then he's like, okay, let's just go for ice cream. That's the way you convince somebody, and who's really good at it. Women, kids are good at it. But women, they can get their husbands to do things that even the mother in law's amazed. How did you manage to do that? How, what did you do? She can convince him, you know, in one way or another eventually after two years, after five years, she figures out which strings to pull, and then she can manage to get him to agree. So anyway, this woman what hour the two she

tried to seduce him, who allottee she who or he was the Beatty her in her house? Now the woman in whose house use of La salaam was Was she the wife of the Aziz, the woman whom her husband told, treat use of? Well, perhaps we can adopt him as our son.

Can you imagine the age difference there? I mean, yes, there is a status difference. But there's also a big age difference. This woman is trying to seduce our Nuptse from himself, or enough see from himself, meaning from his firm intention and resolve to remain chaste.

Because people who are determined they don't fall easily. Right, you really have to convince them through different ways again, and again repeatedly, and then you managed to push them off, then you managed to cause them to slip. So she tried to seduce use of Ernie SNM. Meaning she tried to convince him to do haram with her. And in order to do that, we'll unlock it and she locked up Luca, you have a liquid the leak is to close doors firmly. Not just to shut the door, but to close it firmly. And also to lock it if that's a possibility. So unlocked, she locked, she closed firmly, and she locked up

all the doors, the main door and allow them which door in which door looks like a big house. So she closed every possible door. What color and when she trapped him basically she said, hey Tilak come here. I mean, she openly invited him to do haram with her, openly invited him the word hate Allah. Some scholars have said that it's not originally an Arabic word, but it gives a meaning of a command. And it means come here. And some have recited hate or luck as hate to hate to luck or hate to, which basically means it's from the root letters. Hey, yeah, Hamza. Hey, are you Hey, you is to prepare. So meaning that I'm ready for you. You just need to come I'm ready for you. So she openly

invited him to Zina.

Think about

the age difference, the status difference between the two? You surprise I'm had no inclination for her at all. He was a prophet of Allah. He had, how come he had written he was a Marcin, he wouldn't do anything like that. But you see, she, she was inclined towards him.

Many times that happens. And we think, what's the problem here? I mean, this man, he's like my father. He's like my big brother. He's like my younger brother. He's five months younger than me.

He's two years younger than me. I'm already married. He's already engaged. He's already got children. There's a huge difference, age difference, status difference, whatever it may be. But a man and a woman non Muharram when they're alone, who's the third? Who's the third shaytaan you may have a very clean heart.

But the other person what's going on in their heart? You don't know. And especially my dear girls, when it comes to men. I mean, this is a completely awkward different situation over here. But generally, girls, they're very naive in the sense of they think, oh, what's the problem here? He's just like my brother. You know, we're cool. We're just friends. We're just friends. But the other guy, what's going on in his head? Even though you're 10 years younger than him? You don't know. You don't know how he thinks about you. You don't know what he's thinking about you.

You know what he's interested in? So what do you have to do? Protect yourself? Protect yourself. Always, never be in a situation where you are alone. Or you are coming too close to someone from the opposite gender, maintain a distance deliberately maintain a distance. It doesn't mean don't talk to them at all. If you are in a group, you know, for a school project or something. You say, no, no, no, I don't speak to men at all. I don't speak to boys. Oh no. You have

Have to do that. Maintain a distance never be alone. Never be too comfortable. Never feel, you know, comfortable around them because you never know what's going on in their head. And men and women, they think very differently.

Women, you know, take their friends as friends and men don't always think like that. And I'm sure you all I think I also showed you that video once, right? About men and women, can they ever be friends? Did I show that? I think I did. If you don't remember it, you can just Google it and see it, convince you.

So

this is the reason why we are forbidden from being alone from people from the opposite gender and maintain a distance also. So what happened over here? She openly invited him Allah, He said, ma de la

Murad Allah, I seek Allah's protection. May Allah protect me, never. I'm never going to do this. I'm never going to respond to you. And notice he's not relying upon himself who's you relying upon? Allah? subhanaw taala. Sometimes we think no, no, I'm a very firm. I'm not easily convinced by others. I know who I am. I know where my limits are. And it's okay. I will talk to this person, I will explain to them and I will discuss with them that it's not really appropriate for a Muslim girl to be like this. Forget about it. Forget about it, that discussion is going to turn into something else. It might turn into something else, especially if you're relying upon yourself. Use of artists

I'm seeking whose protection Allah's protection column or other law. And he says in the hoorah be indeed He is my Lord, ALLAH my lord, I sent him us way. He has provided me with such a good residence. I mean, he's given me so much. How can I do haram and disobey Allah? If I do that in the hula you for her Lolly, mon those who do one they can never be successful. Another meaning of this ayah is in the whole rugby. Rob over here gives meaning of master and use of realism is basically talking about the husband of this woman, his master, that he's been so good to me, how could I betray him?

How can I betray him his trust? How can I do haram with his wife, and betray this man who has been so generous to me? If I do that in no livelihood volume one that would be lol. That would be injustice and such people can never succeed.

They can never ever succeed. What does this show to us? who succeeds? Those who doesn't know who's successful, those who are fair. And those people who are unfair. They can never ever be successful? What are called her must be and certainly she intended for him. Her met her me mean, she resolved she had the intention. She was certainly determined. Do you have Xena with him? wahama beha. And he would have also intended to have relations with her he would have also intended to do the same. Because after all, he was a man, a young man, and the greatest fitna for men is Wu women, and fitna meaning that they literally fail before a woman, a man who's very strong and very determined. A

woman can convince him to do anything.

Literally, she can. A woman has that power, the power of seduction, right? She can seduce him very easily. And it's a strength that women have been given. But many women they use this in the wrong way. They misuse it.

They misuse it. Many times it happens that married girls if they come and ask me for some advice with their husbands or I just say you know shorter as well that you need him just short your husband that you need him and that you love him and you miss him and just

show yourself as very needy just pretend like that even if you don't feel like it and watch a melt before you

literally watch a melt before you if the husband feels Oh, my wife needs me.

She needs me. Wow, his ego you know, it just boosts up and these therefore, he leaves his work and come rushing, he will do that.

But providing that that the woman shows she knows which strings to pull. Right. So anyway. Well Akkad Hamid Vu Hama, Bihar he would have also intended the same he would have also inclined to her. But what is it that protected him? Lola if not, and that he saw bull hen or be the proof of his Lord. Allah protected him how you see

Listen, I'm Sabo, Rohan of his Lord, what is Bohan proof? Meaning something that convinced him at that point that you should run away from that woman, he should not listen to her.

Because you see, when we intend to do something, anything, there is an internal battle going on one force, you know tells you do it. And another voice it tells you don't do it.

Right? Which one do you follow? Which one do you follow? The one that convinces you, the one that convinces you, what is it that will convince you that which has some solid proof for some valid reason or something like that, which will convince you to answer to respond to it. Like, for example, I mentioned to you earlier, salad, and cheesecake, someone who's counting their calories, someone who's watching their food, you're telling them have it, it's really good. Trust me, I'm not going to going to the States for another month, the next time I go, I don't know if I'll be able to bring back a piece for you because you know, it's quite hot. So have it. So they're tempted to have

it. But then they look at their app, and it tells them you have only a certain number of calories left for the day.

So you're like, No, I can't have it to stick it away from me. You just pick up the salad and go away? What convinced you

What convinced you have your salad, not the cheesecake. Why? Because you have only a few calories left for the day. If you have this cheesecake, you won't be able to have your dinner. And you'll be hungry for the rest of the day. Right. So that convinced you because it was more weighty. On the other hand, if you don't even open your app, and you don't even count the number of calories that you've got left for the day, you're like, oh, you know what, I'll see you later. Let me just have this cheesecake right now.

Yum, you just keep looking at it and admiring it. And before even you put it in your mouth, you can taste it. So obviously you're going to have the cheesecake and later on when you open your app, you realize that you

were beyond your limit.

So anytime you want to do something, there's two forces, you know, there's two voices one telling you to do it, the other stopping you from it. Which one? Are you going to respond to the one that's more powerful use of artisan being a man a young man and being invited by a woman like her meaning someone of power, the wife of his master mean he wasn't used to saying no to her for anything, and he or she is openly inviting him to haram. All the doors are closed.

What is it that convinced him to avoid her bullhorn or be the proof that Allah gave him and what was that?

This is not how you respond to people who've done air sent to you.

This master has been so good to you. How can you cheat him? How can you do haram with her? And how can you commit Zina? While your Lord is watching you? Your Lord is watching you. How can you commit Zina? You cannot. So he realized at that time,

what he should do. And this is reason why he was able to keep away from how many times it happens that the opportunity to sin is right before us. We're at the verge of it literally at the verge of it. But Allah subhanaw taala protects us. Allah subhanaw taala protects a servant from sin.

So Allah Allah, Allah Abraham, this is why it's so important to keep asking Allah subhanaw taala Allah protect me from the shadow of my knifes or other becoming shattered enough See, women shatter the shape on and also make dua that Allah protect me from my right from my left from in front of me from behind me, because there's fitna shaitan is trying to attack us from everywhere. So Allah protected him from sin. Go there luckily Nasri find who sue our fascia, and thus it was that we should avert from him evil and immorality. Why? Because in the homeowner a bad dental muffler scene, indeed he was of our chosen servants and Allah protects such servants. Allah protects such servants

which ones those who are chosen and who's chosen.

Who's chosen

prophets, okay? And which other servant is chosen, why? What makes him special?

What makes him deserving of Allah special help? Because he's seeking Allah He is happy with Allah. When you are happy with Allah's decree, then Allah is also happy with you. And if he's happy with you, then He will guide you.

Use of artists and have embraced the change and Allah subhanaw taala also helped him and protected him

What lesson do we learn from this? Is there any justification for sin?

for disobeying Allah? subhanaw? taala? What's the justification that we generally have? Oh, you know, it's not me, I really don't want to do it. They're telling me, my mom's telling me, my boss is telling me, my teachers telling my older brother so what can I do?

This is the excuse that we give

you, sir, is and I was being told to commit Zina by who is master, basically his masters wife.

We put the blame on others. And we think we'll be fine because we are being told by others. No. Even if you're being told by others, you have the right to say no, because they're not going to defend you on the Day of Judgment. They're not going to protect you at all. And to see what happens, this woman how she turned against use of medicine, they call you in the name of love.

I say we love you, we want to,

really, you're not going to listen to us. You're going to disobey your parents, you're not going to listen to your husband, you're not going to care about your children, you're going to refuse your family. They call you in the name of love. Sometimes people who are very close to us, but they're calling us to what

they're calling us to what disobedience to Allah subhanaw taala, which is basically a call to the fire.

So it is very important that at that time we learn to say no, respectfully, respectfully. Sometimes we say, well, I have to take this haram loan because my parents have told me I don't have a choice. You know what, if you affirm about it, nobody can force you. No one can force you at all. To even put one foot in your mouth. No one can force you it's all in your hand. They can pressurize you but they cannot make you do it. Think about the pressure over here that was on use of our listener first of all, he's a man and he's being invited by a woman that itself is a big thing.

And then secondly look at who she is all the doors are closed so awkward for him to say no at that point.

But still he's had no

fearing Allah in leave meaning when nobody's looking.

fearing Allah subhanaw taala when no third person is watching because over here the master wasn't there use of our DSLR his family was not there who would have found out nobody would have but what was it that stopped him Allah sphere My Lord is watching me let's listen to the recitation of these verses well

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