Tahir Wyatt – Sound Heart Workshop – Episode 05 – Heart Failure

Tahir Wyatt
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the diseases of the heart, including the belief that it is the only thing that can die, the importance of actions and their definition of a "hasern heart," as it is defined as everyone wants to have a healthy heart. They stress the need for belief in Allah and avoiding victimization, as well as the importance of showing one's religion to avoid evil behavior and avoiding sharing one's jealousy. The speakers also touch on the topic of fear and illness, the importance of preparation for death, and the use of a book and trademark.
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Book five diseases of the heart. So we're going to cover some of these

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as quickly as possible, without losing the meaning of the headings. Because the point is just to kind of get we covered just now what actions of the heart, we talked about loving a love loving, for Allah sake, we talked about hope, and good expectations or thinking the best of luck. We talked about fear, gratitude.

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contentment, we talked about maraca and God consciousness. These are all actions of the heart that we should be working on and thinking about. Now. We have to look at these which are diseases of the heart.

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And if we don't study the diseases of the heart, you might have a disease and not recognize it. And that's what's so important. And there's a book called irata to laughing by an acclaimed Rahim Allah. And he talks about how a person's heart can become diseased, and he doesn't even realize it. Why? Because he doesn't, he doesn't know how to even check his heart.

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Or he's so preoccupied with other things, that he's not thinking about his heart. And because he's not thinking about his heart, the disease creeps in

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to the point that the heart can die. And the person doesn't even recognize that it is dead. How do we know when the heart is dead? He says, when it is not affected by the evil that is around it. And he's totally desensitized. Totally desensitized, doesn't give it any thought. But here's the even scarier part, I want you to consider this.

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A person may realize that his heart is diseased.

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He realizes he realized he has some illnesses.

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he prefers the disease over the cure.

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And this is something we have to consider. Doesn't this happen in real life?

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Well, this is all real life. I don't mean like I'm talking about in a physical sense, doesn't it happen when somebody realizes I have a disease He's like, but I don't want to go through

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the treatment of that disease. And so he just lives with the disease. And this is what happens with so many people.

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They realize that they have problems in the heart.

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But the cure is bitter.

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For Children who cannot swallow pills,

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when they have to take antibiotics, have you ever watched a child take antibiotics?

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And they say, Oh, I don't want to take the medicine. It's not like cough syrup. And these types of antibiotics in general, the

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nasty and the taste is displeasing. So

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the child would actually prefer not to take the medicine.

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Right? It will prefer not to you convince them you tell them they have to or whatever like that, because you want them to overcome whatever infection they have ear infection, or tonsillitis or whatever they may be dealing with.

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So the reality is, is that this is the case with the heart. A lot of people know. But they're not willing to go through the process of purification. But we want to look at today, some of the diseases and then be in the law, a path forward to making sure that we don't have these diseases and making sure that our hearts stay sound in the light side. The first disease that we're going to look at is covered in the 28th Hadith. The authority of Abdullah ibn Ahmed will allow allowance by the Allahu tada and who

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who said the prophet Isaiah science was Salam was asked a University have been which people are the best.

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The prophet Isaiah Salatu was sytem said paluma Moomin can be sodoku Lisa.

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He said everyone who has a heart that is moon. Now this was a word that the companions or the low tide animal didn't really use.

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Everyone who has a moon heart

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and a truthful tongue

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are truthful in speech. They said we know what truthful speech means. But what does a

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heart that is MK moon. What does that mean? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said it is the heart, that is to pee your nucky pious impure with no sin, injustice, rancor or malice, if you will or envy in it.

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So it's a heart that's pious and pure. If it's pious and pure, then it is free of etham buggy Ville and has

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those four things sin and justice, rancor and envy.

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This Hadith is collected by a been measured and graded as authentic. By sycl Benny Rahim Allah who Tad by

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take 30 seconds and I want a title. Yes.

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Where you harbor like

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no, no, no, no, no, no. zil is different than than jealousy.

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Revenge. Okay. Yeah, something like that.

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rancor I don't know. I can't think of another word. It means that you that you

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want to not just exact revenge on somebody but that you basically you want to harm Muslims. You harm you harbor then in your heart like

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30 seconds on.

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What What would you give? What would you give us a title for this? for this? ad?

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a pure heart but right now we want to cover diseases.

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Okay, the health of the heart. What? Okay, yes.

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A disease free heart. Okay, nice.

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Best of the heart. Okay, what diseases are covered here.

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So, so Islam, Islam is a very general term sin. But then we get down to these last three with Bali, which is to transgress that's in the heart that that desire to transgress against others.

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Hill and has it now the main one. So if you if you titled it, like you said disease free heart, and you talked about for example,

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I don't know you can give you can give a couple couple titles for this Howdy, pick whatever one you want. The one I want to focus on is envy. Because that's the one that you find.

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That is very common.

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It's very common that

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a Muslim is envious of another Muslim. Now what is NVMe? Does it mean that

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you like what someone else has?

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Okay, so I'm getting the time outside.

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Bismillah Okay, what is envy? What is has said, What is it? Yeah.

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Okay, so has it means now you might not even what you might not even want it has? envy has nothing to do with me wanting what you have? No, it means that this person doesn't want the other person to have period. He doesn't care who else gets it.

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But you shouldn't have that. Now.

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We understand what envy is this person, for example, memorize the Quran.

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He says inside of himself.

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He feels like this person shouldn't have memorized the Quran.

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I know more than him. I was working at it longer than him. How did he finish before me? For example, how did he get this? You know, how did he get married before me

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How they to the end of it has it is a real thing. And we shouldn't downplay it, because it's one of the first diseases of the heart.

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But it's very, very dangerous. And that's because has it intrinsically has an element of denying the laws cutter

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or being displeased with allows decree.

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got a new car

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they got a new car, how, because the last one is out of Decree for them to have a new car, you don't want them to have it, you don't want to learn to do what he did.

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That's bottom line for hazard.

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And that's dangerous. And that, that that's, that takes you down a very dangerous path. Not to mention

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that it totally negates the obligation of loving for your brother, which you love for yourself, which is which

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is why wise in Islam that you have to love for your brother, which you love for yourself. So if you don't want him to have what he has and you are envious of him, then you are negating that, that wedge.

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So, yes.

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Just in relation to this.

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Yeah. So yes.

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Fine, you can Okay, so. So the brothers question is, if you know that people, some people who are close to you are envious of you, you recognize that they

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that they have jealousy in their heart that they are envious, that they don't want you to have something that you've attained.

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But they're your kinsmen. Yeah. And they they your relatives, and you have to maintain a decent relationship with them. How do you do that? Okay, so

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there's two things that I'm recommending here with Mila.

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The first is that

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you make sure

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that you hide some of what Allah spent Allah has blessed you with.

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And there is a hadith. Which shekel Benny Rahim Allah says is his hasin or fair.

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Stein Wada in Jae Hee Hawa eg Kumble kitzman. For in Nicola De Niro Mateen Massoud and he

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seeks to fulfill whatever needs you have by by keeping it a secret. Because everyone who is blessed is envied. Everyone who was blessed, is envied

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at the same time, okay, so that's number one. And you don't have to display everything, keep certain things to yourself to the best of your ability. The second thing, and this is the more noble thing.

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This is the more noble thing. We have to have firm belief in Allah Subhana Allah, you can't be one of those type of people who every time somebody looks at you,

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and you start running and you want them to wash up for you, and you take the water and

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have them BelAir. Expect the best from Allah. And without that he's going to protect that, because why you're making your car sebahagian mircette. You're reciting the

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rules before? Yeah, I don't I don't know. But you get the idea. Right? So let's have a class. Could we say the pools I don't know if that? That doesn't really sound right when I said it.

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So that doesn't sound right. And while we that you're reciting them before you go to sleep, right? You have firm confidence until what God that Allah subhanaw taala is going to protect you. Okay? At that point, and that point only. And once you reach that, go to the person and say, Listen, I can't accuse you of anything. But I noticed that every time this happens, you say,

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and that makes me feel that there's a level of envy and we need to discuss that we're relatives, I don't want to hide stuff from you. I don't want to, if you can do I'm telling you break down barriers, you will break down barriers that weigh in, that will ring through the family as well. And you just say look, if it's something that I have, that I can give you, then I'll be honored to do what I can to

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help you out or whatever, like just build that religion because you have trust that Allah Subhana Allah is going to protect you. The thing that happens with a lot of people that were lying is that they think that everybody is jealous of them for some reason

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and it's not even you know, that in and of itself is a scary also that's that's a disease in and of itself.

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If you have trust in the last hour Believe me allies have a job to protect you and there's nothing that can even sort of come along for that it will come if allies without aids you then nobody can defeat you. We have food come from Angela do Sudoku when bad ever lies with your leaves you to yourself and forsake you and who is it that can help you have to lie down it's like

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Number 29

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anybody have the microphone?

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You read you read this one? Bismillah

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azraq Mr. Blue.

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It was narrated that Muhammad bin Labib said what I undoubtedly fear for you most is

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that wasn't that didn't come right in English.

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moldable the bead said that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu wasallam said

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what I fear for you most in the fourth maharlika should kill us now. What I have here for you most is minor shirk like they said from

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Yanni it says that machmood been the beat said that it should say that moving the beat said that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu wasallam said no. What is minus your

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messenger Allah asked he said Salah Salem said it is real. On the day of judgment when people begin to take the reward for their actions. A lot the Most High will say go to those that you use to show off for in the world. See if you can find your reward with them a lot

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collected by the man

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by an Imam Akhmed in the Muslim head and also graded as authentic by shaken man you know him Allah.

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What title will we give to this Hadeeth

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earlier which is what an English showing off as denotation but

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that is the title. That is the title we'll go with Aston Avia. Why is Riyadh one of the worst diseases of the heart?

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yet because why is it called miners should because in fact, you are you are looking to other than Allah Subhana Allah to Allah for something that only Allah can give you.

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You're looking to other than Allah for something that only Eliza can give you. And it really shows weak personality. When people show off, it shows that they have weak personality, weak reliance upon Allah subhana wa Tada. They're looking to other than Allah, at the end of the day, a person who, for example,

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he prays

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that is he and he makes a lot

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and he makes it a little longer than he normally would.

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Because he wants someone to think that he is pious.

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Why is that a problem? It's a problem because he is looking for a reward for worship from other than a lust Peridot as dangerous. And this is why the first three categories of people who will be used as fuel for the fire

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are people

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were showing off

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Abu huraira mattiello tan and said that the Prophet is smart to sit and say a woman savvy him enough. The first that will be used to fuel the fire are three. One of them is somebody who recited the Quran and he recited beautifully. It's a beautiful reciting and it will be said to him on the Day of Judgment.

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What did you use to do? He said I recited the Quran. I I recited the Quran for you, Allah,

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Corrado Quran

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A lot of parents, Allah will say to him that you lied, you recited the Koran so that it can be said that you were a party

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will could peel and this part of the Hadith is RG

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it, Allah Subhana, Allah says, and it was said, and it was you wanted that, in a law out of His justice gave you that. You want it to be said that you were a party. So you got that.

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And guess what? That was your reward happened in this life. In the Hereafter, you're getting nothing.

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As a matter of fact, it is a bad deed. And not a good one. Same thing with the one who gave charity. What did you I gave charity for you? Oh Allah. Oh, you gave charity so that the people would say that you were generous, or cocky? And it was said, You got it? That's what you want it you got it. So the idea of ostentatious is extremely, extremely important that a Muslim is always aware, who am I doing this for? That has to be a question that you put on your daily routine? Who am I doing this for? Why am I doing this? and questioning yourself? Not to the point. And this is also important.

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I'll ask you this question.

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What if someone says I want to learn how to recite the Quran beautifully.

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So that so that I can so that people will be interested in the Quran. So people want to pray more. You know, it's there's a difference. If somebody decides to cry beautifully, usually, especially in Ramadan, usually the message is packed. And if he's not a beautiful recite again,

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you won't find the method as crowded, right? So this person says, I want to learn how to recite better. But I'm also afraid. I'm also afraid that if I do that,

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that it might be showing off.

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So what do we do in this situation? Do we say not to just keep reciting

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in the style that you have? And you know, five people come and pray totally with you.

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Make any

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bass Montez Either way, it's a trick. If you stop if you stop doing the good Subhanallah

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a brother.

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There was a brother I was trying to help find, find a job. And I said, look for certain jobs, you need to mention how much Koran you've memorized. So have you finished memorizing the Quran? He said, No. I said, How much have you memorized? He said, 29 Jews?

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I said, Well, why don't you just finish my resume, I don't want anybody to say I'm a habit.

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You understand? You see how safe I am, please. So you don't stop doing good.

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You keep doing the good and you fight any

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idea of react that comes to you push that away, push that away, keep pushing, but you have to keep doing the good. Don't stop doing good. Because you're scared of react, you understand? Don't stop and push those feelings away. And as long as you continue to fight, then be in the legs. That means that you're on the right path and Sharla right.

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The other thing that just when it when it comes to when it comes to react

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is that

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and this is one of the best things panela or one of the best ways to push off react, to recognize that your success is in following the laws of command, not the reaction of people.

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Once you realize that, you'll be more likely to do what Allah has commanded you and not care at all about what the reaction of the people is. So I'll give you an example.

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Some people, some people

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and I really want you to look at how react creeps in.

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Some people give dour, they go out and they call to Allah because they like the feeling

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that they get when someone takes your

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attention here. They like that feeling. This person came to Islam and they like to hear about other people's saying how he gives good down. Oh, somebody's ready. He's close to set that oh kauflin is a closed is a closeout artist, you know

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He knows how to close out the deal, column up.

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Here, what's happening is

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we're responding to

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the reaction of people how they not,

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you don't get reward Mallesh pay attention to this, you don't get reward, because someone took Shahada, you get reward because you gave down.

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They are guided to Islam or not smls pantallas hand you have no control over that, you have no control over it, which you do have control over is giving the message in the best way possible.

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what happens to a lot of that is that when people stop responding to them, then they stop doing the hour, which is a problem.

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It is not your job to get people to become Muslim, it is your job to teach them about Islam to the best of your ability.

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And if that's what your heart is attached to, then your heart is attached to a lust paradigm. This is the work of Tao. I'm doing this for Allah 1000 people except this lamp, or nobody except this lamp, I'm going to keep given down. Do you understand? Now, it doesn't mean that maybe your methods are flawed. if nobody's accepted this thing, maybe you have to go back and look and say, wait a minute, am I saying this correctly? Whatever. But the point is that what? that your heart is not attached to the response of the people

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that your heart is attached to a loves parent. And once that becomes the case, there's no room for react. There's no room for it. Because you couldn't care less. They like it they like it. They don't they don't. I'm doing what I'm doing for Allah.

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next. Heidi 30

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Abdullah bin Massoud may Allah be pleased with him reported the prophets seldom said he who has in his heart and adds weight of arrogance will not enter general. Someone said a man like to wear beautiful clothes and shoes stop there. What is beautiful clothes and shoes have to do with arrogance.

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Or what could it have to do with arrogance?

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Show off okay. So so it could be somebody could get the idea when they hear pride. Right?

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Because keep it in arrogance practice that a person who wears nice things is proud.

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They're proud that they feel good about the way that they look. Okay, so this man says wait a minute.

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A man likes to wear beautiful you know he likes to wear good things is this also is this pri Is this the kind of pride that's going to keep a person from going to gender Policy Center responded by saying

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Allah is beautiful. He loves beauty Allah azza wa jal is Jimmy, boo Gemma, he's beautiful. And he loves beauty. And in some other ahaadeeth you Hippo and euro

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ethera near metallic. He loves to see the the traces of his

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of his favorites to you. He loves to see them a painting so Pamela

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imagine and you you buy your your child. He has this favorite shirt that's been his favorite shirt for like the last year he wears it three times a week and is faded the washing but it's just his favorite shirt. And you're like man, I got it. I can't take him over outside looking like this. So you buy him some new clothes. You buy new clothes and what does he do? He wears the same old shirt

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and you want to see the fact that it's like No way. I'm giving you more than that. You want to see the blessings that you give others be used.

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This is just the reality. Even the prophet Isaiah select with Salim said this example about Allah Subhana

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Allah Allah and that when a lies with Joe gives us a Nima. He likes to see the traces of the that Nima upon us. So velocity has Allah has blessed you with wealth. You know, and you like having a nice car. Nobody's telling you you have to ride a car that's 20 years old and doesn't have air conditioner. nobody's saying that. Allah Subhana Allah loves to see his name, Allah Jimmy. Yes.

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arrogance means ridiculing or rejecting the truth and looking down on people. So those two qualities that is what arrogance.

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says it is the exact opposite of Islam. Because Islam means to do what? To submit to submit to the truth. arrogance is the opposite of that you reject the truth. And this is why

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shake was saying the TV Rahim Allah to Allah. When talking about the disease of Kibera. He says that it is impossible.

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Kala Rahim Allah Islam who is the slum in land and hydro Who can I call it an adorable llama? And I'm not even sure okay, like

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we should delay Islam.

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Now we'll call nominal acuity which should do Islam. He said both Cuba and arrogance and share are the opposites of Islam.

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So, the idea is that Islam requires you to accept and to submit to the truth, whereas arrogance, you reject it. And you belittle people you look down on, this is arrogance, not looking nice. Alright. That is a disease that has to be out of the heart. You can't belittle people the Prophet alayhi salatu salam, and a hadith that we skipped.

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He says, There it is.

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He says al Muslim, a whole Muslim,

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the believer

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or a Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He doesn't belittle him. He doesn't belittle him at taqwa have hoonah the privacy, some say right after that. He doesn't belittle him, tuck was here. Tuck was in the heart.

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Why do you think the privacy Some said?

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He doesn't belittle him. And then he said tough was in the heart.

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I want you to think about that.

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And I want an answer.

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Why did the Prophet alayhi salatu salam say that a Muslim is the brother of a Muslim? He doesn't belittle him tuck was here. Yes.

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Because if you have tucked in your heart, you won't belittle someone.

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there's a there's a more precise meaning. Yes.

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That's it. Because externally usually you belittle someone because of how they appear.

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You say, Oh, that's so like, you heard good things about this person, then you see him you like that's him?

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Right? Because of the way he appears. And that's why the province has some say it's not about appearances. At tuck what happened hoonah. And why is that important? Because in the Economic Committee in the law, he at Costco, because the most noble of you in the sight of philosophy is actually the most honorable or those who have the most taqwa. So a believer.

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A believer does not have that kind of pride, where he belittles other Muslims. That is arrogance, and that is a disease. And we have to get rid of that. And if you have Taqwa as the brother mentioned, then you won't be arrogant type. 31

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What was the title of that? Howdy?

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Yes, arrogance. That's fine.

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All right, yellow, this will let us go.

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Who's got the mic? Yeah, go ahead.

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Though bond reported that the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam said the people will soon summon one another to attack you as people when eating invite others to share their dish soap Okay, hold on. Let's understand this part.

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prophesize Sonam says the people he actually says el Omen and the various peoples nations they will invite one another to attack you. The same way that people invite people to come Come eat with me Come eat, we're going to invite them to attack the Muslims. Love we're not seeing that now. Yes. Someone asked will that be because of we are few in numbers in at that time. Okay, so think about it now. So if this was anywhere close to the death of the Prophet it is select with sin. How many Muslims are we talking about?

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Sorry, no over 100,000

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Yeah, if this was if this hadith came anytime close to the death of the Prophet it is slightly today that we're talking about at least 100,000 Muslims. So So now you've got this huge body of Muslims for that time.

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Because the United This is not like, you know, different factions and schisms. No. So this was strange, the prophesied some of the saying that the oma are going to come and they're going to invite one another to attack you. So that seems weird to them. And they said, Well, wait a minute. We got numbers right now. So they says they said to the Prophet alayhi salatu. Salam, will that be because we are few in number? Like, what's going to be the read? Why are they even going to think that they can attack us?

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You know, it's it's like you have these super nations right now. Right? And then you have like a small island.

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If somebody said, yeah, that small island is going to attack the soup, you know, the superpower. People be like, wait a minute, that doesn't make sense. Do you understand why this Heidi? why they're saying, Wait a minute, what do you mean? Or is it because we're few in number? Yes. He replied, No, you will be numerous at the time how it's gonna be a lot of you. But you will be like the form of the sea. And allow will remove here from you. The breast of fear of you for fear of you from the breast of your enemy and place weakness,

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alcohol, wine and wine into your hurts, okay, so the process I sell them says, No, no, there's gonna be a lot of you.

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There's gonna be a lot of Muslims. But Allah is going to remove the fear that they have of you. These other nations, they're not going to fear you anymore.

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They're not going to in we're talking about a healthy fear here, right? And in weaknesses going to be placed in your hearts. Yes, someone else someone asked, What is alpha r1 messenger of Allah. What is this weakness? What is the one? He replied, he replied, loving the world and dismissing loving the world, and despising death,

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collected by Abu Dawood

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and a center who was declared to be hesitant by Sheikh Al Bundy Rahim Allah at tirmidhi himself tirmidhi.

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Not sorry, not this hadith. All right.

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So what is the disease that we're looking at here?

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And why but what is that one?

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Love of the dunya sapan, Allah,

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Yanni, how do you know?

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How do you know whether you love the dunya? Do you have this in your chest? No, really, you have to ask yourself,

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ask yourself, do I? Am I? Am I one of these people at the prophet Isaiah salatu salam is talking about?

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Do I put the world over the next I put this world over the next?

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Do I hate death?

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Don't say yes.

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Now if you do keep it to yourself athletes,

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themselves, I'll have my oma will be forgiven, except those who expose this sense. So that's in the heart, keep it in, get it out of your heart, but don't let it come off your tongue.

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The issue is this, this is real. And it doesn't mean

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that we're not scared to die.

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it's, it's okay to be worried about what's going to happen after death. But it's better to prepare for it.

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You can sit up there and be worried about that it's not going to help you. It's going to help you as preparation.

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And so

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what has happened is, is that our lives have become very, very materialistic.

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Most of what we do,

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most of what we do in the day

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is to support our habit of loving the world.

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And the opposite was true for the believers. Allah Subhana Allah says, while attendance and a CBK mean it dunya Don't forget your portion of this life.

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What does that mean? to not forget our portion of this life means that we still need things from this life to help us along the journey.

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But this is a journey and is going to end inevitably and we're traveling where to Allah.

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This is the journey. We'll

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The dunya is temporary. And everybody knows that it's foolish to love

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and to fall in love with something that is going to go.

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You can't be that attached to it. You take from it, which you need to get you along the way as you travel on any journey.

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And you just imagine right now, if you were going from here to make Amara,

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You go off for a week.

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Okay? How many suitcases Are you taking with you?

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Seven left How long?

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That's somebody that loves the dunya.

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Because you're trying to take everything with you can't, you can't it's it's a quick trip. It's a quick trip. And what happens is, that's and that came from the sister side, they don't carry the luggage. That's the issue.

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The brothers have all this luggage, when you're carrying all of that stuff. What does it weighs you down will lie, you don't want all of that stuff. Because it becomes burdensome.

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Love of the dunya is burdensome, in fact, but it is part of the nature of many atoms. So you have to fight that the Prophet ideas tonight was Samson,

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that if the son of Adam had a valley full of gold,

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he would be content, right? That's what the * he says.

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Like a whole valley will like you didn't even think and you see it. So panela you see how people get greedy. You know, they didn't even think that they were going to that this investment was going to work.

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They thought they were going to lose something. And then alliance with Joe, bless them to make 10% off of the deal. You know what they say?

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I should have got 20%. If If I would have just done this, I could have gotten 20%. Now hold on, hold on. I will wait. thank thank you last time, if the son of Adam had a value of gold, a whole thing. All he sees is gold. You know what he wants another one.

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Nothing satisfies us except for dust another word when you die, and you're covered in dirt.

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That's the nature so you have to do what you have to fight that and attach yourself to the hereafter.

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We got to keep it moving. It's 547. And

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those were, those were diseases of the heart. Right now we want to talk about death of the heart.

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3232 we're going to skip 33 because there's longer 32 yellow is when I read somebody, anybody? Yes, go ahead. Abu huraira narrated that the messenger of messenger of Allah said, were really when the slave of Allah commits a sin. A black spot appears on his heart when he refrained from it seek forgiveness and repentance. His heart is polished, clean. Okay, so what? What has to happen? For after a person commits a sin? The prophecy Selim told us how to get rid of that sin.

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Because it's gonna it's going to start collecting. Right? How do you get rid of that sin?

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you refrain from it number one, glad you stopped doing the sin. He seeks forgiveness, you're stuck fifth.

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Right? We are too and he repents. So then what happens? The hardest clean again? Go ahead. But he but but if he returns the goes back and he does the sin again or does some other sins it increases until it covers his entire heart. Yes. And that is the Ron which Allah mentioned. Ne but on their heart is the round, which they used to earn kalila then Ron Allah khudobin mercantil yuxi board. And so the entire heart becomes encompassed by sins and transgression. Okay, and it's collected by a tsunami, the who graded the Hadeeth has no say.

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What do you see here? What you see is that if a person continues to sin, and does not repent, and he does major sins and He doesn't repent, then eventually the heart is covered

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and it's dead panela

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Danny goes from being diseased to dying.

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And so the importance of repentance and warding off heart failure.

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The importance of repentance turning back to a Lost Planet Allah, asking Him to forgive you when you recognize that you have sinned the Prophet alayhi salatu wa sallam said it tequila hazemag fear la wherever you may be.

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Wherever you are, Fear Allah know that Eliza gel is watching you know that he hears you know that he knows, even if it's not something that you're doing or something that you're listening to or something that you're watching that he knows what you're thinking.

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Know that about a lot of time. Turn to him in repentance, and then the heart will get clean again. It tequila Haytham excellent. The province of Islam say fear law wherever you may be what sbn has an HBCU Senator Tim who has follow up a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it.

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harlot ness caloocan has to deal with the people in a good men. comprehensive advice from the Prophet It is similar to saying what what could we give the title for this chapter here for this Hadeeth

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sins kill the heart excellent collars with the will take their sins kill the heart. Number 34 Heidi 34 you the Heidi 33 is a beautiful Hadith go back and read as a Muslim, but we don't have enough time to read it together yellow 34

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it was narrated from Abu huraira that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Do not laugh a lot. For too much laughter kills the heart.

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Yes, by

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this hadith was graded as hesson by schakel Benny Rahim Allah

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led to zero by Hayek Do not laugh a lot for too much laughter kills the hearts

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not just too much laughter but too much of anything that is permissible, kills the heart, too much food, too much sleep too much anything that is permissible,

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kills the heart.

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And this is why Subhana Allah, this is why Ramadan is so beautiful. Because what do you do in Ramadan? You abstain from the permissible

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for the pleasure of Allah Subhana

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eating is Hello, drinking is Hello relationships with your spouse Hello. But But you do what you refrain from those things. And when you refrain from How do you feel?

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panela any,

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you would think that after 15 hours of fasting and all this that you just oh dead no penalize somebody to say you got to go another hour you can go another hour.

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Because you you train yourself

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for the obedience of Allah Subhana Allah to stay away from the permissible. And this is what the Messenger of Allah sly Sonam is telling us here.

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Don't do too much of those permissible things too much of that is going to kill the heart. It's going to make you insensitive

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and so nobody's saying that. Oh you you will you enjoy comedy well how often do you what you find some people some Hanalei.

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He wants to watch stand up for an hour and a half he doesn't get bored he laughed the whole time

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read Koran for five minutes and he can't sit still.

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And if this is this the show us there's something wrong here is something wrong when we can enjoy the speech of men more than we enjoy the speech of a lost parents ad when we can and so what's happening is is that the heart is dying a slow death with these things and that's why we have to put it in check. All right, what we what could we give this chapter what could we title this chapter?

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Mark who said it moderation what

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moderation is the key to a sound part may

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not Not bad, not bad? Somebody else got something

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I just learned that word from you Mashallah flip

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See ya. Okay Is that like a British word? Americans would know that yes

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excess kills how likely

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are you to say when they had all the

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money Mashallah I mean we really do have a group of marketers he like

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marketing specialists excess kills I mean that's a very utilized like that's like just do it

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not really excess kills that's uh i like that

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excess kills I hope I don't forget that one

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can I use it if if we ever published the book and I use that no trademark or anything

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