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I want to talk about it from a physical perspective. But if you want to look at what counts on your mind,

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it's not about how big your muscles are or how tall you are. It's not about any of that. It's about the actions that you've done. And the actions that does take place in a time period.

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So, the same way that Ramadan is made up of days, you have the actions that do happen during days. And so if your day is not filled

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with the work worship of Allah Subhana, WA tada

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then it becomes a law school.

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And so you should really consider how quickly the dates of Ramadan go by how after every select just about we're praying janessa, which means someone, someone's days have come to an end, they don't have the opportunity to work anymore, they don't have the opportunity to learn anything else. So they've been so that they can implement, we should really consider that as we save the 12th of Ramadan, because we're almost at the halfway point. And then we're going to be in the last 10 nights and that is going to be either we're going to be saying what happened to Ramadan, unless, unless we build habits during this month, we like to add to that continue with us even after the month of

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Ramadan. That brings us to the agenda today, which is the heading objective. And Abdullah selected in clarity where he said that the Prophet alayhi salatu was Salam said that every mile

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is Southern.

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Okay, what is my walk in what is Southern but

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they translate my office, every act of goodness. And an Arabic mouth is any statement or action that benefits are considered to be

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any statement or action that serves to benefit others is model. So the practice of lying or selling is telling us in this hobby that every statement that you do that is a benefit to others, that it is suddenly

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the words or that the witness other coming.

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What's selected charity charity, okay.

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But if you look at the roots of suddenly the trilateral route Assad down in Nepal, said, what does that mean? Does anybody know?

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To tell the truth. So it's the opposite of candid right.

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So, the scholars say that Southern was given that title, that name

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because it shows the truthfulness, you see the relationship, because it shows the truthfulness of the giver. The one who was giving, because it is very hard. Man by his nature, loves what he possesses, he loves as well.

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He has been highly blessed that he Allah knows that he said, Indeed, his love for a hair which in this is nice as well. is strong.

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Okay.

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And the last the last time that he told this Lenten Allah

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had said to people, man, remember to hit boom that you want to take by a team, you will maintain righteousness, until you give away that which you love. So if a person gives away something of his well, then it shows that he is truthful in his faith that Allah, Allah tada will replace him with that, which is better. We'll replace it with that which is better. So this is the word sadaqa. Charity, right? So the prophet Isaiah salatu salam in this Heidi is telling us that every statements or actions that one does, that is beneficial to others,

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then it counts as charity. In other words, charity is not simply something material.

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It is not something that has to be tangible that you give to someone or something of monetary boundary.

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This is the property that is the land is letting us know that charity encompasses all of these things. So if you tell someone to do something that is good,

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that is charity, if you forbid them from doing something that is wrong. That is charity.

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If you help them carry their bags, that's charity.

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In other words, in other words, you will get the reward as if you are spending from your own country

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by doing any act that is beneficial to the Muslims, what's a human can, but that man, the prophet is

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when some of the companions came to him, and they were

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very, they weren't getting as many good deeds as the rest of the campaign's, they said

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that they went to the proxy setup. And they said, the ones who have wealth on messenger the launch are surpassed and surpassing us. And that means they're getting all the rewards.

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They pray, just like we pray.

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And they fast, just like we fast.

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But they give from the extra wealth that they have from their surplus wealth. They're giving a charity that we don't have any surplus well, and that was the majority of the complaints by the majority of the campaign's did not have any surplus wealth.

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And so they looked at it. Now mind, they didn't go to the prophet

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and say, why is it that they have we don't make to either give us what they had? No, no, that wasn't their concern was not their concern.

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Their concern was, when we meet a last fan of data, we want to have a fair shot, to have the same amount of reward as they do, like pray, just like we pray.

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They're fasting. At the same time we fasted but they have a degree of hurt, slow rushed, and then they give away from their extra wealth and their surplus wealth, but we don't have. So the problem is that a lot of it was some of them said to them didn't Alon give you that which you can also give as charity.

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They were confused. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam said,

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because we had an incident, that every time you see an alarm, that counts as charity, every time you see somebody that that counts as chair, every time you say a law

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that counts as charity. Every time you say law, the law that counts is charity. And temple filma holds the promise of a subset to command with that which is good, it's charity

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to prevent people from doing that, which is a decent or equally charity. The profit is

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one of the to say

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after that.

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And even approaching your wife is charity. They said wait a minute,

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that one of us would approach our wives and fulfill our natural desire, there's a reward and then the province of Leiden associate Don't you see that if you were to do it in a illicit manner, in an unlawful manner, that you would be punished for that or that you would subject yourself to punishment, that there would be a sin in depth

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approximately such that likewise, you do it in a lawful manner, there is a reported so all of this counts as Sotherton this shows,

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as the profit on a slide was sent in is saying here, that not all charity requires Well, it doesn't require that you give away something that is tightening of monetary bounds. And another heading

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as a waiver of the allowance or the profit that is selected was sent and said that every joint think about

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allies who are jealous.

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And one of the greatest signs of Java is his man himself in yourself, what we have come to the last transaction and even in yourself there are signs that will also be that do you not consider this so you're not paying attention.

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So, if we look at this body, which is made up of

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flesh and blood, in our bodies, we have joints right. So you have joints in your fingers and your are all over your body.

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The profit is, Sallam said that

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it is a duty upon every joint in your body and your body to give charity on a daily basis.

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Every day that the sunrise the profit it is selecting the synapse, that every joint of a person must perform charity every day. That the sunrise as thanks to a loss of power.

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That

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was allows you to panela if anyone is ever

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injured themselves, that they recognize the blessing of a loss of count data and having joints that work, this thing about if your elbow did not work and you had to keep your arm straight, how difficult that would be to accomplish things, or your son for that matter, right? Anything. So for every joint you have to perform, or they every joint has to perform Southern that the province relies so that went on to explain that. He said, tagging obey the Navy certify that you do justice between two that you judge justly between two people counts as Southern. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said to help a person, you know, his mount is Southern to hoist up his belongings, as you

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know if they would get on top of their mount whether that was a camel or horse or whatever, now their belongings on the ground, that's difficult. So to help him to give him his his belongings, his bags or whatever this is Southern.

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And finally, if you see for example,

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one of your neighbors just came back from grocery shopping.

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And their hands are full and they need help help you then this is Southern, Southern

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and all their neighbor needs help getting into the car to help them get into the car. This is Southern, says charity, the tool became

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the profit on a slide for the sedans that one Kenny would like you but Southern and Kadena and by Eva Southern, to say a good word.

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And this doesn't just mean

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something that is good in itself, that you're actually teaching someone to do. So this is good work.

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But even a good word is to say something that may just be from doing up things are just worldly things. But you're trying to make this person happy. You're trying to bring happiness to the Muslim trying to bring them comfort. All of this is considered to be charity in Islam, and we in the month of Ramadan. And how much does it cost me to say something good to someone. Nothing costs you nothing to develop these habits. The profit is SelectUSA lamb was Edgewater ness, he was still alive, he was one of the most generous of all the people not just generous with his wealth and money. That's the other thing. And don't think of generosity in terms of well, not everybody has something to give to

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someone else. But that doesn't mean you can't say something that's just kind to them, that you can help them do something, develop the spirit and Ramadan, because it was whatever requires honesty and for some of us It requires a change in disposition. It requires a change in who you are. You may naturally be someone who was introverted. You don't want to mix with people you don't like to mix with people, maybe you are only child you grew up, you didn't have to mix with anybody.

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You grew up in a society that taught you to be that way to always think about self Don't worry about anyone else. As long as you succeed and you strive, it's all in your hands is what they might teach you. This is a major mistake. And as a Muslim,

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take this opportunity in the month of June in the month of being generous in trying to change who you are.

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Take advantage of that opportunity look for opportunities to help other people

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take a portion of your day 20 minutes but you just try to help someone else even if it's just around your own home

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as I said will be a long time and I report that the profit is lackluster that Canada fees his money

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and he used to be in the service of his family until it was time for delighted that he was open slot

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so look at ways that you can be helpful if it's only to overcome your own gang stingy

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some people find it easy to give away well because they have a lot of us but they don't find it easy to help you

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stingy with your time.

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So take this time boo Mara, who's in southern province to learn some scented this heavy object which is collected in part in another heading of who they are was collected and Muslim saying worry.

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every act of goodness section is a charity

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Especially there is something that is benefiting someone else. Every act every state, so don't be stingy with yourself, this is the time to get your 50s pile them up and Ramadan, you need them, you need to pile up your accounts.

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Deposit deposit, no withdraw, this deposit and ramen that you put as much as you can in your bank of good deeds. Everything that you do that's good is Southern cup, but it needs to be accompanied by intention.

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Yes, once you can allow the intentions can change your mundane, the mundane aspects we're doing today. So instead of helping your wife because she shamed you into helping her

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you went out the house all day, all you do is stay in the middle class, now you come home and you want to help around the house just because you don't want to hear her complaint.

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help around the house because this the son of the Prophet is our president, and you want to get reward for them

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and be in the lead. The other thing will stop anyway, it's not gonna complain if you actually help.

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So

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look at your intentions by mistake gain as much as you can. With the lag time and this is one of one of them, you have the opportunity. The profit is selected. Sam went on to say in this study, he said that to judge justly between two people to Southern to help someone with the amount to hoist up to them their their belongings is Southern. The good word is Southern. Then the Prophet alayhi salatu salam said in every step that you take to salon is Southern.

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And think about, you don't have to count it because otherwise whatever's counted, we don't have to worry about Oh, let me just count how many steps it is to the Mexican. Well, let me wear my watch the one that

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counted, counts how many steps I'm taking, you don't have to do it. Unless you will tell him it's not going to cause any of you that needs to go when

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you walk to the masjid for every step that you take.

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A report is written for you.

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A an evil deed is the race

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and Southern District Court

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report that is kind of like you come to the mention it now.

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You sit into the private

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city from one salon to another salon.

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You don't want rebounded

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not complacent?

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What is the balance?

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to guard the border. It is to man the borders to protect the Muslim lands from any enemy Enter.

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And that's a great, great reward. That the Prophet is like to say I mentioned this with one guards the lands of the Muslims to protect the land and people invading the great reward for that. The Prophet alayhi salatu salam said when you said in the message from one salon to the next salon, that informal rebound,

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that is manning the board that is that protection, whether that means that you get the reward, like someone who was actually manning the borders, or whether it means that you are now building a fortress for yourself from shavon entering upon you, either one of them, or perhaps both of them is a great reward from a loss of combat. For one who sits from saliva saliva, there might be one on in the last 10 nights. If a person is making it cast, and they're sitting in the next year from one slot to the next slot.

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Even if you don't have the ability to make it.

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Don't lose the opportunity to see the message from bankruptcy

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you're sending the message don't go home and eat sending the message to the chef trying to get because that equals the bar to get that Azure. And if you do it that one time, it's like did it for 1000 months. If you happen to do it later to cover

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those rewards and multiply so don't lose out on those reports. The last 10 nights is one gonna start from now because there's only a week left by the way.

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Today's the 12th next Wednesday is the 19th

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Thursday night is the 21st night which starts the last 10 start from now planning your day. If you're not going to make the antique app so that you do in the same dimension from mother Felicia, read the Brian and get that reward that free with the muscle.

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And likewise your brain says your mind as you know it's written as if you pray tonight when you pray budget in your mind.

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Get those rewards don't lose out on those rewards especially in the last 10 nights of Ramadan. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam said it to remove something from the past

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is something to remove something harmful from the past is written down as a charity. So

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these are hobbies where the process of aligning with someone is telling us that all of these types of actions are charity show us that it is not something that is restricted to a monetary form of charity every joint

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of your body is supposed to perform carotene on a daily basis the private somebody was so upset and to pray to rock x minutes do you see why that Danny is suffices

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you're doing carrots Lord suffices the the joints doing carrots, like you just want what do you prefer to have? What is the time for selected

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when after sunrise like anybody else, I thought that was on the

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slideshow 15 minutes after hours.

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The same thing do have do have shadow shadow shadow because you pray

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12 to 15 minutes after shadow, which is sunrise. But do hair that's all that is to have great to have extends all the way to approximately 15 minutes before the door time.

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So any of that time that a person prays by brain Do you have done what you are supposed to do. And you have fulfilled your duty of giving charity for every lift in your body? You can pray to I got surprisingly some sent here to write back

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and up to eight records with you have said

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yes. And use Alam after we took this

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one.

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By the way, if you have questions, I would appreciate write down the questions. For those who are on the live stream you can send the questions

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on one of the brothers monitoring

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as

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well as all the dialogue on on appsumo.

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He was sending

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the

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fishing follow on can we watch him one thing I would have narrated

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the alarm on an area that the prophets A lot of it will send them I said do not consider any act of goodness insignificant, even if it is meeting your brother with a cheerful face. Not selective.

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Not so the problem is this idea was telling us not to belittle any good deeds.

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Don't do any good deeds to be insignificant. You know what happens when you think something's insignificant?

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You don't know.

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You don't do it because you don't really think there's any consequence to this and consequently I'm not going to do it. You don't know the approximate sounds that don't look down on on any good deal. Even if it just means

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to smile at your brother when you see him.

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smile at him when you see him Don't look down on anything. So have a lot of fun sometimes in the profit is actually informed us about this and another honey, when he said in the last layer to tell them we can even mean refining the value.

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Adding a person may say something that is pleasing to Allah. And it's a statement that is pleasing to

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the eye. He doesn't think it's significant. He doesn't even consider what he's saying he doesn't even think about

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but by the statement Alaya fou. de la raises him in degrees.

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In the lab, delayers and Kevin, we can even change our will in society lab value.

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And on the opposite. A person says something that is displeasing to Allah.

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He doesn't even

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consider it to be Eddie.

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He just says it impacts

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me because of that word. He is thrown into the fire.

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I think about sometimes because the private is allowed to say for example, this I think he said too smart, right? And then another idea of the private private is like the synapses falling as your brothers share. Like, again, again, struggling cost you How much?

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And how much do you have to go to the bank and take out cash the check to smile at your brother is Southern smile, the smile is contagious. See, look, everybody's smiling.

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Smile, it actually creates

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a good feeling amongst everyone, because they feel safe, they feel comfortable.

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Perhaps he was having a bad day you style it, and now it changes his mood. I mean, all of these things are

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the result of something that you see that you may think is insignificant.

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Even if the prospect says something as small as simply smile, something as small as just offering some good advice.

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To say something that, again, you may think that it is something insignificant, or a person may remember something that you've said, three years down the line. If it doesn't, that they change their lives.

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You know,

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because many of you live in non Muslim countries.

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You may oftentimes, or you may, at times,

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come across someone who wants to learn about Islam or doesn't want to learn about Islam, but you want to teach them anyway.

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So you may talk to them about Islam.

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That is your duty. As a Muslim, Your duty is to convey the message that was the best way that you know how not to shove it down people's throats as we'll come to the next IDP Sharla.

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by your actions, many times, you will be giving the best representation of Islam more so than by what you say off of your tongue.

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Just by living as a Muslim, by smiling by doing good by helping them with their groceries by doing these types of things.

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By living as a Muslim, you will be in effect, calling them to say like, and then you may have a conversation with them.

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Just because they don't accept what you say in front of your face, doesn't mean that you shouldn't continue to try. It doesn't mean that you shouldn't continue to convey the message. Because your success is that in how many people accept this and what your needs.

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If you measure success by that you want to stop because your percentages are going to be very weak in general.

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But your success should be measured in how many people have you actually conveyed the message.

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Guys guidance is in the hands of a loss accounting giant, whether they accept what you say or not, it's not up to you. And through experience. You should know that sometimes you say something to somebody and it doesn't register to them. It doesn't hit them until a year later. Two years later, three years later, it resonates and they say that's what that person was telling.

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Now I want to learn more about Western religions.

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So don't think that there's anything that you do that is insignificant, and always do your best to put forth what you can allow that which will benefit others is sacred and action.

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On

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Giana

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narrated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said when you made some soup, add extra water to it. And be mindful of your neighbors not

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collected by Muslims. Be mindful of

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in this study, the province that is

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now mine, we're going in progress. Everything that you do as good as Southern, next happy. Don't belittle any act of good. any act of goodness even even if it is just a smile right

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Here, we go into step further. The province of whiners kind of says, if you're making soup,

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then add a lot of water to it so that you can give something and if not add a lot more meat or add a lot more for what happens when you have what are the dining is a lot more grace than you can give some to your neighbor. Now.

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Again,

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keep in mind that I've been teaching stuff, which is don't belittle any activity. Because somebody might say, that seems strange. You're gonna go give your neighbor some rock. Well, consider the time that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said this happy ending, you won't find it so strange, right?

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But even now,

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if someone was to say, but if I went to my neighbor and I took them some very watery bronc,

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you know,

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they probably won't accept the problem, or they look at it as being like, maybe I think that they're poor or something. Why would I give them Okay, fine.

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put that to the side. Think about the last part of the heavy.

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The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said

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Jeevan Be mindful of your needs.

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When you tend to add to shame, right when you when you are mindful of something that you are considering.

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So you want to be considerate of your neighbors.

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Think about this party?

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Who is your neighbor bundler?

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What is the name?

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strange question.

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Who was a neighbor. So just the person who lives next door, person down the street, around the corner.

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All of them. Like

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some of the scholars of the past, they say that a neighbor is anyone within 40 doors of your home in any direction,

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within 40 doors, and some of them really stuck with us for years. And they you know, put this in all of their explanations of it. But

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I mean, the reality is, if you look at the homes, and you look at the house of the Prophet it is

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six meters, I don't know exactly what it was it that day. So if you if you think about it in that, in that if it was let's just say it was six meters, right?

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40 give you 240 means about a quarter of a kilometer, or the eighth of a mile, an eighth of a mile is a city block. So basically, the people wouldn't really find those. But the majority of scholars say that this goes back to one, again, when the legislation informs us of something that doesn't define exactly what it is. So there's nothing that defines what your neighbor is, then we go back to customers, who do you consider to be a neighbor? So yes, the person at the end of my block, you should consider them to be a neighbor, somebody who lives a half mile away. Usually we're not going to consider that person to be a neighbor. So

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the one that has the most right is the one that is closest to you. So that this is the neighbor that has the most right take the profit is that I can sit and sit here. Be mindful of your needs. Okay.

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So you're cooking something and especially back in those times, it has meat in it. What happens

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the smell the neighbor knows that you're cooking something be mindful of that even until today. It does not hurt. It doesn't hurt to send a plate and it doesn't even have to be you don't have to set by China you buy some plastic please put some of the dinner that's making it send it to you.

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Maybe you live in Annapolis because your neighbors suspicious 70 food is he trying to kill me? He's poisoning me. What is it? Okay, fine, send them a banana, some, buy some fruit until you develop that kind of relationship where they know you're not trying to poison, for example.

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develop that kind of relationship. Be mindful of your neighbors, you're coming back with 20 grocery bags. Then take something of that some fruits and vegetables, something packaged

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and give some free labor. It's not going to cost you much.

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And this is from Islam. And it speaks volumes. It speaks volumes. You don't have to say anything. We're not terrorists. We know we don't have to talk.

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We have

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sufficient visiting them and they will open up the conversation and sell on one serious

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Some type of relationship building, and he don't think that you're going to be able to spread the message of Islam. And the people don't even know you as being trusted.

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They don't know you at all, who is this guy?

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You know, maybe he was just a criminal two weeks ago.

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And now he's talking about is slamming out

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the profit I did select from Sam, when he called his people to Islam, he was already a sonicwall I mean to them, was already the one that was known as being truthful and trustworthy and and end to end up, he was not looking for any character flaws. Very nothing that would make him awkward in terms of it being accepted amongst society. None of that. So when he called them to Islam, there was no barrier between them in the message that is the messenger did not serve as a barrier, he wasn't a barrier.

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Some of us because we're harsh, because we're not known amongst our community, and we don't do anything else to say, Perry

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kind of wants to

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do nothing. Sounds society's own. They don't know you or they know the opposite. They know you say, you know, for bad character to walk around with a frown on your face, and they don't, they don't want to spend that'd be how do you know they just don't want you.

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You understand? In order to know what it is you have to break that barrier. You can't be a hindrance between them and except there's obviously

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a lot of adults over

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the moon, they don't deny you as a thought enough to lay your hands. But it is with these oppressive people, these corrupt people. It is the is of Allah, the signs of allies who are just that they are disbelieving in and covering up.

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So the Prophet is that it was said and says Be mindful of your neighbor. So when you're cooking something, make a little extra, make a little extra selection begins to get labor. And again, if this is something that's not going to work, that's something

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along another line, buy them food, anything that is gone that that doesn't is not going to cost you

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but will be something they shall hold on to and it will help to create those bonds and those type of relationships that allow you to show people the beauty of a snake No.

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We have

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data

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on muslimin for button been doing that for so long one will go button. Do

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you see me man?

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Woman is sorely needed? Yes. So all he can do me.

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Woman, Steven said all

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along in our de la Jan and our

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affordable Muslim. I will

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listen to this honey, great honey, that we never know we also collected in his 40s.

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And, as you know, that has imported them and we collected them because he held the opinion that all of the D revolves around these 40 3042 actually,

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that the theme revolves around. They're very important, that have a lot of benefits to be taken from them. Obviously, we're not going to do an extensive explanation of it. Sometimes just hearing the words of the Prophet I didn't select them themselves are sufficient.

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of your loved one narrated that the prophet SAW love love it, he will send them a son is anyone removes one of the anxieties of this world from a believer on low or move. What are the anxieties of the Day of Judgment from him? If one smooth the way for one who is destitute, Allah will smooth away for him in this world and in the next. And if anyone can feels the faults of a Muslim, Allah will conceal his faults in this world and in the next. Allah helps his slave as long as he helps his brother, wasn't it? Not.

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So this heavy or at least foot and having them in casual walk

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The last item I mentioned of the ID,

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because the head is actually longer than that there are four parts to this hoodie. The first part is that whoever relieves

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some suffering,

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some hardship that his brother is facing,

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then Allah will relieve his suffering and his hardship will Yama pm.

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Think about that.

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You help a your brother in this life to remove some difficulty that he's facing.

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And Allah will reward you in kind

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with much for and that is to remove some of the difficulty that you may be facing on Yeoman pm.

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And that is a tremendous encouragement for you. To do your best. When a Muslim comes to you with a problem, that is a very difficult problem that they face and that you do your best to remove that problem. Knowing that a lot of us have a job will reward you with much. In case we're doing time because the the rule is ultracell, Minchin ceilometer

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that's the rule and is that their reward or punishment

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is in kind

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with the action

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is of the same kind as the action or the deed that is being done mostly more examples of that now,

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it doesn't mean that it's the same in degree.

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It doesn't mean it's the same amount, but it means is the same in kind. So a lot of saying here are the private it is saying that if you remove some difficulty that your brother has, Allah will remove it difficult. Is it the same? No, you removing that difficulty. And it is what you had to give him $1,000 for example, okay, you will pay millions to have some difficulty removed from you on your team.

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But a lot of data says that if they can get everything in the heavens in the earth, and all of the treasures which you don't own, obviously,

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they will give them to save themselves from that from the difficulty of that day.

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Then, the prophet SAW the light, he was so upset and whoever makes it easy. Smooth the path makes it easy for one who is insolvent. who cannot pay back his debts. that a lot.

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Yes, that alone will make it easy for him. And

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Allah will make it easy for me to junior,

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the junior will as

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well as

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someone who is a mortal sin. The word is an expense they usually translated here as destitute or insolvent.

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Yes, there's two categories of people and

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that is a person

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who

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only can meet his bare minimum needs.

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Okay, so he doesn't have enough. He doesn't have anything that goes beyond his,

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his bare necessities.

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Or he has someone who or he's someone who can meet his bare necessities. But he also has incurred that 90 from a prior situation so he doesn't have enough to pay off his debt. So the profit is that it was financed, and it makes it easy for that person.

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Then a lot will make it easy for him in this line. And in the hearing. If you loan someone money.

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And you said for example, the agreement between the two of you was that they pay you back in six months. Like so let's put a timeframe. Right now is Joseph. You'll also have money today.

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And you say we you have six months to pay me back, which takes you to one

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summer, the summer December 7.

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December comes around and you find out that he's going through some hard times.

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You recognize

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that he's not going to be able to pay you back

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on December 7 so you don't send me so you know what I mean? Don't worry about it. You have until next June

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to pay me back

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You know what the profit is. So that was said and said,

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he said that every day in this scenario

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in this scenario, meaning that the time hasn't come yet to pay you back.

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He's not insolvent just yet. But you recognize that this is difficult. So you give them some extra time that for every day, there is something

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every day that goes by, it is written for you as Southern, there's a charity by

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June 7 of next year comes around, he still isn't able to pay you back. And you tell him no problem.

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another month, another two months, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that every day that goes by,

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you will get Sutherland for the amount that that person

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had is collected by humans.

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And the reason it is authentic,

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for every day, make it easy, make it easy for you,

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to the best of your ability. Now, to the contrary,

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to the contrary, for people who have what they need, he's not really

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he's not someone who was insolvent, he can actually pay you back. But he's not. For whatever reason, it's because he likes to hold on to the money. This person is known as the mouth of someone who is delay paying you back if he is sent.

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This person is symbol for that. So we don't just have you don't just have an open door policy. People can just come in, incur debt and then they can tell you it is difficult for me and they expect you to

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you know, just delay

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infinite play.

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The Prophet sallahu Suresh, and whoever makes it easy for him, and along with it easy for them in this light, and to hear, then the Prophet alayhi salatu wa sallam said woman sets off Muslim and

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whoever covers a Muslim

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and Allah will cover him in this life in the next. And that is usually we translate that is whoever recovers is false. But also, if a person actually is in need of closure,

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because that happens, that happens. I mean, we don't we don't have to go too far we can look at the refugee situations that exist in some of the Muslim areas, we can see that people actually ecovers Thank you need to be able to cover their body they need cover whoever covers

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a lot will cover him in this life and the next.

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But most of the time, what this is referring to is covering a Muslim spots.

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You know that this Muslim man has made a mistake, it's fallen into harm, he's done something.

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But guess what, so have you shall and maybe not the same thing.

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But you have your own false

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and you should be making that do it. Every morning, and every night is the promise of light. It was something used to be you know, that got a lot of mustard on a lot. But I'm in Malachi

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the Prophet somebody was telling me to say as part of the long I mean, Obama,

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cover my a lot.

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And those things that I don't want anyone else to see.

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Cover them when I'm in will act. And those things that I'm fearful of make me feel safe.

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The private area so I used to make that fly every morning and every night.

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This is Ramadan, month of fasting in the month of July. Learn those

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and make them in the morning in the night. Again, this is a month that we're supposed to be developing habits

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alone and

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allow for life.

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add him to the end of the heading. This is where this part of the heading comes in.

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So whoever covers his brother,

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again,

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don't let your tongue loose on the muscles. You see someone do something that he shouldn't have done. And then you go tell you what I saw cool as long

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as he covered you're

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covered.

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And if he's made Toba say something happened in the past. You found out about it. But he's changed his life.

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And he's corrected his waist. It becomes haram for you when you find out about them to tell anyone else about

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it is wedge of sippable in this case

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It becomes an obligation to cover his faults, if he has repented to a loss and died and

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and even if he is still involved in whatever it was that he was involved in, that was his fault, it's still at this point was to have more encouraged for you to cover his faults. And if you do so, then a lot. So we'll we'll cover your false and this one, and then the next.

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Now,

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that does not mean, and there's a condition here.

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You can only cover your brother,

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if you know that by covering him, he's not going to continue and even

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this is what the style is mentioned here.

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Because if by covering his fault, he actually increases and doing what is time that you're doing a disservice to him and perhaps the rest of the Muslims.

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And if that evil that he's doing

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generally goes beyond himself, and doesn't affect the rest of the Muslims, they will come and find you as the See, you have to let those who may be affected by him know.

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So let's just say you have a neighbor, or you had a deal.

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And he wasn't the best of neighbors to his wife. And you know that, for example, he was involved in all types of domestic abuse, the police had to come five, six times within

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every two months. You know what his situation is, he gets divorced.

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The sister is safe from his heart.

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And now there's another brother domestic considering marrying his daughter to this individual. And you know,

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if you were in that era say,

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you don't believe the Simpsons you love with your brother,

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which you'd love for yourself.

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If you were in that situation, and it was your daughter, your sister,

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your mother crafts that was going to be marrying this person. And somebody knew what was going on? would you not want to know?

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Like, likewise, you don't believe? And two you want that other person to know.

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Now, somebody might come and say no, no, but what if what if you were the one who was the domestic abuser, you're looking to get married? Don't you want for that brother to get back?

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Because now this brother is involved in something that is not permissible. The Prophet is like, never put his hand on. Know

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that that's what the prophet is.

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And what the prophet is selected to sit at was approached

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about advice for marrying one of the companions.

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The prophecy, someone said in New Zealand, he said,

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he means it will

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advise you to marry

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the man. And he was he was straight up, but sometimes it's fun. We have to demand.

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What happens is a lot of times, brothers like Well, I don't want to get involved. You don't want to get involved. Yes, this is your deal is for loss of paradigm. You mean you don't want to get involved? You just got to let this evil go down in front of you

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and not get involved.

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So Pamela, this is what a slam dunk does it catchphrases.

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Before that we don't want to get involved. And this is your stand up. advise that brother say Listen, if you don't tell them what happened

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with your previous Sandy outgoings

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Tell him to his face. If you feel like you can do that, and it's not going to cause a greater harm. Because you don't want to get into a situation now where there was a fighting each other. No.

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But you I believe, I believe you don't have to be bigger than him stronger over anything else. If you stand up for what's right, people respect.

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People respect to stand up for us, right? Yes, because I don't want to be a hindrance to you moving on with your life.

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But you know that I know.

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You know that I know what the situation is. And if you don't, unless you tell them I'm going to ask this is what is that? Some people in the community STDs and they want to go get married to other people and other people know and they don't say anything.

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at once.

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This is not what this hubby was talking about when he said

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Adam,

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whoever, you know, covers his brothers false

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is not what is happening to stop.

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So if it's something that again, these are false that if they, if you cover this person, the lay tile and they want to turn back to a law, they're going to repent for their sins, they're not going to be harming anyone else, that you don't get involved in exposing him. Because the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said meant to tempt foul Rajan misty mean whoever goes out investigating the sin, and the misdeeds and the missteps of other Muslims, that Allah is going to investigate his missteps. And if he loved us, that he will expose him, even if it is in the inner peace in the depths of his home,

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he will be exposed.

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You don't go around searching for a Muslim is false.

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We are even worse than that is some people will get happy when they come across another Muslims fault, because now they get to degrade them in front of others, they already tell us something

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they go around looking for, for this person is false.

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So you have to be balanced, you have to be balanced in this approach to covering the faults of your Muslim brother. And if you do so, Allah will cover your faults in this line, and in the hereafter. And if he covers your faults in the Hereafter, that means you'll be forgiven, immediately forgiven. And then the last part of this is the statement of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And this, Panama is an encouragement for us to be good to our brothers in Islam.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the love beyond the last man in Canada to be only happy.

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And Allah

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is healthy is serving

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as long as a servant is helping his brother.

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As long as you are helping your brother and his man, a law will aid you, he will aid you and at your brother's aid you and other and others.

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situations that you may be dealing with

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NFL lives as well as you who whose health do you need?

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Do you need anyone's help the velocity dial is helping you at least a month because in evidence isn't sufficient for the service. If Alice pans out his ad, you don't need anyone else's ad. And this is why many of the scholars have a stance and if you want to log in to help you in Asia, go out and do something for your brother. Go out agent brother and it will it will pull in the help of a lost count.

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And this is why you see some people in life are just waffling. And unless you found out as truly guided them, you find them. Yeah, you try to figure out how it is that he gets so much done.

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And so little time that he dedicates himself he's helping this person he's helping that person but he still has so much that he does himself for himself and you're trying to figure out how it happens but the lies we tell is at putting Baraka in his time making things easy for him.

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And so this is a great piece I think that we have covered today. Starting with every thing that you do that is good and beneficial statement and action is Southern. Even if it means smiling even if it means just increasing the broth of your soup to give to your neighbors be in the service of your brothers begin to max out and this is from the etiquettes of Assam and this is why the author mentioned these are hiding under the chapter.

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So shallow Tyler will stop there and pick up tomorrow.

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The questions will take the justice

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is an ever sought about or charity to give your daughter away in a marriage. Madeleine for example, if your daughter was a half and on the far end, and you gave her away to a marriage to a hospital before and

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first of all in Islam we don't have such thing as giving your daughters away we don't own our daughters we don't give them away.

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That's a foreign concept.

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And

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because even if you know even if she is a virgin and doesn't know about these types of affairs, she's still asked to give her permission.

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That doesn't mean that as a bother you don't go out and look for suitable candy contains

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no will for your daughter.

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You don't need that up to your daughter you should as a father as a brother You should be involved in looking for people who seem to be competitive.

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But there is no such thing as giving.

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Giving a daughter a what we don't have that concept.

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Now,

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like any other, yeah.

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You said, we should

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we should cover his voice in it if you know someone who is battered, and is betraying his wife going out with some other girls. And if you tell his wife, you know the relation will be correct. So what should we do?

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So the brothers question is if you know someone who is married,

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and you know that this person is not being faithful to his wife?

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And do we cover this fall? So how do we handle this situation? And this is something that is

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this is the answer is multifaceted, okay.

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The first thing is that, that the issue of

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adultery is taken very seriously, to the point that, even if I was to see someone committed adultery with my own eyes,

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I've seen with my own eyes,

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and I go to the judge.

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And I tell them, I saw someone

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committing adultery

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with another with a woman who was not his wife,

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you know, what's going to happen?

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The judge is going to require me to bring three other witnesses, or now I am considered to be

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considered to have slandered this individual.

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Even if I see.

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So the accusation of adultery is not something to be taken lightly. You can't just go around and say, you know, flat sweeping around on his wife, or colon and sleeping around on the husband, you cannot do that you cannot do that. However, that does not deny the fact that I may know for a fact that this person is sleeping with someone who was not his wife.

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We understand the difference. We talking about it

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is not permissible. me knowing it is something that I can't control. I know.

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What do I do about this knowledge that I have?

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No, you don't know, tell that person's wife.

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You need to tell him,

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you need to pull him to the side and tell them listen, I'm aware that you are doing some things that are not permissible for you to be doing and want to destroy your family. You betrayed the trust that a lot of our data is given to you over that woman. She's the mother of your children. How can you do that? I mean, whatever it is that it takes.

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What have you lost, and penalty talked the other day?

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We talked the other day about looking at what is

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and how a person should fear that allows them to take away that blessing that is given him because he's using it in a manner that's impermissible. that a lot of my takeaway is site.

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And he told him, don't you have some shame, some fear.

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So use that part that allows me to do something that's one of the last things that I took away from it.

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You couldn't get married again.

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You couldn't please another woman for the rest of your life.

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And think about the consequences of that type of disobedience. So last time.

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Like the man who was the young man came to the Prophet is allowed to sit in.

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And he wanted to accept this land with the condition

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that he should be allowed to Messina.

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Now, I'll accept the SAM but I've got a woman.

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And the companions were disgusted by what they heard him say let him come close. The prophecy son of a young man. Would you like that for your sister, for your mother for your ads?

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Would you like that? Someone sleeping around with them? The young man said no promises and I'm sending other people also don't like it whatever it is therefore in

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this system.

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So the point is to try to do what is going to be

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what is going to have an effect on this product.

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staffing, the sense that he is committed, if you know the family, you know, other people that can get involved. And I'm not talking about a large group of people. But you may tell him, listen, you don't stop when I have no other choice but to talk to whoever from the community that's going to sit him down and buys them or whatever the situation may be.

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But if you were to take that information, and share it with his wife,

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the number one, you'd be required to have more witnesses, or she could actually raise a case against you.

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Not to mention what may be going on in the family, there's a lot of things when it comes to family politics. There are a lot of things that we outsiders don't know.

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So you really don't know what's going on.

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And it's best not to get directly involved with the family and lock them down.

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Yes, yes.

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You talking about the robots? so much. Right? So the question is, if you're traveling to Mecca, Medina, do you still pray for

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the sickness that come either immediately before or immediately after a prayer, those are called robots.

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Do you still pray them and good trend, the prophet is allowed to sit as when he traveled to Japan is married and that he did not pray other than the two before.

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He never left off, which

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never left off on woods. But he pulls the ball off the dining symbols that are before the hook. And, and after the hook. And after one of them actually, he said,

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if we look at the

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part of that, though, is that the profit on a select was sent in one day we're traveling. Many times, they were commuting, they were combining In short,

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or they were shortening and they were doing other things.

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So many of the scholars of Islam and Muslim should have the same and TV on on him on a lot. They say that a person fears that is by leaving off the romance and when they travel, that is going to be difficult for them to get back into the habit again, then they should continue to pray them even when they're traveling.

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But if you had been someone who's great relaxing, and he's been doing for the last five years, 10 years, 20 years of your life, and when you travel, you stop when you're not traveling, you go back to them,

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that you should eat them off. And the pocket is allowed to sit and said whoever falls ill or is traveling

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to Canada, yeah.

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It will be written for him what he used to do when he was healthy, and a recipe. So even though you're not praying that otherwise, if that is what you do, then it still be written

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down is still rewarding. You as if you were praying, you're relaxing, even if you haven't free. Now, final thing is that not everything that the Prophet some of it was some left

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means that it is meant through or something like that for a person to do doesn't mean and that is one of the great misconceptions that many had about the assume that some kids will have those things with the promised land some have left or even the things that the Prophet sallallaahu Selim does, or had or has done, do they all constitute? The private is alive today I'm at a party in the middle of his head. He used to wear braids is that sooner because they have a part in the middle of it is where it breaks the understanding that not everything that the product is selling was characterized with or did is to be considered sooner, and that everything that he left means that a person has to

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leave them off. But that's another discussion for a different day we'll level the fact

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that it's kind of

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cool to be here.