The Need for Maturity

Sulaiman Moola

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The conversation discusses the potential for darkness and light to be the same, with the belief that they are the same. The believer's life is a life of satisfaction, with no discomfort or sadness, and is focused on achieving spiritual success. The conflict between the US and the Middle East is volatile, and the conflict has caused a divide between the two sides. The speakers emphasize the importance of luck and success in various aspects of life, including achieving fame, wealth, and success in relationships. They also discuss the need for luck and success, women who have successfully created their careers, and the importance of building momentum and staying true to oneself.

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terracotta Allah Philip Quran Illuma God will for Colonel Hamid Rudall bIllahi min ash shaytani R rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Lata did he learn Namaha youth de su BARDA, Lika Umrah Sadaqa Allahu Allah, the Honorable scholars, the respected brothers, elders, mothers and sisters, Allah subhanho wa Taala has referred to believe and the believer as a form of light, brightness and brilliance. And Allah has referred to disbelieve that this believer and this obedience as the type of darkness, um, helped us with valamar to one node, can light and darkness be the same? What if it was the same? What's the first word loadshedding.

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If light and darkness was the same, it can never be the same. Neither literally no, metaphorically, neither outwardly or figuratively. I'm helpless. The wind load Omar to one node. Allah subhanho wa Taala asked the question is light and darkness the same? We have understood, and more. So currently, the catastrophic implications of apparent darkness Wallah, we haven't understood the darkness of the heart.

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The darkness of the heart and the chaos and the mayhem This will bring about is far more than the apparent darkness. And I'm not saying we should not campaign to eradicate that. I was in West Africa a few months ago in Lagos for an Islamic conference. And my lecture was preceded by a panel discussion on Islamic finance. And that part of the world is quite advanced on Islamic finance if you're aware of that. And so while the panel discussion was in progress, there was a power outage. So I was sitting in the front line with fellow speakers and dignitaries, and one of the local to you, he just whispered in my ear. And he said sorry, share. You know, you're in West Africa, we have

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this power outage, but then you from South Africa, right? loadshedding I shouldn't be apologizing to you. That's exactly what he said. That's exactly what he said, I shouldn't be apologizing to you. I said, Yeah, pretty much that's the reality.

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So a believer has light in his life, brightness in his life. His character is luminous. And wherever he goes, he spreads a sense of goodness and brightness.

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And then Allah says the disbeliever and a life of disobedience is a type of darkness. So sometimes Allah says, Anoma overshare yet who can kita Amina Laney Mobley, Ma, there's so much darkness in their life. It's like a night has envelope them

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can let this stuff what was she up to, you know, fill out of the hyaluron Allah says it's like a person who has been misled by the demon and by the devil and he's bewildered in some wild place.

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I always say, Son can make you look happy, but only obedience will make you feel happy.

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Son can make you look happy. So a person lives in a dark light because of the fake lighting that he puts on

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It appears superficially he looks happy, he looks good. He looks in good wicked, but internally, he's depressed and he's miserable.

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When it comes to the apparent light and brightness, you can obtain it anywhere by year by they get solar get heat like this, get the generator, get the inverter, but when it comes to divine light, Allah says, Woman lamea Jaramillo Hello.

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From Allah home in the divine light, you can only obtain it by me.

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There's no other place where a person can get this night other than Allah subhanho wa taala. And the DUA that the pious will make on the day of the Yama May Allah make us from amongst them

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at noon, Lana, new Rana will fill over like complete this light for us. Perfect this light for us, enhanced this light for us, while the Manasi team will have some form of apparent light, and then it will be extinguished. Now it is part of this, Iman. And this luminous life of the believer that it translates into a life of happiness and bliss. The life of obedience translates into a life of happiness. When I say happiness, it doesn't mean that that individual will not experience difficulties. No, no, he surely will experience difficulties, but his life will be objective, meaningful and productive. And one of the first manifestations of this Divine Light is maturity in

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that individual.

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And that's the focus of my talk today. A believer who's obedient to Allah, his life will be wholesome, meaningful, and he will be mature, calculated, circumspect, wise, methodical in everything that he does. While a life of sin is a life of naivety, silliness, foolishness and insanity. So in chapter three juice three, Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks about the miracle of Satan. Isa Alayhis Salam, and Allah says, where you can limo nurse a pill man with the word cannula. That is our alayhis salaam will speak to people from the cradle, in a crib, in his infancy, and he will also speak to people in his advanced age.

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What made a Saudi in and he will be from amongst the noblest of people and undoubtedly the NBR or the purest of Allah's creation. Just reflect over the richness of deduction from one portion of the year. So Allah is speaking of the miracle of Essanay Salam, keep focus. Allah says He will speak in his infancy understood, that's a miracle. That's amazing. Then Allah says He will speak in his advanced age Kehilla beyond the 30 mark.

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The Scholars say why has Allah highlighted speaking in his advanced age, because everybody speaks at that part of their life? That's not a miracle. That's common. That's right. That's average that everybody speaks. But Subhanallah what's the wisdom and this is mentioned in biannual Quran. The reason for highlighting the point that Satan, Isa will speak in his infancy and his advanced age is to impress the point that his speech as an infant will be as calculated as a matured adult speeches.

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So if a baby prior to the milestone of speaking, were to speak, even if he blurts nonsense, in some capacity, it's strange, it's unique. It's two months old, he is blurting he's making words he doesn't construct a sentence grammatically correct but in two months is not the age to speak.

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But Allah said he Sahlins salaam will speak as a child, and he will speak in his advanced age, meaning his speech as an infant will be as coherent and as refined as an adult is.

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Sadly, we have a scenario where people are in the advanced age and they speak in baby language.

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Actually, it's an insult sometimes the kind of language they love.

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is worse than what a baby would speak

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In, how condescending, how derogatory, how inflammatory how you know, distasteful how repugnant it is

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a believer whose life is obedient, the manifestation of that is in everything of his life, he becomes a very matured person. He's not impulsive, he's not irrational. He's not naive. He's not, you know, hasty is a very, very calculated person.

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The second deduction there.

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Allah said, Satan, our Isa was speaking his advanced age, and he was razed to the heavens before he reached advanced age. So that portion of the higher is actually giving an indication to the second arrival of Isa Alayhis Salam, La ilaha illallah

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the Latin Allah no Zuli Raisa because Allah said is our speak in his advanced age and at the age of 33. According to Surrey bin Salman bin Musa Brahim Allah He was

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elevated and raised to the heavens that's the age the preferred age given. So when would advanced age take place? That means when he will come down on the second time

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so a believer in his speech is very refined. You are Nabil yo J Hill kuffaar Our mo Naviti in a walk Look at him. Chapter nine just 10 Verse 73, Allah subhanho wa Taala addressing the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, O Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam beasts turn on the Mona fitteam workflow. In order to be it is written, sternness here means don't give the Mona 15 leniency in the commands of Allah

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because they claim to say they're Muslims. So in the tenets of the deen don't give them leniency. Furthermore, Paul to be and as mentioned in medieval Quran was the sole reference follow what he's written.

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For to be rights, that sternness here has nothing to do what harsh speech?

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Because Islam does not approve harsh speech in any way with any human whatsoever

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because this is against the preferred character of the MBR Allah says that the MBR will never harsh they will never stern they will never, you know hard hearted in any way. Then with the Shafi Rahim Allah writes in Merrifield Quran. It is sad and unfortunate that the harshness of speech is something that Islam does not tolerate with the most rigid and hostile disbeliever yet many contemporary Muslims will not bat an eyelid to use that language against fellow Muslims.

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It doesn't end there please read it in metaphor Quran he says not to mention those who will congratulate themselves for using condescending language against another Muslim as a service to the deal

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do me a favor go read it

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Yeah,

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I'm saying is are A salaam as a child will speak like an adult. Today we become adults or we think we're adults. We are learned or we think we learn it. We are scholars or we think we scholars but this is how we stoop and this is how we behave.

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Allah Masha Manny says it's so amazingly where Allah tells the prophets Allah Allah isn't working with Allah him and piston on the monopoly. He says Allah told the whole Ummah be soft, Allah told the whole Ummah learn softness, and the reason was so soft. So Allah told him be a bit stern also.

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Allah told the Prophet salallahu Assam be a bit stern because of his soft nature.

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So a believer in every approach of his life and as I progress and I discuss in sha Allah, sin, sin is a sign of Allah refers to it as naivety, foolishness, Insanity, in Matoba, to Allah Allah Illa de Enya Melona So a b Junga. Allah says

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mulawa erotica Milea you need to be luckily Jaha Latin, Allah has referred to the indulgence of a crime as an act of ignorance. What is the definition of foolish The Word Appears in the hadith of Sahih Muslim and The Linguist then unpack it. May Yamano Maria Ngauruhoe Maha Remi he before before he any person who indulges in something knowing very well that this is harming me this is a fool.

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By that definition every one of us every day when we look in the mirror, I'm afraid we're looking at fools.

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Imam Buhari makes mention of a narration in an audible move right, and Imam Ahmed Rahmatullah Allah has also made mention of it.

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That once the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sent a message to Amarula house or the Allahu Anhu and he said who the alayka Thea Bucha was ALLAH haka from Dini that take on your clothes, and your armor and then come to me? For a day two, he says, I tired myself, I cleared myself, I took my

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armor, my weapons and I came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam first what are the three year Nebra He then gave me a penetrating glance, a strong glance at towards me for some other failure Nebra from Matata then he dropped his blessing to head down. Then he said to me,

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Oh, I'm gonna be in us in a hurry to another Africa Allah Jason. I want to dispatch you as the army as the leader of one army. J shoes. Sorry, Yeti that is Salah. Syl the army of that to Salah said I told him I'm Buhari has made mention of it in other volume of run for you suddenly mocha Allah what you learned mocha will come in al Maliki rock button, Salah Hatton, and I'm optimistic you will be victorious in this expedition. And Allah will return your safe and Allah will give you a handsome booty Allah will give you handsome booty.

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So immediately Amarula answer the Allahu Anhu responded by saying only be of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I have not accepted Islam Rafa button Phil Mal, hoping for well, while I kidney Islam to Rafa button. I accepted the deal, hoping for reward and the pleasure of Allah.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, now I'm Alamelu Sally who were robbed Julius Solea blessing is well, in the hands of a pious man, the hadith of Muslim labasa Bill Zina Luminita Allah azza wa jal there's no harm for well, if a man feels Allah subhanho wa Taala do not complain treble the East and the West. Allah says Artina hoomin coalition in Sabah we blessed him with all amenities and resources. harkaman alma mater mentioned in Messiah will also look under this ayah Fetullah Latin Allah and nakasu Lal mal Hetal hasa in Soleil Jha, the Sultan Allah you will come out the ayah indicates the acquisition of wealth to the extent of an empire and the acquisition of prominence to

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the extent of kingship, does not go against the station of nobility and piety. Sedna Musa alayhis Salatu was Salam when he came to Meridian, and he offered water and he took the flock from the two daughters of Shai Valley in his salaam, and then he sent them off, he assisted them aided them and powered them, assisted their vulnerability and sent them off

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when they got home early, so the father said Ma Jana kumbaya Binti, you came home very early, oh, my daughters. They said no, there was a very kind man who was very gracious towards us. So the father said my accent tomorrow, will you know, if somebody has been kind and he's a stranger, at least you can show some form of respect, appreciation, acknowledgement and reciprocation, reflect over this amazing deduction that I came across, and I just want to share one point and I'll continue on what I was saying. So then one of the daughters come to say that I Musa alayhis salam to say that my father is calling you to compensate you. And of course the Quran and capsulate her walk, profiling her

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bashfulness for Da

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da Homer, Dungey Isla Steph.

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So one of them came almost riding a conveyance of modesty walking on bashfulness

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in a be at the root

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I just read this recently.

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lately and I was just blown away La ilaha illAllah. In a B, Ro can the GSD aka Jarama SATA italiana. So this is an interaction between a strange woman and a strange man. There is a compelling reason for communication. It's absolutely formal and platonic. The modest line is not been crossed, reflect over the choice of words from this modest daughter, when inviting the strange man unknown, that soon he will become my spouse and my partner, she said in a be a de Ruka a snake that did dark water Illa A B ha.

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La ilaha illAllah. She didn't say I am calling you because I'm calling you can be exploited by a lot of imaginary thoughts. My dad is calling you so that any form of unpleasantness could be put to bed.

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In the epi room, Leah Dizzy Jeremiah Sakai, Diana, Nana was alleged to have been Jazza May Allah yet McAfee Konami Ray,

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and she said the reason my dad is calling you is to compensate you for your act of kindness. So she was explicit that I'm an EN, boy, my dad wants to meet with you. So there's no room, of course, Musa Salam was the nobleness of the noble, but you see the learning at biases we get from this interaction. And that's the beauty and the practical nature of Islam. It recognizes and accepts that there is times where we need to communicate, but how modest our communication ought to be. That's maturity. That's maturity.

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then furthermore, I don't want to go into all the details. When he comes to home and then she proposes to her dad, why don't we employ him? Again, there's a reflection here. So she says to her father is the general hope. Oh my dad, maybe this is a man we want to employ.

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Now she did not say this mentioned in Bulaga in biannual Quran, she said La Ilaha illa Allah La ilaha illa Allah is de Ruvo Oh my dad employ this man in Nevada Iran minister, Java telco when you will. I mean, the best employee is one who is strong and honest. She did not say is generally a man at work of what he employ him. He's very honest, and is very strong, because she avoided a direct compliment to a strange man. La ilaha illAllah La ilaha illa Allah at this was the purest of the pure, I know my vulnerability, you know your vulnerability. If a strange woman were to acknowledge me or I would to complement, the lines get blurred. Automatically, the last overpowers the modesty

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is crossed over Waha balule muddy him in the mirror. And this is the greatest form of praise that a woman could direct to a strange man that employ him. You know why a good person to employ is an honest man and a strong man, indicating he has it both Subhanallah

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so when she came to invite Satan or Musa that my dad is calling you and my dad wants to compensate you musalla someday that's a no no, no, you know, I don't sell my virtues.

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Some people sometimes they fly they fly over Janet

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by the way, you're gonna you're gonna take it easy by the news beautiful. See what's mentioned that it biannual Quran Hakeem Aloma in a tabula rasa way back the family is Adam Yakunin. Binya de la UniFi leafless

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the acceptance of compensation or remuneration, for an act of birth you will not invalidate your sincerity when your action was not motivated by that act of return.

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In a kabuki the acceptance of a token of a gesture or

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Have an acknowledgment of a compensation of remuneration in a couple we will be back

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after the execution of the action, either the MIA Cooney Lama lupini

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when the action was not motivated by compensation Musa Alison didn't do it for that law you know Phil isn't us doesn't go against the station of sincerity said no Musa Ali Salam was still come my dad wants to compensate us like no no no he went along

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May Allah grant us the correct understanding of the deen is not what I think and what you think.

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So anyway, that's the class of Satan Muhammad Abdullah the Allahu Anhu the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sends him and he is made the Emir and the leader of that to sell ourselves.

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After a period of time the Prophet sallallahu wasallam had sent some reinforcement and who did he send? He sent about Aveda being Jara Jara, the Allah man who were in the mail was sudden Madhu Allah the barista who rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, BTi deti abhi obey the terminal jolla

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when the help and the aid and the contingency that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam sent through abroad or by either being Jarrah as a reinforcement, to the expedition of that to Salah sail, a little argument arose in the midst of the campaign.

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And it was on the verge of getting a bit more unpleasant. When Abu Zubaydah Ben Giraffa the Allahu Anhu just nipped it in the bud. maturity, maturity, vision, fortitude, rise above one smarter

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so it was the time of Salah. So Arada about obey data a customer

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about Obeidallah, the alarm went forward to lead the people in Salah. This narration appears in albida one Neha, there is some weakness in the chain of narration, though it is the Hadith and it is mentioned even though Kathy has made mention of it in Elpida, and that's what I've read it

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so it's a time of Salah, the leader of the army was known as the conqueror of Egypt, great giant companion, Aveda bin Jarrah, or the Allahu Anhu

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in the liquid Leon Mateen Amina Amina Helene Aveda, each nation prides themselves for an honest and trustworthy person. We pride ourselves with Abu Zubaydah being Jarrah so now there's a little difference of opinion. Abu Zubaydah wants to lead this congregation, American and US wants to lead are the Allahu Anhu Mr. Samaras will answer the Allahu Anhu Omar said lay silica and money. Respectfully I think I am here and I am leading and I am the Emir of this army and you have come as an reinforcement. So, you know, you cannot lead me I am in charge and arrangements are in place.

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Where Mr. Kadeem dalla Yama didn't.

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You have just come as a reinforcement? So the MaHA Jillian said no Amuro as hubback Wahoo Amira as hobby no Amarula through the Allah Allah, you are the Emir of your group. And he's the Emir of his group. So I'm going to answer the Allahu Allah whom I said, No, no, I am the accepted Amelia and you have come here as a li enforcement. So let's not disrupt arrangements for Allah Mara abou obey data if the lava what kind of Hassan Al hood, okay, lejana Tubbercurry, about arbeta Adnet Giraph realize it's become insensitive. It's becoming volatile. It's becoming volatile. What kind of Hassan holophane legging in a Tubbercurry he was easygoing he was soft natured, and salute clamor OBrien is

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he was a great giant legendary companion Radi Allahu Allahu Allah. He said letter to my in a letter to my armor be be relaxed, be relaxed, we are a year in an expedition and we are fighting a common enemy if we do not allow this unity in our range, we will be fighting amongst ourselves

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and the issue happened with regards to the leader in Salah, let that my inner These are the words of Budaya letter to my inner be relaxed while Attalla mana and let me give you this comfort and the Althea Rama Hida in a Euro Sula, his son Allahu alayhi wa sallam and is at the team Tala Sotheby fatawa one out of 35

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The last words with which the newbie of Allah left me. He said when you meet up, they mutually cooperate with each other and don't create this unity in the ranks. And I want to assure you, those words of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will live with me and I will step back and you will lead me in Salah and I'm happy to accept you as the Imam I have quelled this year. This issue has now been resolved and it has been put behind us and we're moving forwards laquered Draka Abu Zubaydah and Dylan Finn banal Muslimeen feel sweaty sorry Yeti that is colossal. You di ll fashion warming tomato. Hello Paul I do with him when he heard that sarara Illa in his RV, one vomit June de

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Yun TAFTA in Marathi, I'm originally asked him to suddenly Amory Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the vision, the maturity the fortitude

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of Abu Zubaydah was that if I'm going to allow this to slip any further, it's going to become into a full blown feud between our ends. And then this will be exploited by our enemy, and they will thrive and exploit and of course create a gap and a gulf and get an over an upper hand over us.

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Imagine my brother and imagine my sister, you sitting down to wind up the estate of your late father. And now there's a discussion here and one asset has come into discussion. And already there is now to cancel. No, no, no, no, no, I know Papa gave this to him. I was there. Okay. Do you have a title deed? Do you have it? No, no, no, no, I know. I know. No, no. Who you to say okay, okay. Okay. You can already see the siblings are getting divided here. Either it's gonna take some wisdom and maturity to quote no problem, but perfect. If that's what you feel Alhamdulillah I've got no issues. You take the car, it's yours. You give it to your child. I'm I'm happy with it. Unfortunately,

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today, it's this lack of maturity from the so called intellectuals from the so called wise people within our community who made up the cabinet of Omar who made up the cabinet, Colonel Corrado, Colonel Corrado, it was the learned people who formed the cabinet of Amara, the Allahu Anhu Gu Liang chi No Oh, Shabana

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COO,

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COO Lanka, hello, Shabana, whether they were young or old. It was those that were wise and learn it. And wisdom was what you said. in English. They say you are only young ones, but you can be immature indefinitely.

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You are only young ones, but you are immature you can be immature indefinitely. We need wise people. We don't need old people.

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Old age ought to be synonymous towards them not anymore.

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It was the vision, the fortitude, the maturity of Satan or Abu Zubaydah. Ignite Jara Jara, the Allahu that rescued the situation. Imam Buhari makes mention of the narration.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam appoints three leaders.

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Three leaders in the campaign of muda

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Zaid in patella Zaidan foreign input Farooq Abdullah first Hydra the Allahu Anhu would be the Amin and after Zadara the Allahu Anhu

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would be judged for being a be Italian and exactly geographically it's in present a Jordan Zadara the Allahu Anhu was assassinated. And then Jaffa the brother of Allah the Alana the cousin of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam he became the leader. Ya have basil Jana tuatara booyah by the button. nwaba Returning Shara Booyah, we're rumo rumen Danna

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Godsey Rattenbury, that and Sabu. Ali in Lahti to have the Robbo ha today we get every fragrance but the fragrance of Jana we get every scent but the scent of Jana we get every aroma but the aroma of Jana, sir

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Abba would often say I'm getting the aroma of Jana

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Jana, Jana to apathy Robbo ha the yet button to Abba written Sharapova war room room and Diana. Boo ha. Oh Jana how beautiful you are, how splendid you are, how awesome you are, how inviting you are, how wholesome you are.

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And then Jaffa the Alon who passed away and then Abdullah bin Rama Hara the Alana was made the leader and then he passed away cup and Malika the Allah knows poetry is amazing. What did then I Lana Farrell again at the Tarboro Yeoman bee muda what didn't watch then as a fun host none. I lament I cry over the stall warts and the Giants and the soldiers that fell on the campaign and not the feel of muda geographically like I told you in Jordan, I had the opportunity to visit the site of muda a few times Al Hamdulillah.

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Photography,

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photography comm rule money rule the fact that there was some so called the cassava to occur, the fellow said, looking at the death of these people, even the sun Eclipse, even the moon lost its brightness. This is the kind of caliber of these people that have passed on when these three Sahaba passed on.

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And the banner fell.

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Sup it's been Utrom been Allah Allahu Anhu in the expedition went to pick up

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the banner and the flag

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lay under supporter Leia mana who has a metal Jamish because when the ban falls, it means you know what the Army has been defeated. So he immediately picked up the banner

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and he said to the people listen, we've lost our three leaders appointed by an abyssal Eliasson as is not either Buhari which I just quoted to you.

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So you're Muslim in Italy Hola. Hola. Rajani Minko please one of us except position yet we need leadership here the Nabhi of Allah Tala St. Ze, Jaffa, and Abdullah bin roba. And all three have passed on. If our flag is down, these people will think we are defeated. So I've just picked it up. If it was anybody else, I picked it up first.

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I picked it up. Yeah, first come first. Good luck, tough luck.

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Vision maturity. There's a greater cause. It's not me. It's serving the greater Oma. It's rising above. It's not being petty.

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Yamato several Muslim in Italy originally Minko are Muslims except somebody's leadership. So they said the banner is in your hands. You keep it? He said no, no, no, no, no. The only reason I picked it up was so that the enemy needs to know we are alive and we active. We not done we have an abandoned mission.

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So I took the banner. And I went to Khalid bin Walid. And I said who deliver a Yabba Sulaiman who deliver Salah Eman? Can you imagine the strength you got three giants that have fallen? The battle is still in progress. And it's the debate of negotiating. And here you have started dipping thrombin Salah rising to the moment embracing the benefit going forward to Khalid bin Walid Khalid bin Walid is the Muslim only for three months at this stage.

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Harlequin will either the Alana is a Muslim for only three months for the liver, Aya Suleiman Abu Sulayman please take the banner and under your leadership will we advance the cause?

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So jalapeno either the Allahu Anhu says wala Hila who the who and I have to behave? How can I take it? And Taraji alone Luca Sinmun you are older than me. You're a Muslim before me foccacia hit the veteran. You're a veteran of butter

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subid been after ombre the Alonso said Wallah Hema alpha to Allah Allah. By Allah I took it to give it to you.

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This is maturity

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Leanna, Elia he assefa You Leeton fie the Allah Marilla Allah

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What the hell accent What periapical Muslim in terms of capability and efficiency and competency probably forbid when Akron was more capable, given the battles he fought, given how experienced he was. But he knew there was a man who had talent in this field. He's a warrior of note, notwithstanding the fact that he's a Muslim for three months. It's an act of injustice for me to seek a platform when we have people with more talent in this field.

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Today, we are holding our platforms, people have passed their best before date.

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They've passed the best before date.

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Joven Allah mcConathy him as the idea were in tears that the Mushaf sia what marry him at dunya we

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but for whatever reasons they clutching on to it.

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Maturity is you delegate you appoint you have succession plans, because it's not you it's not me. It's the deen of Allah that will continue. Its we are here for a period of time we need to hand over. I had a period somebody else needs to come on.

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What what examples can we give to the political world and say how long people are sitting there and the type of autocrats when we look at our very organizations, I'm afraid.

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Say Plaza que la salaam make dua to Allah. The point I'm saying is from the inception of my talk, the life of a believer is the life of light, brightness. He spreads light when that man talks, it's just luminous. It just there's a catalyst it just attracts you to stimulate you just motivates you. This maturity this vision, the way he comes across the how calculated he is.

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There is no naivety childishness of foolishness in Him.

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That is part of the teachings of the Buddha said as I carry Ali salaam made dua to Allah what was the blood to Allah he made? He said, Oh, Allah blessed me with a child.

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Right and this is when he was in his advanced age, and his wife was of course barren. And then Allah blessed him. And there's something so amazing mentioned yet let me share this as well.

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So in Rohan, Barney it is written Hoonah comas Allah tan, these two reflections here. And the callable wanted la UniFi as asking Allah for children is not against the station of piety

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because they get Ali Salam is the noblest of Allah's creation. And he said Allah give me a child. Number two, unless so Allah Musa Bibi Meenal as barbil berita de la you enough in other

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to ask Allah for something, which apparently logically is the remote is not disrespectful, because Allah has total powers.

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So secondarily Salam was over 100 Watt Bella terminal Kibera pretty young, I had reached my old age in its most advanced form. My wife was my wife is bad and she's old and is asking Allah for a child. So rueful man he says, we learned from this to ask Allah something that logically it's not possible. Is that disrespectful then how can you ask this? Is nothing Yeah.

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It's impossible for you to get this no, you can ask.

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Well, according to Phil Gula. Let's see Yama in the kernel of Horace Houdini, La ilaha illAllah. And to ask Allah for children.

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All the more is good, great, wonderful rewarding when the motivation of the children is so that they can continue the legacy of D.

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Now reflect here.

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Zachary Ali Salatu was Salam said, Oh Allah, we're in a stiff Tolima Walia, mu Ah.

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I look at my cousin's here, and I don't find anyone capable to take the Dean after me.

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So please give me a child who's noble and pious, and I can hand him over the Amana delegate make him my successor, and he can carry on with this beam.

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Hakimullah Omar raises an amazing question here.

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Both these things asking Allah for a child first let me mentioned this

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asking Allah for a child when you pass the 100 year mark. Outwardly is strange, but in the power of Allah, it's absolutely perfect and easy Allah's intention is existence. So when Zakaria was asking Allah for something which was logically apparently remote, why did he not then rather ask Allah these cousins of mines give them Hidayat.

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These cousins of mines that I don't trust them to take this Deen forward. They're not capable. They're not responsible. How many times I've known of people who got empires.

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The one man said, said my son, he will smoke my whole empire to the ground.

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He said My other son, he'll gamble it to the ground.

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Those were his words.

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I told him buy, give it in charity. Now then this is your money. Others when you die, it is it belongs to others. This is the time that Allah is giving you the chance.

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So Hakeem Aloma says the reason why he did not ask Allah for the guidance, I mean, he must have continuously asked Allah that guide them. But why did he opt for a successor as a child? Because a person who lived a wayward life even when he reformed himself, and then he stands up, people might still point fingers to say, You know what, your garment is stained? So Oh, Allah blessed me with a child who's noble from inception. So when he stands up as an ambassador of Deen, nobody can tarnish his reputation

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and that tells our youth those of you that are young and early and juvenile and fresh, Allah has given you this good time. Allah has given you this wholesome time. Keep your slate clean, keep your slate pure.

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Why tainted? Why blemishes we've blemished ourselves unfortunately May Allah forgive us

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in the Zackary, I can assure you hon Wakanda Morris Shaden fella Amara Amara Harakat behavior

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for Tala min rugby, Wellington hearty tea and Yakumo Mata Mojave diet in nurse so he was a leader and a mentor. And part of his mentorship was to transfer this Amana onto his successor. So he said oh Allah bless me with a child who's Noble who can continue this legacy. And then what do I be tied it to yerba della Allah annalistic love min SHA ha ha ha the his suffer. Lama hydrocone him into reata hiddenness a via the fact that he said Allah gives me pious children means we need pious people to inherit, to embrace to transmit, to accept and take the legacy forwards. May Allah bless us with such successes.

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Abdullah bin Abbas Radi Allahu Allah Muhammad comes and spends the night by Maimunah Radi Allahu anha

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he's aren't the enemy of Allah, Allah Allah Allah Allah was sending me sleeping. The young boy, the word golem indicates that he was still not at the threshold of puberty, maturity, maturity.

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So he says the nappy of Allah is going to get up to perform nocturnal prayer. Let me arrange water. So he arranges the water and he puts it at the side of the door where the navy of allah sallallahu wasallam will relieve himself. So when the peace Allah is and finds the water, he uses the water and he says man, what are Alma who placed the water? So you will stone it is Abdullah bin Abbas the young boy, so Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam make dua for him. Allah Houma Allah mahalo kita O Allah, teach him the knowledge of Quran and grant him the understanding grant him fit. grant him jurisprudence grant him understanding comprehension. If you read Mooney, who was one of the great

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scholars of Hadith, he says the nibio of Allah could make any dua for him. Why did the Nebby of Allah make dua for understanding Allah and the hands he's understanding?

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You know, is Allah and Muhammad Muhammad Ahmed, Ahmed Jana Jana comma giorno.

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Even homage Bo OG

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You get some type of people that were ever you send them unfortunately you know what brace yourself for disappointment.

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I innama you are G hula TBSA

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a nama yoga G hula at the highest. Wherever you direct him, he won't bring good news, reflect over maturity

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reflect over maturity.

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Recently I was invited at madrasa to know and may Allah bless the efforts of all Allahu Akbar Allah

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for the hokhmah Buhari, so I was invited as the guest speaker. So, my colleague, Melinda hits I have is a senior who starred that he was saying to me, that you will observe that one of the challenges we have with visually impaired people, that often they are devoid of many basic etiquettes of life.

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And the reason for that is so much of etiquettes a process through sight. Now you got to understand they don't see so they don't know how to set. They don't know the posture. They don't know which way to face, they don't know how to appear, because all this is processed through the eye. There's so much through the urine. There's so much through the smelling, there's so much through touch, but a great chunk of our etiquettes is process through vision. So those things which are almost rudimentary elementary basic for us, in their case, its absence because the visually impaired now if Allah has given us sight, yet we're not processing it. Then Allah is saying Paul Hellyer ster will

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ACMA will proceed? Is the blind and the sighted the same or not? Surely not because the site has the opportunity to process

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so even though Imani here in football, Barry This is mentioned. He says the reason why the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa seldom make dua for intelligence and understanding and comprehension to be conferred upon Ibn are abuzz, because the young boys action was a reflection of his maturity. He said, In all probability, the young boy bro says one of three options, I can either take the water and go into the area where the prophet of Allah is relieving himself. But then that might be an invasion to his privacy. I might be encroaching on his private space, or yoga or who an L bar or leave it at the door which he subsequently did. Allah your file che or just leave him and as he

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would do daily and leave it to that he opted for the second one, because in that way, he will be serving the Prophet of Allah without infringing on his privacy.

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Who you don't know Allah, the CA aka Allah robbed me min Siva de cine finance Saba yet the ruler who beat the * buoy. So the action of this LED was the testimony to his intelligence, despite his tender age. So the Prophet of Allah said, Oh Allah, the wisdom and the comprehension and the maturity that he has double it and multiply it many folds. And that then became the catalyst which propelled him to the height of becoming the unanimous father of the FCC.

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I always speak about Java Radi Allahu Anhu.

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That when he got married, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said to him, Gabby, did you get married to someone young? He said, No, I got married to someone senior. And the words of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam we know Hala Daria tend to La Doha. What to LA? What to the hecho? Ha what? Why not someone young, who could sport with you and you could sport with her who could amuse you and you could amuse her who could entertain you and you could entertain her. And he said the Halacha be I'm addressing my youth out here halacha I'd be my dad passed away. Tara Casa Abernathy, he left behind seven daughters for carrito and a G A Hoon Nabi Mr. leakin I wanted a young girl that was my dream. That

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was my, my fantasy. That was my desire.

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But I had seven girls in the House Seven Sisters, and I didn't want to bring another sister here and they are eight girls playing together. So I decided to rise above my personal need of a young wife

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because I needed someone to take care of my sisters and my siblings.

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The other man right, we're fee for the Latin Lee Jabir, the maturity of Java and his virtue. Hi sohara Julian has wah wah who are a ruse. He participated in the expedition while he was newlywed number one. Number two we learn from the SIA that fee he fought the low Jabil were etha Robo muscley how to must be hard to guna Allah have been FC he that he gave reference to the need of his sisters over himself.

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What he fit the metal mirror at Lee annually Zoji ha. And we also find in this narration the basis for a woman to serve the extended family of her spouse, I must qualify it. It's not mandatory, it's not obligatory, it's not compulsory, it's meritorious. I always say marriage is not by the book, you know what you clock in you clock out sometimes you need to go the extra mile for your wife's family. Sometimes she needs to go the extra mile. But leave the story of Jabir leave the story of Jabil who opted to get married to a matured woman for the interests

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of his sisters. We have the youth of today who are so childish, and so selfish and so foolish, regardless of what they age might actually be that many children today have become obstacles in the subsequent marriages of their parents after one spouse moves on.

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This is just hogwash.

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Please make dua want to get married. So I said mashallah, brother. Go ahead. No, my daughter said is no need for you to get married. What?

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You cannot serve your dad. You don't serve your mum. And when she needs to get married, suddenly you the children come in the way to say mommy, there's no need for you to get married. When your mom closes the door at night. And it's that loneliness. Are you addressing that debt loneliness? Paula saying

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we initially had an issue where parents were stopping the children. But now the immaturity and naivety has reached such a point. Children are becoming recently I know the late husband was very good friend of mines roughly Mohalla. And about 15 years later, now his wife wants to move on. And on either of the side, there's one particular you know, parent, the children have just created. No, no will boy God we won't allow this. And this has become a blockage. When I spoke to that person, he says they don't visit me they don't do for me when I want to get married, that is no need for you to get married in 1990. We're in La Jolla la Jehan.

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And maybe on this topic, I think I need to also touch on something. And I know I'm going to ruffle feathers here.

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But I think it is something that we need to be discussing.

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And that is the extent of Zina that is taking place in our society.

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Coupled with that the number of sisters that are unmarried. We live in a time in a society where there's an active campaign to D stigmatize every passion, every inclination, and every orientation, but polygamy.

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We live in a time in a society where there is a passion and a campaign to de stigmatize every inclination, every orientation. It's my natural, I'm entitled, it's my right, it's intrinsic. But polygamy

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leave the rest and the West. Polygamy is stigmatized by the Muslim.

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Polygamy is stigmatized by the religious Muslim

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It's such a taboo, that if you talk of it also it's a taboo.

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That's our society.

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I'm not here to advocate or encouraged to say take a second wave. I'm saying to you, if you are in Xena give it up immediately. I'm saying to you, my sister, if your husband is in Xena, you have the full light to end that relationship. Islam doesn't expect you to remain in a relationship. When your husband is committing Zina you are you have your total right to end to walk out to end that relation. But if the man is in Nica, then understand the context of the understand the context of the people will say

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he's done it out of lust.

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And the immediate answer is what was the first marriage for

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the fact that somebody gets married, is the sign that he feels Allah.

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Whether we fallen short in the full execution of the deen is a separate thing. My point is, we need to rise. We need to get smarter. We can't continue in that same old pattern and fashion. If we won't stop the NT campaign, and we won't stop the stigma against it. Then what would happen one mime in the house of Allah Wallah, I'm in the house of Allah. There are so many sisters that message and email and waiting for proposal. Nothing has come. People tell me no, you know what you do dry you need to market yourself better. How insensitive can people be you need to market yourself betterman

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You're not smart enough. This is this is She just broke down and the call just ended because I cried.

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So we don't embrace the system of polygamy which is legislated by the teachings of Islam. phunki Houma tabela Komenda Nyssa a Medina was Allah Azza wa roba Allah subhanaw taala speaks about it. You note in Zina, Alhamdulillah be happy be content be satisfied. But if a person is indulging in forbidden and the Haram now. Now sometimes you're in a scenario,

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Sister okay, what's the issue? No, all I want my husband. He must be honest with me.

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Okay, brother, be honest. Do you have feelings for the sister? Yes, I do have feelings for her. And I want to marry her. No, you cannot do this to me. Don't ever say this. Okay, I don't have billions for I don't want to marry.

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Okay. Are you speaking the truth? No, I'm not speaking the truth. Don't lie to me. Help me my brother. Help me.

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Help me.

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Don't hurt your first wife don't hurt anyone. I am saying there was haram banking, conventional banking. I'll come to you Alhamdulillah we have dedicated contemporary jurists that have given us Islamic options that are compliant to the deen. We had institutions that were not palatable for Muslims. Alhamdulillah in some capacity, we've opened up schools, Zina is happening wholesale. You don't have to find Islam has given you the option.

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Islam has given you the you don't have to tailor make any package

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we need to rise. We need to come out of our narrow bickering. We need to look with the deeper I am the mature I wear anymore I don't half at mean barely her no shoes and oh Robin finale tuna Allah Hema Usili ha ha was so high love with muhabba again, I'm saying again I will say you know our society is such that Solomon Mala is talking of polygamy, I don't know. No, no, you don't know anything. I got no plans. But

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that that's how our mentality is. I'm only talking on every level in our community, that desperate need to grow to evolve to mature to become smart.

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Our society I know the person who made Nika

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who made Nika, and he said the stigma of society made me feel that Xena was better.

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Our society

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It will make a man look like he became Mirtha

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you became Mirtha

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phunki Houma. tabela Kamina Nyssa a Messina was sold out of Aruba fi. us those will bill my Baja well XR minha were in the hopper three, the Minnehaha one the Humala Mia confy a frog two out of three twin Leigh UniFi Zoda well Amanda they yourself will Ephrata with the free as well as La Mola who is our Padre baru remain ha.

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If you are limiting yourself to one you will not come Alhamdulillah best great, wonderful. Allah gives you all the years of happiness.

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But if you are indulging in forbidden then my brothers stay away from this. And my sister, you have the option when your husband is doing the wrong, but if he's doing the right, so our society is no he got married, but at least he could tell his wife first. Okay, he come and tell his wife, how can you tell your wife a thing like just getting married?

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Okay, now look at your father. He goes and get married to someone so young.

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Okay, now I'm so young he ends up marrying someone that's nearly double my age. Yeah, Allah which way? You know, there's a friend of mines. He says, I tell my wife every time I say my darling, Yuma Aisha, isn't she said no, no, no, no, I'm not your Aisha. I am your Deja. I'm your Khadija. So I say okay, my love. You might say Deja. He said, Well, when Khadija was married to Naveen sesame had no other way.

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So I told her Yeah, but if Khadija had six children, I want more you said only to

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Allah give us more help. But what our partners, I'm saying, Let's not think for ourselves only. Let's think of our daughters and our sisters that are sitting alone. There are so many of our daughters that are getting married. And then within weeks and months, we're having to deal with situation where unfortunately this man doesn't have an inclination towards a woman.

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Yet Allah and a woman's NECA has been performed is there has been taken and then a few months later, suddenly this is the discovery or the revelation.

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And we are still caught up in our personal things. My message is grow up, rise up, it's not me and you it's a greater cause. It's a greater purpose. We are representing a greater OMA

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the nephew of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam returns from Jana Tripathi. I mentioned this often in my talks. I haven't seen a more childish version of adults, then quarreling couples.

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When you see couples quarrel, even children can be so children

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it's unbelievable how childish they become. How silly How petty How foolish.

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There was a brother who had phoned me the parents are separated so he divided the Eat day. So he spent half by one parent half by the other. The one parent who got the second part of the day was angry that why the first half went to the mother. So the father is complaining to say that you gave me half you gave your mother hub but why your mother got the first half

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listen to this hadith maturity

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the nibio of Allah returned from genital bhakti

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and when he comes back are you started the Alana says we're under it to Sudan Pirazzi I had a splitting headache so I said wow wow.

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Oh my head is pain in my head is painting so the visa isn't set well and our PSA is actually not you you know what a headache I got you know what a headache I got it. Can you imagine for the newbie of Allah to say he has a headache knowing how patient and tolerant he was what that headache must have been.

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Yeah rasool Allah in Nicaragua can Shalida whenever you have Allah looks like you got heavy fever. Yes in new aku coma you are Akira Jelani mean can I get the same fever the two of us get so the Sahaba said yes, but you get the reward of two of us as well right to interview of Allah the visa some said a joke spot on spot on.

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Listen to the Hadith, authentic

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Oh I shot I got a headache

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only if you have a lover I have a headache

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now if it's us oh there your mother goes there your mother goes by Yeah, I guess even your back must be paying me now. Yeah

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look at in the PLA Salatu was Salam.

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Ma rakia Isha low mood capably man Castle took a coffin okay? So later i Leakey, the font Okay? Our Isha if it's fatal, and it's critical, and it's crucial and Allah has decreed that you go, is it not comforting for you? I'm behind you. I will arrange for the burial, but of course, for the coffin and lead your prayer. I'll put you in the grave. I'll cover you. I will be there and I'll pray for you.

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I started the Alana cell and what else will you do?

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Regeneration

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maybe some some said, Well, that's what I'll do. This there was of the Hadith. Laura Jakarta, Akira Leone Illa Beatty for the fee he'd be back during this hour.

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I got a feeling you will attend to all the rituals of burial bury me perform the prayer over me then towards the latter part of that same day may be in my house you will be intimate with one of your other wives.

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Salute to my mother I ishara the Allahu anha Wolfie he biannual Matthew Beata Allah hintsa, Amina Leila, Wolfie, he biannual notices where I need maturity from a man. I asked my sister, to be tolerant to be understanding. You know, my wife says something and I really appreciate this statement of hers.

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She says the whole challenge is, Allah has created a man with this desire of multiple women.

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And the reason for this is or the proof for this is that in Jana, one, Denzel will have every beauty so why will Allah reward a man with many?

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Ask yourself the question, because the one is not going to be that you know what? That one's eyes are better that one's walk is better, that one's features are better that one's complexion, no, no one will have everything. So why is Allah gonna give a man multiple?

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Because this is how Allah has designed. So this is his challenge. Then Allah has created us, my wife says, with this sense of pride, protection, obsession, envy, Ray era and jealousy. If you didn't have that need, there would have been no challenge. If you had that need, and we will not envious creatures, they would have been no challenge. But the challenge is the man is the need and woman I NBS and this is the challenge that Allah has put us in. This is the challenge that Allah has put us in and this was the perfect display of that quality in our mother I inshallah the Allahu anha. So then the appeal of Allah square a splitting headache. It comes from Jana to Bucky, his wife, Aisha,

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the Alana has a splitting headache, the discussion progresses it gets a bit emotional it starts featuring about death. The Nabil of Allah ends it on a note if you go before me my love and therefore you I comfort you, I'll do everything for you. And I inserted the Alana says, okay, point taken what what else after that love Balata ansira Yo, make more unreason. Be back Denisa. I think before the sunset, you will be intimate with one of your spouses. What was the maturity of our Habib son OLALIA was salam at that time? La ilaha illa Allah no human in the annals of history can display this other than Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. The narration says the reply the response to

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this statement of Aisha Radi Allahu anha. Mark my words. I didn't say provocation, as it statement. We talk with utmost respect. We're talking about our mother or Aisha Radi Allahu Anna, we're not talking of any ordinary woman, talk of my wife, your wife, me you we can say whatever you want to. I said the statement the sentiments the utterance of our mother are Aisha Radi Allahu anha. What was the response of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam for the past summer rasool Allah

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for the past summer school that we saw some smiles

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not sarcastic also, because that's another one.

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psychism No, no, not that psychism one. Have you said some

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Smile

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from a booty b What up and then the pain just started persisting, and it started getting louder. Look at his maturity. At that time. Your wife is going through an emotion. Just be patiently

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I said to one sister who was in a polygamous union. She says you know my hope is I really want to be very close to my co wife. I said no, no, no no Bo de uni but no, no. Bo de Univ. Anwar. No. In Gujarati they say don't become too good.

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You know me I want to be so close to my mother and look closer then mother and daughter

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Ambani, gaslight America.

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Just don't have hostility, that's good enough. Don't get too close. Keep it relaxed, keep it relaxed, and inshallah you will sustain it. Don't cross too much, because then you won't able to sustain it. Don't have enmity. Islam doesn't say you have to be absolutely together. As long as you don't say nasty things. And you don't you know what incite each other against each other. That's good.

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Look at the maturity of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.

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Our mother I said this year,

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he didn't say anything else. If my wife has to say something to me, that you, you don't want to be intimate, or you just have that thought of each woman knows her husband, and she'll make a comment or a remark, et cetera. How many of us can be calculated at that time? How many of us can be calculated? And I'm asking both.

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You know, you find yourself in that situation. My sister, your husband has another wife. Watch your words. Watch how you behave with that person.

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The Prophet sallallahu sallam said let's

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be back clean. We're Ibni he was

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a Opole Alka Elune. Our yet terminal motorman known. I have such a good mind of telling Abubakar to come here and his son, Abdul Rahman also to come here so that I can just appoint a boubakeur but it's okay. Allah won't allow anybody else to be appointed but Abu Bakr

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these other words, I have such a good mind. I have such a good mind to call Abu Bakr and his son Abdul Rahman here and then appoint Abu Bakr

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so that but it's okay, it's okay. Allah won't allow anybody else but Abu Bakr to be appointed.

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The Scholars say

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the Nabil of Allah was contemplating calling Abu Bakr to delegate the position of Khilafah to him. What was the need for him to incorporate the mention of Abu Bakar son Abdul Rahman.

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Why why? Look at the Hammam to an old sailor Illa Abeba Crinoid ebony here look at this young lady unelma Calm Allah Ilaha illa Allah understand maturity What did Amma I shot at the Alana tell nebulae salam after you bury me perhaps you would want to be intimate with one of your spouse's nebulae, salaam smile, you smile. This is the nature of a woman. Allah has made her like this. This is her envy. This is her pride. This is her era this is her decision. This is her obsession you as a man grow up

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now why did the newbie of Allah want to call up the rough man at this time?

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The unelma Karma matomo is the lamb at the Isha for Colonel Manoj Kumar and Umbra Muto Warden Illa a beaker gallican at Ma Ru we have Dorothy as eager for Akari boo ki Houma Hello maturity. The moment was very volatile, because the navy of Allah was going and he wanted to win the confidence of his wife, Aisha. So the reason of calling up the rough man was to indicate to her I want to appoint your father, and I want to consult with your brother, your family or those who influence my decisions.

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Can you imagine what that will do to the confidence and the self esteem of that woman

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if it was us and your wife makes that remark something that your brother come borrow my car now let your brother yeah yeah your father must must dream for a holiday now

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let me mention one two incidents and wrap up almost tomorrow the Allahu anha

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the hadith is in Buhari is the occasion of her day via right.

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And we know the hostility of the disbelievers were they denied the Muslims access for hombre and they were not allowed to make Omraam

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and so then to be of allah sallallahu Santos the Sahaba stand up and slaughter your animals and shave your hair and exit from the state of haram Mazzara.

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The state of the Haram in which you were denied access to the Kaaba,

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for them you're coming home and nobody stood up because of of anxiety because of sadness and hope of Ramadan.

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But Donna rasool Allah He said Allah Allah will send them Allah uma Sandman, the Prophet of Allah took refuge took shelter, took amnesty by his wife, almost Salema the hadith of Bokhari is talking to all his companions, there is an apparent lag, there's an apparent delay doesn't stand up, shaved slaughter exit, we're going back there's no Umbra and there isn't follow up. So he goes by almost cinema and he says almost Selma, this is what's happening. Look at her maturity, if it was any other person easily could exploit that. Well, the colors are exposed. Well, yeah, the biller see what's the reality, she understood, she appreciated. Look at her vision, look at a maturity. I'm asking

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you, my sister when your husband is coming in your lap, and he's falling on your shoulder. Do you have that fortitude? He had a long day. He was tired, he was exhausted. There's enormous financial pressure. The children are putting demands there's other issues going on in his life when he's coming home are you taking that burden off? Are you giving him vision are you relaxing him or not?

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Almost set him out of the Alana said to heck boy daddy, is that what you want to interview of Allah? The reason? Some said yes. She said okay, then exit and then

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slaughter your animal, to method Rohan. And then call the person to shave your head. And once they observe you doing they'll follow through and it's exactly as she directed the Prophet of Allah, then the view of Allah did and they followed Kay for us reject an ummah. Minal talathi Well, if the Rabi be the ca e ha. Through her vision and her maturity, she's selvages such a volatile situation.

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How often you're having an issue with your brother or your sibling, and if you go to your spouse, or vice versa, that thing gets more ugly more blown up. It is not by my house I'm telling you from now. Yeah. I always told you I had an issue with your brother. Now you got a problem with your brother good.

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No,

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it's blurred. It's obscured. We need vision. We need maturity we need someone to rise. You see what is Islam calling on? Islam is calling on me you put yourself in that situation. I say to you, my sister, you might be apprehensive towards a polygamous Union. But ask yourself for a situation where there is a widow and there is a divorce and see in our community how many sisters are sitting there

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who are seeking some source of protection, some sort of source of guardianship responsibility ask yourself if this was your situation, would you would you still wish other woman to be selfish?

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Or would that reverse your thinking? So Allah says when you shall Levine Allah Tala comin hunting him to return the earth and half for him.

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While we shall living in Hello Tara comin kullfi him during your turn

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for him had the Aslan Avi member Bill of love how you through unknown now your body lady Marla, your body enough say, Allah says that if some person has passed away and is left behind children deal with this children in the same manner as you would have loved society to deal with your children if your eyes closed down.

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If your eyes closed now and you sit sitting on your hospital bed, and it's going and you say, Oh man, my brother's got three houses. I wish my brother can just give one house to my wife and children. My family's house will be sorted out my nephew and then they got this business here. We can take my son in that business or that will be sorted out here. There's a lift club here. I wish they can just embrace the See of how your mind is running on your deathbed let your mind run on behalf of your dead brother.

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Islam was never about me and us. Me and you know, just me it's about the OMA at large.

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What we have said Naveen and otaku woman hunting him totally yet and they are often harmful to him.

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Likewise,

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we come to the aspect of the luck and the immaturity that is taking place in this regard is just unbelievable, inconceivable, indescribable, at what level the luck is taking place. So Allah subhanho wa Taala says la de la Allah Allah Johan de toolbar, dada Lika umbra, if you divorce, you don't know what's going to happen they after the hearts could reconnect the hearts could reconcile. And sometimes just when you think there is no hope, suddenly there is a spark and there is some you know

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marhaba and connection and rapport, letter drill Allah Maha

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Lika Umbra Amen Allah Azmi Raja fella young keynote Tada Rocco lo Tada hadoo de la he be an oppa Estella Allah de na ongo Wolfie hit Hola Hola. Hola Hola Hola yum buddy Alistair fie amor in Canada who Giovanni Bush rube? Yeah Tommy local Roman Houma masala hamaca Deepa that the IEA is teaching us anything that is multi dimensional, and then the facility and everything you live in your job you relocating to another country, you getting married you making some serious decisions, which are multi dimensional. Things like this must never be done impulsive or in haste.

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Yeah, tell me local no mean Houma, masala humbug telephone process yourself, applying your mind, because that's the approach of a believer is very smart. He's very wise. He's very calculated. He's very methodical. Now you just blur three? And then you try everything in the book to retrack. To recall, I didn't mean I didn't say I didn't imply I didn't assume I didn't insinuate What was the need of given three catalogs?

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So may Allah subhanho wa taala. As I mentioned in my opening talks and Android to a conclusion, may Allah give us this divine light? May Allah read our country of the darkness that we are going through? May Allah read our hearts of the darkness, this inner darkness, and this internal darkness that causes so much, you know, may hum in the life of a person that in one place of the Quran, Allah says that a person is in so much darkness either arthralgia, Yoda, who loved me aka Dr. Aha, that if he was to expose his own hand, he cannot see his hand. That is the level of darkness in his life. Today, I met her brother, and I graciously invited him and I'm saying it in a generic way. May Allah

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bless him is a lovely brother. He said to me, and this is the reality. I was doing one of my errands, and he said, Can I speak to you for two minutes? And I said, Yes. He said, I'm tired of the life of sin that I'm living. And I said, this is the nature of sin, it will frustrate you, it will agonize you. So your mind wants to detach, your soul wants to wean up but your addiction is so strong that you simply cannot get off it. And it is this vicious circle that you just go in, in an in an in you need to rise you need to grow up you need to be matured. I was doing an interview in Australia.