Tafseer of Surah An Naml #14 O ministers, I seek your counsel

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The speakers discuss the letter from Allah that describes dissatisfaction with actions of Sayedna Ali. They emphasize the importance of being brief and concise, as well as the impact of the letter on Sayyidina Ali's behavior and her personal life. They also discuss the etiquette of laid down decisions and the importance of consulting with witnesses and the head, boss, and principal before making a decision. The speakers emphasize the need for women to share their opinions and communicate their ideas to avoid jeopardizing their own health.

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The letter has been received.

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The introduction has been conveyed.

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It has been understood that it comes from

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Suleiman.

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We,

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disclosed the first line of the letter, in

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the name of Allah, the most kind, the

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most compassionate, and we concluded on that note.

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Verse 31,

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look at the brief comprehensive nature of the

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message itself. And again, we learn we learn

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how we should be communicating.

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Now sometimes in messages, people

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create their own abbreviations,

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but then you subject the person to difficulty

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because he cannot comprehend it. I mean, I

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have an issue so many times. People want

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to query a ruling on fiqh, on jurisprudence,

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and it's all in that, you know,

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combination

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of of alphabets with with numbers and abbreviations

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and and you you creating difficulty

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upon the individual.

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So, yes, we need to be brief,

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concise, but comprehensive.

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Verse 31, this is what the message entailed.

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And this is this is.

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This is this is a a a nabi

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of Allah.

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Allah. Again, you know, like I keep on

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saying,

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you have to appreciate. Do not be arrogant

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with me. Do not rebel against me. Do

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not transgress against me. Don't challenge me.

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And submit and come away to me.

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Chapter close. That's it. Verse 31,

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that was the message that it,

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contained in that letter.

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Of course,

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the awe the awe in that letter and

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understanding it's coming from a Nibi,

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so so so so you could appreciate

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what was the impact of that letter

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in,

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just 24, chapter 40,

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Surah Mohammed,

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in the opening comments there in Ibn Kathir,

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the incident of Sayedna

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is mentioned where he sat down and he

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looked around and he found that one person

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is missing. So he asked,

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the congregants, where's so and so? They said,

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no. Well, he's got some bad habits, etcetera.

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Umar

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said, okay. We put in the whole gathering

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on pause and hold, subject to change without

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prior notice as we say. And then he

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wrote a letter.

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From Umar. Can you imagine the a letter

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from Umar?

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To so and so.

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After praising Allah.

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I praise Allah before you. I praise Allah

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who is the absolute. There is no deity

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besides him.

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The one who accepts

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forgiveness and accepts pardon.

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Who who forgives sins and accepts repentance, who

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forgives sins and accepts repentance.

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But yet He is mighty in His power.

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Has 2 translations,

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full of might, full of favor, etcetera.

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There is no deity but

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he to him is our return.

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Said, Muhammad

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then said, take this letter and go give

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it to that individual

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and give it

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to him, you know, and told everyone that

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was present there, now all of you is

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engaged in du'a,

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that Allah

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must, change the focus of the heart of

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your brother.

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So it was a letter

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sent by Umar,

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Brahmin with verses of the Quran,

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and then

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it was

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further given

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that, you know, inspiration through the supplication

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of all those that were present in the

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gathering, making dua to Allah to guide the

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heart of that individual.

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When that individual received the letter and the

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note

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of

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He started reading and rehearsing and repeating and

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he started crying.

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And he said

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salute to you oh rumor that you selected

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2 verses that gives me hope in the

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mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and equally

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alerts me to the punishment of Allah. When

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Sayyidina Ali radiAllahu anhu was asked, who is

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a true scholar, who is a true Fatiha?

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He said,

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Of course, there were other things as well

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in which he mentioned.

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The one who doesn't make people despondent of

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Allah's mercy.

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And number 2, he doesn't give them concession

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in the disobedience of Allah. So I cannot

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tell you do wrong. I cannot tell you,

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you know, yeah, okay, you're young and you

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you need to do and you need to

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give pleasure to yourself. You know, okay, go

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ahead and do it. How can I do

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that? Allah has told us in the Quran.

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That Allah has made a particular way for

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the fulfillment of your need and your desire,

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and whoever seeks the fulfillment of his pleasure

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beyond what Allah has legislated, then he has

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trespassed the limits. So I cannot give anyone,

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no scholar, no jurist can give,

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any person,

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that authority because it is

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the domain of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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So, 'Amr radiAllahu anhu's letter was received. He

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started reading it and he said, Salute to

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'Amr. He gave me hope and at the

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same time he alerted me.

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And then he gave up a life of

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sin and of course he reformed himself totally.

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When heard about this, he said

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When you hear that your brother has slipped

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or he has fallen, then help him to

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recover, to stand, and don't push him down

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further.

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Right?

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The Urdu poet said,

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When I couldn't walk,

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then people would rescue me that I mustn't

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fall or see the toddler or see the

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infant or see the young one. They would

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offer that protection. And then when I grew

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up and I started walking, then everybody was

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in ambush to just drop me.

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That's the sad reality of the world in

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which we live.

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So

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verse

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31, Don't rebel. Don't transgress.

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Don't be arrogant.

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And come to me Muslimean

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in submission.

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And the scholars say

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come to me was not literally meaning physically

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come, was meaning submit and accept because the

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key that the messenger was

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conveying to them was to accept the truth,

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accept the

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You know, our father said, My son, you

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you you've gone far away from me. Meanwhile,

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you're staying in the same house,

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meaning you're living your own life, you're doing

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your own things,

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you're not connecting with your parents. My son

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has gone so distant away from me, and

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and sadly, today, that has become so common.

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In Urdu, they say,

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sometimes

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Sometimes in life you have to travel very

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far to find out who's close to you.

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You have to travel very far. Some children

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might be physically remote, but they are connected

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to their parents. There's a call daily. There's

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a gift occasionally. There's well there's taking care

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of their needs, etcetera. And others could be

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staying within the same house or in the

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close precincts, etcetera,

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but unfortunately there isn't that connection, attachment, union,

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bond, and rapport.

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So that's verse 31.

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Verse 32,

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she gathers her ministers, she gathers the members

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of the court, and she says,

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oh my courtiers, oh my ministers,

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please give me counsel and advice, guidance on

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my matter.

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Like, this is what has happened here. Where

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to from here? What's the way forward?

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I'm not going to take a decision. I'm

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not going to pass judgement. I'm not going

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to take action.

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Until you are present

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and you give me your opinion.

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In other words, she was now seeking

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and counsel,

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right, from

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those, that were present, those that formed her

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cabinet.

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What was the cabinet of Umar

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It was the learned.

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Whether they were young or they were old.

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Yes. The cabinet of Umar comprised

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of the learned. That is why somebody even

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made the remark.

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How is it that is

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entering into this gathering? When our children are

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of his age? Our children are of his

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age and Muhammad

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said, you know, his knowledge is what has

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brought him here.

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And today, unfortunately, the cabinet is of cronies,

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of allies, of family members. It's a world

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of nepotism.

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It's a world of who you know. It's

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not a world of merit. It's not a

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world of achievement and accolades and accomplishment and

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feet and those who can do and achieve

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and have muscle. No. It's who you know.

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That's it. It's

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just nepotism. When Sayidina Umar

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at his in the throes of death when

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he

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he had appointed the group of 6 people.

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And he said within 3 days, the caliph

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needs to be appointed.

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And if you have a difficulty in making

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the decision, then Abdullah bin Umar radiAllahu anhu

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can be called in to give his, input,

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but he will not be made the caliph.

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During the reign of Umar,

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said

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to his father, oh my father, you give

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us such a simple,

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portion from the national treasury

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yet you give such a handsome amount to

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Hassan and Hussain Radhiallahu Anhu.

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Madinah. I was there in the front while

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there were kids playing on the streets of

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Medina.

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How is it? I do appreciate

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that you should not

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discriminate and you should not be giving me

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additional

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compared to others. But here you're giving me

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less, oh, my father. And said, Nama

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said, it is not you versus them. It

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is their mother versus your mother. Their mother

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was Fatima radiAllahu anha. And it is in

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in in regard and in response to that,

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subhanallah.

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What was those glory days? That was the

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caliph.

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One day, Said Nama

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stood up and he said,

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Listen, old folks, whoever from amongst you

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witnesses any defect in me, then

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I am telling you, you have the right

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to challenge me, address it, rebuke me and

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chastise me.

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A villager, a Bedouin stood up and he

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said, yes, O Umar, if we find you

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going off the mark, we will deal with

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you and we will discipline you.

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All praise belongs to Allah who's kept men

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in this

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who are vigilant and watchful that will monitor

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to see that he doesn't go off the

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line. These were our glory days. These were

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our glory days.

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Anyway, verse 32,

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she gathers the people and she says, listen,

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I need input

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here.

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I'm not gonna take a judgement and I'm

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not gonna take action until you are not

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present and you don't give your counsel. Now

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from here, we learn

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that the etiquette of Mashwara is

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that you as the head, as the amir,

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you need to consult

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because today, often, it's just a formality.

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There are preconceived ideas, preconcluded

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ideas, and then we call up a meeting.

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We call up a sitting, oh, you know

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what? There's a meeting with the staff and

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everything. Meanwhile, the head, the person in charge,

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the boss, the principal, the leader, the manager,

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whoever it is, he knows what he wants

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to do. And that's exactly what happens from

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the micro to the macro level. You know

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what? You have that,

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public engagement,

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opinion process,

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so to say, but it's superficial

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because everything has been pre,

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concluded. It's been decided in advance. So it's

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just it's just,

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you know, this this exercise or display of

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an exercise. Okay. What's your opinion? What's your

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opinion? Oh, okay. Right. No. This is the

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decision taken. The decision was taken in advance.

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The decision was taken in advance.

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Was it akhnef? Rahimahullah was asked,

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you know, we're asking for your input. Why

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don't you speak? He said,

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The reason why I don't speak is because

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I fear Allah if I speak a lie

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and I fear you if I speak the

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truth.

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So I cannot speak anything. You say, no,

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no, no. It's an open forum. You need

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to be free and fair. It's gonna be,

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you know what, an open election and each

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person must say his thing and and and

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and cast his ballot or or express his

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opinion. But if you say anything in which

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the individual,

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you know, who is piloting

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the the project

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is challenged in any way or you ask

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him or her for accountability or transparency,

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you'll be struck off the roll. Your your

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your your wings will be clipped. You won't

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fly again,

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and that's the end of it.

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Alright. So,

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verse 32,

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So what what are we learning in the

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etiquettes of Mashwara

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is that when you sit down, you cannot

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con conclude before the mashwara because then it

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defeats the essence. It defeats the essence.

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I am not going to

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pass any judgement

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until and unless you are not present and

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you give your input. SubhanAllah,

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see how they responded the next verse.

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They said,

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we are people

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We are people of might

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and people of strength

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and people of clout.

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So if your decision is to engage in

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battle,

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you can sigh with relief we won't launch

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you. We won't

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we we we will support you fully.

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We are people with muscle, with skill, with

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competence,

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with know how. We know battle. We know

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warfare.

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But your Excellency, your Majesty, the matter lies

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with you.

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Give them out a thought,

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process this here, sleep over, and then you

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come up with a conclusion. You come up

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with a conclusion.

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So here we learn again

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that when you've been asked for an opinion,

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give your opinion. Sometimes a person says, what's

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your no. Whatever you feel. Oh, well, then

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it defeats the whole thing. What is the

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person who's consulting? If he comes with preconceived

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ideas, then it is just an an exercise

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in futility because you're not consulting.

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Number 1. Number 2, if you are being

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asked your opinion and you say, oh, whatever

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you feel, then then then why are you

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sitting in that in that gathering?

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Give your opinion but of course it needs

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to be allowed the space of of free

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will and free expression. I feel that we

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should be doing things in this way or

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we should be avoiding this or this is

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the measure but,

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oh my dad, oh my teacher, oh my

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senior, oh my mentor, the matter lies with

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you. The matter lies with you.

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You look into this, you sleep over the

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matter,

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and,

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whatever you conclude on from our side, we

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are ready.

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Now,

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as we will progress

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and unpack

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and reveal

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and explain to you

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that this woman, the Queen of Sheba,

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she was a woman of intelligence

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and when she seen the truth, you would

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see how quickly and swiftly she embraced.

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So when she got this response from the

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ministers,

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she said,

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okay. Okay.

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Point taken. I appreciate your response.

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And then she shared a very profound

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reflection

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before

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she then communicated

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her formal plan of action.

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And today for people who are in the

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driving seat,

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so so many times as as a company

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manager, you need to gather your staff. You

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want them on one page. You want them

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on a common focus. What is our internal

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network in our homes? See, the Quran says

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that as a woman, you should nurse your

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child for 2 years. Right?

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But if you need to wean your child

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off before 2 years, you can do so,

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but make sure you sat down as a

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family,

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husband and wife, and you sat down and

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you gave this thought. See, ideally, the nourishment

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this child is getting from your milk or

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my wife, the mother's milk, that's wholesome. But

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now your health is at risk. You have

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fallen pregnant. There's another child coming, etcetera.

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And if they mutually process the matter, they

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reflect, they apply their minds, they deliberate, and

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then they decide prior to 2 years for

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reasons better understood they need to wean off

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without, of course, maliciously intending the deprivation of

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the child.

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The point is network. What's the biggest breakup

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in marriages? No communication.

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No network. You don't know why, what, when,

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how. Look at the network here and look

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at the rich communication.

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Let's wait and see what was the observation,

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and the thought process of this woman.

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and the thought process of this woman.