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Riad Ouarzazi

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Do you know how much your parents really love you? Do you know what they did for you when you could not take care of yourself? What have you done to repay them for all that they have done for you? Is it even possible to repay them? Do you really love them? Join Sh. Riad Ouarzazi in this journey and find out how Islam teaches you to honor your parents.

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the goodness to the parents, Allah subhanho wa Taala talks about honoring the parents in the end, in parallel to history heat, in parallel to his oneness in not one or two or three in several ayat, Allah subhana wa Tada. He talks about the obedience of the parents

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in solid and Islam, Allah Subhana Allah Allah says

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your load has decreed that you worship none but him.

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buka Allah tabuteau illa Yeah, now number one, the worship of Allah webydo added a near Santa and that should be good to your parents.

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Your Lord has decreed that you worship not by him and that you be good to your parents. What God Allah Buddha Allah, Buddha Allah Yeah. De near Santa in Sultan Nisa, Allah subhanho wa Taala says what

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he says in selected Nisa, and I'm here and I know you have heard many lectures on parents. I know you have read many books on parents. I am not here to teach you something What you do not know my brothers and sisters. I am not here to teach you something you do not know. You know better than me. I'm only here to remind myself and to remind you about this.

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This worship called the obedience of the parents. Allah says in Surah Nisa,

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Krishna Coby, he shall worship your Lord and do not associate anybody with him. And he says I'd be good to your parents will be the world leader in Santa

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wa salatu salam ala rasulillah.

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my brothers and sisters.

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Few months ago, I was given a lecture or in fact, I was given a hook by in Canada. And then right after my

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brother came to me and he said, Jeff, I have to

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ask you a question. I need your help.

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He says, I have two twins.

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They're 18 years old sons.

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He says my children, they call the cops on me. And they kicked me out of my home.

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My children, they call the police. They kicked me out of my home. I cannot come back to my home.

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I also read

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in a Muslim newspaper, in a Muslim country. That a guy he stabbed his mother to death.

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He stabbed his mother to death. Because his mother did not approve of him marrying this girl, which he fell in love with.

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He fell in love with this girl. He wanted to marry her. The mother did not approve of that marriage. He took a knife and he stabbed his mother to death.

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Also, not too long ago, I was giving a lecture a seminar in the UK and a Muslim. It's a Muslim, in fact lecture in the UK, a guy during the lecture was crying.

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Then I asked him he came to me says yes, yes. My mother called me on the phone.

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My mother called me on the phone.

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And she said that his brother, his brother, as some money from his mom, which he refused to give him because he is addicted. He is addicted to drugs and alcohol and whatnot. She refused to give him the money. He started punching his mother and beating her up

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and so on and so forth.

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will allow any day.

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The goodness to the parents. Allah Subhana Allah Donna talks about honoring the parents in the end in parallel

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To histo heat in parallel to his oneness in not one or two or three in several ayah Allah subhanho wa Taala he talks about the obedience of the parents

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in salt and Islam. Allah Subhana Allah Allah says,

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your load has decreed that you worship none but him.

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buka Allah tabuteau illa Yeah. Now number one, the worship of Allah, what we do every day near Santa, and that should be good to your parents. Your Lord has decreed that you worship none by him and that should be good to your parents. What God Allah Buddha Allah Buddha Allah Yeah, I've been worried a near Santa insalata Nisa, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, What

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do I need a near Santa? He says in Sultan Nisha, and I'm here and I know you have heard many lectures on parents. I know you have read many books on parents. I am not here to teach you something What you do not know my brothers and sisters. I am not here to teach you something you do not know. You know better than me. I'm only here to remind myself and to remind you about this.

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This worship called the obedience of the parents. Allah says in Surah Nisa, wibu De La Hoya Toshi cobija worship your Lord and do not associate anybody with him and he says and be good to your parents will be the world leader in Santa inshallah Allah.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Why is

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una in la lucha de de near Santa we to covenant from Benny is la he from the children of Israel not to worship anybody other than Allah? Yeah, I need to worship Allah alone. And he says, we've been worried

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and we go to your parents, and on and on and on. In so many eyes, as Allah talks about his oneness. Right after his oneness he talks about the opinions of the the obedience of the parents, honoring the parents, obeying the parents, the kindness towards the parents was

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Ma ma ma ma ma. Ernie sabella your Lord has decreed that you worship not but him and that you'd be good to your parents in Maya blowgun. Anga. Kalki Bala Houma Okita Houma when they reach a certain age, and here's the thing my brothers and sisters, my brothers and sisters, when do your parents really need you? Your parents really need you like when you're young now. Oh they need you on your when they are young. When they can work when they can handle things. They really really really when they need you they need you when they reach an early age as Allah subhana wa tada says in the Quran, ma abou Hana in the Kalki, Bara and kybella meaning when they reach an elderly age, when when you

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can see the hair turning gray when you see the back being being meaning you need to back out cannot come out straight. That's when they need you. That's when in fact they need you the most.

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Shola is

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an avid joy age. He was in his center. He was praying knuffle Salah he was praying enough for Salah his mother called him he's the mother called him and in his Salah. He says

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oh me, I'm Salah t Allah on me. I'm Salah g in his Salah. His mother was calling him and he says to Allah mom on my Sunnah. What should I do? What should I do? Mom on my son. He stayed in his Salah for a hula

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hula

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hula

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his mother became angry at him. Allah subhana wa tada punished him.

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He was in his cellar. He was not doing his homework. I can give you some valid reasons. He was not doing his homework. He was not busy with his kids. He was not busy with his wife.

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He was busy doing something very important. He was in his sauna. Yet when he chose his Salah versus his mom, his mom became angry. A lot punished him.

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So much so that Allah subhanho wa Taala and he says

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in

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the Kalki Baba de Houma, Oklahoma, further upon lahoma

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off in Arabic, it's not a word

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of in Arabic is not a word.

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Even that thing which is not a word, in our words today means Oh, oh, it's all a word. Oh, it's not a word.

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Even that Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Don't say oh to your parents of Oh, why are you calling me? Oh, why me again? Why don't you ask my brother? Why don't you ask my sister? Oh, I'm busy.

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Oh, Mom, I'm busy. Oh, Dad, you're old school. Oh, Mom, you talk too much. Obviously, let me alone. Even that all you know supposed to say to your parents.

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Even if you're not supposed to say to your parents.

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And remember of something.

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I heard the story today, which really, really, really affected me so much.

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Would you like me to share it with you?

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Would you like me to share that story with you?

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A story of a father.

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How many fathers do we have in the room today?

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fathers

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I heard a story of a father

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who had to go to the hospital and he comes from a country where

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where if you were to go to a hospital, you have to pay money.

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Yeah, and in that country, health is not free.

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You have to pay

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to get health surfaces. So he had a problem with his hand

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paralyzed and the doctor told him you have two options. We can perform a surgery for your hand

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and then your hand can move. But this will cost you money.

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Second option.

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We amputate your hands it has to be amputated. It has to be cut.

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two options option number one.

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We performed the surgery

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and your hand would become okay. You can move it

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but it costs your money.

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Second option.

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We have to cut we have to amputate the hand.

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The father said how much is the surgery?

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The doctor told him the surgery will cost X amount of money.

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The father said no.

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How about if I don't pay.

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The doctor said if you don't pay we have to cut your hand.

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The father said no.

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cut my head.

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The children came and said that

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you have some savings.

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Why don't use that savings

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to pay for the surgery.

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That that said

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that's that savings which I've been saving.

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I have saved it to send that money

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to my elderly son who studies in this country so that he can pay for his school.

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I save that money for him so that he can finish his studies.

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I'd rather lose an arm.

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I would sacrifice my arm for my son's education.

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This is how much adapte can sacrifice

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for his child.

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How do you treat your father back now?

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How do you talk back to your father? Now?

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Someone came complaining about his dad or her dad.

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He's not letting me marry this or he's not letting me marry that.

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complain about your dad

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or your mom.

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Do you know my brothers and sisters?

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That

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the Prophet Mohammed Al is salat wa salam says, In this hype reported the Bible hardened Muslim

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and reported by Bukhari and Muslim. The Prophet Mohammed Al is sad to see them was talking to the Sahaba and he's telling them Do you want me to tell you the major sins? Do you want me to tell you what are the major sins? They said? Yes, tell us about tell us about the major sins. The Prophet says the major sins number one,

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associating someone with the worship of Allah,

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associating someone with the worship of Allah. Number two.

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This honoring the parents is is considered in Islam, a major sin, a major sin. My brothers, let me tell you something, you who may have a long beard, you who may have a copy, you may even be wearing niqab, hijab all the way to

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you Muslims. And let me tell you something, you may come in the Day of Judgment. You may come in the day of judgment with mountains, mountains of good deeds, mountains of hassle, not mountains of charity mountains of Sala mountains of PM, mountains of siyam. You may be coming with mountains of good deeds, but because you will dishonor in your parents, it will not be counted, nothing will be countered. And I have the evidence. I have the evidence from the Hadith of the Prophet Mohammed Ali Salatu was set up

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in the Hadith reported by Al Bazar. What what Timothy mean had he been Rama pasa por la la la sala de la

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sala de la jolla, him Yama, Yama,

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Yama, the Prophet Muhammad, Allah says three kinds of people, Allah, we're not to condemn a native judgment. They will be ignored by Allah into their judgments, which means they will be losers in the Day of Judgment. They may come with all types of of good deeds, yet they would be losers in the Day of Judgment, who are day a prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam says the first one is

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the one who is in control his parents,

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the one who is and control his parents, the one who who honors his parents, Allah subhanho wa Taala will ignore him will not look at him at the Day of Judgment.

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How do you treat your parents today?

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How do you talk back to your parents today?

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Do you know something my brothers and sisters

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in English we have an expression that says comedy no to that.

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Please, please listen to me.

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I always say this and I'm saying it again. Don't listen to me with your ears. Listen to me with your hearts because I want to touch your hearts.

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In English we say

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whatever goes around, goes around or whatever goes around comes around.

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Whatever goes around comes around. The Prophet says cometa Dino to then come after Dean to that which means however you treat your parents today, Allah subhanho wa tada may bless you afflict you would kiss that will treat you the same. Whatever goes around comes around.

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If you treat your parents with kindness today, Allah subhanho wa Taala may bless you with kids that would treat you the same and if you treat your parents with and kindness, Allah subhanho wa Taala may afflict you with kids that will treat you the same. And by Allah, we've seen it. You may have seen it, we've seen it. I may tell you something

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Stories, some very, very true stories that happened in some Muslim countries.

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In a Muslim country in the middle of the street.

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They so a young man dragging an old man,

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young man was dragging an old man dragging him.

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People came to him.

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Hey, Doc, hey, Shane, what are you doing? Long old man? Why? Why are you dragging him?

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And he kept on dragging him. So some people, they they jumped on him, they wanted to beat him up. The old man said, No, please, please leave him leave him. He is my son.

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Then they kept on beating him up. This is not only an old man, he is your father and you're dragging him like this. They started beating him up. The father said, Please leave him by Allah. I did the same thing to my father 14 years ago.

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Come out to dinner today.

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Although the men, his friends were saying they were sitting in this house altogether, talking. The father was dead amok with them. And then the father had a small argument with his son. The son stood in front of everyone and he slapped his father.

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He slapped his father.

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People couldn't believe the lies they went through. What do you do your father you stopped him. The father says by Allah Leave him alone. While like 20 years ago, I slept my own father to

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Kalamata Dino to done if I measured

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20 years back, I slapped my own father. Whatever goes around, comes around. The Prophet Mohammed Ali salatu salam says in this Hadith, narrated by Abu Bakr, Ra RB Baqarah, not Abu Bakr know this man is a bee Baqarah this habit is sound authentic inside JAMA, the prophet is ultraslim says if you're a Jew who lofi dunya Kabbalah a one Houma, Annapolis led

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the Prophet Mohammed and exoticism says in this hadith sound inauthentic, two types of sins, two types of sins, whosoever does them, they will get their punishment in this dunya before the Hereafter, Whosoever commits this two sins, they will get the punishment in this dunya before the hereafter punish the sin number one and every day and kindness to the parents and kindness of the parents, disobeying the parents, whosoever does so they will get their punishment in this life before the life of the hereafter.

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It's not a joke.

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It is not a joke. Well, it's not a joke. Your parents, and let me tell you something by Allah, by Allah, you will not know the value of your parents. At the end of

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the day when your parents are gone, then and only then you will know how valuable they are to you.

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You will know how valuable they are to you. Or maybe when you get to travel very far, and you won't get to see them. You wouldn't know how valuable Your parents are. Or maybe, or maybe ask, ask, ask a new Muslim or reverse Muslim. Ask a diverse Muslim man or the Muslim and ask him what's your wish he would say my only wish maybe my wish is for my parents to become Muslim.

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For my parents to become Muslim, that's all they wished for.

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Ma

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Ma has been

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living the life of

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we call it validation.

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It's such a beautiful life because Allah subhanho wa Taala blesses that life.

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And also my brothers and sisters just to set the record straight. The honoring of the mother in Islam supersedes that of the Father. Let me repeat

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in Islam, in Islam, honoring the mother supersedes that of the Father.

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Allah subhana wa tada seasons.

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Well, we'll find an instance Santa bhiwani tiny bydd. Here Santa was signer. Look. In other words, he was he was like someone's giving you a car.

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When you father comes to you and says, Oh my son, I am going to give you like a command. Be careful. I'm going to give you this one. So yeah, take it take it very, very, very strongly. So Allah says, what was signer. Allah is giving you a seer. He says what was signing in Santa bhiwadi de Allah has given us a command to look after our parents. Look after your parents. And right after that. He says hemella Tomoko Ha,

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ha, right after that. Allah moves to the mother. He moves to the mother, and he says, she bears him with pain. The father, he had pleasure.

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The father, he had pleasure. He was intimate with the mother. He had pleasure he moved on. But the mother she held that baby, she held him in pain, she barely in pain with hardship, you know, sisters, you know how it is those of you who have children, or those of you who might be pregnant, you know how it is, you know, the pain, the psychological change? Brothers, those of you who are here the father is the fathers. Have you have you have you I'm gonna ask you this question for the brothers. Those of you who are married and have children have you assisted your wife when she was delivering your baby?

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I'm asking you, who amongst you witnessed witnessed, you know the the that experience Express you did not experience it but you witnessed your wife delivering a baby who amongst you witnessed the wife delivering the baby.

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My opinion, my advice, my was, my was a a insha Allah who tada you get to have this chance your wife is delivering a baby, go there, be with her, be with her. You see America from Allah, America, on Earth, America from Allah subhanho wa Taala. You start valuing your wife a lot more, you start respecting your wife a lot more. And then you understand why Allah Almighty in the end, he talks about the mother, the Mother, why the Prophet talks about the mother, the mother, he says, what the Camelot who.

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She bears him in pain, and she gave birth to him in pain, in pain, in hardship, in hardship, as soon as they take their baby, and they put that baby on the chest of the mother. The mother forgets all the pre

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law Hello, the mother forgets all the hardship. The first time they take the baby. As soon as the baby comes out. They take the baby, they put the baby on the chest of the mother. The mother forgets all the pain on the hardship. It's all gone. Because of her son, because of her baby. Your mother, your mother, your mother, your mother, your mother, your mother, back into a main job, the love mama and asked her

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and asked him he took his mom Listen to this. He took his mom on his shoulder. And then he took her out into the outskirts. She was they did not have washrooms. They did not have restrooms. If you want to go to the washroom, you go outside in the field. So this man he carried his mother on his on his shoulder. He took her out in the field to, to to look after her needs, right. And then he carried her he washed her he cleaned her and then he took her back and then he told this hobby this companion half I have I fulfilled my mother's right. The man said no, no, you have not fulfilled her right? She did the same thing to you when you were the baby. She did the same thing to you when you

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were a baby yet. She did it to you wish in your life. When you were the baby. She used to you know you had your diapers she had she had two kids you and and she carried you and she hope she helped you and she hugged you. She did that to you wishing you wish in your life. You're doing the same thing to her today. But you wishing her death.

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You're helping her today. You're wishing her death. She did the same thing to you. She's wishing you a good life.

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A good health.

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She did not feed herself. She took the morsel of meat or she took the morsel of food from her mouth. She took it out to give it to you first. She fed you before she fed herself.

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Your mother

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when you were sick, she stood up the whole night crying, praying to Allah to give you Shiva

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crying praying to Allah to give your Shiva

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your mother you

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Mother, your mother, who let go her dreams. She sacrificed her treats for your dreams.

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Your mother, she sacrificed her dreams. Her inspirations for use your mother, your mother, the day you lose your mother. The day we lose our mother, the world changes colors. The world loses colors. The world becomes white and black. The day we lose our mothers, the Earth would change. This man was crying. After he lost his mom. He cried so much. And he asked he was asked what do you cry? They he says, Why shouldn't I cry? There was a gate of Jana, my mother the gate to paradise. My mother the gate to heaven. My mother has passed away against the agenda. A gate of Heaven has just been closed before me. Why should I not cry, I should cry. I should cry. I should cry. The mother that used to

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make the app for me has just passed away. You know, my brothers and sisters, when you travel or somebody travels, somebody's going for Hajj. Somebody's going for you as that person. Please make die for me. Please make God for me. But do you tell your mother mom make die for me, your mother You don't need to tell her.

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Your mother You don't need to tell him please make dinner for me. In fact, she's going for what she's going for I'ma just to make that for you. In fact, she prays and all her prayers is for you. On her prayers is Allah protect my son, oh, Allah protect my daughter, all her life is yours. You don't need to remind your mom to make out for you. You can tell your brother You know what, you know what? Everything can be replaceable.

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Everything can be replaceable. You can lose a car, you can have another car, you lose a property, you can have another property, you lose your job, you can replace another job. But if you lose your mother, nothing can replace the mother. Nobody can replace the mother. Nobody can replace the mother. Everything can be replaced except your mother.

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She cannot be replaced. How do you treat her? How do you talk to her?

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When was the last time you gave your mother a hug?

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When was the last time you told your mother that you love her?

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Not best.

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Not best.

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A man came to him and he says

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he was giving a lecture and he says

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I'm not best.

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I fell in love with this woman.

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And she married somebody else.

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I fell in love with her. But she went and she married somebody else.

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I could not resist.

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I could not resist. I went on I killed her.

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Open I best.

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What's my explanation?

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It'd be some of you don't understand or some of you're smiling.

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I don't really know why you're smiling.

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It's good to smile. But when you listen to story like this, you laugh and you say, Why are you laughing?

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I did not say a joke. The guy fell in love with this girl. She got married somebody else he went he stabbed her to death. So he went to my best asking when I best I killed this woman. What am I supposed to do? I need to expect my sense

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of best he says he thought and thought and he says Do you have a mother?

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You have a ma? He says yes.

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He says go back and be kind to your mom. Treat your mom with kindness. At the end of the lecture, a student was there. And he asked the best. He says you have not best that man asked you. He killed someone. Yes Here pentad. Yes, he paid the the you know the charges and whatever. Yes, he may he did what he had to do. But you know you he asked you for some sort of explanation. You told him you know, to go to his mother and teacher with kindness. Best says I looked and I could not find anything for him to do that will get him the closeness to Allah other than Him being kind to him.

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I could not find for him anything better than that. I could not find for him anything better than that.

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His mother called him. She's Yeah.

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She called him. Oh, my son

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says the bay Chioma, the bay key, Omar, he says Yes, mom. And then he realized that he raised his voice. What did he do wrong? What did he do wrong? Nothing. But he realized he says, I raised my voice at my mother. So he went, he bought two slaves, and he freed them for the sake of Allah.

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He says, I hope you can forgive me for raising my voice at my mom.

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Another companion.

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His mom came to him and she says, yeah.

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Oh, my son, I'm thirsty. I want some water. So he went outside to get her water. By the time he came in. His mother fell asleep. His mother fell asleep. So he held the cup of water by his mom. He did not want to wake her up. He stayed there waiting for his mom. The whole night. The whole night. Whenever he feels tired, he sits down. If he feels sleepy, he stands up with the cup of water in his hand. If he feels tired, he sits down. If it feels sleepy, he stands up the whole night until dawn until morning when his mother wake up or the World Cup. He's she found him and then he was awake. He told her mom, mom, your water, your water. The first thing he did, he did not go to sleep the whole

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night. Why? Because his mother asked for water. And he wanted the first thing when she opens her eyes to find her son with the water as she has requested.

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This is what we call in Arabic bill, Aladdin, goodness to the parents. kindness to the parents. How do you treat your parents?

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What do you get?

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What do you get when you honor your parents? Many things. Many things.

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Allow would bless you the health.

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Allah would bless your wealth.

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Allah would bless your life. Your dog becomes Mr. Jab. Your dog becomes granted. Your supplication becomes granted your invoke Allah, Allah will answer your.on the spot there was a man at the time of the Prophet by the name of always and corny. He lives away from Medina. And then and then the Prophet, the prophet Mohammed Ali said to Sam says, to his companions, he says, All people, if you meet this man, always ask him to make the offer you ask him to make the offer you because his thought is Mr. Sharp his his granted.

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What's the story of this man, this man my brothers and sisters, he has a mother.

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His this man had a mother.

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His mother needed him. But he wanted to go and travel and migrate to Medina to visit the prophet to see the prophet and to earn the title, the title of Sahabi, the title of companion, he sacrificed that title, listen to this and listen with your hearts. He sacrifice the most beautiful title.

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The title of companion

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Sahabi. He loved he sacrificed that title just up with his mum, just to be with his mom. By the time his mother passed away, he travelled by the province also passed away. So he did not earn that that title, meaning or that title is not Sahabi compelling. He missed it because he did not see the price. He believed in the profit, but he did not see him.

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Yet the Prophet heard about him.

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In the era of Roma in the era of Emma, this man traveled for hush Oh, am I met him? Are you always? Yes. Are you always a colony? Yes, please, please make the art for me. I almost said Please pray for me. Um, I said, always said you're the your companion. And the Prophet has already given you the trading of agenda. Why should I pray for you? Why should I make

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To offer you, he says because the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam says, If you meet this man, always ask him to make the offer you because his daughter is Mr. Sharp.

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If you are good to your parents, if you are current your parents, Allah will answer your da, Allah will answer your daughter, Allah will grant your supplications. Anytime you invoke Allah, Allah will answer your da.

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Oh, your mother, your mother, your Mother,

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the Father, who has worked full time, over time, part time, just to provide for you, the mother who held you, who held you, when this man went to the Prophet Mohammed and asked him a prophet of Allah, Who should mean by best friend, who should be my best companion, the Prophet says your mother. And then the man said, Who else the prophets is your mother. And then the Prophet said, Who has the Prophet said your mother, and then the method who has for the fourth time, the prophet said, your father, your mother, your mother, your mother, than your father, your mother, your mother, your mother, your mother?

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Holla Holla Holla about the mother,

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Allah Holla Holla about the mother.

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You know, the daughter of the mother is granted.

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The daughter of the mother is granted. If your mother is alive, go to her tonight. Go to her tonight. Go to her today. Go to her now and ask her Mom, please make that for me.

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Screw well, like the Malala a time may come, a time may come. You will need someone to make to offer you and your mother will not be there. Your mother may not be there. But if she is there today, if your father is there today, go to them. Because there is a vehicle that will drive you to Shanna, go to them today before tomorrow. But if your mother has died, if she's dead, if she's gone, cry, and don't cry, tears cry blood, because one of the gates of Jana has just been locked before you, your mother, your mother, your mother, despite regardless of how she could be or treat, even if she's almost and by the way, even if she's not Muslim, I smile. She went to the Prophet Mohammed and he

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said to Sam, should I treat my mother should I to assist her? She's not a Muslim? Should I sister the promises? Yes, yes. Be kind to her. Be country, your mother, even if she's not a Muslim,

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your mother, your mother, your mother.

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There's this story of Musa Moses

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Moosa, he asked Allah subhana wa Tada.

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He says, Allah, I want to see my companion in heaven. In fact, I have a poem with me today, which I will be dedicated to all the mothers here today.

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Oh my mother's because you are so dear to me. And when I see you, I see my own mother.

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I have a poem which I will dedicate for all of you today inshallah hotel.

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Moosa asked, Oh Allah, I want to see my companion in heaven. Allah revista Musa Musa, go to this place, there's like an old cave.

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And in there you will find your companion in Jana Moosa goes. He looked out or he looks at from from from outside the soul, an old woman, frail old woman.

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And there's this young man who's next to her. He helps her he feeds her.

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He changes her. He cleans the house, or the place where they leave and then he steps out. So Moosa goes inside.

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Musa goes in,

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and that woman, she sees more Saba, she does not recognize him.

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She does not recognize him. Moosa says yeah, amatola Oh, woman, who is that son?

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Who is that? That young man. She says, He is my son. He is my son.

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Moses says, okay, but what's so good about this is what's so special about him.

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We all have our parents. We all feed our parents. But what's so special about this son? The mother said, This is my son. You see, I'm old. You see, he pleads me. He feeds me. He helps me. He supports me. He assists me.

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I make the app for him every day. Or Allah make my son that

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On pain of Musa

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Musa said Allah has answered your call. I am Musa and your son will be my partner in Jana.

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The mother used to make so much to offer her son, Allah subhana wa tada accepted that from her

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because of this man, this son used to help the mother and a sister, your mother, your mother, your mother.

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Even after they die, you still be good to them how? How to pray for them. Pray for them that can elevate the status engine.

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I'm going to share with you that poem

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that I have for the mothers today

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it's in Arabic

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but I will try to translate it in sha Allah hota her

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mother's

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This is from me to you.

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Ma

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Why are open Asha cadonia

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briefly Wahhabi, yada, yada be Emma. Emma. Missy atonia

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on me

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on me. Yeah.

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only Jorge buki Omani. Yeah bachata. cultiva Muna Domini.

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The meanie was crazy he was in he was in he Hello Mama.

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Mama

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it says our mother or my love or mother or my love a mother or my heart A mother? Yeah chanson to saperavi Okay. You are the son that rises a mother.

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You are the son that raises a mother You are my entire life a mother, your Caledonia family. You are my hope. You are the sign of sincerity or mother for the Antioch

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for the better.

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You are You are a gift from my Lord. How can I survive without your mother? You are a gift from my Lord. How can I survive without your mother?

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What should I give your mom from this life? What should I give you?

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My heart? My eyes a man? What should I give you? My breath? Might so

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everything is so cheap for you our mother. Everything is so little for you on Mother. Mother.

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How many nights you stood up? How many nights you stood up a mother typically you cry typically what to nadie about you cry cry cry before the Lord and and praying and praying saying Oh Allah well I love my son Allah protect my son Allah preserve my son. Well I'm not give the Shiva for my son how many nights our mom used to that whole night praying for me. Oh me. Oh me or mother. I love you a mother. I love your money. You're my life a mother? Yeah, I'll be one Muna tomini hold me on mother hold me a mother hugged me a mother hug me a mother with a knee.

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And let me dream or mother let me dream or mother in your arms or mother.

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And I want to end with the story

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of a man

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who invited his wife.

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He went to his wife

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and

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He invited his wife

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for dinner.

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He invited his wife for dinner.

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The wife told him,

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I declined. I declined. I don't want to go with you. Go take the other woman.

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Go take the other woman to the restaurant. I declined going out with you.

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The man says, I'm not that type. What do you mean? I'm inviting you out for dinner. And you tell me to go take that other woman. What other woman what other woman? She says, I'm declining my day. Go take your mother out for dinner.

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You have not taken her out.

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Go take her out for dinner.

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The brother looks to his wife and he says, may Allah had a watch.

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And he called his mother.

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And he told her mom,

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mom,

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prepare yourself. I'm taking you out for dinner.

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The mom could not believe her eyes or cannot believe her ears. She says, My son. Are you serious?

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My son. Are you serious?

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The father said or the son or the son said, Mom, I'm serious. I'm taking you out for dinner tonight.

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Get ready. I'm coming to pick you up.

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He goes to pick up his mom.

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He takes her out for dinner.

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His mom could not believe her eyes. She does not care. In fact, she does not care whether it's in a restaurant, or whether it's in the street, or whether the eating bread or whether the eating or drinking just soup or just water. She does not care. All she cares about is a company with her son. She's enjoying that company with her son.

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So at the end, the son says Mama, how was dinner? Are you happy? The mother said today is the happiest day of my life. Of course, I'm very happy. May Allah reward you. May Allah reward you. The son says Mom, I'm going to do it again in shallow data. I will bring you again to the same restaurant. The mother says no, my son.

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No, my son.

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I'm the one who is going to invite you next time. It will be on me in the same restaurant.

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Days go by.

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months go by.

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The son got busy.

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The son got busy.

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The mother got sick. And she died.

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She got sick and she died.

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One day

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this man receives a letter in his home

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envelope with two invitations to a restaurant.

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The same restaurant he took his mother to

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who sent me this invitations.

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He goes to the restaurant with his wife.

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And then he found a letter in that restaurant. He read the letter. He says son it's your mom.

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Remember I promised you to take you to that restaurant.

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Well I tried but you will always busy.

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I sent out this invitation for you and your wife. May Allah reward you.

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By Allah by brothers and sisters, especially the brothers here who are married who amongst you ever invited their mother out to a restaurant?

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Who amongst you took their mom's out ever to the restaurants?

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Yes, your wife, your treat your wife accordingly. You treat it with your son. You respect her. You honor her but your mother takes priority. Your mother your mother your mother does how it is you treat your wife with your son. You treat your father with yourself. You treat your children your son your mother comes first your mother comes first one line.

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One line and Eli no I swear by Allah who holds my soul. Like I say you will not know the value of your mother until the day she's gone. But when she is gone when she dies, it could be too late. It could be too late. It is today before tomorrow. Today. Go to your mother today. Go to your mother. Ask her to make the offer you ask her to pray for you. Be kind to her. Be nice to her. Hug her

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haaker before the time comes, she will not be there for the hug. Well, I a mother came to me once. She says, I have five kids. I have five kids. They have no problems. They're all strong. They're all healthy. Oh, Chef, I don't need nothing from him from them. I don't need anything from them. All I need. All I need is for them to come one day, one day just to come to me and give me a hug. They've never hugged me. They've never hugged me. What kind of hearts do we have today? What kind of hearts do we have? We're making to analyze the answer. Why allies Don't ask. How do you treat your mother? How do you treat your father? How do you treat your parents? Go back to them today? before tomorrow?

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Go back to them today. Before it's too late. I'm gonna ask all the sisters here. All the sisters, if your mother is here, go to her right now. I'm stopping. I won't say a word. Stand up. Go to your mom right now and give it a hug. If your mother sitting next to you, hugger quickly if your mother is go give it a hug. Brothers. If your father is here, how can how can

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your dad hug your dad? If your father is here, Please hug him. If your father is here, give him a hug your mom here, hug her and ask her to make the offer you ask your dad to make the offer you stand up all of you.

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I'm gonna make the law and all you say is me.

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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah Allahumma inanda Lockerbie as medical personnel was a particular

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Allah.

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Allah, Allah, Allah. Allah.

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Allah.

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Allah.

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Allah, Allah.

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Allah, Allah, Allah asked you buy everything that you that I know we asked to buy every name which we know we asked about every name which we did not know. We asked you why you grace this name we asked you we invoke you we simply Kate you Allah, please bless our parents. Please bless our parents, please forgive our parents. Please Allah preserve our parents are Allah Please have mercy upon our parents. But Allah

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have mercy upon our parents. Allah we know we know. We know we've been so unkind to them. We've been so unkind to them, we disobeyed them, we disobeyed them, we dishonor them, or Allah, please forgive us. Our shortcomings, all of our shortcomings. Our parents are not pleased granted. Our parents well up is great. Please grant them the highest level in gender,

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gender, please grant them to see the face of your face on law. Please grant them the companionship of the prophet in general. All of us, forgive our parents, bless them, preserve them, protect them, protect them, protect them all. Those of them are sick. Well Please give them Shiva. those of them who are sick Allah is giving them the cure is healed and PCL them those are parents who are here or maybe those amongst us who have parents that are not Muslim Allah please guide them is guide the guide that Allah is guided please please please guide them, guide them, guide them, guide them, show them that no show them the no show them the light or Allah. Show them the straight path Allah Allah

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I mean, I mean, I mean, what's Allahumma salli ala nabina Muhammad Allah

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subhana

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wa when I was Saddam Hussein or hamdulillah Adam, he had the person next to you Please hug the person next to you.

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Come on lucky.

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May Allah bless you as I come laughead

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If Allah gives me life

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I may see you tomorrow.

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If Allah gives me life again, I may see you tomorrow for my final talk is that