The Firsts – Episode 04

Omar Suleiman


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Khadijah_ His First Love, Our First Mother

In episode 4 of the Firsts, dive into the many “firsts” accomplished by the best woman of her time, Kadijah bint Khuwaylid (ra), the Prophet Muhammad’s (pbuh) first love and wife. Sh. Omar Suleiman describes the relationship and love between Khadijah (ra) and the Prophet (pbuh), her support, and her station as the first woman to become Muslim.


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The speaker discusses the history and character of the Prophet sallavi, including his birth, career, and importance in marriage. They also touch on the profit slice and the Prophet sallavi Alayhi wa sallam's teachings. The Prophet's love for the first woman in Islam was allam and given a necklace to Khadija, who later lost her. The Prophet's love for the first woman in Islam was allam and given a necklace to Khadija, who later lost her.

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hamdu Lillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah Allah he was talking to Manuela. So tonight we talked about Khadija about the law of Thailand. And Khadija is the first and the first and the first and the first and the first and the first. In fact, if you were to break down the lists of first, Khadija would occupy the first nine, which I'll get to inshallah Tada, at least, about the first nine, if you actually get to her virtues. As I said, you know, you could start off with her and we could have started off this series, but I wanted to kind of lay the groundwork with some of those that started to have these inclinations towards belief before Khadija actually receives the Prophet

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sallallahu wasallam receives the prophet and believes in him and gives him that support that he needed so desperately in those times. But you know, understanding, you know, the place of Zaid divinorum and then understanding what aka the cousin of Khadija and the role that he played. And now we get to this very special woman. Now, my disclaimer for this is that I've done a five hour class on Khadija. So it's very hard to condense into 40 minutes, but I'm going to try and I'm going to try to focus particularly on where she distinguishes herself as the first and so I'm going to omit many of the biographical details about her in light of that and focus on some of the things that a lot of

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people might not actually know about her. Okay, so many people miss certain things about her or the significant elements of her history that have to do with it. Obviously, she is who she is, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, hate only sir He harmonium, if not to Emraan will hate when he said he had Khadija that the best woman of her times was multicam. And the best woman of her times was Khadija, the profits license included her amongst those who perfected their faith. When you say perfection of faith, you have to think about all that that entails and how hard that is to achieve for someone who is not a prophet of God to be perfect have cannot have complete perfection

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in her email and her a flock faith and her character while the Allahu taala and her and you see this as you start to go through her story. So let's start off with just briefly who she is she is Khadija been tweeted? acid. No, there is no per se no Caleb, from per se, even Caleb all the way up. She has the exact same lineage as the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. So she has the same lineage, the same lineage as the Prophet peace be upon him and then it breaks off after for, say, two years, Arizona and then you go into the tree of Khadija, or the law of Thailand. As we mentioned last week, let's see if anyone remembers actually.

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Her father, was he the oldest son? Or the youngest son?

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The youngest? How do we know that? What was why did that come up last week?

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uncle, her uncle who

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none of we said it last week for a reason. Anybody remember? See how attentive people are? Yeah.

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Very good. So we said Novell is the brother of hoilett, who is the youngest son of acid. nofal is the oldest. So what is the oldest son of Nova? Khadija is the youngest of Hayden's, which explains the gap in age between Wanaka and Khadija so what are really played much more of a senior role in her life? What does her cousin but almost like her uncle, because of the difference in age, we're talking, at least at this point, you know, 2530 years between Wanaka and Khadija about the Allahu taala on him. So COVID was the chief of bento acid. He was one of those who defended the character in the story of sorts of feed one of those who, who was willing to defend the character along with

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optimal club, the grandfather of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And he also went with the multilotto, the grandfather of the prophets, I send them to Yemen, to congratulate safe enthusiasm, who became the ruler of Yemen after the death of a little while after the the death of Abraham. And, of course, Abra was the one who sought to destroy the Kava from Yemen. So the father of Khadija Whalen is close to Abdulmutallab, the grandfather of the Prophet, slice alum, and of course, the multilib was the one who took care of the Prophet slicin when he was first born, because the prophets father had already passed away. So of the model of the grandfather and holiness have a

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history of being two chiefs. Living together, yet both of them do

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relatively early Whalen died as we said last week in the Battle of Alfie jaw, who knows the name of the mother of a digital the lawn.

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I'll give you a clue. It's the name of one of her daughters.

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Fatima. So there are many faultiness when you actually start to get through it so the mother of Khadija is Fatima Benza so Fatima, the daughter of the Prophet slice them and Khadija as the Hara is named after Fatima Banzai. The Fatima was also the paternal grandmother of the prophets of Allah Hardy was some of the mother of Abdullah. her siblings we mentioned a very famous sibling, our one being the father of zubayr, or the Allahu taala angle as obeyed ignore a one as debatable, of course is one of the 10 promised paradise, so that would make zubaid her

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cousin or nephew set her siblings. Okay, so bave is the nephew of Khadija Zubair has two daughters, by the way, named Khadija Cobra and Khadija sola would name two of his daughters Khadija, the big Khadija, the small Khadija and Cobra and Khadija Silva. Another famous sibling is his arm, the father of hachimura, his arm, who of course, was the one who

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has played a big role in the seat of the Prophet sly some later on.

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he narrates many of the narrations of Mexican Syrah and about Khadija law, the law of Thailand in particular, there is Hannah been toilet?

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the sister of Khadija or the Allahu taala. And her her son allows the son of Halloween Floyd would marry Xena, the daughter of Khadija and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So that's one of the Sisters of Khadija will the law of Thailand as well. And you know, the rest of that obviously this is just meant to give you somewhat of a picture of what's happening in Mecca as it comes to the Prophet sallallahu sallam. Khadija, the loads Alana was born 15 years before the profits line sell them so she was 15 years older than the prophets why Selim that would make her year of birth, what year? You can't just say 15 years before the profit. We don't have BP before profits birth right?

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Five what

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595-580-5555 the Prophet sly son was born in the year 570. You got your numbers mixed up.

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You got Prophethood That's right. So you've got you're onto something, just not this thing. All right. So she was born in the year 555 15 years before the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. Her name is a really interesting name. It's an extremely unique name. If you look through the, the early books where they they they you know, track the names, the names that people would use in the Arab world at the time were pretty common.

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You see a lot of ants moms daughters kind of recycling the names over and over and over again. Khadija is not one of those names, just like Mohammed Salah lines on them is unique only to him. Khadija is not a name that you find Khadija means premature. Khadija actually means linguistically premature. And so the indication is that she was born well before the due date. And some of the scholars you know, mentioned maybe the wisdom of that she was premature. She was ahead of her time, you know, truly Subhana Allah as a woman ahead of her time, but as a girl, when she was born, she was born premature, hence her family called her Khadija. And so you don't find any Khadija before

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Khadija, right which is very rare you find many faulty most you don't find many or any Khadija is in fact the fourth Khadija, although the Allahu taala. And so she was born a very premature birth given the name Khadija. She was extremely beautiful, well educated, literate, well dressed sharp, perfect in her behavior, perfect and her character, the most elegant woman of Mecca, she grew up to become the most elegant woman of Mecca. She never worshipped idols just like the prophets. I saw them and Rebecca she was one of those who chose not to worship idols. Part of that is probably the influence of what I've been known for who he spoke about last week or the amount of time that there was this

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idea. And it was okay for some to not worship the idols. But of course, what was prohibited or what would be confronted would be the character or a person like Zaid Narayan who would actually confront idol worship before the prophet SAW the lights on and receives the revelation. She has another nickname, even before it's not Does anyone know what it is?

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So her nickname was talking about so Khadija was also called boss

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Hero pure before it's not. And that was obviously in reference to her character, pure, even before Islam, the devil The 11 has narrates Khadija will be alone on how was known to have never backed by did lied, hurt anyone or upset anyone. So she was just one of those women that would not mess with anybody. One of those people that just goes through, walks through does not use her position of authority or strength to hurt anybody. So she had a very gentle, subtle presence, which is rare for someone of that of that level, right? prominence, beauty, wealth, everything that would make a person arrogant only contributed to her humility, while the allowed time even before Islam, she

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married a man by the name of Abu Hannah and neurotomy me That's her first husband. She had two sons from him. Holla and hint, by the way, there are a lot of hints in the Seattle men and women named hint. Okay, I'll talk about why another time. All right. But Hint, hint. behala

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who was the son of Khadija, the oldest son of Khadija has one of the most beautiful descriptions of the prophets license, so he lived to the time of Islam. And he described the Prophet peace be upon him his physical characteristics, his Shema, his, his appearance, his character, and one of the most beautiful descriptions. So if you were to look up Hindi, or behala, his description of the prophets lie Selim. It is an incredible description, one of the most prominent descriptions in the books of Shema and he lived all the way until 36 after his life, so he he lived actually well after the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, even not just Khadija all the time, and he narrated from Eben Abbas

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al Hassan Al Hussein and his son also hint.

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So her first husband abou holla, passed away. She married rtq interactive and masumi Atif, even masumi.

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She had a daughter for from him named hynd, also son from the first one named hynd. second

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husband she had a daughter named tinned.

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Also a son named Abdullah Reza.

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Obviously, reference to idolatry, but this one that's not that doesn't come in any sound narration per se but some of the books mentioned a son by the name of Abdullah Reza. And that would not be because of her idol worship or proving of idolatry, but it would be because that was the name of her grandfather. So maybe a son of the there is a from him as well. Now, this one this husband passed away also, and he died when she was only 25. So she was already widowed twice at the age of 25 years old. Meaning that she would go 15 years 15 years unmarried after being married to two husbands before the prophet SAW the lahardee gonna sell them. Bedroom zoom is a considered one of the richest

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Anyone know any famous members from Burma zoom.

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Abuja Abuja has from Bamako zoom, saladna lead and of course a lead are from federal Muslims. So these are very powerful, rich people in society. So when Khadija will be alone has 25 years old, she's already widowed, or she's she's already become a widow twice.

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Khadija will de la Anna had inherited from both of her parents she inherited from both of her husband's who were both very wealthy, wealthy, and she was an extremely intelligent, smart businesswoman. So she became not just the richest woman amongst Quraysh. But her caravan, the caravan of Khadija, while the love of Thailand her equal all of the other caravans of Croatia. So if you took just her caravan by itself, and you put all of our racist caravans together, hers would outdo all of them. She used to send on the trade routes to Syria and to Yemen sometimes over 800 camels carrying her goods. So this is a very wealthy woman, a very exquisite, rich woman. Her

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nickname becomes a Mita to grace the Princess of Quraysh. See Sita to Nisa. Qureshi, the leader of the women of Quraysh Khadija Cobra Khadija the great there are so many different nicknames that she acquires along the way, aside from ba Hera, which was one that was more prominent and, you know, an interchangeable with her name Khadija growing up, she also there was a green silk pavilion over her roof. So it's really interesting. If you walked into Mecca, there was a green silk pavilion over her roof. And that wasn't a sign of her wealth. That was actually a sign for the poor that were in need. They knew to go to her house. So she wanted she wanted it to be very open and clear that she would

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give her money freely to the orphans, to the poor to the widows.

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To the sick, she used to help the poor get married, she used to provide them a hug herself. So she was an extremely generous woman as well.

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At one point, there's a narration that she had over 400 servants.

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So this is a woman that is giving too much of society that occupies a great place of prominence in her society, obviously, because of her humility and her, her goodness, she also got taken advantage of quite a bit in business, right. So she would employ traders have people take her caravans to Yemen, to Syria, which were the famous trade routes for the people of Mecca. And often they come up short, she knew she was being cheated. And she was looking for an honest merchants that she can trust with her wealth on those trade routes. So she herself actually never made the trip to to a sham or to Yemen. But she was looking for someone that she that she could give that wealth to. How

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does the prophets lie some enter into this picture? Okay, so how does he even come up in the conversation?

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The Prophet sallallahu salams actual career coming up was not a merchant, what was he? He was a shepherd. Right? And he said that all of the prophets were shepherds. It's one of the ways that a lot taught the prophets character is that all of the prophets of Allah, at some point were shepherds. And so the prophets lie Selim was a shepherd. And he was a shepherd primarily for doubleton and taking care of autonomous business as well. Now, at the age of 18, the prophets lie some also started to play the role of being a broker. So in a contract of mudarabah, where you have a silent partner and an active partner, so he would start to be a person that would engage in some

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of those trades on behalf of a seller, but he himself sly Selim did not go as an adult at this point, after the age of 18. When he started doing this, he didn't actually go to Syria or Yemen, himself to do that. If you remember from the story of what aka obovata took him as a child, and the monk in Syria said, Don't bring them around here. And he did not bring them back over there. So when the prophet SAW some grew up, this is the only second only the second time that he's going to go out to a sham.

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Now, how does Khadija come to know about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she was sick of being burned in business. She was looking for someone who was honest, who is trustworthy. And she was complaining to her sister Hannah, about us. And how Allah referred the profit slice on to her saying that he's a shepherd, for some of my sheep. So the Prophet sly son was a shepherd for Hannah, the sister of Khadija, and said, you know, he's an extremely trustworthy person, he has high character, why don't you approach him? So she said, Who should I approach she said, approach his father, I will. I will tell him, of course, is the uncle of the prophets lie Selim, but plays the

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role of his father. When he goes to Avada, I will thought of actually initially was hesitant. He didn't want to do it. He did not want to let the prophets lie some go out, to do this trade to a sham to Syria. But after some convincing, she makes the offer multiple times, I will thought of accepts the proposition. The prophets lie some accepts to take her caravan to a sham for that year. And the person that would be paid paired off with him as we said last week, what was his name? Mei Sarah, who would follow the Prophet sly seldom, on behalf of Khadija saw his good character said that the cloud never left him when he would, when he when he would take naps, the trees would extend

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their branches over him, when he would be in the marketplace and they'd say, swear by a lot. And he would say I've never sworn by them before. Mesa who saw the good character of the prophets lie some of the honesty of the prophets lie Selim. In any case, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he doubled the caravan of Khadija on that trip. So he did an extremely good job. He was noble and Mesa told Khadija about his good character, and about the things that he had seen. And

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of course, the fact that he's a monotheists also appeals to families all the time, who is a monotheist as well, so may sort of comes back. The profit slice on took Khadija caravan out, doubled it was completely honest, maintained a great deal of nobility and may sada is bragging about the profit slice on them. Now, Khadija will the allow Anna had trust issues with the merchants or merchants taking her caravan. She definitely has trust issues getting married now because, you know, she doesn't want to get married to someone who's only going to marry

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Her to cheat her with all the wealth that she has. So she doesn't trust people for marriage. So she's been unmarried now for over a decade. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam is also unmarried. And there's a woman that puts the bug in his ear. Does anyone know her name?

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Not holla No. Nafisa. Okay. So Nafisa was a friend of Khadija. She goes to Khadija and asks her How's everything? And Khadija starts talking about the prophets lie Salaam. You know, this young man Mohammed who took her caravan and just was so honest and how noble he was. And she starts to say all of those things. So Nafisa sees the spark in her eye. And Nafisa says, Well, why don't you marry him? Khadija? Well, the lavon has said, You know, I wasn't interested in marriage. And I've been turning people down this whole time. So it's not really something I thought of the profits will allow us and it was also turning down all proposals. Why was the profit not getting married?

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What was the main reason why he was not getting married?

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Anyone know?

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He had a poor family. He wanted to take care of his family. So he felt indebted to have autonomy to you know, again, this is a situation where you have the family living together, different kids, the kids have doubleton of being transferred here. Living with the Prophet slicin upon himself was a very poor man, a respected man, but a very poor man. So the Prophet sly son was holding off getting married. She was holding off,

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getting married.

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And Khadija will the 11 I mean, obviously the prophets lie some from an economic perspective, his class compared to her class, this is a very different class. So Elisa, will the Aloha in her in a conversation with Nafisa asks Nafisa to inquire from the profit slice on if he's even interested. So enough, he says the one playing the role here, right? She heard from Khadija she got the Okay, she's interested. She goes to the profit slice. So um, she says to the Prophet slice of them, why don't you get married? He says, You know, I have to care for my family. I have to take care of them. But who would you suggest anyway? And the thesis says, What about a woman with nobility, wealth, beauty

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character, she's got everything. prophets lie, Selim said. Who? So she said Khadija the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Why do you think she wouldn't marry me? You know what what would make Khadija well the allow on her a Mira to Nisa Quraysh the Princess of Qureshi say either to Nisa marry me. So Nafisa says Let me ask her. So Nafisa goes back to Khadija Khadija sends the proposal of a pilot comes back with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and who conducts the marriage.

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Command Wanaka good. Just want to make sure you all were paying attention last week. So think about this bah, bah, bah Hara, the pure one marries, I mean, the truthful one, right, somehow love their nicknames Bahia. And I mean, and we mentioned last week, the dream that Khadija Ilana had of the Sun descending into her home, and watercolored telling Khadija that this would be that you would marry a nobleman or a prophet. Okay. Now, I want to actually give you some perspective here because it's important about how history changes now, who had Khadija received proposals from before the prophets lie Selim Abuja,

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Abu Sufyan, urban or be more eight,

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three people who would oppose Of course, the only one that lived to accept Islam and be able to soufiane but three of the fiercest enemies of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, when he receives Prophethood, three powerful, arrogant men, right. Khadija did not want any part of them. Despite the strength, despite the nobility, the wealth, all the power that they had in society, she turned down proposals from all three of them, which is unheard of if you live in Mexican society. You don't turn down a proposal from Abuja, who at that time, was not called the father of ignorance, he was armed he shall I will haccombe the father of wisdom, powerful, you know, strong, noble, noble in many ways

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a leader right? turns down all of them. Imagine the trajectory of history if Khadija marries one of them instead. So Pamela, which was the the expected route for Khadija, so Khadija will be allowed Tatiana did not do that. Why did she marry the Prophet slice of them? Why did she marry the Prophet slice them? For what reason? Was it because of how handsome he was? He was very handsome, Was it because of his lineage. He had a you know, lineage was a big thing to the Arabs. It was because of character and she actually told the prophets Allah

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lohani he was selling in the car dealership to FICO the Hosni Hello picker was simply Heidi fick. She said look, the reason why I fell for you I want to do I desired you is because of your noble character and your truthful tunc. The two things I noticed about you your good character, your truthful tongue, that's what attracted me to you. Yeah, Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and you know, this is acting upon revelation before it comes the Prophet slicin um, said that attacked him and settled on Edina. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. So we do if someone comes to you with religion and character, you marry that person, you marry that person, you look for those things.

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Obviously religion is ambiguous at this point, character is not ambiguous. And what drew Khadija to the Prophet slice alum was his character. This is what the earlimart say the scholars say. And then we educate a team and for our well which other cabal and Sahaba or which other characters Cara Eden, Elena, that a lot of found you poor and he enriched you, he puts you in a place of success that Khadija will be allowed to Atlanta, marrying the prophets lie, some of them was special. 40 years old. She was 40. He was 25. And the prophets lie Selim through his marriage to Khadija. His place in society changed significantly. For one it freed him up significantly to play a more important role

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in society. So it freed him up there a wealthy couple at this point.

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The second thing it gave the prophets lie some access to the elites that he did not have before and that would play an important role in his downline that would play an important role in his call. Now the Prophet peace be upon him already attained a position due to his nobility in his character, people already knew him as a good man and loved him and respected him. But now being married to Khadija gives him a different status in society altogether. So he moves into the house of Khadija will the Allahu taala and her in the in five years of so after, after the after five years of marriage, they had six children

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who can name all the children by the way?

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All right, it's too late for you guys. I'm not into that. So Xena Rokia Cancun, Fatima, El Paso and Abdullah. Okay. four daughters, Xena, roleplayer uncle film Fatima, Casa and Abdullah. According to a narration from Irwin Khadija named the girls the prophets lie, some named the boys. So you have six children that come from this. And not just six children that come into this household. You also have other people that live in this house. Who else who else lives in this home?

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What's up? So some of Khadija his previous children also live with the Prophet sly someone Khadija, I just want you to get an idea for how many kids are in this home. Okay, who else? Someone just said it I heard someone say they didn't have ether. So they didn't know how different was

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actually a he was a he was in little talk about zaidan detail at some point was captured enslaved

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and then bought by hachimura exam gifted to Khadija or the Allahu taala and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sozzi the Prophet slicin immediately loved this young man, Khadija de la Anna gifted z to the prophets lie Selim, who Freed's aids and adopted him as a son. So they became Zaid Ibn Muhammad. Did I lose you all? Hakeem is the nephew of Khadija gifted Zaid to Khadija Khadija gifted z to the Prophet's life slam the Prophet slicin freed him and took him as a son instead. So he was the adopted son known as hibel Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam the beloved one of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who else is in this household.

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What's up?

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Amen? Not exactly. Not exactly. Not living in the household. Yeah.

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Not as a waiter. So baby was actually being cared for by NOFA.

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on us, and this is Medina. Later later, Ali, why don't why don't you all forget? I mean, what's going on here? I need all the love of Thailand. Right? I leave it alone. So when the prophet SAW some move to the house of Khadija, obviously his economic status changes in his heart is still with doubleton. That's why he didn't want to get married in the first place. He didn't want to leave Apple pilot in a bad situation. So I will tell him had a hard time caring for his own children. So Hamza Hamza of the law and who took Java.

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The Prophet slicin took it.

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Okay, so Jacqueline was raised in the home of Hamza and Ali was raised in the home of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So this is a pretty full house, right between the Prophet sly summon Khadija

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All of these children, and the way that this relationship goes for the next 15 years before Islam comes into the picture, is it really is this model relationship? They absolutely loved each other. They only had one arguments one time. And the argument was that Khadija will the law and asked the prophets lie Selim to attend a gathering of some of the relatives and the prophets. lysozyme said, A Khadija will la isla de la to Abba,

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Abba. And Khadija said cuddly lot. Hallelujah Reza. So he said to Khadija I will never worship or I will never worship Allah, the idols and Khadija was saying, forget about nuts forget about Islam, meaning that Khadija wanted the prophets lie, some to go to one of those gatherings, just to be with the relatives and the prophets lie some did not want to attend any of the gatherings where the idols would be worshipped. So that's the only time that they actually had an argument was over, was over that. One of the narrations that took place at this time is Khadija loved, she loved to make the profit slice, I'm happy. And so when she met Halima Sardinian, Halima was the woman who breastfed

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the profits Isom who cared for the prophet SAW some as a child, when Khadija met Halima Serbia, and he saw and she saw the way the Prophet slice of them, loved Halima, Saudia like a mother, Khadija de la and her gifted her with 40 sheep and a camel, and that that was the habit of Khadija gives you some context if she met someone who helped the prophet SAW Selim as a child or when he was young or when he was destitute, Khadija would spend on them, right, she would give them for what they did for the prophets of Allah Harney was Selim. So it gives you some of some context to the profit slice and I'm repaying that favor. later on after the death of Khadija to spend on Khadija friends. Khadija

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spent on the Friends of the profit slice on anyone that took care of the profit slice them or that love the profit slice number the profit slice on love it Khadija saw digital the low on her gave and gave and gave and gave. And of course, this only increased the love of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam for the job or the allowance Allah and of course, one of the significant incidents before revelation here is when the tribes fought over the placement of the stone in the cabin hazard us with the black stone in the camera. And the tribes made it an agreement that they would that they would resolve the dispute by whoever walks through the doors. Next we'll place the stone together,

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the profit slice on them walks through, they said I mean a lot Lena I mean, although Lina is the trustworthy one, the truthful one we are pleased is the truthful one, we are pleased. And the profit slice and I'm came up with a strategy said that all of the tribes will that will put the black stone in the cloth. And all of the tribes will grab a part of that cloth. That way they all place the stone together. And so it solves the dispute of giving favoritism to one tribe over the other. Now of course, that's that's a position that the prophets lie some in part occupies now because of who his wife is okay, because of who his wife is about the law hotel. And now, all of that I just

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summarized as much as I could and paraphrase and I hope I didn't lose anyone to give you this context, to Revelation.

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Okay, to Revelation. The prophets lie some of them had the most beautiful life, the most elegant life the most wealthy, noble, comforting. Carrick loved his children has an incredible space in society. There is nothing more that a person could want at this point, meaning from a dunya we perspective from a material perspective, the best moments the best time of the prophets life was 3839 years old, this this lead up to Revelation. When he walks through the streets, he is noble, everyone recognizes him. He's a peacemaker. When he speaks, everyone listens. They honor him. His family life is good, his societal Life is good. He has everything that he could possibly want.

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And suddenly, the prophets lie some starts to see dreams. This is an important understanding of Revelation, right? The prophets liasons revelation starts with true dreams. Suddenly the Messenger of Allah sees something he wakes up.

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Sometimes he would tell his family what he saw in the dream and it would happen exactly as he saw it. sallallahu wasallam so for six months, half a year, the Messenger of Allah sly Salaam kept seeing true dreams. After he sees true dreams, what happens next? He showed the love and he says, Allah put the love of seclusion in the heart of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Suddenly he loved to pray alone to seclude himself get to have enough Oh yeah, to have enough to worship in an

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Abrahamic way, the worship of what I thought was called 200 202 worship and they had an easy way to worship in a monotheistic way. So the Prophet slicin suddenly loved to have long periods of silence and seclusion and worship that one god actively and seeking something greater. But he was called very specifically on it, his Salatu was salam to the body head on to that cave and head on.

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It's not like he was going next door, or the Prophet seisen would take to another room in the very large house of Khadija, the Prophet slicin and would go climbing all the way up, which is at least a couple of hours, though, allow them how long it needs to take them. But if any of you have been up to head off with the paved way, how long does it take you out? What are your times

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an hour? About an hour, right? Okay, that's with the that's if you're walking at a healthy pace, and you don't get attacked by one of the monkeys up there. All right, but the point is, is that you're walking up there, and you know, you don't hopefully none of those monkeys steal you're actually had someone in my head group, one of the monkeys stole his he took a banana to give to one of the monkeys and the monkey grabbed the monkey acted like it was gonna take the banana and then it grabbed his bag instead and ran off with it. Sounds like they're a lot smarter than you think. And they know the tourists that are coming up there. So it takes about an hour to get up there with the

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paved the way with the steps. Imagine back then no steps.

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Nothing. That's not taking into consideration the walk to the mountain in the first place, which the house of the messenger RNA salatu salam, and Khadija or the Allahu anhu was around the area of Marwan walking all the way from there to the mountain and then up and being in that cave all by yourself. How long did he used to do this? He used to go up there. So I sent him sometimes for a few days, sometimes for a few weeks, and then sometimes entire month.

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Without coming down, some of the women started to mock Khadija,

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right? You know, you've given him everything, you've done this for him and your husband goes away, spends a month up there. What kind of argument Are you having with your husband that it goes up to a mountain right? That's not what was happening though. Right. But you know, you can imagine the mockery and the words that start to be spread when you're when you're at that position in society, every move of yours is scrutinized. So why is the profit slice on why is Mohammed slice I'm going up to a mountain now? what's what's with this long break, except Khadija de la and her Not only does she not buy into any naysayers, Khadija would go up? How old would Khadija Lila and have been 5455

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years old, would go up the mountain herself, take food to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam bring stuff to him so that he did not have to come back to the home to reload to replenish his good so that he could focus in his worship, she knew that this was sincere devotion, and that something was happening and she wanted to be as supportive as she could somehow to look, no one told her to do that. Nor is that an expectation the Prophet slicin placed on her. But this is a woman that always exceeds all expectations. She's going up there, taking food, taking drink, taking, you know, a blanket, all these things to make sure that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam is well cared for, and

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never has to think about coming back down. Right for any of these things only says good things only supports him only helps him.

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And then obviously, you're imagining the climb of a woman with how many children at this point, right, that has given birth to about 1011 children.

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You know, in her in her late 50s, walking up a mountain by herself darkness of the night or the heat of the sun. Either way, it's a it's a pretty harsh climb for you to have to make.

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And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, of course experiences what he experiences. Who comes to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and approaches the Prophet sallallahu wasallam in the cave. It is so significant. First of all, imagine how long the run of the prophets I send them back down less. I mean, that's not it's not like he saw jabril was squeezed, terrified and he could just jump out. No, he still has to make that whole walk down from the mountain goes to Khadija Well, the Allahu taala and you cannot underestimate first and foremost the significance of the prophets lie some going to have deja first why he could have gone to Abu Bakr his best friends or the Allahu anhu

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it could have gone to his father figure he could have gone to a person who understands these things himself right. The profit slice um could have gone to hamzat or the allow I know his uncle and his one of his best friends Hamza plays a dual role of being his uncle.

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His brother in law, and that they were breastfed together same age, and his best friend, one of his best friends. Instead he goes straight to Khadija with the allowance. Knowing that no one is going to reassure him and being more supportive than this woman, no one could possibly no human being could comfort the profits like them the way that Khadija will be low on her comfort, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he, and I want you to think of the scene.

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The Prophet slicin bursts into the home

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tells her these are the 11 has a meaning the meaning Cover me cover me, hold me embrace me. For the dollar. The Leviathan does not ask any questions a lot more than what he just saw that a lot knows that. Did he get attacked on the way home? What happened? She doesn't ask. The prophets lie. Some comes in sweating. His he's shaking, hold me embrace me. She holds him she embraces him. She comforts him so long and sell them. And the Hadith actually mentioned that the Prophet slicin did not speak for some time, meaning he shook for a little bit and she's just holding him she's not not asking any questions. He's waiting to let the Prophet sallallahu wasallam talk about what happened

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to him. And when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam starts to speak, had the habit unheroic. The Prophet sly salams that the the the the the fear had gone from him or he stopped shaking at least a lot harder to sell them at that point. Carly Khadija, a Khadija Mani Oh Khadija What is wrong with me Look at her she to Allah and FC.

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I'm worried about myself. It's all he said.

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I'm worried about myself.

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And he said that the one who I saw in my sleep came to me attorney led a journey. Let the attorney phenomenon because the prophets lie. Some had seen Jabri in a dream before he recognized him. And now he saw him in the cave, this man who he saw in his dream, and I saw the one who came to me in my sleep and that's all when he says look, Akashi to LFC What is he telling Khadija? And by the way, if the profit slice I'm as fabricating something these first few years, don't really add up because there's the there's a profit who's in uncertainty who's waiting for more guidance, who's looking? Who's waiting for months and months and months and months for something to happen. But he's scared

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lacquered, cachito, LFC, I'm worried about myself, what does he mean when he says I'm worried about myself? What is he talking about? Yeah.

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That I'm possessed, that I'm possessed. Maybe have I lost my mind? What happened to me? I might have I lost my mind. Right? So he's questioning himself. Somehow a lot. In those moments Khadija could make or break him Kashi she could say to him,

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we're gonna stop you from going to head off for some time, go to sleep. talk about this later. She could have said something neutral. She could have said let's go to sleep right now. Let me think about it. She could have called someone over, she could have immediately said let's go to Walker, she could have said let's go to a doctor. She could have actually criticized him again, you know, you know, you really shouldn't be going and spending all that time and head off. You should have been home. I needed you hear you went to head off. She could have used that as an opportunity. She could have mocked him anything. There are so many things. She could have said to the Prophet so I

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sent him in those moments, but somehow Allah right away one of the first words she says and I actually went through all the narrations I studied all 19 narrations I was like, let me find what the first word was. I want to be sure of it. What was it

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close first before that, even she said Kela kennela. No, and Kela is no way Abshire.

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These are glad tidings from Helen Keller.

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These are glad tidings. This is good news from Allah. And then she said firewalla Hina Zeke Allahu Abba. I swear that Allah would never disgrace you. First thing she denies. Because the profit slice I needed to hear I'm not crazy. Did I lose my mind? Am I possessed color? Of course not. No way. Right color. And then actually don't be sad. Don't be sad. You know. So Pamela, when something like that happens, that type of a traumatic experience. First and foremost, you need that self assurance. And then you need to be able to see the good news that is hidden in what seems to be a very difficult hardship. Khadija Cheves that in two words with the Prophet slice Hello. Kela that No, you

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did not lose your mind. You're not crazy. Episode. This is good news. Why? For la Hey, LA, you Zika la vida. Your Lord would never disgrace you you think

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A lot with disgrace a person like that you think allow a disgrace a person like you. And then she starts to tell the prophets lie Selim, what he needs to hear

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words of reassurance and they're not just ambiguous you know words. She says how Allah He iNec Allah tassia Rahim starts to mention all these qualities he said first and foremost, you are someone who maintains good relations with kin. What testicle Hadith and you only speak words of truth you only speak words of truth you don't remember this was one of the qualities that made her want to marry the profit slice I'm in the first place you're a truthful person. You only speak words of truth what can and you help the poor and the destitute? No one who is poor or destitute comes to you except that you help them what texts equal amount of doom. Okay? So textbook can cast refers to more of the

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more of the the the the list part, the sustenance part.

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And taking care of a technical taxable model means you don't just spend on people you actually carry the burden as well. When people have burdens. You don't just spend on them, you actually carry their burdens as well. And then he says, What's up good life. She says, What's up good life, you entertain your guests. You're even good with your guests. What to her in Orlando will help and you assist those who are stricken with calamities, you are always there for those who are in hardship. So Pamela in this in these few sentences, that is the prophets lie. Some came down with revelation for the devil the low Anna has inspiration, how does she come up with those words? If you were to

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actually take the time to come up with those words, for that moment, you would not be able to come up with better words, she reassured the Prophet sallallahu wasallam instead, so many different ways First of all,

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notice the reasons she mentioned that Allah would not disgrace the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and then compare it to what would come down Of course, and later on over 13 years later, and certainly Bukhara lace and below and to wonder, would you have comfortable? I'm not sure if he will remember him? Well, I can double M and M and I believe he will. He will agree with me that you can see what kitabi wouldn't have been without a man and he'll be here that will Cordoba, Malia Tama will Misaki webinar Sabine was Nina with repub what I'll call masala. What artists will move forward on behalf to him either Hadoop wasabi Rena, Philibert, Satya Nadella or Hina. Lux without Cadena Sadako What?

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What chacun Allah says righteousness is not the to turn your faces towards the east or the west. But righteousness is one who believes in Allah, the last day, the angels the book, the prophets, and gives out of their wealth, in spite of their love for it, to relatives, to orphans, to the needy, to the travelers, to those who asked for help for the freeing of slaves, and who established his prayer and gives the cat those who fulfill their promises when they make promises and those who are patient in poverty, and hardship. And during during struggle, those are the ones who have been truthful and it is they who are righteous, Khadija will the low on her description of why Allah would not

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disgrace the Prophet slicin actually already matches up with her and that would come later on.

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Somehow she could have said, Allah would not disgrace you and she could have said you never worship the idols you did this he did that she couldn't. But she mentioned these reasons that actually line up almost exactly with what Allah would describe as righteousness in the Quran, in Surah, Al Baqarah. And also some of the scars mentioned, Khadija will the law and her mentioning these things, this confidence that she has in the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is important because no one knows the profit slice. And unlike her, she was only one his only wife.

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They have been married now for 15 years. Right? I mean, no one knows the profit slice I'm better than her. And so those words of confidence coming from your spouse are particularly significant. So isn't some poet in front of the camera, you know, saying all these words about to your wife, your spouse, saying that about? also knowing that rich people, wealthy people usually don't do the things that you do. The prophets lie some was not transformed by his wealth by the wealth that came to him when he married Khadija, but instead he used that for more noble things and more truthful and charitable things. And this here makes Khadija the law on how not just you know somehow the first

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believer here right? She actually is believing in the profit slice and then before the profit slice lm is certain of himself, think about how incredible that is. She's telling the profit slice alum before he sure of himself that I'm sure of you.

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That's tested before you know confirming you know, his truthfulness before even hearing it from him. I'm sure you are upon the truth. I'm sure that Allah would not let you

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be disgraced. She says let's go to water. Right That was her idea to go to water first victory in quantum nantahala Moon asked the people of knowledge if you don't know any better. And by the way, we mentioned water made this comment and said that if I live to see when your people run you out Lancelot Naka Nasrin was the law that I will support you with everything I have, I will consume myself, I'll stand by your side and fight along your side. You think these are the low I'm sitting there hearing what I have to say that didn't affect her. Like that's going to be my mission, though. Right? I mean, if you were to describe Khadija support for the Prophet sly, summit's Muslim, was it

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his undying support throughout it all? It is what what a desire to do that Khadija while the Allahu taala Anna would do after that time, remember, there was a pause where jubilees did not come back for some time. The Prophet slicin was seeing gibreel alayhis salam

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in human form, in his in his human finger. But the prophet sly Saddam was not able to confirm anything at this point. He hadn't been called at this point. So these are the allow on her says

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either jakka Sahiba.

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Listen, if you see jabril again, the next time you see him, I want you to tell me. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, I see him for the job of the Allahu taala and has said, sit on my right side. So the Prophet sighs I'm sitting sat on her right side. She said, Tara, do you see him the profit side? Some said yes. She said sit on my left side.

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She said, Do you see him? He said yes. So then these are the Allahu taala and her, sat behind him put her arms around him and her legs around him. So like he's sitting, you know, in her grasp.

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And then, on top of that, she takes off nonsense. She removed her femur, meaning she removed. You know at that, you know, the femur. At that point, the women used to wear something on their head.

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And then obviously, when that when the order came down, then they moved it over and they tied, right. So she removed her came up. And she held them and she said, Tara, do you see him in the profit slice? I'm said no.

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This is an interesting narration right? And then she says Earth woods, for whom adequate establish a bond. So be firm. This is an angel, not a devil.

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That's the devil the lohana. What just happened? Right? Even the prophets lie Selim, what do you mean? How do you know? Because she was talking about the hadith of gibreel. And Islam. The modesty of this angel said that if it was a shape on the shape on would stay around. But gibreel had modesty and shyness that this angel would have modesty and shyness. So the angel would not stay if he perceived intimacy or something of that lines do believe it Salaam would give set up from the outside. So Khadija will the law is figuring this out.

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As a woman, obviously she's the cousin of watarrka. She's a wise woman, a noble woman, but she's, she's figuring things out herself and she is guided naturally towards this goodness. And this is what we hear from the you know, the prophets lie. Some said there are people who are more had the throne, they are just guided to natural goodness by the angels, like almost hopital the law. And it's as if they're receiving revelation because they're just they have certain inclinations. And so, then the prophets lie Selim, obviously some time passes and he does not, he does not get the command of Revelation. So though he saw gibellini, his Salaam the prophets lie, some did not get revelation

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again, if he's fabricating this. And if the Prophet seisen was cooking up the story for a very long time at the age of 40, he would have prepared the groundwork came out and said everyone it has come to me, you know, and he would have had this grand entrance, right? But there are months passing by.

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And Khadija is the one comforting him. And then Subhan Allah, the hadith of Jabu Abdullah where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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went out and he saw debris Ronnie his Salaam in his full angelic form. This was the first time he saw jabril Ali Salaam in his full angelic form, sitting on a throne between the heavens and the earth, covering the entirety of the horizon and coming near the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ran back to for the gentle the Allahu tada Anna once again said zemi Luisa Milani Khadija la de la embrace the prophets of Allah Haris, and under this time, there's a history that happened some time ago, right where she knows what must have happened. And at that moment, the next revelation of the Koran certain with death. Yeah, you heard MacArthur

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conference under, oh, you who is wrapped up, stand up and call that revelation comes to the Prophet slicin. While he's in the arms of Khadija. Think about how

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Significant that is that the revelation of certain would death that came to the Prophet slice Allah in the arms of Khadija or the Allahu taala. And oh you who was wrapped up arise and mourn and your Lord magnify and keep your your garments and desert the idols abandoned the idols. So somehow when the prophets licensees debate in human form the first time he goes to her when he sees him in angelic form, he goes to her again and certain would death is revealed in her arms all the time. And after certain with death came the prophet SAW the licen and said You are the first one I'm calling to this message and these are the low on has said and I am the first one to accept this message.

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I'm not going to question it.

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Absolutely no hesitation supporting him. sallallahu wasallam. So she she is the first Muslim the first believer the first of many things as I'll say, and the profits licenses model as the known that sleep is gone. We're not gonna sleep anymore after this right the time of sleep is gone. That time of just peace that we had is gone now. That the tribulations that are going to come that what a warned of certainly those tribulations will come the profit slice and I made his first walk and his first prayer with Khadija the profit size and made his first bow off with Khadija he would praise His pm with Khadija Khadija de la Anna sold away her clothes and her goods and spent on the call of

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the Prophet sighs time spent on the death of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. When the Prophet was boycotted This is probably the most somehow this one is heartbreaking. Because you can imagine emotionally what it did to the Prophet slicer. You don't think as much as he loved Khadija. You don't think he felt guilty. See, you know this man of empathy seeing the pain that the devil was causing her that suddenly it's not just him going down, being rejected and pelted and slander and losing everything she's losing everything to write. But when the boycott happens, when the boycott happened, the boycott was of two tribes. Banu Hashim Belmopan Apollo. Khadija is not included in

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either of those tribes. Khadija technically could have avoided the boycott, meaning she could have stayed on the outside of the ghetto that was created.

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The area that was created that was wired off, no one's allowed to go they're prohibited from food and drink, she could have stayed on the outside in the comfort of her home and supported her husband from there. But Khadija insisted on being with the Prophet sallallahu wasallam when the boycott of bento Hashem and venom will happen, and on top of that, Khadija will de la Han us what she had of connection to her to her husband to her cousin hacking her nephew hacking exam, on the left side on how to secretly sneak in food, because the people were starving. So Khadija used her connection, to sneak in food into the area of the boycott, and what it Khadija eats. So these are the 11 a woman

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who lived her entire life in wealth, beauty, elegance, she ate grass to survive.

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So even the food that came in, she donated, she distributed it, she spent it on everyone else had a lot complete selflessness. Imagine the Prophet sighs I'm looking at her becoming frail, losing her weight, becoming bony becoming sick all the time. All of a sudden, she was an old woman at this point, right? She's now in her 60s.

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And not only that, never once complaints. This is the amazing thing about her. She never once says, Why is this happening to me? You did this to me, none of that complete acceptance of that which she has. And there's a narration from him as soon needle him Allah to Allah, that God has said I met Khadija the law the streets in the form of a man which we know in the narrations of Hadith that sometimes a lot with sent an angel in the form of the man that would ask a question about the hell of the people but how they were doing that why Islam asked the the Ask the digital the 11 her about her situation and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And she said nothing but praise of the Prophet

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and gratitude to Allah. And then obviously,

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in the last moments of Khadija when she's about to die, this woman that believed in him, gave him everything loved him, supported him encouraged him. Now 25 years 25 years so the profit slice I'm married her at 25 and these 25 years, one of the only monogamous marriages in Mecca. He's married to her only profit sighs I've never had a god I never had a wife, nothing, just her. And these are the alohar on her, losing herself, dying, literally from eating grass in a boycott that she voluntarily is participating in. She voluntarily is in that boycott.

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Then the Hadith and Buhari from Abu huraira or the Allahu taala. That gibreel alayhis salam came to the prophets license sitting in his in his living room this is during the last days. And he says to the prophets of Allah Harney was suddenly out of sort of law O Messenger of Allah had the he Khadija, but at at Maha in our own fee Domine Armand Oh, shut up. He said O Messenger of Allah. This is Khadija coming to you. She's carrying a dish that has some some soup or some food or some drink. And he says to her, for him, either here at Attica when she comes to you, Accra alayhis salam and lobby her

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tell her that Allah sends Salaam to you.

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Allah give her Salaam from her Lord. So Pamela gibreel conveying a Salaam specific to Felicia from Allah another first the first person to receive Salam from Allah in this oma not just that one mini Salaam and give Khadija my Salaam to so tell her Allah Sansa now and then tell her that Gabriel the Jabra his salon sends his salon when mini salon will be should have the beighton Phil agenda min Kasab la Sahaba fee What an awesome and give her the glad tidings of a pearl palace. A palace made of pearls in Jenna in Paradise, and there will be no noise or fatigue in that home. So Pamela Khasab just got you know the amounts to Haiti Rahim Allah Tada. So Haiti says possib the pearls because

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Khadija gave away all of her pearls for the sake of Allah, she didn't have any more jewelry, she didn't have any more of that goodness. So you're going to have a whole house of those jewels, the most expensive pearls that you gave away you spent for the sake of Allah. Last Allah Sahaba vihara NASA, no noise, there's different assault, or exhaustion or fatigue. And so Haley says because she never raised her voice at the profit slice and I'm once nor did she ever tire him. She always was a source of peace, comfort, tranquility to him, so Allah would give her eternal tranquility. As a result of that no more noise, no exhaustion. And some of the scholars mentioned because of the

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taunting of the people of Mecca at this point, now you don't walk out of your house without the people of Mecca yelling at you cursing you, throwing things at you harassing you. So give her the glide tidings of a palace in paradise made of pearls. She'll hear no noise and no fatigue within for these all the love and her walks in. She's holding this tray, the profits, some says Allah sensis salaam to you. He says how the Djibouti of gibreel is here and he says that Allah son Salam T and debriefs and Salam T and gives you the glad tidings of a home in paradise made of pearls. There is no noise and no fatigue there in Khadija Viola and her smile she says in Allahu Allah says Allah is

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the source of Salaam the source of peace so I can't say why they cause Salaam but in Allah who has set up what Allah jabril A Salaam and to Gabriel my Salaam What are they can enter Yasuda Allah Salaam wa rahmatullah. And though the prophets lysozyme did not give Salaam to her per se, she said and upon you, O Messenger of Allah, the peace and the mercy of Allah. So she added, the prophets lie Selim, in her response Subhana Allah, this is the breed who came to the Prophet size some sent him into the arms of Khadija twice, and now comes to the Prophet slice them to tell the Prophet slice and I'm basically Khadija time is wrapping up. Right this was a sign has it been handled Rahim Allah

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says that the time of Khadija was near that she was about to die, and I will Pilate had died. This is in the year 620 oh five died at the age of 80 years old. Khadija de la Han had died only according to some narrations three days after appletalk three days. Imagine that hardship your father figure the only person who protected you and cared for you he dies. And then your emotional support your mental support your love Khadija or the lack of time and her dies right after at the age of 65. This was in Ramadan, but Ramadan had not yet become a month of fasting so she actually passed away and I'm alone

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in that year of 620.

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And they were married at that point for 25 years, while the Allahu Tanana

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the narrations are very painful to go through here. Because the prophets lie Selim buried her himself. So he himself went into the grave of a diesel, the LaWanda and he received the body of a diesel a long time, and there was no vessel of origin nausea, but you can imagine

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This was the woman that held the prophets lie some and comforted him when revelation came to him and now the prophets lie, some is comforting Khadija will the Alon putting her into the grave, and how painful that must have been for the prophets. So that's an experience that never leaves him solo Marissa right that he has to do that. And her grave is just a stone's throw from avatar. That was great, by the way, and Jonathan Marilla. If you go to Jonathan my Latin Mecca, just right right next to it, and the prophets lie, some is burying Khadija will be alone, and receiving her in the grave himself solare Salaam and placing her there and comforting her for the last time. That woman whose

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arms grabbed the prophets lie some uncovered in him so many times, and now he's grabbing her lifeless body, a body that strove I mean, she she became that way frail because of her supportive the prophets lie some and burying her there and making that in a very organic way just supplicating to Allah subhana wa tada for mercy upon her a model he also says

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that we feared for the profit slice I'm after her death that he would die soon after, how long should that he has needed from the amount of grief that he had sallallahu alayhi wasallam when she passed away, Hamada musella said the people left the profits, some alone, because they feared that to ask him anything because they did not want to add to stress because they felt like he would die. I mean, people legitimately feared, you know, when you see an elderly couple, so Pamela, sometimes an elderly person passes away and you fear what would happen to the next one. That's how they felt about the profits license, they feared that he would die very soon, because he could not bear the

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grief of Khadija, or the Allahu taala and the Prophet sighs I'm used to be heard loudly weeping at night in his home. consoling faulty model, the law of Thailand, his only daughter that was left with him in the home, sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam, and even after she passed away most of the narrations

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most of the narrations about Khadija from Russia, on the lawn. Why? Because he showed all the love and he said that I was never jealous of a woman the way I was jealous of Khadija and I never even met her. I never met her dead wife of the Prophet sly somebody. She said I was so jealous of her. And she said every day 13 years after his death, she said well law he did not pass except that he mentioned her. Imagine that 13 years with everything going on the bed that or the hunt, duck, the fat, all that stuff. And he would never, he would never go a day without mentioning her. She says La Jolla, California for juvenile beta hats if Cora Khadija he would not leave his home in the morning

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until he mentioned that these are the low hanging fruit you're seeing within Africa. He would praise her for that Cara. Hi, Yeoman Mina. I am the lira. So one day the Prophet sly son was going on and on about her and she said I became overcome with my jealousy. And that's when she said that I stood up and I said to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam has an alarm given you someone better than this toothless woman, old woman from kurush like she pushed her luck, said I said to the Prophet slice en la sala whoa, I'm delicate Hayden minha called her the old woman toothless woman of course. Ah, didn't Allah give you someone better than her? And she said that the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa

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sallam, his face changed in a way that it would not change except revelation was coming to him. That's the power of the face change of the profit slice on was revealing revealed to him. She said he was angry, his his his hair stood some a lot more and he was solemn. And he said he did not belittle Isha. And notice, he says the one narrating this this is beautiful because our Mother Teresa narrates this out of to show the virtues of Khadija right? To show the virtues of Khadija and the character of the prophets lie Some said the prophets lie some stood up and he said well lahemaa Daniela hate them and they said, I swear by Allah, Allah did not replace her with someone better

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than her. And then to be careful to be a nurse. She believed in me when everyone else disbelieved, right? So somehow let you talk about the first I'm going to be careful of Venus when everyone disbelieved than me. She believed in me, sub the Cockney it because Ebony Innes she considered me truthful when other people considered me to be a liar. When I suddenly be Maliha how many of us have to be at Holloman Nina, she spent her money on me. She didn't just give me these empty words. She spent her money on me when other people held back. What does that tell me? Allahu Allah. Alemany Odin, Isa and Allah gave me children through her and he did not give me children to other women.

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That this is the mother of my children. This is this is she's all this to me. No, a lot did not give me someone better than her. And I shall have the Alon has said I knew from that moment. Never

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To push that button again never crossed that line of saying anything about Khadija Khadija was off limits for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said any time the prophet SAW some slaughtered some sheep, he would take a few pieces of the sheep, he put it to the side, and he tells someone out of Cebu, Cebu elastica is ready to go send it to the Friends of Khadija. And

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when when Hallo the sister of Khadija when the Prophet slicin would hear her voice, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would would peek and he would look around and he would say Allahu Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah tala. And actually it's all on Let it be Halla meaning, I hope I'm actually hearing because Hannah had the voice of Khadija. So he wanted to be reminded. So I said so they would sit together and they would remember Khadija hours and hours is remembering Khadija right so the prophets lie some just long for any memory of Khadija, while the love on her. Isha says one time this old woman came to the house, and the Prophet slicin treated her with so much

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kindness. He emptied out the whole house for her and I thought she was just a beggar in the street or something. So I said took me to the door and I had the hill I just hadn't done like you, grant you greeted this elderly person like that. And the prophets lie Selim said in the Haqqani Tina seminar, Khadija she used to come to us during the days of Khadija or the avatar I'm sorry, I remember seeing her during the days of Khadija, about the Allahu taala. And her and this is, this is a beautiful thing, the show the law and has said and will live the reason why I was jealous of her. This is also important, she said, no

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matter how horrible, and you bashira debating Phil gender, that Allah had actually commanded the Prophet slicin to give her the glide tidings of a home in paradise. So it's a long for that as well. I know I took long

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just mentioned these last two stories, which I think are very important.

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When the prophets lie, some saw the necklace of the digital the lohana. The prophets Zayn daughters amiable Cobra was married to a glass of beer. And glass was a good man. But he didn't accept Islam because of tribal affiliations. And so he fought on the day of bed that but he didn't fight hard, he kind of kept his weapons to the side just went out with the people on the day of bed that just because he had to as a matter of formality, and he was captured. And when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam saw him the Prophet slicin was hurt. Obviously, the prophet SAW someone's hurt seeing a lot of people but this is a son in law. And he wanted to be fair, I'm not going to treat my uncle or my

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son in law differently, right? They're all treated the same way. And you know, they ransom their prisoners with gold or wealth or and if they had nothing they would teach them read how to read the prophet SAW Some said if you can teach 10 Muslims how to read or write, you can go so he wanted just to establish something right.

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And then the Prophet sallallahu wasallam is presented this necklace. And it was a necklace that Khadija gave designup

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and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he saw that necklace, and he cried for a while, and the Sahaba did not know why he was crying. So he sat down and he wept for some time. So the lauricella this is years later. And then he said some lahardee with some after crying for some time, he said in Shipton o'clock to a CLR what are the two la hukilau that I said listen if you if you want please release her prisoner and return her gold to return her per necklace territory. Right and she didn't even asked for the necklace back with the profit slice and I'm said go ahead and return her necklace to her as well. Even though she only wanted her husband back pockets like Sam said send it back.

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Finally when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam

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comes back to Mecca, Mecca victorious after all that had happened the conquest of Mecca coming back to the same place that he was persecuted the persecution that led to the death of Khadija and the people invite the Prophet slicin to stay in these nicer home stay in the home of a bus staying home with Sophia and stay in some of the nicer homes in Mecca. So they keep asking the profit slice on where are you going to go? Where are you going to go? aina tons of aina tons it Where did he go?

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He pitched the tent next to the grave of Khadija Subhan Allah He said, Take me to June. Take me back to her June he didn't even go to the home that they used to live in. He pitched the tent near the grave of Khadija, and all the A lot of times. This is a woman that never prayed fudger to the hotel so the macula Berisha, this is a woman that never fasted Ramadan. This is a woman that did not see Islam formulate as it did post Medina, but it's her sacrifice in the beginning that makes it all happen, right? I mean, she is what the prophet slicin needed throughout those moments. He had no one like her. There is literally no equivalent to her and so on.

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Anyway, I mean, she's the first mother of the believers. first wife of the Prophet slicin. First to believe the first Muslim first person to receive the glide tidings of Jelena the first one to receive Salaam from Allah, the first one to receive Salaam from Sabrina alayhis salaam, the first one to worship with the Prophet solo. I saw them in prayer, the first one to do to off with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, her support of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is not just inspiring. But if you took all of the ayat about how you're supposed to support the prophets license, she manifest them, right. So she spent on him, she loved him. She loved what he loved. She

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believed in him. She believed him she everything that's told to us about how to treat the profits of Isola. She did that her natural guidance to good she is perfection in every way literally perfect in her he man and I want to end with just this one had the simple statement. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says well Allah He in need of the roses to her bath. He said, I swear that I was blessed with her love. Allah blessed me with her love, like her love was a gift to me. So apparently, it was a risk. You know, it's like something you say about someone you don't deserve. Right? Like it's just I don't know how I got it. But I got it somehow roses. Like Allah blessed me

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with her love. I needed that love. I needed that person to be able to get through it. Because Allah will hide on an almighty Muhammad Sallallahu. It was Sunnah May Allah reward her for her sacrifice, may Allah reward her for her struggle. And you can imagine that as the profit slice on pass from this world, from the lap of shuttle De La Hoya and his soul ascending, would you believe it is Salaam, into the realm of souls, we can only imagine who he probably wanted to see first and meaning amongst the souls of the believers to be gathered with. At that point, we asked a lot to gather us with him sell a lot harder to sell him with our first mother and his first love a digital the Allahu

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talana. We ask Allah to make us from the savvy corner. I mean, I apologize, this probably the longest HELOC on the series. So I promised not to take longer than that in Charlottetown in the future. So I'll take questions now.

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Yeah. So the question is, how would you not use or how would you not let the incident of the angel the fact that the prophet SAW his son was shaking, his uncertainty in himself could be used as a critique against him. I think it's actually one of the strongest arguments for his sincerity, so allowing them. And first of all person who reads biblical narrations. I mean, if you read about the prophets of old and the way that Judea Islam came to them, some of them had much more interesting ways in which they were were marked for Prophethood. And inducted into that, that fraternity of prophets, right. So this is a pretty amazing, it's a powerful experience. It's

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the experience of going from being an ordinary person to being the Prophet of Allah, right. And not just any profitable love, but Mohammed Salah lightsome, and what are called new fun, you know, interestingly enough water canoe and actually want to actually read one of the biblical narrations here, because it's very, it's very powerful.

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And when I used to teach the storage of Buddha Islam in detail, I would I would always mention this narration because it was very interesting to me, because what I said that this is the most that came to most eyes and this is the same angel that came to Moses that your experience resembles what happened to Musashi his salon.

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So I actually when I was

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when I was reading that Hadith and getting some input in that, I actually wanted to go see if I could find a biblical passage that mentions Gabriel coming to a prophet in the beginning of prophethood. So I found Daniel eight. Behold, I saw a man before me with a booming voice saying, understand,

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clock, similar to that. As he touched me and recited the word to me I fell on my face trembling and lost all strength but I could still hear his words. Then he stood me upright and said Fear not Oh, beloved, one of God, fear not peace beyond to you. It's almost identical to what happens in the profit slice, although it actually is pretty much identical, right? So this is the way that God Isom brings the message. It's a heavy revelation Poland's appealing, and there is that period of sorting things out. And that's the wisdom of Allah spent on that person growing. So the fact that if the Prophet was a fabricator, so there are different lines of attack, right fabrication, if he was a

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fabricator, he would have planned a much more grandiose entrance into announcing his prophethood than, than that uncertainty and that hardship that he went through in the beginning.

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If he was possessed, then what about the truths in the prophecies and the miracles that started to come down the eloquence of the Quran, which was challenged in its beauty, and its eloquence and its and its superiority to anything else that the Arabs had ever heard. So how do you actually

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And contextualize all the miracles. So that's something that that's another line of attack that you would respond to all in all, you know, Sheikh Mohammed Chanel, we did a series called the proofs of prophethood for yaqeen. And Mashallah, he researched that thoroughly, taking some of the old literature of Delilah nimueh the proofs of profit and putting them into chapters so you can actually go and you can read through the profit, the proofs of profit and inshallah Tada. And it's publications and they have infographics, videos, the whole thing, but it goes, it's very systematic there as it's just wonderful Michelle