Nadim Bashir – Khatira – She Witnessed the Birth & Death of the Prophet Muhammad

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			Mr. Lohana, human 100 loco Alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah him Hamid wala he was so happy
here Jemaine about. So February is usually black history month. And one thing that we learn about
our Islamic history is that first of all, it's something history is very rich, so much we can learn
from. And when you study Black History Month, you truly have to go back to the life of the apostle
Lhasa Allahu alayhi wa sallam, and the very first woman perhaps in the life of the prophet
Sallallahu, it was setting them. A woman who gave her life for Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, a woman who witnessed the birth of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the death of
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a woman who witnessed the entire life of Rasulillah salam
from beginning to end and always was there with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she was
from Africa. She was in the life of the prophet saw Salem. This is baraka or as we know her. I'm
Aiman Radi Allahu to Isla unhealth on the Iman or the Allahu Taala Anhang. She was, initially she
was given to or she was sold. And she came into the house of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
even before the birth of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And as we all know, that the
father of the prophets of salaam he went to Syria, as this is something that they would often do.
		
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			They will travel in summer to Syria, in winter, they will travel to Yemen. So her her husband, this
is Amina her husband, Abdullah, the father of the prophets of Salaam, he's not even aware of the
fact that his wife is expecting a child, he goes to Syria and usually what would happen is that when
they would come back into the city, what I'm gonna will do is that she will send her slave or a man
or that time baraka to go in find out that Abdullah come back or not, when the caravan came back,
and Abdullah there was no sign of Abdullah, the father of the province that Allahu Allah he was
sending them. That is when she brought this sad news that she was told that Abdullah has passed
		
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			away. And that is when she she realized she was also expecting a child. And then she even saw a
dream, the mother of the Prophet, she saw a dream that there is a light emanating from herself. And
when she shared that news, in this dream with Baraka or a man, she said that perhaps this child that
you are expecting, is going to bring great baraka and it will be a light, a source of light for many
people to come in sha Allah. And then later on when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was born, the
very first woman to carry the Prophet said a law hottie was sending them was this same woman from
Africa on a man and then later on at that same point, and then at another point, at this point, and
		
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			when the mother or the son passed away, at both times, we find the books of history that Amina told
Baraka that please take care of her take care of him. The Prophet SAW Allah while he was sending
them like a mother And subhanAllah we find throughout the entire life of Baraka are Amon, the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would always refer to as your own me, oh, my mother, the
prophets of Allah is mentioned in the books of history, that when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, he got married, this is now much later in his life. And by the way, Baraka was approximately
13 years she she was 13 years older than Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So we all know that
		
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			the Prophet SAW Selim, he got married at what age? What age 4025 He got married at the age of 25.
How old was Khadija? 40. So she was approximately that time you do the math. She was around 38 years
old. Okay. So 38 years old, she's not made at all, she's never gotten married. Why? Because of her
dedication to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And even at that time, Khadija she told Baraka
that why don't you get married now? I am now in the life of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
and she said, No, I am supposed to take care of him. Like he's my son, and I will therefore take
care of him, like my son. But after a lot of insisting, then she gave in and she says, okay, perhaps
		
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			I will get married, and how the day you all know that she was a businesswoman. She was very
resourceful. So she found a person by the name of obeyed even a Zayed from Hassan. Hassan was in
Medina at that time, which was known as yesterday. So this is there were two main tribes or ozen has
Raj and this is why we find from the seed of the Prophet, that majority of the unsought they came
from Oh 700 So she got married to this man obeyed bin Zaid and she had a child by the name of a
month. That's why she was called Omar a month and then later on then because of that, she had to
move to Medina because her husband was there. So she moved to Medina, but soon after the birth of
		
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			this child, Amon, then her husband obeyed he passed away. And then she realized that what business
do I have in Medina? Let me go back and let me be
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and so she came back and she lived with Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now, one thing we know also about the early days of Makkah, was that
the Prophet SAW Allah sent him he would gather his Sahaba for Halal cars and hot rods and lectures
and you know, about Eman and so forth at a place called Daraa a double Archon. And there the
province has some he would meet with others. By the way, if you don't know why there's you know,
something very strategic about why Rasul Allah has a sudden would meet at Arkham, the person who was
in charge of Dar como whose house it was, his tribe and the Quran were at odds, no one would have
		
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			ever thought that the province Salam would have lectures at his house, because the tribes were at
each other's necks, but it was a strategy of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that no one
would think that I will be here conducting my lectures. Hence, this is the best place to conduct the
lectures. And so one day it is mentioned that the police they were monitoring the streets who was
going here who's going there. So she one time she could have been, you know, things could have
gotten much worse for her, but she put her life on the line, and she got to the house of the Archon.
She attended the gathering of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and that is when that is when
		
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			after she left, look at her dedication. Because of her dedication. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said that the woman who just left OMA Amon, she is a woman of Jannah. She is a woman of Jana,
and who would want to marry her. And that is when zayde Even a hadith that they adopted son of
Rasulullah saw Salam he raised his hand he says Jada sola, I will marry her, by the way, short note
here. How many years was she older than zayde? Anyone?
		
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			She was approximately 20 years older than ze now let's pause here for a moment. Think about this.
Today in society. If we heard that the the wife was even few years older than the husband is frowned
upon. Brothers and sisters, this is a gentle advice I always give. If you find a good woman for your
son. If you find a good son for your daughter, it does not matter age does not matter. I'm not
saying of course, a huge difference. But even a difference like this the province some he accepted
it, and from that marriage who came from that marriage was summer immunizations. This man this young
boy who was so beloved tourists who also Allahu Allah, he was sending them. So she is now married to
		
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			say them in a hadith. And now she has another child and by the way, she was at an age where she
should not she could not have children or generally women at that age would not have children. But
Allah subhanaw taala had destined Allah had willed it. So she had a child. But there was something
even Aziz now fast forward to the time of the Hijra of the province that Allahu Allah he was setting
them. It is mentioned that on her journey to hijra, the Prophet said, Allah is mentioned that she
was at one time so thirsty, that she prayed to Allah subhana wa to Allah and she made dua to Allah
subhanho wa taala. And she mentioned after she came to Medina, she narrated the story to the Prophet
		
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			SAW Selim, that as I got up, and I went to sleep, and I got up, I saw that there was a bucket of
water. In this role. She says, I tried to see the rope, and I could not see the end of the rope, and
she says, I drink that water. And after that, there were many difficult days of fasting, but on
those days, I never felt thirsty after drinking that water. After that, there were times when I went
for Amara, I never felt thirsty during ombre. So this bucket of water was so quenching that it
quenched her thirst for the rest of her life. After that she never felt thirsty. Even if she drink
water. She drink water just for the sake of staying healthy and the need of having water but not out
		
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			of thirst Subhanallah now she comes all the way to Medina, and there's blisters on her foot. Because
the city you know if you study if many of us who go for Hajj who go for Umrah, we get on a bus, we
get on a train a fast bullet train, we get there to Mecca and Medina and one and a half hour people
long time ago, they had to walk through those deserts. They had to those walks in those deserts. And
by the way, there is this thick book I have in my office right now someone gave me that this is an
author who documented every single place in the desert whereas last time he stopped for during his
migration. This entire book was written only on the Hegira of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam
		
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			where this researcher went And subhanAllah when you open that book, you have this sort of
appreciation for how much did Rasulullah saw set him in a Sahaba they went through when they made
this Hijra. This was not an ordinary Hijra. This was not just a small travel. This was a very
difficult travel nonetheless, over a month she comes all the way to Medina and the problem sees that
her foot her foot is full of blisters, and her feet have become swollen and she's
		
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			Tired and again Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, because of our dedication Rasul Allah Azza wa
sallam said that this is a woman of Jana, this is a woman who will enter into Jana. And then later
on, we find that if she would always participate in all the battles, she would help the wounded, she
will provide water to all those who are wounded those who are in need of help. And she was there
right by Rasulullah sallallahu. It was send them now fast forward many years, when she now later on
she went through her own difficulties, her son Amon, passed away in the Battle of her name. And he
was a Muslim, her son, her husband, Zaid, he died in the battle of Malta. And this happened during
		
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			the time of the Prophet sallallahu, ala he was sending them and then she she will not show that much
distress when they passed away. But Subhanallah when the day came, that Rasulullah sallallahu, Assam
she he passed away, she could not control herself, even after the burial of Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wasallam it is mentioned that on top of the Hola, Juan and Alba karate, Allahu Allah, and
they both sent a request that we want to come and visit you because it was a normal habit of
Rasulullah salaam, that he would often go and visit OMA Amon. So they went to her and they asked her
Oh, my aim and how are you doing? What can we do for you? And that is when she broke down into
		
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			tears. And they asked her are you crying? Because of the death of Rasulullah? Saw Sonam? She said no
would the reason why I'm crying is because now the doors of worry have been shut for forever. Now no
more are we going to receive our hay late before we would have a difficult situation where he would
come we will find ourselves in a challenging situation where he would come a difficult circumstance
or where he would come we will be in a battle what to do or where he would come now the doors of war
hey are shut and they are shut for eternity. And that is what I'm crying for. And that is and then
later on. She passed away as some of the orlimar They say she passed away in the the time of birth
		
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			not even often Radi Allahu Taala and so now we see that this is a woman who dedicated her entire
life from beginning to end with Rasul Allah salah, and as a result of her dedication, not only to
Allah give her a bucket of water that her sweat or thirst is quenched forever. But she got the
reach. She got the glad tidings of Jana, not once, but twice in this dunya from the beloved mouth of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So we learned that when we dedicate our life the best way we
can dedicate our life so she took care of the problems or send them how can we be close to problem
solve them by implementing his sunnah his o'clock his character in our life? And finally, the most
		
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			powerful lesson that we can take from all this is that perhaps see when we talk about your team,
what are the problems some say about the team? He says, Anna? What Caffrey your team can attain the
I and the person who looks after the team will be like this in Jana Insha Allah, but at the same
time, how was Ross? Who was a Salam or how did the province on become so inclusive? Okay, when it
came to people of other races, when it came, you have the gathering of Ross was a Salem, but you
have beloved Hampshire or the Allahu and you have people who have disabilities like Abdullah, Al
Maktoum or the Allahu and you have people like um, Sohaib a Rumi, Radi Allahu Allah and you had all
		
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			these different Sahaba and even the Sahaba who were there, they were not all from the Quraysh some
from Orange some from other tribes, some from out some from Hassan, but the problem was able to
gather everyone and this is our beautiful Deen our deen is about inclusivity. And what's beautiful,
if you think about all this is that perhaps Rasul Allah Azza wa, perhaps Allah subhanho wa Taala
made Ross was sort of a your team before he was born. And that is what led him to have a sympathetic
heart towards the team. And it was a team who were abused in Makkah, how could Roswaal Salam? How
can a person have sympathy, if he has no idea what it means to be a team, he wasn't your team.
		
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			Therefore, he had an idea that how to treat a team. He was a person who grew up in a family where
you have a woman from Africa, so therefore he was racially inclusive. If the people if these kinds
of people did not exist in the life of the prophet Salam, there is no guarantee that Allah subhanho
wa Taala will make his heart racially inclusive towards everyone else. Perhaps Allah put these
people in his life to prepare him to become a prophet. And this is why we find this about Ardene so
this is the month of February I thought I just wanted to share this beautiful story about Omar a man
or the Allahu Dona Ana, and there are many other people Inshallah, on Thursday, we have a program on
		
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			Friday we are programming sha Allah, and we're going to see this, but stay the lives of these kinds
of people. These are people who had an impact when you study about United States, their earlier
people who want to impact and who were able to spread Islam were the African Americans, the African
Americans who came here through the trans
		
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			Atlantic slave trade from Africa. So many were brought here to America. There were so many Muslims
on there. And they were the ones who established the foundation of Islam in America. So we need to
study about their lives. Also, how are we here today? It is because of their sacrifices. I asked
Allah subhanho wa Taala to give us their feet to appreciate the small things may Allah subhanho wa
Taala bless all these people. And we asked Allah subhana wa to give us the ability to learn a lesson
and many lessons from the life of Rasul Allah so Allah while he was sending a mutable anime desert
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