Morals Series – Episode 34 – Reconciliation
Channel: Murtaza Khan
Series: Murtaza Khan - Morals Series
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we stopped, we reflected over the
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we created the human being in a state of weakness. Another place in a foreign holding concern when a
man has been created in a state of haste. We said amongst the meanings of, of Darfur weakness, is for a person to carry out sins,
or disobedience that we find hailed by khulumani Adam kapa
haka in a baboon, all of the children of Adam will,
will make mistakes, and best of those individuals who make those mistakes and those who swiftly, quickly repent back to the loss of Hannah Hannah, in October, Vina, we've been hearing a lot of those individuals who are full of repentance, repent back to Allah Subhana Allah, that we find that returning back to Allah Subhana Allah,
that we may need to reconcile ourselves
with Allah Subhana Allah
and then with the people around us after the people around us.
That will be the main theme of today's discussion, reconciliation with the people around us. But before that, as we mentioned, we need to begin by reminding ourselves
that the first element of reconciliation, rectification is our relationship with lots of kind of data, a sinner met a lady Subhana Allah, what is our relationship with Allah Subhana Allah because by default, the more a person focus focuses on their relationship with Allah Subhana Allah alone facility, make it easy to rectify, reconcile with people to give and to take and to accept, to pardon to overload to forgive
the beginning journey of reconciliation with a loss of hamdallah or rectified rectifying oneself, of the belief in Allah Subhana Allah is none other than a Sunnah.
This is the beginning of our relationship with Allah Subhana Allah because many of us are average people that they think that this sufficiently is that the person your
person believes in Allah Subhana Allah as long as that is the creed of the individual, that will suffice the individual and that may possibly may suffice. That may help
and you find another extremity that some people even have the right value they carry out mousy abou disobedience. And you think that because of the the femoral sobrato his belief will wipe out my sins that will enable me to be forgiven but Allah Subhana Allah This is also partially true
there's no guarantee that either of these two for him
I these two parties will be destined to be forgiven but lots of Canada either
rather person needs to adopt the middle path
is to take the measurements the means that a lot of that laid out upon this earth and to carry them out to the best of their ability to change to rectify oneself. Does you find that a Salah is the most strongest tool
of your liquid Allah Subhana Allah
whoever breaks the covenant we will leave a cellar and disbelieve the loss of Hannah Diana has left the fold of Islam
and I qualify
and it's a shame when
the impact of a salon
prefix individual from what and in fashion elicit misconduct bad behavior and for what he
that's what he does. If alpha that doesn't take us away from Corrado take us away from alpha Why should
we question our seller
because we find the extremity some people who believe in
Pray as much as you can pray
so much better than just following adopting the Sunnah philosophy Daddy, sir Luca morality morning or Sunday Hadith in Bukhari
concluded and discuss what is the essence of center? What is the purpose or center?
Is it just that throughout our prayers that some of us become overzealous.
And it should be reminded that even if you find that people will drag another person next to them with touch them will correct them, place them in the wrong foot God discussed.
In the beginning, try your best to straighten your roads to be close together. It is the mean throughout the salon, that a person differs from here to there at your home seller becomes focusing on your neighbor. That's what some of us are likely to become that looking after actually looking at the mistakes of the people who pray around us with a mistake.
I'm not saying we shouldn't do that. But for some of us to become the symbol that this is all that we look at, we condense our life apart to see what are the mistakes
and we fail to understand the spirit of a seller,
the Rouhani the spiritual aspect of Salah what should it be of the individual? What should it need the individual
wants you to develop within the individual.
A center develops within the individual spirituality at the
closest proximity proximity to Allah Subhana Allah reminds the individual to stay away from overworking from bad behavior, bad speech, bad conduct. This was a awakens the individual does he find it in a handy?
A beautiful description that if a person was to have a river outside the house
was to wash themselves five times a day,
five times a day to bathe inside that river. Would you find any any dirt,
any grime any fruit from that individual?
No matter what absolutely washes away the individual. And this one is blessitt. Mambo, Roger, some people celebrate
the journey as Mirage israa when we arrived,
what are they celebrating?
What is it to celebrate?
Rather, what is it to develop inside our life because Salah was given in the heavens above the heavens, gift it to the Prophet alayhi salatu salam
in any another La Ilaha Illa Ana insalata lesaffre just like moves to LA somebody may Allah Subhana Allah given the gift to establish a Sunnah. And likewise the Prophet alayhi salatu salam given that gift
to offer prayers
50 times a day, when he came down to
beg to differ when he said, not going to be able to do this. can even argue carrying on again and again till he came down to the progress of said that I'm shy to return back to not ask for anything less than this.
Five times a day 10 times a reward equals 50.
Still look at the mercy of Allah Subhana Allah.
That he said the moment inside the day the person who remembers Allah and Allah
in the Sonata can mean in detail a motor, present prescribed for believable set times to stop at certain moments, it was come see 50 times a day imagine there'll be no moment of rest.
But infinite mercy and justice made it five times condensed it reduced to five times a day
can do whatever they want to do inside their life. But at those moments, go back. And remember Allah Subhana Allah,
he has what concerns us
is about reconciliation with the people around us
to exert our efforts
to return to reconcile with a masses of people around us.
Because this moral value is more virtuous than excessive praying and fasting.
Because some of us once again that we think that excessive do certain action that makes a person a good Muslim, these are good things,
for personal identity
for the person themselves. They're not necessarily good things for the society
and good for the person. They don't necessarily benefit the people around us. What benefits the community around us
is to be to be able to be a person who reconciles
amongst people and as we find time for me what is more virtuous than the rank of fasting, praying and charity off obviously is speaking about extra praise, extra fasting extra charity. Number four in the obligatory prayers and obligatory fasting of Ramadan
what is beyond that they require
But of course,
advisors what is better than that to do inside our life? He said making peace and reconciliation amongst each other. For for the relationships with each other is like the razor.
And I had even mentioned the razor that one that shaved one head with. This is a razor that destroys the D destroyed Islam,
differing amongst ourselves and not reconciling, it weakens this Muslim Ummah
that you find inside the Quran. Don't defend divide amongst yourselves, that your your wind.
And I've discovered the wind did carry the minimum for what to comb, your your strength is taken away from you every time we defer. And we break away, we dismantle we lose our strength, we lose our power, we lose our dignity. So clearly visualize, the more that we must have divided amongst us of the more divided we become, the more weaker we become inside society, the more weaker our voice becomes inside society. And as we find out we exerting ourselves
privately or publicly to encourage ourselves to reconcile to rectify to become better individuals.
The carmencita hierarchy Kathy minute 11, Amara, Amara Rufino is that
there is no good in the Indian gatherings and meetings.
In a secret consultations,
they're sitting amongst themselves if we could study ourselves. When we sit amongst our own selves, what do we what words can we use? But what do we gossip about?
What do we talk about? What do we discuss
is unique is dynamic currency.
There's no goodness in any of the consultations in the settings and gatherings in London,
except for you sit with one another. And you encourage people to move towards goodness. or encourage people towards giving of wealth of spending of wealth on Islam.
Are you trying to reconcile amongst people who are seeking the reward from Allah Subhana Allah for sofa, tea and urine out Thema whoever does the seeking of treasure but lots of Canada will give them immense reward will be given to those individuals. Unfortunately, hate to say this, but some of us thrive upon splitting the ranks of the Muslim ummah. And this is nothing but tiller to him, because of the sheer
lack of understanding what the law is.
The law of Allah Subhana, Allah is
unity is coming together, there's more things that unites this Muslim, that which makes us difference, differentiate us by some bus driver for that which we differ upon and make that the global message.
We don't understand the normal loss of data data, there's a greater basis, there's a greater impact. There's a greater understanding, there's far more that brings us together. When we look at what took place in New Zealand.
What do we see? Then we see a bigger image of Islam than we see a bigger message of Islam. This these evil individuals? Are these evil individual. Do you think when he entered inside the masjid?
Was his mindset that this person is praying inside this machine? Do you think this person mindset was what type of Muslim he is?
Or was it mindset that I just need to destroy everything affiliated with Islam and Muslims?
But our mindset, unfortunately, sounds very strange for some but that's not our mindset.
Because we've been programmed in the opposite direction. The first question that we ask is, what is the mutual affiliation of this person with me personally, no affiliation with an Islam.
The message of Islam, the belief of Islam. We walked up in our mentality. That's how we become a defeat in people at times. They've defeated us. They defeated mindset. They've gone so deep within so that the only thing that we think about is a person interest.
We don't see the interest of Islam. We don't see the interest of Muslims at large.
The thing of Allah is vast, is wide.
lands, nations peoples trying to conquer the world. We live in a bubble world that is submitted my Islam
My success, my people, my followers, my personality, my individuality. Allah subhanaw taala placed his message on the face of this earth and that has been everywhere, whether we can be gold, whatever we who we think we may be,
is nothing special about us.
History wipes out brings about other people, other nations, or the individuals or the personalities who do work, who may become Mufti once again, for what basis
because the only concern about the symbols of Islam, about the preservation of Islam, about the glory of Islam, they don't worry about their own glorification. There were many parts that become
our own glorification our own personal identity. And people squabble and fight amongst themselves and Muslim even amongst themselves, just turned a blind eye. Why don't you come Muslim to become a proven
Muslim nation? boms another Muslim nation we become tacit approval is a political climate, how is the political climate to bomb 1000s of other individuals to make them homeless? To make them suffer?
How does that become something that doesn't concern us?
That's not a Muslim is just to turn a blind eye. political agenda exists and destroy innocent Muslims life, derailed them, make them homeless, take their life, their property, for what for purpose? What is the intent?
The intent is quite clear for your own personal satisfaction, their own person Islam, not a global message of Islam, because it was a global message that most most of the individuals will be the first individuals
to be taken
for they have upon their hands. And therefore we should want to become those individuals who begin to encourage one another.
Person are classified as a liar
tries to rectify people
who tried to reconcile between people
who may exaggerate in certain words or say certain goods, good words,
that person classified as a liar, or we may call in the English language as a white lie linguistically.
So the show
that person isn't classified as a liar, he sought to reconcile between Muslims who start to rectify Muslims
to encourage Muslims, who speaks well about other Muslims to bring them back to the favelas of Canada,
Ibrahim al a center, which have been reported to him.
That his type of if you can use the word say, a deceptive speech linguistic properties are deceptive by using these words linguistically.
Who is this woman that is with you, it's a cheat my sister to protect.
Likewise, when you mentioned when they were going to their today, they can agree for color in the song
that I'm sick.
Whether they took that to mean that he physically sick or he meant that he's physically sick of ship.
There was to be a statue that either that we find,
take this corruption away the most abominable sin on the face of this earth to believe somehow Madonna, and likewise we find in a head either person or ally. And we reconcile between people saying good things and conveying good things. Like
they don't have any concession
except on three occasions concessions are given that a person may say certain words,
which may not seem to be accurate. I will find that
Whoo phase deception.
Movie, does that mean that when a person is sick of warfare that you disclose your location, and who you are and your people and your troops in your army and have mokuba? Who is deception? Does he find that the proper set up to set up was the most accurate individual in strategic planning about what he instructed his companions around to the serum,
the bottle of water that we read about him but we think that it may be a loss
a book that we find that he voted, they do.
He voted without any books, arriving on his cabinet based on his journey to hatch.
is classified as the most accurate book on the era that the man had he hated a bad rock it was on a journey without
without any books.
The Battle of word is not a loss is among the most greatest victories of the Muslim.
To see the leader, to reconstruct to see where we went wrong, the progress of a strategic mindset an archer the price of 50 arches and he gave you specific instructions, whether we slay were killed, and the bird slow down and begin to pick it up flesh and flesh, don't leave your location.
Don't leave your location.
But once again clinical samples become hasty.
We don't see the greater picture. So victory was dead in the progress of his winning companions a winning we were a share of the booty who want to come down and take that booty.
So 40 of them they came down, there are other tender remain day didn't follow the instructions. And you find that from the Garrison's of colleagues and really, when it comes to non Muslims, the only one
who is the only shopping personality, who saw that weakness and payment attack the profile a snap to center
to such a degree that we find that the pain was felony shoulder liquidity.
For a month.
They started he
He felt so remorseful about that in his life. So remorseful. He said that once I become Muslim, you find that there will be no stone ever Unturned, that when I fight their fight with enough strength,
to protect once again, the property is not to serve this time to protect him. That's what the man was. That's what was
the entry into inside their life became devotion and commitment towards the property and a
lack of what a man says automatically to reconcile amongst people is not lying,
is not classified as a lie like the husband, a wife and a wife and a husband is not lying, to give words of praise of encouragement. In such a Muslim that we find
who tries to reconcile and know dismantle our society and brotherhood.
The great example of brotherhood inside the Quran is suited for
the 49th chapter 18 verses the greatest example of an Islamic Society where in five or 10 minutes
for a snippet
if two groups of the believers that need to slay
we need to fight one another.
Allah says the two groups of the believers they fight very best. Never say that one group of believers, the other group of believers, they carry a major action of fighting with one another. And as we began a week,
historically documented as some of the companions have fought against one another, that doesn't discredit them in any way. Because companions are human beings, they may have made mis judgments or judgments, they may not accurate as a consensus, the Sahaba infallible as a consensus as an important but they are infallible by individual per se, they may have made certain errors, so the judgment that many of them, they regretted what they did inside their life, but it shows the human nature in a way that to defeat any of the companions, or to belittle them is a lesson for us that a food at certain times. But the Quran describes believers or people who fight amongst others to be
classified as believers
and try to reconcile amongst yourselves. But in one party, it goes beyond the limitations. Then you fight them until they return back to the truth.
Your intent is to bring them back to the truth, till eventually they'll be consigned
to a city,
that a person should do work for us to
reconcile with fairness, and justice and equity in the city. Indeed, a lot of the people of faith are just individuals. Then Allah mentioned in them and
then Allah mentioned in a moment, a photo. Allah says that the believers are nothing less but bredrin towards one another, reconcile between your brothers
reconcile amongst them
become successful individuals
We're confident that he has he has in
common we see these inside
Mr. Moon facility in the cafe.
What is the reason of revelation to us are given by Redeemer
the most accurate you've been heavy beside Bukhari and Muslim.
The reason being sit down was the story the Prophet alayhi salatu salam going to add to lightning obey,
whereby you find that some of the companions or they suggested we should go and meet this individual,
who the leader of the hypocrites
is known to be a hypocrite.
So, maybe we should go and meet his individual reconsent. To discuss to speak with this individual. So when they go to this individual, he find it appropriate relates to some is riding upon upon a donkey a riding beast.
Look at the simplicity of the
Who discussed it? He wasn't worried about an entourage, a charade a people, bodyguards, people protection is simple riding a hammer, riding a donkey.
When it comes close to this individual. They can't conceive themselves.
They can't they can't conceive the hatred.
He says this donkey away from get this person away from me.
Because it is the smell is donkeys found.
It stinks. It smells I want to meet the Messenger of Allah. He's riding his donkey in other words.
So once it must have become emotional, how dare you speak to a leader in this manner. For a minute, he stood up. He said.
He said, The smell of the donkey of America. This is far better than you. You think far more than a donkey.
And squabble broke out, they began to hit one another photos of this individual follow the progress of them.
Because the end result is the individual Mona Simone.
They know how to pull the strings.
That's what they were doing. He was just pulling the strings. They let the Muslims fight amongst themselves and you take a backseat. So I'm gonna sit down
for 30 minutes or
so to believers, group fractures vitamins and debris. conside don't mean
don't fall prey to what these people are doing, like
become a navy
It's 104 so that we find
the two types of coverage at the moment for syndicated indicated mentions fighting amongst themselves. For years. These two factions became classified as an unsolved,
who was Rudy Medina at that time whose ruling
was being ruled by him
by the Jews.
They kept the factions fighting fighting for many years, to do what to dominate, to control to be powerful to control the society around them
to be mentioned, in order to do as well.
says that the Brotherhood of faith
is far more stronger
and more committed than the Brotherhood of one lineage
of blood relationship.
Does the Brotherhood of Islam is far more powerful than even in your own brother? Mm Sadie mentioned
the see the Saturday meme Saturday,
he mentioned about this conclusion.
If you gain the merciful, you gain the most
amongst the gaining of the mercy for life.
to rectify amongst ourselves. We've condensed to the mercy of allies is restricted to one two and three. We fail to understand that Mercy is linked to our social welfare, the people that we live around to try to reconcile with individuals alike or define
other relevant mental issues. See this verse modern day contemporary individuals mentioned that we practitioners
who are supposed to be
they should be at the forefront
at the forefront of trying to reconfigure people know, be the forefront to create more
or more fraction of the Muslim ummah. So the average person says, you cannot reconcile amongst yourselves. You're not far away from it, you're always dissecting yourself, what benefit will we have if you if you have differing amongst your own terms?
So the lesson is, firstly to ourselves, practitioners ourselves, what efforts are we making to try to reconcile between people reconcilable differences that we find and refine
is a position to take size
and reconstruct what is the intention of the individual and not just to leave it as well
the reward of an evil is every is an evil equivalent to it. Just get something passed by let it go by let people do whatever they do.
Whoever tried them and
whoever tries to read and sign then the reward lies with Allah Subhana data.
And as you find the person tries to reconcile don't go beyond the limits. And I have the time for reconsideration is allowed among Muslims, except for reconciliation and make something which is lawful to make it unlawful. And it's removed typically
exert as much as they can, to reconcile between people.
We find reconciliation inside the firm,
whether it be directly or indirectly, is multiple versus encouragement.
Even to such a degree with a bomb begin to speak about the worldly affairs.
Whether it be speaking about
speaking about the beauty in the world for the property, look how strange the Quran is. Yes.
Chapter on certain and found that we find they asked you about the war booty, the captives, the wealth, the property,
say that this property is worth the booty that's been taken, it belongs to Allah and it belongs to messenger.
But a strange thing is in Allah mentioned
that debate, Nico.
The strange thing is that a lot of documentaries, a lot of Canada and reconcile amongst your own sense, can ishara that the wealth and the property will lead you to want
to fight with one another, to squabble one another.
The property seeking this dunya is take your fair share of this
will become your overriding factor. This is what concerns you the inner message of the inner life of Islam is fear Allah Subhana Allah and reconcilable sleep of death of a nickel encourage you to read and sign amongst yourselves. reconciliation with a person should be reconciled this Muslim woman
and his most simple man, in all honesty, what is the beginning of the Muslim woman,
the oma is and also the family.
We have this great vision of
who was the individual who submitted with a family and as the numerous verses passages and
now the whole chapter is is discussing input the details
of meryton of life relationships that we find. So the parameters
If you say that there's going to be Ranko or separation between a half a lot and bring somebody from his family and somebody from her family. If they want reconciliation, then Allah will grant that
mean the passage and exit all the effort to reconcile because the breaking the splitting of a family is a breaking of this Muslim ummah.
Therefore, in essence it is.
study these passages of the Quran. We've taken not just any covenant grant speaks about mytho. Many covenants are taken inside the Quran, from Bani Israel, from people from society. But on one page
of honey yoga,
and stone covenant,
the covenant of marriage
should just be broken. Just like that.
Speak in all honesty, what we find inside our society we're finding a broken society.
broken families, misplaced children, that we're finding is that a society is shameful to mention it. But this is the reality of
problems we're facing inside a society that we can't imagine that is actually taking place in environment that we live in at the moment, the flag was defined, that sometimes a person may need to dissolve a marriage, or I mentioned that, but even then the person results in was simple
to rectify in a good manner for uncle to show, but there's still an element of greed a person, agenda within the person, but a person needs to overcome the interesting.
But if you fail to overcome that, then that person will be
the better individual.
And that's what we need to focus upon inside our lives.
That our primary role inside our lives
is to rectify our relationship as we began with Allah Subhana data rectified with our family members,
our responsibilities, Musalia, which has been taken away from us.
And we could see clearly, day in and day out the case is
playing with a story of a loss of data.
Because the person knows what the Quran and the Sunnah is,
that by by by by deeper makes him a person who's above the law,
as you become a no person is above the law. No person ever above the law, your belief
leads you towards good practice, and study in great detail.
Like almost kind of speaks about, he also speaks about bad sins and compensate with certain corrective actions.
For example, when Allah mentioned speaking, it's at the end of the 25th chapter
of the hohner.
For the state of humanity, not arrogant, not proud to try to reconcilable people
when they leave the room.
One if you have a mother in law,
he is known as he
the end, he doesn't have to understand is
stayed away from the killing of innocent individuals.
One of the troubles in our endocannabinoid system was a severe
stay away from any form of Xena.
Therefore, a person of SIBO impact of
the wood we find inside our society.
married divorces, married divorces, leave does what he wants to do?
This no one is honesty was taking place inside our society. What is this? This is this is
this oneness of Allah Subhana Allah, that you do whatever you please,
leave the children as you please. This is a this is
this is falling on less than you decide your own your own self.
That I can do this. Don't you think that you will not be questioned about that? every single child that comes to the face of this earth, there will be responsibility that we speak about we can speak about the wider world the crime. Now people the corruption, the ranco the disobedient children, everything goes back to the family.
How we nurturing ourselves, how we nurture their children. What are we worried about inside our lives? And our family members is what it is this so many times expressed in social media is corruption is corruption.
likes and dislikes
of women on Facebook's of drought, preachers estatic personality
doesn't mean he doesn't dress appropriately. Even normal people exchanging messages
needs what what does it mean to them people say that there is nothing wrong with our society. It will lead to corruption, dismantling of the identity the moral values of people
nipping in the bud the Prophet alayhi salatu salam
There is no doubt that person could ever throw the life of the Prophet except to sit up. But look how accurate he was inside his life.
So accurate inside that never wanted any stone unturned to encourage his followers and the people around him. What is the state of etica
he puts his wife Sophia.
And he sticks his head out of the machine. And she owns eta. She pitched to him. two companions they walk by
and it begins to hasted in their walking
and they he says to them,
Kuma we only eat me at rest, indeed is my wife that I'm waiting for Sophia. They said, How can we ever think something wrong of you? Yeah.
You're the mercy of Allah law.
That's fine. You can never think anything wrong.
But he said and his message.
He said, I'm not worried about that. But it is shaped on flows through the veins of the human just like blood flows through the veins.
So be vigilant.
Be vigilant inside your life, don't get any smarter, don't just take it as trivial. Then
how many homes have been destroyed? How many people have problems inside their homes for what based on this? People have been thinking this is a fantasy world. This is a reality that we're facing is social issues.
And we can reconcile issues or minor issues a
family member but you cannot reconcile between a person who's committed major atrocities like Xena moto which
How can you expect to be consulted with a person who's a married individual and carries out Zina?
How can you reconcile with the individual and with their family and remember what reconciliation often
the only be conciliation is unhealthy. And so yeah, the only reconciliation is the law that will awaken people awaken us older if a person does this, that this is this is the
this is the end result. that sends a deep message in society that we will reconcile and certain things but certain things we will not reconcile for the preservation of the identity, the Muslim personality, the Muslim Ummah, now lost all ability to only make a solid line and obey the law to make rectification reconciliation within our soul and our relationship with lots of parents to be weary to be worried about that. But our relationship with lots of other when a person has done inside their heart, opens up the door opens up the means and the ways to reconcile with people to rectify with people to pardon and to forgive people and to become a better individual. Because the
person for you and another person reward is sought from Allah Subhana Allah