My Beloved Mother and My Beloved Father

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Muiz Bukhary

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Jumu’ah sermon by Sheikh Muiz Bukhary on the 2nd of May 2014 at the Wellawatte Jumu’ah Masjid.

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Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem a

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As always, we begin by praising Allah subhanho wa Taala. Who is our Creator, sustain and nourish, protect and cure. And we ask Allah subhana wa Taala to Chava his choice, sister blessings and salutations upon our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his family members, his companions, and all those who tread upon his path with utmost sincerity until the day of the young

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children of Adam, first and foremost I am joined upon myself and then all of y'all who have come here to adopt a life of the four.

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Four taqwa which is the fear and the consciousness of Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala. It is the ultimate goal behind a loss behind creating all of us and all of these things that we witness in the creation of Allah behind them word Allah, it is the ultimate goal of Allah the Almighty himself says in a novel for an

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hour

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a lot America, he says that I have not created gene kind or mankind for any other purpose other than anybody other than the worship of Allah Subhana Allah and he himself says in another place, yeah, yohannes

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la Vina

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de PUE Whoa, oh man crying. worship your Lord, who created you and created those before you

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upon so that you will become people off the floor so that you will bring in taqwa the purpose behind the laws behind them what Allah creating us is worship Riba and the ultimate purpose behind Riba behind worshipping Allah. subhanho. wa. taala is that we become people of taqwa is that we become people of taqwa. So it is upon us the slaves of Allah subhana wa Taala. to adopt a life of taqwa to bring in taqwa into our lives to fear Allah subhanho wa Taala. To be conscious of Allah Subhana Allah if we wish to attain success in this world as well as the hereafter. May Allah the Almighty make us all from the people of taqwa May Allah subhanahu wa tada make us successful in this world as

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well as the hereafter.

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To proceed marry respected elders and brothers in Islam. In sha Allah Allah The topic for today's kotoba is my beloved mother and my beloved father.

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inshallah Allah the hotel will evolve around an individual's rights towards his favorites.

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It will insha Allah tala evolved around how important it is for an individual to be good to his parents. For if not, if it is the opposite of that. If we treat our parents bad, and that is known as our cuckold Valley then which we'll discuss as we go, Allah save us or we become part of an evil sign of the day of an evil sign of the day of the mme Allah save us all. This is taught to us by our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, in an extremely famous Hadith, which has been recorded by Imam Al Bukhari, the Imam Muslim, by Imam

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Imam tirmidhi Imam,

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Imam in Africa and also it has been recorded in many other books of today. But for today's call to buy insha Allah Allah we will stick to the narration of Mr. Muslim urashima Hola.

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Carla, Muslim Rahim Allah Muslim Rahim Allah He says, I definitely Abilify, sama, even Addison, our Kia and Camus and Abdullah bin the Buddha. And yeah, he

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called. He says that abou sama

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says that workI he narrates from work here from Camus, these are all the narratives of the Hadith. All of them go on to say, finally,

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he says

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that,

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in regard to the culture of Allah subhanho wa Taala in regard to the destiny of Allah behind them, what Allah the Divine Decree of Allah subhana wa Taala the first person to talk about it, in other words to negate the corner of Allah subhanho wa Taala to deny the father of Allah subhanho wa Taala he was Marga Delta honey. So this this person who is narrating the Hadith from tokoto Anna from a

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theory Hi Jane Omar Tommy rain, the person who is narrating the Hadith he's saying that me and my companion, both of us, we went as pilgrims either for hygiene of our own raw, we went to

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we went as pilgrims we set out from where we were. And the narration goes on to the effect that they say that we decided that the minute we set out the first Sahabi radi Allahu we meet we will discuss about this we will put this issue forward to him in regard to the people who were denying the culture of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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Now what happened, they set out and the first person they saw entering the masjid was even a Roma rhodiola one, it was even aroma rhodiola one. So these two companions, they rush to even aroma rhodiola one one of them took to his right side and the other to his left side. And they wanted to converse with him. Oh, Eben aroma rhodiola Han and they put forward this issue. They said that from our people. Now there are people coming up there saying that they deny the father of Allah subhanho wa Taala the talking about the culture of Allah subhanho wa Taala the Divine Decree of Allah subhanho wa Taala in regard to all of this, even

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very sternly he says, informed those people along the lines of these words informed those people that I even aroma Raja Mohan, I am three of them and that they are free of me. I do not want to have anything to do with them. I do not want to have anything to do with them. If they deny the father of Allah subhana wa Taala the Divine Decree of Allah subhanho wa Taala and then he goes on to say, For I have heard my father, Omar Abdullah katabi rhodiola one Hussein and now the Hadith begins. In other words, the Hadith that we hear often he says they never enough no Judo sooner in the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ratha Yeoman. They don't One fine day tomorrow the Allahu

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anhu is now narrating the narration. One fine day we were seated with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he thought Alena Raja Luna

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suddenly a man emerges a man approaches are gathering a man wearing sparkling a wearing a sparkling white dress shady.

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He was having jet black hair

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to suffer. None of us could see any signs of journey upon him, no fatigue, no tiredness

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to suffer

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and none of us

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knew him. Many respected elders brothers in Islam. This Hadith is so vivid. It is so detailed, we can keep on discussing and bringing out Messiah in from the narration. It is such a beautiful narration, but the point that I wish to highlight is not in these paths so we will move swiftly.

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He says that a man appeared wearing a sparkling white dress, jet black hair, no signs of fatigue or journey were visible on him. He goes straight to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and six by Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. In what manner the Sahaba.

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Marine was so observant they were the best of students. He describes exactly how. How this man went and sat by Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his knees were touching the knees of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and he placed his hands on his ties exactly how a student must sit in front of his teacher, Allahu Akbar. And now what happens? He says, Yeah, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will need an Islam. He says, Oh Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, tell me about Islam. And then the sort of law he said a long while he was alone teaches him What is Islam and Tasha Allah, Allah Illallah Muhammad Rasul Allah, it is to bear witness that there is no God but Allah

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subhanho wa Taala. And then he goes on mentioning the articles of the, in other words, Islam, the Pillars of Islam, and then he goes on to ask him for as Bernie and he man, tell me about a man. And also the law. He said, a long while he was alone, teaches him What is a man and took me Nabila equity work good to be here until the end of the path. He teaches in the articles of faith to believe in Allah to believe in his angels to believe in his books and so on.

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And then he asked Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and now we are coming to the part that I wish to highlight for us bill Nia Anissa Isa, tell me about the last day or the last ah

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam replies Mailman School or unhappy Allah minister in that the one who is being questioned. Look at the eloquent reply of our master Salah Bhavana he was the one who is being questioned knows no better than the questioner. Because now Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had identified who this individual was, it was none other than jabril Allahu Salatu was Salam who had come in the guise of a human being to teach the Sahaba

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to teach the oma of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam their Deen so Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says the one who is questioned knows no better than the questioner. And then the man in other words, jabril alayhi salatu salam now asks, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for Nia and amaravati ha if that is the case, then inform me of the signs of the day of gamma, inform me of the signs of the last.

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And then Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam NSAIDs and tele the AMA to rob better half in another revival.

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This is one of the signs of the day of the AMA, which was taught to us by our master sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and tell you the better half. The translation the direct translation for that would be is that a slave girl would give birth to her mistress, or in another narration to her master. A slave girl would give birth to her mistress, or in another narration her master. Now the scholars, Rahim Allah they are brought in so many explanations for this one statement of our monster sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I will mention a few. And then he wanted the most beautiful explanation, which has been given to us by Mr. Kalani, Rama hula. Well, some of the scholars say

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that it could be that a man would own a slave girl, a man would own a slave girl. This is when the laws of slavery applicable. He would own a slave girl.

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He would marry her he would marry the slave girl. He would marry the slave girl. And he would that slave girl would dare him a child, either a daughter or a son. And what would happen after burying him a child now that child belongs to the master belongs to the man of the house. He now sells that slave girl to somebody else and

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Either time, this boy or this girl grows up and becomes an adult, say it is a son, it is a boy. Now he becomes a grown up man, this slave girl, who is his mother was now sold to the market. She goes all over hand to hand and then eventually comes back to him after he has grown up, say after 15 years or 20 years, and he purchases that slave girl not knowing that she was his mother, that she was his mother. This is one of the explanations, but now that today we have slavery has been abrogated from the face of this earth. That the explanation of

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Kalani rahima hula fits in beautifully and gives us deep insight into this beautiful statement of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Mr. Escalante Rahim Allah He says that this statement of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam indicates that towards the latter stages, when it is close to the day of karma, what will happen is tapers will turn tables will turn everything will go topsy turvy. In other words, children will start treating their parents like slaves, children will start treating their parents like slaves, they will start ordering their parents to do this and to do that. And when their parents want something from their children, they will be not they will not be

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ready to listen to their parents. This is the explanation of imaginable. Kalani rahima. What he says that children will start treating their parents like slaves ordering them around, not respecting them not treating them good. And this is from the signs of the day of the

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media respected elders and brothers in Islam. Do we not see this manifesting itself around us in today's times? Do we not see this happening in front of our eyes? Do we not see the youngsters not respecting their parents?

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It is a form for children to be good children and it is upon the parents to be good parents. It is not upon the parents to use these contracts. these are these are heidy to their own benefit, and be bad parents know Islam strikes a balance a beautiful balance in the middle. Anyway, coming back to the idea that I decided in the beginning. Allah subhanho wa Taala he says Bhagavad buka Allah tabuteau illa Yahoo Wahby lolly Dini, Sunnah. Allah subhanho wa Taala he says in that ayah and your Lord has decreed that you worship none other than him. Allah Subhana Allah has decreed that we worship none other than Allah Subhana Allah and Allah the Almighty has also decreed that we be

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dutiful unto our parents, if any one of them if one of them or both of them attain old age say not to them off we are not supposed to say of the word while at akula Houma we are not supposed to use even the word of and this word has been used to show that no words of disrespect should be used unto our parents, while our kupuna Houma wa Houma and Do not shout at them. Do not ignore them, but address them in terms of honor or use good words of honor when you address your parents and lower

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and lower unto them die wings of submission and in humility through mercy, lower your wings of submission and humility through mercy unto your parents and then say what could rub their hands

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and say Allah, oh my lord bestir on them your mercy as they did bring me up when I was young, pray for them, pray for your parents. The either at the beginning this was the translation. There is a narration which is recorded by but by a de la me who says hoceima la roadie a long line Houma is reported to have said that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is reported to have said lower Aileen Allahu Shea Amina naraku key dynamin ofin Maha Brahma who had there been a word had there been something even lesser than off, even lesser than off in in disrespect towards one's parents, Allah the Almighty would have made that also haraam

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Almighty would have forbidden that to the word of here is used to show that even the most insignificant, even granting, when our parents want us to do something even to grant at their faces is not allowed. According to the statement of Allah subhana wa Taala scholars of the theater such as Imam, Mujahid Rahim Allah they say that if one's parents grow old, Allah

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when one's parents grow old, and they start urinating on themselves, they start passing stool on themselves, they have grown so old, that they do not have control of their bladder, they do not have control of what is going on around them. They start doing all of this, do not ever feel disgusted. Do not ever turn your face away in disgust. And do not ever use the word of or do not ever say that you can't stand the sight of that for why your parents used to do the same thing to you when you were young. When you were small. When you pass urine. When you pass stool when you had no control of yourself when you could not clean yourself up. They did it lovingly and caring for you. They did not

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do it out of disgust they did not do it out of hate. No rather they hugged you, they love to you and they did it out of love. So likewise today, now your parents are old and they are doing the same thing that you did when you were young. look after them carefully. Hello.

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As often as they say in regard to the place we are lost behind them what Allah says what fifth lahoma Jenna have a look at the words profound words of our maker, lower unto your parents die beings of submission and humility through mercy. Why is Allah subhanho wa Taala using the word means? Our Salah funa soya Rahim Allah they say that the minute your parents, either your mom or your mom or your dad, your mother or your father calls you do not go unto them walking. Do not go unto them running rather fly to them like how the birds fly. Allah says what fetullah Jenner has done

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to them die wings. So when they call for you rush fly to them as fast as possible. Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar. Once a man goes to the abattoir, a man goes to Amaro de la one, and he informs Amaro de la one, Yama. I have a mother who is old. She is so old that she cannot walk. So I carry her

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I can. She cannot clean herself after she relieves herself. So I clean her. I do all of this for her to relieve herself. I carry her perhaps to the fields or wherever isolated so that she can relieve herself. She can answer the call of nature in peace. And after she is done, I go by her, I turn away out of respect and I clean her. I clean her after she has relieved herself. So have I fulfilled my heart unto her. Have I fulfilled my rights unto her? Omar radi Allahu anhu says no you have not you have not even fulfilled your heart to watch your mother for even one contraction she felt during her pregnancy alone. Not even for one contraction.

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And he goes on to say but anyway what you are doing is good at persist in it for why I said that was because now you are doing all of this for your parents or for your mother

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waiting for her to expire. Waiting for her to pass away from this world and relieve you of the burden you are in. But on the other hand, your mother did all of this for you. Hoping that you will live a long life

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hoping that you will live a long life. Our parents they did all of what they did. They cleaned us they did this they did that all of us are seated here. You and I it is because of what our parents sacrificed and did for us. Today people call me Chef muise Buhari. People call me Sheriff but I was always Buhari long time back. It was a last will and it was my parents do our that I am what I am today.

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It is upon us to be thankful to our parents. Today many of us, we don't look at our parents, we disregard our parents. We think of them as bird.

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Some of us may Allah subhanahu wa taala save us all have dumped our parents in old age homes.

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Because we disregard them. We think of them as burned. My dear respected elders and brothers in Islam, I swear by Allah, for the ones who have lost their parents, for the ones who have lost their parents. If it was possible for them to go and open up the graves of their parents, they would, all of us would do so and we would take out our parents and hug them and kiss them. Because of the love we have parents before it's too late. Many things that have gone wrong with your parents scheffel Islam even the Tamia Rahim Allah. He says that if an individual has hurt his parents, if he has made his mother or his father cry, if he has made them shed tears because of him, it is upon him to go

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back to his parents and make them laugh. It is upon him to go back and make them smile alone.

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How many of us have this chance that our parents are alive? to do that? How many of us regret that we could not fulfill our parents wishes it is too late. How many of us have our parents with us right now? They are massive doses of Jenna. They are massive ways for us to achieve gender alone.

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And remember my dear respected elders and brothers in Islam, whatever goes around, comes around.

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There is an incident that has been narrated to us, which took place in Saudi in Riyadh.

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There was once a man

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that was once a man who had an old mother and an old father. He was married, and he had a son.

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His mother passed away.

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His mother passed away. And his father was left alone. So because his father was old, extremely old, no one to look after him. His father requested his son, can I come and live with you or my son, his son was a well off professional, earning a big salary living in a big mansion, drivers maids to their beck and call, beautiful wife, loving child, perfect life. His father asked him, oh, my son, can I come and live with you because I'm alone. He agrees.

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Even though he does it, not with a happy heart, because it is a duty upon him. He agrees and brings his father into his house.

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Now the father, he's an old man. And we know things that happen when you become old of age. He starts grumbling over every little thing, finding fault with every little thing. When it's hot, he goes off the air conditioning, saying that it's cold for him. And he messes around with the food, his labor, he tries to eat eats like a baby and misses the table up, puts plates down breaks things as an old man. Now, this young man's wife could not tolerate her father in law anymore. Why? Because she has her friends coming over. And her father in law, who is an old man keeps coming in front and disturbing and doing what not. So she goes to her husband and says, You know what, this won't come

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right. We can't have your father in the house. It is either your father or me. So put your father out of the house. And this is what is happening today. Many of us we tend to take our statements of our spouses over the statements of our parents and it is wrong. It is condemned in our religion. We are not allowed to give preference to our spouses over our parents.

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Tomorrow, any woman can be your wife, but no woman can be your mother. You can just go to a woman on the street and say she is my mother. No one can replace our parents.

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So this man, he listens to what his wife said. And he goes to his father and says, Oh, my father, you know what, you have become a bigger burden now, so that they had some, you know, driver's quarters outside of their house within the same compound, but outside the main house, it's like a servants quarters. He said that I'm not putting you out of the house. You go and stay in the driver's quarters. You go and stay in the driver's court is the Father. The old man he's crying from inside, but he did not want to impose on his son

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He did not want to become a bigger burden for his son. So he accepts taxes things and moves to the driver's quarters of Aqaba. Now what happens, they cut their relationship completely, the family with the Father, they send the food through the maid to go and give the Father. There is no relationship whatsoever. The old man is living in the driver's quarters, he does not come home at all the food is just sent rice through the main oven. Now, each time what happens, this young girl, the man's wife, she sends food to her father in law in a plate in a good place. At times, he breaks the plate because he's old, she gets sick and tired of the whole thing and she says no more good

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crockery for him. I'm going to send the food in a plastic plate so that even if he drops it, there's no issue it's not going to break. So for some time, now the food is going back and forth in a plastic plate and we know what happens to a plastic plate. It starts becoming old and stinky now.

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Now this is the relationship between the Son and the father Allahu Akbar, may Allah save us oil. After some time the maid now goes after a few days, he goes to give food in that same dirty plastic plate. Oh, and in regard to his clothes, he used to be in that same old clothes for the whole week. And after one week when he removes his clothes and keeps the maid used to come and collect it and go and wash it and give it back to him. This was the relationship between the son and his father. Finally after some days, one day the maid goes with the foot to give the old father she opens the door and he is sprawled on the ground. He has passed away. She screams she cries out Oh, the old

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father has passed away. Everybody comes running. The wife she comes running with a happy heart finally burden out of the way he's passed away. The son comes running Oh my father has passed away. He opens the dough and the site that greets him he is disgusted. Because the clothes that were all heaped up in a corner a stinking, the food has dropped all over nobody has cleaned the room.

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And his father is lying on the ground. He immediately calls for the driver calls for the maids and asked them to clean up everything he says don't touch it. Everything is so dirty. It's disgusting. Take all of the clothes and put it in a garbage bag and get rid of it. Get rid of it. So why is he was instructing his maid and his driver on what to do? He is the little son comes running. His little son comes running into the room, rushes straight to the grandfather's plate, takes the plate and starts hugging the plate. The father the young man he sees what his son is doing and says oh my son leave that it is a dirty plate. It is a plate that has not been washed for ages. It is a plate

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that is disgusting. Leaving. The son says No dad. No. I want the plate. I want the play. The father says I said leave it it is disgusting. It must be full of germs and bacteria leave the plate. The son says no. I want the plate. Finally the father says okay, why do you want the plate so bad? The boy says, Dad when you grow old I have to feed you with the same plate.

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Actually, it is not a joke.

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What goes around comes around. You treat your parents where your children will treat you the same idea respected elders and brothers.

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We want our children to treat us well. Then it is upon us to respect our parents to look after them. Well. What goes around comes around. If you treat your parents bad, no doubt your children will treat you bad or even worse than that. May Allah subhanahu wa taala save us all.

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This is in Bukhari.

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A man goes to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he asked Rasulullah salallahu alayhi wasallam permission to go for Jihad to go for jihad. Allahu Akbar. One of the greatest

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Jihad

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam asks the men, hi, Yun walidah are your two parents living? The man replies in the affirmative. He says yes. Then Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam instructs demand for fee Hema for j, the same word he had in other words to strive, then go and strive in regard to them, help them be in their service of

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go and be in their service that is better for you than jihad.

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scholars are selling oil and they go on to say the from this narration, even permissible journeys. Say you're going on a trip. Say you're going on a vacation. Say you're going on a business trip. It is upon you to go to your parents and seek permission. Do you need me or can I go

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If they say no we need you by our side, then it is upon us to stay by them. Allahu Akbar, if there is no permission for jihad, then what do you say about vacations and business trips and leisure trips.

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This is what our Salah from the soil a highlight from the ad, another generation Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is reported to have said, read the Robbie mindray calvani that the pleasure of Allah subhana wa Taala is connected closely connected to the pleasure of your father, or your parents, for that matter, your father or your mother, and also the displeasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala is likewise connected to the displeasure of your father or your mother in law.

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Even though the law one he says that there are three things there are three ayah, which connect two things together and these are all inseparable, inseparable, for one to be accepted the other has to also be in accordance with that, if not both, if one is not there, the other is not accepted. According to Mr. buzzworthy Allahumma. He says the three is number one will have to learn how

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to obey Allah Subhana Allah Allah and obey Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam if you only obey Allah and obey

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Allah, Allah, then your obedience to Allah subhanho wa Taala is also not counted. You have to obey Allah and obey Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam both go hand in hand.

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I am number two aka masala to Sokka you have to establish salah and you have to give out a cap if you establish salah and do not give out zaccaria Salah is also not accepted according to the alohar in Houma, the third Ayah anishka Lee value IE show gratitude and to me Allah Subhana was that I saying this show gratitude unto me and show gratitude unto your parents. If you do not show gratitude unto your parents, you have not shown gratitude and to your maker Allah subhana wa Taala but he respected elders and brothers in Islam. I leave y'all with an incident that took place during the time of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam visit the narration which is recorded in Sahih.

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Muslim. This is in regard to a special individual just another few minutes, a special individual an extremely special individual and why was he given the status was it was nothing other than his servitude to his mother.

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Oh my god, Allah one. What a great Sahabi the law one, he had the habit. This was after Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Whenever a delegation needs to come from Yemen, he used to go to the delegation and ask them a few more ways to build an army. A fecal waste of an army is wasting an army with you is waste even an army with you. He used to go and ask every delegation that came from Yemen is always with you. So many a time they say no, no, no. Finally, one fine day. Who was in that particular group? That delegation that came and they pointed out? Yes, this is always

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the last one. Allahu Akbar Amira. He rushes to me. And he says, are you?

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He says, Yes, I am. Are you Who is?

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Who is from Morocco? It's a tribe. It's the name of a tribe? Are you from Morocco, who is from color? These are the two tribe names. He says, Yes, I am. And are you the one who has a mother who is blind? He says yes, that is me. And then he goes on to ask him are you wasted when Ahmed was afflicted with leprosy? And now you have got all that is remaining of it in the size of a DERA he says, Yes, there is I am always

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radi Allahu Allah, who then says Samia Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he?

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He says, I heard Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the narrations go along the lines of these words that you are the best of the tabea in. He had never seen Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam many respected elders and brothers in Islam. He was from Yemen. Once ambassadors of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam went to Yemen to call the people of Yemen to Islam. He was busy with his mother, his mother who was blind. He says that night the night before the ambassador's came, the lights went off. In other words, we had no oil to light the candles. It was dark, and I could not find myself in the sense find my way in my home. But then I followed my blind mother, my

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mother even though it was dark because she was blind. She had got accustomed to how the layout of the house was I followed her and made my way around the house Allahu Akbar, even though she was blind, Allah subhana wa Taala showed her the way

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The next day he goes and meets the the ambassador's of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and they were reciting the ayah.

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Allah Allah who neuron from Allahu Allahu Akbar, Allah subhanho wa Taala. If he does not give new life for someone, then there is no alight at all. The minute he heard that I embraced Islam, but he could not go and meet Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam even though

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he was alive, because he was in the service of his mother, and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam in Medina, he talks about who is Ebner Amir he tells us

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Allah Allah imager Marine, if you ever meet who is even avid he is a man who is from Morocco, who is from current from the tribe current who is alpha Danny, if you meet him, see he has been afflicted with leprosy and all he has got is a mark of a dead ham on his shoulder. If you meet him, ask him to seek forgiveness for you or law. For if he seeks forgiveness for you. It will be accepted. He was an individual My dear respected elders and brothers in Islam, his do our was always accepted. His do our was always accepted.

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This is this was the reason why he rushed to meet with me and he begged me seek. In other words asked forgiveness for me is one of the permissible forms of tawassul as forgiveness for me as forgiveness for me and are a waste of anatomy. He seeks forgiveness on behalf of our Omar rhodiola Juan, according to the instructions of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he respected elders and brothers in Islam, the status was given to always have an army who never even saw Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam because he did not see Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam he is not from the Sahaba. But yet, he was given such a great status. The reason being he was in the servitude

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of his mother of his mother of his blind mother. This is how important it is for us to be good unto our parents. And like I said, in the beginning, many respected elders and brothers in Islam, go to your parents and touch up things if things have gone sour with them before it's too late. Before it's too late, none of us none of us has a guarantee that we will live for until this date until that day, we do not know whether we may go first or our parents made my pass away first, it is upon us to rush to them to beg for their forgiveness and do whatever it takes to see that smile on their faces because they are the greatest doors for us to enter Jenna, may Allah subhana wa Taala forgive

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all of our sins, and may He forgive the sins of our parents, and May he accept all of our good deeds. And may He unite all of us in the gardens of general with our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam