Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #642 Prohibition Of Two Holding Secret Counsel From A Third

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The Bible and legality of sexual behavior are discussed, including the use of sex to avoid sexual friction and the use of sex to avoid sexual friction. The importance of being kind to neighbors and one's own behavior is emphasized. The use of the "monster" in Islam and the "monster" in English to prevent confusion is emphasized. The legal implications of a legalized LLC or corporation, including taxes, helping businesses grow their revenues, and the importance of not giving up a woman in a situation where the woman is not present are also discussed.
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Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious. Today's episode is number 642 in the Blissett series of yellow Salahi Hain by Imam nawawi, may Allah have mercy on him. And as usual, we'll begin by praising the Almighty Allah and own and sending the greatest peace and salutations upon His most Beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam. In the previous episode, we had only one Hadith left in chapter number 281.

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The prohibition of having a secret counsel, counsel with the exclusion of a third person who happened to be attending the same meeting,

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and we learned and we learn the effective cause of the prohibition, and that is because it's either either it hurts the third person, or ASHRAE THON will cast in his heart or her heart that the other two guys must be talking bad about me. And that's why they are whispering or whispering we have only one Hadith remaining in this chapter.

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And this hadith is Hadith number 15 199.

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It's a sound Hadith a sound Hadith, agreed upon its authenticity authenticity collected by the two great Imams Bukhari and Muslim and it is narrated by Abdullah ignoramus rude Radi Allahu Allah. Allah rasool Allah is Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam a call

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from selasa.

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Nanny do not

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tell you to be nurse, Min Ashley en Lika, your Zeno,

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I love that I love that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said whenever three of you of you are together, together, then two of you must not converse privately privately, ignoring the third,

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till the number increases, less the third should be grieved.

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And as a matter of fact, it happens. One of the principles of Sharia is to block the means to evil. to block the means to hatred, to block the means to what is forbidden. So anything that leaves what is forbidden is actually forbidden actually. So grieving, hurting and knowing others is definitely forbidden.

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Creating discord among them is also forbidden. So anything may lead to that eventually is forbidden as well. Because of that we'll find the Glorious Quran is the word of Allah. Allah utilizes a term much greater than simply saying haram, haram or do not do that. Do not do that. So we find the Almighty Allah in Surah Surah Al Islam,

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commending the believers as follows while Takara, moose, Xena, Xena

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do not go near adultery, adultery, you will not find in the Quran and I which says do not commit adultery, adultery, adultery is forbidden rather, rather,

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a greater and a broader command will be do not go near it.

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So the prohibition is not only concerning having committing the act of adultery, but also concerning doing anything which would lead to that, such as being in a private place alone with a woman who's not lawful for you that is not permissible. It is not such as looking at what is forbidden inciting the sexual desire in you tempting you to commit what is forbidden. And so

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whatever your Salah is to speak to in a language that the third doesn't understand. That happens a lot in the Muslim communities. And there was

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you find two people who know or do sit in in the same place with another person maybe in the machine. They will talk in having a cup of tea reading Quran together. Then one starts conversing with the other in order. That is their mother tongue.

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All of them they speak English. But when one switches to speak to the other other to the second in order and the other responds to him in order, and the third maybe he's revert doesn't know or do or an Arab doesn't all do. Automatically as shaytaan will cast in his heart and mind they must be talking bad about you. They must be talking about something they don't want you to hear it and it's very obvious.

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Remember our master

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and our role model. Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam May the greatest speech and Salutations be upon him as he was dropping off his wife Sofia, may Allah be pleased with her when she came to visit him in attic F. So he decided to score her home. And the Hadith says that she was covered totally and no one could recognize her. So the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam

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observed two companions of Al Ansari across from the seat. So he said hilariously kkOma

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you both of you, stop it right there. Then he approached them. And he said she is my wife Sophia.

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So they said, Yeah rasool Allah, why do you have to tell us we would never think bad of you, and then we will SallAllahu Sallam confirm that it is possible and if it happens, you will go astray.

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Coda believer, Could one of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, after all, after all their their sacrifices that help their support, think bad of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam thing that he may have. He may be having a date with a woman was not lawful for him impossible. But the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said it's possible

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because in shaytaan, he remained ebony Adam Majora demeanor a look.

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Because I shaytaan is with us all the time unless if we seek refuge with Allah against him. He's like the blood flowing in our veins. Don't give him a chance to mislead you don't give him a chance to create discord and friction among you.

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So this is effective cause explain in the Hadith mean, actually another Lika

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you have Zeno

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that will make him feel bad. He will grieve Him. So avoid it.

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Now with a new chapter, chapter number 282, bevel nahi and Tassie will Abdi what there but you will mark at your Lola dB, seven Aventura in I was in holla quadrille.

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You Yanni I see the English translation is just one word cruelty and the prohibition of cruelty. Yeah, that will work. This chapter deals with the prohibition of cruelty towards one servant. Ones, right ride, one's wife, daughter, mother, sister, son,

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especially without a legitimate reason.

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And sometimes a person may say, I'm disciplining my children.

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But also sometimes people will go beyond the disciplining to the extent of hurting just yesterday as I was reading in the news,

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in a Muslim country, in Cairo, Egypt.

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A couple

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a husband and wife

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both are parents of a young girl at marriageable age. So they wanted to force her to marry her relative or cousin. And she refused. So they starved her the beats her the handcuffed her. They treated her with cruelty and the abuser that is the parents of the god.

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I like to declare Fact number one, this is not Islamic whatsoever. This is not even humane. No human being no sane human being would accept this kind of cruelty, whether towards your own children or towards others, let alone treating your own daughter like that. Adding to that it is not permissible to force a girl who's under your guardianship to marry anyone, even if this person was as good and as right here.

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As one of the Sahaba is not permissible. So as the consent of the Guardian is required for the validity of the marriage contract, likewise, the consent of the girl, the bride is essential for the validity of the marriage contract. It's a jab and caboodle. And there will lay the Guardian is only representing the goal. He is her Joaquin and given her in marriage. So if she says no, the No.

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But he's super nice. He's told he has a PhD in physics. He is a US citizen, he is whatever, Daddy, I don't like him. Or I don't feel like I'm attracted to him. hulless it's over. This is Islamic

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law people, not only the Orientals, not only the enemies of Islam, not only non Muslims who are ignorant about Islam, but also many Muslims confuse what is cultural with what is religious.

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So whatever they do have ill doing of quality, because this is pure cultural.

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They would make it look like it's an Islamic tradition.

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There is no honor killing in Islam. There is no force in the girl to marry against her will in Islam. There is no taking the dowry of the girl for yourself because you're the father or You're the willy. No,

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none of that is permissible.

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So here are never your Salah Salem is teaching us in the following Hadith.

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This besides all the Hadith and the chapters which we tackled before about being well mannered and humbleness. Illa Allah The idea is to Allah is the One who is having the best of manners

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Eurocom Eurocom Li Li and the best of all of you are those who are good to their wives, et cetera, et cetera.

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And people will be closest to Allah on the day of judgment based on the level of you know, there are clap

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and those who will be the closest to another your Salah Salem will be axacon Holika we are familiar with almost a hadith and now we're going to learn a set of a hadith prohibiting quality prohibiting being tough or rude, being cruel towards anyone, including livestock.

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Obviously, the first reference is an ayah of Surah Nisa chapter number four, it is the beginning of arroba and number 36 chapter number four, in which Allah Almighty says why Boudleaux how to Shrek movie he she

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is what we will call Beverly

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sirki Anyone Jerry they will call by Jerry will do rube

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will generate real koruba Well just in June all the while saw him in the lobby in his savvy you cut him

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in Allah Hannah your head woman can I move?

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For hurrah

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the first command in this idea was to hate

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worship Allah alone and do not associate with Him in in worship where I would allow her then to Shinjuku be here che do not associate with Him in in worship. Then next in order to the worship of Allah to the command of monotheism and the prohibition of polytheism bill while Edenia Santa and we go to the parents and next in order, the relatives will be the koruba the uncles the ends, paternal maternal,

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the cousins,

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paternal and maternal, okay.

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The brothers and the sisters, the siblings while Yetta Anna, and the orphans while Misaki in the poor and the needy, those who can barely find what supports them of the provision. Then the reference here in while Jerry real koruba Well, Jerry Ruby was saw

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Hey baby.

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We've got three kinds of neighbors. The word Jarrah means the neighbor, LJ real CORBA. The word Korba means, relatives, we just had it in the beginning of the eye. So what is the meaning of LGR? They will quarterback, the neighbor who happen to be a relative, my cousin is living in the same neighborhood. So he has

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three rights. Number one the right of Islam, every Muslim have rights upon other Muslims number to the right of the relationship. He is my Keith

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why be the orb number three the rights of the neighborhood.

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And it has been rated that who is perceived as a neighbor who have rights upon me up to 40 houses in every direction. Right left

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ahead of you behind the 44 enables 40 houses Oh, yes, the whole neighborhood, there are your neighbors, your them rights you owe them been good to them, if you cannot benefit them, at least prevent your harm from reaching them.

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long list of rights particularly in respect of the Jor el journal CORBA that one was three rights because of Islam, the Khans and the neighborhood and the second al Jerrell Ruby at the neighbor who's not related to me. Okay, and there could be a neighbor who is not related to me and not even Muslim, but he still enjoys and maintains his rights of being a neighbor. Let him be do Christian

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Buddhist Hindus, it doesn't matter. His faith is for him

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or upon him. But your duty is to be kind is to be dutiful to your neighbor whether he is Muslim or non Muslim.

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I'm gonna live normally in Qatar bro the hola Juan

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ordered his servant to take some soup on and some meat to the neighbors. He said but he is as you he said so. In nice ammirato Rasool Allah He SallAllahu Sallam indeed I have heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him as saying, Man as well as you real, you will see any Will Jerry hat on to and who are you or ratio.

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You are reserved means he will make him among the IRS.

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The prophets Allah Allah Allah selama says Gibreel peace be upon him, continuously enjoying me to take care of the neighbors. To the extent that I thought he is going to list the neighbors among the ears, if somebody dies, not only the relatives, the siblings, the uncles and the parents have share of the inheritance, but also the neighbors. Of course, this is not happening. But the Prophet sallallahu Sallam says, the extent of how many times how often Gibreel peace be upon him, enjoying me instructed me to be kind to the neighbors, I thought eventually is going to be one of the years but he's not.

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So he said yes, go ahead and send some of that to our Jewish neighbor because of what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, we as Muslims are being rightly guided and completely controlled by the guidance of the Quran, and the guidance of the sunnah of Prophet Muhammad sallahu wa sallam, despite what we feel and what we have in our hearts, or our tendencies and what we like and what we don't like. Yanni.

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You know about him Hatha Radi Allahu Allah.

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Useless have a brother.

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He was killed by somebody

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who was not Muslim.

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Then the killer eventually took shahada and accepted Islam.

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So Omar will have said to him, after he took shahada, and he became Muslim and Omar now is the Khalifa. He is the top the head of the Muslim state.

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If he wanted the execution of anyone, no one will

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Caution him. So he says to the one who killed his brother, lie, he banned me watch. If you can just keep your face away from me, avoid meeting me.

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He said, Yeah, Mira Momineen.

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Our man is like a hawk colander. That is because before I accepted Islam, I've killed your brother. Now you're going to mistreat me? Or you're going to prevent me from getting some of my rights, or you're going to hurt me. He said, I'm mad fella.

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As for this, I would never do that. I will treat you justly. But I don't like you. You know, every time I see your face, I remember that he killed my brother. So the guy said with confidence. Imagine somebody who killed the brother of a mural meaning he says with confidence. Well, if it is up to love, for Inanna Yes, sir. I'll have been nice.

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Only women would worry about love would feel bad about not being loved. This is his statement. Okay. As for me, as long as you're giving me my rights

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and I'm being respected in the community. I don't care whether you like me or not.

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This is somebody who killed her almost brother I know more now is the Khalifa is a mural mumineen

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because we as Muslims are not being controlled by our emotions, by our liking and disliking. No. Later you may not have had a corner house, who verbally magic to be the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said none of you truly believe not until now unless his Hauer his desire follows what I have brought you. follows the Quran follows the Sunnah. You like something but the Quran says its opposite. Then forget about what you like. You do what the Quran says. You like something but the Sunnah, instructs its opposite, then ignore and neglect what you like and follow the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu. Listen, woman is savvy, the traveler, the wayfarer, you know, even civilian

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number 60. Shift on number nine.

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The Wayfarer, when they get lost, when they run out of fund, when they run out of money, when they run out of provision, they have a share and then there's a car distribution.

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So embarrassed to man in Muslimeen in the Central Bank of the Muslim ummah, where we collect the obligatory charities and the voluntary one, and the process of dispensing and distributing the charity takes place from there.

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The Wayfarer, who's traveling across the Muslim OMA whenever the Muslim ummah was one single United OMA, if you go if you go to Kazakhstan, if you go to Tajikistan, Uzbekistan, if you go all the way to the borders of China, if you go to Paris, if you go to Spain, or Toba, if you go to the peninsula, it was in Saudi Arabia, then if you go to any Muslim soil, number one, you did not need a passport.

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Because you're traveling within the same country.

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You know, if I'm traveling in within the states, in 51 states, you don't need a passport, even if you're bold enough, right? Your driver's license, your photo ID is sufficient, because you are American.

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You're living in the same in the same country. Even though it's a continent, the Muslim ummah 100 years ago, was greater than all of that was the greatest homeowners and the one who left so the person will travel across and if he runs out of fund, where am I here? Oh, you are on the borders of Europe. You go to beta million Muslimeen. I'm a Wayfarer I'm coming from a sham and I was going to

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Tajikistan and I don't have money. I lost everything I consume. What I have Ibni savvy. That is a Wayfarer that is a traveler. He has rights, rights upon the OMA and rights upon the individuals who happen to see him

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when they're Malakut, a man or

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male coolie Amin refers to the slaves. Allah commanded Muslims whenever slavery was still there, to be kind to the slaves to be kind to the servants to the extent and Nabil Salalah

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ally Selim, in one of the most eloquent statements ever said it who are no calm Hello calm

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as we all know in Arabic or in English, the right order of the statement

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is the noun sentence,

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the subject, then the predicate,

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or the direct object. So in an amino Salalah Selim is switched. And he put this before that it indicates that they're both are alike. Both are actually the same. So, when he said, if you're going to say the the statement, as we say to each other, your servants alike your brothers, you treat them like your brothers. But nmbu SallAllahu sallam said, Your brothers are you servants? Here honey, there is no difference whatsoever between treating your servant and treating your own siblings. They should be treated the same. No difference. He happened to be serving me. But it doesn't mean by any means that I'm better than him or superior to him. What I have no right to be cruel to him. And NWSL

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Allah and SLM said the greatest example. When people served him as you serve him, he accepted his lap and a signal man it served him for 10 years. He were the word that best in his lifetime. And NSE Malik was among Mr. Marine he lived over 100 years Masha Allah because of the blessing of the dua of the Prophet sallahu wa salam.

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And in Sydney Malik says, I have served the Messenger of Allah for 10 years.

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He says I've never touched any hand or anything softer than silk than the hand of the prophets Allah Allah says never found any fragrance burr the fragrance and the Mosque of the prophets Allah Salah he never offended me. He never said to anything I did it why did you do it? Or do anything? I didn't do it. Why didn't you do it? You know, you can pretend you can

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behave as if you're somebody else. But for how long? 10 years is impossible. If you travel to somebody for three days soon you'll find everything about him or her.

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Why? Because I cannot conceal my identity. I cannot conceal my behavior whether good or bad for too long. So for 10 years and as it nomadic servant and Nabil SallAllahu Sallam so he was the greatest example in that in Hola Hola, yo Haberman Cana motel and for hora. Indeed, Allah likes not those who are self deluding. And boastfully

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it's time to take a short break. And soon after the insha Allah would begin tackling some of those beautiful Hadith in this regard, please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. And welcome back to the second segment of today's program of Guardians of the pious, our phone numbers should appear on the bottom of the screen and we already have some callers as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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know a man from the USA Welcome to Hooda. TV.

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How are you sir? How you doing today? I'm doing great and hamdulillah thank you for asking hamdulillah on the Share, one of the brother asked me a question. So I was wondering who can answer this and then I realized that's my share. So that's why I call so the question is he's saying is it allowed to create make an LLC or a corporation and then show your income under that LLC or corporation so that you can get your benefit and your child credit Child Tax Credit? You know what I mean? No, I don't just to hide.

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Okay, just to create an LLC or corporation, and you work and you show your income under that LLC so that you don't have to, it doesn't affect your personal benefits from the government. So you can get your personal tax credit for for tax for child credit. And then other benefits it doesn't handle.

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Look, okay Norma. Anything you may do to reduce your taxes

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in a way or another as long as it is legal. Enjoy it

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it's permissible. The President of the United States,

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the one who is a very wealthy person, and he has thought was all over the nation and golf courses. He did not pay taxes more than $1,000. Why? He said, I'm enjoying the law. I'm using the law. So if you're doing anything that is legal, don't put yourself on travel with the law. Okay. In Islam, there is something called Zika. There is something called the Voluntary charity. And if the owner is in need, then taxes but my taxes.

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Okay. But what we'll see where people have to pay 30% of their income, 40% of their income and so on. If the law gives you a way to reduce the tax payment, then enjoy it and that is permissible. That's a general answer. Is it clear, Norman? Yes. So whether you create a corporate, whether you

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consider him or not.

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Brother Abdullah from the USA

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Abdullah, salaam alaikum.

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I have three questions. Can you raise your voice, Abdullah, please? The parents raise your voice does something unintentionally or by accident? And it's not intended, but it makes them mad, and maybe they think it's intentional or they get upset at it?

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Trying to converse with them is sufficient. That's question number one. Question number two, regarding the car as long as someone does their best, and if they mispronounce or they their mind wanders, even though they tried their best, is that sufficient for full protection? And finally, the third question, this is quite a lot sorry. But

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if someone has a business, in the business, they help companies and they help stores online grow their their customers. Now some of these stores, their websites, they have their Instagram length on it and their Instagram might have things that are haram or not permissible. Is it permissible to promote or help such businesses by posting ads for them, even though someone might go on the website and might see their Instagram and click it? Is this permissible or not? Got it. The law from the USA first of all, if you do anything on intention, and it leads to hurt and somebody's feeling, once you know that you need to communicate with them, and ask them for pardon and seek and seek the pardon

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and apologize for them? Would that be sufficient? Yes. We have a beautiful dua, which is a dua It's a prayer and meanwhile, an information from Allah Subhanallah to his in Siena, Patna.

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Allah inspired us by the industrial Bukhara to invoke Him saying, Oh our Lord, do not hold us accountable for anything that will do our forgetfulness, or by mistake on intention. So Allah said he inspired us to make the DUA and he accepted it. So raffia and on metal Hatha were Nisha and Rama Stokely who ally the Prophet sallallahu Sallam confirm anything that a person may do. By accident, unintentional doesn't mean it, or our forgetfulness or being forced to do it, like life threatening, he or she is not blameworthy for it. But what matters here is my relationship with the people. So I need to tell my wife Sorry, there was a misunderstanding to my brother to my colleague. And Discord

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is going to happen is going to happen. Well, hi Roma, many of the OB Salam and this is our who will take the initiative and say, Sir, Mr. McComb, I'm sorry, there was a misunderstanding. And you break the ice and you resolve the problem. Secondly, I'm not an Arab and I resigned the car and I may mispronounce some of these words. Number 1am. I blameworthy? No. Number two, would I enjoy the same efficiency of the car as means of protection, etc? Absolutely. Yes. I'd like to add to that, since interview Salalah Salim said irrespective of the RE citation of the Quran, one who recited the Quran fluently it's his mother tongue. His rank is with the angels. And one who decides the Quran and

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learning and he's settling because it's not his mother tongue receives double, double the word of the proficient reciter SubhanAllah.

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If you have a store and you publish ads on the social media, social media is law

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like a double bladed knife, it has good and bad. And I can assure you that vast majority of people are on social media, of course, different to different extent. But making your ads on the social media, for your business or for our purposes. Even if you pay for it, you're not blameworthy.

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The social media has become something you can say inevitable

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in order to reach the people in our power, right now.

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I'm sure you're watching me from the USA on social media. Right? Instead of paying for the satellite, or the Dish Network, millions every year, I don't have to and you can watch me clearly high definition on any of our social media platform. And meanwhile, you might find, you may you might find right after my program, something bad. So do not look at what is bad and look at what is good for you to publish or to make a commercial for your business on the social media. You're not blameworthy. You're okay. Well lo Tala Anwar

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Jamshid from USA Salam Alikum Jamshed

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raise your voice Jamshid please

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welcome Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatu. I hear you now go ahead.

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Yes, I want to question

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it first. My first My question is,

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I used to make other like deadbeat, for example, but now May Allah forgive me by saying that and I repent

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that is coming to haunt me. You know what I mean?

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No, I missed what happened after you repented from the bad deeds, what happened to you?

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But that they were coming to haunt me like, you know what I mean, like I, you know, I always like to get to make the same thing again, you keep saying

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hello, yeah, you keep thinking about the bad deeds again.

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They did, but I keep I like, it's different. Like, I don't make dhikr of Allah, but it goes to the after why? And then it keeps coming, like what should I do? What should I do avoid those kind of questions.

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Obviously, this is not an individual complaint or a personal problem. This is a general problem that faces all of us. Especially it is if it was the sin that that the person was addicted to or used to commit was something that he or she used to do it for long. And if it is related to the sexual desire, for instance, or maybe smoking or having a bad company, it's all about Hauer or desires. So the answer is in surah facilite

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is in also a number 200 of Surah Al are off we're in Nyanza Naka, Amina che pa Nina's wound fester is Bill.

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Every time Satan whispers to you, every time an evil thought crosses your mind. Chop it off.

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Remove it immediately by distracting your attention from it and the best way to do it is to say I will lay him in a shade on Origen.

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Normally, if the person is by himself, he can become a victim of these evil thoughts haunting him. And that's why I interview Salas and emceed lair be eaten hadoo Kumada Hawala you save your Nevada

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you should not stay alone by yourself or traveling by yourself. Rather you should have company or a good roommate or a good friend if you're not married.

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So if this evil thought crosses your mind, move away from your place, walk, jog, exercise, Maple do and say Allahu Akbar and pray to rock as they recite a few pages of the Quran plus Alistair either until you totally get rid of this evil fat corpse in your mind and haunting you. May Allah enable you Jamshed and all of us to overcome our evil desires as salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Abraca

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FIBA from India

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fiber from the UK As salam o alaikum fiber

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Allah consola Amara Natalia Barakatu Welcome to hola TV.

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Le hamdulillah go ahead

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so Allegra Jake, I hear your fiber. Present your question please. Thank you, Jake. I have two questions. I have two questions today insha Allah

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okay, my first question is on sadaqa.

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I am thanking them for southern cave I'm giving sadaqa is the permissible to associate the sadaqa with a worldly intention. Like I say, Allah, I'm giving the sadaqa in return, please do this for me. And if it is permissible, does it reduce the eventual reward?

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That's my first question.

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Okay, second question.

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So my,

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my second question insha Allah is the second question inshallah is on Tallac. I know that if a man gives his wife sir, like he has to save for three cycles before it is perfected. So my question is on women that have attained menopause, are they still obligated to stay for the three cycle even though there is actually no cycle no menses taking place? So the cycle for answering my questions check.

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Right, sister, Tibor from the UK.

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And then we will Salallahu Alaihe Salam taught us that given any charity removes lot of calamities and prevent them from taking place.

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But it is not befitting for a person to say Oh Allah, I'm going to give a charity so that you do this for me. Okay, we don't bargain with Allah subhanaw taala sadaqa to surgery towards fue ohada or Robbie. In some of the Athar. It's not even a hadith to treat those who are sick via giving any charity

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by giving in a charity that will Murdock and Masada Okay, so it's obvious when I do a good deed when I help somebody else who's in need. Immediately, Allah's help will be delivered. In the Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu selama seed can Allahu he Ioannina Abdi Madama Lahab Doofy Ionia Okay, so long as you're helping others Allah is helping you burn deal okay. So keep that in mind in sha Allah.

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You second question is irrespective of the

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waiting period for a woman who have reached menopause.

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So in menopause, there is no period no more. Allah subhanaw taala says Al Mottola, Katara bas Nabi and fusina Salah Seta Kuru, when you divorce a woman, there is a reader for the divorce woman three periods, three monthly cycles. What if the woman does not experience the cycle anymore?

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So Allah Almighty says, In anumber, four of Surah to Tala wala E is nominal mahiya women is equal in our Tabea tomb ferried to Hoonah salah satu assuring what II Eelam your hair.

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So if a woman does not experience the period at all or a woman have reached the menopause as I assess and number four or sort of Tala la Dafa it that oneness set to assure three lunar calendars three lunar months BarakAllahu Li COVID Salam Alikum

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Shaheen from Japan Salam aleykum Shaheen

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it can sit down with us

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go ahead chain

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shift. First of all this is not totally related with me. But I am asking this if this really happened. So my question is if someone wants to report one another fortina But he's only evidence is the video record of COVID and the poor people who just watch the video I mean evidence are those four people will be back

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As a witness, have you been Shaheen, I'm going to ask you a question. Fact number one, if actually there are four witnesses who have witnessed a person committing full adultery, what do you think the consequences nowadays would be?

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Are you trying to establish the HUD there is no HUD there is no punishment for adultery as what Islam says.

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You know that right? Furthermore, furthermore, if we go back to the time of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, the incident of mais numerical Eslami, may Allah be pleased with him the companion who's involved in adultery

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when he was punished and abuse Allah Allah, Allah SLMC to the person who convinced him to

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admit his sin and turn himself in. He said, Hello Sir Tata will be so big, it would have been better if you cover them up even by your own clothes.

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So if a case like that happens before you, it is not really a smart idea to publish the video or show to four people, Hey, we witnessed this guy committed adultery. So what rather it would have been much better not because we are living in a different time. But even if that was the time of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, this is what he has recommended as Syd to cover up to conceal the sin of others. Baraka lofi Aki che

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Raja from India, salaam alaikum.

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Yeah, I am from Pakistan, Kashmir. I'm Roger Federer. You okay, Roger from Pakistan from Kashmir As Salam Alikum right. Yes.

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I have some question related to Tilak. Yeah.

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Actually, I pronounced three triple clock in one sitting through phone calls.

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So now I want to

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bury her after completing the ADA. Is it possible or not?

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How many Tala Did you give her before?

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Not before only triple Dragonborn sitting for a junior youth anywhere? When was that? How long ago?

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Around three months? 22 days. Okay. So they either have passed in any case you want to marry her again with a new marriage contract and she's okay with that right?

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Yes, she is okay. But you know, in Pakistan, there are many scholars in Hanafi. Yes, yes. They are saying that it should be before it should be halal. Ah, okay, listen to me, okay. In fact, not only Imam Abu Hanifa or the Hanafi madhhab. But also the vast majority of the scholars including Imam Shafi and Imam Malik are of the view that if somebody said to his wife until fall for the fall of three times in the same city, then they are effectively three divorces. Even though timing may Allah have mercy on him, oppose them. And he said, they are only one divorce since they happen in the same setting. What is the meaning of the same setting? So he altered them simultaneously. He said, You're

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divorced, you're divorced, your divorce, that is different than somebody divorcing his wife. Then while he's sitting in the same place, why later I said, and again, I'm divorcing you that's a second divorce. Then a while later, he says, and he's sitting on the same couch is definitely three separate divorces. But if somebody altered the three divorces simultaneously, in the same time, the more correct view that they happen to be one Talaq one divorce, so if you do not divorce her before, and you want to remarry her since the marriage has been resolved already. And after the ADA, it is permissible accordingly, with her consent with the agreement of the Guardian, and with a new dollar

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Barack illogical.

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brother Omar from the USA Welcome to HIPAA TV.

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Omar, can you hear me?

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Yes, I can hear you. Yes, go ahead. What is your question? Omar, please.

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Hello. Yes, go ahead. I hear you your question please.

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Can you hear me chef? Yes, I can.

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so I started learning sudo command a few days ago and it became apparent to me how important and good character and conduct is when dealing with the people.

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This when I've tried my best to advise my family

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they don't really want to listen. And I just need some you know some guidance on how to advise the family when they don't want to listen.

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Okay, got your question Omar from the USA Thank you.

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Allah subhanaw taala says what more halacha Salah T was Toby Ronnie,

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command and enjoying your, your family to pray. While stock rally stopper is an extensive form of Elsbeth be extra patient because at Darya those who give dower to Allah the Almighty to do what is good to abstain from what is evil whether to family members or to people whom you do not know before and essential requirement for them is a sub check out Surah to us in which a lot of notices all mankind are in Las l except those who believe Alladhina Amman while I'm you know saw the hat and do good deeds worth a while so we'll Bill healthy what was all the sub and enjoying one another to the truth? Yeah. And they give Dawa the June What is good, the forbid what is evil? What will also be a

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slavery. Once you give dower you're gonna understand it's not like you know going to the mall to grab a sandwich or to It's like eating ice cream. It says task which is a task of the prophets and the messengers that stuff and you will be met with a lot of resentment, a lot of resistance. A lot of opposition even from the family members,

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let alone Nephi M Wyrley Kumar unfortunately Comala is now nominal, Adina O'Toole Kitab Berman, kabhi LUCAM Wamena Nadine Ashoka, Dan kathira. Were in Dallas Biru. Tahoe for in Adeleke I mean asmall or more. So most certainly been challenged while giving Dawa

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being met with confrontation and resentment is typical is inevitable, especially with the family members. So what is the advice? I cannot say better than what Allah said in the Quran when those Bill LSBU is Bill, what that tackle. So patients and yourself become righteous. And then finally, last area of surah Allah Miranda as well. Yeah, you are Latina, Armando Spiro. Warsaw beautiful as Bill was so beautiful, what a beautiful what type Allah Allah Allah come to fly home. So he give dower to your family, to your parents, your siblings, your children to your spouse, make lots of data for them because guidance is in Allah's hand and present to them the Dawa in a good manner, the

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way you yourself would like to be approached and given the hour with Gary, you're going to know cabello Thurman Allahu Allah comfortably and remember before I was in practicing, and he was Allah subhanho wa Taala who put on my way, a very decent person who spoke to me kindly spoke to me gently and convinced me. Okay, may Allah subhanahu wa taala guide all of us do what is best. According to Holyhead, Estelle froala. Halle walakum wa salam, Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad in wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam was salam. Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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God is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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Illness to be the best, and give his best religion to them. Allah Allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about an empire that we're shipping comes fire and stones, sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad or dies? We're shipping cars fire and stores selling the best were the cheapest

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