Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #641 Prohibition Of Breaking Ties And Relationships

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The segment discusses the history of Islam, including its use of "has" in title and the history of abuse and hesitation by believers. The transcript describes a disturbing story involving a man who forsakes deeds and causes violent behavior, while a woman claims to have killed her brother's family members and is arrested. The segment emphasizes the importance of not giving up on past experiences and not wasting time, as well as the importance of practicing behavior to obtain rewards for one's marriage. The segment also touches on various speakers, including those who have experienced the effects of the coronavirus pandemic and those who have not.
AI: Transcript ©
00:00:00 --> 00:00:00


00:00:05 --> 00:00:42

Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another love edition of gardens of the pious Today's episode is number 641. In the series of real Salaheddin by Imam nawawi, may Allah have mercy on him. And it will be the fourth and the final episode in the study in chapter number 280. The prohibition of baking pies and severing relationships. We only have two ahaadeeth left in the chapter. The first hadith is Hadith number 15 196.

00:00:43 --> 00:01:00

On erby, corrosion had the word ignorant. Have you heard the word Al? Islami? Radi Allahu Anhu unknown semi unabIe sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Cool man ha ha who sent a ton for Hua keselowski Demi

00:01:03 --> 00:01:11

man hedgehog haha who sent a ton for work SF Kidambi whoa a Buddha would be is nerding. So here

00:01:12 --> 00:01:15

the companion abou rush

00:01:16 --> 00:01:31

may Allah be pleased with him said I've heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him saying Whoever forsakes his brother for a year is like one who sheds his blood.

00:01:33 --> 00:01:36

Can you imagine how severe it is?

00:01:37 --> 00:02:04

We know that. And we use Allah Allah Allah selama said, Kunal Muslim me either Muslim haram. Everything about a believer is sacred them who were a man who who were Eldo whether his blood his life, so his life is protected, his body is protected, he should not be injured, he should not be hurt, he should not be harmed

00:02:05 --> 00:02:37

his wealth, it shouldn't be attached without adjusted reason selling buying trade or with a goodwill such as given any charity or they will say yeah, where do who and his honor. You're not permitted to speak ill about him, his wife, his children, his family, even if he has whatever you're talking about. So at them, when man will Earth everything about a believer is sacred.

00:02:40 --> 00:02:56

When somebody who seeks and boycotts his Muslim, brother or sister for a year, and a real sallallahu alayhi salam assayed this is as bad as as thurible as shedding His blood.

00:02:58 --> 00:03:01

Whether killing him or injuring him

00:03:02 --> 00:03:05

and no wants to be in that position.

00:03:07 --> 00:03:11

Americana remote meaning Aya kotula Minh and Ella hopper.

00:03:13 --> 00:03:43

A believer can never hurt another believer or kill him unless if it is by accident. But whoever the so deliberately or my Yakata Minamata amid unfair Jessa Houjicha Namo Holly then fee her will OB Allahu alayhi wa ala Anna, who were Abdullah who other than our women, five terrible consequences for sharing the blood of a believer. Just remember that this is sort of a new set.

00:03:45 --> 00:04:14

So in a view, Salah Salem equates severing the ties forsaking the relationship with your Muslim brother, with a sibling, a blood relative, or a who like aphylla somebody whom you and him used to be brothers or sisters for the sake of Allah, you're very close. And now we're not talking to each other. If you're the one who have taken the decision, it is as bad as killing him.

00:04:16 --> 00:04:16

The soft kingdom

00:04:17 --> 00:04:25

if you have forsaken him for one complete year, it is as bad as forsaken. It is as bad as shedding His blood.

00:04:26 --> 00:04:32

The final Hadith in the chapter, Hadith number 15 197

00:04:33 --> 00:04:41

and rotarod the Allahu Anhu Anara Sula, Allah is Allah Allah Allah Salah makan ly a hillbilly meaning Ania Jorah Amina and

00:04:44 --> 00:04:49

a Marathi Saracen faryal ko who fell you Salim Ali

00:04:50 --> 00:04:58

Feraud Allah is dilemma for Kurdish Tala careful Edgerly or LM yo Donna is aka diva Bill SME

00:05:01 --> 00:05:04

Hello Raja al Muslim Amina al Hijra.

00:05:07 --> 00:05:08

This is

00:05:09 --> 00:05:27

another Hadith that magnifies the sin of deserting, forsaken and boycotting your Muslim brothers and sisters. So maybe your salatu salam said in the Hadith which is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Ahad.

00:05:28 --> 00:05:36

It is not permissible for a believer to forsake his Muslim brother for more than three days,

00:05:37 --> 00:05:41

a 330 days have passed, he should meet him and greet him.

00:05:42 --> 00:05:51

And if other if the other person responds to his greeting, then they will both share the word.

00:05:53 --> 00:06:07

But if he doesn't respond, he will bear his sin. And the one who has taken the initiative to greed, the other will be absolved of the sin of forsaken his brother.

00:06:08 --> 00:06:21

Also a halogen Muslim or mineral Hydra, it means if they talk to each other, so the abandoning, and the deserting has been absorbed already.

00:06:25 --> 00:06:36

This hadith again confirms the fact that boycotting your Muslim brothers and sisters is such a terrible and a grave sin.

00:06:37 --> 00:07:08

It's simply a major sin. And what classifies the sins into minor or measure the nature of the rule, Koba the punishment, whether it's a worldly punishment, or a punishment that is postponed in the hereafter. So after we know that, on Mondays and Thursdays, once deeds will be presented before Allah, but those who are forsaking each other their deeds will be stopped, will not be presented before Allah Allah will say a Hara had a new hat day of study hat.

00:07:09 --> 00:07:17

Refrain these two guys and postpone their deeds. I don't want to look at him until they reconcile. He lost such a great deal.

00:07:18 --> 00:08:08

Because Allah Almighty will forgive every believer except those who are having discord Hala has postponed them, too. If both of them upon meeting each other. They turn their backs to each other, and they do not talk to each other. And a real sallallahu alayhi salam assayed later kata while at Addabbo do not work out each other and do not turn your backs to each other. So you have certainly violated the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. He can break this condition by simply taking the initiative and saying As salam o alaikum, to your other party and in this case and abuse Allah Allah Allah selon in a previous Hadith said, the better one of both of them is the one who takes the

00:08:08 --> 00:08:29

initiative and give Salam to the other. And in this hadith, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, and if the other party responds and says what aleikum wa sallahu wa Rahmatullah. That means we broke the ice on both sides, for whom Ashura K Phil Shoraka or Phil edge. So both of them will share their words.

00:08:31 --> 00:08:37

What if he doesn't, and that happens a lot. Today, yesterday, I was reading the news.

00:08:39 --> 00:09:03

In a Muslim country, they found in the dumpster legs of a human being two legs. Of course, they started the investigation and the customer in their search. And then they found out that the stool legs belong to somebody whom they found the remains of his corpse who has been mutilated.

00:09:04 --> 00:09:06

The body has been cut into pieces.

00:09:08 --> 00:09:12

You know, what kind of quality this very cruel,

00:09:13 --> 00:09:29

very cruel, very harsh hearted, not just killing, but killing and mutilating the body and cut it into small pieces so that he can discard them in different places, assuming that no one will find out about his crime.

00:09:30 --> 00:09:55

Terrible, isn't it? What makes it even worse, that today they caught the perpetrator and he is a beloved brother of the victim. He was trying to steal money from him and he killed them to bury his cry. And then he got his body into pieces in order to take it out of the house and throw it on the trash here and there.

00:09:57 --> 00:09:59

Well, Louis, this is one of the signs of the Day of Judgment.

00:10:01 --> 00:10:10

Word the person who would kill his family members, his loved ones, his friends. And then when he will be asked, Why did you kill him? I don't know.

00:10:12 --> 00:10:15

I don't know. It was in a major thing,

00:10:16 --> 00:10:45

maybe 50 bucks or 100 bucks a small dispute, it is happening now. So when I Nabil Salallahu Alaihe, Salam orders, not to forsake not to boycott, not to abandon and desert, your brothers and sisters and the maximum period of time is three days. Beyond that there will be severe consequences. It is simply to block the means which would lead to divide in the community and breaking the relationship and creating hatred.

00:10:46 --> 00:10:49

But Kuno a bad Allah He is whanau

00:10:50 --> 00:11:06

or servants of Allah be brothers to one another. Be brothers and sisters to each other, and more Minoo a whole movement, a believer a Muslim is and should be a brother of every other believer.

00:11:08 --> 00:11:14

But what is happening now, we hear that people kill very cold blooded.

00:11:15 --> 00:11:28

They can not only the low class people, but the high class people to the official scale. The winners kill assuming that they would last forever.

00:11:29 --> 00:11:51

Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Steve Jobs of Apple. Before his death, he had a wealth of 7 billion US dollar, 7 billion. That's a lot of money. And he achieved the name the fame was the most popular person in the world. Very genius.

00:11:53 --> 00:11:54

Very genius.

00:11:55 --> 00:12:02

Has never talking to his father. And his father has never made an effort to talk to him. It's a long,

00:12:03 --> 00:12:05

sad and terrible story.

00:12:06 --> 00:12:33

When he had cancer, the pancreatic cancer he said, Yeah, I've got everything. I've got the world between my hands, but I cannot spare my life for an extra day. I cannot eat what I like I cannot drink what I like I cannot live happy like poor and ordinary people. This is the component of every equation which the foolish people do not realize. Whom do I mean with the foolish I mean,

00:12:34 --> 00:12:45

the perpetrators who wronged others who oppress others, what are the kings presidents, Sultan's rulers, governors, princes, you name them. Politicians.

00:12:46 --> 00:13:17

Somehow somehow they assume that I'm here to last No, you're not here to last. You're here to eat certain food consumed certain air and then he would vanish go lumen Allah Yeah, fan. Everything. Every teacher that is on earth will certainly vanish were covered Rob because will generally well economically Allah will remain is only a mortal.

00:13:20 --> 00:13:33

So you will live for 50 years of your lifetime or 60 or more or less. And you live in a state of invest in your lifetime to build up

00:13:34 --> 00:13:43

an asset of good deeds that would benefit you on the day when Allah Almighty says one of our own Xena Lucas Talia will Mila

00:13:45 --> 00:13:53

Fela Tula Mona sushi in Ken and his color have met in Main Hall during

00:13:55 --> 00:13:59

work effort. Fermina has Ed.

00:14:00 --> 00:14:24

Yanni on the Day of Judgment, Allah will put the scales of justice to weigh what to measure what everything even if it is an atom weighed, a mustard seed weight of the EU will be weighed, whether in the good among the good deeds or the bad deeds for

00:14:25 --> 00:14:29

SAP wallet members in who for whoever you shatter Robbia

00:14:31 --> 00:14:47

so if your good deeds are heavy and Hamdulillah, you will enter into a phase of life into paradise. Where am man Hoffart Mallozzi MUFA ohm or her we are we all can hear now

00:14:49 --> 00:14:51

that if your good deeds are light,

00:14:53 --> 00:14:59

and were outweighed with their bad deeds, then their award will be hellfire Allah Yeah, do we learn me Allah

00:15:00 --> 00:15:42

tectus again is that so I'm here to race, to hasten to harvest to collect to pile up good deeds. And if I fall into any error or sins to seek forgiveness, but some people, their ego is above all of that. Some people their personal ego takes precedence to all of that. So they totally forget that they are mortal, and they can die in a minute. The reason I gave the example of Steve Jobs in the beginning, because he's such a, he was such a very successful person. No one can doubt that or argue that. But then what

00:15:43 --> 00:15:59

was the ultimate success that he achieved, and the lot of money that he has made, he didn't benefit out of that. Even this money did not extend his life or spare him or give him health. And in his living in the States, he's not living

00:16:00 --> 00:16:04

in some parts of the third world where they don't have advanced medicine.

00:16:06 --> 00:16:08

That is a reality brothers and sisters.

00:16:09 --> 00:16:29

What a shame if you are still not talking to your brother, or your sister, or your siblings or your children, if you're not talking to each other, and it is already weeks or months, and I know Allah He years and some siblings die.

00:16:31 --> 00:16:34

And their own brothers and sisters do not attend their funerals.

00:16:36 --> 00:16:36


00:16:38 --> 00:16:38


00:16:40 --> 00:16:42

they say Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah

00:16:43 --> 00:16:58

will lie. They live in the same building. They pray in the same message, there is a masjid, on the ground floor. So they come down the stairs, they bump into each other, they go to the machine, they pray in and out. No Salah

00:17:00 --> 00:17:08

why his kids and his kids were fighting his wife and his wife having disputes. Hollis, I'm not talking to my brother. Well, no, he foolish.

00:17:09 --> 00:17:11

Life doesn't deserve that.

00:17:12 --> 00:18:06

And abuse Allah Allah, Allah Salah mercy. After three days, if you don't meet him and give him Salam, then your deeds will not be presented before Allah, then you're not eligible for forgiveness. And if they are last for a year, this is similar to carrying him sharing his or her blood. I don't have anything else to say, to encourage those who still have in disputes with their fellow Muslims to take the initiative. Please do not wait until I finish the program. Do not wait until I go for a break Wallahi Billahi I will do like Nigerians to Allah He in Allah wa ala he be late Allah He pick up the phone right now send him a message. Send her a message. very concise. I missed you, brother.

00:18:07 --> 00:18:46

I'm inviting you for lunch. We're gonna meet. I remember you right now. And I was making dua for you. May Allah bless you and your family. All of the I haven't said yes. Say I'm sorry. Because a lot of people, most people, you know, they have big time ego. It will be very problematic for them to say I'm sorry. I'm sorry. On behalf of all of you say it. Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Well how you various Allah La Silla message, Ohio, ma'am, and you have the OB Salam and the better one form is the one who will take the initiative and give Salam to the other. Well, well, that was chapter number 280.

00:18:48 --> 00:18:49

The new chapter.

00:18:50 --> 00:18:56

Chapter 281, is another very interesting chapter. It's about adapt etiquette.

00:18:57 --> 00:19:10

Etiquette, which many people many Muslims do not observe, even in the masjid and it's very hurtful to others. It is whenever it is three people

00:19:11 --> 00:19:45

and no one is around someone whispers in the ear of a second, while the third is left alone. Normally what happens brothers and sisters, the third if if you are the third what is going to happen? Are they must be talking bad about me as normal? Because it's not about you. It's about shaitan who would try to find any opportunity to sow fitna create discord, and this is a wonderful one. That's lack of etiquette. This is very impolite.

00:19:46 --> 00:19:59

By analogy, those who are living in the West, you're coming from an indo Pak background. You're coming from an Arabic background. You're coming from Spanish background

00:20:00 --> 00:20:02

So two people will see

00:20:03 --> 00:20:12

we're talking so to switch to their mother tongue and the third is left alone doesn't understand what they're talking about. This is forbid

00:20:13 --> 00:20:33

because of the possibility of making him feel bad making them feel that they are talking about me or there is something good they don't want me to learn that Bauer it chapter 281 babble nahi Anta energies Nene doing a Ferris wheel it is the ilani hajat in

00:20:36 --> 00:20:39

the Hadith herself one, your household is now Houma.

00:20:40 --> 00:21:00

If he mana Houma either to have death I'll be discerning laugh humble. English English please. English. The chapter 281 tackles the prohibition of holding a secret council. What exclusion of a third in the same meeting if there are only three

00:21:02 --> 00:21:03

beautiful isn't it?

00:21:05 --> 00:21:09

In the beginning we have an idea of Surah Al muda de la

00:21:11 --> 00:21:21

Allah Allahu Taala in chapter number 58 and number 10 Surah Al Medela or and muda della it's okay to say both.

00:21:23 --> 00:21:35

In Amman, Abdullah Amina che Apolonia Zuna. Allah the man who lays your balls or B Hinchey and isn't it?

00:21:37 --> 00:21:42

Well, Allah He family at our Kelly Nino.

00:21:44 --> 00:22:05

Indeed, private conversation. secret counsel is only from Satan, that he may grieve those who have believed, but he will not harm them at all except by the lives of Allah. And upon Allah let the believers put their

00:22:06 --> 00:22:07

put their trust

00:22:10 --> 00:22:14

and rely upon in Jonnie, unaware what is natural.

00:22:16 --> 00:22:18

Natural is when we whisper

00:22:19 --> 00:22:25

when we talk in a very low tone that whoever is sitting with us

00:22:27 --> 00:22:28

cannot hear

00:22:30 --> 00:22:32

Surah J Dilla.

00:22:33 --> 00:23:04

Chapter number 58 Which known which is known as the woman who's arguing with the Prophet Salah Salem or al muda della which refers to the act of argument itself for the semi hola hola hola. De to je de Luca fees of jihad, Turkey Illa Allah, I showed the Allahu anha said Glory Beto, the one above his throat. He heard what I couldn't hear in the same room, because the woman was whispering to the Prophet sallallahu sallam.

00:23:06 --> 00:23:14

The Prophet salaallah Salam was the leader of the entire Ummah, the leader, the teacher, the judge, the commander of chief, everything.

00:23:16 --> 00:23:55

So a woman had an issue with her husband, and she came to the Prophet salaallah salam to complain and she was always praying she doesn't want to expose herself before Aisha natural. Allah subhanaw taala heard not overheard heard the whole conversation. And before the Prophet SAW Selim would say thing, Allah revealed the answer in Surah mudra dilla. The solution to the problem of Vihara and it is not considered for left or divorce answer. In the same surah Allah says whenever two people whisper in the presence of authority, then it will hurt the third

00:23:56 --> 00:24:07

and there is a reason behind the revelation of this is it knows your ear Mujahid and others say that whenever you SallAllahu Sallam concluded treaties with the Jews in Medina

00:24:10 --> 00:24:59

it was a peace trust. When you can occur when you know the year when you cariah Hi Bob. The hudl Benioff we live as CO citizens in this state, El Camino Cambodia Do you practice your deen you have your judicial system, you have your own legislation will not intervene with any of that and we have our dean, we have our religion, we worship as we were commanded. So we do not intervene in the religious practices of each other and in judicial system with each other. So as CO citizens, we live in the same place we defend and protect Medina again is a question of outsiders Alhamdulillah we trade we sell we buy but they are hood whenever they see a Muslim

00:25:00 --> 00:25:50

With a former Marine or Alonza working by himself, they will start whispering to each other. So you would hurt that Muslim and the and he will think that they are plotting against him, see what other run or change the course go from other route. So Allah subhanaw taala for beta Tenergy Then he said to the believers indeed, this kind of secret counsel is from satan in order to make the believers feel bad, but sit assured it will not harm anyone except by the lives of Allah subhanaw taala you just need to put your trust in Allah subhanaw taala does it mean that I put my trust in Allah and I don't feel bad about it? It's okay for the other party to do it. No, it is not okay.

00:25:51 --> 00:26:34

It is forbidden, as it will be explained in the following a hadith. Because remember, this great, great companion, Abdullah, if no matter how Tarboro the Allahu Anhu man may Allah be pleased with him and his father, whom we awfully say that he resemble the Prophet Salah Sara most not in the appearance, not in the chakras. In the hilker he didn't have the same height, the same voice the same beer than same eyebrows. But he mimicked and he imitated the Prophet Salah Salem in every action, the way he talked the way he walked. So he simply loved the Prophet Salah Salem that he imitated his footsteps. Masha Allah

00:26:36 --> 00:27:05

I'm the live normal hottub Radi Allahu Anhu uma I happen to have an incident where he proved that he is indeed a true follower of Prophet Muhammad in in the application of this hadith, but since we run out of time for this segment, what I'm going to do is I'm going to postpone sharing the story with you and the next segment inshallah which means we're going for a short break and we believe it will only be a couple of minutes and we'll be back in sha Allah please stay tuned.

00:27:09 --> 00:27:10


00:27:16 --> 00:27:16


00:27:27 --> 00:27:31

Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back.

00:27:32 --> 00:28:01

Before the break, I was talking about the great companion Abdullah Hypno unbearable. hottub Radi Allahu Anhu man, how much he loved Rasul Allah Salah Salem, and how much he because of this love, he imitated him even in the way of walking and talking. And by the way, I do live normal Hatha was also Prophet Muhammad's brother in law because Hafsa his sister was married to the Prophet she is one of the Mothers of the Believers.

00:28:02 --> 00:28:20

So Hadees number 15 198 says, I need your Amara Radi Allahu Anhu uma and Rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam call it a caribou Salah satin Fela yet and urges learning during the 30s this hadith is highly sound

00:28:21 --> 00:28:25

and very profound. Whatever Kannada

00:28:27 --> 00:28:40

the first segment says the Abdullah Hypno Amara, the Allahu underrated that the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in the presence of three people to should never hold a secret counsel to the exclusion of the third. Okay.

00:28:42 --> 00:28:46

There is another narration in the more talk

00:28:48 --> 00:29:19

of Imam Malik Abdullah hymnody now narrated Carl Icahn to ANA webinar, and the dirty Hadid in the rock water Latifi soup treasure our annual Nigeria who while ASA mahogany Ramallah ahead on it further Abner O'Meara Raju hora, Haute Kuna Abba the color you are the Rajani 33 la dee da is that here are che and for in this Amiata Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam ala Cohn Leth and azures Nerney Duna were ahead

00:29:20 --> 00:29:22

the motto of Imam Malik

00:29:24 --> 00:29:25

Allah Allah the dinar narrated

00:29:27 --> 00:29:28

Abdullah Hypno Mark

00:29:29 --> 00:29:35

and I work together in the home of Khalid Nakba

00:29:37 --> 00:29:46

which is situated in the marketplace. So a man came to consult Abdullah Mohammed, he wanted to speak to him in private.

00:29:47 --> 00:30:00

But there was no one around but me and him so you're only three of us. So Abdullayev normal called another man in and then when we became four he said to me and to the other

00:30:00 --> 00:30:00


00:30:01 --> 00:30:15

move away but because I have heard the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying the two people should not hold, seek counsel together, excluding the third.

00:30:16 --> 00:30:25

So here are the live norm hottub everybody trusts him. Everybody knows that. He is such a great companion and he would never do or say anything that is evil.

00:30:27 --> 00:30:46

Yeah, Annie, the narrator of the Hadith. Abdullah if the dinar knows whom he is dealing with, he will not have a shred of a doubt that Abdullah Abdullah Omar may be talking bad about him or anything like that. But he is concerned. Why is he concerned?

00:30:48 --> 00:30:56

He said I heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him saying if you were three, then two should never

00:30:57 --> 00:31:09

have a secret counsel excluding the third because he will hurt him. This is difficult. That's why Abdullah him Norma found a fourth guy and he said come in.

00:31:10 --> 00:31:16

Hang on with this guy. Because I need to talk to this guy for a little bit. And wait for me.

00:31:18 --> 00:31:41

What is the big deal? What it's a big deal? Because Anivia Salalah Salim says so you know by analogy a lot of people say especially on those who go to study in the West, and they shared a room with a goal. They share a house with another woman or they go out with a girl and the study together. Come to my place I go to your place.

00:31:43 --> 00:32:04

And then they remember what the Prophet salaallah selama said Mahala Raju Don't be brought in Cana shaytaan Osiris Oma. Whenever a man and a woman are alone alone behind closed doors, they are not alone. They are never alone. Satan is the third. So it says look, nothing has happened. As a matter of fact, it happened You've committed a major sin.

00:32:06 --> 00:32:22

You don't have to wait until adultery happens or you kiss her or you hug her or do you have a foreplay it is forbidden then it is forbidden. When Allah subhanaw taala forbids anything then go in near it is forbidden.

00:32:23 --> 00:32:30

So Abdullayev Norma could have said half the money No, no, he's my buddy. He would never think bad about me. No.

00:32:31 --> 00:32:41

Because this is what the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam assayed and Allah said, and in a narrow Amina che Thani, Leah ZUN, Alladhina amanu.

00:32:42 --> 00:32:45

So listen, behave and comply.

00:32:46 --> 00:32:49

Abdullah had nama In a separate incident.

00:32:51 --> 00:32:59

slaughter of the sheep. Then when they were cooking, he sent some wood his servant he said, our Jewish neighbor give him some

00:33:00 --> 00:33:07

our neighbour give him some seven said but he's Jewish sir. He said so.

00:33:09 --> 00:33:19

I have heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him saying Mozilla Gibreel you will see enable Jerry had turned into a Now also you are so

00:33:21 --> 00:33:35

yeah, even if I don't like him, but the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said the Gibreel continuously enjoined him to take care of his neighbor to the point that I thought he will become one of the heirs you will get to inherit from my worth if I die.

00:33:36 --> 00:34:02

So this is how important it is. Jewish Christian faithless, he's my neighbor. He has some rights. Let's take care of him. This is Abdullah Omar from the Allahumma and we need to learn from those great companions brothers and sisters. Our phone numbers should appear on the bottom of the screen. If any of you happen to have any questions please do not hesitate to give us a call inshallah.

00:34:05 --> 00:34:07

Other side from India Salam Alikum.

00:34:09 --> 00:34:12

Shalimar negotiate walaikum salam rahmatullahi wa barakato

00:34:15 --> 00:34:59

shared my question is that I will be traveling in sha Allah next month and there is a chance that I will miss go her prayer. So my question is that then I will reach that my that destination but then I think the time when we have icera So what about them? I know her better how can I compensate it? Simply combine it with Asri because your almosafer Say it. So whenever you sell Allah Allah Salem give us a concession in case of traveling in case of sickness that you may combine a loss and a Zohar together at the time of either one of them. So if you will be on land on ground before

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

boarding the flight for innocence.

00:35:03 --> 00:35:07

And it is all the time. Allahu Akbar prays over

00:35:08 --> 00:35:26

and pray us, then fly. And you have all the way until midnight. Why midnight because you knew arrivee can pray Maghrib and Isha together, either the time of Mallory or at the time of issue. Oh, no as a matter of fact check I boarded the flight an hour before though.

00:35:27 --> 00:35:50

Let me ask you a question. When do you expect yourself to learn I'm flying from Qatar or from Emirates, to from Dubai, to Pakistan to India, I'm talking about three hours or so. Okay, so definitely it will be there before Marguerite maybe at the house. They enjoy in the Zohar with the Astra. And you have all the way until before sunset.

00:35:51 --> 00:35:54

Say it from India. Thank you so much as salaam alaikum.

00:35:56 --> 00:35:58

Sister hasna, from Sweden.

00:36:00 --> 00:36:01

Semi calm.

00:36:07 --> 00:36:12

I have a brother who got married in another country. And

00:36:13 --> 00:37:07

you he's wondering about the legitimacy of his Nica because her father wasn't there. And what kill of the bride wasn't there even. And they got a paper written that they were married and stuff. And then they went to another chef. And the chef didn't ask them directly. But he asked the shoot and set the witness and said, Do you witness that this girl and this guy married with this with this money with this amount this time? And they signed on it? And now he's an and after that they got divorced a couple of times. So he wants to return to her but his does it count their cash system has now since that has now please. You're telling me now only because he divorced her a couple of times.

00:37:07 --> 00:37:17

And the guy is the the horses final. So he thinking about maybe the cat from the beginning was not legitimate. So let's start over.

00:37:18 --> 00:37:29

I hope not. I hope not. Because there are essentials is like you know, tea normally looks black.

00:37:30 --> 00:37:34

And green tea looks green. And water is colorless.

00:37:36 --> 00:37:45

solaric was taharah. You cannot pray with odo. And for all Muslims, it is no learning how to love we were living in Russia he died.

00:37:46 --> 00:37:57

There is no valid marriage without the consent of the guardian of the god and the presence of two Muslim righteous witnesses.

00:37:58 --> 00:38:23

Without that Nikka did not even take place. Somebody decided well, I'm going to follow some of the Hanafi madhhab and we're neglecting the guardian. So he divorces his wife once and twice and now he cannot take her back. It's the third time it says maybe according to the opinion of the vast majority of the scholars, this nigga was invalid from the beginning. No.

00:38:24 --> 00:39:20

We don't actually deal with the fuck this way. My request is have your brother contact me directly in order to get acquainted with the entire situation. And every sister who's watching me now, it is not the opinion of a scholar or a chef or a mother or a school of thought which will change what the Prophet sallallahu SLMC confirmed in the seven Hadith woman she should never give herself in marriage without the consent of her guardian whether she's the first time to get married or she's been married before Fela tabula Hoon, and Cana as Werder who neither Thoreau by now whom bill now. So this is talking about women who have been previously married. Still, the consent of the Guardian

00:39:20 --> 00:39:25

is required, not just recommended. So what if

00:39:26 --> 00:39:35

we didn't know? What if we didn't know? Then you need to make a new marriage contract with the consent of the overlay? A seller Moloko

00:39:37 --> 00:39:39

Hafsa from Singapore

00:39:44 --> 00:39:46

now says that Hafsa Salam aleikum.

00:39:48 --> 00:39:52

I hope you're doing well share. Yes. Alhamdulillah I am a new

00:39:58 --> 00:39:59

sister Hafsa

00:40:00 --> 00:40:00

Can you hear me?

00:40:02 --> 00:40:06

Can you hear me share? Yes, I can present your question please.

00:40:08 --> 00:40:49

Okay, um, I was a Catholic before I reverted to Islam a couple of years ago, my parents went through a civil marriage. And I have a brother who is from my father's second marriage. My father is not a Muslim. So I was wondering if Ma Ma ma, ma, ma, ma homeschool my brother? And if he would come and visit, is it okay for me to still treat him as my brother? Or should I treat him as a non Muharram? Thank you, Sister Hafsa from Singapore? That's a very interesting question.

00:40:51 --> 00:41:02

The answer is Islam honors all the civil marriages which have taken place before Islam. So if your parents both accepted Islam today,

00:41:03 --> 00:41:16

do we require them to process a new marriage contract? No. They're already married and husband and wife accordingly. You're half brother is Amma haram.

00:41:17 --> 00:41:28

He is a Muharram a permanent Muharram and you should treat him and deal with him. As you brother because he's Amara. Thank you. Hafsa Sarah Maalik

00:41:30 --> 00:41:32

sister Latif are from the USA.

00:41:33 --> 00:41:38

So when it comes to reference a salaam rahmatullah wa barakato Latif Ah,

00:41:39 --> 00:41:50

so, this is not really a question, but it's like kind of advice. can you advise someone who's like struggling to get closer to Allah? Will this person keep procrastinating?

00:41:52 --> 00:41:53

This person keeps

00:41:55 --> 00:42:10

procrastinating, like doing something unnecessary. Okay. No problem. I love your question, Sister Latif, may Allah bless you. Let me begin with item number 69. of Surah Blanca Bucha.

00:42:12 --> 00:43:02

In which Allah Almighty says well let in your head who phenol Anna, do you know whom Solana we're in Allah Subhana. Allah Mosinee. What does it mean? Allah promises that those who strive for his sake, they strive to practice the deed. They strive to worship Allah properly. They strive to obey the Almighty Allah, He promised them, that he shall guide them to his straight path and keep them rightly guided. And he topped it off by saying and indeed Allah is always with the good doers. Allah is always with the good doers. What do we get out of this, I will get that no matter how much we slip of the road of the street pass,

00:43:03 --> 00:43:52

attempting and striving to get back on track and making your best obey Allah even if you error even if you commit sins minor or measure because of your sincere intention, because of being a believer, and because of trying, you're still okay. And Allah promises to put you on the straight path because of your striving for that. Or Latina Johanna Rufina Lana had the announced Solana. Now with another beautiful Hadith. And of your Salah Allah Allah selama said that the Almighty Allah said when somebody committed a sin as never Abdi them been, my servant have committed the sin. So the servant repented. And Allah Almighty forgive Him His sin.

00:43:54 --> 00:44:36

Then again, he did the sin again. And he repented. And Allah forgive him the sin again and again and again several times, and every time he sins, he repents. So Allah Almighty says to His angels refer to the Abdi I have forgiven myself and in any case, let him do what he wants to do. It doesn't mean let him sin, but I've granted him forgiveness because he fulfilled two components. He's a believer, he believes in the Oneness of Allah, and he repents whenever he commits a sin and this is of course a good news because all of us are inclined into sending right

00:44:38 --> 00:44:40

we can also ask about practical

00:44:41 --> 00:44:59

advices or steps that will boost our email number one, offering the prayer on time. Number two, recited the of God after the prayer and in the morning and in the evening. Number three, and this is very crucial. Hang around good company.

00:45:00 --> 00:45:34

Um before seeking knowledge, particularly learning about Akita and the names and the attributes of Allah subhanaw taala, studying the books of three o'clock then during the hearts such as in Swahili man Buhari, or in the CS or freeable Salah him by Imam nawawi you know seeking knowledge. Allah says about it, will * yes that we live in a Ala Moana Well, Levine and I and of course when you seek knowledge, Allah raises you into higher ranks he brings you closer to him, your fiery level, and ominto

00:45:35 --> 00:45:56

when Latina Otto Leymah Daraa. Dodger. So, offering the prayer on time, insight in Europcar inserted Quran, repenting upon sinning, seeking knowledge, good company, may Allah subhanaw taala bless you, sister Latif, and keep me you and all the viewers on his straight path steadfast Santa Monica

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

Hamid from Singapore.

00:46:03 --> 00:46:04

Hey, Salam Alaikum

00:46:06 --> 00:46:07

salam Wa Rahmatullah habra.

00:46:09 --> 00:46:16

Okay, first, I want to thank you for answering my dogs last week when asked about the widow value between husband and wife, okay.

00:46:18 --> 00:46:18


00:46:19 --> 00:46:27

Yeah, so, my question is, there is a common practice here on reading soteria seen and giving output to the attendees.

00:46:28 --> 00:46:44

Your intention is to actually dedicate the rewards to the day my wife told me it's rotting because they don't practice that in Morocco. So can I do the ruling on this? Question? So now we know we know that you're married from Morocco. Okay.

00:46:45 --> 00:46:46

Good for you Masha Allah.

00:46:48 --> 00:46:58

Mohammed from Singapore asked about reciting Quran or saw that you seen or any part of the Quran and granting the word

00:46:59 --> 00:47:02

to anyone else, particularly the late people.

00:47:04 --> 00:47:54

There is a difference of opinion. There is a difference of opinion. One opinion which says the Rebbe that are totally fee. reciting Quran is an act of worship, it's like the prayer like fasting. So if you do anything about it, it must be with the reference. Did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam ever recite Quran and say this word of my dissertation goes to Khadija, His most beloved or goes to his grandchildren also died or his children who died in his life or to Masabi nor mayor or to Hamza bin Abdul Muttalib. Or, or or or to any of the loved companions by him who died and more martyred in his life. The answer is in the negative,

00:47:55 --> 00:48:45

but we know for sure, and the viewer Salah Salem permitted making optimists fasting on behalf of the late people making up the Hajj on behalf of those who didn't perform Hajj and died, provided you should have done your Hajj first. Permitted given any charity on behalf of a person and grant in the world, to this person, permitted supplicating to Allah to benefit the person, all of that is permitted. So this is one school of thought. The second school, which have used the analogy and the logic, and he said, since the fasting, and the sadaqa and the hajj are acts of worship, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam permitted, that you can do them with the intention of granting their word

00:48:45 --> 00:49:21

to a great person. Why not also read in the Quran? I've read it and it's my word, I want to give it to somebody else. So these two opinions will remain until the day of judgment. You may ask me so Sheikh Mohammed, what do you do yourself? What I do is I recite the Quran, and I pray from afar i love it so that you said and I then I pray for my father. Okay. But I give any charity on behalf of him. I gather people for Iftar and I say this Iftar its word is for my late father.

00:49:23 --> 00:49:59

Distribute meat, it's on my behalf of my father insha Allah and I performed Umbra couple of cameras on behalf of my father and so on. Because this is what has been confirmed in the Sunnah. So if somebody says I will still recite Quran and give their word, may Allah bless you. It's your choice as an opinion, but I believe the more correct opinion is the first one. Others in sisters we're definitely run out of time for today's episode of Guardians of the pious Eddie was 100 Allah Shukla very beneficial

00:50:00 --> 00:50:17

For me, I hope it was beneficial for you as well. And the next time I leave your own indicator of Allah a whole colony had our stuff Oh lady welcome. Masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salaam wa salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

00:50:19 --> 00:50:20

is the greatest

00:50:22 --> 00:50:24

glory to Him, He

00:50:26 --> 00:50:33

has to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God has the greatest

00:50:35 --> 00:50:36

glory to him

00:50:38 --> 00:50:55

used to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about an empire that we're shipping comes fire and stones sending their best to the cheapest

00:50:57 --> 00:51:08

day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys were shipping cause fire and stores selling their best and cheapest

Share Page

Related Episodes