Gardens Of The Pious #637 Prohibition Of Oppression And Boasting

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The segment discusses the importance of Islam in the eyes of the world and the need for people to pray for it. It touches on the importance of protecting one's body and not boasting about oneself and others. The segment also touches on the importance of men in the spiritual world and the need for men to remember events like the Rania and Al Rania. The segment ends with a discussion of the definition of intimacy in sexual interactions and the importance of protecting one's body and not touching one's wife during social activities.

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You know as to be the best and give his best to religion to

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a Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious Bismillah R Rahman Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha wa salam ala Eva, the healer the stuffer. Let's see Mr. Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa ala early he was he was a limiter, Sleeman kathira. My dear viewers, today's episode is number 637. In the implicit series of Guardians of the pious riobel Salah Hain by Imam nawawi may Allah have mercy on him. Chapter number 279. This is the first episode in the chapter. It talks about the prohibition of oppression and boasting over others Bourbonnais Annie lift the Hari while Valley, the prohibition of boasting over others and oppressing

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And in fact, there are a couple of beautiful verses. In the beginning of the chapter. We'll begin with Surah two najem chapter number 53. area number 32, in which Allah Almighty commanded saying, fella to go, full circle, who will be many.

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And this is a straightforward command from Allah Almighty. Not to admire oneself, not to claim oneself as pious, righteous or pure, worthy person may be like that, but the judgment, of purity of piety of righteousness is only a loss. Because as we have known a lot of deeds could add peer, righteous, but without a sincere intention behind them. So they will be missing reward. Lack and sincerity means no reward, no piety, no righteousness. So let's the person will be among the three categories of people who will be sent to hellfire. Let the Almighty Allah decide, let the Almighty Allah the Exalted. Decide who is righteous, who is pious, who is more pious than others and so on.

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So it is not permissible for a person to say

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Alhamdulillah on the video righteous person fella to the KU enforcer comb, do not admire your own selves a respect of piety, righteousness and purity. Hola, hola. Moby Mani taka. Indeed, Allah alone is more aware and knows best of whoever is righteous, whichever is more pious. So that judgment of piety is only Allah's Pharaoh to the Enforcer. So neither by naming oneself and in that reflects his piety or her righteousness. No by admiring a person himself saying that I'm righteous Am I God fearing?

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You know, I'm a devout worshiper. Allah will decide who is like that and who is not. It is not by the apparent action. It's a combination of lots of things. And we also Lola Alia Salim said in the Hadith, Ko Lacombe Adam, what are the momento Rob? All of you belong to Adam. And Adam himself is created from dust. So no one should be boastful over others or hold himself superior to others. And when it comes to piety when it comes to righteousness, the Almighty Allah alone knows ya allah mu Sahra welfare. Yeah, Allah momento de salud, Ali, moonbeam b that is sudo. All of these references from the Quran reflect that only Allah knows what is in the hearts. What is in the breasts, what is

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in the chest, and no one else knows. And that's why there is a beautiful, beautiful Hadith. I love this hadith so much in which the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him says in Allah your hippo, Allah, the at the Korea and nakiya al Hafi. Whom does Allah love? Allah loves indeed the servant who is the key pious, righteous Nucky fewer have a sound heart huffy, huffy, he concedes His righteousness and His condition

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Even with Allah Almighty doesn't boast about it, he doesn't talk to people about it. It's between him and Allah. He alleged to be among the ordinary people, when also Cormier was found by your Omar Mahatama. And he said, Pray for me. It said me, and also caught me. He wasn't even a companion. He was one of our tourbillion and he was coming among the flocks of people coming from Yemen to perform Hajj. Omar Nakata every year was looking for him. Why? And how does he know about this guy from Yemen? Somebody? No one knows about him. No one heard of him before this incident. So when our real hot tub found him, he said your voice you're from? You're from such and such? Yes, yes. Yes. Yes. He

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said, Would you please pray for me? He said, Yeah, I mean, I mean, who should rather ask you to pray for us? He said, But I heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, If you ever meet Weisel called me from Yemen, whom I have never met, but he is super righteous. And he was very dutiful to his mother, and his dua is answered. So if you meet him, ask him to pray for you, because Allah will answer his dua. So there I'm asking you to pray for me. So he prayed for him. Then he said, after Hajj, what are you planning to go and what are you planning to do? He said, I'll be going to Iraq. He said, let me write your recommendation letter to the governor of Iraq. He said, Yeah, I'm here or

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not meaning. Bill ACOEM of Iraq rottenness. Rather, I would like to be among the ordinary people. Allah is this to dissolve hold in the public. I don't want anyone to know about me. Why? Because in Allah your head will have that 30 year and nakiya al huffy, puffy and hidden, concealed. No one knows how much strong is relationship of this person to Allah. No one knows how much he prays up night, how many days he fast, voluntary fasting, how many charity how many times he gives into charity and how much he did no one knows. Because of this half. Allah loves him, your Hibou allow the doctor here and nothing yellow coffee. What I love most about the story of oil company is when

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Omar offer them, I will give you a recommendation letter I had a chat with a friend was talking about. It's very good to have good connections, good relations here and there, and minister here, and advisor of the national security there. And somebody in the White House and somebody in the Defense Ministry, you know, having good connections is very helpful, and it helps you at the time of need. But those people rather the thing being connected to Allah is a great disconnection. They truly put their trust in Allah and they rely not on anyone. And that's why there is another narration who says, you hit bull out that the a nuclear el Rania and Al Rani here doesn't mean the

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rich rather, it means the self sufficient.

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Anything in the hands of others does not really tempt him. He doesn't have this eagerness and the temptation to possess whatever people possess, he's very content is very happy with what he has the three Natori Rani self-sufficient of a hidden May Allah make us among them. So Allah will decide who is righteous and who's not. And also,

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this is a recommendation.

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And you can say a prohibition against admiring people as if you're certain. So you say this person is the most righteous person, this person is very pious person.

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You never know.

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You never know.

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I want you to remember an incident where one of the great companions of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. That is us man ignem of Rouen brothers and sisters of man in Nima Varun when he died

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an interview Salallahu Alaihe Salam want to check on him before the Burien he heard a woman of the beautiful lady companions and very righteous. She said I bear witness that you will be from Ariel Jana, Taurus man ignem of rune. So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him. Turn to her. He was he actually kissed off mandible Magoun and he was crying for missing him.

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Then when the woman said that I bear witness shahada, tilaka and neck I mean a halogen and Allah God Allah for Allah, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon himself to her. And how do you know?

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When I was Ricky, how do you know that Allah forgiven him? And how do you know that Allah will admit him to paradise? She said, Yeah rasool Allah famend I mean, if Allah is not gonna forgive him, who would be forgiven?

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Like she was so certain this man is super righteous, but the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and more I limb, the teacher is teaching her and he's teaching us do not admire others in a way that you're certain that the righteousness will take them straight to genesi as several Hall Allah who has evil, I think and Allah knows best. This guy was righteous. I think and Allah knows best. This guy is good. Is a devout worshiper, masha Allah, may Allah bless him, but being certain it's something that only Allah mighty knows about it. The second reference is, is all of the Shura. It's a number 42 And sort of to show itself is 42 as well. So I have 42 Chapter 42. But in order to comprehend 42, we'll

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have to go back a couple is before the three the area. And we'll go back to sort of the Shura. In order to learn the couple is before Allah Almighty says according to the surveillance, in Nana servi lo Allah Allah, the only moon and NASA the owner feel outwardly be a warrior in half

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ecollar who mother Moon early

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and this ayah means in msmu, only the cause of the blame.

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Either lady in a lovely moon and NASA, the cause is only against the ones who are wrong the people and

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power allies upon the earth without write. Those will have a painful punishment.

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As I said, it will be difficult to comprehend the idea without going back a couple is before Allah is admiring the believers whom are Latina, either Asaba whom will rebel to you whom yentas Iran in and number 39 and those whom whenever the have been affected with tyranny or struck with oppression, they defend themselves, they are not weak, they are not vulnerable, they are swung rather powerful.

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Then he said what is also yet in say, to miss Doha, and the retribution of an evil is an evil act like it. Thurman naffaa US law Isla halfa adoro who Allah Allah, but a person who pardons and does good then His Word is due upon Allah even though he has the right for retribution, but He pardons he let's go He forgives Allah Almighty all of them because he does not like the wrongdoers in Allah hypovolaemia. Then again he says while a man in Tulsa Radha will be he if

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he can

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Surbhi a person who attributes or takes his right after he has been oppressed and has been wronged.

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Allah Almighty said there is no blame upon them, they will only defending themselves, you will only treating the perpetrators are the same. And never say the you know, the cause of the blame is only upon those who room people or press people and do wrong to them. Well, I've worn I fill out the behavioral hack and the cause oppression on Earth, mischief on Earth with Thadani will without right such people Allah has prepared for them a very painful torment.

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So meanwhile, Allah subhanaw taala is saying when you have the power to retribute and to defend themselves do that. You're not blameworthy.

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The blame will be only upon those who would exceed the limit.

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Somebody didn't take your car. You get upset. You hold the peaceful pad

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And you destroy the other person's car. You bring the windshield and the windows and the back sheet, oh my goodness. And, you know, you cut the tires of this person. Why? Because he didn't hit my car. That is called Zoom, and battery. And then that's the causal blame and Allah Almighty will punish such people. I'm just giving an example. Okay. But the cases are beyond count, whether a physical harm or financial harm, or a moral harm, we all know and we've studied before everyone's body, so positions worth an honor, as sacred, as sacred as NotCot itself as the GABA itself, or even more, but in case of wrongdoing happen to you. Allah says it is okay to retribute and to take your right

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but without exceeding the limit for those who exceed the limit Lahoma one early, there will be a painful torment.

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Well, and now with the first Hadith sort of studied couple eyes in the chapter, and the first hadith is a sound Hadith narrated by Al dibny Hammar may Allah be pleased with him and it is collected by Imam Muslim that is Hadith number 15 189.

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And he didn't me him out of the Allahu Anhu called

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Allah rasool Allah salAllahu Alaihe Salam in Allah to Allah owe her a year and a half, every year a hadoo Nana, what a horror Harun Allah,

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beautiful Allah He,

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the Messenger of Allah has been given the most comprehensive speech, he will deliver the message in the least number of words and phrases. He says Peace be upon him. Indeed, Allah has revealed to me that you must be humble.

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You must be humble, so that no one oppresses another and no one boasts over others.

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and what if somebody does?

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Number one, lay apologia Netta man can have your call be misfired will have better men keep

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her button harder. I mean, keep the rotten men keep.

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One who has an atom weight of arrogance in his heart shall not enter paradise.

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In another Hadith, the weight of a mustard seed of arrogance in his heart, something very insignificant, but he likes to be seen. He likes to be known. He likes people to look up to him. He likes people to treat him as superior.

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Okay. Such person Allah says will not enter Jannah.

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And Mohan Lim was wearing a very expensive outfit and was walking in in his beautiful gown.

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And somebody said he was looking like a rooster. Somebody said to him, take it easy, man. Humble yourself. He got upset. And he said didn't you know who I am? They said of course I do.

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A well you cannot fault one.

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Kathira Well, Hiroko G Fatone Madera? Samantha Vina Lika with Erica.

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He said, I know you. I know all of us. You beginning is a disgusting sperm.

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Some semen. This is you, me and every human being. And then when you die, your body would rotten stinks. And no one can afford to stay next to the stinky body of yours. G fatten Madeira. And in between the miserable sperm and the rotten body. You have been carrying water in your abdomen. What are you carrying in your abdomen right now? Once somebody invited me for caviar,

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a can? And assayed it worth 1000s Really? Unbelievable. Yeah, it was only one small can like tuna can he said you know how much is this? Worth 1000s of dollars? Not unbelievable. He said yes indeed. A friend was coming from Russia. The Mufti of Russia and he said unbelievable.

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And after you eat it, what remains in your bowel

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ready to be excreted. Right faeces,

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awful, and stinks and smells like everything else your body will take and absorb whatever it needs, and the body is and there is is a waste. So why are you waiting for the process of execution? What do we carry in our large intestine?

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What do we carry in our large intestine? Whether a king, a Sultan, a priest, or rabbi, a Muslim scholar, a man or a woman, extremely beautiful, a beauty queen or an ugly person, everyone will be carrying the same one if this is the case, and our origin is the same.

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And our end is the same, only a shahada, the bodies will not rotten

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and their corpses would smell beautiful when you visit their graveyard. Other than that, a shahada and an MBA Other than that, everybody else their bodies, their corpse will think a couple of weeks after and it will stink, it will be very offensive smell. May Allah protect us again is that so beginning and end is alike, is the same. And in between, all of us are carrying the same the waist in our abdomen. So this guy who was very boastful because of his outfit.

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He said, I guess you have known me. You're right. You really know me? Yes, we are supposed to recognize ourselves. And if we do, we will humble ourselves. And if we do, then we'll become truly righteous people will become truly righteous people. And then we'll ponder over the idea serotonergic failure to circle and full circle who Allah will be many taka Do not praise or admire your own selves. Allah knows best, who is truly righteous Allah.

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and Hadith says Allah has revealed unto me because a sunnah is also why. So is this hadith mentioned in the Quran? No, it's not mentioned the Quran. So how come the prophets Allah Salam said in Allah to Allah Oh he late Yeah, because the Sunnah is what he as well. Also in Surah panegyric Allah Almighty says, What am I Oh take Wuhan in how're in war in what

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you have i learner who share the rule.

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Whenever the prophets Allah, Allah Salah moves his lips, young buck, any utterance that the Prophet saw some otter is not out of his womb, it's simply a matter of what

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revelation from Allah then Allah decides to keep it in the Quran or to keep it as guidance in the Sunnah.

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So Allah Allah Hi Eli, that whenever you humble yourselves or lower ease you into higher ranks, but whenever a person is boastful and perceives himself above others, than Allah will lower his rank in the dunya. In addition to the hereafter, in the Hadith, You're terrible. Rajan is Samina.

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Fianna Zeno and de loi Eugen haba, older, a man will be very fat, very heavy, very muscular, very rich, very powerful on the dunya in the Hereafter, will not even have the weight of a wing of a fly very insignificant. Why? Because he wasn't worth it. It was only body

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whenever you see them to Ijebu cages,

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but reality that empty from inside, Allah does want you to be like that. Allah wants you inside to be better than your outside your intention better than your action.

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The following hadith

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is Hadith number 50 and 190. And it is the last in the chapter and it will be also the lesson the segment before we take a break.

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And Ebihara your authority Allahu Anhu and now rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a call either a call or wardro hala can sue for who? Lecco whom?

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That's Hadees number 15 190. And it is collected by email Muslim Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him. The rated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said whenever a person says people have been ruined. He's actually the one who will be going more

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Oh most.

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And normally the statement is saved because a person thinks that people are terrible and he's the best of them. People will go to hell people are rointe Calm down, man, take it easy. For who? Let go home, make sure to adjust the pronunciation and the vowels, like go home, then he will be avoiding most.

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So what am I supposed to do? You're supposed to work on enjoying what is good, forbidding what is evil, trying to reconcile, trying to make people better, to give them Dawa to improve their actions not to be judgmental of people. Because neither myself nor any of you know for sure what is gonna happen to us a few minutes later.

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Let alone what will be the conclusion of our lives in normal man who will have a team you know, brothers and sisters, will Allah he

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will use to see people and watch them they will be time preachers and seekers of knowledge and they have dissolved in the dunya completely. Now they listen to music. They shave their beards they attend parties and dancing. What happened to them? Abdullah eveness route may Allah be pleased with him saying mankind I'm Octavian fairly active human Mata for in Al Hajela. To manual Allah He fitna, if you want to take a leader or a role model or a chef or somebody to follow, then he should be somebody who passed away. So when you read books, moral fatawa cheerful Islam hypnotize me there do not ignore him or ignore Josie or or ignore Kathy and you read for them and you're impressed in Abu

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Hanifa very impressive Masha Allah Mohammed Marisa chef as of Jana 30. So they say a love this Imam and I want to be like him. It is okay to follow somebody who has their way. But it is not okay to believe a person who is living as the representative of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. It seems that he's infallible. You think that he is cool? You think that he would never make an error? Why not? Because no one is immune again is fitna, not before we meet Allah subhanaw taala. So long as there is a breath coming in, and another one coming out, then there is a possibility of deviation or slipping off the road. So our role models should be the Prophet salaallah alayhi salam, his

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companions, the predecessors because they have fulfilled and they met a love Almighty while being steadfast on the straight path. A short break and in sha Allah will be back in a couple of minutes. Please stay tuned. And in the next segment, we'll open all our phone lines to take your valuable calls and to answer your questions. Stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back in the segment, let me remind you with our phone numbers beginning with the area code 002, then 01095185170. Alternatively, record 002 Then 01 double 05469323. And it was some numbers. It was user 1-347-806-0025. Finally, record 00123614891503.

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Salaam Alaikum. Sister I'm Isha from the UK.

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My question is a bit private. So my question is, if a woman had intimacy with her husband, not sexual intercourse, and during the thing her hair was covered. So is she supposed to take a shower with the hair uncovered or she can take a shower with the hair covered? Yeah, I got your question yesterday and I answered it, but there is something different today. And that's why you went to Nigeria. So they answer that I use some explicit terms because the word intimacy is kind of broad. It's a polite word to describe being together.

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It could mean cuddling, hugging, kissing, and it could mean sexual intercourse. So let me explain to you what requires Oastler

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if there is a major impurity which results as a

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having sexual intercourse or sexual discharge, whether due to sexual relations or

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foreplay or intimacy or regular intimacy, not necessarily sexual intercourse. In this case our host is a must in order to lift the measure impurity and with anything covering the hair, you cannot perform most you have to remove it, because in the case of the hostler you must wash the entire body from head to toe with the intention of removing the major impurity. Okay BarakAllahu Li, there's also a difference between sexual discharge there are different types. So, there is

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mozzie and there is many and meze which is as a result of thinking about sexual relations, which is a pre sexual discharge, maybe a drop or a visit execution, but the sexual discharge we'll check wires was which is more obvious in men happens due to ejaculation Baraka love.

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A Santa Monica,

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Zadie it from Bangladesh.

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I said

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yesterday it will come to the TV Go ahead.

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When does roof and Kira means and how many are heard of and Kira are there?

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Alright thank you.

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The word I heard of is plural of heart.

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And the heart of means the different ways of reading the Quran. According to what Jibreel Allah is Allah has revealed to Muhammad Salah Allahu Allah Salah whether the dialect of Quraysh or the dialect of others, but all will provide the same meaning, such as the word Jarrah, or atta.

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So it has been revealed to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam according me, and then at the time of man, if not

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all the Messiah have were transcribed according to one dialect, so that people will not get confused because with the spread of Islam all over the world, in the Persian countries, which was under the rule of the Persian Empire, and the Roman Empire as well, people have started reading the Quran differently without knowing what is Achraf so automatic now, the hola Juan kept only the hearth or the dialect of Quraishi the different Kira is a different ways with which also the Prophet sallallahu Sallam read the seed word. So, we have 10 Different caveat. And we have some other color add those that are approved and confirmed they have been recited with and read by the Prophet

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sallallahu Sallam and his companions. So when we say worship, I never have son Assam it means this Clara is recited according to this Eileen from this limb from this album all the way to the Prophet sallallahu sallam. I'll give you an example. All of us who say said be his Mara beacon.

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Right, because of elephant Matsuura by the end. So if you read according to wash, an ephah, it will be set by his Murghab be Cal Poly and so on. It is not with a much of change rather of the pronounciation versus El a half of the Quran when the Quran was revealed, Baraka Lo Fi Z did from Bangladesh before I take another call Allah to bring to the attention of the viewers that we need your DUA and prayers for our respected sister, a sister higher who is the admin of the powerful Islamic reminder page, she and her family contracted COVID And they're not feeling well. So we ask Allah subhanaw taala to expedite their Shiva. We ask Allah subhanaw taala to give them a speedy

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recovery nurse of Allah Lavina Rumball Asha la vie en yesh via how Allah Hershey fair and learn your ideal sarcoma please include her and her family in your DUA. Thank you as salaam alaikum

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Mohammed from Singapore

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Wow Alaikum salaam wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Question. How should we deal with differences of opinion in school of thoughts, especially between spouses, because I'm brought up in Singapore under the champions school of thought, while my wife is from Morocco differences, Maliki school of thought. One example in the Sharpie school of thought will do is nullify touched my wife. However, in the Maliki school of thought her husband touched his wife, the widow is still belly. So what should we do in such cases? Thank you. That's a very good question. And years ago, we answer this question in a series called The evolution of * to know where the differences of the opinions have come from. For example, you brought up an issue, you have

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Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, and also Sri Lanka. They certainly follow the Shafee a mishap

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and you know, I recognize any other mishap unless if there is an indo Pak community in Malaysia for innocence, they follow the Hanafi madhhab. If you go to Afghanistan, Pakistan, Bangladesh, these countries, they certainly follow Hanafi madhhab then inevitable ROV, they strictly follow the Maliki madhhab whether Morocco or Libya and the light countries the matter of fact is that all those Mirza who are correct and the followers of Arrow sunnah will Gemma, and there are differences mainly in the four who are not in the old soul or the principles of faith. But as Imam Malik himself said, every human beings opinion could be right could be wrong, except one human being that is Mohamed

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Salah lorrison. So, even though in Asia for instance, they follow the Shafi a madhhab generally speaking, except in the family law, the follow the Hanafi madhhab. Imam Mohammed Medusa. Chef A is a very revealed Imam, very revered, very respected, very honorable, and he has such great number of followers worldwide. But when you say that touching one's wife would invalidate with all that is true, because he considers el mas, literal mess when Allah subhanaw taala says Ella must do Moon

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lamps mere touch. While obviously, according to the vast majority of the scholars, it doesn't refer to the meal touch. Rather it refers to like our respected sister earlier from the UK, she said about intimacy. It's a polite word or describing having sexual relations, right with one spouse. So el Mola masa likewise, and the vast majority of the amorphous serene interpret Lannister Manisa Yanni happened to have sexual relations sexual intercourse, which requires us

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and there is not one or two proves multiple proves that it is not necessary to make wudu after touching one's wife as long as it is without desire. As a matter of fact, I ensure of the Allahu Anhu generated that Rasul Allah is Allah Allah, Allah Selim before going into the prayer,

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he would kiss his wife, not only touch her, he would kiss his wife, as long as it was done without Chuhwa then the who is valid. So in this case, I would say Mohammed from Singapore, you yield because Imam Malik's opinion in this suspect, is more correct. And it's not really required every time you say hi or goodbye to your wife or you shake hands with her urine to make will do no, this is not the more correct view. The more correct view is it is not required to make wudu upon touching you wife or any woman, rather, as long as it is not with Shah wa Baraka Luffy As Salam aleikum, wa Rahmatullah Ibaka.

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Sister Xena from Canada.

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So I wanted to share

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more amatola hyperkeratosis designup. Welcome to her TV.

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I have two questions.

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Thank you for that logon. So my first question is that I'm visiting my mom in Canada. I live in us. So I'm living here for three weeks do I need to shorten

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I pray I do I need to pray regularly. Well if it is more than four days and you know that you will be staying more than four days, then you should pray regular sister XenApp.

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Okay, and the second question here, is it permissible for a female to recite the Quran in a gathering where there will be demand for lateral Moharan? And what is the purpose?

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Usually here in the gatherings we start any function with the Quran recitation. So usually the girls who are happy with or the kids who are half is they recite and do

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the translation looks as

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if a girl or a woman or grown up woman is reciting before her shave to correct her that is permissible. But in a public gathering for a woman to beautify her voice and to sing the Quran, that is not permissible. We have a conflict of interest Allah say to the Mothers of the Believers Falletta hubba Anna will wholly fail to malady if he called the man up. And that's why a woman is not prescribed neither to call other nor to call a comma, or to read the prayer with me. So a gathering of women and a woman reciting Quran enjoy a beautiful a gathering of mixed gathering men and women and a young girl is reciting Quran it is okay. But a grown up woman reciting the Quran in

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a gathering to open the gathering with the blessing of the Quran. Let a man or a boy or a young girl do that not a grown up woman Baraka lofi sisters enter a Salam Alikum

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sister Amina from India

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cats walaikum salam Emina How old are you better?

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Are you gonna tell me first How old are you?

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You're fine. Masha Allah, masha Allah em, you know and you have a question. What is your good question? Amina?

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Did she

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so I'm not

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we're not

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By YouTube, I guess I got the question. And of course it is so beautiful to encourage our youngsters to learn, calling and ask questions. It makes us very happy to see young generation either learning or concerned about the deen it's so beautiful Alhamdulillah new brothers and sisters you should encourage your own children and the youngsters to follow what Amina is doing. We have Amina we have Fatima and we have I believe, Omar from Emirates we have Maria and from the UK, masha Allah, a lot of young kids who have become friends of ours and hamdulillah here and Hoda TV. So chiffon refused to bow down to Adam, because of Kib. Because of arrogance, and what Allah Almighty said, Ma'am, and

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I can just do that is our motto, which means a lot Almighty emphasize the older two.

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Yeah, the bellicon Bismillah.

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So Allah the Almighty,

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exclusively commanded Shaitan to bow down to Adam not to worship Adam, but to greet Adam, but he refused. And his refusal as shaitan himself explain, was out of feeling superior to add color and a higher Amen. halacha attorney imaginary mohale After Holman teen, I'm better than this creation that you created for mud. You created me from fire. So I'm not going to bow down to Adam. So they try to know that Allah is the only Allah God was worthy of worship. Yes, he was certain and he says certain. So with all of that, how could he disobey Allah? What led into this obey Allah is envy and

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Oregon's May Allah protect us again is that a Salam Alaikum

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Brother Mohammed from the UK.

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A Salam aleikum. Wa Alaikum salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakato. Muhammad, go ahead.

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So my question was basically, if, if a restaurant that sells halal food also serves alcohol, is it permissible to eat at this restaurant, especially when we have other options available? Or if we have other options, then automatically we're supposed to help the other options. But if I'm living in a society in a community where I don't have the other option, but I know this Harold says halal, this restaurant or store sells halal food, I will die in there if I trust them. They're really serving halal food. But does the same rule apply if I'm living in Egypt, and the results from the search sells or serves alcohol? No, because here I'm supposed not to support those who are selling

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alcohol. So what is the difference? The difference is I have the option. I have the alternative and I'm supposed to help and support those who are selling heroin. But they're in a non Muslim society I don't have this luxury. Basically all the stores sell alcohol. So if I find a holiday store I should support the Halloween store. It's not like you know I have to eat something against my wish or against my appetite but if it is a good store, I would rather go to this one and support it in a state Thank you Mohammed from the UK and I'm not sure if we can take another cool sticker final code.

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Soda from Tanzania Salam o alaikum sister soda

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okay, you're the last caller for the day Go ahead sir soda.

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Okay, so I saw somebody get paid by a dorm and then she touched the plate and

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then and

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what should they do with the lattice? They watch all of them with storing.

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The plate which was soiled with the impurities of Nigeria Assa is the one which should be washed eonni interview Salallahu Alaihe Salam said in the Hadith, either while while caribou fie in a haidakhan failure or SIL who serve Amma what they had to drop, if a if the dog happened to look or to eat or drink in any theory tenses, it should be washed seven times and one of whom should be with the soil with the sand with the dirt

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also the detergents or whatever, so, that you use in order to wash your plate and if this plate which had the food it was what and it was mixed with other utensils or pulled from here to there, then it has been contaminated as well. So because of the effective cause is there the other plate should be washed likewise as well. Baraka love you can brothers and sisters it was a very pleasant time that we spent together today as well as everyday Alhamdulillah were shook relearn and the next time I leave you all in the care of Allah a whole how we had stuff hula hurry welcome masala Allahu Allah say you didn't Um hum I didn't want early he was so happy you were Salam wa salaam Wa alaykum

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Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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God is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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You must to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the Greatest. The one and only going to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about an empire that was shipping comes fire and stones sending their best to the cheapest

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day know that forgiving Goldbug helper to die guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling their best with a Jeep is