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The radio show discusses various scenarios involving Islam, including Kana Rasool Allah's use of the term salallahu Sallam in Arabic language, the importance of having a beautiful cornea for a child, the use of the word "naught" in religion, and the use of the symbol "has been" for those who have not accepted Islam. The speakers also mention legal topics like marriage, booking, and the importance of showing empathy towards others. The segment concludes with a discussion of the use of the label "has been" for those who have not accepted Islam and the importance of showing empathy towards others.

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love our God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He only has to be the best, gave his best religion to them. Allah God is the Greatest. The One annoying glory to Him. He only used to be the best and give his best.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome to a new live edition of our program Guardians of the pious Bismillahirrahmanirrahim Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Nabi you must have a CD and I'm humbled and voila early he was so happy Yeoman Allah who are back my dear brothers and sisters in sha Allah today will resume explaining the beautiful series of real Salah Hain by Imam nawawi may Allah have mercy on him. And this is a new episode, episode number 375 In this Blissett series today insha Allah will continue with a very interesting chapter which is SLM or Allah Serbian. The rolling of greeting the children in Islam.

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Yes, you heard that right. Even beginning the kids with the greeting and the impact of that informing the personality. Today's hadith is agreed upon its authenticity. It is collected by Anis Ibni Malik Radi Allahu Anh.

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It is collected by Imam Bukhari and Muslim and narrated by the great companion and a Sydney Malika lovely Allahu Allah and he was only 10 years old when the prophets Allah Salam walked into Medina as a merger. So he says, an anus of all the Allahu Anhu and humara Allah sub yearning for Salam Allah him were called Kana rasool Allah is Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam, your follow. So what we have here is that Anna's mnemonic, may Allah be pleased with him, passed by some kids, by children, and he greeted them. And then he said, because the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, used to do it used to do the same, used to greet the children used to greet the kids used to socialize with them,

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not only with the adults. So in another narration, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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passed by Anna Sydney Malik when he was a child and he was playing with the kids. He said, at Allah Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when Earl Abu mal remaini for Salah Marlena. So now, ns has grown up and he is experiencing the same whenever he passes by kids, by children, he would read them and he will socialize with them. Inquire about how do you feel? How are you doing? What are you doing? Are you playing with what and so on? To give them the sense of caring, we do care about you, not neglecting you, and who do that the greatest man ever the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So since the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, the leader of this OMA used to do that with the kids and he used

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to do it awfully. Now, occasionally, not once in a while, as you know, nowadays, the Presidents the politicians may do that because of the shot in order to be, you know, photographed in order to be caught on camera, so that they will make a big deal out of it.

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A celebrity is paying attention to a child, to a girl to a boy, you know to APET for you know, shown off to be seen, but the Prophet sallallahu Sallam look at the text the Arabic texts, he says Kana rasool Allah is all Sannomiya fagu and in the Arabic language whenever the verb Kana is followed by a present tense Kenna yeah follow who you follow who is a present since he used to do the same. He used to do it, which means the regular basis, not occasionally, he used to do it on a regular basis, the contiguity that is similar to the idea of Surah Maryam

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Allah subhanaw taala is admiring Prophet Ismail Ali salaam by saying what can I Morrow law who Bill solid he was.

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He used to enjoy in his family to offer the prayer and to give in a charity Cana model. Ghana is a verb which is past followed by another present tense which is Yeah, Mauro used to do that. Yeah, Annie on regular basis. Now.

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But occasionally, so this is very important.

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So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam used to pay attention to the children to the youngsters, and that's why they grew up feeling that they are something important in the society, they are not being neglected.

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Because of that, enter Sydney Malik also narrated that I used to have a brother, what kind of agreement Jonnie around the age of weaning,

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maybe two to three years old, a child, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, whenever he would visit us, or whenever he would see him, he would call him by a nickname. Yeah, about omega, it's a child. But he would give him a nickname in order to make him since his childhood, feel that he's important. He means a lot to everybody in the Muslim society. Yeah, about omega, the father of omega, even though he's a child, he's a baby Mirtha, Illinois, and he would inquire about a bird that Anna's younger brother used to play with all the time. So whenever he would see him, huh? How's your bird? How's your pet? To whom? To a child around two to three years old? Subhanallah there was another

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baby girl by the name Omaha that Omaha did once a year the word Omaha the cornea think she's a grown up woman and she have kids no she was a baby. And once the prophets Allah Allah Allah has sent and received some gifts fabric cloth and among them the Rosa ha Musa Blackhall Musa Yanni fabric of silk, black silk fabric, very expensive. So said what do you guys think who shall give it to? Then he said, what is on the harlot right away if any person is reading this hadith now, or somebody from outside Medina hears him saying who is Omaha that he might think he is talking about a grown up woman? No, she was a child. Bring me Omaha Charlotte. So she was brought to the Prophet sallallahu

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Sallam being carried he carried her She's a child. He said, Look, and he put the thumb on her and said, beautiful on you had a husband that looks beautiful on you. Oh, Muhammad. Imagine number one the cornea is recommended in Islam, even if you don't have a trade. Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu was given a cornea even though she did not bear any children. She was never a mother. She was given a cornea after her nephew, Abdullah the son of Usman Zubayr. So I shut up the Allahu anha. Whenever when you read the Hadith, we may hear that an Omar Abdullah he Isha bent away backwards. So the only Momineen Radi Allahu Anhu why Isha never have a child. So even a couple who are not blessed of having a

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child, you should what it is recommended to have a cornea that can now choose any beautiful cornea. So the Prophet Salah Salem used to do that with the children as well, in order to give them the sense of importance, significance, and also responsibility. So we decided to do that with our children. Also, let's try to accommodate the children in the machine. I know how it feels, whenever somebody brings his child and he's acting a little naughty in the machine. But the reaction of some is a terrible, or the beginning with beating, punching, punching, or kicking them out or making a big deal out of it, screaming in the machine that you should stop bringing your children to the

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machine, they are missing up the machine etc. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to do the opposite, totally the opposite. So that while He was praying, and while he was in sujood, it took him so long. Some of the companions lived in his to see what happened to him assuming that he could have died. They don't know. And then it was his grandchild, either al Hassan or Al Hussein. He jumped off his back on top of his back while he was in Sousou. prostrating himself. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe salam after the prayer, you know, explain to the Companions what took him so long in Cebu, they said, because my son, meaning my grandson was riding on my back and I didn't want to interrupt him.

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Really? Yes, that happened in front of only Muslim Oma. And in a separate incident when his granddaughter was walking in the masjid while he was given the hotbar and she was wearing a dress which was kind of told, you know, bigger than her and she was being toppled in it. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam descended from the member, he said, The Omana, the daughter of Xena, so his granddaughter Omega Madras and he claimed a member

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And he says yes indeed your worth your children are but a trial

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he's doing that not acting not pretending he's been an example to the Empire honor to be followed. Imagine whenever you are doing any activity whether in the masjid or at the school or in the sporting club and you see youngsters you see youth and you make a special effort to greet them. It makes a big difference for them. In the Haram when you see kids are sitting and memorizing Quran or coming to pray with their parents and they are being trained so with a cheerful smile, how are you What is your name Masha Allah beautiful name, where you from, and what you're doing, you're coming to pray, pray, what ask how much you know of the Quran, taking it easy with the kids, really make

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them feel comfy around you and around the place which they are in. So they like it. And that's why when Anna Sydney Malik grew up in this environment when he grew up, it was for him like a habit to do that with the children. And when he passed by a real man group of kids, he greeted them. And he remarked saying yes, I'm doing that. Because Kana rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah selling me a pharaoh, the Prophet sallahu wa sallam used to do it. Furthermore, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam allowed some children to lead the prayer with adults, if they knew more for Iran, they are more qualified than others, no problem. And in a separate incident, the Prophet salallahu Salam, who

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always recommended to begin with the right hand and with the right side, like if you walk into a gathering where people are sitting, so whom do you greet first, from right to left? And if you are distributed and something, you begin from right to left, the Prophet sallallahu sallam was sitting with his companions, and he received a bowl of milk, a bowl of milk, then he wanted to pass it on to his guests. But guess what? On his right hand side, the first person was a child, a teenager, it was none but Abdullah in our best, Radi Allahu anha none other than Him.

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So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam have the situation where he have a child right next to his right hand side, and there is three elders. So in order to practice the Sunnah you gotta give to the person who is on your right hand side. Meanwhile, he wants to honor the elders. So he said to the young child, or to the teenager, he was around 10 to 13 years old. He said, Yeah, hola.

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Or young boy? Do you permit me to escape you and give that milk to the elders? What happened is the Prophet sallahu wa salam received the bowl of milk. So he drank first.

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Then he wanted to pass it on from right to left. Okay. But the answer was very fascinating. The answer was, he said, Oh prophet of Allah, there is no way that I would give preference to any one over myself to drink after you to be the second after you to drink after you drink from your left over. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam happily handed over the bowl of milk to this young boy, who was Abdullah? If not best, Radi Allahu Anhu we need to learn how to deal with our children, with our youth to befriend them, to socialize with them, to make them feel that there's something important in our society. And indeed, they are. The previous Hadith I mentioned about Abdullah and our best

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and the movement was collected by Imam Bukhari. May Allah have mercy on him?

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Okay, I'm receiving messages that the sound is not working on my page. So allow me to

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disconnect and connect again, hopefully in sha Allah, the sound will be fixed. I do apologize for that Joe Sacco. Hello, Hi, Ron.

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And I hope the brothers will take care of that right now in sha Allah.

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All right.

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The following hadith

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is in a new chapter, chapter number 137. Babel. So learn the word holy. Allah azza wa jal De Waal, Mara min Maha Remi. While origina vignetting was nobody yet in layer Hafele fifth Netta Vienna or salami hen Have you had a shot? Okay.

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This chapter is about the permissibility and

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Their recommendation of greeting one's wife obviously, what about other women with a condition of feeling secure against the fitna?

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As you know, we're talking about women who are not Muslim. And what is Muslim and what is not Muslim before we begin.

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maharam is a woman whom

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you're not allowed to marry forever

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and under any circumstances. For example,

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one is not allowed to marry to his sister

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is not allowed to marry to his mother, his daughter, and his granddaughter and his grandmother to sort of Muharram okay. That is mentioned in a number 23 of Surah An Nisa explains el Muharram for re metallicum Omaha Tacoma, Tacoma, Tacoma Tacoma Hola, Tacoma, Vanuatu.

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So your niece is forbidden for you. She's a Macron and what does it signify, besides that the marriage relationship is not permissible. In this case, the restrictions of hijab are much looser. And also he can accompany her to travel alone with you because she's like your daughter. She's like your mother, she's like your sister. You see, if we look into the categories Omaha to comb your mother's banner to come your daughter's a howto calm your sisters are meant to come wahala to come your paternal and maternal ends. webinar tool Fe webinar two of the again the paternal and maternal nieces were on my hair took a molarity out of Donna comb and the women who happen to circle you they

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have become on your hair your mother's due to cycling. Okay, whatever. Toko men are Rhoda. If the woman who have circled you, at least five fulfilling times happen to have children. Then her children become your brothers and sisters due to Allah or suckling. What will Maha Tunis equal and your mother in law robber amo molarity. If you could recommend Nisa equal Mulethi the Khartoum behind and your stepdaughters provided you have consumated marriage with their mothers.

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Okay. But if you happen to get married on papers and you didn't consume it, the nourish and for some reason you broke up, then in the future, if you are interested in marrying this girl, and she's interested in marrying you it is permissible because you have never married her mother. But if marriage have happened, and you can submit it the marriage then the stepdaughter becomes like your real daughter, you're not allowed to marry her period. So this is what is listed in this area. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam of course in the I also entered your mouth or banal of tiny MCE yourself and it's not permissible to marry two sisters simultaneously. That is not permissible.

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And you know, you're still

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you know, your your daughters in law, they're absolutely forbidden for you. Even if they divorce from your sons, they are absolutely forbidden period. Okay? The prophets Allah Allah on insulin added to that. It is not permissible to marry the girl and her aunt with a paternal or maternal, somebody may say, Oh, we all know that. And anyway, it's not permissible for a man to marry more than one woman and it is not any does not and polygyny is not any should be banned. Hey, wait a minute,

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before you stretch your muscles, and you say this is awful, and this is Gross, and this is and this is that. You got to understand one thing that who are you?

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You're a Christian, or do you use?

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Are you a Christian or Jewish? Oh, well, you're either one. Okay, a burr, look into your own book.

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You better understand that you're on profits. We're married to sometimes 10s and hundreds of women simultaneously. And you got to also study that Prophet Jacob peace be upon him Israel, who is married to two sisters, simultaneously? Yes, it is Islam and in the new constitution and legislation which abrogated that so it is not permissible to marry to two sisters simultaneously No way. But Prophet Jakob did it not anymore. It is not permissible. It is not permissible to

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Ready more than for under any circumstances but Prophet Salah man had more than one wise it is not permissible. This is what the, you know books, the Torah and the Gospel had been saying and this is what the Quran and the Sunnah have been telling us, but it is not permissible anymore. So it's now in this area of Islam was the only divine Sharia, which limited and restricted the number of CO wives or a number of women who may be married at the same time or in what is known as polygyny. I hope that is clear.

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Again, the sound is not clear.

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Okay, so now my dear brothers and sisters, we understand before we indulge into the chapter and studying it's a hadith that number one Mahara means a woman whom a man is not allowed to marry period. And a Muharram for a man is the woman whom he is not permitted to marry at all. In this case, this is a question before we take a short break. What about Sister in law? She's not on Mahara.

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What about my cousin? She's now Roma haram. What does it mean? Somebody is married to a woman and this woman died or her husband died. And then after a while, the person who used to be her brother in law wants to marry her and she wants to marry him in order to look after their kids, you know, in order to support her or they like each other. Is it halal 100% halal. Rasool Allah is Allah Allah on insulin when US Mandeep. Now Phan lost his wife require the prophets daughter. He gave him his second daughter OMO consume in marriage, but as long as Rakaia was alive, it's not permissible. Okay. And there are many cases like that because once

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Prophet Mohammed Salah salah, married to whom, to his cousin, Zeinab into Josh, not only that, and he even proposed to Mohammed Ali sister so the I can marry this woman then she is not a Muharram. What does this entail after we take a short break and show lofty status as salam ala Kumar's.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. And we'll come back to our live edition of our program gardens of the pious and our phone numbers as should appear on the screen area code 0021023 treble 5123 and the Facebook page is the Mohamed Salah official with chapter number 137. The chapter which deals with the legislation of and recommendation of greeting one's wife and other women who are not Muharram to him provided that the person feels safe against

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you know, the fitna or the temptation and will furthermore explain before the break, we spoke about who is a Muharram and what is the definition of our Muharram Dino said and what does it entail? And that will be discussed right now in sha Allah.

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For Allah haram. Like the sister like the daughter, like the mother, she is not required to wear hijab before her kids. Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Brother Anwar Isha from Sudan as salam aleikum.

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Wa Rahmatullah. How are you, brother?

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Thank you very much for enlightening the people. Thank you.

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I have two sections here.

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I know they are not very much related to your topic, but one of them I wanted to ask for the reception was not very good here this past week. And today, I can see it's doing fine Sunday. Now one of the clips on this I just wanted to confirm the aim is

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if it's from 12 to 14, or from 13 to 15.

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Then the second question is, if, for example, during the same night on the same sleep, I have two kinds of dreams, one a bad one, and then I have a nice dream. What do I do in terms of the speaking Do I speak to the right or speak to the left or Vice Speaker?

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both sides,

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according to the Hadees, so that again, say that again about bad dream. Yeah, if you have a bad dream, as well as, also get a good dream during the same night. And then you wake up and remember you had this was nice, but this other participant good. What do you do in terms of disputing? I remember they had in the last couple of weeks, we talked about speaking on the right for anything

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on the left for so in this case, what do you do? Okay, got your question. Thank you, brother, who from Sudan with regards to your first question, the days are 13th 14th and 15th of every lunar month, and if the person is unable for a reason or another to do it, then any other three days because they would achieve the purpose of fasting at least three days every month. Secondly, if the person had the same night experiences, you know, more than one dream, when which is good, and the other is bad. I really don't know whether this is something that happens to people but in case so what shall I do? Well, the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah in Santa Ana said about the two dreams, the

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Rhodia, which is a good dream, and the whole much is a bad dream. He said the following if it is a good dream, then share it only with those whom you love. If it is a bad dream, then you gotta do the following. Turn to left side, split twice, say our order. bIllahi min ash shaytani R rajim. And don't tell anyone about it. Okay, now you have seen two dreams. One is good and one is bad as you say. And when you woke up, you woke up remember in the bedroom, do what the Prophet SAW Selim said about experiencing their dream.

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Now you remember both for the good dream you don't tell anyone but your loved ones. And before the bad ones, you do this fitting or a Tesla three times. You say I was William Shatner regime and you do not integrate it to anyone. Barak Allah equals Zakka la Heron Abba Isha from Sudan.

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So we will talk in about

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when a person has a Muharram

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam said in on Hadith, a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day shouldn't travel alone without a male Muharram of hers. Okay, that means the father, the brother, the Son, the uncle, the grandson, the grandfather, all of the time, wherein she can travel with them for Amara for Hajj. Yes. Okay. So any form would be fit to travel with him. And you don't have to wear hijab in front of any of them. Why? Because they are your family, you will maharam permanent maharam. Okay.

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The Muharram must fulfill the requirement of attaining the age of puberty, not any boy. Not any kid who doesn't understand. Also the Prophet sallallahu Sallam assayed whenever a man and a woman are alone, behind closed doors, without a Muharram then they're 30 Satan. That will be avoided if you're visiting the doctor or if you visit a new lawyer or if you're attending a class and you have your brother with you or you have your son or you have your Okay, so the Mahara, you know, has a very important role in the life of a woman. It doesn't mean whatsoever that the woman is inferior cannot do anything on her own. She needs a Mahara? No, not at all. This is for her own protection for her

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own, you know, protection and guarding the woman.

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If this is the case, then what about my cousin? You know, because in the West, you know, if, if it happens, and somebody suggests to a young man or a younger to consider his cousin, or her cousin in marriage, right away, you're gonna hear the word. Oh, man, Grace, man. She's my cousin. Are you crazy? She's my cousin. I know she's your cousin. And what does it supposed to mean?

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You know, it's permissible. You don't want to matter. You don't have to marry her. It's just a suggestion. But why do you say it's sick? It is gross. It is awful.

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It is culturally. They think it is. You know, when they do it in Xena in adultery, it's okay. But in a legitimate relationship is not okay. We don't go by culture. We go by the doctrine which Allah subhanaw taala prescribed for us. Rasulullah sallallahu sallam was married to his cousin.

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I live now Vitaly was married to his cousin Fatima and Fatima was the daughter of the Prophet Meritor cousin and so, so it is a

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permissible and we spoke about the brother in law and the father in law the father law is a permanent maharam Done deal.

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Okay. But the brother in law is not a Muharram whatsoever. It is not a Muhammad so ever. The only thing that during you know the marriage to your sister, somebody is married to your sister or his brother in law or you're married to a woman and you have a sister in law during this time, you know, you cannot marry to two sisters simultaneously is not permissible. In a snap, it was permissible impervious areas. But in Islam, this is not permissible. So she is not a Mahara. There is nothing contemporary Maha, it's a permanent Muharram you are not allowed to marry her or him forever. So in this case, when you meet your, any of them hairy, we should greet them, because she can even sit on

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front of you without wearing hijab and so on. And you can be alone, family members. But for a woman whom is calling Arabic as nebbia or a man who's Asian A B, which means is not Muharram. Let's face it this way.

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He is not your Muharram

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in this case, am I permitted to greet a woman?

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Who is not my mom? Yes, you're permitted. A woman who is not your mom. Is she okay to say Salam Alikum Che Guevara, Salaam Alaikum brother, yes that is permitted provided there is you know, a feeling of security against the fitna. We hear Allah subhanaw taala says Falletta hello and I will call if I have my lead if you call be murdered you know letter Hello Annabelle cold do not soften your tone when you're talking less some people who are sick, sick minded. They may misunderstand you. You know, I was watching a documentary talking about the phone sex in america. You know, there are certain numbers where people call May Allah protect us in order to hear some sexual phrases and

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to chat the pay per minute, they pay a lot of money per minute. Okay, it is charged to the credit cards in order to use some women, you know, and the documentary was saying that the effect of speaking softly on tempting the audience some people have this sort of addiction May Allah guide them and may Allah protect us again is that in Haram obviously, you know, they may not be into physical sexual relations, but they are obsessed with hearing a strange woman talking to them in a soft tone they pay for that.

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They pay for that this is another form of prostitution. So Allah subhanaw taala orders the chest women when they speak they speak modestly and do not soften your tone do not soften your voice that's why Muslim woman who do not think

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doesn't call the other end because in calling that then you sing it. You recite it with me Lord, yes voice and that's why we love like we love the ethos, the dawn of the the Haram or the modern here and there, because they have a melodious voice. And when a woman is doing so it would be more lovely. Because she sounds in addition to being a woman with a soft tone, and melodious voice. Now

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Falletta Ivana will hopefully help Mallard if you call me tomorrow, not necessarily because you're bad, but the audience maybe one of them is sick. And he may misunderstand,

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you know, your, the way you're talking and takes it as this is a sign of you know, she's an easygoing woman.

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So I'm on the phone. You pick up the phone, you're talking you call in any person, and a woman picks up the phone as salaam alaikum sister, while a como Salam Rahmatullah. How are you? Everything is great and hamdulillah is your husband there is your father there is your brother there all of that is permissible. Okay. And when you come and visit somebody and the mother or the sister would have, so speaking normally, greeting and in quite an all of that is permissible, provided there is a condition of modesty and you don't feel you don't feel that you know there is temptation or there is a wrong signal or there is fitna so when you avoid the fitna, it is permissible the first Hadith

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is Hadith number 863 and sahalie. Masada Radi Allahu Anhu call cannot phenom Ratan Rafi rewire cannot learn outdoors on the hood Amin also the silky forgot Rahu Phil Kediri were to character who had bad dementia yet, for either so Lena LaMotta one softener no

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Suddenly more fertile cardamom Elena are our whole Buhari sightedness on a Saturday May Allah be pleased with him, narrated that there used to be a woman among us, who would put the beetroot in a pot and she would add to it some ground barley. So she used to cook them together. And whenever we return from the Juma prayer, we used to give her Salaam and she would offer us discount of food to eat. In another narration. He said work on an atom and Yeoman Giamatti before lead Alec which means that we used to look forward for me because by the way, this is not really like you know, a very precious food or something very special. She used to collect the very, you know, sub ordinary thing,

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she would boil it and she would put on top of it some ground barley or anything, something very cheap, something very affordable, but Subhanallah it is so good, that the Sahaba after they finish Salah to Juma they used to pass by this woman, and they would greet her. The difference in the hadith is that they greeted this woman. And they said, our Jews, she was an older woman, so they will give her Salam and they will go she will offer them this kind of food which you prepared. Besides the center issue, Allah to share with you that in some Islamic centers with share I visited in the United States, masha Allah, some people used to bring on Friday, some samosa and some people

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will bring the Falafel sandwich. And you may think that they are selling them, or they offer them for free.

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And some would bring their favorite dish, you know, or pessary, something where you can take it on the way while you're walking, going to your car going back to work, because as you know that Friday is a working day, And subhanAllah brothers and sisters, it always tastes so delicious, even though it is something you know, cheap, very affordable.

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But people used to look forward for it, because of the baraka of the place. And the person who's offering that is very smart. He's hosting Allah as guests, and he's doing this as a charity, and he will be awarded a magnificent award. So perhaps you can also

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pick it up and learn from this woman. And this act of this woman would echo through history until the Day of Judgment. Look, we're discussing this hadith after 14 130 plus years from this incident.

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So they didn't have any problem giving salam to this woman. Why? Because there was no fitna whatsoever. This is the reference in this hadith. The second Hadith in this chapter,

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is narrated by Omar Hani

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are the Allahu anha and Omar Hani. Her name is fajita Fertitta, the daughter of Abu Talib in Oman. She's Ali's brother, or even call it that means she's a prophet cousin. And only honey fair fit at an interview toilet. Radi Allahu anha call it a title navio sallallahu alayhi wa salam al Malfatti will have testing with alternate with a student who will be celibate for salam to whether karate Hadith the hadith is collected by Muslim O'Mahony or the Allahu Anhu said that I visited the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him on the day of the conquest of Makkah. And he was taking a bath while Fatima was clean and him with a cloth. So I greeted him and she mentioned this of the Hadith

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what is the mention of what is the use of the Hadith? Omar Han it My dear brothers and sisters was not Muslim until the day of the conquest of Makkah. Subhan Allah and Mohammed the prophets cousin accepted Islam on the day of Fatima cada conquest of Makkah, among, you know a couple other 1000s who accepted Islam on the day or the conquest of Mecca, omo Han it was a good Muslim if the word and she came to visit her cousin, the prophets Allah Salah now is a victorious leader and

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she found in taking a bath and sincerely didn't have a home there. You know, so far tomorrow, the Alana, her daughter, his daughter was carrying like a screen or a curtain to screen and cover the Prophet sallallahu Sallam while he was taking a bath.

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And then Omaha walked in and she said she greeted the Prophet Salah Salem and she said As salam o Allah rasool Allah and the Prophet Salah Salem Salem area he greeted her back. The hadith is mentioned here because Omar

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And it was not the prophets Maha.

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Even after she accepted Islam and after she accepted Islam and she lost her husband. She had youngest as young kids and the Prophet SAW Selim proposed to her. She said, Well Allah here Rasul Allah, by Allah you are dearer to me than my own hearing and my own sight.

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I would love to be your wife, but I have young kids and I'm afraid that you know how much I love you and respect you. If I marry you, I will devote my entire life to serve you and to follow you I may ignore my kids. And if I take care of my my kids, I'm afraid that you know, I would ignore some of your rights and it will be very problematic. So Mohan it was not a Muharram to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam confirm and she greeted him and he greeted her back, but Rasul Allah is Allah Salah was masu was infallible.

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Not even a thought of a suspicious thing would cross his mind Salah lawless center. Well, for any of us brothers and sisters, if you feel that your heart doesn't have any fitna in it and you come across a woman or women and you greet them, or a sister gets you there is no problem with that the hadith is collected by Imam Muslim May Allah nurse and one more Hadith in the chapter, and in this episode as well, Hadith number 865. The rated by as Binti as Eid or the Allahu anha. Carlat Marva Elena Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mfine swattin Fussa llama Alena. In another narration, Mara fineness, Judy yelman And now rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah Salam Marfil Miss GDL man, we're

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also back to Mina Nyssa include, for L YB. Eddie he beat asleep. What we have here is a Hadith narrated by a snap into z to narrations by Buddhahood and Imam Tirmidhi. She said once the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him passed by us, when we were with a group of women and he greeted us for Salah Mara and verbally he said As salam o Allah icon nap because you were all women, while in the other narration that the woman was sitting in the masjid. So the prophets Allah Subhan Allah vad hibbett Tasneem I gotta show you what is the meaning of Allah EBRD with Teslin the Prophet sallallahu Sallam pointed with his hand and he greeted them pointed with his hand like as salaam

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But isn't there a hadith where the Prophet SAW Selim forbade the greeting by the hand? Yes, if you only point or motion with the hand without saying a Salam, but what happened is he did both.

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Because rasool Allah is Allah Salah never touch the hand of a woman who's not Mahara. In the beginning, we explain what is a Muharram So, all the cousins of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and anyone other than his daughters or his wives and Namaha and that's why I show Radi Allahu Anhu generated in Assam Hadith mammoth set yet rasool Allah rasool Allah SallAllahu, Sallam a&m, rotten caught

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the hand of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him never touched a hand of a woman who was not lawful for him at all. What about during the Pledge of Allegiance, because, you know, when people come to accept Islam, you will shake hands with them. And you give them an excerpt from them the Pledge of Allegiance one by one. And even there's something called by at UniSA. You know, but he did that for women verbally without shaking hands with them, without touching the hand of any woman. So the prophets Allah Salam used to greet women as well. And they used to greet the Prophet sallallahu Sallam whether he knew them or the he did not know them, group of women. And he would point by his

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hand and say As salam but just to motion with the hand like that, without getting without saying Salam aleikum, or good morning or good evening or how are you or anything that shows that you care because only by the hand is a sign of vanity like the person is

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just saying by the hand now you gotta show humility your Allah people you gotta greet them from your heart. So greed, the verbal you can hear them and also the hand that is permissible by that we're done with the chapter chapter number 137. And in sha Allah in the next episode, we'll begin with a new chapter on the next episode, I leave you all in the care of Hola. Hola Cali had our stuff for Allah Allah, Allah como SallAllahu ala Sayyidina Muhammad, wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam was

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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God is the greatest

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glory to

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bring humans to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God is the Greatest. The long annoying Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to them so why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise with shipping comes fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day know that forgiving go back how bad you guys were shipping cars fire and stones selling their best were the cheapest