Gardens Of The Pious #242 Nov 16th 2016

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The speakers discuss the history of Islam, including the use of books and tests to express pride and self pride, as well as the importance of dressing up during prayer and holiday celebrations. They stress the need for proper clothing and the use of image verification during events. The speakers also touch on the legal test for finding one's wife's wealth and forgiveness, as warships are constantly being used.

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Allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him, people me you always to be

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his best religion to allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his religion to you. Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen Keba to limit the kin wild one il Allah aalameen or salat wa salam ala say they were 18 and Amina Muhammad in early he was so happy Germaine My dear brothers and sisters. Welcome to another Live edition of our program Guardians of the pious Today's episode is number 292. And it is the fourth episode and explained in chapter number 72. The chapter which is he is with the condemnation of pride and self conceit.

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The first Hadith we have in the chapter is Hadith number 616. And it is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Anhu con kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Fela satin la you can Lima whom Allah Who young Malkia Mati while I use a key him while our young guru la him, wala homage. Aleem

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shell concerning are many Concur Zab why Iran most Akbar?

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hadith is collected by Muslim Allah have mercy on him

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and it is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him who reported that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said there are three types of people to whom Allah will not speak on the Day of Resurrection, nor will He purify them, no look at them, and they will have a painful punishment.

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Those are an old man who commits adultery.

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A ruler who lies

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and a poor person who's arrogant.

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In this hadith, which is collected by Imam Muslim, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said there are three types of people whom Allah Almighty will not speak to them on the Day of Judgment al Kalam here, the speech is a speech of riba Agrisure. Otherwise, we have learned before that in Surah, Minoan Allah Almighty will address the inmates of hell by saying yourself Yeah, well, Attica, Lee Moon, remain in it with His grace and humiliation, and don't talk to me. So there will be some sort of poking, they will be begging Allah to be released, a lot of mighty will not release them and say, remain there, be disgraced and humiliated and don't talk to me anymore. So the type of talk in which

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Allah Almighty mentioned in this hadith, he said, lie who can live whom Allah who, while I am Eli him while I was a key him there are three things which those types of people who will be deprived from and all of them refer to Allah's verse mercy, because when Allah speaks to somebody, this is a sign of pleasure.

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When Allah Almighty deprives the person from talking to him, that's on the Day of Judgment.

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It's a sign that this person is deprived from his mercy. Well, I don't go to Eli him, we also spoke about the fact that letter family half year

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no one will be able to hide neither in this life, nor in the year after

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everyone will be exposed and obviously clear before Allah subhanho wa taala. But there is a difference between seeing them all and looking at a particular person or depriving a particular person or persons from this look of mercy, this novel of Rama, so they they will be deprived from this particular Nether the look of mercy, not from being able to see them because Allah is definitely seeing them, whether in this life or in the Hereafter.

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Yama ydynt or buena Lata

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Ming come half year what are you going to hide?

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Where are you going to hide? is very interesting in one eye

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conversation that I record right now between a sinner

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and the latest man,

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the sinner who said to the race man, that I'm obsessed with the love of sins,

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I can quit. He said, Okay, if you want to commit sins, promised to do three things, then you can do as much as you want. And don't worry about it. Don't worry about the punishment.

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So please, what are the three things you said if you're gonna commit sins,

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make sure that you commit a sense on a land on a soil on a property, which is not his.

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He said everywhere and everything belongs to him. So he said, she will live on his property and he disobey Him.

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What is the SEC? Perhaps it's easier than the first said make certain that when you commit a sin, it is done under a shelter which is not his find another sky other than his will he can do whatever you want to do. He said You must be joking. Because every word the entire sky is his. What is the third? He said make sure that when you do it you hide from him in a way that he cannot see you hide somewhere or he will not be able to see you. So do you know that he will see me wherever I go? My courtroom in Nigeria Salah satin ala Warabi room Allah come satin Allahu wa Sadie. So while I had an amazonica Apsara Isla wema home, a in America and some may win a bid on Vemma I'm you know, Yamaha

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piano, and Mojo dilla. Whenever there is a secret council of three, it is not only three because Allah de force

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as if your council of five. And they made certain that they locked all the doors and they sealed all the windows, no one is listening. They're sitting in a soundproof room. And I still do like that. But Allah is there six, no more nor less, but Allah is with them, even if it is one person by himself. Yeah, Animoca in our unit, why not OfficeSuite he knows her inner Island. And what the chests conceal. Sometimes you're sitting with, come on with people, with your wife and your own children. But they don't know what you're thinking about. They don't know what has gone on in your mind whether it's good or bad, because he did not speak it out. It did not explain it must share it

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with others. You don't have to share it with ALLAH because ALLAH really knows what is in your best, even if you do not speak out. And her inner circle is what no one else knows but him you may pretend to be very pious.

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But whenever you are away from people, or when people are busy, and they're distracted, you let go your eyesight to see or to take a look at what Allah has forbidden. A lot of mighty capture that. And have you recorded that? Those who are sitting with you in the same place? Didn't get to see you. That's cool ha in Italian.

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Okay, well, I'm at office today.

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Lyle zhu li he means Allah would not look at him the look of mercy.

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Despite the fact that he sees him or them and all of them. What is the third one? The third one Wallah, you can leave home. No rule he spoke about you can leave home.

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And while he was a key him, not only purify them and satisfy them at Ischia is mentioned clearly in surah. A shrimps

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the two consecutive areas and number nine and number 10. Got the F la Hana Zakka work harder for this.

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Successful indeed is the one who will purify, yet purify himself. Because Allah Almighty started the surah by Cyril oath, I swear to the sun and it's for noon I SWEAR TO THE MOON whenever it follows the sun I swear to the day I swear to the night, then

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the last oath was an A swear to the soul.

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One so what have Alhambra foodora What acquire successful indeed is the one who will purify purify the neffs at the skier is a purification.

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And Rowan indeed is the one who will not purify himself and let it fulfill its desire and follow what He desires.

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In the Hadith, Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu said, I missed the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him on one night, whenever whenever he was spending the night in my room

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So, I searched for him and I found him prostrating himself in the prayer he was in sujood. Then I heard him saying, I'd be at the NFC Taqwa was again and the humans that care and our Lee you have a Megillah she heard him saying in his suit in the night prayer a beautiful dua I hope you'll remember it and we can invoke a lot of mighty

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with this dua

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rob the earth NFC taqwa, my lord. Grant myself is righteousness

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was a key here and purify it and the hiraman Zika the best one to purify it and totally you have a malaria you are its protector, and its guardian. Normally you have on Allah. So Allah wa salatu salam night in sujood his dua was to beg Allah to purify himself. The most pure person ever, is asking Allah subhanaw taala for further purification, purification of one's self, one soul.

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On the Day of Judgment, there will be another test case, so at Ischia, or as their care in the life of this world, whenever a lot Almighty purifies the person from the sense from the evil and protect him against evil desire,

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and in the Hereafter, at Ischia also, by purifying the person from the sense of chi carried along with him to the hereafter, so that he will be eligible to enter paradise.

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Because no one shall enter paradise but the pure. So Allah Almighty said in Surah, till RF, when azana, Matthew, pseudo mineral,

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first of all, the house, the church, the souls have to be purified, then they can interpret us after being eligible.

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Who are those people, the very unfortunate on the Day of Judgment, Allah will not talk to them, Allah will not purify them, and Allah will not even look at them with mercy. Why? What did they do? It must be a grievous act. Indeed, you will measure sinners. What did they do? The first one, by the way, it also says well at home I haven't any, and above all, for them is a very painful torment. What did they do to deserve all of that? These are severe, severe consequences. Why? The first one is shame, one Zan in

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an old man and aged men who still commits adultery. Why? Because it is expected from a person whenever he grows up whenever he grows all twice, since his desire will be lessened and the motive to commit those sins, particularly the sexual desire is getting weaker and weaker and weaker and the sound Hadith collectable Imam Buhari, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, other Allahu ala Murray in

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a hora who had tyeb, Nova 16, which means a lot of mighty gives an excuse that a person until he reaches 60s, because once you reach 60, those desires, which were with you, whenever you're young, whenever you were a teenager, whenever you were a grown up, man, they were the highest.

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You they were at their utmost, right. But as you grow up, this desire gets weaker and weaker and weaker. The desire even to have sexual contact with your own spouse, you start losing it as you grow old. But when a person still at this age, where he doesn't even comprehend that the older you get, the closer you get to your deadline, end of life and the beginning of an eternal life. So he neglects all of that. And he dismisses all the fact that you are approaching your death, you should Weisen up and he doesn't have the same motive. He used to have it whenever he was 15 or 20, or 25 or 30 or 35. Now you're 60 you're 70 your ad is still drinking.

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So hanging out with Gods instead of paying cards. He still earning a lawfully. So after all,

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the same becomes greater and greater whenever the person gets older, because he's been given plenty of 60 excuses, perhaps because he's young, because of the peer pressure, but you don't have any of that now. So the particular act that this person whenever he does, he will be deprived from Allah's mercy on the day of resurrection to the point that

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Allah will not talk to him, Allah will not purify him, nor will Allah Almighty. Look at him. Novel Rama

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is a man who grew old when he still commits adultery, he still does illicit

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acts and involves in indecent relationship.

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And the second The first is a shame because then the second is Malecon gap,

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a king

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who lies, but he does not just lie, because that

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is different than CAD.

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CAD file a person who lives he lives every now and then he lives occasionally. But CAD Zab is an extensive form, it scale in Arabic is filed. He does that on regular basis. He frequently lies. Why does he deserve the severe punishment, because whenever you are a king, you don't need to lie. You're the king. You're not afraid of anyone that was going to punish you. If you say the truth, or hold you blameworthy if you say the truth, you're the king.

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You're the ruler, you're the governor.

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You have the authority. But since lying is an evil desire, sometimes some people are afflicted with this disease. They just lie for the sake of flying, they don't know how to say the truth.

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They have been constantly lying, even though they you do not need to lie.

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When somebody asks you, there are some people like that. How old are you? You're 46 I'm 36. Why you're not applying for a job. You're not proposing for a girl to get married to hide your age. Just say the truth is asking him how many brothers and sisters you have. Maybe he doesn't have enough 10 why his tongue is used to lying, his heart is twisted. He just enjoys lying. And there are many kings like that, even though they don't have to lie. Because they are not afraid of the blame of any blamer. But they lie for the sake of lying. And they keep lying to their people not lying to one person lying to the entire nation. Does this apply to a governor?

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Who is governing a small govern rate? Yes, it applies to every ruler to every king to every president who lies because he is a liar.

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Such people

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on the Day of Judgment, Allah will not talk to them. nor will He purify them. No, we would know what he looked at them with mercy. Because the motive was not there. Simply they didn't have to. They'd have any problem saying the truth. But he does lie. For the sake of lie. Does this apply to the Father who lies to his kids? You know how often some people you know, your son or your daughter says, I want this, okay? If you finish your more your homework, I will. I'll give you this, I'll take you tomorrow to

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do your game or I will buy you this I will buy you that. And whenever he was saying that he knows that he is not going to do it.

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So why are you lying? Oh, you know,

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just because he's used to it.

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Even though he keeps that in his children Don't lie because if you lie, you go to him. And he's the biggest liar. So his kids would follow his actions, not his instructions. Because actions speak louder than words. A person was a king, who was a ruler was a governor was a prince or a president or a family father. And he lies to those who are under his guardianship on regular basis would be deprived from Allah's mercy on the day of judgment.

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And the third is the subject of this chapter. The chapter is about what the condemnation of pride and self conceit the provision of arrogance, and pride.

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The third is the most tech bearish, what is I will, I will a person who's extremely poor

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and you know, the word the rial in Arabic. When ever you have kids, there are your children. And

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you have people who are under your guardianship. You support them financially. And it is used to refer to a person who is living in destitute and extreme poverty.

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Hi, Elon, Musk Jack, but he didn't say moto camper because he doesn't have the means of being arrogant.

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Kela in the in Santa lyoto?

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Or who sterner, why does a man feel arrogant? Why does a man transgress once he feels sense of self sufficient, once he estimates how much he's got. And he believes that he doesn't need anything from anyone Istana if you're self sufficient, and he starts earning this evil quality, developing this evil quality of arrogance, for simply feeling that I'm rich, I have lots of wealth. I don't need anything from anyone. So I don't have to deal with people kindly. I deal with people, as are inferior to me, it happens as a result of getting rich, especially if the person was not born. In this condition, when the person is born to an average family, or to a poor family. And then all of a

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sudden a lot Almighty tests him with wealth with a good job, and he makes a lot of money or with a good business or investment, then somehow he becomes very, very rich beyond his imagination. He tries to conceal of his past, he tries to hide his original condition, by behaving differently, by behaving arrogantly before people, especially those who look like what he used to be before. This is very common, you know, our who seldom

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but whenever the person is this situation, whenever the person is suffering of poverty, he barely have one outfit to wear whenever he goes out. Why? and on what basis? And for what reason? Do you show pride and arrogance, you have nothing.

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But he's very keen. Even though he's poor, he would buy maybe a name brand watch or pin, a pair of shoes, which is fake, so that he would show up before people pretend that I'm a rich man. He may have a car or a vehicle, which you would pay for it soon, all his position, wants to show before some people that he is very, very rich.

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You know,

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I've seen some of these cases, whether here or abroad, or in North America, I've seen some people moving from extreme poverty, to some wealth and richness, and how that changed the hearts and their attitude towards others. But whenever the person is still living in poverty, Why do you pretend when he invites people for dinner or lunch or whatever, he may spend all his saving, just to show them that he takes him to this big restaurant, or

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he like he can afford it. for the sole purpose of showing off such person Allah subhanaw taala curses him. What Hamada wouldn't tell him he's very angry with him. You don't have a reason to be arrogant. Corona was arrogant. Because Allah Almighty said to it, no man, no Zima and Nana Fatiha hula turn, who will also Betty O'Neill Cova look at his wealth. He was literally the wealthiest person on earth.

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So that made him feel arrogant. You know, there is a possibility that may happen. It is expected even though it is forbidden. But in your case, what do you have to show arrogance? What do you have to behave arrogantly before other while you're living in this situation and in extreme poverty? You should humble yourself. Now understand why those three people are the three types of people, Allah Almighty will deprive them from his mercy. And furthermore, we're not here to talk to them, we're not purify them on their senses, nor would he look at them, the look of Rama on the Day of Judgment Wella whom are there any because of doing these sins, without the need to do it, without the motive

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behind it in case that he was young?

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He may do it. Not because it's permissible, but is expected because he shall overcome him if he's if he's young and committed an illicit act.

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A person who may be in debt, and every time he meets his letter, he says I swear to more outpace he doesn't have. So he keeps lying, that that is not an excuse. But there is a motive, even though it is forbidden.

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I must bear the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not say Muhtar Kent but

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He said misstep, but he pretends because he doesn't actually have the means of arrogance. May Allah subhanaw taala protect us against that. Okay, before we begin the following Hadith

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I was told that we're going to take a short break. So in sha Allah in a couple of minutes we'll return back to discuss another very interesting Hadith collected by Muslim Peace

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Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back, as usual, our phone numbers beginning with the code 002 Then 0238, treble 5131 or 132 All right,

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the Hadith that we're about to study in sha Allah and the segment is Hadith number 617. The hadith is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah Ravi Allah Juan and it is also collected by Imam Muslim Allah admission and Ebihara irata arrived the Allahu Anhu called kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, CA and Allah hooter Allah. Allah is who is very well Kibriya Henri de familia Nazir only if you are hit him in Houma for Pradas to Rahu Muslim, Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him, narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said Allah the Exalted says so that's a sacred Hadith Hadith one could say. What did Allah Almighty say it said honor is my izhar and pride is my clock. Whoever

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VI is with me regarding one of them shall be to minted I shall punish him. I shall to mentum alright, what is the word is are we know that is our and reader is what we were in heartful men that is our is a sheet that we wear around the lower part of the waist from the waist down. That is our and our reader is a sheet that we place on both shoulders to cover the upper or the top part of our bodies. So we have izhar on reader, and we have a lot of mighty says that LA Zoo is very well Kibriya odd. What does it mean after this call insha Allah salam ala sister Asya from the case as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Riley comas Salam rahmatullah wa barakato. However you

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say, final Hamdulillah, thank you for asking such as Yeah, I think, I think so. My question was left, I have asked the speaker previously, and maybe I just wanted to remind it because people are eagerly waiting for the answer. They keep on asking me why do you don't call again and ask the sheikh. So I just wanted to ask you again che the matter regarding the celebrating of a Hindu festival along with them means the Muslim they are wishing them they are taking their three and being leaving in the non Muslim Hindu society. Nowadays, they want us to wish them so that we keep a good relation with them. If we don't take sweet okay, it's okay. They don't mind but they don't want

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to but they'd like us to fish in their celebration. And the end people are going beyond that the youngsters and the even the old people also they are taking the seats and all and those companies who are owning the companies and the workers are Muslim, they are giving the bonus for the Diwali bonus for the festival. Shall we can accept those banners and pushing them but to shake that nowadays woman's are wearing a hijab and niqab and there are pictures are coming they're flying the plane they are doing they're doing this and they are doing that for jobs are acceptable for a Muslim woman.

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Sister July area from organda Yes, someone makeshift

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cattle. I just have to question check. Okay. I was listening to a certain mixture and the Sheikh was saying that we men and the kids were enemies to our husbands. I'd love to know more about that Sheikh, he was deciding is it advice and telling that women and children we are any we are fitting a tomb to mean and mean to our husbands and they should? They should be very cautious.

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I did not understand I was confused. I would like to know

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What are you talking about the words and children are fitna is what you're asking about and what it means.

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For for him, he said even women, women and children, kids, we are everything that towards me. Fitna, fitna.

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So my, my second question is about my friend is opening a hotel, and I really feel that she should incorporate it because in our country, you need people who use it for academic accommodation. It's stories like it is not, they are seeming. So I don't know what to tell her. Exactly. And I don't know if I'm wrong, or if I'm right. Okay.

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Do me a favor and just repeat your second question again, please. My second question is about my friend.

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She's my friend is opening a hotel. And usually the accommodation part is always used by young people are not married, they're singing in the hotel and they feel should be helping them to see. And they feel the money is haram. I would like to advise her, but I don't know if I'm wrong. Or if I'm right. I would like to know about your son shake.

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Thank you so much. All right. Thank you, Sister. Julia from under you. Second question reminds me with once I was driving on the 59 that was in Houston, Texas. And subhanAllah. You know,

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I saw some signs which says that vacant.

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And $25.20 $5 for any hotel or motel is nothing. So I will still in my company that why do we have to stay in? You know, whenever I travel over the weekend to give lectures? Why do we have to stay in in an expensive one like 100 150 Rodolfo can just stay here. And one of them was smiling. They said you don't know what is it? It's basically per hour. I said, and why would people rent a room per hour? This is similar to what you just asked about when you know that somebody is renting a room

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or renting your flat or renting any property from you. And you know that this is simply to facilitate for them having Xena and fornication? Is it haram? Am I responsible for non Muslims? And I don't know what goes on behind closed doors behind closed doors, you're responsible. What I want well is me all O'Dwyer. So given the room to a couple who are not married, and they have no relationship whatsoever, is simply giving them a chance to commit adultery and you know that, don't you? So this is not permissible. Of course, you can tell your friends that says that as Yeah, with regards to participating in any religious festival. It is not permissible for Muslims to celebrate

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nor participate in any religious holidays or festivals, other than what Allah Almighty prescribed for them, it will firstly where it will apply. And the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salam made it very, very clear when he entered and Medina and people were already celebrating some of those days which they used to enjoy celebrating even before Islam. So he forbade them and he said Indeed Allah have given you two bearer aids, you don't fit three were evil. Besides that, any religious holiday any religious festival it is not permissible to take part in the in the celebration. Okay, what if our neighbors brought us a suite or candy take it, but this is not participation brought us food

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which is cooked meat. What is lard in the name of the food's good is our take it but not eat it because it's not permissible to eat. Aleta kolomela Muziris mulai Ali, you understand somebody brought me some sweet is different than bringing food which contains meat, which entails a process of slaughtering, maybe chicken, whether meat anything that requires sacrifice.

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And whenever you take the gift, any gift, even if there's chocolate, you don't have to eat it, but just accepting it is is enough to go and participate in these holidays. It is not permissible for Muslims, some people who say Oh, you participate in your holidays, because your religion doesn't forbid you. My religion forbids me and my religion olders me to be kind to you to visit you if you're sick God forbid and to congratulate you for your happy moments and occasion your son's graduation your daughter's marriage you receive

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a new

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birth, a boy or a girl. No problem.

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Somebody died in the family. I go and I console the family and I get

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Within the condolence no problem, but participating in religious festivals simply is not permitted in Islam for other than the Islamic festivals you don't feel free when you do have high school graduation go ahead and attend as long as it doesn't have anything haram in it. Likewise, if it is wedding if it is

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party opening a new shop a new house moving to a new house, no problem.

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Sister answer second question, the sisters are wearing other as when your club and they take pictures. And they pose the images. I'm here and I'm there. You know I

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I have asked myself

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why is my wife wearing hijab? And what is the whole idea of hijab and hijab is a screen.

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And when somebody visits me at home, I have the entrance and have the living room and have the guest room and there is a screen. If you don't have a door to close you have a screen so that the guests will not get to see the inside of the house or didn't get to see the bedroom, the dining room or my family they're sitting freely because they're being concealed, there is a barrier, this is the purpose of hijab.

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The old hijab is also used in Surah Telara for the inner home a hijab there is a barrier between origin and Allah. So they they do not mix.

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They do not go to each other. Even if I do not want to they can't have a norma hijab, while oropharyngeal Yara fauna Kula Messina. Now, the point of hijab is to conceal to cover to protect. So if you're wearing hijab, what is the idea of posting your picture?

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You know, if you're not wearing a face veil, the beauty of any person is focused in his or her face. Whenever clothes a picture. Whenever you are doing anything picnic or with your family, and you post your wife's picture, why that's not permissible. Your daughter's picture who's grown up, it's not permissible. Or the sister itself posting a picture. Please do not do that ceremony. Brother, look man from Singapore.

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I said I'm wanting

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see if I have a question about arrogance, actually. Okay.

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Well, if a person you know, he, during salah, he, he prays for the sake of love, but in the middle

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people pass by him. And suddenly he feels this sort of

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keeper pride or arrogance inside him. And he doesn't feel that way. But somehow that arrogance keeps counting on him for every dollar.

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Okay, okay. Look, man. Are you saying arrogance or show off? Because there is a big difference.

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arrogance or show off?

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Yeah, then you're talking about showing off. Because it is very hard to imagine somebody in the prayer. And he shows arrogance. I mean, you put your forehead and your nose, again is the ground that contradicts and eliminates all the traces of arrogance. But it is possible when the person is praying, especially if he's leading the prayer. And he has a melodious voice or nicely citation and he feels proud of himself. And he likes people to admire his this citation that score yet the score showing off.

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And there is a difference between a person who does deliberately or while he is in the middle of his citation. Satan whispers to him Oh, people must be very happy with you. Why don't you prolong your citation a little more, or make it a little louder? Or just some few tears here or there. So that people will be affected. These are whispers it becomes forbidden when you act upon it. So if these are whispers and I know that they are whispers What am I supposed to do?

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That will allow him to share my knowledge and seek refuge with Allah again is Outcast Satan in order to sincere intention. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam advises to do that whenever you have any whisper in the prayer and in surah to Silla, Allah Almighty says you in May and Zelena Kameena che Tonin as one first there is Belair in who was semi olallie. Whenever Satan whispers to you, then simply seek a fish. And Allah, again is the outcast Satan. He is indeed the old hearer, the old SEER

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I'm sisters your area and first question is about the area or the husband or whoever is saying that you and the kids are fitna and trial for me and okay.

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What does it say?

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It says l'amour, anima M we're looking what Allah do come fit now

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when Allah and I will adore an RV, which means that indeed your wills and your children are bought trial, and Allah has a great reward for you trial. Everything in life is trial, our worth is fine. Our health is fine it Yanni test. Having a children is a big test. When Allah Almighty tested Ibrahim Ali Salam, and he gave him his only son, Ishmael, when he was over 80 years old, it's impossible to imagine. But he is blessed him with a child. Then it was a test. He commanded him to take his only son and Hydra and put them in the desert in the middle of nowhere 1000s of miles away from from from Palestine to Mecca, and he passes a test or either tele Ibrahim or boo boo can

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imagine for at Amman failing the test, failing the test is whenever the person

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loses this authority which Allah Almighty gave him in order to keep his family on the safe path.

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So he doesn't mind that his daughter having a boyfriend. He doesn't have he doesn't mind that his wife is going out without he doesn't mind that his children are in praying because they don't go to school share. Masha Allah in Matthew got 99 and in the finance he is the first in his class does he pray

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insha Allah one day he failed the test.

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Okay. And also it will say with regards to many of

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or a few of the Sahaba who accepted Islam before the Hydra whenever a lot of mighty commanded them to make hydro, their kids, their family members their wife said are you leaving us here alone so they stayed behind? So they were tested? They were tested and they fail the test? Salam alaikum warahmatullah

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another Idris from Libya

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Yeah, G is a Santa Monica

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and we'll say hello

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good evening to brother Idris

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request question. The question is

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sick I'm listening Good question

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I'm here you're talking about life now.

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The legal one you're working for them and then they like to relate to them because you give me your money

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when you lie they give you money

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to give you our money yeah

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was the first question first I think it your first question

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I'm talking about lie lie. Yes, I got your question lying what is it?

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easier because we are working to them.

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Oh, you want to tell you why you lie to them. They will have to tell you I'm monitoring to

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them that they give you

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Okay, your second question please. So my second question when my wife does this

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give him some medicine.

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They take so me because I don't like to take

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I don't like to take the

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may have one of the brothers collect a brother discussion because we have another caller

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face from maganda Santa Monica.

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Mata Lasya Thank you for waiting patiently. Welcome to the program.

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Thank you. Thank you. Good

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luck collect us coupe suna company.

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If I went to the mosque, and the I was early enough

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To diadema

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then why PRI also is not a complete complete failure

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or in case

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I am late and the only person that

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then they may do the Metacom or for satisfactory comes on. We'll make it before Blake here for probably

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another question.

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The second question is about when I was growing up.

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We they told us that when we find a mom in RUCO

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you fit in Allaha MonoSol bidding.

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Then the mum always free to join the salah before he stands up

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to eat for a maximum, is it correct or wrong?

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And other questions? No, that's enough. Thank you so much. Thank you. Thanks.

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Weather regards to your second question. This is invalid. When you enter the machine you don't talk to the Imam and the Imam is not supposed to pay attention to anyone I mean you say in Allah ma Sabreen it shouldn't give him a signal to prolong his Rico he is not supposed to do anything special for people. He is leading the prayer. His main focus is on his prayer and the followers if you come late you join in whichever part you join and you make up the rest or you continue but you don't give the Imam and instructions This is completely invalid and not acceptable. With regards to the Sunnah Coppelia before once he entered the masjid, and after that then you don't pray to Him unless you do

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pray the Sunnah, which you're about to pray so you only pray to rock as the to sunnah before fetch and you sit down. You don't pray here. Don't miss it first. Then you pray sunnah to fetch. Because basically the the effective codes of prescribing the greeting of the machine is not to sit down before praying. So if you haven't to pray with a sunnah or affirm, then you exempt from praying independent to raka to greet the Masjid. I wish to continue with the idea of the fitna Allah more Ananda, voila, como ella do confit. Now, that's sort of unfair. Then also in in Surah, Tabu Inanna, and while looking what Allah do comfortness so has been confirmed in two different verses Surah,

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unfurl and Surah Turabian which means that they are test for you, your face will be tested. You gratitude to Allah Almighty, for being blessed with a family will be tested. And I will say that those companions who did not who failed to make Hedra

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because they were tempted with their family members, spouses, wives and children that don't leave us alone stay here while they were commanded to migrate so they failed that test.

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To be continued in sha Allah azza wa jal because this hadith is a very important Hadith. The hadith of Elijah is early or Korea or the day and unfortunately, we don't have time we actually went over time. So until next time, Apollo probably had our stuff online, you will echo masala who and sad and I'm handmade and you will save yourself. Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him, the only illness to be missed, and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the Greatest. The one and only God glory to Him only has to be the best and gave his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving gold about an empire that was shipping cows fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting about how bad or guys were shipping cause fire ran stores selling their best were the cheapest