Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #243 Nov 21st 2016

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The host of a radio show discusses the importance of religion and the use of clothing to enhance one's appearance, while also addressing the use of shih tzu as a sign of pride. The segment also touches on the history of Islam, including the printing of the record of Allah Almighty and the use of parables of the Prophet sallam. The speakers emphasize the importance of not giving up on one's anger and practice patience while achieving knowledge.
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love and God is the greatest

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glory to

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humans to be the best. Again this best religion to them. Allah God is the greatest, alone and knowing God to him,

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to us to be the best, gave his best religion to

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a Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim will praise you to Allah alone we praise Him and we seek His help whomsoever Allah guides is a truly guided one. And whoever Allah leaves a say in non can show him guidance made the best peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him by the viewers everywhere. I'd like to welcome you to another live edition of our program Guardians of the pious Today's episode is number 293. In the blesses series of riello Salehi,

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it will be in sha Allah the last the fifth and the last explain in chapter number 72 is shatter which deals with the Harryman Cabri. While a jab or condemnation of pride and self conceit.

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The hadith before the last in this chapter, Hadith number 618.

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Hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity and rated by Abu Hurayrah are the Allahu Anhu

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and Rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a call by Nana Raju loon EMC if you hold that into a gebouw enough so more agilone razza who Luffy machete he it herself Allah Hubei for whoever tangel jello Phil are we reliable milk Liam

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and this hadith. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him says while a man was walking this enclosed admiring himself, his hair is calm.

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He was walking happily.

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This is when Allah Almighty calls the earth to swallow him. Now you continue to go down in it. And you continue to sink as means of punishment until the Day of Resurrection. The word hola behold that intelligible hola means an outfit, a dress coat suit, fell to a gebouw that he likes it. He was very proud of himself were in this outfit. Maura JLo Nora Sir, who

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he dresses here is heroes calm

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after gel gel, which means that continues to sink, shakes and sink

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and will continue to go down. What we have here is a Hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity confirming that one of the wars sins is Kib.

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As we have mentioned repeatedly before, that it is possible that a person who have a little bit of camp will be barred from entering paradise. A person who has an atom weight of arrogance shall not enter paradise as the prophets Allah Allah Allah celibacy. And not to confuse the issues. We even received questions inquiring about somebody likes to look nice to dress nice to polish your shoes to comb his hair. Guess what? The Prophet sallallahu sallam was the most beautiful, and was the most handsome. And he used to save a nice outfit for Joomla and every day, and he never looked ugly. He never looked undressed. Subhanallah

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and when somebody asked the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam about the relationship between lightning to look nice, to look beautiful, to comb your hair, and to take care of your outfit and arrogance. He said, these are two different things. Rather the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam commented on that by saying Verily Allah is beautiful and he likes beauty, he appreciates beauty. You find in one Hadith the Prophet sallallahu sallam said If Allah blessed you with hair with long hair

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for your claim, I know your hair, wash your hair on a regular basis. If you have oil if you have you know hairdressing something to fix your hair with because Allah blue suit here do not walk with the shovel. * like Satan you know

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except in certain conditions of course, like on the day of Arafa

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Allah Almighty says to his injuries

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being proud of his servants on the day, a Tony assured affirmed Waubra they've come to me. Sure a thin obrah should have a means with their hair on calm because it is not recommended to comb your hair or to keep yourself busy on the day that fr O'Brien dusted. They're covered with us because they've been traveling. Begging Allah for mercy. So Allah Almighty through the means of humility humbling themselves before Allah dressed up in Iran Rida with their hair, the shovel and covered with dust, Allah would forgive them their sins, sins are begging him for forgiveness. But generally speaking, if you're going to the masjid, it is better than going to any party.

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Who those INETA Komenda Colima shed and Aquila Masjid not only in a national haram, whenever you're going to enter Masha, dress up nicely. Wear the nice clothes, the nice fragrance, you should look nice because you're having a meeting with your Creator. And you're meeting with the believers who share with you the same faith. And this is the most sacred meeting on Earth. Okay.

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I believe now best Radi Allahu Anhu man says after hearing the idea, well, I'm gonna miss Lola the Allah when I build my roof

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that the wife have rights, similar to those who cheered you up on her. Women do have rights similar to those which are due upon them. So whenever the man wants his wife to look neat,

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to look nice, and to appear beautiful, toward the nice fragrance, nice perfume, the nice clothes that he bought her or she bought for herself, in order to look beautiful before him.

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It goes both ways. Shih Tzu likes to see him dressed up nicely. Smelling nicely brush your teeth, comb your hair, wear nice clothes. It is not only one way and Allah J. Milan, your head Bucha man.

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But what we have here is somebody who's so impressed with his outfit, was so proud of himself was so happy with the way his hair looks.

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So to urge people who never saw

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this is a sign of arrogance. He feels himself better than others.

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And once a person feels himself better than others, that is randomness, if he is others, inferior to him. And he's tasket sizing them. Maybe they don't have what you have,

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as a result of this not as a result of dressing up nicely and wearing the nice clothes and calming your hair No, rather, the effective cause of the punishment was to Ijebu and if so, because he was very pleased with himself.

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He admired himself he was in a state of pride and arrogance. Yocto finish yet the way he was walking, he was walking hopefully, Allah the Almighty order the earth to swallow him. And he started thinking it herself Allah who bear this has

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happened many times in history. It happened to nations it happened to individuals. It happened once to karoun the Hassan Nabi he will be the real orb

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that is because a hot Raja Allah call me fizzy and

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he made a big show and a big scene in order to impress people with the way he looks with his wealth with his properties. So Allah Almighty order the earth to swallow him focus if Nabi will be daddy Hill and his home his property is to

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was swallowed the bottom of the earth

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in Surah,

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a Nigeria verse number 53 and in surah Al Harca verse number nine and not almighty tells us about Elmo terrifica In Surah, Nash Walmart Taffy cutter Hua then in Surah, Tehelka, it says, Well, if you care to which refers to the village or the villages,

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Allah the Almighty cause earth to swallow them and these things on Earth, such as the people of low Tala, his setup, because of their heinous crime, of transgression in sexuality.

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So Allah don't

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Mighty sees them with this severe punishment.

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In this hadith, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said if hos if Allah who be Allah cause earth to swallow him because of his arrogance for whoever Tegile jello fill out the LAL milk Yama. Accordingly, he will continue to go down

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there on where to sink in the bottom of the earth

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until the day of judgment.

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We know that Allah Almighty stated that the Earth are seven layers, similar to the heavens, where Meenal are we miss La Han? It is Allah Who created the heavens in seven layers were made out of the Miss La Han and likewise so in the Quran, Surah Tala, Allah stated that the Earth consists of seven US layers, like the heavens consists of seven layers.

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So he will continue to sync from one Earth to another until the day of judgment. And then on the day of judgment, there is even a worse punishment and a severe atonement, all of that because of what all of that because of tour Ijebu national

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tour Ijebu NAFSA, because he was very impressed with himself. He was very proud of himself of the way he looks of his positions. You have Tel Aviv machete he was working on Earth heartily, with pride. And this is a Misha. This is a way of working which Allah and His Messenger Salallahu Alaihe Salam dislike, when should work on Earth with humility, Allah time she filled out the MaHA inocle and Africa larva, while into numerology, Shiva Kula.

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When you walk on Earth, Walk on Earth, with tranquility, with humility, because you will not be able to hit the ground and penetrated with your feet.

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Nor will you be able to stretch out your A your hands in order to grab hold of the heavens. You're a human being. How tall are you? couple yards? What can you do? A very limited power the person must understand that he is created to serve Allah Almighty not to show arrogance and pride before the rest of the creation of Allah Almighty is such a very hideous trait and an evil quality to show arrogance and to feed yourself better than others.

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The last Hadith we have in the chapter I believe it is the last Yes, Hadith number 619. New rated selama YBNL Aqua Radi Allahu Allah. And I want to tell you that this hadith is a weak Hadith in the beginning, but because we have been discussing many sound Hadith which provide the same meaning, so like to learn the Hadith, but I also live to indicate that it is with Hadith. And Salah Mata aquaria Radi Allahu Anhu called Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, lairs and Raju yes have all been FC Have you ever feel gypped? Buried?

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liaison Raju?

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Yes Hubble BNF si hackday Octavia Phil Jabarin.

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I will see you by whom I saw about whom Hadith was collected by Mahmoud Tirmidhi He classified the Hadith as Hassan will fail.

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In this hadith the Prophet sallallahu Alia selama said a man will continue to display hardiness and arrogance until he is coded among the arrogant and will be therefore afflicted with what afflicts them Subhanallah

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and yet Berrien, plural of Jabbar

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and Al Jabbar is one of the traits of Allah Almighty and it shouldn't be one of the traits of any of the human beads. In the case of the human beings, Jabbar means arrogant means insolent.

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So Allah Almighty punishes those who behave arrogantly in this dunya and the punishment is pretty much the same by humiliating them by putting them down or by causing them to sink in the bottom of the Earth, like the previous Hadith, or by punishing an arrogant king who claim that he is God such as a nonroad

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by utilizing a mosquito,

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mosquito, people are asking that How come a glorious book, a divine book is discussing about a mosquito

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severely shameful thing so Allah Almighty revealed in hola hola esta he and your believe MSL another rule dot info inf O

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Allah does not feel shy to discuss and to give an example and a parable of a fly and anything above that. Why because he's one of the creation of Allah. It's very interesting that one of the scholars once was asked Why did Allah create flies and mosquitoes

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it said do the levy panna culture by Vera in order to humiliate the arrogant and insulin ones, they are off Yanni. In the case of a nun route,

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when he insisted that he is a creator, and he gives life and death, Allah Almighty could have seized him by any means of punishment, you know, some wind to blow him away, or death then takes him to *, or sin, an angel to destroy his palace, but he sent all like karoun to cause him to sink on the bottom of the earth. But he made him live, but live in pain and sorrow by sending this little mosquito, which entered into his nose, and it stayed there. So long as he was living and he would drive him crazy. That was the punishment with what would have lie.

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In the case of Moses, Pharaoh. He used to brag over people by saying that lie Sally Moon comas Sora were hair, the hill and her authenticity mentality. Don't I own Egypt and look at the rivers running beneath me. It's like you are the one who made them run. So okay, this is what you brag about. Because your parents is by the Nile River, and you think that the rivers are, you know, running beneath you. So Allah Almighty cause the water to run on top of him he drowned him.

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And he was the only Abadi who saved not life, just the body Subhanallah so Allah Almighty said failure oh man, when a G can be bad Anika liter Khun Annie man, Khalifa K.

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The Pharaoh and his horse were all drowned. Musa and his followers were all saved. And the only body the only disease which was washed off to the shore, to the land was the body of the Pharaoh. Why? In order to be assigned for people who would come after, in order for them to say whenever they see this person who used to claim that I am you load the Most High and he said to Musa Ali Salam in Surah Shara in it, the husband Isla Han loyally. If you ever dare to worship other than me, I shall stone you to death.

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He demanded Musa Ali Salam and the Israelites to worship Him. So his punishment was to be drowned. He wasn't able to save himself and obviously, to save anyone else. And then his body was washed off. So it was on the show, it was picked up. And it was saved, so that people would go to the museum and see this body this very skinny limited body of this man who used to say, I am your low, the Most High, who insisted that Musa and everybody should worship in Milan, and whoever will turn away from his warship, he threatened to stone them to death

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and Jesu Min Jin Salama. So the compensation and the punishment was of the same nature of his evil deed. He was arrogant, the punishment was to humiliate him. Some people who are arrogant in this life you're Sharon i o Malkia Mati And Thurles.

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On the Day of Judgment, they will be resurrected, but now in their regular size and appearance. People will be resurrected regularly but they will be resurrected, like the size of the liberal ends.

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Because you are arrogant in the dunya now this is your

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your type of Rajala of me Semyon el mal Kiana,

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a man who's very fat, who's very muscular, who challenged Allah Who should arrogance before the creation of Allah. In this dunya will be resurrected on the Day of Judgment, like an end.

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Doesn't even weigh the weight of a wing of a fly. As Giselle mentioned Salam Lezama Raju have been FC he had Dr. Phil Jamberry.

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strive hard to achieve whatever they desire to achieve the goal

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If somebody wants to learn, so he studies you go to school, he studies day and night and he focuses on his education. Somebody wants to be a worshiper, so all night, he's praying and he's fasting during the day. Somebody wants people to honor him and respect him. Somebody wants people to look up to him and say, Oh, he's such and such. And if he doesn't hear that from them, he feels bad. He loves them to stand up whenever they see him. If he's walking by everybody should stand up. He likes that. Okay, keep liking that. As a result of that you receive the same fate of the Aragon, even though maybe you didn't achieve your goal.

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If you remember, we started before a hadith in Wacha, Nabil Salallahu Alaihe Salam I said, well as I will mark our Raju yak zebu is at the heart of al Qaeda, hatha yoga and the lake Zabba. A person may lie and lie and lie until lying becomes his habit, even if he doesn't have to, but he he just lies for the sake of lying. He is a liar until it becomes his habit had October in the law he was there so that he will be recorded the record what matters most is the record with Allah Almighty had talked about in the like he's recorded of Allah Almighty as Elia.

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Once a person is recorded as a lawyer, you will have the worst fate once a person is recorded as motor jibber jabber Mirtha khabar challenges Allah Almighty and enough his traits, then he's ruined, is gone. He would have the terrible fate of the arrogant ones of Allah's choice, fail see Bahama Asaba home so that you will be afflicted with whatever afflicted the arrogant ones before. That was the last Hadith and chapter number 72. The condemnation of arrogance and self deceit. And now with chapter number 73. A beautiful chapter SubhanAllah. Once again, Allah to confer mammal Noah, we may Allah have mercy on him, have been very successful, not only in selecting the subjects, and the

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Hadith and the Act, which suit each subject, but also in the order of arranging the different chapters. So now, we've been talking about, you know, the evil traits and the prohibition and the condemnations of those evil traits and one of the worst ever is arrogance. Okay. So that is called the clear in order to clear up your heart and mind from these evil traits. Then there comes after word, the sweetener, that dessert at Talia the following chapter, chapter number 73. We'll talk about the virtues of adopting moral qualities and values and personal holo with the first area

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and number four of surah.

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Al Kalam this chapter, chapter number 73 is about good conduct and good morals.

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Personal hook

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and solid I'll call him Allah Almighty stated that we're in Naka Lala hook in our V, which means and indeed you, Muhammad, peace be upon him, are of a great moral character. What is the occasion? Why did this area

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mentioned why was this mentioned in this chapter surah column, Allah Almighty began the surah with known while call me Juana Yes, poor old man, debonair metal Rebecca be Majnoon we're in Nicola geranyl, layer on a new inocula Allah Hoolock and Avi,

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the Meccan pagans mark at the Prophet sallallahu Sallam chieftains scuffed Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. After they reveal them, they love them, and they admire them. Once he declared his message publicly, once he climbed the mountain, of Asafa and that was on the fourth year after he was commissioned with the prophethood. And he started saying when he called upon the different tribes of courage, you have any ambitions you have any abdomen if you have any Abdul Muttalib and their leaders gathered and those who could not go the central representatives. It's a very serious message from Mohammed,

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the owner that Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is the most truthful person ever. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam started his address by establishing a very important point

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and confirming the fact that the Oracle denies them.

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with these great characters, they said what if I tell you that there is an army behind this mountain? Ready to attack you? Would you believe me? According to Masada?

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They all answered murder Rob na and I carried on caught. We've never experienced any lying from you. You always say the truth. You're the truthful one. Euro sada wherever he was 35 years old and the Americans were about to kill each other, fighting over who would have the honor of placing the Blackstone in its corner. Upon completing the construction of the Kaaba, when they were remodeling it

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they saw the hook the judgment of the first person to walk and interrupt on the many toes Mohamed they all say the robbery in the Saudi caca

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robbery, you know, the saw the hack, and we're all pleased with him. He's el Amin, his Asada, he's a truthful, he's a trustworthy, we're very happy with his judgment, no matter whatever he decides. So he saved them from a big calamity. This is all an indication that Muhammad Sallallahu sallam was recognized before the prophethood with the best of moral character.

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He didn't ask them to call him a solder for me, but they did because he deserved that. He earned his titles. So now when they started accusing him of being a sorcerer, and magician, as you say soothsayer, and many other things and mesh known.

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They accuse the Prophet sallallahu Sallam with insanity they said he's insane and you know how sometimes insane people say some wise things. So this is what they wanted to establish, establish that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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is in a state of insanity and that's why whatever he says sometimes doesn't make sense, but because he's insane.

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So Allah Almighty,

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started the surah with an oath. I swear to column one is through the pin and what they write down what they ascribe man, Sabina, Matera BKB made noon

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by the blessings by the favor of your Lord, you're not insane.

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When Allah Tala agilon Relman noon, and you will have an infinite reward, endless reward and compensation.

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When Nicola Hula, hula canali that's it.

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This single Aya animal who refuted all their misconceptions and false allegations, indeed, you are of a great moral character, which they already know.

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So when Allah Almighty wanted to admire the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he did not speak like some of the Sufi mystics about his eyes and how they they look like his hair and how tall was it and his height and his shoulders and his feet and his claws. He spoke about something that would benefit the entire not just his OMA, but mankind and others everything that exists he said what a NACA Lada hola can Avi, you are indeed on or off? Great moral character. SallAllahu Allison.

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Those characters brothers and sisters are hostile Hello. Manners in general are of two types, some of which are indigenous.

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And some are acquired. Some of these characters you're born with, you're born in a good society, you're born to good parents, and good family, you put you they put you in good schools, you have good tutors. So you know, you learned and you inherited these good traits from your family. No one used to lie in your family and you became truthful.

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Your family had been generous, you become generous like them because you can afford it, and so on indigenous. And the acquire traits is what you work hard in order to earn them even though maybe in the past four years. You're not like that, in the past four years your alcoholic in the past four years. She was an adulterous in the past 50 years, and before repentance in jail Lea on before accepting Islam. He or she was a gambler, whatever. So how will the percentage change? We'll discuss this in sha Allah. After we take a short break please stay tuned

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the number should appear on the bottom of the screen as well. We said the clerk are of two types, some of which are endogenous. Either you're born with or you inherit from your parents, your family your teachers are those who have a direct impact on you. And the other type is the acquired one how to acquire the good traits and get rid of the bad ones. After this call, inshallah. Solomonic

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assists our SEO from the case as salaam alaikum.

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Salaam Wa aleikum wa rahmatullah live but a cactus

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masala here what a turtle Welcome to the program sister su

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Sheikh recently we have been to one of the lectures in Jeddah, and speaker mashallah, everything he said that according to the Quran and Sunnah, but the thing was, the topic was that Jana, and he mostly he described about how the men will be going to the Cana and the woman also, but what are the benefits? And what are the fruits they will achieve? And in that, mostly he has emphasized on the woman, woman, woman. And, unfortunately, the crop

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behind in the mouth later on when the lecture was over a few of them but coming up didn't set a word regarding us. He's just said about the * about the husband. Maybe but I don't know those sisters they are hearing this are they important to that TV or not? But there are many sisters who have this question, why speakers speak this way? Why they don't speak about the rights the things what the woman are going to get into Jenna second thing is that the mostly mostly there are so many women who are tolerating their husband with all the servers in this dunya and it seems that the same person will they will get on the agenda is this not injustice? They are they they accepted them?

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Because due to the reason because they must be having some reason okay this is the Donia we have come what we got we have to just follow it everybody cannot be worse everybody cannot take hola if everybody will do that what will be happened to the children what will be the humor in this situation? So, what what are the benefits? And is it that there will be no right for the woman to choose which husband she wants? Or is it compulsory that he will she will get whatever the troubles you got? And what about those people? What about those women who are not married and the such such cases or they got that before the age of marriage or something like this?

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I know insha Allah you will explain it very nicely.

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I hope so. Thank you sister Asya. Okay, first of all,

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there are many ayat in the Quran emphasizing the fact that when it comes to reward and compensation, there is no difference between the Dewar's based on gender whatsoever. Rather, you find the Quran is saying Miami la sala ham Zakarin so who am I mean, fella nahi. And who hired for yerba while energy Xeon home ADRA home be axonemal Malou which means whosoever does good solid, mean Zakka in our own weather and male or a female, me Zachary now owns that there is no distinction between them, but as long as he or she is a believer, so we shall give them a good day life in this life, and we shall reward them according to the best of what they used to do in the hereafter. So that Nahalat

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verse number 97, again, there is no difference between male and female when it comes to reward and compensation. So no one will be given an extra reward because he's either male or female. Then in Surah Gron after the beautiful supplication so Allah Almighty said festa Jaya Balaam Rob Boone and Nila or do you know IML meaning

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ba Bouken doubt. Allah Almighty accepted

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The previous invocations which listed in the previous area, and he said,

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lead over your IML I really mean come in Zachary knows our answer, I will not waste the word of any of the deeds of any of you, whether male or female. So that is something you got to keep in mind. Okay. Now, when it comes to

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the speakers,

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I make errors. And sometimes, because I was busy with other commitments, I just happen to speak about one thing, maybe I did not recall other ahaadeeth. So in my talk, maybe I don't get to cover a particular area, it will be nice. If one of the audience would volunteer to communicate with me directly and say, I misunderstood this, what I wish you could have explained that further. So that it will be better to communicate with the Speaker himself directly, so that if he has a regular class, next class inshallah he will make it up. I remember in this regard now, even though you're talking about another person who's teaching there, but you know, I like to talk about myself. And I

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say that we all make errors. And I would like to hear from others. That's why we have the feedback account, in case that in one episode, you heard a segment, which she did not hear the segment before nor the segment after, she will think that the ship is only talking about hellfire. You never know.

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I remember once in our Islamic center in the States, I started a series of the husband and wife rights and obligations, and Subhanallah, I started with the rights of the wife, and the duties of the husband. And there are some people who used not to come to the masjid at all Muslims, but they were not practicing. So one sister heard about this subject. So she came, she had done it once, twice, three times. And she was very happy. And sisters told me that she started coming regular. And now she's bringing her family and

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and I think after a few times, she invited her husband, for the very first time to set a foot in the machine.

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We tried with him before so many times, and he wouldn't come.

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So when he entered the machine, today, on the day, it was time to start talking about the rights of the husband, upon his wife, he was sitting in front of me with a big cheerful smile, he was very pleased and happy and he said, You guys are great. I like to come here more often. Then I somebody one of the kids send me a piece of paper. And on it, the sister is asking me please stop talking about the husbands right and talk a little bit about the wives right.

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So it happens it may happen that the audience just

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got in the middle

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or the speaker had been talking about other issues previously or will be eventually talking about it in the future, which doesn't mean that you should neglect corrected him. So it would be nice if you send him a message or an SMS asking him that you know, there was a concern that the sisters want to know what about them because the Quran did not neglect them and I mentioned earlier

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what a lot of Matthew said in the single word or Surah Nahal or of Surah Al Quran and there are more ayat Yanni for instance, in in Surah cough a lot of medicines left home this pronoun is for masculine or feminine it covers both

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for all the inhabitants of Heaven law whom Ayesha or Nephi while other Enam as he says sister ser whatever you dream of whatever you think of whatever crosses your mind, whatever you will and wish in paradise, you will definitely get it well they never see it. And Allah says we even have more for them beyond what the room for. So you want to be with this person you want to be with regards to being patient in this life and enduring sometimes the harsh treatment of the of the husband or the wife it goes both ways by the way

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the Prophet sallallahu ala cinema said and Mara to the FE as well do you have an agenda? If if a person or if they're a couple enter paradise they will be a couple in paradise but with not not with the same traits of the dunya no fighting no more when as Ana few so don't worry him in reelin equation and Allah su Orem muda Kaveri so all the hurt feeling all the bad feeling all the the bad stuff, everything will be eliminated, there will be only love.

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There will be only compassion in paradise

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So agenda is an entirely different place that we do not measure it by the measurements of the dunya jozankei la heyland Sr SC. How to acquire good traits

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how to acquire good traits

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Abdullah had not read more in the hopper may Allah be pleased with him and his father said in Anil and mobitel loom in a molehill movie. Hello, we're in Cebu, Cebu think about it by the time I think this call is salaam oracle

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server from United Arab Emirates Santa Monica.

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I said I want to ask one question. This is not related to the topic of your discussion today but if he could be kind enough to answer

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the you know, one of my friend has had a cat and the cat passed away and I had gifted her a plant you know, a tree. The tree the name of the tree was frangipani it bears beautiful white flowers. So after the cat passed away, she's extremely angry with me and she says that, you know, in the Philippines in my country, this tree is an omen a bad omen. She is a revert to Islam. But in spite of all that now, you know she and her husband are saying that probably I gave the tree with a bad intention but the tree is a bad omen and because of that it is if the cat died and the tree is normally planted or found in cemeteries and graveyard in her part of the country, so I am not able

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to make her understand and I'm also feeling very sad and sorry that the cat passed away for whatever reason you gave her the tree as a gift. I gave her the tree as a gift take it back. Okay, take it back and you can send it to us here and know that if you will be more than happy inshallah to keep you in the studio. Yeah, but do you see where she just took the tree?

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Okay, I got your point. Okay. I'm just joking with regards to send in the tree here but the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam said in the Hadith ladwa. Believing in bad omens is some sort of shirk and associating partners to Allah in worship. We do not believe in that amens, nothing ever happens, no takes place in this universe. But whatever He wills, whatever he likes, whatever he approves, it is not a particular tree, or a black crow, or a certain number or a certain date or a certain day, which will affect any person's future or life with regards to the death.

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For whatever reason, the cat was supposed to die during this time on which it died. And for Elijah Jerome let's talk the moon and Saturn well as the rune last, known as Saturn well as the moon whenever the term has come, no one will be delayed whether the soul is the soul of a human being or the soul of an animal, no one will be delayed for a few seconds, and no one will die earlier than his or her term even for a few seconds. So since you said that she's revert and she's from a particular culture and the maintain this, you know, heritage, we need to take it easy with people and explain to them gradually that in Islam, there is no pessimism. There is no bad omens, we don't

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believe in that. It is not a tree which would cause a person to die. It is not

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you know, your

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fear or bad omen which will cause your future or the future of anyone to change rather you seek forgiveness for believing so and ask Allah subhanaw taala to pardon you.

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The acquired traits Abdullah ignore Madame Hatha but all the Allahumma said in MLM over the Hello Mia and obtaining knowledge can happen only through working hard to seek knowledge. Being patient to be knowledgeable, will help me with the Hello. lol means forbearing to be a forbearing person. Some people are not forbearing by nature, they will not born like that their parents will not forbearing they want to be forbearing practice. So control your anger. Try to pardon people. Take it easy even if you're very angry. control your temper. You try once twice several times are in nama sub roboter sub bar, how often we hear people saying that I have a very bad temper. I'm glad you recognize

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yourself and you have this very bad trait. What are you going to do about it? Oh, I was born like that. This is not enough. You gotta change it. And how will they change that? How can I be patient Subhan Allah foster care ma savara Hola Azmi min of Rasul. How many times Allah the Almighty commended the Prophet Salah Salem and the entire oma in his person to be

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Be patient, what is the meaning of the command of being patient? And the real Salalah Anya selama said, Lo Sasha de lugar Surah Vanek initially alidium Liquid Hafsa who and a lot of the strength is not being able to overcome people need them or whenever you wrestle them, you overcome them. Now, strength is to control your anger and to slow down on your temper whenever you are very angry. So you do not act upon.

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You do not act upon your anger. You do not fulfill what you're contemplating when you're angry. That's why Nabil Salalah Sanam forbid layak a little cloudy Wahoo Oh, man, it is not permissible for a judge to look into a case and judge between two opponents whenever he is angry. Because whenever he's angry is not himself. And now do you know why it is forbidden for one to divorce his wife while she's in the menses?

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Do you know why? As you understand due to the hormonal changes that happened to the woman during the menses, the PMs, she's not in a good mood. Maybe she didn't fix the food goodly. She did not apply go to her husband. So she is in a in a situation you're supposed to appreciate that you're supposed to understand that not to get angry with her and say your divorce. She may ask you divorce me, okay, I understand that you're under stress. Okay, we'll we'll postpone this matter. We'll discuss it later in a few days until she slows down until she calms down. Not because she's insane or crazy, you will get angry I get angry or get angry. But strength is to control yourself. Whenever you are

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angry. You don't act upon your anger. You don't do anything foolish, rather you be patient. And these qualities brothers and sisters can be acquired and can be earned. Simply through practice. You practice and you practice so that Allah Almighty will grant you this quality, the Hadith which I discussed before the break,

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well as overdue, I will mark the boy, the boy at the hara Academy. Also there is another segment in the Hadith, that the person will tell the truth and will continue to tell the truth. Yanni he will try his best to say the truth until Allah Almighty will make him a truthful person. So you've been trying, you've been practicing. You've been trying to avoid lying and overcome the desire of lying and as a result, Allah Almighty will grant you the quality of truthfulness have looked at that in the light. So do you try to be patient you try to control your anger and suppress your temper. So Allah Almighty will reward you by granting you this quality of sub of Helm of customer loyalty,

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which will be discussed in the following area. But that will be in the next episode in sha Allah until then I leave your own in the care of Allah Almighty Hakuna Kohli had Estelle Fulani, when salam ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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Allah love our God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He bought me humans to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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Used to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping cows fire and stones, sending the best with the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys are shipping cars fire and stores selling their best and cheapest

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