Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #232 Oct 3rd 2016

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The transcript discusses the importance of having a private private conversation in publicity, where one person is alone and the other is in a private room. The speaker emphasizes the importance of having a private private conversation in publicity, where one person is alone and the other is in a private room. The transcript also discusses the importance
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love and God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He bought me to be against religion to them. Allah God has been greatest

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glory to

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us to be the best and give his religion

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a Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala and ABBYY almost affair. So you didn't know Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi or Manuela, who about my dear brothers and sisters Welcome to another edition of your program. Guardians of the pie. So today's episode is number 279 in the blessing series of real solid heat, and it is a second episode in explaining chapter number 68. This chapter which is known as Babel, watery water Kosha bohat.

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Earlier, he had a chance to explain the difference between Anwar and Zod and Olara and as Zod Meanwhile, two words which cannot be interpreted or explained by simply a single English word, and that's why in the case of a zoo, a chapter which was studied before, it was explained by leading an ascetic life as three words. And here also that the English translator gave you the same translation leading an ascetic life. While there is a difference between a warra and Zewde, according to ignore ca em, Allah had mercy on him in his blessed book, a rule or the soul, he said allow third komyo Rowville akhara

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allow Turku marabou Phil ACARA

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is to leave what may cause you a harm in the hereafter. While zoo third Kumala amfa Zoo leading an ascetic life is losing interest in anything which is not beneficial, which is not useful, extra eating extra sleep extra drink in extra positions. So the person doesn't have that much interest doesn't have interest in anything which may divert him or divert his attention from the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa taala. So, some people as you studied in the chapter of azote, they chose to live a simple life they can afford if they want to live in a palace, but they copy and imitate the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in living a very simple life. Salalah Listen, let's go Zod Turku Mel I am

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fat, while Anwar

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is pertaining to leaving anything, which it is not haram not necessarily haram because there are two types of fora one which is why Egypt you must abstain from whatever is forbidden, you know, everybody is addressed with this command, but there is a war on men do or recommended and this is what is meant in the chapter is to keep a distance between you and what is forbidden by avoiding the doubtful matters and simply also by avoiding what could be what is halal, but there is a possibility that it could be dislike, or it could be haram, to leave it all together, in order to avoid the doubt in order to avoid falling into a sin. While in reality it is not a sin itself. Shall I say

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that again? Yes. If no chi and may Allah had mercy on him, said Zulu trachoma Allah and far, while Eduardo Turku man yo boo, rueful Ashura

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and water is to leave not to go near what could cause you a harm in the hereafter. Remember Abu Bakr Siddiq when his servant

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bought him some food and he realized that the source of the earning of the servant was haram and it was in January and before Islam, he could not tolerate keeping in his stomach something from haram. He put his finger in his throat and he threw up he vomited. He induced vomiting in order to take out anything that was from haram in his stomach, even though he is not blameworthy. Number one, he didn't know number two, it was not his own earning number three

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The servant has earned that even before Islam. So now it's lawful but he doesn't want to go near anything that is haram. So he did not only spit it out because it was his mouth in his mouth. No, it was already in his stomach. So he put a singer and he induced vomiting and he threw it up. So that's cold water.

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As when you go to choose between two fabrics to shoes, one, which is for two hundreds, okay, it's a very decent one name brand. And there is another one for 20 bucks, we'll do the same job would fulfill the purpose. So the person Souder that take the one for 20, and another person would go for the name brand and would brag about buying the most expensive clothes, his earning is halal, and his spending is halal, this is permissible. But as the head the one who's leading an ascetic life doesn't have the interest in what most people have, even though it is lawful. So he focuses on something much bigger and greater which is the hereafter and what Allah has prepared for the good

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doers in paradise, so nothing is tempting to him in this life.

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The first Hadith that we're going to tackle in this

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episode is Hadith number

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590. This hadith is narrated by EB Nima, but rather your Allahu Han con. I tell you to rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah salam for call. G that is L one L bear.

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Call tuna.

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what is smooth? Maha caffeine FC? What are they there for surgery? We're in after can Natsu we're after work. This is a Hadith which is categorized as Hassan affair is collectable.

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And remember, dare me and then most net? May Allah have mercy on them. And why have you saw him our bed? May Allah be pleased with him is a great companion, who came to visit the Prophet sallallahu Sallam on the ninth year after the migration. Then afterward he made hijra, because soon after that the Prophet SAW Selim passed away so he made hijra to Hashem where he died. May Allah be pleased with him, he only narrated

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11 Hadith, but he was very famous for being soft hearted, frequently crying out of the fear of Allah, anything that would remind him of Allah or the hereafter, he would shed tears, may Allah be pleased with him. So what is even the Mabbott or of the Allah who

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narrated? I came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him? And I asked him, and he asked me,

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have you come to inquire about elder

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piety and righteousness? I replied in the affirmative. Then he asked, and he said, Ask your heart regarding it. piety is that which contains the soul and come from the heart. And sin is that which causes doubts, and makes you not feel good about it? In your heart, even if people

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give you fat, were confirming that it is lawful, even if people give you the verdict, that it is perfectly legal. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in this hadith

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couple things, number one,

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one of the signs of the prophet hood, which is how Allah Almighty informed the Prophet sallallahu Sallam about what we're beside, even Amanda was thinking about and what he came to inquire about, even before we saw him, the Mabbott had to open his mouth. He asked him, yeah, well, this one is a little animal very well. So and I'll be, as Allah Almighty stated in the Quran, Lacell Bilwa. And two, well, Lulu HECM kibaale measurably well, not very well, I can l Burba. Then the eye goes on to explain that elder or righteousness the eye of Surah Al Baqarah entails believing in all the articles of faith, fulfilling all the acts of worship, having good manners, being charitable, being

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kind and all of that. So I'll Bill Jima or horsnell Holyoke

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to be a pious, to be righteous to be fulfilling all the commands of Allah Almighty whether the mandatory ones or the recommended ones, not only the mandatory ones, and to abstain from whatever Allah has forbidden that is piety, that is righteousness that is out there. And unless is the opposite of that, if you neglect any of the commands of Allah Almighty that is S, that's a sin.

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If you do anything which is forbidden or dislike, this is what is S.

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So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam predicted what wabi sabi of Namibia the softhearted companion, came to ask the Prophet sallallahu Sallam about even though where they are in the Mabbott, have just made the prophets of Allah, Allah selon. And he didn't get to spend that much time with him. But Allah has informed him that wherever your site is coming to ask you about the difference between Alberta?

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And the answer to this question lies in hundreds of volumes of books of fuck.

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And the books of jurisprudence, and the principles of jurisprudence are so old filk Alcala clear and the comparative fuck? It is not just a simple answer. You're asking about everything which is halal everything which is good versus everything, which is haram, everything which is forbidden, yet has no annual SME will bear

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is it certainly Oh, the Prophet of Allah. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to him, he gave him now the very comprehensive answer. Before I share with you the answer and explain what it means. A lot of people take things out of context. And they say that the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam is saying that you should be your heart.

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And you should consult your heart. Is this really what the Prophet salaallah Salah meant in his answer? Let's see. They said Al is smooth. He said first, Alberto McMahon net alienness. What man in Al calm.

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piety is that which contains the soul and confronts the heart. You don't feel bad when you do it. You feel good about it. You don't feel shy if you do it in public. Rather, you're doing something righteous, you're doing something which is pious. You don't feel embarrassed that if people were to know that you do this, even in private because it's perfectly legal. That is piety. And that is righteousness. Okay, wait a minute. So when you hide because you're doing something, then immediately the thing is haram, because it is the opposite of L bar, which is LF Yeah. When you have to lock the door behind you, because you want to be by yourself. What are you planning on doing? Is

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something haram? Most likely, that's why you want to make sure that even the closest people to you will get to see you. That is F but if it is something legal, if it is something, okay. When a woman I don't know who if she calls me she's going into shape she's calling a person who she assumes that he can give her a fatwa.

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And Salam aleikum. Wa alaykum wa salam, I have a question for you. Yes, bring on

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123 and she raised her story and she consults me with her cushion. And I give the answer. My wife is sitting, my kids are sitting, my colleagues are sitting, my employees are sitting or my friends are sitting, whether I'm answering in public or in the masjid or at home.

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It's a perfectly relationship. It's a relationship between a questioner and a person who's been asked, because the questioner assumed that he or she knows the answer. No problem.

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When I say hold on one second, please. Then I excused myself and I go to a separate room. And I make sure that the door is locked. Why? Now it is not a question about halal and haram. It's a question about Okay, tell me more. And

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one thing leads to another even though it's all on the phone that's s

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after he used to be better, answering people's question, helping them to give them a verdict or a fatwah guide them to what is good. Now having a private conversation, because you don't want anyone to hear what you will be talking to this woman over the phone is something which must be asked. Don't you agree? Yeah.

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a girl says

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I'm engaged.

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And my fiance

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occasionally gives me a call to check on me, because I'm going through my finance. And we make some arrangement as far as for the furniture, the wedding hole and all of that. Is that permissible? Do that in the presence of your parents, do not lock yourself in a room and talk to your fiance, because that would lead to discussing a love story. And what are you waiting, and one thing leads to another why because you are in private, you are not together physically, but you are together, virtually over the phone, and you assume that no one is with you. That's why you feel comfort in talking about things which you will not talk about it. If your parents, if your brothers and sisters

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are sitting next to you.

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He may ask you a question. An embarrassing question. Or a question shouldn't be asked, if your parents were sitting, you will neglect the question. And he will figure out that Oh, yes, somebody's sitting next to Yes, then this question was not appropriate. It was not better. This is what the prophets, I'm just giving examples here. And there are tons of examples. When

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somebody is working anywhere, whether in a governmental sector, or in a private sector. And he's asking me, Chef, I am the Acquisition Manager of this company or this firm. And basically, sometimes, I'm in charge of buying all the needs of the company. So sometimes the wholesaler whom I buy from, you know, they give me a gift.

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And I never asked for anything. I don't even take permission. I know this is haram. But it this gift lawful for me to take.

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So I answer indirectly and I say, Does your boss does your employer know that? You're taking this gift? You're accepting this gift? The Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave another answer when he said, if you're not working for this job,

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if you're not taking this occupation, with this business with this person with this sales man ever, ever think of giving you a gift? Of course not. You're gonna say? Of course not. Why not? Because the know him. So our beneficiary and he is beneficiary, he is giving you a gift so that you will be lenient towards him next time or perhaps, that you don't have to inquire about the prices in other places. You can just call your friend say hey, do you got these tubes, pipes, engines? Whatever? Yeah, how much I trust you will buy it from you. Why? Why didn't you do your job? Why didn't you investigate and check out different providers in different companies, maybe a cheaper price and a

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better quality? This is what you are higher for? Because you know that this guy gave me a gift last year, so I owe him something. And perhaps if I make the purchase from him, they give to be bigger decile as Qureshi, bribery.

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Oh, no, no, no, no, don't call it this name. Don't take it this way. It is not me. It is a reality and that's why the Prophet SAW Selim said the answer is El baru but my net alienness. What is a hill club? You feel comfort in your heart when you do it, you don't feel ashamed? And you're not afraid that anyone will get to know

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if you say that.

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I'm going out for lunch. And you invited you colleague, you employee, a female, and she's married.

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What if her husband shows up at the same restaurant? And he saw you both sitting, face to face, eating together, dining together, have lunch together? laughing and smiling together? Would he be very happy to see his wife in this position? Or no, I don't think so. Then it's haram

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and baru, Mothma and NetScaler he knifes what my Lal called What about if

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you see a perfect example of Albert, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam was in Turkey. If Sophia came to visit him, he decided to escort her. On the way home. It was dark. He saw two companions of Al and saw the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not give a shaitan a chance to whisper to them who is this woman? With a now she's covered from head to toe. She could be somebody who came to or maybe he got married another woman. Maybe he's engaged

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Prophet sallallahu Sallam doesn't even allow their companions to go to the level of thinking. So he cuts the role of Satan and his whispers, and he says, Allah is likoma. Stop.

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Then he approaches them and he says, she's my wife, Sophia.

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Oh, no, no, no messenger of Allah would never think bad will few. It's not about you. It's about reality. In a shelter on edge. Even let me add a modular Domina rope. This is our days. Satan whispers to every one of us why give him a chance? So when you're walking with your wife, that's why is her office? The word? What is Alicia publicity?

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When a woman says, This brother Cher is proposing to me and he wants to marry me. He's already married. But he has only one condition to keep this marriage a secret, I say, and how would you go out with him?

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How would you live out with him? And if you have to go to the hospital or your child is sick, or child is going to the school? How are you going to work out together in this isn't this public appearance? You know, so we have to be very clear and obvious from the beginning. Whenever you do something, which is correct and rightful, you're not ashamed, you're not afraid. You see the difference between asking the customer

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Okay, the bill is 959 and three cents. And he pays that much money in front of everyone and you collect it and you count it and you give him the change and the balance. You do that with comfort. Why? Because you're taking your right the company's right and you're giving him his right. But whenever you are, they're asking for a gift or bribery. Or whenever he is offering one how to people normally do it puts his hand in his pocket. And he hides it beneath the paperwork and says, Here is the whatever he's hiding, why? Because he doesn't want people to see it. Perhaps there are surveillance cameras, you too, are afraid, then you behave like a seed because you are a thief.

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okay. So look at the answer of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam when he says, I'll build them up Muhammad Allah hiddenness. What?

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Well, if is opposite to that, LS mama haka fineness? What are the facade? We're in attack? And so what after a while is, is the sin is what causes doubts,

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and disturbance in the heart. Even if people give you fatwah and say it's okay. Oh, wait a minute. So not only that LS is what you are ashamed to do it in public, because sometimes the entire community becomes corrupt.

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Maybe you can go out to the woman was not a lawful to you because you're living in a Muslim society, because of the neighborhood. But hey, we're spending the summer in Paris, me and my colleagues, whenever I was a student, and I won several prizes, and they take the idea of students to travel to Europe. So they give us a training for a week or so. And they deliberately mingle boys and girls. And they teach us that in the West, you're not like home, you feel free, you can do whatever you want to do. So if you happen to see your colleague, they call her a friend. She's hanging out or somebody she is hugging somebody, she's kissing somebody is none of your business because this is

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perfectly legal there. So a lot of people take it from there and they think, well, you are in a non Muslim society where people do worse than that. They commit adultery in public. I'm not committing adultery, I'm just going out with her. I'm just kissing her in public. Who is she? She is a woman who's not lawful to you. But people perceive it as okay. That's why the Prophet Salah salem said even if people perceive it as perfectly legal,

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if it is haram, it is haram and you won't feel good about it in your heart. Who and whose heart can give that verdict? Not everyone, because the hearts are three kinds. We'll discuss that in sha Allah after Otoki after we take a short break, so please in sha Allah, I want you to read for a little bit and we'll be back in a couple of minutes. Please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back is Stef T callback, consult your heart. That was the answer that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam began delivering his answer with two words in the mouth, but without even having to ask a question. When you say that S L and L very well if you came to inquire about pi t. And since he said, Yes or messenger of Allah, I said, l baru.

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Magma in that era, he neffs WHAT THE * calm but before that, he said, consult your heart. Ask your heart regarding it. piety is that which contains the soul and come from the heart, while the sin is that which causes doubts and disturbance in the heart. Even if people give you fatwah, even if people confirm to you, it is perfectly okay. Again, and again and again. Now, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, consult your heart. Ask your heart when nowadays people as share Google, because you can get all the answers that you want to

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all the way from It's haram. And it's a major sin to even it is perfectly legal. 100% halal. And Walla he

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even severe than that, like what? Once I went to

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get some cash from the bank, so the bank or give me a contract and said, Would you like to sign up for life insurance as an a Muslim country?

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So I said, Of course not. And then I started a chat with him looking like a man with a beard dressed up with an Islamic outfit. What made you think that I would even think of agreeing to a contract of life insurance? He said, well, because again, moved, he said it's halal. Not only that, he showed me a fat Watch says that, that companies should provide and force the employees to have life insurance.

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from haram from it's similar to gambling, and it contains rebar, not just to Halal now he wants to impose it to on people, on companies on corporates and only individuals SubhanAllah. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Ask your heart, consult your heart. A woman came to me and asked me that my husband divorced me. The typical answer before saying whether this divorce is effective or not is to ask, What did he say? And how many times in what condition? So the woman shocked me and she said he divorced me 30 times and said three times she said 33 Zero? And were they all at once. So now she said over several years 30 times and you say my husband divorced me? Or do you still think that he's

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your husband? Well, some people say Oh, some people. Some people made you live with a man who is totally stranger to you because he's not your husband anymore.

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Third, 30 times Allah Almighty says upon our former return

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for himself on the MA roof in LTC, home BSN, you can only give the horse twice and it will be revocable, the third is irrevocable. And when some people come to ordinary people like us and ask about Hello, honey, say why don't you go and ask here and there in the official fatwah centers and say I don't trust them. Why not? Because he doesn't want to get an answer, which I always say it's okay. It's halal. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to him, Mr. Bud, which means that he said that to all of us. He said, What, Steph? Curry back when a lot of people the hustle did they want to do anything they will find a fatwa that supports it. Somebody wants to buy a house on mortgage and

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wants to pay interest, whether to buy a car to buy a house, oh, to marry a woman who the just had, she had just broke up with a boyfriend or he used to sleep with her and heroin he will find somebody who would make it legitimate for him somehow.

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Oh, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said Ask your heart. I asked my heart and says cool. It's perfect. No, not any heart. We're talking about the living heart.

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At the heart of the person who is religiously committed, who prays on time, was very keen to do what pleases Allah subhanaw taala, who normally stays away from prohibitions, such heart is still alive, but at Zinio MOBA, su Yong, Allah and for Oman, wherever you 11 Atala halocarbon Celene. The sound heart, the liver and heart is the only thing which will benefit you on the Day of Judgment. The sick heart is the heart, which is confused. Because it's full of sins. It's absorbed masse with desires. It's on an off the did heart is the heart of the person who doesn't recognize what is right from what is wrong. Cal Kuzey mucha here, so such person you cannot ask him to consult his heart. Because

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whatever he desires is lawful. Whatever he doesn't like it, I think it should be made haram. And this is very common nowadays. A lot of people upon themselves as moved to their own. We have a serious problem. I've met some of our students of our students have, you know, very young kids, they attend a course six months, six months, here or there. I don't want to mention we're particularly their parents want their children to be renowned to be known. So they send them for six months. And they get the lockup, the title, Mufti.

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He's a kid. It's okay, even if he's young, and he's a multi if he is qualified. If he attended a course of years and years of, you know, undergraduate education, then postgraduate education, and he has a jazz app. But I can imagine that all what we studied for 30 years, you can just study it in six months, and become a Mufti move it according to what madhhab just bear in the title, in a community in North America, in a community in Europe, makes ordinary people lame and they want to get a federal city consult this person. How is it possible for a person who is Blanco

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when it comes to religious sciences, to become a Mufti? Whenever he is consulted in halal and haram, he gives his own verdict based on what is very problematic.

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On the other hand, other people will say,

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I have seen how people differ and the scholars are always different amongst each other. And that's why I dismiss all of that, I follow my heart Whatever my heart tells me, this is what I follow. Both are wrong Alhamdulillah until today, the entire world not only the Muslim world, the entire world is full of Muslim scholars, learn people, we all recognize them. We can ask them we can consult them and whatever is halal should be considered halal. Whatever is best should be treated as better. And whatever is a sin should be treated as a sin. But a person with a sick or with a dead heart cannot determine what is lawful and what is a lawful the prophets Allah Salam gave very obvious markers as

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how to recognize what is better and what is sin. Only if you still have a sound. The next Hadith brothers and sisters is Hadith number 591

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That's a very interesting Hadith

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seven Hadith narrated by a companion you may

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hear his name for the very first time

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and Abby said water

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probably Allah Who an oak maternal Harris, and who does it Natalie Abby ahead of me as is for at humara to call it in the Roboto kappa. Well let it cut this award your behalf FERPA Allah Akbar Allah Mo and Nikita botany well Bertini for Akiva Illa Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Erbil Medina, fossa Allahu Akbar Allah cave, work at kill Farakka Akbar Wanaka. Had ZOSEN Raya Arawa will Buhari

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AKBA Admiral Harris may Allah be pleased with him, whose nickname is Abu Silva reported that he had married the daughter of Abu Jihad Ignasi

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He's and a woman came to him and said she had circled both aucuba and his wife whenever they were kids.

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And that he replied, Yanni off but even in Harris replied to the woman, am I am I aware that you saw to me and he did not inform me either. So we're off by Edna Harris may Allah be pleased with him, wrote to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him in Medina and he put the matter before him. A messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, how can you continue to be her husband? After what you have been told? So Akbar, Adnan Hadith may Allah be pleased with him, therefore divorced her and she married another man. The hadith is collected by a man will highly what we got here brothers and sisters. We are a beautiful demonstration of

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Allura and avoiding the doubtful matters and what could be worded and could be recommended words such as staying away from anything, which is certainly haram. You know, it's haram. And people recognize it as haram

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they're commended when there is a difference of opinion when there is a doubt and so you choose to distance yourself from the doubt.

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to leave anything which can cause you a harm in the hereafter. Because if you're religious commitment,

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and this hadith Rothman and Harry Thoreau the Allah who got married to a woman, she's the daughter of Abu Habib, now she's a woman and this woman was a black servant, a black slave.

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Her name is mentioned, but it doesn't really concern us What was her name? What concerns us that this woman came to ask them for a sadhaka so they were kind of late they were delayed. So she said to them, how do you do so? Well, I have circled you both. I'm your mother due to suckling. As you know that insert in the area which listed those who are forbidden to be taken in marriage forever and number 23 of surah and he said we're Omaha to community are gonna come with a how to command Arabba

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and an abuse on the Lord SlMs Eid Yeah, Romo Mina robbery, Maria Romo Mina nessa

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the idea begins with her Rima Talay come on my hair took webinar took a while to want to wahala to webinar to Fe webinar to do my hair to community are gonna come this is the reference in the eye has been made unlawful for you to marry your mother's This is the beginning. And then when we go to the segment which is highlighted with red we're on my head to community of Donna calm. So the biological mothers, the mothers who give birth to you, it is eternally forbidden to take them in marriage, your sisters, your daughters, likewise your aunt's paternal maternal, your nephew, your nieces

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were on the head to community or Donna calm and those women who circled you when you were babies. Second you give them the title on my hat. compare between omega hat here and omega hat on top. Omega hat on top the women who delivered you will give birth to you who bore you in their wombs and delivered you well Mahato community of Vanakkam they will not the biological mothers but they circled you circling which makes a woman who cycled the baby like his mother must be at least five fulfilling times. So each time the child will take the breast milk until he says fine. And then if he takes another mean even if it happens throughout the day in one day, five fulfilling times until

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he satisfied then another time until is satisfied whether it's scattered over several days for weeks or months as long as it is within the suckling period, which is while while in order to order the Hoonah hula inika Millenium and order a multimode wobba Within two years after two years after the winning, it does not forbid even if the milk is given to somebody in a glass or on a copy will not make the relationship between the suckling woman or the woman who provided the milk and the child

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She that would not make her his or her mother anymore.

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So here this woman claimed

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that when Earth Batman Harris was a baby, and also his wife, the daughter of Abu haben Aziz, when they were both babies, I circled you both. How could you treat me like that?

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Oh, so even though Harris objected to that, he said, Mo and Nikki are teeny, teeny? Well, I'm not aware that you circled me. And he did not tell me either.

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Okay with that dismiss the hope? No, even if the person did not know that when he was a baby, a woman, breastfeed him and his wife, now they are married. But she did claim that I breastfed them both five times or more when they were babies. In this case, what would be considered is her statement. And in this case, the shahada Of A Single Woman is enough. Why? Because these matters, breastfeeding. Normally only women witness. I cannot say you need to bring a man to say yeah, you breastfed his child for five fulfilling times, not necessarily. So their shahada, the testimony of a single woman is considered what he denied that he said You neither told me nor I heard of that. Then

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this incident happened on off button and Harris and his wife were living in Mecca. For rocky Bay, Elena is on the line in Salem, which means Rafa, ednan Harris me I love you peace with him, immediately travelled from Mecca to Medina, he wrote on the back of his camera on the back of his horse. Why? Because the matter is very serious. It's a very dangerous issue here. A woman claims that when myself and my wife are babies, she circled us both, which means that this woman happened to be a mother to both of us, due to circling. And that means myself and my wife are considered brothers and sisters, due to circling not due to the family lineage. So he went to the Prophet

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sallallahu sallam,

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and the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Takala cave, what kill? How can you continue to be her husband, after what the woman have said? So he considered the shahada of a woman, even though the husband and the wife did not know about it, because basically, they were babies. So we're off by hidden and herreth. May Allah be pleased to him return home, and

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raka hair, we need to highlight that word Raka. Here in English, they say, the food he divorced her. That is not true. Nor is right. So why did I leave it right there where I left it because it's sitting in books this way. So I want to elaborate on that when you read it. You understand that? There was no marriage to begin with. So there is no need for divorce. That's called Farah

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Farakka. He happened to marry his sister by mistake. So there is no need to say after they came to find out that their brothers and sisters, what are the two family lineage or the two suckling? There is no need to say, I divorced you. He divorced her if you are a husband and wife but you're not. So that is called moussaka. That's why the right term FAFSA rock, aha, so he left her and she got married to somebody else, because now she's not married. She will just have to wait until she is verified that she is not pregnant, which is Ida then she can marry somebody else but without divorce because they're not married. Look at the water.

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You got a testimony from a woman? Maybe she is lying, and maybe she's telling the truth.

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And you would live to the rest of your life, knowing that there is a possibility that you are married to your sister, which is Hara.

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And look at the concern and the keenness of eternal Harris. He immediately jumped on the back of his right. And you traveled from Mecca to Medina, we're talking about 500 kilometres to console the Prophet Salah Salem, what shall I do? And the prophets Allah Selim did not say, Well, we have to verify it. How could you keep her as a wife? After all what had been said? The woman said that she breastfed both of you.

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So immediately, he did not argue the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he returned home. And he told his wife that or his sister, you're not my wife. And you're free. You can marry somebody else. A question for you. Were they blameworthy? No.

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They will not blame, were they? Because they did not know. What about if there were any children? Will they be ascribed to the Father? I mean, would they carry the name of their biological father? Yes, the well, why? Because this relationship was assumed to be a legitimate relationship. But they did not know that's why it is legitimate. So there is no punishment, there is no sin, but the sin will be their resume after they have been informed. And it has been confirmed that they are not legal to be a husband and wife. This is just an example of how the worker could lead a person to separate for a moment he just figured out that hey, me and her were best fit together when we were

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young. So that means together Yanni by the same woman, even if they're not together at the same time. So basically, I'm not allowed to stay with this woman for Farakka he immediately parted himself from her and she met it somebody else that hadith is collected by the man Buhari brothers and sisters, we actually went out of time and inshallah To be continued Next time until then I leave you all in the care of Allah who Kohli had our stuff Allah Allah Allah Karim masala la Juan Jose de anima Hum I didn't want to add he was he was Salam wa Salaam Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh

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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He bought me humans to be the best and gave his best religion to allah God has the greatest

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glory to Him on a quest to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving gold about and in paradise? We're shipping cows fire and stones, sending their best with the cheapest

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day you know that you're getting all about * bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling their best and cheapest

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