Gardens Of The Pious #129 Apr 1st 2015
Channel: Muhammad Salah
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Salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu Smilla rahmanir rahim. Praise be to Allah Allah when we praise Him and we seek His help of Allah Allah guides is a truly guided one and whomsoever Allah leaves astray, none can show him guidance. I bear witness that there is no God worthy of worship but Allah alone and a bear witness that Muhammad peace be upon him is less is his last messenger brothers and sisters, I'd like to welcome you to another live edition of your program Guardians of the pious today's episode in the series, and then episode number 152. Will continue explained in chapter number 34. And that is going to be the third episode in explaining the chapter which is
known as the Alessia Toby Nyssa, or English the recommendations with regards to women.
We discussed many a hadith and Kabul verses in the beginning of the chapter. And that showed us how much emphasis Allah Almighty and His Messenger SallAllahu Sallam had put
on the importance of the current treatment of women, let be that woman is a mother, or a wife or a sister, or a daughter. To the extent that a man will never we may Allah have mercy on him, decided to single out a whole chapter which is known as a lawsuit to be said, even though in the previous chapter number 33, the chapter was talking about the recommendation of the kind treatment to the weak to the poor, and to you know, the humble ones, which could cover women as well. But he's singled out the chapter in order to emphasize the importance of the country's men of women. And obviously, you would not find that in any other book, other than the Quran, or that much emphasis
on the recommendation with regards to how to treat women in other books other than the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and keep in mind, these are yet and these are Hadith had been stated 14 150 years ago. So this is not something that was born today or yesterday, no or recorded recently. Rather, it is since the beginning of this Blissett Tao of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam,
and anyone wants to discuss women rights.
They have to keep in mind the condition of women before the prophethood of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam before the revelation of the Quran.
Before the establishment of the Muslim state, where if you read you condition about the conditions of women, and their status before Islam, whether amongst the Arab independent Salah Peninsula, or in the Roman Empire, or in the Persian Empire, you will realize that women have no role to play in the community, but to please men, and they have been utterly mistreated and humiliated, to the extent that in Mecca, if somebody was married, and his wife died, and he died, and he left behind a wife, and children. So the children of this person, if this woman was not their mother, like she is a stepmother for innocence, the eldest son would inherit his wealth and would inherit his mother, who
happened to be his stepmother, who will inherit her as well. Then he would cast his self upon her, and she will become his property is belonging. And it's entirely up to him, whether to decide to embrace her to take her to Himself, where he can actually have intimate relationship with her because she's become his like a property, or he can give her to somebody else. This is how women have been mistreated before Islam, in addition to the image of a woman, the common idea that a woman is a source of disgrace. That was all before Islam was very common.
And, and Allah subhanaw taala revealed many ayat and disregard that have the Macan people and the whole peninsula. Whenever somebody will receive a baby girl, he would consider this as like a bad omen, and it's such a disgrace. Then the Quran recounted what they used to say. I am sequel who Allah who wanted me to sue for to rob Elesa Mayor comun doubleshot Hudsonville own wala drew masa then will who will convene whenever any form is given the Bushra Allah subhanaw taala call it Bucha Agla tiding that your wife just give birth? The first question will be a boy or girl. If it is a girl, is what the watch for his face will darken. And it will be like he was humiliated and he's in
a disgrace and he doesn't know what to do. Then he will have the decision limited between either to bury the baby girl alive. Or if he were to keep her alive. Then he would live in disgrace This is a number 58 or soret and I am sequel who Allah Hoon in any other su Fedora Elesa Mac Moon how evil is what the US to judge then Allah subhanho wa Taala said on the Day of Judgment those who happen to be involved in this crisis
of burying the Lord was alive out of fear of shame Allah Almighty said we're either male or that also elect be a them been kottelat Look the question supposed to be to the mother but imagine Allah will present a question to the baby girl those baby girls who have been buried alive so in it will be as the A them been quoted What wrong did you do to deserve to be buried alive to be killed? And obviously the answer is the blame is all entirely upon the Father. So that will make it even worse as means of punishment to the person who got rid of his daughter out of shame so that it that we're
number eight and mine were either now older too. So a lot b a is and Ben Kotler. So, I want you to imagine this challenge, where these traditions are cultural traditions are you know, no revisable from the rest of the cultural traditions, very, very few people will consider having a girl like, okay, not a good thing, but they will think it is okay. Things happen.
So when the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam now teaches his companions and teaches the OMA that hey, there is no difference between a male and a female.
When it comes to the armor, the responsibilities the duties and the rights
may monogamy Lasala Hammond Zachary in our own set well who are men on felon who here know who hired on to you button? Well, energy z A gnome a Jerome B is an American who I'm alone I am number nine do sort of denial, which means whosoever does good deeds while he or she is a believer, whether male or a female, in zakat in our own answer, whether male or female. This is something that people use not to consider in the past but Islam stablish that
equality between the genders when it comes to duties and responsibilities, good deeds and bad deeds and accountability. Then in Surah, Tila hijab in non Muslim in our Muslim merit, you are not money in our minute you will quality in all Canada to you know Allah subhanaw taala specifically addressed the Muslims men and women,
the believers men and women, the righteous men and women, the humble ones, men and women, the fasting ones men and women and so on the those who give any charity men and women to emphasize that the address is for both and both are responsible to and to answer the call of Allah subhanaw taala and no one's role will be diminished because of the gender. Then finally, you find in surah Taha gerat, Allah subhanho wa Taala says
in the Quran, Macomb and Allah he at kharkom which means, indeed, the novelist one of all of you is the one who is more righteous. So, what determines superiority is not the gender, what determines the superiority is not as we mentioned in many chapters, the position or the properties or the
you say, the wealth or the position that the person is holding, rather, it is the
relationship that they hold with Allah subhanaw taala how righteous they are. Now in this hadith, I thought it is very important to share with you this introduction
Because this hadith and the following couple of Hadith are again in the advisable we have to study all the study them all together and know the essence why the Prophet sallallahu sallam said this at this time. So to put everything in the proper context, in this hadith which is narrated by Rama was Lucia me Radi Allahu Anhu. And who sent me another year Salallahu Alaihe Salam if you had written whether you're cool,
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I'm ignorant was Andrew shimmy may Allah be pleased with him the rated that he had heard the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi salam staying on the farewell Hajj that means during his speech on the Farewell Pilgrimage after praising and glorifying Allah and admonishing people, he said, three women,
they are light captors in your hands, you do not owe anything else from them in case that they are guilty of open indecency, then do not share beds with them and hit them lightly. But if they return to obedience, do not have recourse to anything else against them. You have rights over your wives, and they have rights over you. Your Rights is that they shall not permit anyone you dislike to enter your houses. And the rights is that you should treat them well. In the matter of food and clothing. The word our n which means captives is plural of irony,
plural of Ania. And the word irony here for feminine means a captive. The word BB is to beat or to hit or to slap. And MOBA is opposite of coffee if mobile means Arsh. So, in this hadith, the Sahaba said, and not only the Sahaba mini companions, because in hajat over there, we're talking about approximately 124,000 companions 124,000 companions were performing Hajj along with the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and hold that hold whatever that is a very comprehensive speech and view Salah Salem addressed the OMA with many things that will benefit them in the dunya and in the hereafter. It is really worth studying one of the teachings after he praised Allah and exalted Him then He will
have a NASA He reminded them with Allah subhanaw taala. He made mention of the rights of women, and he said, it's also been said, you hire the word Estelle, so I enjoined upon you to be kind to women, my wasa yeah my advice to you is to be kind to women to treat them kindly. That is is also from given once a year we're given an advice Why is it also be nice that you highlight why not a sow sow berry jelly Hydra?
Why is also been reset your Hydra history is very important to know the history, the time, geography and the cultural traditions. So to put everything in the right perspective, why did the Prophet sallallahu sallam said Estelle so Benissa Hira any do not say is also very, very higher. He said so because of the common Mistreatment to women. But now when Islam is being crowned with the conquest of Makkah, and this huge number is performing Hajj along with the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he wanted to establish the Islamic traditions which would overwrite the cultural traditions
In many aspects in this speech, he spoke about overriding the dealing with riba including his uncle Allah best used to lend people money and take interest. So he began by evoking and counsel canceling any transaction based riba that his uncle had established, so people would have just to pay them, pay him what they owe the character of some without any interest. So he demolished many cultural traditions which are based on evil. And he stated the good ones. And amongst the evil traditions, cultural traditions is a mystery to women. So I said Esther also been nice,
because it was men who have full control over women, women would never go to work would never go out rather, they were exactly I went plural of Ania. Like once she married this guy, and she's in his house. Now. She's had she has been transferred from her parents house to this person's house, and he has a full control over her. She would not even leave her house without his permission. That's why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam use the word I when she doesn't earn her living, she does not have any position and she's living in her husband's house. If this is the case, then be careful. treat them kindly with gentleness because this is the command of Allah subhanaw taala. On to you. Then forward.
Furthermore, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said in case of an open indecency, the word and fascia
is mentioned also in surah. Allah Imran among the traits of Alma Dokin well Medina either follow fisherton I was all mo enforcer Hamza Corolla festhalle thoroughly don't obey him. On a year flew by gemera Jamia and illallah wa Manial Feroz xinova illallah wa ala Musa Ruhollah Metha Woombye Allah Mon, the word the fascia in this area refers to any indecency open in decency, the amorphous three inside refers to the major sins to the major sins. So if they committed a major sin and they repented and they did not insist, then Allah subhana wa Taala will accept the repentance granting forgiveness and furthermore, they are perceived as righteous ones. Okay, well hit that little
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
If a woman have committed an open indecency, the husband may devotion that happens. He may decide to send her home to her family too, and her family will even be harsher on her, but the Prophet sallallahu Sallam proposed if the problem is fixable, then he suggested Salalah salaam he said it to be fair he shot a MOBA unit for him fun. If they do, then the way to discipline them. Number one, I'll head rueful Maharajah ahead, rueful Maharaja means to not to share bed with her Jani not to have an intimate relationship with the wife while you're a wonderful Maharajah and then the salatu salam said Letta 100 ala Phil moja which means that the abandoning or both cutting the wife is not
in an open and in a public place or at home in front of the kids and in front of family members know that is only between you and her. Keep it on a very small scale for her Jerome Nephele Medaka so he specifically mentioned a mob jack which is a place of lying down your bed, okay, Yanni, you may discipline her but not share in bed with her so she would ask herself what is wrong? Okay, this is a way to discipline her because of 123 this is what I heard, and it is not enough to say hurt. It is something that it's other something that you are certain off, but you have to verify if there are indications, you do not just become judgmental based on suspicion because Allah Subhana Allah said
in Surah gerat is 10 Evil Kathira min Avani in bada Vani Ethen.
Avoid much of suspicion because
most of suspicion is evil. If you don't have a proof if you don't have an indication, a solid proof. So in this case, if we have a proof number one I'll headrow Phil mangia to avoid share in bed with her. Number two. He said what the Rebbe Hoonah Barban Hiram Obara, they used to be they used to kill their wives and
They will not be even blamed for that. Like they were in full position of women, whether it's a wife, whether she's a wife or a sister or a daughter. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said, that must be ye are more likely,
who will decide or determine whether the heading or the slaving is lightly or harsh? Abdullah had not best who is known as third of June man who Quran, the greatest interpreter of the Quran except plain, he said, under Heading by the toothbrush, Demi SWAC, I'm holding me sweat.
Okay, of course, there are bigger miswak. But this is what I found right now. What does it mean? If I if you have a child, and you try to discipline him? And you say,
or don't do that, again? Is this hitting? Is this like beating is some sort of torture? It isn't. It is a sign of this approval. It's a sign of trying to discipline the child. So it is not the purpose of hitting to beat or to hurt? No, he said, lawyer MOBA and how do they know that the heading which is not painful, not severe,
is only by using the toothbrush. It is because what Abdullah hidden our best may Allah be pleased with him, say it and explain. And it is not up to me to describe it or explain it unless there is a reference in this regard. Keep in mind, this is one narration and one indication talking about that permitted the Bob with a tool like that and making sure that it is not harsh. Then in another Hadith, he said laptop buddy bill would have allowed to come back make sure that you never touch her face.
While to come back, do not be insulted. Some people abused their spouses they call their wives names.
That is not permissible in Islam. And it's a sin, slapping somebody in the face on the face whether it's a servant, a child, a worker, a soldier, under your command in the army, or anyone that is not permissible even your own child that is not permissible in Islam absolutely forbidden. And that's why when people who listen and the do the boxing
will say that's not permissible because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam forbade hitting the face. This is something that Allah created an honor. So it should be respected and an a Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam forbade Well, I thought that he will watch her while to compare these two prohibitions. Then one more time the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam said, you know, and he's surprised how could a person be his wife, like he's beating a servant, then by the end of the day, he calls her to bed and he expects her to share a bed with him. That is not imaginable. So when you put all these ahaadeeth together, in one mold, you understand what the Prophet sallallahu wasallam meant. Add to
that hadith which also Imam on our way, you may Allah have mercy on him listed, which is Hirooki hydrocone. Le, well, Anna hydrocone. If you have goodness in yourself, the person who should enjoy this goodness most is your wife is your spouse is your family members, your children, your parents, but if you are in public, kind man, very delicate, very nice. People say I have never seen anyone nicer than him. But at whom you're a monster, and you're holding a whip and a stick and beating people and doing domestic violence, then this person is not a true Muslim. This is what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Hi Eurocom Eurocom the best of you is the one who's good to his family. Then
he said well, no Pharaoh calmly Ali, and he is the role model the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, I am the best of all of you to my family as his wives lay around. Describe them son Allah Allah Salam as well. Then he also said
Ella in hola como Hola. And he said, Come hubco holiness, eco Malcolm haka the mutual rights and obligations. He said, sallAllahu Sallam indeed, you do have rights upon your wives, and they do have rights upon you. So do not always ask for your rights to be fulfilled. While you will be negligent of your duties towards your wives. This is something that the Arab are not used to, they will not use to before the statement of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and before Islam started establishing these etiquettes and educating the community. They did not consider anything like that, as also be explained in the following Hadith
So he said, you have rights upon your wives, and they do have rights upon you. And that is in the Quran in surah Al Baqarah. Allah Almighty said, while Hoonah Miss Lu Lydia, Allah Hina, Bill maruf Liahona. This the plural of the pronoun is for feminine Liahona refers to the wives, they do have rights.
Or they do have hook law. Now for them, for the spouses, there are rights similar to those who charge you upon them.
It's a win win situation, do you have rights and the O duties, and you guys have rights and you owe duties. Likewise, that is in surah, Al Baqarah 228.
Then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam started explaining some of those rights, he said, for hubco, Comala Hiner. For if, for instance, amongst your rights upon them, allow you enough room for OSHA comenta Crotone. And the following statement, well, then a few ut complementor, Carone. And these two, two statements, complementing each other, which means simply that they should not allow anyone to enter your house, or sit on your bed, or list if you permit. And this permission or permit does not necessarily have to be on every single time that somebody is visiting. Like my brother in law, my parents in law, they come and visit whenever they want to know probably most of
you know my nephews and nieces, her family members, they come and I treat them. Here I'm not talking about me personally, but I'm talking about as a Muslim.
My wife's family, they come and they visit whenever as long as their own harem, their parents in law, the brothers in law, the sisters in law, nephews, and nieces, all of that. But, you know, her cousin, and her husband, or cousin and his wife, they want to come and visit, it must be a permission because me there are now some men are involved. Or not for Mahara. So if there is a mutual understanding that this person from her family, whose father or mother, brother or sister, they come every once in a while and they visit or they have lunch with us, I do need to get a permission every single time they come and visit, unless there is an issue with a particular person.
Sometimes some people out of envy, they destroy the marriage life, since we're involved pretty much in marriage counseling. Sometimes I advise you know what, it will be better if you ask your sister to slow down on visiting you. Because this sister is having problems with her husband. And whenever she comes, and she sees that the family is experiencing joy or happiness, or maybe the other family is this fortunate she envies and she started talking about this talking about that. Every single time she visits, she leaves the house on fire. So in this case, the husband says, You know what, I don't like my sister to visit you here anymore. Oh, there is a reason in this case, that is your
right that is your hap and must be fulfilled. What about the rights to close them properly, to treat them kindly to feed them from whatever you feed, keeping in mind that these are the minimum rights because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam spoke about that whatever you spin upon your family members is indeed a charity from you had to look man who have he fibrotic even what you feed your wife the lie that you feed your wife is an act of charity like given in a charity it's a charity from you before Allah subhanaw taala we'll take a short break in sha Allah before we'll come back to continue with a hadith in the same line because it is very important to study the following covered Hadith all
together, please stay tuned
Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Let me remind you with our phone numbers in the beginning of the segment equals 002 Then 01 double 02464583 alternatively Area code 0020 Double 125 Double 08679 and the email address is gar[email protected] Okay the following hadith is Hadith number 277.
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Moraga, we're in Hydra may Allah be pleased with him the rated that I asked the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi salam, what arrived can any wife demand of her husband? What are the rights of any wife upon her husband? So the prophets Allah Allah, Allah selama said, You should give her food whenever you eat, you clothe her, whenever you clothe yourself, and not like her on the face,
and do not reveal her or separate from her except in the house. The meaning of last job is not to abandon her or not to
separate from her except in the house. I think in the previous segment, we spoke about some of these meanings. While we are in this hadith as the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam about the rights of the wife upon the husband, and again, an abuse Allah Salah mentioned some of those rights. Some were mentioned before, and some extra today which are in this hadith, which he was very specific when he said, well at 111 Bite the
you know, whenever you have a problem with your wife, it should be only at home. It should be between the four walls of your house. It should not be revealed to the public. Some people, whenever they have an issue with their wives, they go out, they sit on a cafe, or they sit with their friends, and they start talking about the very details of their household. This is very foolish, because soon you're going to reconcile with your wife, but your friends now know everything about your wife and know only bad things about her and they will keep remembering this forever. Salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato
sister Selma from the USA Salaam Alaikum and welcome to Guardians of the pious
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Yes, last few questions. I don't know two or three if you can, please.
Okay, go ahead. So send me if you have the questions now we can present them
Okay, first of all, so that somebody was telling me it was really twice is it so? Is it authentic that it was revealed twice? And was it in the beginning? Like when the Salah was prescribed?
So What they were reciting from the beginning of sunnah, like Prophet and the companions.
Okay, the other
end other tools of other two ideas of students workarounds. Last two ideas were revealed twice two, is it authentic? This is my first question. And my second question is, so this is number 11. At the time of dying, is the Indian of death is different for everybody, or is the same angel nicer molecule.
And my first question, she asked a lot is that in the Sunnah prayers, prayers do we recite the Quran after students Fatiha if somebody misses from now, for the whole day, is it okay to pray at the night or 12? altogether? But I can often see can you repeat your last question sister Selma please?
Can you what was the last question please?
Should we recite Quran after Surah Fatiha and if we make for some reason, all sunnah offers a COVID Can we pray all better? At the night and is there any
other option to or
doesn't matter you'd like to. Okay, fine Baraka Luffy Let me answer only two questions for now and I
will verify the rest insha Allah and if you would like to leave your email address or contact informations in sha Allah the brothers will be more than happy to send you the answer and it would answer in sha Allah. The rest of the questions hopefully in the next episode.
With regards to the Sunnah prayer, Can you recite or should you recite in your Quran after the recitation of Surah Fatiha? Yes, it's a sunnah to recite either a Surah or an eight from any surah other than Surah Al Fatiha in every single regard if you're praying to workers, or if you're praying, as you mentioned, like you're praying several workers altogether or praying the three routers of the witch altogether, then you recite in the first lockout after al Fatiha Surah Al Allah and after al Fatiha in the second surah LKF rune Alia LKF rune and is the server aka your decisive loss last call who Allahu Ahad the recitation of a surah, oran yet of a surah after Surah Al Fatiha
is mere sunnah it will not invalidate the prayer though, but we should not deliberately
ignore it. Also, is there any corridor for the sooner? Yes, any sooner? It is mere sooner? Yeah. And it is not our job to pray, including a Lutra according to the vast majority of the fuqaha with the exception of Lima Hanifa who perceives a witch as a wedgie. Now, do I have to make up any sunnah? When I say the word have it means a word you and it's originally a sunnah. So that means to offer a sunnah is Mira commended, it could be emphatic, it could be an emphatic word say sunnah. Okay. But the question should be, could I make up and Miss Suna? Yes, you can. It has been reported that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam made up many sunnah that he missed, whether before or after the
prayer and he also made up the night prayer which is sunnah as well. And there were likewise for innocents almost LMR Radi Allahu anha So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam Prain after us. She said, Yeah, rasool Allah didn't you teach us that we should not pray anything after us? Prayer and until marriage? He said yes, indeed. But the surah cause or the Sunnah of Lahore, that he was caught up with some business, and he forgot about them, so he was making them up. Also, I Aisha Radi Allahu anha narrated that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam used not to exceed praying 11 o'clock at night, whether Ramadan, or in any night other than Ramadan. And he regenerated also and the
prophets, Allah Allah, Allah selama said, that whoever over sleeps and does not pray the night prayer, you can make his word
during the day can make up the prayer which used to pray at night, but because he overslept, he was not able to make it can make it up during the day baina between after fed and until,
because after fetch, and until sunrise, it is this like to pray any voluntary prayer. So past sunrise, 1520 minutes, whenever it is permissible to start praying to her. Now you can pray for her and you can also pray the United prayer that you missed. But keep in mind that there were two prayer would not be odd, it would be rather even. So if you use the criteria raka which that you overslept, you didn't get to pray, then during the day, we'll pray between federal law, you will pray them forecasts, you want to pray them six or eight, but it will be even number used to pray 11 raka they will be 12 because the odd is only for the night prayer not for the day, just like Allaha as far as
I have sought at this stage there in the case of death, does it differ from person to another? Of course, it is completely different from one person to another. You have in the Hadith which is collected by Imam Ahmed in his Muslim narrated by Al Bara Ignaz may Allah be pleased with him and many other collectors of the Hadith collected this hadith when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam finished burying one of the companions, and then he asked the companions to pause for a little bit and he said
in the lab that Mina either Can I think Coco and Mina dunya Burley mineral. Whenever the believer is about to live this life and approach the hereafter, a set of beautiful, nice looking angels will come down from heaven, carrying the coffin from heaven and having the handle the fragrance from heaven, and they will sit so close to the person who's dying on his deathbed, waiting for Malakal mouth to descend. So those are the assistance of the end
of death. Then when he descends upon them,
he will say, He will say to the soul of the believing servant, a year to have enough soup per year. And in another narration, a year to have enough soul Mothma in order godly soul or the soul which is comfortable, and in a state of inner tranquility and serenity oferuje come out, how would you come out of this body of the believing sermon of Raji, Elana Filati Murghab became one come out towards forgiveness from your load and pleasure.
Karla Fattah Hooroo came at a Ceylon KOTRA two min v is the clock that the soul will depart the body so easily similar to the water whenever you pour it from a jog into a glass, the flow is very easy, but the case is completely different. Whenever the person is a wicked or a non believer, the angels will descend but they will be scared in a person who's about to die. And when the angel of death will descend, he will say to the soul of this person, yeah, yet to her Nestle have isa or such and such evil soul come out, come out of this body, but he will say what Illa Sahaja Mila beaky will come out to an anger and curse from Allah Almighty from your Lord coil Ephrata for Raka futures
Fattah for Rocco future said, so the soul will disperse and try to hide in the body, but he will forcefully extract the soul from the body, then once it is taken out, it will be read in that awful coffin and a very offensive smell will come out of it. So, there will be a great distinction between the soul of a believing person and the soul of a wicked or a non believing person, the case and the treatment will be completely different there should be further explanation but for the sake of time Insha Allah, I would like to move on. Now, I want to go back to the hadith of Maya in Haida may Allah be pleased with him the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, amongst a group of the wife, that you
feed her from whatever you yourself, eat, you don't eat outside and then outside and enjoy yourself. And when you go home, you lift a little bit of money that they eat an inferior kind of food, No, you eat from the same type she, she eats from the same type of food that you eat. Similarly, your children, same thing with the clothing, as much as you spend on yourself you spend on your wife? Well, I thought Lori will watch her never touch her face. If you examine the domestic violence in North America, you will be scared. If you see the images of the wives who have been beaten and bruises all over their faces in the documentary, you will be very scared and this is happening as of
today as we speak and right now. You can check out the rates and Google it is very scary. But the Prophet sallallahu Sallam 1400 50 years ago said never touch your wife's face lottery will watch how to combat. Never call her names. Never insult her. Never pray against her saying of bacula No, don't say that while at an injury level. But if you have a problem with her, it should be between you and her limited at home. You should not reveal this
to the outsiders. So revealing the wife or
insulting or cursing is absolutely forbidden. If it is not permissible to do to people in general, then specifically to the wife or to the spouse is much more emphasized on it, that you should honor your spouse. Then the prophets Allah Allah Allah selama said in the following Hadith which is Hadith number 278, Narrated by Abu Radi Allahu Anhu called Carla Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam at Como remote me Nina Eman and San Juan Puerto Rico, where Fiat Fiat Rocco linezolid him. He means Allah Allah Allah Salam. When you said in this hadith there are believers who show the most perfect faith or those who have the best behavior.
And the best of you are those who are the best to their wives. Then the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam has said In another Hadith will earn a high Eurocom Li Li, and I am indeed the best of all of you, to my wife. So if we as believers truly follow the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, you should understand that demonstrating your kindness and gentleness should be presented at home first, and greater than
And towards anybody else. The best of the believers are those who are best to the wives to their family members. We hear complaints about people who are growing beards and Masha Allah they appear to be religiously committed, but some of their family members complained that he mistreats his parents or she mistreats her mother, or he beats his wife or he is abusive. You know, this is a state of
schizophrenia, where the person is pretending in one condition to be kind to be gentle to be delicate, but at home where he is supposed to be that he is a monster. So another year SallAllahu Sallam has said the true presentation or being well mannered begins at home. Hi, Rocco. hydrocone. And he said he Hiroko, Hiroko, Minister him and another narration Hi Rocco Pyro calmly le we're gonna have Eurocom Leah Holly sallallahu alayhi salam, indeed we have another Hadith which is very important as well. I like to take it in the remaining few minutes. Before we wrap it up. In this hadith the Prophet SAW Allah Allah Allah selama Sade, Lautaro caribou Imam, ima Allah, or omaruru of
the Allahu Anhu you know, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam for Kala, the Iranian Nyssa Ana as well as your hint for our philosophy about Behen for our Prophet we earlier Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam and he said on Cassie erroneous corner is where Jehan for color Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam located the coffee early Verity Mohammed in Nyssa on Casio near schooner, as well as the Hona lays that will learn Iike beefier recom Wow Abu Dawood is dead and so here the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said Do not be your wives, do not be it in Allah, the slaves of Allah the female servants of Allah. So Allah Muhammad Ali Allah who aren't came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam later on
after this command was effective. So when he said lack of Rebo Emma Allah know when they're to lay his hand on his wife, or use them is wack as we mentioned earlier, whatsoever, because the Sahaba would comply immediately with the command of Allah and His Messenger Salah Lawson Bahama top came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam complaining that there is a serious problem ever since they stop, the Elneny said
they acted as heroes at home and they will not listen to their husbands and it will. Some were acting like man to man because she felt safe that no one would dare to beat her or hit her. So they became very darling towards the husband. So Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam resumed the permission to discipline them again. So many women came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam wives, to his wives complaining of their husbands, that they are beating them. So the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam addressed the companion saying, many women have gone round Muhammad's family complaining of their husbands, those who do so those who beat their wives
are not the best among you. And while the Prophet sallallahu Sallam have always addressed their companions to compete to be the best, and the most perfect, and the most righteous, that he addressed, those who would lay their hands upon their wives, or be them or hate them, they are not among those from the Prophet sallallahu sallam said he ought to come here early the best of all of you are those who are good to the wives center can I send a Hello Can we send you home Hello, can I send only only the best of few with regards to manners and good o'clock is the one who treats his wife kindly, and within tennis. Last Hadith in the chapter to wrap it up with is Hadith number 200
An ad all these Hadees are complementing each other. So we comprehend the concept of discipline in the wife and the country. It meant the command of the Prophet Salah Salem to be trained in treating one's wife, Abdullah If Muhammad the last May Allah be pleased with him and his father, narrated that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said dunya Mehta will hieromartyr Almora to solve
the world of this life is bought and enjoyment. Yes, it is challenging, but it is an enjoyment and delight. And the best enjoyment of this life is having a pious wife, and indeed, having a pious wife would assist you in this life, to be pious to raise pious kids.
And hopefully, as a result of that all of you will be a happy family in paradise. Indeed the biggest joy and the best delight in this life is not position, much of wealth or position, a great position, or being, you know, a king or a ruler or a leader of your community. The greatest pleasure in this life is definitely having a righteous wife, who had God her chastity, who would assist you in your worldly business in in order also to be able to achieve a status or a place to enter paradise as a Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said in the Hadith, which we discussed repeatedly,
Rahim Allah Who Raja Lancome MNLA Leo suddenly for Al Qaida Murata who may Allah have mercy on a man who gets up at night to pray, so he awakens his wife, or even by sprinkling some water drops over her face. And may Allah had mercy on a wife who gets up at night to pray and she does the same to her husband for either karma for Salah Jamia, and if they both get up and pray together at my cootie vamanos they're Korean Hola, Hakka Thielen was that callot de will be recorded amongst those who remember Allah much whether of men or women, may Allah subhanaw taala make us old. Amongst them. I would like to wrap up today's episode, and also this beautiful chapter of you know, the command will
be unkind to women a nice treatment to women with the beautiful area by the end of Surah Furqan or Bennett hablan I mean, as well Gina was already Tina Kurata union. What Anna Lena Mata Karina Imam, or Allah Our Lord, grant us from our spouses and our offspring, comfort for our eyes and make us leaders for the pious ones who not only had our stuff hula hula come on the next episode brothers and sisters, I leave you all in the care of Allah, wa Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
Love of God is the greatest
glory to Him. People want me to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the Greatest. The one handling Glory to him
is to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know the forgiving all about and in paradigms, where shipping comes fire and stones sending laborers to the cheapest
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