Gardens Of The Pious #127 Mar 9th 2015

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The speakers discuss the history and context of Islam, including its morality and its use in various context, including police, women, and children. They emphasize the importance of fasting during prayer, pray all day long, and receive reward for those who pray. The speakers also discuss the importance of providing support to family members and individuals, as well as attending events and not bringing large party food. They also touch on the negative impact of eating certain foods and the importance of not being greedy and wasting food.

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love and God is the greatest moment only glory to Him. The only good you must to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God is the Greatest. The long, annoying Glory to him

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is to be the best and give his best religion to

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a Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim praise with Allah alone. We all praise Him and we seek His help also of Allah guides is a truly guided one. And whosoever Allah leaves astray in and can show him guidance, may the best peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him the views everywhere I'd like to welcome you to an episode number 148 In our series of Guardians of the pious today inshallah I'll continue explaining the 33rd Chapter of the series. And this is gonna be the fourth episode in explaining the chapter which is known as the benevolent treatment towards orphans girls, the weak, the poor and the humble person.

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Without any further ado, the first Hadith we have is Hadith number 265.

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And the hadith is narrated by the great companion, Abu Hurayrah. May Allah be pleased with him. And Ebihara irata Radi Allahu Anhu and in a V sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a call as say, Al our manatee well miskeen Kel moja he defeats a really there

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were several who call work I'll call him Illa de la after because saw me Lady layoff term matassa con la

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of a warrior. May Allah be pleased with him aerated that the Prophet peace be upon him said, one who strives to help the widows and the pool ones as seri Allah or Melati. When miskeen hears the word is similar to the word of El moja. He de Sevilla

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similar to the word of the one who is fighting for the sake of Allah, struggling for the sake of Allah on the battlefield, kill Mujahid ifisa villa. Then the narrator said, we're at several Khan and I also think that he said his word is similar to the word of Kalka me, lady left worker saw me Lady laughter, which means and the word would be similar to the person who stands up for prayer without rest, and the one who observes fasting continuously like on every single day. This hadith is agreed upon its authenticity, and it is collected by both al Bukhari or Muslim the word seri from Si

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Si is thriving

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and it is walking hardly and the person would rush while walking or walk briskly whenever he or she has got something serious to do. That's why we call the second or the third pillar of the ombre OSI

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walk in between a Safa and Marwa and is not simply walking. Rather OSI, the person is solving hard and he's hurrying while walking. That's called OSI. In the Quran, Allah Almighty said well mmm and Jaya KSR will who I aksha describing the condition of Abdullah hidden OMA Maktoum, that he was striving hard, come in hurriedly to learn from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam so that is called Si. Si you feel risky means to strive hard to leave early warning, to seek the means of provision while putting your trust in Allah subhanho wa Taala in order to be provided with a lawful provision that's called Si, SA, is a person who does the striving, the one who thrives in order to earn in order to

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be able to support the following two categories, all our morality, while Miskin the widows and the poor is obviously the Hadith single out these two because of the necessity of paying attention to those who are in need, especially widows. What is the word arrival in our

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BiC. Rommel is poor of armella and armella is the one who does not have a high it does not have a support does not have a family garden, who provides for them, they do not have someone to provide for them. And in the Arabic dictionary, the word or mela is not only limited to a widow, the woman who lost her husband, her husband passed away, you know, a woman who's never been married before and she does not have she does not have a father she does not have an uncle she does not have a brother or a son to support her. And she is in an a financial condition where she is in need. She is called armella and only that the term Amil applies to men as well, who do not have any support and they

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cannot earn on their own. So the one who strives to support those who cannot find what will provide for them the basic needs, so he strives hard to provide for himself and provide for those people. And similarly, el miskeen and in the previous Hadith lesson, miscue let eToro due tomorrow to Wellington return, whether they're harmala doorman is not the one who goes around begging and he's not in need. You give him a Tamela a date or other humble to know the Miskin is a person who is really in need. And we are all there to look for them. Because they are as Allah Almighty said about them there is a luna nurse or ill halfa they do not ask people and importantly, maybe they go to

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sleep hungry, but they will not ask they have this quality of L higher, they are desperately in need maybe for a medication they would do okay in the state the find it very hard to ask people for financial help. So those people are more worthy than anyone else to pay attention for them to go and find out about them and assist them. We said with regards to a woman who who lost her husband, she is a widow. She applies in that word as well as armella. Okay. So, an abuse Allah Allah on SlMs said In another Hadith, that whenever he will proceed towards a Jana to enter, there will be a woman who would be racing with him to enter agenda. And he says this woman is a woman who lost her husband,

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and she did not marry after him. Rather, she devoted her life to support her orphans or children. If this is the word of this woman, what about the person who say to this woman, sister you just take care of your kids will take care of providing for you and for your kids. So in Rio Salado seldom considered the reward and is not just considered, he said that the word of the person who supports our mela

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and miskeen the pool is similar to the word of an Mujahid if he Sevilla energy had is the utmost part of the practices of the outer parts of the worship in Islam. The greatest a bad and not only that, fasting fasting, which is a shield is a protection that protects a person again is a form of hell, each day that you fast distance you from the farfel 70 years and the night prayer that Jefferson was you know a woman in mythology a drone or a bomb homophone Wattana women, Mara's up now New Moon Falletta, Ala Moana Summa Orfila Holman karate iron, desert and be McHenry I'm alone in Surah two stage there. This is a promise reward for those who pray most of the night or a good

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portion of the night. That letter Allah wanna have some coffee Allahu Minnkota. To know so knows how much your word How great is the reward that Allah subhanaw taala have prepared for them, and it is concealed in agenda for them and prepare this was waiting for them. So this is a set of reward for pmla and this is a set of reward for fasting a single day for the sake of Allah. And this is a set of reward for a person who fights for the sake of Allah and if he dies for his state.

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Then they experience the true life. While at seven Alladhina cootie Luffy Sevilla he am wet and Bella here on Endora be in your zip code. Those who die for the sake of the Lord. They are not dead. They are the truly living ones being provided by the Lord. So we have an Mujahid we have a saw in a lady lay off twill a person who observed fasting content

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Yesterday on every single day, I'll call a millennial after a person who prays all night long, he does not get bored, he does not arrest. The combination of the three righteous people, and their word can be obtained simply by sponsoring an orphan miskeen. What we do, and we say that we do does not only mean a woman who lost her husband, a woman who's divorced, her husband or diversity is not supported her. She does not have any other means of support. A woman who has not been married before, but she doesn't have family members, so the person would look after her. Would that apply to a sister? Would that apply to a daughter? Would that apply in a broader spectrum? To your own family

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members, to your wife and your kids? As a matter of fact, el Emmanuel Buhari, may Allah have mercy on him we say this hadith is agreed upon its authenticity. It is collected by both al Bukhari and Muslim the two gay Imams and the normal Buhari. May Allah have mentioned him listed this hadith under the shutter which is known as fog low Natha Kotti al le, the virtues of spending upon the family members, the virtues of spending upon your wife, on your children, upon your parents, on your brothers and sisters, your siblings, nephews and nieces. Wow. So now also those who are under my guardianship, and they cannot work. They don't have any other means of income or provision. But

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through me, Allah is you utilizing me to provide for them. Okay. Their word of this person is similar to their word of El moda HEDP. Sevilla, will slow me Lady laughter. Well call me Lady la if total

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brothers and sisters and Nabil sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said in the sound Hadith, when he was asked about

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is it permissible to give my charity to my relatives?

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And until today, people are asking, can I support my any of my siblings from my Zakka? Can I do I have to tell them that this is a car or this is a voluntary charity? What about nephews and nieces? And nephew Salalah Alia selama says a sadhaka to Al miski. In your soda. Whenever you support any needy person, this is an act of charity, you will be rewarded for it. The promise reward has to be actually am failure for each pound you give you get 10 times more, up to 700 up to a limited number of times, well, they will CORBA thin tan, but if the same sort of idea that you give to a stranger,

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a traveler, a beggar. If the same charity or equivalent to it, you give it to the CO bear a Corrib relative one of your cans. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said same time, then the world will be a bubble thin tan. Sada cartoon will Silla you will observe the word have given any charity that's a sadhaka and the role of upholding the ties of your kinship, Salah Torah. So you have double lower because of that, in Surah Al Baqarah Allah subhanaw taala says yes, Luna can murder you for your code. They ask you Oh Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, what should they spend? What should they spend and whom should they spend upon? Will man Felco to me in Hawaii fell in well he died while

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Praveen while your time while may 2 One minute Sabine Juan Mata Holloman hiring for in Allah heavy alim. Look and listen carefully to this area.

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Where should we dispense or spin our solder cart and while he died in the parents of Praveen relatives in general and holidaying out of the Caribbean, and the closest or Caribbean but specifically they are mentioned in the first category to put lot of emphasis and highlight the importance of supporting the parents financially from your own worlds. While our Caribbean and older relatives the closest then further away.

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Well, yeah, Tamar orphans well Misaki in the poor and the needy weariness, Seville and the Wayfarers and Whatsoever you do have good and of righteousness Allah is fully aware of it. Then in Surah, Nisa,

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Allah Almighty commanded monotheism and forbade setting partners to Allah in worship. That is the first command he said we're above the law however, to shriek will be he che. Then he second up by saying, What will well Edenia son

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and be kind and gentle to appearance will CORBA while your time while Mr. Keen, while Jerry will pour back while Jerry Jahnavi or Sahibi will Jambi will be in 71 Melaka, amen. These are all categories, there are more worthy of our support of our current treatment than others. Then Albear here means not just the country it meant and the good words and saying yes, I'm at your service, supporting them financially fulfilling their needs. I am so shocked

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at some people who are their siblings, the back and they are in debt. And those people are extremely rich, they hire people to dispense their charity, because you don't have time to do that. And their charity work is hundreds of 1000s but their siblings are in need and the borrow from others and from strangers, because are under the assumption that I should assist the people who are further away. Begin with your family members. And this support, whether it's more physical, or financial, is very obvious in the command when Allah the Almighty, or the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam by saying wherever there are Shearwater can occur Robin, begin by warning and giving dower to your close

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family members. And this is what the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam did when he climbed a sofa, and he started calling upon his family members, uncles and Auntie's, and it started inviting them to Islam. So what we need to understand here, that whenever I do something in the morning and I go to work, this is an act of worship. Is this general for everyone law? Of course not nay, rather it is only considered as an act of worship with those who intend to do so. When you know that there is a segment of your income, a little bit of your earning of your profit is going to such and such family especially if it is done in a very private fashion between you and them. Only Allah knows about it.

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We do and they will see some orphans, some Messiah keen, even if they have their guardian, but his handicap, he cannot work on his own. So you go and on monthly basis once you collect your salary, you pay them this is a form of jihad.

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This is one of the greatest forms of worship. Cal muda he defeats me Lila we're Cal call water saw me Lady laughter. We can call him Isla de la Torre. You have to means he does not rest.

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He does not get bored he is constantly praying throughout the whole night.

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This is as well as in the other Hadith when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said an OB dilla Hypno Amara may Allah be pleased with him and his father. Mankind if he had it he or he can Allah houfy Hagerty. Wow, this is like a perfectly balanced equation. You own all your needs to be fulfilled.

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You own your family to remain healthy. You want your job to be steady and not to encounter any losses. You own your income to be always increasing. Yeah, of course, an affirmation to all these questions, the answer is absolutely yes. Who doesn't want any of that? I want all of that. And similarly every person every sane person, okay man can have you had it if he can allow if you have God. As long as you are helping others to fulfill their needs, Allah will be always next you helping you to fulfill your needs.

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In another Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said and it's Assam Hadith, Allah Who here I will have it.

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Murder MALABU fear only he as long as you're assisting somebody, Allah will be always assisting you look at this equation. You want to allow was to help you. You want to be always prospering and to be protected against calamities against car collisions against losses that a portion of your salary. This is besides the mandatories occur of course, a portion of your time is paid towards supporting those who are in need for your physical health for you

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more support for your recommendations for your intercession and also for you financial help. This part which you're paying willingly as a voluntary, charity and extra, whether to a family member who's more worthy than others, or to strangers, this kind of work, it will be best if you keep it as a secret between you and Allah and in private. And if you do so, then it is guaranteed Allah Almighty will continue to help and support you. You want to be loved by Allah subhanho wa Taala Sure, you want to be one of the most beloved to Allah Almighty and to His Messenger SallAllahu sallam? Yes, of course. Where is the answer? The answer is in this hadith, and WA salatu, Salam

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assayed, a Hepburn, Nancy ala Allah, and Pharaoh whom a nurse, the dear is to Allah of all is the one who is more beneficial, assisting and helpful to others. were heavily armed early in Allah and the kindness and that is deed before Allah Almighty Count with me, so rolled onto the field who are Muslim whenever you make a Muslim happy? And how would you make a Muslim happy?

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Somebody's asking you don't you know a doctor who's trustworthy because my wife is sick, and I can just take her anywhere. And an affordable doctor. You know, I find it hard to pay that much money for a prescription or whatever. Yes, of course. And you call this doctor and you make the reservation and you pay the fees. And also you put down payment as long as Allah subhanaw taala blessed you someone for an extra that you can support others make their own payment towards the prescription, the X rays and ultrasound and all of that. Imagine this person when he finds that help. And his wife was very sick and they find somebody to assist them for free. Just for the sake

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of Allah subhanho wa Taala how much happiness would you bring to the hearts this kind treatment is the deal is to Allah is the most beloved to Allah subhanaw taala the other day, a gatekeeper a god for one of the houses, said,

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I call you because I want you to to pray for me. I was very sick. I said, I'm sorry, I was out of the country. He said I went through several operations and I was very sick. So I asked him and how do you do all of that he says of Han Allah. The landlord or the owner of the house actually supported me all the way. He taught me by himself in his car to the hospital, and he paid all the bills, 1000s and 1000s he paid all of that until I was treated. Then his tongue was constantly busy praying for him.

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Praying sincerely This is a sincere is because you help somebody and this person is very appreciative. And he's asking Allah Oh Allah protect him against every heart, who Allah cured him from every sickness or disease, or Allah, Allah was bless him and make his family safe and secure. I'm saying that, to remind the sponsors, those who are in the Gulf area, who have many employees, instead of squeezing them.

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Instead of taking the rights away, no spin on them, give them extra give them more than they deserve more than their wages. They have a long extended family back home waiting for their pennies that they spend that you spend on them. It will make their life happy, rather than just leaving them in that misery. So I hope that message in sha Allah would benefit me first my family members, those who are behind the cameras here in the studio, and all the audience, especially those who have the means. It surprises me. When somebody says Shanghai want to build a method.

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And this particular person who wants to build a machine that all his employees are complaining that he's very stingy

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and his volume, he is an oppressor when it comes to paying them their wages, his harsh hearted and his cruel towards them. They, you know in business call him a shrewd businessman. But you know, Rahim Allah Hora Jolin, Samhain either will either start or will it Activa Allah loves and when have mercy on that person. Well, whoever is easy going in kind in history when whenever he sells whenever he buys whenever he learns whenever he collects his loan. He doesn't like the person who's alternative who's harsh hearted, who makes people's life miserable. So take it easy on people so that Allah subhanaw taala will take it easy upon you. Do you know how many are in the mood?

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Salam onma Nowadays, just look into

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the society like in a sham in Syria, the afflicted country.

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You know, how many Iran mil how many women lose their husbands? How many 1000s and hundreds of 1000s of orphans who are in need for this support, try in a way or another through any legitimate nonprofit organization, to sponsor a family or to a little bit of your income that will maintain your happiness both in this dunya and in the hereafter. Brothers and sisters. We'll take a short break then in sha Allah will come back with two more beautiful Hadith please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Let me quickly remind you brothers and sisters with our phone numbers and contact informations if you'd like to drop us a question or whatever during the segment in sha Allah this is a live in addition our phone numbers beginning with Area code 00201 double 02464583 alternatively Area code 002 then zero Double 125 Double 08679 the email addresses [email protected] The following hadith is Hadith number 266 in the series of gardens of the pious, also Narrated by Abu Hurayrah are the hola Juan and collected while Imam Muslim and Ebihara Yatta probably Allahu Anhu and in the real Salah Allahu alayhi wa sallam Akkad

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shall rule for me for moon walima

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you will now have many tea here. Will you the R la menu bear with a lamb UWGB da water Sokka sakoda also la hora Sula, I will almost feel your way out in fifth so he Haney on Ebihara irata Radi Allahu Anhu mean Cody be self parameter I'm already Matthew da la Hill Evernia who were youth are cool Fukuhara and this hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say the worst food is the food of the marriage banquet, from which those are left out who would like to come? And to which those who are invited who refused to come? He who rejects an invitation, this obey is Allah and His messenger. This is a narration of a Muslim and in the other narration, which is agreed upon its authenticity.

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The Prophet sallallahu sallam said the worst food is the food of the marriage banquet to watch their child invited and from which the pool are left out.

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We want to learn first the meaning of the word walima.

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And what does it imply? What does it entail?

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l innominate nawawi because commonly wants the word walima is mentioned right away our mind goes to the marriage banquet. They will email which is offered upon consummating the marriage or before or after

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Al Imam nawawi May Allah had missing him mentioned in the short of this hadith shall Hadith a Muslim of the effort to Allah Cemani it Anwar There are eight different types of hospitality these were they all entail feast or food, you can call each one of them walima

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you know, but he specifically mentioned what the Arab called each one of them for instance, they say l worry in total loss. It has become commonly known that once the word walima is mentioned, it refers to the management quit.

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Wild Horse

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the Lyra scene or wild horse with a lot of salt by the end lien will add whenever one's wife gives birth does not that picado like once she gives birth. You know he's happy for her safety. So he throws a party and he invites people to eat this walima or this feast is called a horse or a horse. Then there is another name which is a czar. This is for a banquet or a feast upon doing circumcision to the child. Then there is a law kicker obviously on the seventh or the 14th. So the 21st or whatever of the birth of the child alopecia is an emphatic sunnah and there is

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El Lima,

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this is very interesting banquet. And what we mean is the food which is prepared, whenever the person is afflicted with a calamity, you have somebody in the family who is very sick or somebody is going through some trouble. So they through will do you mean you know, a feast and invite people to eat because through feeding people, Allah will give you a relief, remove your pain or sorrow, or remove your calamity.

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Then there is an Uber

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and Uber is the food which is offered even without the reason he made people after leaving the prayer say, why didn't you guys come and have dinner with us Skol Madaba from the table which is, you know, the food is played and sat on the table. There is something called El Akira. And work here is upon finishing building your house and before moving in or after you move in. This is like the opening of your house you invite people to eat in the new place in the new flat in the in the new apartment in the new view in the new house that you built the squirrel walk era, but all of whom could be called walima or Duba. And the word walima once it is mentioned alone, without reference to

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any of these occasions, the right away because it's commonly used for the marriage banquet right away. People would assume it is the marriage banquet.

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And there were Lima

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as the marriage banquet is actually an emphatic sunnah.

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It is one of the means of announcing the marriage and the view Salalah and SLM I said earlier no Heather Nikka will Dooley boo Allah He do full analysis marriage and be the trampoline and sing songs in the marriage on the wedding to announce that these couple are officially married. And he said to Abdul Rahman if now who Masha Allah was a very wealthy man, when he knew that he got married, he said I will live when I will be share, I will him from the verb. Well, Emma, which is through a party,

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marriage banquet, okay, from actually the word

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combining the cobbled together this is the origin of the word walima. From combining the couple, the husband and the wife together, so he said to him, LM will be share, offer our Lima, a marriage banquet, even if it is something like a sheep that you slaughter and you cook you make soup and you mix read and invite people to eat. When the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, well we share even if it is something lower like a sheep or a goat, because I've documented now was a rich companion. But the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in his different marriages, he offered different marriage banquets. Sometimes he offered his at his is the the pace of the day mix with the cheese and milk. And they

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offer that in the Prophetic Mission of Ramadan when they invite people to break the fast. You find an on Mondays and Thursdays you find has your dates the day fruits and you find something like paste the eat it with their fingers. And it's it has butter, cheese and dates as cold peace. So one day at once when he got married, he could not afford it. So he offered the haste and his companions ate and that was our Lima.

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And in another time you offer the sheep is Lord of the sheep. Because you could afford at this time. Some of the scholars say that will limit is to be offered before the marriage contract on the night of the marriage contract after the marriage contract, or on the night of the consummation of the marriage. There are different opinions either one it is fine as long as it is some sort of announcement and also fulfilling two things. And then you Salalah Alia Salem was asked a will Islam hire which practices of Islam are best Is it a farmer Tom or your crowd was stellar. To feed people. feeding people is one of the greatest acts in Islam

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where you put him on a timer on a hobby miskeen way a team where Ciara in nanometer mo companywide Hila learn read domain comm Jezza and Welsh Fukumura feed in the pool feed in the guest feed in the relatives. You know honoring them is one of the greatest acts you

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In the outer parts of worship in Islam, where the crowd was salah, given the to hear Salam aleikum, Allah man out of MLM tarrif Nana Muslimeen whether you know them or you don't know them, salam alaikum brothers, salaam alaikum. Sisters, this is an app which is reduced to Allah subhanaw taala. It develops and it builds up love and compassion between the members of the same community and the entire OMA large. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam assayed by the one in whose hand is my soul, you shall not enter paradise until you believe and you will not truly believe until you love one another. Shall I not guide you to something that if you do, you will end up loving one another. They

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certainly are Rasul Allah He said, Asha selama. vena cava spirit the greeting of a Salam aleykum whether you know that people or you don't As salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh these two great qualities fr makan or a ko Salam are both indigenous in an walima when you invite people to eat and they greet you and you read them, and you listen to the beautiful da which the prophets Allah Allahu Allah Salah prescribed to say to the newlywed, you say Baraka Allahu La Kuma. May Allah bless you both were Baraka, la Kuma. May Allah cover you these blessings? What am I in a coma for you? Hi, may Allah gather between you both in goodness and righteousness? If you invited 10s of

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people, hundreds of people, maybe 1000s of people, at least a few would have a da da will be Mr. Jab answered. So this is something that is highly recommended to do and when EMA

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and walima Anna Sydney Malik may Allah be pleased with him narrated that in the sound Hadith when the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam consummated the marriage with Zeinab may Allah be pleased with her early morning he said, Yeah Anis the Prophet sallallahu Sallam call upon NS after consuming the measures and invite the people for the walima. So, that tells us what is the best time to offer or throw the marriage banquet. So we learn that l walima. Means what and what and what But, nowadays, it is more known as it is a reference to the marriage banquet. It is an emphatic sunnah, one of the means of announcing the marriage, but the Prophet sallallahu sallam said two things could be one of

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them is ambiguous. When he said so far more Tom will one email how evil the worst kind of food is the food of the walima but don't stop there. In order to remove a lot of this ambiguity. It becomes the worst food and it becomes the worst banquet whenever you violate the rules. He says Salah samuda Illa hell of Nia

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well answer for Cora, when you invite only the rich people who are now in need to attend it and most likely they would not show up because they're busy. They have other things to do. We're all set for Quran there are a lot of people in the community are dying to eat meat. They only eat it whenever they're invited all in the middle of

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so they were Lena which is described as the worst kind of Halima is the one which is a show of display a variety of food invite people, they just taste from here and there and there is this wasted. We do have some videos, which shows us

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that this is exactly what the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam condemned and criticized look at the amount of wasted food these are still images. Look at it Subhanallah this is all food that is wasted. Because those people don't eat it. On the other hand.

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This is a child who is eating from the dumpster. Kids are starving food in abundance thrown in the street because it's wasted. Yes, yes, we attend things like that we'll see people wouldn't eat they just come to compliment if they come and bring the gift. Look at this. Look at the amount of food. If we were to save this amount of food and distributed in state in the form of food or dry food or cash to the needy ones, we didn't see the other graven images of our kids. They are our kids as well. Look.

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This is a kind of waste which and abuse Allah Allah Allah Selim, good sized there were Lima, which only the rich people are invited and the poor are not invited Abdullah animus Rudra the Allahu Allah said either Hassan Rouhani will trickle for clear or Myrna

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I learned Oh gee. Well, he says, Whenever you know that there will Lima, only the rich people are invited to attend this walima and the poor are not invited. We are commanded not to accept such invitation. Even though in the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam has said, well now LEM UWGB Dawa Fokker, they're also law, how are Rasulullah which means if one is invited, particularly, specifically by name, and he does not accept the invitation, and he does not show up, and he doesn't have a reason, he has indeed disobeyed Allah and His messenger. So let's imagine, imagine how much food is wasted.

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And I'm pretty sure you have seen more like that. I have a recent video that I received on my phone, where 10s of trays full of food and meat are simply thrown in the trash. No one to eat them.

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So this is a kind of walima which is haram. And it's food is the worst kind of food. You know, if you show up in the machine and say, brothers and sisters, everybody in the community, I'm inviting you for my wedding banquet tonight. Everyone is welcome. Yes, this is a kind of walima which will be more than happy to attend. I will be rewarded if I attend, even if I'm fasting.

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Even if you're fasting Yes, but I'm not gonna eat. He said, and if you're fasting fell to solid Yanni, even if you're not going to eat, just show up and make salah. Yeah, and he pray for the people for the host and his family. Pray for them.

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Islam is a religious is a religion of etiquette, it teaches us the good manners, the good characters. So if you're invited by name, it becomes a must an individual duty that you have to attend. If it is a communal invitation, then it's Sephardic, a fire, those who will answer the invitation are sufficient. I don't have to go. But if I know for sure that those pool people who might see in front of me are not invited. And only selective people are coming. Sorry. I in attending, I'm not gonna show up. This is what Abdullayev nosode said, we will commanded not to accept an invitation not to attend an invitation where poor people are not being invited. It becomes

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a word to attend. If there are no violations, you know, along with wasting the food, they throw a huge party men and women dance and music and dancing, and all of that and an even drinking. It's not permissible to attend. So while it was a worship, now it becomes a haram because you know that there is indeed a list of violations. You should not be attending a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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Well, there have also one from quite a Salam Alaikum Welcome to Guardians of the family. Michelle How are you welcome Salam wa rahmatullahi

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Allah Karen, you have brought in very, very important topics, you know, for the attention of this reverse May Allah give your reward and the whole that TV team I have experienced this so many times, even in the city of Prophet and in the city of Kaaba. They were throwing you know, tons of food after breakfast and dinner. And but while the 1000s of people who are you know, they were hungry outside and they are cleaning the streets, you know, you can see the, the hunger from their faces. I am working in one of the Muslim country, and I never leave anything on the table, I get it back and bring it with me. But at one time I saw a few people come, they order so many dishes, and maybe

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hardly one Lola's, him they eat maybe two or three, you know, this slices of fries and the left. I called the manager I say give it to me, I will take it. He said no, we cannot give you this is not the order. This is the you know, we don't do this because we are not allowed. And they have all this thrown in front of me. Because an authority is you're not 10 fulfilled people, just one more guy or that and they have thrown it. So I tried to you know, make an attempt through one of the white lady because I'm brown sometimes they think maybe I'm one of the beggars. So regardless, you know who you are. So I tried to do it through one of the white lady but it has not been successful because there

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are the laws by by you know by that country's you cannot have this whole wild country you did in a mushrik in a coffee country in Canada where I belong to. They have a you know, institution is called the Meals on Wheels. They go to every hotel

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In the in the mirror in the evening, the color the fool to separate it, we have a big team of volunteers and they give the poor and homeless people why we are the holder of the Quran and we are

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we are not doing anything this is

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happening in the medina

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Ohio obviously,

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I do agree because you see that but we cannot generalize. We cannot generalize. As I mentioned before that we have many examples of rich people who invite their drivers, their maids, their servants or gods to sit and eat with them. And they do not waste any food and they're very generous and very charitable. But we would like to generalize this beautiful practice the Islamic etiquette and we would like to bring to the attention of every one of us. Even the average people middle class people, that whenever you serve food at home whenever you get give to your kids, give them enough when they finish they can take a little more then be very moderate because Allah subhanaw taala said

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we're Kulu wasabi wallet 234 In whom layer your hipbone Mr. Finn, eat and drink, but do not be extravagant because he likes not that wasteful ones. Last Hadith we have in sha Allah today is concerning the very issues of upbringing, girls, looking after girls three to one, but this hadith mentions about a bringing two girls and Anacin Robley Allah Juan, and in the video sallallahu alayhi wa sallam call man Algeria Taney had Tablo law. The i o Malkia Mati Erna Hua can have a one hour sabia who, for whom Muslim. In this hadith the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said whoever suppose two girls till the attain maturity, he and I will come on the Day of Judgment like this.

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Then he joined his fingers illustrating the SallAllahu sallam. The word geria is similar of Jerry ATtiny, which is dual and Joelle in plural live Hola. Bye. By the way, it does not necessarily mean a slave, as in many interpretation of the Quran they think and wala means a slave Algeria means a slave girl. No, not necessarily. And Jerry is a young girl and Willem is a young boy

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and Nabi SallAllahu sallam said to Abdullah if not best, and he is of his family member, his cousin is going to have a different view Salah Salem Kalia, Hola, ner Lim Oka kalimat he said to Abdullah of novices cousin, overland or young boy, okay geria younger. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, if you are entrusted to look after two girls, and you are bringing them properly, you take good care of them. You support them financially. You support them morally. You educate them, you buy them the needed clothes, the needed food, you give them the proper education until they grew up until they get married. Wow.

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What kind of reward is waiting that person? He will be so close to the Prophet Salah Salem, the same nearness of a person who sponsors or adopts or looks after orphans.

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Why not boys only girls because the NABI SallAllahu sallam was addressing people who detested having Gods whenever one would be given the news that his wife gave birth to a girl. He will be disgusted, you think is sickening, and he will hurry to get rid of the baby girl. So in addition to the Quranic verses condemning this practice, they came also the Prophetic teachings are prophetic etiquette. When his granddaughter the Prophet sallallahu Sallam his granddaughter was wearing a red dress and she was walking in the machine and he was giving her a bottle Juma he interrupted the hotbar and he came down he went through the rose, he picked her up

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and he went back to the member to resume to resume his hotbar will make no distinction no differences between boys and girls. There is no preference in this regard. If there is a preference, then for being patient for upbringing, then the girls properly for looking after them, educating them until they reach the age of maturity. You will be eligible to be so close to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, like his fingers when he pointed with the two fingers like so close to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam this hadith

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was mentioned in the context of another narration. When the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said to our Aisha Radi Allahu anha whenever a beggar comes ask from you don't you repel him? Don't you say no don't have give him anything even if it is a date we'll have the attack Inara while Bishop Kitamura then in the following episode Insha Allah we will learn the entire Hadith there are two consecutive Hadith in this regard but for now brothers and sisters we really really ran out of time. We're going to miss you so much May Allah subhanaw taala accept from all of us, who luckily had our stuff for Hola Hola. Hola, como SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad, while early he was like your

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Salah, Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him. You owe me You owe me is to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest alone. Glory to him

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is to be the best and gave his religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping comes fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling the best, cheapest

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