Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #126 Mar 4th 2015

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The Hadith is a title used in Islam, where individuals take care of orphaned children and give them their last name as a way to be kind to them. The use of adoption in Islam is common in the West, where parents and children are considered the same. sponsor an individual's parents and siblings are considered important, and not bringing children with them in public spaces is common. The importance of trusting one's "will" is emphasized, as miskeens are the ones who need help. The segment also touches on the success of NASA's mission to space and the importance of avoiding false rumors.
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love and God is the greatest moment only glory to Him. He won't make you must to be the best and give his best to religion to them. Allah God is the Greatest. The long annoying Glory to him

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is to be the best and give his best religion to a Salah Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla wa salatu salam ala Nabi almost affair Sayidina Muhammad in wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Manuela, who about brothers and sisters will come to an episode number 147 indices of Guardians of the pious

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in sha Allah. Today will continue explaining chapter number 33. And that is going to be the third episode in the chapter. May Allah make it easy for us to learn the useful knowledge and then act upon it and accept it all from us alone me. The Hadith that we will begin with today is a very interesting Hadith that I believe most Muslims are aware of it. It is concerning sponsoring the orphans looking after orphans supporting orphans and the virtues of doing so. Everybody knows the Hadith that interview sallallahu alayhi salam assayed the person who do Kapha Allah Talia team will be with Me in Paradise like these two fingers and he pointed with the index and the middle finger,

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indicating that

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it is such a great honor for a person to look after an orphan to sponsor an orphan. Let's look into the Hadith. And then the following Hadith I would like to quote it as well before we start the shot because they are relating to each other. So Hadith number 262 is narrated by Salim Hassan Assadi are all the Allahu Anhu call, caller rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and our keffi Lulea team if you Jannetty Hakkoda or Ashara disability while Gustavo with her Raja Vina Huma

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in this hadith which is collected while Imam will go Hurry,

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the great companion Salim Mossad a Saturday May Allah be pleased with him narrated that the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him say, I will be like this in paradise with the person who takes care of an orphan. He peace be upon him raised his forefinger and the middle finger by way of illustration, so when he said that, I'll be like this, he meant so close. So close, the person who would take care of an orphan will be so close to me, like these two fingers close to each other, the middle and index finger.

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Again, the following Hadith as I said, Allah to study the two Hadith together because the meaning is closed, but the second Hadith which is Hadees number 263, has an excellent information that we will elaborate on in sha Allah. The hadith is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Anhu called Carla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam carefully it teamie la Hu la vie en our who can hurt any Phil Jana, we're Ashara ra we are who are Malik no Anna's is Bertie what was taught? Are our who? Muslim, Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him rated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, said he who takes care of an orphan. Whether he is a relative to the orphan or he's not like he's a

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stranger will be in Paradise with Me like these two fingers. And then later NSF mnemonic pointed with the forefinger, the index finger and the middle one by means of illustration. Okay.

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So, what is the general meaning of the Hadith? Nabi sallallahu alayhi salam in both a hadith is encouraging the Ummah to take care of each other, the sarong to take care of the weak, the rich to take care of the poor, those who have to give those who do not have and he pointed out by means of emphasizing that, especially orphans whenever they lose their father, what is the definition of an orphan, Elia teen

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is an orphan and in the Arabic language Alia team is a child who loses his or her father

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while they are under the age of puberty, so they are called er team and your team for feminine i term is applauded for Emelia tema, Fela Takahara and spirit of Doha Do not oppress nor repel the orphan.

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Alia team is the one who loses his father, or both parents, but the person who loses his mother is not a deity, because his father is still living, and he looks after him. The person who provides for the family is dead, and the family is going through turmoil. So Allah subhanaw taala brings to the attention of the whole OMA, you guys, if you want to enter Paradise, if you want to be so close to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, pay attention to those who are in need, because they lost their father, their main provider, they lost their guardian, so treat them as you treat your own children. That's why he said care, Phil AlFalah is to take care of the orphan and

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all their needs with a financial or moron education, tarbiyah medication, you know, you name it is not that you just pay for their school tuition. This is just one band,

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their food supply

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and one of them got sick, or their mother got sick, they need an operation, they needed a surgery, you're rushing to the hospital.

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You sense that they are going through some hard time you stand next to them. That's called Cafe Allah.

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In English, they use the word adoption, or the term adoption. And some people on the answer about adoption in Islam adopting an orphan some people say it's haram.

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This is not exactly true. There is a difference between adoption in a sense of AlFalah, to look after an orphan, to sponsor them, to take care of their needs to provide for them, to educate them, to be for them like a dad or a father.

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And the other one, which is a prohibited form, is when people go to an orphanage for innocence. And they pick up a child whose father is unknown.

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The biological father is unknown. So they raise them and they consider them like their original children. So he would give the child with that he or she their own last name. But this person's father is there somewhere whether he is known or not. And this child is not from your line. The Quran ordered us to look after the orphans to be kind to the orphans to sponsor orphans. But he forbade us in Surah till Aza to give them your last name. Because it implies the following. When you give a child your last name, and he's not actually your son, he's not from your line, or a girl who's an orphan, you give her your last name, and you treat her like your origin. Sorry, like your

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branch you are an origin for her. And she is like you are your own daughter, then you will treat her as a woman who is forbidden for you to take her in marriage as a wife.

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And is that true? No, that is not true. Because this girl even though there is of course a big gap with her due to the age or because you are the one who raised her.

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But still, she's not your daughter. You're not allowed to give her your last name. That's why we'll find the idea in Surah Eliza Allah Almighty says in this room him who were up on self-aware in the law, even if you don't know their fathers, still, you do not give them your last name because he is not your son. She is not your daughter fail and Talamo

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for where no comfy Dini, why am I worthy? Of course, this area has a reason behind its revelation. And it took a long story in order to eliminate this common practice where the person will treat an adopted child as his own child, in a sense, that the person would consider the adopted daughter like my own daughter. So in this

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As she doesn't have to wear hijab before me. And obviously when my own daughter comes home, she gives me a hug and a kiss and my daughter, and if it is a boy, he does the same with the mother, you know, parents and children, but those kids, whom Allah Almighty ordered us to look after to sponsor and you know, to adopt all that us to be careful not to treat them as your own line as your own children because they are not actually. So, I hope that we understand the difference in this regard. On one hand, Allah subhanaw taala ordered us to adopt the children to do the ITAM the orphans and to do Kaffir Allah and he promised magnificent word for those who look after orphans.

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But on the other hand, he stated that you should not give them your last name. If this is the case, then is it permissible for a wife whenever she gets married, to change her family name, to be named after her husband's name? Obviously not that is not permissible. And this is a very common practice in the West. And many Muslim families. They adopt the same practice unknowingly and they think it is okay.

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No, it is not okay. It is haram and it is a very big haram. It's a major sin, you keep your own name or their own home, leave him who were accustomed to and Allah, ascribe them to their own fathers. That is more just with Allah subhanho wa Taala and before him.

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So with all the Hadees talking about the status of the one who sponsors and takes care or adoption orphan, NWO Salalah Alia Salam emphasize that great honor was saying such person who will be with Me in Paradise like this too, and he pointed with

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be asked by a host by whatsapp Berba alone Austin is the middle finger and as suburb is the forefinger or the index finger, sometimes it is used and it is called sub bed. And sometimes it is called sub Bahaa or and Musa why

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Sabetha from Sudan Bucha is insulting and cursing. You know when somebody is telling somebody off and talking harsh them, the point with the index finger like that.

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So the insult the curse and detail off and the woman with the index finger that's why ever since the Arab use this as a sign of warning and being very angry, so they call it a sub Beva because it is commonly used in a sebab. Insulting and turning off.

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And in our salah. Whenever we set for Tisha hood we point with the forefinger to say a shadow Illa Illa, Allah and the hottie on the Juma prayer while giving the hotbar he points while making dua with the forefinger. That's why it's also called as a sub Bahaa

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Musa Bihar because it makes this be, it glorifies Allah subhanaw taala. And sometimes without saying a word, when you

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point with the index finger like that, it indicates that you are monotheistic.

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That's why your point with the index finger into shahada and say a shadow Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, I bear witness that there is no God to be worshipped but Allah so now we know the two names of Sai Baba and a suburb and the reasons behind the two names.

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I'll use the indication when, once an abuse Allah Salam himself pointed with the two fingers.

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And then when NSEP Malik illustrated what the prophets Allah Salah meant in the Hadith which is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah, it means that Subhan Allah, there will be no barrier between you and the prophets, Allah Allah Allah Salam in paradise. And that was the ultimate goal of the companions and it is the ultimate goal of all the true followers of the Prophet sallallahu Do you guys remember Robbia ignorable estimate?

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When the prophets Allah Allah Salla Munna toward him. It said 70 Robbia. Ask of me.

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He said, Yeah rasool Allah is Allah es algo como Rafa. Kataka Phil Jana. All what I'm asking is to be with you in paradise. Obviously when all the believers into paradise they

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They will be all in heaven, but not in the same grade not in the same category not in the same level. There will be higher people there is a lien and there is alpha docile Allah which is the highest level of paradise May Allah make us all amongst the rulers of alpha, docile Allah and this is what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam encouraged us whenever we make dua to aim high to say Allahu in NSL Raquel Phil Del Sol Allah, Mira Jana, which is the highest zoom in paradise. So we are Nicolas let me say I want to be with you know, just I want to enter agenda

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similar to the Phil's wife when she said Rob Divini and Cabaye 10 Phil Jana. Build the house for me with you in paradise.

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I don't just want to enter paradise. I want to have an access to see you. The Sahaba wanted to have an access to see the prophets Allah Allah Allah Selim day and night. What did the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to Robbia said I nearly enough seeker because of the SU helped me out to achieve this high status offer as much now I feel as possible, as much sujood as possible. When Sal ban may Allah be pleased with him was said and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam asked him what is setting you say the Rasul Allah every time.

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I desire to see you I just come to the masjid and once I lay my eyes upon you, I feel comfortable by Allah or prophet of Allah you are dearer to me than my own wife, my children, my parents and Wallahi more than my own self, Bakula the car to mouth your mouth attack and every time I remember that you will die. And I will try to I just feel sad because I don't know what is going to happen in heaven and whether I will be able to see you as often. So Allah subhanaw taala revealed the area of Surat

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and is that when when you play Allah or was Hula, hula it can Allah Dina and I'm Allahu Allah him in and Naveen, also the Aquino shahada, it was Saudi Hain well has an acre of yoka I believe. 69 Chateau number four.

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Okay. There is now an act which will fulfill that dream.

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The ultimate goal

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of all of those who love rasool Allah is Allah Allah, Allah Salem, those who wanted to be with him, very simple. sponsor an orphan, adopt an orphan, look and take care of an orphan. Look after an orphan Subhan Allah. This is a great honor, not to be missed.

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Their word is in proportion with the deed it doesn't mean that the deed exactly deserves that but Allah subhanaw taala is the most generous, it means that Allah loves this deed so much, because most people will be negligent of the orphans. We visit each other because I you know, my friend and I go to his house and he comes to my house, he brings gifts I go and I take gifts, but when my friend dies or whenever I die, you know, the other family forget about the other family, very rare that they visit. Very rare that the recognize that they are in financial need. So maybe your Salalah salaam brought to our attention. Hey, you want to be with me in paradise? sponsor an orphan? What

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about the following Hadith?

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The following Hadith and Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Anna were carefully at Imola, who only really he earned our work ahead of time.

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Which means whenever you

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whenever you sponsor an orphan, whether this orphan is yours is one of your relatives, or his somebody whom you do not know you have no relationship to whatsoever, then you still get the same status, the same word that you will be with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in paradise.

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So

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an orphan who's related to like, you know, your grandson, God forbid if your son dies, like what happened with the Prophet sallallahu sallam, his son, Abdullah. Abdul Muttalib son got married to me and then he went on a trade and he died before even getting to see his son. So, Abdul Muttalib sponsored Muhammad and started looking after Mohammed Salah Allahu Allah said, Then, Abdul Muttalib is his grandfather left who the orphan is related to him.

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Then he died. So his uncle

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I will tell him, took charge of Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, he was only eight at this age Subhanallah he lost his father because when he lost his mother at the age of six, then he lost his grandfather at the age of eight.

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So, everyone who sponsored Mohamed Salah Salem was related to him, the grandfather, the uncle, le Ryrie, he, whenever you sponsor an orphan or orphans, who are not related to you, neighbors, or Allah bless to someone else and you go to any nonprofit organization and say, you know, I would like to sponsor a family in Gaza, or an orphan or orphans in Syria, or in Kashmir, or here or there, you know, there are many places who are in desperate need. So when you do so, you get the same status, which is up with the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, like these two fingers, immediate finger and accept Bahaa the forefinger, in paradise, what an honor.

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In none other Hadees which is collected by Abu Dawood, may Allah have mercy on him. In a rated that the Prophet SAW Allah Allah Allah cinema say that, whenever he will be permitted to enter paradise.

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There will be a woman who will be competing with him racing to enter paradise at the same time. It is obviously known to ask that no one should enter heaven before Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, but who they are to raise to where they will never be a Salalah Salafi them rotten to bear due to a Derani series rushing to enter with me or after me at the same time. Who is he? Who is she? The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I said, this is a woman.

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How does that NAFSA holla at me

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she did not get married after her husband died after she was with it. And she devoted her life to look after her orphans. Subhan Allah,

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even though she's a mother, I mean, she's stuck with the kids anyway, but she devoted her life to raise her offense. This woman would raise to enter the to enter agenda along with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Owen S.

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In another Hadith interview, salallahu Alaihe Salam is it in this hadith, even though it's collected by an edible Mufasa in the book of Allah wa offered by Mr. Buhari, the individual etiquette, but this hadith is also a weak Hadith and it's collected by imagine, but the meaning is valid, and it's supported by many other Hadith. When Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam has said the best of houses, the best of houses is a house in which there is a a team an orphan, your center LA has been treated kindly.

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Imagine when you bring a child an orphan who lost his father, and you bring him to live with your own kids.

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And your best bet this child is under the age of weaning. Still being breastfed. If your wife is capable to Breastfeed the child, then in this case, don't worry about the Maharani relationship because if it is a girl or a boy, they will become like your own children but simply due to suckling

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on my hair to community or dynaco Well How To co Minerva and number 23 Chapter number for those who are forbidden forever to marry a woman who breastfed you whenever you were a child five satisfying times, or

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a woman, Dora, who breastfed you Yeah honey, if a woman breastfed a child, then this child is not allowed to marry any four daughters because they become brothers and sisters, due to suckling. And in this case, is girl can sit at home with the man because his wife breastfeed the baby, the girl so she grew up like his own child, but there is no inheritance, there is no inheritance. The only new ruling will be that it is not permissible to marry her.

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And your son is not allowed to marry her.

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Baby because they are brothers and sister due to what is known as arroba. So the list of houses is a house in which an orphan is been treated kindly.

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Then he said Salalah sellin and the worst of houses is a house in which there is an orphan who is been mistreated, has been mistreated. Then he added also in the same Hadith and our Kefalonia team if agenda

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will she'll be elsewhere IE, me and the person who sponsors or takes care of an orphan will be with me like these two fingers in paradise.

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When some people complain that sometimes our hearts are hard and harsh and abuse Allah Allah Salam gave this advice he said in Sahara Selia team, what does it mean? A mess, you know in Gulu, we say masu or Ross. When several Bureau O say can

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you wet your fingers and you wipe over your hair or head

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and mess his to wipe over em Sahara Selia tea and, you know, you don't know how much passion and how much comfort you give to an orphan. When you play around with him, you put your head or hand over his or her head. Kids lose their fathers lose their guardian. You support them, you buy gifts for them, you take it home. And once you tap or place your hand over the heads. This is something that softens the heart. This is as far as an advice from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to tender your heart to make your heart tender and soft, in Saharsa laity and also he said Salah Allah Allah sent a man mr. Hara say a team lead me I'm so in the law provided you're doing this for the sake of Allah

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subhanaw taala not because you're interested in the mother not because you know, for a reason or another law. Can Allah Who equally shall rotten mother to Allah? Yeah, who has an ad?

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He said Salallahu Alaihe Salam, if you wipe with your hand over the head of an orphan, each single hair that your hand will go over, you will have not has an has an ad. For each single hair, we don't count. But the meaning of all of that is to tender your heart to make you feel the need of the orphans and the families who will lose the Father and to sponsor them to support them financially. So this is an excellent investment for those who have extra fund who would like to do the true saving and the true investment with Allah subhanaw taala to support and sponsor orphans, financially, morally by every possible mean, one of my shoe suggested that, that the best mean to

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sponsor an orphan fully and do full calf Ella is if the person marries this woman with a bunch of kids. Why? Because a woman with a bunch of kids and she's widowed. She's in need for a man to support the children to be like a father for them, to take them out of this trauma. Even if he's not interested in this woman, he is doing this solely for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala he guarantees this word and he himself did this a couple of times for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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you see what happened when the Prophet salaallah Salah proposed to almost Salama, who's an old woman, he is having young wives beautiful wives version, you know, never been married before. But he proposes to almost Elena who lost her husband.

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And she said yeah rasool Allah. But you know, I'm an old woman, and I have a bunch of kids. Sad I know and I'm old too, and your kids will be mine. This is the sole reason why we're marrying a woman like that. Why the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salam was ordered by Allah to marry or masala now to marry a widow. You know, there are orphans who need the support of the whole society. And this is one of the legitimate real reasons behind polygyny or taking for accepting or considering taking a second wife. Okay, why that brothers and sisters, we'll have to take a short break and in sha Allah in a few minutes we'll come back to you to study some more interesting Hadith in the chapter. Please

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stay tuned.

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in the following Hadith and abuse Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam gives a definition of who is ill miskeen

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who is the true poor person who's in need for help? Basically the financial health

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this is Hadith number 264.

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Abu Roy Radi Allahu Anhu called

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kala Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam lace and miskeen on leather Utara do Tamra to what term Rotarian well a local Metal well look metal and enamel miskeen on lady yet if motif Hakuna la

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over Iraq probably Allahu Allah rated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said,

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the needy person. The poor person is not the one who can be turned away with a date or two at a fruit I mean, or a bite or two. The true miskeen is the one who despite his poverty, abstains from begging. This is a Hadith which is narrated by both at Imam Hari and Muslim may Allah have mercy on them. And in another sound narration, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam again said, the needy person is not the one who goes around begging from people, and who can be turned away with a morsel or two or a date or two. The true miskeen is the one who does not find enough to suffice him

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does not disclose his poverty, so that he might be given any charity and does not stand up to back hadith is collected by Mr. Bahari Muslim and agreed upon its authenticity as well.

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We perceive in general, the for clear as the person who still reaches out his hand and say give me I asked why Allah give you gave me, I have been starving. I need to take my kids to the hospital, I need to buy food for my kids. And subhanAllah that has become a profession now. And recently, I read in the news about a man who traveled from a very poor country to work in case a

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and it was not really working out very much for him in the beginning. So whenever he was in a financial dilemma, he went out in the seat and he started bagging. So people give him when he returned home, he realized that the outcome of bagging is much better than 10 jobs. So he decided, You know what, I'm not going to work. Every day he would go and back and he haven't seen his family for 15 years.

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He was bagging until he made a fortune. He became multimillionaire. Then when he returned home,

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he gave to his wife, a brand new SUV, very expensive car as a gift to compensate for her suffering and his absence. And he opened a tourism company and a chain of whatever. You know, this is a person who found it palatable for him to bag and he was not bagging because he was in need. He was begging because it was giving him a better income than working in any other job that he could do. This is exactly what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is saying and the hadith is still in us. Sometimes you put the sadaqa in the wrong hand.

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There is a difference between unknowingly and I already know that those people are faking it. They're fakers by just want to drop my soda somewhere and that's it. Big difference, of course. So he's alerting us to pay attention to the presence of the true needy ones whom would never ask.

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We rather are the ones who's supposed to look for them. And has reference in the Quran in and number 273 Surah Al Baqarah Allahu Allah.

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little Fukuhara yeah annual charity should be given to the poor who are they

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as everyone who's reached his hand or her hand and begging for help categorized as for clear or miskeen Alladhina or su fill are they are confined or surface Avila they are confined in the way of Allah they cannot go around on Earth, they are either having disability or short handed for a reason or another. Their provision is the same for them they cannot find a job or they find they cannot actually work disabled. Yeah, several hormone J Hello Evernia Amina Taff have one who does not know their status may think that these guys are rich. Why? Because they never ask. Whenever people ask them, Is everything okay? Yeah, yeah, cool. Everything is great. Alhamdulillah it couldn't be

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better. And how's life when others are complaining that the inflation of the prices and everything is getting expensive? Those people would not even talk about it less, some people might recognize that they're poor and needy, and some people might give them any charity. So out of shyness out of modesty, they would not ask daddy for whom we see now whom

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you should know them by their signs. What is their prominent sign? Guess what? Less Yes, Luna nursery in half.

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They do not ask financial help from people and importantly Subhanallah Yanni.

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Allah the Almighty is bringing to our attention in this area. Similarly the Hadith that we have to look for such people who are in need because they will not ask, they will not reveal their needs their financial need. I have so many students because of this area. I have witnessed that I have some students at alasa University whom I used to teach

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and

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they were from another country

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Subhanallah

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those students were extremely poor. Extremely, extremely poor.

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I know that they only had one outfit, pair of trousers and a sweater and he will be wearing this on regular basis every day every day every because I don't have anything else. But they always look neat. They always meant Great.

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Whenever they wanted to wash their clothes, they would wash it but they will stay home until it dries up so that they wear it again over and over to that extent.

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How would you know that such people are poor? They are always looking neat.

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Even though all what they have is a single outfit. And I oh no on the other hand, people who stand before their closet for 15 minutes 20 minutes half hour. You know being confused. Honey What should they wear your sweater, these trousers or this soap with this shoes with these socks because we have plenty of choices. But those people basically they don't have this problem they just get up this are the same. And what they eat every day is the same they eat food food food food is beans and a common

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meal in Egypt. You know Rich and poor eat it but mainly poor eat it for breakfast lunch and dinner and snacks in between the Eat fool as well.

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So this is what they eat. And this is what they address. But when people see them, they look in it

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daddy for whom we see my home. What is their prominent feature luxurious Luna NASA will have so number one sign Allah said LJ hill the one who does not know their reality their you know financial need would think that these guys are rich

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may not TAF off because he won't ask. They're very modest. They're very shy to ask. It would kill them to say I'm in need rather they would go to sleep hungry and not ask anyone to help them to buy dinner. There

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CMR home, they assign law yes Aluna NASA will have those are the people whom Allah subhanaw taala loves, and those whom the people whom Allah ordered the rich people to look for them.

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But those whom whenever you come to park your car here and there they come in decision, Oh, give me some give me some give me some give me some here and there. And many cases have been revealed that these people are very rich. But they have taken this as a job. Some of these people I know, we heard about their stories, early morning, their kids are living their families are living in a very nice fancy villa.

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And they will drive their nice cars this up nicely in the morning, go into his company, then he would go somewhere to change and bend his leg tie up and put something over his arm and pretend that his handicap and sit in the seat to back and that was the job. They have become addicted to that. Okay. It is true that whenever you see a beggar

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you should not repel him. My Messiah Illa Fela Tahara no insulting but Allah subhanaw taala said kolam. Now rufen are Melfort on how you Roman sada cotton yet VAWA. So the alternative is, if I know that there are people who are more worthy, I should pay my charity to such people. And I should not encourage those who are taking this as a job.

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One day while my kids were in the car, and I was fixing the wheels.

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A child came to send me some instance.

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So I said how much he said, though, much. I said, Okay. And he started talking to him. I pulled off my car, and I sat on the platform with him. And I said, What is your name? And where are you living? And why are you doing this? He said that my father died. And I'm in school. And I'm working only on Fridays. So I can buy a pair of shoes for my brothers are going to school. This is heartbreaking. Right? He does not ask for help. He is sent in some instance, maybe making some you know, you know, little bit of profit. But he's only working on Friday. Okay, I want furthermore to investigate. And which school are you in? You said such and such school in the sixth grade. Okay, I have some of my

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kids in sixth grade, who might teach and I know exactly what they study. I said what do you have in the Arabic syllabus? He told me so I tested him and how much surah you know of the Quran that much that's it.

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Daddy for him busy now. You recognize this person who is a representative of a family he is working to provide for a family while he is only in the sixth grade. He's about 11 to 12 years old at maximum Subhanallah

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in this case, it will be a shame.

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If you bargain with him and he says five pounds you say no three and a half. Or I'll take 245 This is nonsense. Such person you need to guard his a fair his modesty and say I would buy it or I would buy all of what you have. And here is 100 bucks. Go and study. Let me drive you home. And on the way you buy one pair of shoes and you buy How many brothers and sisters you have you buy them all brand new shoes like your own kids. This is the best investment especially that you knew that he's an orphan. So Nabi SallAllahu Sallam is bringing to our attention that there are people who are definitely in need, but we are being negligent of the need because we're giving our money somewhere

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else taking it easy on somebody said give me give me give me

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and this is very common in hajj and umrah. People come to our tents and Mina and while we're sitting, you know, making our Afghan between the Athan and in a coma, you find a man or a woman walking around and say I lost my passport and I lost my wallet and I can go home.

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If you want to lie

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at least you have to understand that there are some sane people around who would not swallow your lie because as we all know that when you go to perform hajj number one, the intraday quality of passport. So how do you claim that you lost your passport and you lost your ticket? You used to use the same light and years ago when the ticket was like a carton. I have a very hard copy. But now you don't need to carry a ticket with you. So it's very obvious this person is a liar. Then I'm not gonna give you anything.

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What it is

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I'm where I was actually walking, and I saw people at a fast food restaurant in Makkah. And I saw this man was gazing from the window or those who are eating, and his mouth was wet, he was hungry and was starving. That's it.

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You don't need to go and ask him whether you're hungry or not, can I help you by any need, you already know that he's in need. So those people larious El gouna, NASA, il halfa, les aluminous el HAFA. I was invited by a very rich person once

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and we have lunch, then after we finished. It is my habit to take the go the lift over, I would eat it. My family would eat it. Any person would eat it. And he said, you know, you made me happier. She said, Well, I said, Because I always do that. I take the left over to go why he said, You know, when you step out, you normally find poor people who would really appreciate the sandwich which was going to end up in the trash Subhanallah we just stepped out.

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And a man was walking around and once we gave him the sandwich or the sandwiches, he was extremely happy and praising Allah and thanking us so much. So the hadith is inviting us to be practical, and offer the practical help not just a superficial one give those in whom you know that they are not actually in need. In the hadith of rah rah rah the Allahu Allah narrated that the prophets Allah Allah Allah celibacy.

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Many years alone nurse Atticus foreign men? Yes. Arun nessa taka Soran for Inanna Yes. Aloo Jimbaran failures tequila lemons le Coleus texture. Wow. Those who ask beg

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from people taka Soren Yeah, Anita, Catherine, they are not in need. But since it works, since when I said with this person, he says, You know, I start softening his heart and they say that my son is in the hospital. My mother in law is suffering and I cannot find food. So he gives me that gives me that person gives me so he's asking and begging taka Soran to increase his worth. He is not actually in need.

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The Prophet sallallahu Lisanna is saying that for Inanna Yes. Oh, John Mara is only taking burning cold piece of fire failure stacking lemons early Coleus TXR. They let him take little or much as much as you take you're only taking fire. You're only taking fire.

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Then Allah subhanaw taala

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is ordering us to put our trust in Him alone. In surah, two Tala can and number three he said we're menyatakan Allah Allah He for who has bought in Allah have early will embrace. Whosoever puts his trust in Allah Alone and Truly, Allah is sufficient for him today and rich, Allah knows tomorrow what is going to happen? If I lose my job, if I lose my investment and maybe in need, put your trust only in Allah? Because Allah would let you

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become a liability or dependent on the one whom you put your trust in? Yeah, honey, some people think and hamdulillah my friend is such and such and he's a rich person. Yes, LM. You only trust your friend because he's rich and if you are in need, He will help you. And Allah does not appear on your screen on your radar. That doesn't make any sense. dismiss all of that. And put your trust only in Allah. Do not ask a list if you are desperately in need.

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We ran out of time but in fact, we have a lot more to talk about this particular subject from a practical point of view. So hopefully in sha Allah will continue with it in the beginning of the next episode, next week in sha Allah. Until then, brothers and sisters I love you all in the care of Hola Hola. Hola. Esta for Allah Allah Alaikum wa sallahu wa ala Sayidina Muhammad Ali Salam wa sallam Allah

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Allah Allah, Allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He told me you must to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest, the one and

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only humans to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping cows fire as stones.

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sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting about bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stores selling the best were the cheapest

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