Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #067 May 28th 2014

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The history of Islam is discussed, including the implementation of Islam as a means of moderation and the use of "meditation" as a means of moderation. The importance of attending prayer and giving a hot bath during a crisis is emphasized, along with the need for forgiveness and avoiding sexual references in clothing and clothing clothing. The importance of fasting and staying at home is also emphasized, along with the need for forgiveness and avoiding war.
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allah God is the greatest of all mentally glory to Him. He bought me illness to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God has been greatest

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glory to Him

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and give his best religion to

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A salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi wa Salam o Nala Hill as you know stuff. Let's see Mr. Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa seldom at the Sleeman kathira. Brothers and sisters Welcome to the 85th episode. In the seas of Guardians of the pious,

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we're still explaining the 14th chapter in this collection, and this is going to be the fourth episode and in sha Allah before the last explaining chapter 14th, which is known as moderation in worship, or in Arabic, Electra Salado fill a bad

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the following Hadith which we'll begin with is Hadith number 148. And it is narrated by the companion abou Abdullah gerbil. Ignis Amara probably Allahu Anhu man on goon to also Lee man V your sallallahu alayhi wa sallam of Salah wet for curnutt Salah to who cos burn? Were hot metal who cos ba Raja who Muslim jabber dibny. Samira, may Allah be pleased with him and his father reported that I used to perform the prayer with the Prophet peace be upon him. And his prayer was moderate. And his hotbar or the sermon was moderate, as well. The word cost been from electro solid, which means moderation. And as you know that the whole chapter is known as barebow. Look, the Assadi feel a bad

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the chapter of moderation in worship. So I'll cause is moderation cause Don to be moderate

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interview Salallahu Alaihe Salam thought and practiced an older his companions to be moderate in every practice, even in the event that

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whether the author for themselves, or if they happen to be leading the Muslim community, he was very angry with some of their companions when they prolonged their prayer. Because they were the Imams such as in the case of Mardi, punishable, and others.

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And he said, Man, Celebi nurse, if you have faith, whoever is leading the prayer, he should make his prayer light, you should show it in his prayer, in essence, to shorten their citation, this is in the form of prayer. Because in the form of prayer, Muslims must attend the prayer and they must attend it in congregation and interview Salalah SlMs head for enum and homodimer. If there will be amongst those who will follow in the prayer the week the elders

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that had somebody who has some sickness, or have been working all day and he's so tired, he wanted to rest. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam made this remark because of a complaint was made by one of the companions who used to pray behind why they punishable. And he couldn't take it anymore because he was citing a longer citation, despite the fact that while the citation was so good, and very melodious, but whenever you're tired, you're tired. So he left the prayer. So he was accused of hypocrisy. He went to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and said, My job is to fish water, and only have been walking and I'm so tired. We wait for my wife until he finishes a prayer with you that he

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comes to our neighborhood to lead the prayer. And that's extra time we're waiting. And then when he leaves a prayer, he recites a longer re citation that I couldn't stand for the whole prayer. So I left so they accused me of nofap so in the video Salallahu Alaihe Salam declared the following statement, mon Salah be Nassif Allah Hafiz. Whoever is leading the prayer

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should make it light, moderate and recite a moderate the citation you have the whole Quran to recite in the night prayer if you want or in the voluntary prayer if you want, but whenever you lead in people, you should go

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According to the average person, or persons, Salah to Joomla is likewise, it is a prayer that is witnessed in midday. And Allah Almighty did not exempt men or any man from attending the prayer. Even if you're so busy in your business transaction, you must abandon old businesses, and you must shut down your stores your clinics and attend the Friday sermon and the prayer

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not only in a hadith that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam encouraged us to go to attend the prayer as early as possible. But also Allah subhanaw taala revealed the whole surah in the Quran he named it surah. Al Juma and in the Surah, Allah Almighty said, Oh, you will believe when you hear the answer, then the call to the Juma either Nordea, La Salette me young and Giamatti. First out iLASIK Rila weather will be so harsh to answer the call of Allah to attend the celebration of

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the remembrance of Allah zyk and listen to the sermon where there will be an abandon old type of business, trade, selling, buying and business transaction that is better for you if you weren't you know, then after the prayer is over fantastic you fill out the home and family law he was called Allah Kathira Allah Allah come to flew home. After the prayer is over, you can spread the earth and seek your provision and earn your living. So the only restriction is during this

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time, which is an hour or less to attend the whole prayer.

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The companion who narrated this hadith to us Jabber, Abdullah Abdullah ledger, but somehow may Allah be pleased with him,

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said that when he attended the prayers with the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he came with the following conclusion that whether his sermon or his prayer that he led the community and it was always moderate. So he benefited us that hotpot will Juma should be moderate. And the prayer should be moderate. Because there will be people who have excuses.

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There will be people who cannot sit for an hour to listen to the hotbar cross their legs, there are people who have some sickness or excuses. So make it easy so that people will be attentive. Meanwhile, we have other Hadith, which indicated that sometimes sometimes, but very, then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam delivered a long sermon or a long speech, such as once in a hadith which is narrated by a companion by the name Abu Zaid, he said.

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So Lebanon Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, Al Phaedra, Assad and member

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the Prophet peace be upon him, led us in the federal prayer. Then he ascended the pulpit and he started giving us marhaba a speech and admonition for hot Havana had had a lot of work. And he kept talking advice and us, reaching us until war prayer. So the Adan was called, and they prayed, Lord, he descended from the member. He prayed though, and then he resumed again he ascended the member, the half of Anna, and he resumed giving his hotbar until us, he descended, he led them in the ASA prayer. Then, after the prayer is over, he ascended again. And he continued his hotbar so we're talking about from fetch until it was sunset.

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It must be something very urgent. The NWO sallallahu alayhi salam wanted to teach them everything about the religion while on Arabic Americana aubema. Who are carrying, he even informed us in prophecies about what's going to happen in the future of what Allah Almighty has informed them. And this is a sound Hadith. Somebody may take this hadith and say, look, the prophets Hotbot is very long. It took a whole day, from dawn to sunset. Now, that was once and a few times that we recall the hotbar of the Prophet sallallahu sallam was kind of long, but otherwise, it was moderate. Most of the time awfully, his Friday sermon was murdered.

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Not only that, Abdullah hidden Amos road may Allah be pleased with him, and he's one of the greatest companions of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. He was in charge of carrying his miss work and his shoes and he used to enter with him into any place. He was lucky shadow. So he must have learned from the Prophet peace be upon him good

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A deal of knowledge when he moved to Vancouver. And he chose Thursday to give dallimore halka. People loved it. I want you to imagine we have one of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is teaching us. We would have asked him to teach us on every single day. And after every single prayer, some of us would love it. So the people in our group I say, You're so happy you're Rasulullah Oh, companion of the Prophet of Allah. Salallahu Alaihe Salam, we love your speech. We love your teachings. Why don't you teach us every day? Why only once a week? So he said, Ravi, Allahu Allah. That cannot rasool Allah salAllahu Alaihe Salam Yatta Hawala, Bill, however,

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the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah sent him us to choose the time which he would assume that we are ready to listen.

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He will not just give us after every prayer, when every single day, no, he would look around and see if people are ready to listen or not. How good is it?

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To give a hotbar, which lasts for an hour? And why are you looking around you see that half of the audience already fell asleep

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or being bored

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or looking around and they feel very uncomfortable. Why because you're taking too much time. Maybe it's hot, maybe it's extremely cold. Maybe people cannot sit down on the floor and cross legs, but if you make it moderate, similar to the hotbar of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, then you have heard the target, you deliver the hotbar and Allsop the sooner, you did exactly as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to do then we have voluntary Taleem you can announce that there will be a halka after any prayer or the subject will continue after we finish the Juma prayer, if it is something that really needs to be discussed and to be followed, so whoever is interested to attend, will sit down

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and in this case, they will not be forced to attend. But as you know, in hot button Jumar the prophets Allah Allah Allah said Emma said, Women, Mr. Hasakah dilemma,

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if you play around

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with your clothes, with some stones or papers on the floor, because he used to pray on the floor without mats and rugs, that would make your Joomla in vain.

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Faqad level, a level is vain. So you want people to sit and forced to sit for that much time. And sometimes the speaker repeats himself over and over and over. I mean, I would love to listen to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and I'm fairly sure that Companions would love to, but he still made his hotbox short and brief, he made it moderate. What you need to do is praise Allah Almighty send the peace and blessings upon the Prophet sallallahu sallam, recite an area of the Quran or Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and remind the audience with Taqwa Allah, to be dutiful to Allah subhanaw taala. Then you sit down for his Tara for a pause and rest. And then in the next time after prison

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Allah and sending the peace and the blessings upon the Prophet sallallahu sallam, you pray for the whole Ummah, for the audience, and so on. This is a very balanced speech, and the hotbar is perfect. In this condition.

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It annoys the audience. When the speaker is repeating himself over and over and over, he doesn't feel that people are annoyed, and people will feel very uncomfortable. As a matter of fact, I once attended a hotbar to someone whom I love and because I love and he's a great, great scholar, and his speech was perfect, not a single error in the language in the Arabic and every hadith is coated with the reference old sound Hadith and Athar yet with references to see a perfect perfect if as if he's reading from a book. He's talking from top of his head, masha Allah, he has a great memory. The hotbar lasted for an hour and 10 or 15 minutes. I personally loved it, because I cried as much as I

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can during this hot but I needed it. So I loved it so much. But Subhanallah soon after the hot leave, the Imam finished the prayer a lot of people screamed in objection that you have tortured us. We hate it. We hate it. It was awful. I said Subhanallah that means not necessarily because you liked it or because the speaker thinks it is beneficial to the audience, that you force them to listen to you. You force them to say

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For an hour or so, it is not a medicine that you shove it down their throat, give a moderate speech 1520 25 minutes, then after the Salah is over, if people would like to listen to you, if you have something to share with them, you may do that not on regular basis but if it is something that you think that it is needed, because of the occasion, so this way you keep balanced. The hadith said his hotbar was balanced as well as the prayer costs been moderate the speech as well as the prayer. There are also some other Hadees in favor of this meaning are more near sir may Allah be pleased with him.

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Give a Hotbot once fell Jezza whatever love

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LGs our Abla Algis his Hotbot was very brief, Abdullah he was very eloquent his speech was eloquent he delivered the message feminism when he descended, the audience said to him, yeah, well Jaquan his nickname, Lacan laughter What I will just fellow content and first, we love your speech, but it was very brief. It was very eloquent yet very brief fellow content and a first we wish that you you took some time you spoke a little longer. What did he say? For color in the semiotic, rasool Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam echoed in Nepal salata Rajawali workplaces are a hotbed he met in two min fucka he felt we will salata work su will hold better. We're in nominal biryani Sahara.

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He said, as a matter of fact, the reason why I give a brief hotbar

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because I heard the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said if the Imam gives a brief hotbar and offers a prayer moderately, he recites a longer citation but it seemed moderate. Okay. The Enlightenment is a sign of his knowledge he is a key is a man of understanding because he's following the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Then he said sallallahu alayhi salam

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were in nominal biryani Sahara. He said SallAllahu Sallam did some speech here speeches, Allah charms. It does not really have to be long. It is so brief, but it is to the point. It captured the hearts and the minds. One speaker once told me, he tested the audience in his community. Because every speech every hotbar people come to compliment him and say, wonderful speech. I loved your hotbar. I said, Well, Allah He wants I asked somebody who normally comes to me and said, It was great. I loved your speech. It was very nice. He said, Brother, do you remember what I said in the hotbar? What was I talking about? He said, in fact, not much. I don't remember any but I liked the

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way you were talking. He was capturing a Likert style. CMT. People got used to give compliments and then received some of the speakers and it made them even go further more and more because a couple will give them a compliment that you hope is nice. Can you make it a little longer? No. Abdullah Mossad was not tricked by that. He said Kana rasool Allah is Allah Allah Selimiye at the one who have been my whatever, I'm not any better than the Prophet sallallahu sallam, rather we should follow the Prophet, peace be upon him. In the Hadith, which I mentioned earlier, Hadith, Amara, Yasser, Allah be pleased with him when he said that this oral Hazza shortening the hotbar and pool

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of solidarity, prolonging the prayer is my enlightenment is a sign of knowledge and understanding of the Imam and doesn't mean that we're comparing the hotbar it's less to the length of the prayer No, but the hotbar compared to other hotbar and the prayer compared to other prayers, because sometimes the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to recite the whole sort of cough and hope the tone Jolla

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oftenly the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam would recite in the first raka Surah Al Juma and the second raka Surah Al mana of your code. So that may take about 15 Maybe 20 minutes if the Quran or the Tilawat is kind of slow 20 minutes, okay. It does not necessarily mean that you have to make the the prayer longer in time than the speech, but this is moderate. And this is also moderate.

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for LTE, no solid, sort of hotbar does not mean make the prayer longer than the speech rather, make the prayer long but moderate, and make the speech short but moderate, as well. Then you say, for there is charm in precise expression. In brief

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hotbar or speech, what really matters is that your message has been delivered. And it has been engraved in the mind of the audience and it really affected them. It all relies on the sincerity of the speech.

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There has been also other narrations that indicated the hotbar sometimes was long such as Roma Anahata, Radi Allahu, and once in hot button Juma he recited SWAT in

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the whole surah. And you know, how long the surah? Nah, it's about four, it's 14 and a half pages.

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So, this is quite long Surah it will take some time, yes, especially with a tail out. And he did not only do it once, he did it once. And there is of course, to stage the in Surah Tina, so while he was reciting the surah, in the hotbar, he recited at a stage that so he descended and he made sujood and the audience followed him, then he resumed the surah and that was his hotbar. And in the following Joomla, he did likewise, when he decided to search that he did not do Sousou though, he wanted to inform the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and the audience that the sujood is not a must. It is an emphatic or highly recommended sooner but it is not a must. The reference in this

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hadith and the author that the hotbar was kind of long.

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But that all depends on the nature of the audience. And whether they can afford it or not, into some message it Masha Allah nice carpet like cushions. With liners, you feel very comfortable. And there are seats, elevated seats for people who are handicapped or elders. And it is air conditioned with the beautiful sense. So the hottie whose regular healthy of the machine gives the football for half hour and everybody's happy 40 or 45 minutes, everybody's happy. Every time I visit the community anywhere in the world. I asked before the hotbar how long normally is your hotbar? So they say 40 or 45 minutes? I say? Do you think it's kind of long said no, we're used to it and everybody's happy

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with it. When you go to the west, particularly the emphasize it should not exceed half hour or 30 minutes. Why? Because as you know that it's a working day. And most of the people who would come for Joomla are taken off for an hour or the lunch break so that they can offer the Joomla and hit back to attend their work or job. Not only that in our massages in Houston, Texas, for instance. We used to have to hold three Friday Sermons and prayers of course consecutively why? Because if the machine is taken to and 3000 and the community is outgrowing the machine

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3000 at a time Masha Allah in one method, they pray and the second shift likewise and the third shift likewise are a little less than that, and the parking lot is full. So if this is the case, also it is advised to make the hotbar brief. Then Friday night we'll do

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the Taleem along with potluck and people who would get together if they like to sit for an hour no problem. What if you go over an hour in the voluntary Taleem in the dirt in the evening will in this case, any person who likes to be dismissed would not find any burden will not be blamed they can just simply withdraw and leave. But the problem is hot button Joomla people have no choice they have to attend until the end.

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Well insha Allah we'll take a short break and we'll be back in a couple of minutes please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. The following hadith is Hadith number 140 And nine

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the Hadith of the story of Abu darda his wife or mother there and Salman al Pharisee. May Allah be pleased with all of them and

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in more than one occasion, we refer to the Hadith as a story and as a reference to many benefiting lessons. I remember nawawi listed this hadith in the chapter of moderation to indicate that moderation is a cornerstone in the practices of this religion, including very bad at the acts of worship. So I would like to code the Hadith, and perhaps you can shed some light on some deduced lessons or benefits quickly because we indeed discuss this hadith repeatedly before. And who Haifa Wehbe Abdullah of the Allahu Anhu Khan.

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Ohana view sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam Ebina Sal mana wherever the fissara Sellman ever though the E for OMA dalda E. motiva zileuton

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for kala Masha and

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call it a hook I would doubt that lay seller who had to fit dunya further I would though the for Sona Allah huzzah for call Allah who call for in new saw him

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Before I mentioned the meaning of this hadith in English, I had been thinking about whether it is something good or not to recite the Hadith in Arabic for non Arabic speakers. I personally believe it is great. And it is a matter of course and act of worship to recite the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and I'm pretty sure that there will be some people who will benefit out of that.

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There is a reason why I make sure to recite it in Arabic, sometimes we have long Hadith, but Hamdulillah I got some feedback that

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non Arabic speakers reverse, particularly new Muslims, Americans and professionals are very happy that we make sure to recite the Hadith in Arabic and we discuss the Arabic vocabulary, they're very happy with that they think it is very beneficial. So I would also like your feedback in this regard. What do you think of taking a few minutes to recite the Arabic texts the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam before I mentioned its meaning in order to decide whether to continue doing the same, or to satisfy will just mentioning the English reference just like Kamala Harris. The hadith is the reason why companion by the name Abu Haifa may Allah be pleased with him. He narrated that

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the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salam made a brotherhood between Salman and I would doubt that this brotherhood that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam established initially between animal hygiene and Al Ensenada, immigrants and the winners of an Medina, the people of El Medina, who supported them financially, morally, spiritually, and even physically. So established el Hawa the brotherhood between Sandman and Abu Dhabi, may Allah be pleased with him. Sell man paid a visit to now his brother, not blood brother, brother, brother in Islam, because of this bond, he paid a visit to his brother, Abdullah, may Allah be pleased with him, and he found his wife, omo dadada, may Allah be

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pleased with her. She was dressed in shabby clothes. And he asked her why she was in that condition. She replied, your brother, I would doubt that is not interested in this world. She meant in the luxury of this world. And she meant also that he is not interested in having fun with women with his wife and that's why there is no really need to change into better clothes. She was dressed in her working clothes, see Abul manner. In the meantime, I would or the May Allah be pleased with him came and

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he quickly prepare the meal for Sandman. Sandman with

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was about to eat with him. I would dare say that I'm fasting. And this is exactly what Omar did. Omada was referring to. He is always fasting during the day, and he's always praying during the night, so he doesn't have time for me. So instead I'm fasting Salman or the Allahu Allah said, Well, I'm not going to eat a list if you eat. So I will not that ate with Salman

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when it was night, Sandman spent the night in Abu Dhabi, that house. Well, a part of the night passed and above the as usual, got up to pray the night prayer. What's a man what the Allah Who

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asked him to sleep again. An elder there complied.

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After a while, I would have their guard up again. And he was going to pray. Sandman ordered him again. Go back to sleep. And he did. Then when it was the last hours of the night, the last part of the night, Sandman or the Allahu Allah asked him to get up. And they both pray Tahajjud prayer then Sandman told about the May Allah be pleased with him. In Arabic Allah kaha couch means, you know has arrived on you. And your soul has arrived on you. And your family has right on you. Their family here specifically refers to the wife we're in the Annika like a haka. So you should give to everyone his right. Elder there rob the Hola, Juan. Oh, no, these guests, and he did not interrupt him. He

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did not argue with him. But when he came to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, he reported the whole story before him. The Prophet peace be upon him did not exceed saying sadhaka Sandman. Sandman has spoken the truth as an indication that all what Sandman did and say is absolutely right. And the hadith is collected by a man will will hurry. The hadith in fact, explains itself.

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But the many lessons that we can learn some of them for innocence. The importance of El Hawa the Brotherhood, for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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before the Battle of jihad, and since the migration, this brotherhood was established to the point that

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the two brothers whom the Prophet sallallahu sallam, Allah's Messenger stablished this bone between them have become like real brothers, in a sense that they would even inherit one another. Whoever dies first the second would inherit him. But after the Battle of bed, that part was abrogated. The whole OMA was united as a Lord Almighty said in an unmarked Muna. Therefore, the believers are but brothers. Firstly who been fly calm in surah Taha gerat and in surah Allah Imran Allah Almighty says who are tossing will be heavily lady Jamia wallet for Rocco was good only Amata Allahu Allah come,

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hold you hold fast to the robe of Allah subhanaw taala and do not be divided. And remember Allah has favor upon you since you were divided,

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shown enmity against one another, then Allah subhanaw taala United your hearts and made you buy his favor when love one another for his sake. So we should try to maintain this bond, Love one another for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala and look what our brother has have rights over his brother to the point that he spent the night in his house, and he ordered him to do or not to do and his brother comply with him. Why because he knows that he will only tell him something which is beneficial for him. And if he has any issue with him, it can be discussed later in a very peaceful manner as a Buddha did when he went to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to find out whether Sandman was

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right or wrong because he escaped fasting. And that is another lesson which is that it is a sunnah, that whenever you have a guest if you're fasting, a voluntary fasting, that to break your fast in order to honor your guest, Nabil Salallahu Alaihe Salam,

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as a matter of fact, went to

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a woman by the name of Muhammad, Allah be pleased with her. She entered upon the Prophet Salah Salem and she was fasting. So the Prophet ordered Ashara could be milk. He drank then he gave it to her, Sherry But then she

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He asked him, she said that she was fasting. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Well, will you make an app a day that you miss during Ramadan? She said, No, he said, then you don't have to make it up. Which means for the voluntary fasting, if you skip that fasting, halfway,

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if you feel we hungry, thirsty, tired, and you decide to break your fast, if you have a guest, or if you have been invited, the mandatory invitation or data which you have to answer by name, you are asked and you can afford to go to accept the doubt, then you should go.

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And you are invited to eat. You can eat and you can break your fast. Are you blameworthy? No, you're not? Do you have to make up the day? No, you don't because it was mere NAFLD. Unless if it was a day, that you will then on yourself such as another? What are they that you will make an offer for a missed fasting during Ramadan. So anyway, you have to make up the day. Similarly old in a way I feel brothers and sisters. By the way, when I say you don't have to, it is recommended, of course, to make up another day, but it is not a must all then how I feel if you are not able to continue for a reason or another and he withdrew from the NAFLD prayer then after fasting, you're not required to

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make it up or pray over or fast again.

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But the only rabada which is very distinct in this regard, once you start it, even if it is enough, you must complete it. And you're not allowed to skip it except for a legitimate reason. And when you skip it for a legitimate reason, with a failure, then you must make it up as if it is a firm is a hedge wall Onra where a team will have Joel Murata Lilla so if you started an Apple had you've done Masha Allah 1015 times hedge on the 16th time, you made the intention and you went but you were told that your mother is very sick or somebody is hurt. So he decided to withdraw and you went home after he made the Haram and he said let bake Allahu Mahajan or let bake Allahumma on rotten. In this case,

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this hydro CI did not complete for an emergency, or you got sick, or anything that happened. You're required to make it up. Why because you started it. Once you say led by Nicola who met here I come to you, Oh Allah, and commence into the act of Umrah or Hajj, you must complete

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the rest of the acts of worship, the voluntary acts of worship You are not required to make them up.

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Also, the Hadith indicated that

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the man must offer his wife the good treatment and along with the good treatment, the relationship and bed because for some reason, many people think that

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only men do have the need the sexual desire and the sexual need and women do not really have the need or it is much lesser than men. So you don't have to wait for the wife or for the woman to ask for it. You have after living with your spouse for a while you know her needs and you try to fulfill it. That's why Omar Nakata, Radi Allahu, and he decided for the soldiers in the army, that they should not stay away from their families on the battlefield more than four months, and he gave another month journey going and another one coming back. So the maximum the maximum is six months. This is a rule, general ruling. But there are some cases where women do not mind if the husband goes

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abroad to work for a year or two because they know the necessity or the need. They don't have this urgent need. They don't have the urge. So as long as there is a mutual understanding, no problem, but we're talking about average people normal and regular conditions. So there are needs that are REITs both for men and women for husbands and wives. And that's why Allah Almighty said in the Quran in surah Al Baqarah Well, I'm gonna miss Lou Levia, Allah Hinden I will my roof and I have never ever seen any more eloquent statement in this regard, stating all the rights of both the husbands and the wife. Those rights which we make episodes and see is explaining her opposite of Jane, the

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rights of the couple, the husband and the wife, Allah the Almighty, summarize them in a very eloquent statement. While I'm gonna miss the lady Ali hen will move for them.

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And the HANA is for feminine rights are similar to those which are due upon them. Bill Maher off with kindness and gentleness. What else also explains that it is permissible and recommended for the wife to adorn herself for her husband. So, while a woman who is doing this in order to go out so that people would admire her beauty is bearing a Marcia Anacin a woman who sits before the mirror to adorn herself for her husband. So when he comes you will find a beauty queen in his house, and they will enjoy loving each other in a lawful fashion she will be rewarded for that. The last Hadith in this episode is Hadith number 150. And also this hadith we've discussed before, but I decided to

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recite Arabic text in English meaning and perhaps that will be sufficient in sha Allah and Abby Mohammed bin Abdullah have numbered the loss of the Allahu Anhu Omar called off on NaVi you sallallahu alayhi wasallam any a whole Wallah he left us woman and how well a woman Nilay mashed for Karla rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the lady the whole of them Alec fell upon Tula who had called to be Evie and our Omi ya rasool Allah on inocula stealthier with Alec for so more after when a more calm also Mina Sherry Salah set a year for in Al Hassan atta be Ashley EMS Sally here with Erica Miss Lucia made the call to fit in new op for F Bala means like color. For So Mia

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woman, we're after your main call to fit in or three or four F Bala means Alec color for Soumya woman where after a woman further early Kelsea Muda, would Alayhis Salam wa who were double cm.

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In this hadith of the law, ignoring the loss, may Allah be pleased with him and his father said that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam was informed that I say that I would observe fasting every day and perform the night prayer the whole night, as long as they live.

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So the Prophet of Allah peace be upon him save, is it you who said this, I said to him, O Messenger of Allah, I vowed you, our ransom you would my parents, this is a statement that used to say to express how much love and appreciation they have for the person whom they are talking to Fidel AKA, Abby will meet ya rasool Allah, it is our who said that. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam said, You will not be able to do that. This is the most important reference in this hadith. And this is a great indication that anyone who would vow or burden himself to do anything, that beyond their capacity, even if they managed to do it,

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for now, or for a few days or a few weeks, for sure, they will not be able to continue, it will not last, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, You will not be able to do that. Then he advised him saying observe fasting and break it, Daniel fast some days and skip some other days. Then you say sleep and get up for prayer and observe fast for three days during the month. The three days have been referred to in other Hadith as 13th 14th. And the 15th, which are known as a ye days of every lunar month for every good is multiplied 10 times and that will be equal to fasting forever. Because if you first three days, times 10 That is very similar to fasting for whole month. And if you do

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this on regular basis, then it will be similar to fasting for the whole year. I say this is Abdullah if nombre de los may Allah be pleased with him saying, he said I said O Messenger of Allah. I can do more than that. He said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will then observe fasting one day off the next two days. I said oh prophet of Allah. I still have sense to do more than that.

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, We'll observe fasting every other day. And that is the first thing of Prophet David, Prophet, the word Ali Salam.

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And that is the most moderate fasting. This is what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam approved. And you have learned before that Abdullah had Nam Read the last kept asking the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that he can afford more until they finally reached two he will fast every other day. And when he grew older, he regretted that he took upon himself with this commitment before the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he said, I wish I have taken the concession and acted upon the advice of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. Why? Because he hated to break, a promise that He took upon himself, especially he did it before the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and when he grew older, it was very hard

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for him to fast every other day. Oklo formula Amelie metal to hone, do have the good deeds as much as you can afford on regular basis study. And as long as you live, that is the best the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said the most beloved deed to Allah is the one which is continuous, even if it is a low May Allah Almighty guide us toward his best, a whole holy had our stuff for Allah Allah Allah. wa salam ala ha ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam, until next episode as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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Love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He bought me to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest

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glory to him

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used to be the best and gave his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping cows fire and stones. sending letters to the cheapest

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day know that forgetting all about how bad or dies or shipping cause fire and stores selling the best were the cheapest

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