Worship Allah and do Not publicize your sins

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smilla Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah All praises to Allah subhanho wa Taala was in peace and blessings upon His Beloved Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Before I start, I need to make something very clear, because people have a funny way of misunderstanding things. So, at no point in tonight, am I encouraging brothers to do sin?

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So if you understand this from my message that I, then there's been a miscommunication either from myself or from you. But at no point, of course, are we encouraging seen in any way shape or form? So please, I have to clarify this. Because sometimes brothers have a funny way of understanding. I'm not sure many years ago, I did a video about Salah, you know, and I said, Pray no matter what's happening in your life, pray no matter what's happening. So some people took that into Allah and I can do whatever I want, as long as I'm praying.

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I'm not not saying you can do whatever you want. Because you're praying, I'm saying, regardless of what you're doing, pray, so even if you have Haram in your life, that haram shouldn't stop you from the Salah.

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So that was the intention. My brothers and sisters, we need to understand that Allah subhanaw taala, the one that created the human being, Allah Subhana, Allah has created the human being by design, he's not perfect.

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Please, you have to understand this. Even for the brothers that are a bit more senior, they've been on the in for a couple of years now. You need to understand who we are by design. The human being by design is a sinner.

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that's by design. Again, Now this doesn't mean that Wallah, we can do sin because Allah has created us know, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he says, koulibaly Adam hapa that all son of Adam, every human being, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Coulibaly, Adam Hopper, every human being makes mistakes. Every human being sins. Actually, our whole relationship with Allah, what is it?

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It's a relationship of your life done wrong, I've made mistakes and I'm turning back to Allah subhanho wa Taala. If anyone here is pursuing perfection, you're in Disneyland

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doesn't exist.

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We can simply work on ourselves and try to better ourselves and try to perfect ourselves. And the idea is to meet and this is why one of the biggest the most important Pillars of Islam is the door of Toba that you know is the door of repentance and turning back to Allah subhanho wa Taala. Why because the human being by design, he makes mistakes. Adam alayhis salam, our Father, Adam alayhis, salam, Allah subhanho wa Taala instructed him to stay away from the tree. And we know from the story he ate from the tree.

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So he made mistakes, and the son of Adam will continue to follow after him. And this is the relationship of the human being until the day of judgment. The human being by design, he's forgetful,

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the human being by design, he's forgetful. There's a very nice Hadith is a very nice story. where Allah subhanaw taala, in front of Adam alayhis salaam, in front of Adam, Allah subhanaw taala displayed to Adam, every human being that will be born. So imagine Adam alayhis salaam, was able to see his offspring, the first to the last, all of them were presented in front of him.

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Imagine what a sight so

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you know, as he was looking at this beautiful sight, one caught his attention more than the rest. So he asked, he said the Allah Who is this one? session, this is your Sunday wood

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and he will be a prophet.

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So Adam alayhis salam he asked, he says when he says our love, and how long will my Sunday would live for Salah tells him 60 is

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Adam knowing he was going to live to 1000 says yeah Allah take 40 years from my life and give it to my Sunday would I want him to live to 100

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so then Adam alehissalaam he comes on to the earth

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at 960 is the Angel of Death comes to visiting.

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So Adam says the more or less the system What are you doing here your early?

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He said, No, this is your time. He said not Allah said I'm living to 1000

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so the Angel of Death system but didn't you give 40 years of your life to your Sunday wood, he said no idea.

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And he genuinely and and actually the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says, he said, he said that our father Adam, Allah, his son, he forgot, and the son of Adam will forget into the Day of Judgment. So this is by design. So my brothers and sisters, we all sin, we all make mistakes, all of us will love the good, the bad, and the ugly, we all sin and we all make mistakes. But sometimes, the actions we do are

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After the sin can be more dramatic and more detrimental. And sometimes the actions we do after our sin can overshadow the sin that we did initially. And this is what tonight's topic is about.

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That we need to be conscious of our actions. Sometimes you sin like we've established,

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I was weak, something got the better of me, I forgot whatever the case is. So sometimes we sin, but then what we do after the sin, our action sometimes after the sin can drown now the sin that you initiated with to begin with.

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We know that there's major sin and minus in

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major sin, for example, murder.

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Zina adultery, these things are considered major sins. These major sins you have to perform Toba.

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These are not scenes that can be forgiven lightly. These are scenes that they can be forgiven, but you have to perform the act of tober.

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And then there's minor scenes. I don't want to give you examples because then the brothers are well above it's only a minor so therefore I can.

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But minor sins are sins that I don't necessarily have to make Toba for. There are other things that forgive them. For instance, making Voodoo, forgive sins.

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doing a good deed, wipes away your sin, walking to the masjid, every step you take to the measured Allah subhanaw taala wipes away your sin and gives you a hustler, and he elevates your eggs. So there are sins that you do that are forgiven without you specifically having to ask for it.

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But sometimes insisting on a minus in insisting on a minus in can elevate the sin and make it a major, although initially it was minor.

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But you being consistent on it, and I keep repeatedly doing it again and again and again. Without making Toba for this now elevates it from a minus into a major sin.

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My brothers and sisters we have a responsibility to not only protect our souls from performing sin, but more importantly we have to protect our society and our community and our environment.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala he says in the Quran, that those people that wish that Zina should be made abundant amongst the people, for them is a severe punishment in dunya. And in Africa.

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There's a difference between again, I'm not promoting sin. But there's a difference between the person who did his hair on behind closed doors and was ashamed and he was embarrassed of his sin. There's a massive difference between this person and the people that promote their sins outside publicly, like there's nothing wrong with it. These people are on another level with Allah subhanho wa Taala. And Allah makes it clear that those people that wish that Zina should be made abundantly and people are speaking about it, sharing it openly doing Allah says for them is a severe punishment in dunya. And in Africa.

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One of the names of the Day of Judgment my brother's is the day of exposure.

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And that day is not an easy day.

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That day is not an easy day.

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and really my whole talk tonight is based on this one Hadith. So please take this hadith home with you.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he says all of my alma

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will be forgiven.

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They will be shown mercy.

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Please, very important, how do you

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make sure you take this home?

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All of my oma will be forgiven and it will be shown mercy

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except the ones that did their haraam openly publicly.

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For these people, irrespective of whether it was a major or a minor sin, irrespective they did they haraam openly in front of people with no shame. The Prophet salallahu alaihe salam for them there is no Rama

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and then he sallallahu Sallam in the authentic hadith he continues on to give an example. He said he is like the one who did his heroin in the cover of night.

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And Allah provided a blanket over the harm that he did not covered.

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for him.

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Then in the morning he wakes up, and he tears up the blanket that Allah put over his sin.

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And he starts to tell the people well, I did this and I did this and I did this.

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For this person, there is no Rama.

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And we need to understand my brother's again, we've established we all do wrong, we all make mistakes. We, we know this, but the person that does his sin openly publicly with no shame.

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He tears up the cover that Allah provided for him. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is saying for this person, there is no grammar for him on the Day of Judgment.

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So let me give you an example because this is very important.

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Well, I'm not picking on the scene. So please, again, I'm not picking on the scene. I'm just using this particular scene as an example.

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Smoking for instance, I understand many brothers they started smoking when they were young. It's a bad habit. Well loss and see from my heart. ask Allah to make it easy for all brothers and sisters that smoke to make it easy for him. I understand it's a very disgusting habit. It's a very expensive one anyway.

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You smoking is a sin.

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Some of the elements say that it's a minor sin. It's not something you smoking is a minor thing.

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But you smoking outside,

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publicly, in front of people, without any shame whatsoever that you doing that action publicly fast supersedes the cigarette itself. Initially, what you're doing publicly overshadowed the cigarette in itself. And this has become major in the eyes of Allah.

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Because we have a responsibility of protecting our community and the society in which we live in.

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Does that make sense? So I smoke,

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yeah, for whatever it is cigarettes, Shatila, whatever it is.

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You should be having that cigarette in private in secret when no one is there. You're not there with friends. You're supposed to be having that cigarette and you should be you're supposed to be feeling ashamed about it. Maybe have an addiction brother while I'm trying to get rid of it, it's difficult. But when I start smoking my cigarette with friends, and we're giggling and we're laughing and other people can see us and I'm smoking in front of my kids.

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This is far worse than smoking.

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And these are the actions that when all the below will lead us to have no ramaa from Allah

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and will love my brothers we don't want this

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so if you have habits we all do, we will have things that we're not proud of we will have things that we're ashamed of.

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But you have to be cautious that I do what I do secretly behind closed doors and that I don't openly expose these because in openly exposing it Guess what, it becomes worse than This in itself.

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Music for instance musics clearly haram listening to music is haram. And by Allah I understand I always say this The hardest thing for me from Jay Hillier was music that was the that was the hardest thing I could give up anything and everything. Music was the hardest thing for me. So I understand why like I understand brothers and sisters that have this addiction to music it's

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but when I'm driving in my car and I have my windows down and I have the music out so that others can he

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this has become worse than listening to music itself.

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So if you find yourself in a situation where well you know what i can't i have to listen. Then turn it down.

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Put it so that only you can put the windows up.

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Do whatever you can to minimize the exposure of other people seeing you.

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And this is called having Adam with Allah.

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This is having adaboost Allah subhanaw taala

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for instance, the sister that doesn't wear hijab

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the sister that doesn't wear hijab, Wallah. Tonight, I'm not here to pick on anyone since

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her not wearing hijab, or even worse, the one that wears hijab and now Mashallah has become the common trend. Yeah. skins. Have you seen this amazing trend? So now sisters, were speaking

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Like full tights full.

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They actually caught skins, so that there's no confusion.

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They actually called skins.

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Right? Full figure.

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You can see your whole body, but she has the hijab on, right? So

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whether it's this, this sister that's dressed like this Wallah, she's working out in her GMO she's working out in the garage, no one can see her she's not falling in sin.

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But as soon as she steps out into the public spectrum, and now other male eyes and other, it's not even me wise, even showing herself to other women

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in such a manner, and allowing this culture see this 10 years ago would have never ever happened in our streets. You have to understand how the shaitan work. How are things introduced into communities, how

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10 years ago 20, this would have never happened in our streets.

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It took one person to Wallah Brother, what do you want me to do? There isn't enough data back and then you can now it's become the norm. But it's not long. It's still home. Even if every person on earth wants to start doing it. And everyone wants to show you that one my brother there's nothing wrong with everyone does. Haram is haram and nothing can change that into that that nothing can change them.

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And we like to find comfort. In fact, we like to come find comfort in putting ourselves with people that have similar habits and similar qualities and similar right so that therefore I don't feel like I'm out of place. So you find yourself smokers automatically find that other smokers soon as there's a gathering with some sub panel lights like they're locked magnets. Boom, boom, boom, yep, I found that. Why? Because nobody, no one likes to put himself in an environment where he's the odd one out.

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So this sister,

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when she openly walks outside, and places herself and walks around in a manner of Wallah brother. Yeah, I'm doing it and so well, this has become worse than the scene that she's doing initially.

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And you need to understand my brothers these are massive Hadith. When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says that on the Day of Judgment, they will be shown no, this is the prophet of Rama. This whole Deen is based on Rama. every chapter in the Quran with the exception of Sunita Toba starts with what

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Bismillah R Rahman Rahim In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful, the most forgiving. This whole deal is based on Rama because the human being sins and Allah knows this. But when it came to people openly doing the sins with no shame

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because this is arrogance now Yeah, brother, I know what's wrong. And so what and who are you and only God can judge me and brother. This attitude with this is what destroys our community.

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This is what destroys the society.

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And brothers now support one of the conditions of tober. One of the conditions of Toba is to do what is to regret the sin that you did.

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That's one of the conditions of Toba is to regret the action that you did

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you find this off now and I find this many times this has happened in front of me multiple times. We sit in a gathering and we actually compete with each other on who had a worse je Leah.

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Is that oh he did lakra Hara for rowdy talking about one Leighton's that you remember when we did this and you remember, but it's lost in one on one it's just the boys we're hanging out we're having a laugh. And we're speaking about the old days. This is haram my brothers

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and this breaks the condition of tober

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you should be finding no pride you should be finding absolutely nothing to be proud about when it comes to the Mohamed

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so boys sitting down having a laugh, having a giggle of who was you know who did more harm than the other and you know who can outdo the other person with his stupidity.

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This isn't Diem

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was supposed to be ashamed of our past.

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We're supposed to be embarrassed

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This is not something that we're supposed to be boasting you know in front of one another.

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On the wall, our brother is that but and this is how shaitan gets in the loop brother. This is a chance for me to boast but humbler This was in the past. So I'm not saying nobody This is all wrong.

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We're supposed to be protecting our society. We're supposed to be protecting the community.

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We don't encourage

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Hold on in any way, shape or form.

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The Prophet says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that the person, that the person that advocates good the person that spreads good, then whatever good comes from that goodness, he gets a portion of it. Yeah. And if I was to share a Hadith, if I was to give some Dawa, and that person was to implement this hardest was to implement, right and he did good in his life, then I would get, I would get the same reward as that person did. If I taught someone how to pray, or or I encourage someone to pray, then any every time that person prays after that, I get the reward for that solo. But the opposite is true too. If I encourage haraam, if I encourage sin, and people start doing the same, then I get

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the same scene as well.

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My brothers and sisters, you one lot. Yeah, I really don't know how to say this. It's not a joke.

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It's not a joke. Not a joke. On last panel, Tyler's gonna hold every single one of us accountable. What you share on your phone, what you share on WhatsApp, what you share on Facebook, you may want life for you, it's simply forward, but you're going to be held responsible for every single thing you share. Everything you look at, we're going to be held responsible for it. It's one thing that I looked at her omala but if I shed this harem, if I shed this, this fascia and this, you know, if I share this and I make this abundant, then I'm going to fall into that sin every person that watches it, you get that sin

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so we need to take matters very seriously.

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Because now people we like to always say well a brother you know the area's gone the area's fried brother, everyone is cooked brother this even this language needs to stop.

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The one who says the people are destroyed.

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He's destroyed.

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We need to stop promoting that one brother. You know what? There's no point everyone else is doing it. Everyone else is fried. Everyone else's. So therefore it's almost like it's you know what? It's okay. No, no, that's not okay. And as Muslims, we need to have Rama and we need to always have good thoughts. And we need to have the hope in Allah and in our community. Yes, do people do Zina? Yeah, we know people do sin and the community. But does that mean everyone does you know?

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even speaking in such a tone speaking in such a language of what you know what making the people feel that Well, our brother, you know what, everyone else is doing us a favor. It's incorrect.

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We have to promote good. We have to protect our society. We have to even if I myself and people can give up either. Is that hypocritical? No, it's not the scholars give examples that I could be doing one harem, I could be doing one particular harm. And if there's an opportunity to do an honorable Maru for no longer on something else,

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then I still have to do it even when I'm doing the harm itself.

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JB a lot. It's it's, it goes against the logical concept we have in the area and voila brother that you know, that's very hypocritical that the guys walking around with his girlfriend, and he's giving advice to a person to pray. Now Actually, this has nothing to do with that.

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That's a sin. He's definitely going to be questioned about our by Allah. But if there's a possibility, if there's an option for you to promote good to encourage good, then you still have to do that.

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The Day of Judgment, my brother's is the day of exposure.

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You know what that means?

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You know what that means it's the day of the harbor for they have for them.

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Every single one of us is going to be exposed, not just physically exposed. The Prophet says in the authentic hadith, you'll be naked barefooted uncircumcised every human being will stand in front of Allah everyone

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and what you did in this life will be exposed for all to see

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the harm you did in private the harm you did when your mother and your father when watching the harm you did behind your wife's back and behind your husband's back and and and yeah, maybe in dunya you're gonna get away with it. But on the Day of Judgment, every single person who see Make no mistake.

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Woman Yamal, myth kala, Allah, Allah says, an atom's weight of good, you're going to see and an item's weight of sin, you're going to see it but every single person is going to see exposure. The loss portal is gonna expose every single person

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prophets were scared my brother's prophets were petrified. prophets and Bs and Bs

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men that were free from sin.

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They were scared and petrified of that day.

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He wants that if they have

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who wants that? Who?

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buy that one lot just have your mother walking on you're watching something haraam. See how embarrassing it is.

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It's humiliating

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brothers imagine when you're in front of a law

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you know your mother as embarrassing as that is she'll probably cover it for you. Because your her son your her daughter? Well, I should mention in front of Aloma brothers,

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the Prophet sallallahu Sallam people from

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from this so shy on that day, their faces will melt the skin on their faces will melt off their face.

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So what does he say sallallahu Sallam a new authentic hadith.

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He said the one that the one that covered the sins of his brother in dunya.

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Allah will cover these sins on the Day of Judgment.

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The one that covered the sins of his brother,

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though the one that covered the sins of her sister,

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the ones that used to make sutra on the Mohamed that people do

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Allah will Allah, Allah will hide what

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he will hide their sins on the Day of Judgment.

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Can you see that Allah subhanaw taala wants a society where people cover for each other.

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Now this does not mean because sometimes this misconception happens. This does not mean that we don't do an admirable model for nirmanakaya and when someone does haram we can say to that person but this is her arms This is our arm right This does not mean that we don't try and stop that know what this is speaking about is I'm sitting there with my mate I'm telling him by the way not gonna believe you know for last year last night I saw him he was doing this that and the other

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having a laugh about it.

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A lost part of Allah He loves sutra my brothers.

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Allah loves that things are covered. Yeah, we understand people have flaws. Yes, we understand that people make mistakes. But exposing those mistakes, making those mistakes public laughing about these mistakes, competing about algin competing about this is far worse.

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And we're gonna be held responsible for it. And if you think now they're sitting while while our brother what's, trust me it's a massive deal on the Day of Judgment.

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Allah loves sutra.

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Allah loves that when something covered.

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Rasulullah is saying a lot throws a blanket. Allah throws a blanket over your sins. And then you expose yourself in the morning.

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Whatever you don't understand last night,

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we did this and we did that we went here and we went there. You're tearing up the blanket that Allah gave you.

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So we have to be very conscious. We're long my brothers. Every single person he plays a role in protecting, protecting this area protecting our streets.

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Don't speak about harm, like it's common. Although you know, like human like you believe my brother everyone does. But still you have to protect the street. We never speak about Harlem in a way where we take the edge off it we never speak about Harlem in a way where where you know, it's somewhat acceptable but never you we have to protect

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Allah loves sutra. Allah loves that you cover your sins, you cover your mistakes. Why? Because so long as it's covered, Allah will speak to you about that privately.

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And if you're worried about yourself,

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then protect others.

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Cover the mistakes of others.

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You know my brothers there's a quality and I'm gonna wrap up with this, you know.

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There's a quality that Allah and His Prophet love.

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And unfortunately,

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it's becoming rarer and rarer to see

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and I'll openly admit today

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All right, hello he I don't say this proudly, will lie, I say this with embarrassment. I feel like I don't possess this quality.

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Allah loves higher.

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and higher is a word.

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There's actually no English translation for it.

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There's not a word in the English dictionary, there's not a single word that can translate the word hire and give it its rights.

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And that speaks volumes.

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When a language whether it's English or any other language, when a language or a culture don't have words for concepts like honesty, honor, loyalty, that speaks volumes about those people, and he speaks volumes about that language.

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And it's a quality the Prophet says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that hired Yanni to have higher is from Amen.

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We live in societies today where

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actually it's the opposite.

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When someone is caught, so hey, the word higher higher is derived from the word high

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tech how amazing this is in Arabic.

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In English, again like I said, there's no single word but there's a collaboration of words. So to have higher it means

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to be modest

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humbleness also

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yes shyness but unlike shyness because sometimes shyness can be interpreted as weakness.

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And to have higher doesn't mean you're weak

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and sometimes brothers and that's the like now this is the society that we have today when you find the brother who doesn't talk much

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You know, when I speak to Lebanese parents

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I say to them you know, what do you want for your daughter? My buddy we're had muscle maybe hockey

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now like

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my buddy we're hidden must not be climbing no kill me. Maybe it follow

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the band. So we have these four Lebanese brothers on our sorry for those that don't speak Lebanese. Speaking Lebanese is different Arabic.

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But we have this culture now where it's like,

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we don't want a man who doesn't put himself out there, who's not sort of outspoken. He's loud. We interpret this. This is the sixth society. We interpret this to be like strength, you know, that I'm not a walkover I'm not a pushover. But if I have something to say, that therefore are cya. You know, that, you know, I'm not going to be the quiet one in the crowd.

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But actually, Allah and His Prophet, they love the quality of what

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the prophet says it's from Amen. Someone lies.

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It's from Amen.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he was described when the Sahaba described him, who knows what example they they gave,

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about his demeanor? He was

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Yeah, again, I don't like the word shy, because, but Yes, he was. But there's one specific example Does anyone know?

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La Jolla, but he was like,

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the Sahaba describe the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. They described his demeanor.

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They said he was like a virgin behind the veil.

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He was like,

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a virgin behind the veil.

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And like I said, I don't like shyness because people interpret this as weakness. The same men who said he was like a virgin behind the veil. They said when he was on the battlefield, salallahu alaihe salam, we used to run behind his back to get a moment to breathe, while he some Allahu alayhi salam continued fighting.

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That's the strength he showed on the battlefield. But off the battlefield, they said he was like a virgin behind the veil.

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of all of the companies might have all of the companions who was the master of hire.

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Which companion shines off man rodya L'Atalante.

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Again, this is from Ian.

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To be humble, to be Saru, to this doesn't mean you're weak.

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This doesn't mean you didn't say what you need to say. And the Eros

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Speak the truth when you need to know but his demeanor

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and look at the society that we live in today it's the exact opposite

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Allah one sutra Allah wants you to cover my brothers and my especially my sisters if if and I'm going to explain if the men were like this What were the women?

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Again I'm not here to say halal haram because brother I don't want to get locked down so out on Olden street

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one of the sisters will jump and start shrinking in the neck.

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Today she wants to take the stage she wants to take the platform she wants to speak on her husband's behalf

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why he most marriages when I come to you know sort of try and mediate Yeah, you go to the brother's father we go to the sisters father, brother he says to me in front he has a brother and I don't have a say you need to talk to a mother in front of a brother

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I don't have a say you need to talk to the mother. She runs the show. Yeah.

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Yeah, and she'll happily tell you to

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alumi I'm here you need to talk to me brother.

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Laila. Hello, ma.

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You know, so we now an end we unfought we like we say this a strength that Allah brother Mama baddeck you know that look, look. This is actually the exact opposite.

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So we said the roof man or the Lord Allah No, he shined in this was man The Prophet said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Allah you will never understand the weight of this hadith. We will never understand the weight of this Hadeeth.

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Even fathers that have daughters,

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he said, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam if I had 100 daughters, I will marry them one after the other to have men.

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Well law How?

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Imagine a prophet of Allah is saying if I had 100 daughters, I would marry them one after the other two of men.

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Why? Because he was allowed.

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One side Chateau de la talana.

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She said I was sitting with my husband, salallahu alaihe salam.

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And he was sitting in a manner where a portion of his leg was exposed. I'm not sure exactly. So I'm not saying he's out. I was showing I'm not sure. But she said a portion of his leg was showing. He was sitting was only him and his wife. sallalahu was a limp.

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And she said the door locked.

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She said when I went to the door, I found that it was my father. aboubaker

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So I said to my husband, that our Prophet of Allah, it's my father aboubaker

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so he said to her, tell him to come in Asia.

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But he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he remained as he was seated.

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So Abubakar walked in and he said in the gathering,

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I shall then goes on to say Radha lottoland she said some time later, the door locked. When I answered the door, it was almost been on Bob.

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So I told my husband, it's a homer Bernal hottub. So he said, Tell him to come in Asia.

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She said and he remained as he was.

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She said some time later the door not for the third time.

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She said when I answered the door, I found that it was off man. So I told my husband, that our Prophet of Allah, it's all man.

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She said, He's Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he stood up

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and fixed his clothing and his posture,

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then instructed her tell him to come in.

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When they left after the gathering took place when they left.

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I shadowed a lot. Alana, she says to the Prophet of Allah, she says more prophet of Allah. This was strange.

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When my father walked in, you remained as you were.

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When Omar walked in, you remained as you were.

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Why when both men walked in, you stood up and you fixed your posture and your clothes.

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He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said to her, I Isha. Should I not be shy of a man whom even the angels are shy of.

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And you think today my brother and my sister, that by you recording

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for a silly laugh, and for things to be shared, you think this makes you good, makes you famous?

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Allah loves sutra

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there are narrations of both men and narrations of Albin Vitali. I'm not sure of the authenticity but there are narrations of them that say they never looked at the private parts ever.

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This is higher modesty

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that I will walk around naked in the house hola brother. I'm in the house here but there's angels in the house brother.

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The brother is a harem and then everyone tries to you know technicality will lie My brother's halal and haram forgive me I don't know how to say this. You know?

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How do I say this in being very respectful,

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halal and haram without taking anything? That's kindergarten language.

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That's kindergarten language.

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For those people that are pursuing a relationship with a law,

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that and talk Helen from

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the earlier of Allah, those that are friends with my brothers, when the Prophet made 100 is the for the day What was he making stuff? What about some Allah? Allah told me? Wasn't he free from sin?

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Wasn't rasulillah Wasn't he free from sin? Why was he making istighfar 100 times a day? Why?

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Because for those people, yes. But for those people that are close to Allah, him reading one hour of Quran he's embarrassed from that.

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Then talk halal haram anymore.

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They talk what halal Can I leave

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out of getting closer to one law?

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They have a private an intimate relationship with a law.

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So yes, my brother you have a scene you make a mistake. Wonder we've already established I've said it 10 times. We all make mistakes after one line. We're not here to crucify anyone. But that arrogance of doing your sin in front of people, you're tarnishing your private relationship with Allah.

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When you speak about your haraam in public and you're having a laugh and a giggle, Allah provided you with a blanket Allah provided you with sutra and we rip it up

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so we need to understand we every one of us he has a private relationship with a law

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I believe that was a man never touched his private part with his right hand ever.

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halal haram but that's not the point anymore. When he was asked why he said I shaped the profits hand with my rights on the laws.

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Law and bad luck way way Look, where are these people's forts?

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when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would sleep with his wives, of course it is a part of life. And there's no you know when when it comes to this of course in then we don't shy away from but when you look at the demeanor, how they did things

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one eye football has been destroyed

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the lights will off sooner have the lights of

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covers bedsheets covers.

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On they say this to some people that one lights actually coming.

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I want to see on a watch again. Hello Ella wala. Again, I'm not please don't misunderstand what I'm saying. Like it's not. I'm not saying that one brother. This isn't like again, this is your right.

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But to show you how far off

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so this having hired is having this, this shyness this bashfulness this. This being embarrassed of your sins, being embarrassed of being seen out in the public. This is a quality of Dean

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So the next time and one long way brothers, you're not actually if you were to try these, see the psychological impact it has, see the effects it has on your relationship with all any For instance, if you're a brother that smokes or sister smokes here Imagine if the next cigarette that you had to have no one like no one is allowed to be there, see how difficult it becomes.

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But this can also help and assist you in what including

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when we isolate ourselves.

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When we show Allah that your Look, I know I can't stop this in. But I'm doing my best that I'm not doing this in front of anyone

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will love my brothers, you will never find anyone that was punished because of something he did privately in his. Show me show me one. One incident in Sierra, I'm sure there's maybe one or two but very rarely defined in the series of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam, a man that was caught in the privacy of his own room doing a harem and that was brought out to the open and never

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never or very rarely because I'm not 100% sure but very rarely

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but the person who did his harem outside in the open you'll find that what he would have an open punishment to teach the people that this is not acceptable within Islam

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so my brothers and sisters to wrap up we need to be very conscious with what we do

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Don't be that person that promotes harm

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Don't be that person that's proud of his sins but while our brother I did it in the past

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and speak about it in a manner where you know we're having a laugh promoting her arm within the society spreading on our phones will love my brothers you have no idea we have no idea what we're going to be held accountable because of these things.

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How many times I don't know how many times I've had someone send me a hadith and then three minutes later sorry brothers those are those are weak Hadith those are fake Hadith and we'll

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just share Shea

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openly publicly.

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And this attitude you know

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Allah loves sutra Allah loves my brothers like you know what that means. Allah loves sutra denote the mean of all loves that you cover.

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This is almost

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like he could have said that Allah loves that you'd never seen

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he could have said that. But not actually what he said Allah loves sutra

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that you cover

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that you're embarrassed, have you seen

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and if you're not embarrassed,

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then at least act like you're embarrassed.

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Then underestimate that.

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At least act like you're embarrassed. verla This is better for you then.

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So ask Allah subhanaw taala to protect us. We ask Allah subhanaw taala to allow us to preserve ourselves and to preserve this community. Not on the laws or jelenia for filial mommy Nina well mommy not Allah here a minimal Ahmad subhanak Aloma behind the shadow Allah in inland Stafford, oka at all.