Channel: Muhammad Hoblos
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Listen we don't have a relationship with
you know when you have a relationship before more like you know when you're in love with someone you know Forgive me for the example but for the sake of understanding I know the example doesn't defeat
but for those that are married or think of yourself new engaged
lives rather than a single nail you know think of yourself you know when you find the girl
and you want to marry the skill drive bring your whole life is trying to get one
no one when they're engaged is this funny remark when they're engaged no one asks what's my rights and what's the rights
Well, when did I ask?
When the punching on very dead he's ready to kill
and now it's all of a sudden what's gonna happen what's gonna happen either we don't
know when they're engaged they never speak never ever ever.
It's all about what
you want to come out you want to you know you want to show love and flowers instead of yellow flowers I used to buy my wife flowers
when you have a relationship thinking about
one long when you're in a relationship we think
it's lovely one on what's wrong?
My mom to this day
Siobhan clumps that she knows I like
what she's doing.
What do you do from a mom and be real? What do you give on long
have you been given more scraps by people who are rubbish? I give her a warm up I don't want what I don't need
when it comes to the machine
just the language
you really want musicals but hair khakis whatever reason I don't have any time yeah I'm completely bored and has nothing to do then we'll come to the mosque
on the web Can you tell me if that's the problem giving a what what do you call that?
spare time spend time
you got to work eight hours 10 hours 12 hours
whenever went to the gym
these ones for the best of his effort when he goes to sports when he goes when he does anything it's done with 3,000,000%
then when it comes to the machine where he's already winning before you won't see
a battle all day long but you to me What are you giving a law
we give the most scraps scraps for rubbish Why don't need
what why it's what I need for the home see man? If I'm free.
I think we want that was the conditional DOMA was Maha
Brahma What do you prefer the elephants in the room? What are you talking about? You give love we give them our gift so no one gets upset but I get the little scraps scraps. What I don't need, how do we give charity? How do we give all the calculation purses. When it comes to charity, everyone becomes an accountant.
The same time when was the last time you justify its man
was wearing a Burberry bag and
his bag was worth more than the car.
But that's because in his mind that bag is more important. Trust me he knows what he's doing.
But when it comes to a wall and please You know, examples are funny but don't take it too long. To the point where you miss the point. But when it comes to a lawyer, everyone becomes an accountant.
need to be wise with my money.
Allah azza wa jal
how do we get along? I guess my brother's gonna forgive me but bro if we're not real with each other, we can eat each other look at the calculation process
when it comes from what everyone becomes wise but when it comes to my son brother
when we cover estimates right and it comes to the bill we're all fighting each other when we embarrass each other in the restaurant.
I'm paying for it
but when he can stand here and ask for donations
you want Kenny to chama who wants to pay for the meal
so please bear with me We give almost scraps when we come to give a donation how do we give
alright because I have a trade with at least six months long
you have to be financially wise but the other the smart Russell's better than the dumbest one wow all right so now he starts allowing for and that's right a lot of is not even allowed was mortgage come in. Anyway my mortgage and my rent here
are coming up
and fine we're live I know hosting right it's all important stuff I understand. Brother Listen, listen man What about the shopping
well and then the gospel see all of
my neighbors suppose there is a cat or a cat sometimes
a cat six houses down
now after I calculate all these
now I look at what's
left over now from what's left over now we can calculate what from that unprotected
and that's the reality. Well not my brother's please, man. You can you can tell yourself what you want. Be real with yourself. We give a lot of scripts and what do I want in return? What do I want?
Rather than Anna?
You weren't the guy that walked into the Ferrari dealership? He barely has enough money to avoid sticking in Coronavirus. His brother Give me the red convertible on
it No, he did not. Honestly You're kidding.
Do I have to
no you don't have
to I have to buy my wife's clothes. No, you don't have to.
But if you're in a healthy relationship, you wouldn't even have asked that question.
So loss is my slave keeps on getting closer to me by performing the no F and the things he doesn't even have.
He keeps on doing the welfare and to walk.
He keeps on doing the the welfare until I
what happens when the Lord loves
he says I become the eyes with which he sees
that he was reaching he's
the head with which he strikes
I become the legs with which he walks in.
And if he was to ever ask me for anything.
learn a little bit more what that will mean
What does alone one
alone once your most beloved asset in your life? What is the what is the one thing that's keeping you away from
there are many verses in the Quran where Allah smart policies and giving charity and the money that you give in charity doesn't decrease. But he held the first the tone, the conversation, everything about it was just different.
So I'm talking, I say a perfect Obama, you know, I'm one of the wealthiest
and you know a prophet of Allah, I have lots of lots of great I've got lots of bits and pieces everywhere. And he was known ashore in Medina.
He says, no prophet of Allah, but nothing is more beloved to me getting a hold of my assets of all the things that I owe, nothing is more beloved to me than basil. Basil, how it was a hidden
garden. That was opposite machine that never when it was opposite, the profits must have some a low volume sellers, I imagined this would mean he owned imagine owning a piece of real estate, right opposite the metric of the purpose of arsenal. He said, This guy is my most beloved.
This guy, the prophet himself of a law while he was selling used to visit the garden frequently, he's the visual, he would go into the garden, sit in the garden, and they used to be a world we're talking visit now, to have a little these, something very rare importantly. And the Prophet used to visit this world for a while and he set up a nice to drink from the water.
So now, he says are profitable.
But this piece of this paper is my most prized possession is nothing I love more than this.
This is a prophet of Allah, I give it to you and sort of cultivate.
This is going to be the total value.
That don't fall into this trap of thinking that alone once my money,
hassle, no morals and values above all things. Allah is not in need of something he gave to you to begin with.
But this verse, he follow our heart and look at those that are really seeking something deeper. He comes to the Prophet he said what I was saying lambda level below that you will never attain this level of event this level of faith until you give up that which you love the most.
And my younger brother and my Senior Brother this verse eats on because all of us were all prepared to give us something for some degree everyone is prepared to give on law something but what does the law say he was looking at you need to go seize
until you give up look back on the individual Allah says until you give up that which you love the most.
And that's different for every person sitting here
I know brothers that what will happen is sign a check for whatever I had this one brother once he said before you propose open chip and he wasn't holding me back of he said, bro, what ever you want, have some
some brothers, they're happy to give money.
Just get up from the back.
And other things.
So yeah, what didn't specify and he almost didn't say you continue to give a certain amount of gold or a certain No, no, a why the North, Allah says to each and every single one of you, you will never attain them until you give up that which you love the most.
And this is why brothers, it is impossible to have and maintain a relationship with Allah. If it's one sided.
It's so easy to come with being to come and deal so easy.
But speak to the senior brothers and see the challenge is the stable
a mighty second to keep up that which you love the what's the most beloved thing to you?
A lot once it
not because Allah needs it. Don't make this mistake.
But because Allah wants to see what is more beloved to you in your heart,
or anything else
we'll talk houses are profitable, I give and give you my most prized position. That is nothing more than left to me that these have given six 710 pieces of other lands, two pieces of land and no new bro.
Don't hold a candle to this one piece of land. He knew he says are profitable and this is my most beloved. And if our Lord wants me to give it up, then so be it again.
up in Germany the prophet SAW the law and he said What does he said in return? He says what a successful transactional
Why? Because it has to be worried
and we all want a relationship with Allah but we don't want to be where it was
want the relationship to be worth
cruising? Keep back
really just think about terrain. Think about our trials and our tribulations.
You're certain surgeon gets sick and you start thinking why is he
having these wonderful he's got a flu
it's a couple of days.
What's the right the whole family doesn't come up they're breaking down
our hearts our hearts are so weak.
Any taste any test to become a huge
people have to see the breaking down Brother, you don't know what I'm going through this or
any test we're given. And it shifting us to the core.
Ibrahim awaits. Now he sees the dream that he sees. And he knows as a prophet, the ruya isn't something well, maybe there's a difference of opinion in its interpretation. He knows it's working from alleged revelation.
We got through some new financial difficulty and we're right in places we don't talk about in the heart of hearts what do we think?
What do we think? You don't want that we intended by a lot I mean this not that we intended, but I've had brothers that say words Hello, I know he's not conscious of it. But there was of Kufa street before
Yeah, of course he's not disbelieving no but because he cannot comprehend his current situation when you start saying words
and he doesn't want anyone else to come
but uh you know if that's if that's really what you're thinking in your heart, you're in a bad place
and I've learned this common common very common I cannot speak for anyone is a professional counselor.
A Code of Conduct is
for the people I trust me to be like it's almost like your sifu What is your brother? What are you talking about? So now we got him on he said outlook this year.
There it comes the sun. He says what do you think the sun is makes as a father of motors you can do and you will find your potential.
A lot of time on work by sick stories
by a lifer that said you that I sold my dream that I got to kill you
too much and give you a
such as the enamel pins.
He says my father do as you've been told, and you'll find the of the,
the patient ones. So then when he came, imagine the psychological trauma, the process of having your son seat, when you're sharpening your sword, your life, your sharpening, so that it doesn't become it's not. You're trying to lessen the blow on your son, and your son's watching you sharpen the knife.
And you're sharpening these and he was telling you to kill your son. You were with at ease for these
ancillary sharpening his life. And then he comes to his son and he grants him. And then he says, look at the name of these people and maybe some system my father turned me around. I
mean, he doesn't look me in the eye. He says, I think that if you look me in the eye, and you come to the life of my thinking, you may have a moment, we won't hesitate.
You may look me in the eye and you may hesitate. It's just me around so that we will make eye contact and do what almost wanted you to do.
And still Nelly Brahim now he's bringing his son and nothing but his angels. There's nothing to really tell him. Don't worry, he doesn't know. He's been given the
will your proposal and now we've heard the story a million times but just with a life of bad luck. Try this. Try this
You know you know it's just it's so easy to just say
when you do that you kill the whole story
now you kill a whole story you kill
your wife do with this table of human beings on off Why is some
anyway he grabs him he puts him down and look at the process he puts the light to his neck and runs the plane did a cop did he ran it again he didn't come then he ran it a third time then a loss of justice
will meet your son's life
but one that
you'll never reach till you give up that true love
we want to be
to we don't want to pay the price
you don't want to pay the price
everyone loves a long look look look at this everyone loves a lot
but no one loves the
everyone loves those who lost
but no one wants his
every everyone loves gender
but not our lifestyle.
Everyone loves money
but no one wants to work
everyone loves women
no one wants to give
everyone loves children
no one wants to father
a lot of wants not
a lot of us wants the most beloved thing to you London and Bill had meant to him until you give a lot of fat which is the most beloved
you'll never take
the profits of the law to send out and this is very important so please stay with me Don't lose the point the purpose on allowing some process on the medical battles right authentically I meant to my to my people after my to my people he wanted to change in our language they want to pull up to make a difference I lost them you know had enough
so he comes to the salon story you guys go man he says look here's the Toba for me. The message to reef killed 102 crazy I'm almost never forgive you killed him. Made him 100 right 100 people
after 100 people but he really wanted told me he really wanted to change
I know I know brothers that are on a very bad
morning speaks even more. Uber is crying from his eyes or from from his eyes anymore. He's actually crying from his heart throat Amina
I think they will
and we will want to change rocks to some degree every one of us wants to make a move wants to make a change while I get it I understand
but it's the equation we want the laws love but we're not prepared to deal with
so anyway, the men they accuse 100 people and then now he comes to a scholar so the people they sent him to a scholar when he goes to the island he says you look up to the 100 can Allah forgive me
the society he says my brother who can stand between you and the forgiveness of a lot of course I'll continue
you know we're all amazed with but we've missed the point of the whole Hadith the man says the What does the scholar say this is a word can't forgive you.
But for you to change and this is he is now called by anybody whenever this please bro must speak you from my heart. From my heart. I beg you understand this. I believe.
We get LD, we get our lessons of all of life. We get it from planting sooner.
Trust me, there's a lot of people who talk and use mice fancy words, but all of your life, it's
just it's all there. The man really wants to change he's killed 100 and he's asking the scholar camela Forgive me. The scholar says yes Anwar can forgive you. But
but for you to change. You have to leave your town. This
that's a problem I really want to change them having me obey is no good
for 10 years What do you want me to do
that's the problem you're not prepared to break up from your mind you're not prepared to leave the air and you know sometimes it may be an extreme thing sometimes in order to save your soul to save you leave you may have to leave town have you believe by awaits the area code.
If you've been saving your soul Good luck problem. Well, I really want to change the way we're going to do. This is all I know
is buying and selling
beats online. And I know that all the income is high home and I know I'm feeding my kids home. But if I give up tonight, tomorrow morning, it's my own.
That's the thing you can't come to the lowest baggage.
Brother Omar. I love them. I love being told you what the talks are all about. Would you post on Tuesday on Tuesday?
Well, we've been finding out about me for the last 10 years.
One why you think it's funny I'm genuinely get that from people.
Whenever we have our family, but you know, we have our family, family barbecues on Tuesdays shift.
The brother wants to understand what do you want? Do you want the hot water the old dean of the largest Brother, what you want is to change your mood to cater for you. doesn't work that way.
you're the one that needs to make the move,
the stroller is sitting in it is a locket for you but you need to move areas.
This term that you eat is toxic. When you look at calling it
brother I want to change
and then he wakes up in the morning and the first thing he does is he's looking at his phone
How do you know when your CNC of changing gears from 10 years ago start contacting you psychologists working around the clock
but but you're not prepared to give up the phone and you're not prepared to give up your mind and you're not prepared to lose areas and you're not prepared to lose your voice and come to the
end which one is
which one is
he says you have to leave
so the man packs up his bags and he leaves
he says you have to go with another tailor this book people do they go to God to to good things. So the man picks up he leaves on the way
on the way you can dice
on the way
so the angels of Russia come down and the angel of punishment come down and there's a dispute between the angels who's going to thank you
the angels of randomness and this man matoba the angels of punishment said no no he was on the way to talk to people.
about some just sits down with a third angel to be a judge between the two assisted the angels measure the distance
this man is closer to the town of seen me because he's going to the town of good. He says measure the distance if he's closer to the town of seeing the dangers of punishment taking but if it's closer to the town of good the little angels of rock muckraking by measure the earth and unfortunately for him, guess where you are.
He was closer to the town of sin.
So Allah azza wa jal orders the earth to change its dimensions
as that level
of law, always the earth to change its dimensions until he made it one headspin closer to the channel.
This is a man that didn't pray a similar camera. He didn't make a single such that all he had was a genuine intention. But it wasn't the intention. It was the fact he packed up. It was the fact he took that role. And that's why that's why my brothers, if you die on the road of trying to memorize the Quran, Allah will resurrect you as a half as
if you die on the road to hell.
Allah will resurrect you in your sign the better moment even though you didn't get there. Why? Because you will up the road.
You went there when I was sitting on the last engineer for that'll get people away. Oh see how I go.
That's how I was able to make use of those to build a relationship with you.