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smilo Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah. All praise is due to Allah subhanho wa Taala, the king, the master, the Sustainer, the creator of the seven heavens and the earth, and we send peace and blessings upon His Beloved Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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My dear respected brothers and sisters, I ask Allah subhana wa Taala, that he blesses you all and your families, that He guides us on to what he loves, and to the way of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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My brothers and sisters, what I would like from you today is if we can maybe just

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and if I can kindly ask you to break away from the formalities.

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And unfortunately, we've reached the point in time where now we come to talks, simply to be seen.

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Unfortunately, we don't come to listen anymore, we come to watch, we come to be entertained, we come to be in the who's who of the gatherings, and rdg who came from overseas, share for learn and molana for learn, and this person and that person, and it's all about making the next person feel like that they missed out, and that you and I are special because we were there. And it's all about you know, getting everyone's attention that did you see me? So or lady forgive me? But, you know, for once in our lives, how about we actually try some see Lee, that we sit down for once purely for loss sake, not caring about the person to my left, not caring about the person to my right, my caring about the

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one in front of me and behind me? But how about maybe let's just try for once in our lives, to purely really sit for Allah subhanho wa Taala sake, and don't worry about what I'm going to say. And because you know, unfortunately, sometimes I'll be giving a talk, I'll be giving a hot bath. And people come to me and say, Wow, man, your words was so good. They were so great. They were so this, that and the other that I wish my mother was he I wish my auntie was he, I wish my best friend was he I wish this person and that person was he because they really needed to hear those words. Almost as if to say that you and I were angels. We fell from the heavens. We don't seen Of course, we don't

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make mistakes. Were the greatest thing in the world since sliced bread. So therefore, you know, but I wish will enninful and was he because these people are this hood that would have been so grateful there, man. Everything you spoke about, bro. Oh, it's like, you know what? It's like he tapped into my life, man.

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But God forbid, should I ever be the one that's in the wrong? God forbid. Should I ever be the one that needs to hear the reminder? God forbid should this message ever be for me? Never.

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I'm the best thing in the world. But everyone around me is you know. So now ally my brothers and sisters. When we come to a talk, when we come to a hotel, when we come to a lesson. We come with other we come with a loss. We come with sincerity. You know it's not about the speaker. It's never ever about the speaker. It's about that you coming and sitting in a gathering This is worshipping Allah subhanho wa Taala you know, I find that very interesting that somewhere along the line, we forgot that we're all slaves of Allah, we forgot that we are all dependent on Allah subhanho wa Taala you can't breathe without Allah. You can't blink without Allah. You can't walk without Allah.

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You there's nothing you can do without Allah subhanho wa Taala so when we come here we come here because we really truly want guidance from Allah. But it's unfortunate that many of us now we look at our lifestyles and everyone thinks but I'm not doing anything wrong. Look at me. I'm good. I'm great. I'm this that and the other so so you know, deep down in our hearts we feel like you know, I don't you know, I don't I really don't need a reminder. What do you want to remind me about bro?

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talk to this person. This person doesn't pray talk to that person. This person doesn't wear the hijab talk to this person. This person doesn't even do this. Then come talk to me. No, sir. Have you ever dared to speak like this?

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No Sahabi No, no, no, no mother of the believer ever dare to speak like this. But today you and I we have this arrogance with Allah subhanho wa Taala that me I'm not in need of the reminder then we come to talks now.

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The beauty for the entertainment of the bro or the G the chef here he was so cute. And I like the way he makes his jokes. And I like the way he is.

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This is this is this is now you know when you look at the dollar industry now Forgive me when one line for me. I feel like it's become like the entertainment industry.

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It's all about likes and Facebook. And did you see this? And did you see that? And yes, I'm watching and I'm sharing and so please, my brothers will lie and my sisters I beg you that now today? Let's just for once break away from this nonsense break away from this trash this rubbish and maybe just for once open your heart and actually ask Allah that Allah opened my heart to love what like you know, what do you want from me Allah.

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He said my brothers and my sisters The reality is this world that you and I are

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In this world that was so caught up in this lifestyle and this image that way, you have no idea how fake This is. You have no idea how destructive This is.

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Because the truth is Allah subhanaw taala didn't create us for this.

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And the thing is, you know what many of us we have this massive problem. You know what our problem is? Is we think well, brother, I'm not doing anything wrong. So what's your problem man?

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You guys with your beads? You know, it's like you You know my brothers and sisters true Dean. And this is unfortunately for us that most of our Deen is shallow demon. shallow. You know, I do. My Dean is the Dean of my mom and my dad and my auntie and my uncle and my friend and, you know, what else do you want from me, bro? Habibi. Allah doesn't want from you what your mom and your dad does? Allah wants from you what the Prophet did? Allah wants from you what Ayesha? Did. Allah wants from you what Fatima did, Allah doesn't want from you want to know, you know?

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Mary Ann and Alana and my aunt and my uncle Habib, Allah smart. Allah doesn't want this from you.

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Allah wants from you that you be the best. Allah wants to see from you. How good can you be?

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You know, one way I find that interesting in dunya we're never satisfied. Never, never ever. Are we ever satisfied when it comes to dunya My car is never good enough. By home is never big enough. My You know, my pocket is never ever nothing is ever good for us when it comes to the dunya but when it comes to do we settle for anything Alhamdulillah men

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have to learn. I mean, you know, look, I'm not the best but I mean Elisa for a minor man's low like but for rubbish, you never settle. But for Ireland for Dean and for Lauren is profit. Whatever, man, whatever, you know.

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It's amazing. You know, when it comes to dunya when it comes to my bloodline, my sisters Allah, Allah didn't create us for this world. And forgive me if these words are a little bit harsh, because we're law he let me be straight out. I didn't get paid to be here, man. I've paid my own way to come in. No one is paying me No one is funding me. I'm not gaining anything out of these. I'm not asking for likes, I'm not to fall for it. I'm not here for anything. I mean, purely for Allah subhanho wa, taala sake, nothing else I've you know, I've done nothing to gain. I have a wife and five kids back home that are missing me and I'm missing them. Right? So really, for me, I've got nothing to gain

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here. But the truth is, you know, one way you know, when are we ever going to be honest to each other? Allah subhanaw taala didn't create us for this world.

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Allah subhanaw taala created us for the

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very, very, very soon my brother and my sister. And again, my apologies whether you like this, it sits well with you. These words are too harsh for you. I don't care. I really don't care. Because you are going to die very soon, in fact, far sooner than what you really think.

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And my question to you is what have you prepared for your death?

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What have you prepared?

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Because guess what, you're going to go on a journey, you're not coming back from

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you will die. And this is the only guarantee that Allah has given anyone. Along the way didn't promise anyone anything. A lot didn't promise even the Prophet. He didn't promise him anything. No victories notice that nothing.

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The only thing that you might have been promised this day.

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And Allah is telling you that look, I created you for a purpose. I created you to worship Me and Me alone. And soon you will die. And this little 10 1520 whatever, however long you're gonna possibly live on this earth. I've created you. You are here for a reason.

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You're here for a reason.

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I feel like today no one even knows what the reason is. Because my existence on earth is you know, I'm just trying to do you know, I'm just trying to do what the next man is trying to do.

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My friend buys a car now I gotta buy a car. She kind of got a car, you know? I gotta cut my hair. Did you see her dress? Did you see this? Did you see his dad? Did you see? What are we five years old?

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Are we blind?

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What he for this dress?

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And maybe again, maybe these words for you and either a bit harsh. But you know what? Listen, for argument's sake. Let's say I'm an extremist. But your prophet is an extremist. Is he?

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The new Prophet says config.

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The Prophet when he says to the Sahaba to the best of generations, he's telling them listen, you better live in this world like a stranger. Like a wayfarer like a traveler.

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Why are you telling me this a profit of a law

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Why are you telling me these four?

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People told me Oh brother, can we have fun can we do? This is kindergarten language. I'm here to tell you about fun and not fun. I'm here to tell you about what you can and can't do. I need to remind myself and remind you that they are laws policy for purpose, but we're not here to play games. When the Prophet is telling me that live in this world like a stranger, like a wayfarer, like a traveller. Don't get caught up, bro. Don't get caught up.

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Don't get caught up in the glitz and the glamour of this world. Don't get caught up with your little card, your little home, and a little dress and your little handbag, you know, and you don't get caught up in this stuff

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ever traveled?

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I'm sure you have

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ever caught a flight

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where you have to stop over somewhere. Maybe in Dubai, maybe in Abu Dhabi.

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Look, you know, sometimes people told me that you know, brother, I wish Dean was more contemporary.

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What are you talking about? Dean is the most contemporary thing you will ever face in your life. The never changes, not 1400 years ago, not today, not even 10,000 years from now. Nothing will ever be more honest, more pure, more sciency more truthful and more contemporary than Dean.

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Dean is truth. But we live a lie. That's why we struggle with Dean.

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Because lies and truth cannot coincide in one app.

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We love false images. We love false claims. So going back to what I'm saying the Prophet is saying live in this world like a stranger like a wayfarer.

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What does that mean? So like I was saying ever traveled ever stopped in Dubai. How long are you in Dubai for me for an hour, maybe two hours, three hours. I have a connecting flight.

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So imagine now You and I were traveling. We stopped over in Dubai. And you and I know very well. That look in three hours. We have a connecting flight. I get 58 right? We know

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so because there's some time to spare we go for a walk. We're in the airport we're walking around. So as we're walking around

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and you know what? You may even laugh but I want to ask you buy my house stupid then how silly Do I sound? If while I'm walking around my city I said you know what? I really liked this airport. I'm thinking about buying a house here.

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Now he's buying a house Hello haraam please that's not my topic enough of this Hillel

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let's give the garden language

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I'm asking you how stupid Do I sound if I'm walking in dubai airport and I got caught up I said you probably you know what I really like this place. I'm thinking about opening up a shop here man.

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What shop are you talking about? We live in three hours? Yeah, yeah, but three hours that's plenty of time.

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Let me open a shop I just might make an extra dollar

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or you know what? Hey, you know what? I like the women he maybe I should get married. Again. It's not wrong.

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This is our problem. This is the biggest problem that Muslims are facing. Is because look, I'm not doing anything wrong. What's your business man? Get off my back. Oh, yeah.

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Let me tell you this. And we're law II This is for anyone out there with an heart with an atom's right of understanding anyone that wants an atom's white of depth. You know mmm because Allah He says an amazing statement. And I'm only going to say once either you catch it or you don't remember his early he says when he was speaking about halal and haram he says you know Haram is like poison.

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Even a small amount of it is enough to kill you.

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You see, we all know haraam. Xena and drinking alcohol and gambling Oh, no, no way. I'll never do these things. Right? Haram is clean. No, no. But then he says, He says halaal on the other hand. halaal is like medicine.

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the right dosage will cure you. And too much of it will also kill you.

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A problem is we're drowning in Halloween.

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It's Halloween things that we're drowning in.

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I'm not doing anything wrong. But I'm wasting my time wasting years of my life wasting money that our Lord gave me wasting on this data. Yeah, it's not heroin. But that's not your purpose, either, man.

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So now I'm walking around in dubai airport. I'm thinking you know, share.

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I want to open up a shop. What do you recommend?

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I want to get married. What do you reckon?

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I want to buy a house? Yeah. What do you reckon? He'll tell me brother? Look how foolish he said. What are you talking about? You're a stranger. You don't belong he? Would you want to buy a house? For your stranger? You don't belong. You're departing my friend. You connecting flight is that guy 58.

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You laugh at this example. But how silly are we? How foolish are we? You see, at least in Dubai, at least in Dubai. At least I know that I'm leaving in three hours. Have you already been promised the next three seconds?

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You're not promised anything from a law?

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I asked you by law. Do you feel like you're a stranger?

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Talk to me, man. Be real life. You know what that taught me for once in your life? Well, like my sister, I beg you for once in your life. Just be truly honest to yourself. Ask yourself deeply. Sincerely. Do you feel like a stranger?

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Look at the way relief man.

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Look at the way we live.

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We want and want and want and want. And more. And more and bigger, and faster, and prettier, and more lavish and more expensive. And more and more. And more and more. You don't sound like a strange man.

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You don't. You don't sound like someone in the depths of our hearts will lie. I challenge bring the bring some of that. The inner core of your heart. The dream of your dream. The ambition of all of your ambitions is what?

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to own a nice home.

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Wow, what a dream.

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Oh, nice home.

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You don't sound like a strange woman.

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Look at the decisions that we make in life.

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We sound like people who have no intentions on moving anywhere.

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You know, I get parents sometimes who told me are our kids, our kids, our kids.

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I say You know what?

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We're so far from Allah.

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That we're trying to build a world you know, we're lucky nothing burns me more than when parents told me I you know, our children are lost.

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I tell them straight to their face. They're lost because you're lost Habibi. That's why they're confused because you're confused.

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And we're trying to build the world. Under the pretext of No, no, no, we have good intentions that I want to provide for my children, brother I want to provide for my wife, but I want to habibie Allah subhanho wa Taala never, never ever, ever did Allah ever say that you have to provide for your wife or your children? Never did Allah ever say that you have to exhaust yourself in trying to do this during the other. In fact, on the contrary, Allah states in the Quran, let every man spin according to what he's been given. I gave the X amount of dollars, then you live off X amount of dollars. I'm the one that provides a lot never ever asks any one of us to put food on anyone, because back is

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from Allah subhanaw taala. But the very job that I have the very responsibility that we have been given, to give to our children to give to our spouses to give to society, guess what, we're not doing that. A lot put us on this earth to give.

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Not to demand man.

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Not done yet. Now we we exhausted my whole life on dunya and the hell with Dean.

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Allah says in the Quran, let every man's point spend according to what I've given him. Hey, don't do it in yourself. Don't make things harder. look at ourselves. Look at our lives. Look at miserable we are. Look how miserable we are. It's all fake, fake images, fake smiles, fake this one. Like just look at the world of social media. Look at the world of social media. You spend money that you didn't earn, on things that you don't need, trying to impress people that you don't even know.

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This is my life.

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So going back to our children, you know

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Have you been on lots of panels Allah put me on this earth to pass on to my children, the love of Allah, the love of Quran the the true understanding the reality of this life, what have we done? Going back to my point? Look at our lives. Look at our lives. We're trying to build the world. And this might not sit well with some of us, you know, but deep down we're trying to build a world where we are trying to eliminate a lot from our lives.

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That's the truth. My home, I have to own it. Why? Because it's a sense of security. Your security is no longer a lie, is it? No, no, no, no, no. The smile on my face when I purchase a house. Look, look at the schilke that's in our hearts. Shoot. This is so comfy. Now. I have your theme. I have a sense of security in my heart. That brother Listen, I paid for this. I have a receipt. I have a piece of paper. It's got my name on it. This is mine. No one can kick me out. Well scenario security is a piece of paper. Now your security is not a law. Well guess what? Anything, anything and anyone you put before Allah, Allah will destroy you through that very thing. If you love someone more than

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Allah, be it your wife, your husband, your children, your boss. I swear by Allah atika, some By Allah, Allah Himself will humiliate you through that very person.

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You take sense of security, you start looking at your employer as this is why there's lots and lots and lots of panels, Allah, Allah Himself will discretion immediate you through your employer. When you take your medicine, it's Hillel. It's not Haram. But if you're your king, if your heart is deep down, say that it's the medicine that kills me and not Allah, guess what Allah Himself will disgrace you and humiliate you through that medicine.

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When it comes to my children, and look again, it all falls under the pretext of brother. I mean, well, man, we love our kids. We love our children, you liar. You liar. This is not love. Real Love is when you connect people to Allah subhanaw taala. But we love when it comes to my kids. I want them to go to the best schools. Okay, that's fine. I agree. We, you know,

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the best schools, they have to eat the best foods, they have to go to the greatest doctors and the best hospitals. Right? Everything has to be the best. My kid can not make a mistake. He cannot fall down. He can never ever do wrong. You know, he, they have to be the best. Whoa, whoa, step back a notch. Man, relax. What are you trying to do, bro?

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insurance. Everything is insured. My house is insured. My car is insured by businesses insured, my wages insured. My life is insured. Why? Because they down. We want to eliminate a law.

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You know, sometimes I say to people, you know, this life you're trying to provide for your child. While it sounds very nice on the outside. I want to ask you something and be honest with me the life that you intend for your child. Just tell me when? When when just just look point with your finger and tell me when will your child ever have to ask Allah for anything?

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Come on. I'm an extremist. You told me man.

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When when? When will you ever ask a law for anything?

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lohit my sisters, let me be very, very straight and blunt with you. I don't really do women's talks.

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It's not a I really I just don't know I struggle. I hate the fakeness I hate the whole, you know, because I've been there and I've seen other people speak and it's all about making them feel good. And Rosie and you guys, you guys are the mothers and you guys are the softness and you're the roses of our policemen enough of this trash please. And will lie. But listen, listen, and I'm not saying this because while I I get out of my way to be rude. No, no, no, no, no. Because I believe deep down in my heart. That one law has sisters, when you actually give them to them straight. One why they will do things men can never do in 10 years time. Because the passion is there. But they need

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direction that's all. So excuse me now I'm not very eloquent with my speeches, you know? But the truth is my sister very soon you're going to die

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and you will go down into that hole alone.

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And everything that you know everything that's preoccupied you and everything. That's getting

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You're busy and taking you away from Allah subhanaw taala your little cute home and your little cute car and your little kid gathering and your little cute iPhone and and and all these trash

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you will go alone will lie he oxen belay you will go alone

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all these people that you exhausted all your life my sister trying to please not one of them will be there for you. Even if they wanted to.

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You will die alone My sister and guess what when you die

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and they put the coffin over you

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let me assure you, there won't be no Louis Vuitton and no Gucci no Burberry then.

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It will be the cheapest white cloth we can get our hands on them.

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So your little handbag and your little shoes and your little matching earrings in your little Rolly these little things that

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Yeah, you're right. It's not haram but all of these things that kept us busy

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all of these things that we wasted and exhausted my life and my money or trying to make the next person jealous all along while deep down in my life deep down in my heart I myself was miserable. We love showing off to those people who are less fortunate than us. That's the truth. We don't show off to people that have more than us now no no look are filthy and corrupted. We are we show off

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to the people who we know they're less fortunate man.

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we thrive off it

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we love it when people look at us with envy.

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Okay, fake we are man.

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So yeah, your cuffin will not be Louis Vuitton. And it won't be Burberry and it won't be Gucci either. I promise you by a light it won't be and your little mansion that you live in. Or at least the mansion you dream. You know the one that your husband is working, working like a jackass trying to pay off trying to make you happy and trying to make me happy and trying to be a man in front of people. Where did simple living ever go way way?

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This home that you're so attached to my brother and my sister. Guess what? Your final home your real home will be a six by two hole in the ground.

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No LED lights, no underfloor heating.

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And this nice car that you're driving in.

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Guess what the last ride you will ever have. In I'm not sure how things are he in South Africa. But in Sydney, Australia, the hearse that takes the dead bodies is a 92 model for the Ltd

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savior will lie he just recently one lady. I know a brother that used to drive a Rolls Royce 2016 model Rolls Royce.

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Guess what was the last car he drove him in

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92 model Ford Ltd

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where the old sat he was watching it while he was getting watched.

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He was watching it very quickly with a sponge.

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And all of these people that you think are your friends on social media, and all of these people that you think are really important. And all of these people that should

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guess what, when you go into that ground alone?

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No one and I promise you, no one will be there after 20 minutes. I'm not sure how things are here. Maybe Maybe this in the APAC community has a bit more than than us Arabs in Australia. 20 minutes.

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20 minutes by a law 20 minutes.

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And it's all fake and staged. We all come to the funeral now everyone looking sad and concerned.

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But deep down in our hearts, we're thinking man, how much longer is this going to be? I heard the man doesn't take too long. Chef, please make a quick glance, because people need to work. Chef, please, please, please a chef. Traffic is bad man. Traffic is bad. All along you. You and I spent all of our lives trying to please these people. They allow us they lower us down into the ground. They throw the dirt over us 1015 minutes we'll make that you've sent them to one another and then they walk away. And I swear by Allah, oxen villa. I've seen it Not once, twice, thrice, multiple times. I've seen it. You know what the conversation is as people are walking away.

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Let's go grab something to eat, man. I'm hungry.

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And then guess what? You and I were there. We're stuck. We're alone.

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I'm nice.

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naked,

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no fleshy earrings, no acrylic nails, no nothing.

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naked, alone, cold, scared. And now the angels will come and they will question

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they will question

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Who is your Lord? And don't think that I will come in a nice beautiful, petting manner? No, no, no, the prophet describes them huge in size, eyes like eyes like lightning, voices like thunder.

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When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when the one that was most merciful, and the best of the best of luck, when he is telling me that these two angels that will come to question you, their eyes will be like lightning, and their voices will be like thunder

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doesn't sound like they're going to come and sing Twinkle, twinkle little star to me to put me to sleep does it?

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Does it?

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So they will ask me who is your Lord?

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You know, when I was a young boy,

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this hadith is the schemee. So I remember

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as a young kid, you know.

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So nice to hear these are the angels will come and they will question you. So I used to get scared. And I used to think what are the questions again? And no matter how many times I hear the Hadith I always forget what are the three questions again? Who is your Lord? What is your religion? And then it's, I think, is what is your book? Or who was your prophet? So I used to always get so scared, you know? So like, I remember one time actually, I grabbed a piece of paper. I was young when I was a young kid. So you know, I grabbed the piece of paper in a pen and a paper, you know, and I can't remember who rent I think was my uncle. I'm not sure. And I ran. I said to please, please, please,

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can you tell me what are the three questions that the angels are going to ask so that I can write them down because I need to memorize them.

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And to one day someone said to me said you know what?

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memorizing them is not going to do you any good asset and why he asked me because that people don't speak.

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What do you mean? He said, me dead people don't speak your tongue is not going to move.

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So how will I answer?

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He said, it's your heart that will speak not your tongue.

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He said we have been we've been lying with this filthy tongue all of our lives.

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I was not interested in what your tongue has to say on that day.

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It is your heart that will answer

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so when the angels will ask Who is your Lord?

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The heart doesn't lie man.

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But occupied your heart day and night?

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Was it really a low was a dunya?

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The heart Will I answer?

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My law this money. My law this time? My law the status? My law this position? By law this power?

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By law is not a law.

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So you might think Nah, Brother, what are you talking about? Man? This is this is how did you get from zero to extreme in no time? What would you like comment share? What do you What are you trying to say? Habibi, listen, please? I think it's quite clear by now. I don't like beating around the bush. When the Prophet of Allah used to say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam die sab Durham, that, that the one that worships money is miserable and disgraced and destroyed.

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Have you ever seen anyone in your life ever worship money?

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No.

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You see, the prophet was speaking about putting $1 coin in front of you and praying towards

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that real worship? Is obedience.

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Real worship is obedience. So when they asked Who is your Lord,

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your heart will answer.

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Who did you obey in this world? Was it really a law? Or was it social expectations?

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Was it really a law? Or was it my employer? Was it really a law? Or was it my spouse, my husband and my wife? Is it really so the heart will speak on that day and it will say who it obeyed in this world? That is my rub.

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And when they asked you and who is the man that was sent to you?

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You know, I find that interesting that we all like to show and express our love

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for so long. So long.

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are you brother please You know, please when you say his name, you know, I get shivers down my spine. You little preserve you liar.

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Look how fake we are and

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look how fake we are.

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If he really sent chills down your spine,

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then your home would be like his home.

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Your dress would be like his dress.

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Your life would be like his life. Your prayer would be like his pray.

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But my life and my wife and my home and is anything Batasuna law.

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So we love, we love throwing these little words around and making ourselves feel better about ourselves. And you know, I don't have much time but you know, something that I want to mention that

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going back to and this is for the brothers as well. By no means is this all sit down and have a go to the sisters lower law. I believe in my heart, that the sisters are the way they are because the men are the way they are. When men become men, trust me, the women will become women.

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But we're not men anymore. We're a disgrace.

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We're boys men.

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We lost. That's why the rest are lost. So you know sometimes in your heart,

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you see the Sahaba they were in all of the Prophet.

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They loved him sallallahu alayhi wasallam everything he did for them was valuable.

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In fact,

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the famous statement that no common as a law in Islam, or my job is to say we are a people who are law under the strict Islam. Allah Allah.

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Allah another's through the Quran. Today the deen is no longer honor for us.

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So like I said to you, when you choose something other than online, his profit, what will allow the allow will disgrace you and humiliate you with that very thing that you choose. I don't have much time. Let me get straight to the point that I want to make.

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You know, some brothers.

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I have this one there. I you know, he's quite well known in Australia. This is a very This is someone that gives power. And so one day we were traveling, we were flying from one and please my lawyer, I beg you for your I beg for your undivided attention. So one day we were traveling, I was flying from Sydney, we'll find somewhere else that is they're very well known. They're I mean, people love him. He speaks about the law, you know, very. So one, you know, so we were traveling.

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And

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we jumped onto the airplane. And I mean, I wear these clothes wherever I go, right? It's not about the clothes. But for me, I wear this wherever I go.

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So he sat next to me, you know, and he, I felt like he was uncomfortable.

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So then after when we when we did the whole tour, and we came back and he said to me, brother, Look, man, you and I were quite close, he said to me.

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He said, Look, you know I'm all for looking like this and dressing like this and

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is it ever brother Yanni, you know like when we're traveling and we're mixing with non Muslims and

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maybe you know, Allahu Allah under the banner of wisdom.

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Maybe you should wear those clothes when

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you know me. I don't care about clothes. My father wears a suit and a tie has all his life. And my dad is one of the most honorable men I know. It's not the clothes. And that's the problem. We're so short sighted. We're so we're so shallow that we look and we judge people based on appearance and cloud. No, no, no, no, no, it's the depth. So the brother Sydney said, you know, brother, maybe like you know, when we're in airports to make things easy on us. Maybe you should put on like a business shirt and a tie and maybe you know, some some trousers. So I said to him, brother, I can't help but feel like maybe you're ashamed of these clothes.

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Are you ashamed?

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Does the hijab make you feel ashamed? Does the niqab is that a shame for you?

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And you know what's unfortunate. Muslims hate the niqab more than what non Muslims do. You know non Muslims, they don't know any better but wherever he can, he can be he can be free. I don't care. It's not my religion. But as Muslims we are vicious against each other and vicious. So you shamed

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below my brother. Please don't misunderstand me. Don't.

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Look, look, look, let's not beat around the bush.

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My brother will lie if you take honor in anything other than the Prophet deed, or said or approve of one lawyer, Allah will disgrace you. And let me come straight to my point. I said to my brother, listen, you want me to take this off? That's fine. What do you want me to replace it with?

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Tell me, you tell me what do you want me to replace it with? When the Prophet is no longer your role model who now becomes your role model?

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When I shine, Khadija no longer your role model. Guess who becomes your role model my sister, guess you look at our Lord disgraces and humiliates us, you know a woman and you all know exactly who she is. And you all know exactly who I'm talking about. A woman that has no credentials, no higher.

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You have is worth higher. What a world what a world. This word higher is such a word

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that there isn't a single word in all of the English dictionary that can be an exact translation. You know why? Because it doesn't exist in their societies. That's why

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to even get close to higher you got to use words like modesty, bashfulness,

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modesty, chastity, all of these words, and he still doesn't do justice to the word hire. But he comes a woman with no hire. No qualities probably doesn't even wash this off after she finishes from the toilet. No education, absolutely nothing to offer humanity in any way shape or form. The only thing she ever did was she slept with her boyfriend in a heroin relationship. And like a piece of trash she recorded that and then it was supposedly accidentally leaked onto the internet. The world watched her naked doing the filthy of the filthy now she's become a star nail she dictates to the Muslim women what to wear, what is fashionable what's in and what's not how your hair should look

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how your bottoms should look what she should be wearing, what you should be carrying. Look how will not disgrace as a people.

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This piece of trash name she tells my daughter and my wife and my sister as to what's in and what's not.

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And guess what?

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You your sisters know better than anyone you're never good enough

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for us is big tomorrow her breasts are big. The day after her hair is short the day after air is long, and we're playing catch up and catch up and catch up and catch up and everyone is trying to look unique. And at the end Guess what? We all look exactly the same. We all look ridiculous.

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Since we're going to all look the same anyway. Let me look like I shall not this piece of trash man.

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I sent him brother You told me you want me to take these clothes off? Who told me what do you want me to weigh? Look at now the young Muslim men.

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Look now now it's dosing Gabbana. You replaced the masuleh with two homosexuals in Paris that has no Dean no higher absolutely nothing to offer. Now these people dictate to me what to wear and what not to wear. Are you serious?

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Now in Sydney grown men wearing short shorts, shaved legs, handbags, we wear handbags Now have you seen these handbags? And that's fine.

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But look what happens when you replace someone with Rasulullah look our Lord disgraces and humiliates a nation.

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He forgives me man my mind is everywhere. I can't even gather my thoughts. I'm that frustrated or lying? My sisters My apologies are not offend you. I'm not upset to you. I'm not here to make you feel. Well, I'm here to tell you. Like I would wish someone to tell me. Wake up to yourself, man. Stop killing yourself. Stop beating around the bush stop trying to please this person and that person. Allah wants you to please him and him alone. And the law will look after all of your affairs alone will look after all of your problems and well wishes to make things easy. We wish to make things hard. We make things difficult, a lot never a lot testifies in court and lay you California

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on a sunny la casa. Allah promises that I will never burden a soul with anything more than what

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was anything more than you know, that which this body can carry a lot testifies. I will never burden you. Guess what all of our anxiety and all of our depression and all of our problems are self inflicted. They don't come from Allah subhanaw taala

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because you're trying to live a life that's not human

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You know what I love? I love simplicity.

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Today the old doesn't accept simplicity.

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I love when a man says to me, brother, this is where my boundaries are. I can't do this. This is too much for me man will lie in my heart melts for these people.

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That's a real man. A real man is a man that knows but I will lie. This is this is all I can do.

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We are weak people are law created this week. Why don't you just admit it?

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No, I can. I can. I'm capable. And we say these words to our boys. Look how we're corrupting our children. Hey, hey, BNN.

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The three most dangerous words my brother's you can ever say to your son? Is BM n?

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The most dangerous words you can ever say to your son is BNN.

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I don't care. I want you to be who you are. When my son cries, I leave him let him cry, man. He's emotional right now. Let him get off his chest. We're human beings. We're not animals, but we're not robots.

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Hey, stop crying. Stop crying.

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No, obviously you're upset cry. That's fine. The Prophet cried man.

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It's not shaming that.

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There's nothing wrong with being scared. I'm scared. I don't want to die.

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I'm scared. I'm scared.

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I don't run away from that.

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That's why I have a lot.

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That's why we worship Allah. Because we are weak. We ask it. We are afraid we are in need. That's why a lot there.

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Anyway, my sisters Forgive me a lot. My mind is everywhere. I asked Allah subhanaw taala that he blesses you all. ask Allah subhanaw taala that he brings us back to the

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and ask Allah subhanaw taala that he opens our eyes and he opens our hearts. I asked a lot that he

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he puts us in a situation where we only tried to please Him and no one and nothing else man

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asked a lot that he doesn't take ourselves until he's pleased with it.

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ask Allah subhana wa Taala that he unites us with Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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and that he unites us sisters with his wives and for those olana

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I ask Allah subhana wa Taala that he softens our hearts and that he puts mercy and compassion towards one another.

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And also the island Habib Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam subhanak Allahumma Chateau de la land hirokawa toilet