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Madrasah Saalihaat Mayfair
Channel: Muhammad Hoblos
File Size: 27.32MB
South Africa 2017
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used to be a ruler whoo man
wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah
Oh praise is due to Allah subhana wa tada the king, the master the Sustainer, the creator of the seven heavens and the earth. We said Peace and blessings upon His Beloved Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
I would like to thank the sheriff and the school for allowing me to be mayor was
what the sisters that are coming in that attended that have come from far distances asked the last panel one of the places you or your families
I must confess I'm very nervous.
I've never really spoken to gills to women. So
yeah, I'm a bit shy. And I guess I
it'd be a concern because usually my approach is
off I'm hoping that you sisters will be kind of
if there's anything
I wanted to
make the video
My sisters, I guess one of the reasons why
I personally choose not to
a woman audience because
I feel like there's this stereotype that when you speak to women, everything's got to be rosy and everything's got to be pink and colorful. And that everything has to be
And for me personally on a personal level, I can't do that.
And I think sometimes I feel that even women get disappointed in that. I feel sometimes you guys want to hear it.
So I guess that's what I'm going to do today.
And my sister's Look, let me not waste any more time.
You will never understand that you will never fully appreciate a comprehend and be able to absorb how much you've been to a loss of travel.
And I swear by that I'm not saying this because I want to when you're outside or because I want to start the conversation by you feeling good about yourself. We're learning I swear by online you have no idea how much each and every single one of you need
to know that
created a lot of
a lot of channels.
A lots of kind of dialogue is the one that is really empty slip you make an empty thought you make every action you take a lot of fun.
Over you watching the week you caring for you. Nobody will ever love you
know who ever came we like a lot of fun electronic history. No one would ever be there for you.
I don't care what claims you make. I don't care what's going
And how soft and sweet it sounds when you see them, no one will ever be there.
And this is why my sisters a lot.
A lot wants to put attention, a lot wants to have a lot more.
And in return
for your problem,
anything you need anything you're searching for a must have
some ways to say you make a hostile kind of Allah number wanting to like a must come first before you that before your brother before your father, before your husband before, before your mom before your best friend before anyone, you make a must. Number one goal, he is the reason of yours. He's the one that is seeking your pleasure. He is the one that is you please, you make him happy, you make things right with Him. And it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Doesn't matter what anybody thinks, doesn't matter what any other woman does, it really doesn't matter. As long as he's happy, then you have won the World. If
we can take you on, you can be against
who can love you when
we can help you when
you see my brothers and sisters, the truth is this. Every single human being every single human being doesn't matter who you are, where you're from, what your race is, what your color is, what's your nationality, what your religion, it doesn't matter. There is something that every single human being, we change, as the human race, we have something that is common amongst us all, and that we all want to be successful. One way or another, every one of us wants to be successful. Nobody wants to be miserable. Nobody wants to be a nobody. I don't care how humble you are not care what you
We all want a good life, we all want to be important. We all want to be made to feel special. And we all want to be successful to some degree. Now, yes, many of us will disagree, or many of us may have very different opinions as to what succeeds.
And this is the testing that you and I might distance you and I and
as people that believe in a lot of what has made things so easy for us. But we choose to make things difficult.
make things easy, but we are making things.
A must have
everything in front of young, especially for the woman, especially for the woman.
But unfortunately, we make things hard.
Then we turn around and we say things are not working, and how convenient not answering my problems.
easy for us. And and the chef even touched on some of these things when it was exciting. You know, you and I are just like anyone else that's seeking for success. We're looking for answers. We want to know the purpose of life. You know, what is true happiness? What is 360 days? Some people think happiness and success, and there's no right or wrong answer.
Some people may think that true success is when I'm happily married.
Other people think that success is when I have a good career. Some people think no success is when I have lots of money. Some people may argue that
success is you know, when somebody's unknown. You know, I'm very big on social media. This is what I think success is. And I'm sure if there's 100 of you there, I'm sure 50 of you will give me a very different opinion and your thoughts as to what you believe.
But also kind of what Allah makes it simple and makes it easy for the Muslim that hey, don't be fooled with what people think success is. Are you the one that created success, and I'm the one that will tell you what it is and almost kind of what Allah tells us what is true success.
And Allah makes it very clear.
That will never save the soul from held via an entrance into paradise allotted. This is the greatest
success. That's the same. And just in the air, the chef was reading online says are those that are injured. I like the ones that are in general can the to be equal to be compared? For those that are in Japan, this is the greatest
job in this world, my sister, it's a paradise. That's
That's why I mean
don't be fooled by this whole. Don't be fooled by the luxuries of this world. Don't be fooled by what other people think another you
Cultural expectation and what it
is, it's useless. It's, it's deception, it's only leading you to your own destruction. And it has been
the one that is telling me what is true success is telling you that true success is when you enter into paradise, that is true. That is when you can boast. That is when you can take your shoes off and kick back and really be proud of itself. It's like, you know what I made?
but up until you get it.
And not only that, but Allah subhanaw taala. And what is the opposite of sickness? What is true failure?
What is true?
Because many of us know, unfortunately, we think, you know, I'm 25 years old, I'm 30 years old, and I'm married. And for a woman, I know.
I don't care.
I know the pain that it causes. And I know unfortunately, the stigma, the stigma and the corruption in our societies. When a woman is 30 years older, she married or even worse, when a woman is
the taboo that we have in our communities now, she's looked down upon what is the trash use?
Or three kids or whatever the case is? So you are feeling in your heart? No, no, because the expectations that dictate to you and I what is failure and what is success?
what I want to say.
A turistic says is gentlemen, and true failure is one that goes to gentlemen.
Allah says, shall I tell you about the greatest
in this world, they put so much effort and so much of the time and concern and much of the money and so much of our money telling about the greatest losers, those that worked so hard, thinking that they were doing so good.
equal to a big fat zero
So true happiness
doesn't come from men. It doesn't come from materialistic things. It comes from a lot and the only proper boss
Your job is to please the light. Hello? Excuse My French The hell with everyone else. That's the truth.
Yes, I will do my best to make my friends happy. Yes, I will do my best to make my husband happy. Yes, I will do my absolute best to make the people around me the people that yes, I will do my best to make them happy. But guess what?
I cannot do miracles, I can only do what I want.
And if that's not good enough for you?
Did it choose me again.
with anything more than what that person can carry.
Many of us who are suffering in our own lives, were suffering with their own demons were suffering with depression and anxiety and despair and trials and tribulations and most of the most of it comes from our own.
We put ourselves in situations we put ourselves in circles we put ourselves in social groups that really we don't even at least the basic
most of us trying to please this person and the other and you know what? Let's be real what what you can leave
you will never ever ever ever, because that's just the nature of men.
But would you please
Did you victorious
with a people like your
new please Are you victorious?
And unfortunately now today with with the widespread of social media, what do we bring the pressures upon ourselves? We bring we bring harm into our own homes.
You know what? I find that I find that interesting, you know, when you look at a loss system,
and then some of anyone else
is the one making things hard for me was he making things easy for me and it's been the
To speak in regards to the woman, let's speak to regards to look at how
the woman you know, and people now speak about feminism. People speak about rights for women. I've never heard so much interest in my life. Never.
Because nothing ever gave the freedom and the flexibility and the rights of women like a lot of Canada and Ireland did not men, Muslim women, Muslim men don't, don't don't give women anything but
a lot of data sets. I want you just the way you
I created you, I questioned you, I saw
a lot created you with all of your shortcomings with all of the defects that you think a defect will create with you. And to perfection. So, yes, on
the basis of what makes things easy, we choose to make things harder.
And more creatively with my nervous with those with those eyebrows, with that face with the chin with the with the breasts with a lot created those
I can walk into a supermarket and choose a lot
Did you stand in front of
the white You make me look the way I
created you the way you are. And the last part of Allah has ordered you that look, your beauty belongs to me. I'm the one that wants to see your beauty and the only people that you really should be concerned as to how you look all right, is only your husband if you are married. Other than that you should never be concerned. right and the left
don't do this Don't touch eyebrows.
Don't do this why? Because I'm telling you I created you and I love the way you
Allah is telling you I created you it easy for you.
To prove that along the way you are telling me that whenever you have to leave the street that is not completely white, because the way you look is no one's business except for loss.
But then we insist on making things
that when you leave cover yourself completely, because it's no one's business, but mine.
I created you you answer to me.
No, no, no, no. Now my loops are dependent on what everyone else thinks.
Run after that. If you want to if you want to spend your life chasing careers and chasing, go on no one's gonna stop you.
look at the end of the day which model do we follow? Our job is to follow
Yes, so my job is to look at it
look at these people
telling you look at these people and make these people
how would they like make your life like that? What was the dress code, make your dress codes like that? What was the eating habits make your eating habits like that what what they weren't and they can make your work and stuff like that. And if you do that for this
and it was for you
to use the elastic paradise Harley dealer,
that look put up
put up with it put up with it. But if you pass if you pass the promise for us and everlasting paradise in which he never ever, ever grew up, in which you never ever, ever have to worry about the votes of this person or that person in which you don't have to please anyone. It which
is your beauty will be so much so that when you look in the mirror,
when you look in the mirror, there is absolutely nothing you would ever change about yourself. Such a beauty that
you don't have to sleep. You don't have to pry. You don't have to go to the toilet. No more monthly problems, no bleeding issues that no one
Perfection for eternity.
purity and perfection for eternity.
Follow the rules and follow the commandments.
Just stick with them.
For the woman who
is praying your house, in the house, the problem is that when a woman prays in the bedroom
for reward is equivalent to the man that wakes up in the morning makes boo have to get into the cop drug all the way to the machine waiting for the men to come in, make the comment, make the frame gifts, identify people that would be trying to avoid for the last three months, then come back into your car on the way you have to stop and grab bread and milk. And whatever the case is.
That the woman that wakes up and praise her friends not just in the house, not in her bedroom.
She would get the exact same reward as the man that is leading the prison the machine.
You know what mine was so much that I can
ask you to freely What am I doing with my life and the booth and who am I placing?
Because they will never be.
I mean, you guys know better than
the last three years. You can't keep up.
Tonight Show tomorrow. It's long tonight. Black tomorrow, it's white.
Tonight, on the side tomorrow, on the front tomorrow, the day after data split in the back. Tonight the hair is up. Tomorrow the hair is down the day after that the hips to the left, then it's one to the right. Tonight. Tomorrow, it's brown today.
add one line no matter what you do, guess what?
your height is never good enough. You'll figure it out.
Morning, my sisters and my brothers, Allah subhanho wa Taala he made life so easy. So easy, but we make things difficult.
We make things difficult, we spend that we invest so much of our time, and so much of so much of our effort, looking at everybody else's life
that we don't focus on.
We're so caught up with this person and that person that you know, in a million years, these people will never know of your existence.
That you find that interesting
that you find it interesting that you're so caught up. You're so in you, you're up to date with certain individuals in the world, you know every aspect of their life that you find interesting that if that person leaves three lifetimes, they will never know of your existence.
And you were so caught up with them and what they do and what they think and what they were and what they
look at the disgrace look at the humiliation.
And we'll lay these messages to the men and the women. And I say this wherever I go, when the Lord and his wives are no longer your idols and your role models. When these two are no longer your idols and your role model. Forgive me This is harsh. I'm telling you a lie himself who start to disgrace you.
When you align my brothers and sisters one line, one line, please give me your heart. Try to understand what I'm saying very, very deeply. When you and I become ashamed of the end, we become ashamed of the sooner we become ashamed of the mothers of the believers. We become ashamed of our profit. We become ashamed of his lifestyle. We become ashamed of his clothes, ashamed of their ways, ashamed of it.
If this has become shameful, then guess what a boy himself will start to disgrace you.
You're the real life example. I'll give you a real life example. You know, I'm not sure how things are here. But come to CPA. You have the big sister, you have the big sister, that Amanda niqab just to put out a demo.
Just to put the hijab on you have to beg
and then start sending it back to me. And I'm sure this is true and make sure this is and you know, I put my
towards women, and I thought,
the mothers of the believers now you and I deep down in our hearts. We don't get caught we don't idolize. So guess what become the alternative.
Khadija and fontina since these people, let's be honest, since
since these people they're not honored in our lives and we will have them as a better collective power. We love them so much Habibi, when you love. You obey. When you love you follow when you love me imitate. That's true love, when you truly love imitate
the white mythic these people.
So now, because we've become a chain of those people, what's become the alternative? Who knows?
And forgive me, forgive me. But look, I'm not here
to throw rose petals at you and tell you that everything is nice and dandy. Let's be real. I didn't travel 24 hours. You know, you don't start with the country's a waste, I can just come in and give you a nice word. And we can all feel better about ourselves. Let's be real. Maybe you guys don't have this. But you know this better than me and you look at the societies that we live in. When we when we started looking down at these honorable people who did a lot of Palawan. Allah replaced them with,
you know who he replaced, replace them with? Some woman and I'm sure most of you know her name. Who has absolutely no credentials, who has absolutely no knowledge. No. No intellect knows absolutely nothing to offer humanity. Never mind Muslims, any human at large. She has absolutely nothing to offer. The only thing she ever did was she slept with her boyfriend recorded that put it out there on social media. She shared
intimacy with her boyfriend explicit sexual interest. She said in public and now
now everything she does has become gospel for the world, which has become question for us. What she thought has become unreachable for us. The way she cuts her head. Now that becomes honorable. The way her body figure Muslims now changing the body figures so that they can look like a piece of trash. That's what absolutely nothing who is better.
She's become our mother now. Now she's become our idol. Look at how Allah disfraces of human rights. Look. Look at the human race.
Anyone sitting in this gathering is worse than
that this person is any day of the week.
any day of the week, one Monday night swept by unlock the shoes that you wear might
be the number 1 billion people like
you follow this trash?
handbag is the head back on buying
her clothes, other clothes not buying. What she does is a wonderful movie.
What do you think it's about the size of the men?
I don't watch in any way think of attacking the women could buy online not look at the men.
Look at the menu.
When we left Rasulullah and we left the companions wounded Allah subhana wa Taala replacements for us with
trash, absolute trash, rubbish, football,
people that boast that they slept with over 500 women boasting.
Boasting that they slept with over 500 different women. He comes in one day in a particular style. The very next day the whole
idea like him.
He buys a particular car we run by the same car. He wears a particular shirt now. Now Now every young boys running to buy that shirt. He puts a line through his eyebrows. I put three lines in my eyebrows. He puts an earring on his left. I put it on my left and my right. Look at our world This raises a human nation. Why? Because you left the islands you left the examples that Allah gave us.
Don't you find it interesting that any human being no matter what your condition is any woman no matter what, no matter where she leaves, no matter how much money she has. financial situation is every one of you can implement this.
But not all of us can implement the to know of these women that will come
Isn't that interesting?
My sister's asking, What am I doing? What am I running?
What am I running?
pleasing this person?
Look in life, we're not guaranteed anything. But
you're not guaranteed anything. But
so let's go back to base because Much has been said. But let's go back to basics, which is that the reality is this, you are not promised whether you and I are not promised, am I going to be reached or not? I don't know.
Am I going to get married? I don't know.
It's not a priority.
But that's the point it is become close to get married on the failure.
Now, I'm not saying we don't get married. I'm not saying we don't try to get married. But I don't live a life.
My life is pleasing. And along the way, guess what? I would love to get married. And you promised me the right men that absolutely I will marry. But I'm not going to, you know, lower my standards. I'm not going to want to just settle for anything just because you know, that I can fit in the crowd. Now. I have other I have status. I have higher.
We're gonna marry just anyone. No, no, my job is to please the mob. So yes, I may get married. I may not get married. I may be rich. I may not be rich. I might have children. I may not have children. But I'm not going to question me on any of these things. So what do you worry about?
Why don't we make things
you know, cook, I want to make things easy, and you insist on making things.
The people told me brother deenis No, it's not.
The choices you made make things the people you've decided to hang out with and call your friends. They made things out.
My job and your job is to please a law.
Nothing else. A law, a law only
a look at a law.
A light so kind of nice, so forgiving. A lot doesn't hold grudges. unless Allah will not remind you of a mistake you made 10 years ago. I must not like the trash and the rubbish that no, no, no, look, I'm laughing.
And yet What?
But what would people say? Who cares what people say?
But how will people see me? What will people think?
sisters, people, people have bad things to say about the Prophet.
They have bad things to say about the Prophet. So really, let's be honest, what chances are you and I have quoted entities later.
Charlie's been trying to please someone who is not happy.
We're trying to please people who when they look in the mirror, they find defects of their own.
I came across a quote.
come across a quote the other day on social media.
And the quote was speaking about social media and
we spend money. We spend money that we haven't earned.
buying things that we don't need,
trying to please people
that don't even care.
We spend money that we don't have, buying things that we don't need, trying to please people
that don't even do don't even know you.
Don't even matter.
Don't waste your life. Don't waste your energy. Don't exhaust yourself.
Live a life that's pleasing to Allah
doesn't matter what people think
only matters a lot.
It made us want to lock in
take an oath but
you're not a part of me that again, going back to basics principles about the
you know, one of the pillars of Eman to believe in the power of a monster
is to believe in the power of the law. You know what that is? My sisters. You know what that is?
it's a pillar of the event, you cannot believe your belief is in your belief is insufficient. If you do not believe,
again, going back to look how easy
to believe in the decree that what he
was never going to be seen,
was never thought would be.
And we worried
how many of us were facing depression? How many of us a very common cause of
depression and anxiety?
Now, I'm not saying all of the pressures because of this one reason.
But the majority of us why
Well, my sister in law said last month,
you and I have no decision notices you and I have no input. No opinion in the matter. We have absolutely no no input in the decision making of when we were born. When we were born, what gender we are, to what family we will be, to what uncles and Auntie's we have to what country and what land we had no input in any of these seasons.
So what are you stressing out about?
whatever situation you have, the Lord has placed you there. Good or bad? You know what the problem is? Is many of us we fail to understand everything in your life is a test everything. But unfortunately, we don't think that we think only things are a test when things go bad. And if I have cancer that
When you're healthy
when you're healthy.
And when you
when you have money that's
when you don't have money. That's a test.
You're married. That's the case you're not married.
You have children Guess what, that's a test and you have children Guess what, that's also a test. So what's the difference?
What's the difference?
You're happy Guess what? That's the test via blue bosses have created you to test you
and the last is testing good times in bad times out testing with your mind with your health with your world. I will test you with your children I will test you with everything your
allies telling you I will test you
so what does it matter
what doesn't matter
and reach and pull on fat and skinny on married or not? It doesn't matter it's all
was never gonna be
and whatever missed you was never going to hit you the proper velocities and if you die believing anything else, then let this person take his place in German
we are not in control.
We have but me slave
to the king of my life, you dictate
You're the one that directs
and that's why we always pray and we always ask Allah will always make
you guide me towards good
and that's why hobbies that always brings the heart or the Eagles No.
I'm sure you do right that's when you pray to the gods and you make the do it ask a lot for guidance
all the time. But you know when you look at the words of the beholder, it's amazing. You're not going to that which is good yoga, you know the unseen You know what, I don't know.
That's why we make it harder because I don't
like getting married. Is that a good thing or a bad thing? I don't know if
good for me or bad. We don't know but
I know what's good for me. I don't want to do
you know, just
On a lighter note,
Michelle was telling me about some This is many years ago, he said one of his friends, he fell in love with a girl.
And he wanted to marry him.
I'm in love with this girl.
Mike, my shirt, who was his friend, he had a bad feeling about the bill. He didn't want to tell it directly to the brothers
with anything, you know,
what's good and what's bad.
he came back and some
economy things were good.
what did you ask alone? He said
to me, they make it happen. And they make a booth and make it happen.
Straight out, I'm gonna do it, whether you like it or not.
Guess what, the marriage failed.
And that's the life of a slave. We're always
when someone comes, and this is the problem that we have, you know, I mean, I'm not sure what the culture is even you come home to Australia. And it's like our guilt for when they born the program. Like, we have the same in Arabic child white young.
From when a girl needs a baby, right.
Which basically means
that basically means I can tell her within the day you get married.
A young girl comes and gives you like, so depending on the angle something gives you a dream. As a thank you, you take each other they get married, we need to be
married to the bad thing in any way. Please don't misunderstand. But we do this project. It's the day of the wind the day of the wedding, the day of the wedding 1000s
and 1000s of dollars on my trip that everything has to be perfect. And everything is this a woman her whole life
look at pathetic
monetary system for the artist just for the wedding day. And that's why many of our guests back up and get married. Because
something wrong with me maybe
I think it's what I did when I get married because the whole life was the wedding day.
The very next night after the wedding
because no one ever spoken about what happens after the wedding everything was
now this problem.
Now this point, you have been figuring
Because your wife was about a wedding day.
we need to find out.
is away from when he was away from
the city he was a Muslim share. Lots of moolah, lots of activists and social media, not some celebrity online, your Creator extended
a lot of promises, please
forgive me, most of us.
Most of us live in Israel.
That doesn't mean people will make all day purpose to make the day to have some
some beautiful quality of life for this person, a lot of promises you would like in this world.
So my sisters in short, forgive me and I've spoken too much. We need to recalibrate that compass and ask us
Wherever possible what is the direction?
What is my direction? It's my job to please my friends and my school and my main My mission is this really
was my job to please
and you have no idea what it is you have no idea how valuable you are to the fabric of society. You are the core of who you are. You are the fundamental
and what is well they have so many studies give me a good woman and I'll give you a great nation.
if I don't have the greatest woman in the world do you think I can do what I do know
what my body when
I couldn't do it.
My wife now I swear by the light he gave me a million celebrities a million celebrities with all the glamour and all the glitter. One night you could shoot her shoot.
It's more valuable to him in distress.
You know of course we have ups and downs. And here
and yes and yes.
And yes, yes. Sometimes my eyes wander and yes, sometimes the grass is greener on the other side.
But this is the woman that boy children. This is the woman that looks after my arm. This is the woman who when I leave, and I traveled the world, protecting my hunch protecting while protecting my
Do you have no idea?
You have no idea
how valuable you are?
How much how much.
You know the children when they grow up? What am I going to?
What am I going to
you have a role model the first 10 G's.
Walk on Ask yourself what sort of person
you know, actually just before I can do before I came in, and I'll share this story with you guys. Please I hope nobody's reporting. Reporting please.
You're so excited
to see my wife and my children.
And I thought about my different moments
wait a minute. That's so funny. I've never know
who I'm talking about morning.
One of the US
want to show you that
to add and
show you a tiny sample of accounting fees
The calculations in my mind as to how
my money will
there is no way that I'm going to make
we're happy to jump back in the car talk of
Callaway Callaway the customer didn't switch and a lot of people don't
move the assignment says there's no
nice to meet